Atlanta Man Shares His views on Relationships

[butterflyoliver1231]

please subscribe. Cool vids

[soma1on1]

Three months as long as she a virgin lol..

[KollegeChic2014]

This guy sounds like he come straight up from the church (based on his voice)

[justsayit2me]

I like this man ,he's so adorable.. what a good guy ... he was raised well

[SEVON33]

Look at the low class men on this pg talking trash. They can't be pulling any women of good character!!!

[Glendon007]

Is this cat in the same city as i am, these chicks are trying to break you off in a week, let alone 90, 120 or LMAO 365 days!

[2008topshelf]

How about ... "Its so nice to have met you" rather than "its so nice to have met a good black man out here" which was the tone all over NY radio on Fathers Day. This is a huge turnoff even though its meant as a complement.

[sittingbull706]

You got to hold out ? WHAT !!!! Its 2011 we be done left yo ass bitch. We need to fuck somethin we aint got no time for that hard to get shit. Play that game if you want to

[hrobbins]

Dont believe the atlanta gender ratio myth. The real statistical ratio is no different than any other major city. Listen to radio and all the clubs have free entry/drinks/valet for women. Men have to pay hence supply and demand. Forgetgays, look at all the lesbos. Go to anyclub and see all the women on each other. Approach a woman here and u r just another dude. Men r everywhere u look but women think they are above approaching men. Too much competition is why many of my male friends left.

[6fngers]

Shay, whatever happened to Mark? Have you seen him again? Just curious:) He seemed like a really nice guy.

[sexgod237]

It doesnt matter how long it takes you to give up the cat. It's your character that matters.

A true cox man can get sex, just because you freed up the cat does not make you a jezebel.

Its your character that determines whether we do an osama bin hiden.

[massiahmassiah7]

It's fun to have want an 'attitude-worthy' man in your life. But reality bites should you not seek on what you actually NEED in order to succeed. <--- Actually for the ladies to be honest.

[misundastood19]

mmmmm. Where are the men like tht at, he say he in alanta right, why isnt there anymore men like him. ive been single for 5 mnths and still cant find a good man.

[nexlevproductions]

Don't hold out too long, I know the brother means well thats talking, but if you hold back your true emotions or feelings to keep a man with you then your motives as a women may not be true. Don't give it up right away either, sex is natural between a man and a woman let it happen when both feel it's right, don't be idiotic!!!

[rodentcafeteria]

Just because somone (man or woman) got they own car, house and a degree(s) don't mean they got it going on. There are plenty of people that have those things and they still miserable, unhappy and/or crazy as hell and nobody wants to be bothered with they ass. I see plenty of young women that have that "I'm all that" attitude and I'm old enough to be their grandfather, so I let them know they don't have **** I want or **** that I need, and that they really need get over themselves..

[jed52]

no dude is going wait a year for sex. Sorry, not gonna happen

[kjordon1]

@jed52 As a Christian man, I'm willing to wait THREE years for sex, if it takes that long for me to marry her. And you said that no dude is going to wait a mere one year for sex.

[jed52]

@kjordon1 Whatever floats your boat, man. Three years is ridiculous in my opinion. I think most women would have slept with another man by then, maybe even a few different men, all the while thinking you just don't have what it takes to go all the way. I could be wrong, but I highly doubt it, especially in todays American society.

[hrobbins]

@jed52 Actually it does happen. More than you think. These guys never club, approach women, drink, smoke, cheat on women, fight, curse, go to hooters etc. and yes they are black. I have a really good friend who remained faithful 4yrs to his now wife (also a good friend of mine). He only had 1 partner before her (his ex cheated on him) and she was still the big V. I also have a few male friends who are still V's and over 25.

[hrobbins]

@jed52 Forgot to mention that my friends who got married were faithful and celibant for 4yrs until married. For women to land these guys they have to be good friends first, or if you know a guy is nice then go for him. He is a nice guy and will not grow a big head. However, most women will consider these men boring until they catch wind of how much the guy earns.

[latonyalls]

awww..he's a good one! are there any man like him *really* just asking

[blacktigerwu]

I have to disagree with him on the waiting part with any man if he's waiting that long 9 times outta 10 he banging other people but then again 9 times outta 10 that woman who's making him wait is still banging other guys. And I think you as a woman should not base it on just how long he waits but his character and what he's doing because you'll have guys who will wait years to get the punanny the whole time acting like he's your friend.

[yourdamntube]

Women who ignore him? More B.S. that she wants to hear

[yourdamntube]

3 months of abstinence?? That's ridiculous. That rule alone is stupid. One more time, this woman is hearing from male what SHE wants to hear, and nothing else.

[yourdamntube]

Equality? That's funny. Just see what's happening nowadays with more "equality" for both genders than ever before. What's the result? More divorces and instability than ever. Women keep blaming their "less than equal" status and keep demanding more and more things and the situation keeps deteriorating more and more. I am not blaming women for this, but they had their high share of responsibility.

[jea740]

@yourdamntube

Yep if the yin and the yang arent balanced or majority isent perfect how can we expect for woman to understand man and the other way around is all just bullshit playing games if you want to be real and have a long term relation

[tobysoter]

Words from the wise.

[producer4real]

This nigga is lying his ass off cuz!

[tracie329]

I like a man that is real!!!! Keep it Real handsome!! Good one Diva!!

[cocobrown313]

Wise, fine and fit black man...Just what I like. :)

[05Godschild]

Very wise guy...someone needs to grab him quick! lol

[Reelworld2009]

is he married? lol

[MM55M5M]

What a nice man

[SurreallTV]

you know, in the back of my mind.............well, more towards the FRONT of my mind........i'll say, on the SIDE of my mind lol...................i think you doin a LiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiTTLE more interacting with these men, then just these vids lol..

i mean, from a VERY logically standpoint, you find them VERRRRRRY attractive....>ANDDDDDDDDDDD you view them as VERRY good MEN?......SHIDDDD, i dont see much that would stop kik,,

(((and i dont expect you to be honest about this either lmao))))

[eritreasunshine]

something about a chocolate MAN that is sooo damn sexy!...GOOOOD GOD!

[HappyCaramel]

Thanks for pointing out the facts of ATL dating. But I wouldn't advise anyone to move to Kentucky.

[AskMicB]

I've tried the turning a 6 to a 10 a couple times b4 and it always backfires in 1 of 2 ways.. 1) She likes who she is and doesn't want a man telling her how to look, dress, act, etc and she ends up not liking you for it or 2)she does what you tell her she becomes that 10 and now she's getting attention from more men, she starts going out more she starts getting addicted to the attention and eventually wants her "space". I don't care for 10-12 women but you gotta be at least an 8 for me

[AskMicB]

But what women don't know is that he might be waiting for you, BUT trust he's getting somewhere, same for women... so I don't think the holding out theory works. putting out is the best way to find out. at least you got it out the way. people aren't virgins. i was with a woman for 2 years that we hooked up the first night. If a man doesn't stick around after sex, that means HE'S NOT INTO YOU. if you got a great head on ur shoulders and ur great in the sack, no man is gonna leave that trust...

[AVTPro]

Stop at 5:48

This brother was on point with all the peripheral points, but he nailed it. I was speaking a lot with every key work as he spoke.

"If a women doesn't sleep around then the man isn't worried that she will or already hasn't sleep with several of his friends"Plan and simple a "real good man" don't want you if you been with everybody. This is the part "independent women" don't get. It's a privacy issue, if everybody been in the street been in his women then all his biz in the street.

[hardactinman]

What? How does holding out for as long as possible help? If a women I was dating didn't want to be intimate after three months then I'm thinking she justs not into me!

[Amerieandmyguitar]

I'm a psych major and I thought that was an excellent video. Say hello to your latest subscriber!

[shontaeale]

100%:)

[Delicious4Ant]

I love how being an overweight woman automatically equals a woman being a 6. Wow! But hey I still appreciate the honesty

[1diamond977]

Mark hit the nail on the head!

[hugandkissme33]

okay he likes women who ignores him. that's called THE CHASE. a man likes mystery and as one said they're hunters by nature. ain't nothing special about him as far as i know of course just watching this video. you ask good questions shay. hey where r u finding these men who r obviously working our heads good they're almost too perfect

[olebefree]

That was a pretty dope video....that dude should write a blog on a web page

[shylight86]

Great video!!!! I would love to read his book if he writes one!!!

[Ginavaclose]

I think it is a little bit more complicated then that. A lot of women claim that a man left them because they would not sleep with them or that it was too soon for sex. However, I think women have to show men that there is more to them then sex, and if you do withhold sex, you have to show what makes them different from all the other women, because they are competing with other women.

[Haitian1130]

This man is phenomenal!

[jusbcuz1]

Love these, keep them coming. For the next time could you ask a black man his views on black women with natural hair, and not just hair without weaves I mean curly/kinky hair. Thanks 5 *'s.

[darlin54]

Oh yea, I agree. please do this video shay!

[Carlett246]

Wow, he had great advise and your questions were on point as well. He is right though. That is also in keeping with bible principals. Thanks!  Five Stars

[kdharri2]

That was some real advice. Good video!

[tanji2936]

Great talk, love the vid, there is hope...

[RealismsTruth]

Love the videos and who says theres no Good Black Men all our men are good if you come correct sistahs! Again Love it!