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  • you are being an asshole and a fucktard for assuming this, because not all black girls are that way. just because you had some bad experiences with black girls doesn't mean that we're all like that. and you have women of other races who have attitudes, and who will do the same thing when you approach them NOT just black girls! women of other races are not exempt from going off on people and having attitudes, because some women of other races do it, too. so its not just black women, who do it...

  • @JRockLovinAtheist ...and im sick and fucking tired of black men like YOU and the guy you're responding to generalizing all black women. we are not all the same, and you guys need to realize that there are different types of black women. we're not all the same, and we don't all act like that, and there are a lot of us who are classy, and not trashy. and if you want a black girl who's classy and not trashy then you need to go to places where there black women are. you have to change your...

  • @JRockLovinAtheist ...environment and go somewhere else, because there are classy black women out there, who don't act like this. im one of them. im not out there being loud, angry and going off on people, and trying to make myself sound ignorant, because im not an ignorant rude person. im also not into all that stuff that most blacks are into. i don't like it, and must of that stuff turns me off. not that im excusing the behaviors of SOME black women, but have you ever stop to think that...

  • @JRockLovinAtheist ...maybe the reason they're acting like this is because they've been approached disrespectfully and have been disrespected by a lot of black men? not all of course, but have you ever stop to realize that? its really not you. they're just trying to protect themselves from assholes and from being disrespected, threatened and harrassed by black men and other men sometimes, too. its just something that you need to think about and realize. 

  • @JRockLovinAtheist and if you and this guy you're responding think that black women are so terrible, then why is it that a lot of asian men and white men, and men of other races like black women? are attracted to black women? and think that we're great women? sorry to say, but im not going to be dealing with this bullshit, and taking this kind of stuff from you guys. FUCK IT! im sick and fucking tired how a lot of black guys are generalizing us and lumping is into all one category. you're...

  • @JRockLovinAtheist ...really no different then these racists who stereotype all black people (male and female), and put all of us into one category. so if this is how a lot of you black guys think about us then maybe i will go to my other options and date outside my race. because we as black women DO have options to date/marry outside the race if we choose to. we don't have to just date black men. there are plenty of men out there of all races that i can date.be with who will love me, respect...

  • @JRockLovinAtheist ...me and will want to be with me, and not judge me and stereotype me because of a few bad experiences that they had with some black girls. i don't need to deal with this bullshit, and im not going to. you guys are really no different from srgtwilliepete. soulnblack and all these other men on here. you're not. they hate black women! and i know you said you don't hate black women, but you being very ignorant and disrespectful. THINK ABOUT IT PLEASE!

  • @JRockLovinAtheist and for the record, i hate thugs and gangsters!! i don't like them at all. i never have and i never will, and there are a lot of other black women out there, don't want thugs and gangsters, either. just like me, they also want men who's got something going for himself just like we do.

  • @JRockLovinAtheist and if you want to go outside your race, and that's what you prefer to do that's fine. but don't be disrespectful and ignorant about it, and don't talk bad about black women, because i don't like it, and i don't appreciate it at all! SO CUT IT OUT PLEASE!!

  • @JRockLovinAtheist quit generalizing us because its very hurtful, and we're not all the same. 

  • you date whites because were better looking, smarter and part of the best race. I dont blame u. If I was black I wouldnt have any pride either and go after whites. We are the best race ....look through history and compare the two races. Your using our computers, speaking our language .......you have nothing..

  • Damn...

  • yeah but she WENT OFF LIKE A FUCKING INSANE RABID DOG.... it was not called for. black american females are very dangerous creatures. they can get people killed. they will go and lie on brothers and promise some fucking fool some pussy if he goes and shoots you. black american females are dangerously scarey. their attitudes are totally fucked - whacked out of their fucking heads.

  • How foolish of you to single out Black Women! White Women have been lying on Black Men for centuries! They let you have sex with them and when they get caught by daddy, you go to jail for a fake rape! Or if it's pre 1960's you swing from a tree. How many Black men have died from White Women's lies?.....Thousands!! Plus why dilute our sacred Black blood until there's fewer of us left. We are blessed and we have to build us up....NO MATTER THE ODDS OR STEREOTYPE! THERE ARE MANY GOOD BLACK WOMEN!

  • im black fool. so i have no reason to bring up white women. but it amazes me how black females who swear up and down how unique they are, always bring other woman into an issue when they (black females) are being put on blast.

  • I'm bringing up White Women! Fool I know you're Black! You say that Black Women get people killed and that they are "dangerously scary". I'm telling you that they don't compare to White Women whose lies have killed even more Black Men. Point: All women can get men killed with lies! It's unfair and dangerous to the perception of Black Women to only point them out as "dangerously scary". black Women have it hard enough without another sick stereotype to overcome! I LOVE and fight for my SISTAS!!

  • LATER.

  • PEACE.

  • if you knew i was black FOOL then you should have enough fucking sense to realize why the fuck im talking about black woman and why i have no mentioned white woman, DUMMY. and so i dont compare the two races because im unconcerned about them. WHY? because im black. so there is no need to come talking to me about them. later. "Y"<--Peace.

    oh and you can have to last comment. i wont be reading or responding to your response. take care.

  • You call that a reply. You totally missed the point! You can't go around speaking on Black Women generalizing them in such a reckless way and not expect to be corrected. Hell, your mother is Black. So you're speaking about her too! I know you won't be reading this comment because of the way the last 2 comments went over your head, you didn't read those either.

  • LOL preach it!

  • Stop messing with Niggers and get with Black Women. Yes there is a difference a BIG DIFFERENCE

  • You're ridiculous.

    I hope you run your mouth to the wrong black person and get stomped to death. There's no room for dumb ass racists like you in America. You were born during the wrong time period, you should have been born in Nazi Germany and blown away with an American machine gun, like the rest of the sheep of Hitler.  - A tolerant, white American

  • im sorry but i must reply, i dont think its because every black woman wants a thug because, where i moved too its nothin but broththas with white women and they ignore that the black women that are here even exsist in fact they look at us like were nothin and the white woman on their arms are gold in fact they wont even look you in the face nor will they speak to you when their with them.

  • I AM A BLACK WOMAN AND AGREE 200%

  • I agree w/ you 110% and yes I'm a 23 year old black man.

  • Personally, i believe that both sides are at fault here.

    We are all to blame.

  • You know, I am sick and tired of people talking about how all black women want are the thugs and the gangsters! That is complete horse shit! Have you ever stopped to think that these women who are usually of low means are going for the men who are within proximity, and you know growing up in the ghetto, I doubt that that man who happens to be in proximity is going to be a doctor. It helps no one to perpetuate this myth but it helps plenty to think beofore you speak or in this case, accuse.

  • I understand your argument but I have tried to talk to numerous girls who rejected me in favour of dating a "thug" who was within the same proximity or even further.

    I basically said the same thing you said at the end of the video in regards to women, but it can be applied both ways.

  • Yes, but you are speaking as if men of your caliber are plentiful in the ghetto's across America. If black women were to get involved with every black man with his head on strait that would still leave an rediculous number of sista who would be left out in the cold. I am sorry, but there are simply not many like you floating around the ghettos. So now what? Do you think these women are going to sit around and hope that the decent brother gets dumped so she can have a shot or hook-up with pookie?

  • I agree. My beef is with the "sisters" who don't want to touch me with a 10 foot pole because I am too "soft". What is your take on them?

  • Remember they too are being fed the same images that black males are being fed. They are being shown black males, exhibiting this hyper masculinity or supposed masculinity, all tatooed up, gold teeth, speaking language that would cause a sailor to blush.

  • These figures are glorified personified and presented to our kids as what they should strive to be for the males and the man we should strive to have for the females. And with no positive male role model i.e. The father to off set or hell just positive male figure, they don't know any better. They grow up programmed with these images in mind.

  • Another factor to consider is that if the ghetto is all I have known, and these thugs are all I have seen, and there is no positive male figure in my life to counter these images presented through the community as well as television, how would I know how to determine what is or isn't a suitable mate?

    And let me be clear, I am not advocating dating of the thug I am statint the obvious. There are many factors at play as to why these poor choices are being made on a constant.

  • I agree with all that you have said.

  • Have you ever considered that maybe YOU WERE NOT the right kind of guy for THOSE particular girls. Having the same skin color doesn't make you automatically compatible. Maybe your style isn't what they're looking for. Your generalization of black girls puts you on the same level as a racist. If those girls didn't want you, keep it moving. People are attracted to what attracts them. There's no need to resort to stereotypes because of personal rejection. That's life, every day of the week.

  • I never generalised all black girls. I made sure to say that in the video. Don't ever put me in the same category as a racist. I am far from that.

  • "....I assume black girls want a gangster or a thug in their life. So I just like don't make any attempts." (Like I thought, there's nothing wrong with my ears.) My friend, that's what a generalization is. And I never said you generalized ALL black girls. However, generalization of ANY segment of ANY race for ANY characteristic is wrong and that's what racists do, too. Maybe you're not a racist, but still nothing good. Nasty girls like that come in all colors. Maybe you'll meet them, too. Peace

  • Please everyone, kill the negative comments. We are all one race, and that race is the human race.

  • If you want to attract men who want to get married you have to be marriage material yourself. In other words, don't be overweight, get an education, have a job, have 0-1 children, and lose the stank-ass "I am a STRONG BLACK WOMAN" attitude.

  • You sir have issues. Your comments are disgusting have no background and I notice that not another BM replied to you with anything positive. If your such a perfect example of what other BM men should follow I wouldn't be surprised if a couple centuries later black women wouldn't bother anymore. TrynaGetBacToMyLuv you are an amazing person for tying to get through to this guy but it not worth the effort. Let him think what he wants to because there's no point in trying to open up his closed mind.

  • because youtube is flooded with angry black women, and yes brothas are responding to me, feeling the same way, I'm feeling. Just not on this video. Trynagetbactomyluv is only amazon to you because shes a black woman. Sistas are stupid, So b/c she puts down black men, that makes her amazon, & b/c I put down black women, that makes me evil?!..Go read a book shaniqua. And learn the definition of what common sense mean.

  • because youtube is flooded with angry black women, and yes brothas are responding to me, feeling the same way, I'm feeling. Just not on this video. Trynagetbactomyluv is only amazon to you because shes a black woman. Sistas are stupid, So b/c she puts down black men, that makes her amazon, & b/c I put down black women, that makes me evil?!..Go read a book shaniqua. And learn the definition of what common sense mean.

  • You sistas on here know I'm telling the truth, thats why you hate me so much, and try to challenge everything I say. If everything I'm writing is straight up bullshit & a lie, then you wouldn't even feed into me. Sistas are just phony as shit to me. When a white man(don imus) called them nappy headed hoes, who did they blame for him calling them nappy headed hoes. BLACK MEN. All you old school brothas need to wake up, these aren't the same sistas that were born in the 60s & 70s.

  • Man sistas just admit it, you love thugs, pimps, & players. Everybody knows you do...Your act is getting really old. ALl this having thugs babies,turning down good black men aka mr nice guy because he's to "soft" or "corny". then complaining it aint no good black men. Sistas are a real joke, thats why I don't deal with them. There pyscologily inferior to other races of women.

  • See what I don't get about that comment how can a group of Black women be inferior to another group of women when everything you named Black women do bad the other race of women do just as much if not more.There are over 1 million more white women in America then Black women so there are wayy more white women who have babies with thugs,etc then Black women.Latina women have kids with thugs also.You know the ese,the cholo type dudes.You ignore it when White women do it and comment on Black women.

  • black women are inferior to all other races of women, because you have to keep lying to yourself that you are so "strong". If you were really strong, actions speak louder then words. See black women confuse there little funky attitudes as being strong, thats a weak emotion. All that attitude is nothing, but a front. It's a defense mechanism. Aka I'm hurt, so I'm going to take my fustration out on every brotha. Black women are not strong, there weak. There really confused & bitter.

  • I never met a Black women who said she is a strong Black woman.

    "I am so hurt I am going to take my fustrations out on every brotha"

    The only one I see hurt and taking out fustration is you.I am not hurt and unlike you I see Black people as INDIVIDUALS.

    Wash wrote"Black women are bitter"

    Lol dude,you are the one going to every site bashing Black women now tell me who is bitter lol.How can you say Black women have funky attitudes when all people see is Black males venting.

  • So you don't have to meet, a sista who calls themselves "strong" just flip on the tv. And you will hear damn near every sista calling themselves "strong". I'm not bitter at all, I'm just letting all my brothas know that you sistas are jokes, and they need to get them a non black woman. You niggas is not real men, when your letting your black chicks verbally assault you everyday, your not obligated to take that shit, just b/c your black. And I guess oprah never insults bm right..right..lol

  • Wash what you are not getting is there is nothing to debate.Black women are not your enemy.The fact that (many) Black men do not try to raise a child shows they have no room to talk about how a child is being raised.Don't like how your child is raised stop running and raise him.Raising a boy so so is better than not raising him at all.

    I know this man who while driving his car said to his daughter "Is this your boyfriend"?The daughter then replied "no this is your son"....

  • I am holding back tears writing this.The car was silent you could hear a penny fall.The father was embarassed and the son got out the car and the other daughter who was in another car knew that would happen ran to him in the street and held him while he cried like a baby.Can we as human beings take up for men who run out on thier child?Can we really say the men who run are doing something wrong but they are not to blame? We ALL fall from glory.Black White male female American,European etc.......

  • Correcting thugs don't raise their children, good black men do. Something sistas are not immuned to, as you can see.

  • But see Wash what you fail to understand men who don't raise thier kids are not always thugs.That is a myth.That is what is easy to believe.All white men who abandon thier kids are not always thugs.Latino men who run out are not all thugs.Black men are no exception.

  • okay so, if good black men are making babies, with black women, then leaving them. Whats that telling you...maybe it's the black woman, thats driving all her baby daddy's away from them. aka "where my child support money at" aka "im miss independent I don't need no man"..see black women are always quick to point out how much there baby daddy is doing wrong, then he is doing right. It's these sistas fault they can't keep there baby daddy's in there life.

  • You do realize that you just assumed the women are "where my money at" who must of did something wrong to him type women right?Your assumption is just that a assumption not a fact you don't know these women never been in there lives and you don't know these men so stop taking up for them.The reason Black men run from responsibility is no different from White,Asian,and Latino men who run.Stop trying to justify why a man is a dog and admit men are capable of doing good they just don't want to.

  • See you sistas are not even making any sense anymore. Because you just said, it's not just black men who run away from there babies, it's white, asian, & latina men too right?? then what you sistas bitching at black men for like were just the only dead beat fathers for..I'm starting to believe sistas just love bitching. They need male figures in there life, hopefully "big mama" will quit running all her baby daddys away from her children. aka "I only want that child support money"

  • Wash wrote: why you Black women bitching at Black men for running out on babies when you say other men do it too?

    We never said other men don't do it we are telling you to stop critisizing Black women 1st and saying that they are the ONLY people who do things when there is a million things Bm have flaws in.

    When did you ever see me say Black men are the ONLY men who do that??You did not.You on the other hand make it seem like Black women are the only women who do what they do which is a lie.

  • who cares? go to the men who raped you and cut babies from your womb. I am tired of you so called "sistas" saying there are no good black men but you go and not only chase these"no good men" but you REPRODUCE them! And then you want a guy like me when you turn 30 and have 3-4 kids. See good guys don't reproduce with whores, we got bills and shit. We want good women so we chase them they just happen to be white. Keep your thugs or be a white man's "GHETTO GAGGER" you reap what you sow.

  • LOL why do Black men always pull the "the man raped you" card?

    You guys are going with women who claimed rape when White men caught her in bed WILLINGLY having sex with a nigger.That don't stop you from dating them so why should it stop Black women?

    "I am tired of you so called sistahs saying there are no good Black men out here"

    Did I tell you there are no good Black men out here?You wanna stop putting words in my mouth.Besides Black men say that about Bw all the time it goes both ways.

  • Wash wrote: "Who cares"

    Me:EXACTLY Who cares if you date other women???Noone..why yall cannot date other women withOUT bringing up Black women will always be a mystery.

  • Lol...you need to look for black women elsewhere, because if that is the only type you run into...then maybe you should stop hanging out there.

  • See the difference between white people & black people is this. White women know to respect their men, hell every race of women know to respect their men. & treat him as a man. Sistas generally lack in that area. Since the majority of black homes are ran by single baby mamas, with their distorted views, they some how think they can raise boys to be men. The very black men that you sistas hate so bad, is what you create & raise by yourselves. Sistas are to dumb to realize it's them.

  • What I don't get is how can a man critic something for not going right when that man made the premeditated decision not to participate in making that thing what it should?How can a man give input on how bad Black males are when he came to the conclusion that that little black newborn baby was not important enough to raise him yet then when things are messed up that man is the loudest at saying all that childs flaws 18 years later?

  • Dream that is great that you date women no matter the race but think about it this way,every Black girl/women whether she is American/African/Indian/Domini­can/Trini or whatever has to deal with Black men on a daily basis who are rude,loud,ghetto,etc and the majority if not all of men who were this way to them were Black guys.Does that justify Black women downing and saying they don't date Black men because they did to those Black women what those girls who happen to be Black did to you?

  • True, that makes a lot of sense. I will be addressing that on my radio show which will be starting soon. Just getting the final pieces in place.

  • Okay..thanks.

  • What are you talking about, sistas who date white men, insult black men. They portray white men as godly figures, while totally bashing black men. In fact their whole relationship, involves both the common hatred of a black man. If sistas don't like black men so much, then stop raising us by yourselves. Give us over to white women, so we can live better lives, & be better men then what we are today. Sistas you all are the ones that create us monsters.

  • Black women who date White men don't insult Black men they are telling the truth on how Black men who (exclusively) date ONLY white women put Black women down for racist reasons.Many Black women who date white guys also date Black guys but many Black men who date White females down Black women so why shouldn't Black women speak about it?Black men do judge Black women for things Black men are guilty of.

  • You sound really stupid...So every black woman that dates a white man, never insulted a black man?!...right...lol..when sistas are single, they're insulting black men, even when they're dating a brotha, they're still insulting brothas. So your basically going to tell me, when they get around their slave masters, the common quotes of "oh white men treat us better" is just a myth(a lie)..I think not..You need to go buy a brain..your basing your info on petty emotions.

  • wash:"you need to buy a brain"

    Sorry but I have one for free.:)

  • Noone is saying don't critisize Black women.Constructive critisim is 1 thing,being unrealistic is another.I mean come on,It never fails to surprise me how much American Black men point the finger at another gender as if the Black American man is flawless.All you have to do is look at the ghettos,the way Black males act,the Prison stats and it's like how can you point the finger at another people when Black American men are acting in such an inferior way?You guys have no room to talk about anyone

  • No..because black women can't even handle constructive critisism. Look at what your doing now..lol. Trying to argue back & forth with me, when you know I'm telling the truth. Okay the majority of brothas are dead, in jail, all the names you want to call us, but how come you sistas can't admit that the majority of you want to look like white women, constaly get pregnant by losers, hate your real hair, blame all your problems on brothas, and have attitudes. No black woman will ever admit it

  • wat u mean some asshole talkin about ancient kemet. I agree with most your stuff. But respect ur history without ur lost thats y theese brothers and sisters are actin like this

  • Ancient Kemet is not my history. African slaves were not descendants of people in Egypt. They were from West Africa. People are associating themselves with Ancient Kemet because they want a background with a "rich" history.

  • samething i wont threw with some chic in the club ma sister are fuck up dam yall are loseing black gurl lost

  • I agree with you totally Dream. Both in Trinidad and USA from experience most black girls are crazy. My girl is black but she is cool so I guess I was lucky.

  • Why do so many despise black women?!..Booty shakin hoes, to confrontational, to much attitudes, to materialistic, gold diggers, thug lovers, complain to much, turn down good bm, then complain it aint no good bm, weave wearin scallywags, welfare queens, produce to many unwanted babies, submit to white men, but down there own men, blame all there problems on black men, I mean what why do many despise black women

  • damn right

  • Black women are becoming least desirable & they know it. The average sista is a single baby mama. Black women rarely able to be involved in a stabled relationship. let alone get married. They keep yapping, that they're going to run to white men. But I don't see to many white men lined up to date these sistas. No other race wants a fat, loud, demanding, weave wearin, unwanted baby machine producing factory, average bw like a brotha does. only thing black women are attracting, is flies.

  • The only thing we're atracting is flies?? Lol my bf is Italian, do you consider him a fly?? lol Idiot. Thats the only thing you're attracting sweety, you've been sitting at your computer desk for years stanking and nasty just coming on here to talk shit, b/c you're miserable. You sound like a thug yourself. And your name is exactly what you need to do. Get off the computer and *washanen* ya stank ass and get those maggetts out.

  • Washanen07 for every Black women you call a "single baby mama" there is a Black man that is a single baby daddy.Wasanen you are very scorned.You do realize that everything you say Black women do to you Black men do to Black women right?Wash you don't like Black females then stop always joining youtube just to vent about them.You do this everyday.Enjoy life with non Black females that's fine but washaneno7 stop talking about Bw they must be important to you.

  • It's important that we let brothas know, that the reason the black race is messed up, is b/c of black women. They are the real sell outs. I don't hear none of you sistas, and 99.9% of sistas out in the real world who totally despises black men, saying anything about them. Like it's okay in the black community, for sistas to just totally annihilate a black mans character. Calling us dead beat dads, fags, jailbirds, etc..but it's not okay for us brothas to point out sistas flaws? double standards

  • I cant believe washanen07 you said it is not black man fault Black men are messed up.Black American men when are you going to stop pointing the finger at other people for your shortcomings?Stop playing the victim.A couple days ago in Georgia where I am now, a Black man killed his little children you telling me a Black women made him do that?All these Black American men raping,killing over a bandana color,35 in a gang,can't spell and you mean to tell me they are not responsible for thier actions?

  • When black women learn how to raise kids better(for starters stop laying up with thugs, over good black men, then complaining it aint no good black men), then our black race would be better. The reason why the black race is so fucked up, is b/c black women are running it. how many times do you hear sistas rant "Oh I dont need no man" well your baby boy ray ray needs a father. Sistas only care about child support money, more then they care about their baby daddys being in their kids life.

  • Wash wrote:When black women learn how to raise kids, stop laying with thugs,then our race would be better.

    Me:correct.

    Another thing is when Black men learn to stop BEING thugs when Black males learn how to stop running from the Afro American fetus then the Black race would be better.

    See wash it is 100% pointless to point the finger at 1 without =ly pointing it at BOTH.

    No matter the color the man will always be held more than a woman because he is the leader.First God,The man,woman,fetus

  • With that said we all have a role to play and without that male figure it goes downhill from there.Black man are not the only ones fatherless they have sisters that are fatherless also.

    That is why all this finger pointing gets Black people NOWHERE but scorned and filled with resentment which leads to Black people comparing white people to Black people and praising white people.Wash Black female is not your enemy you know the flaws of Bw now check the flaws of Bmen.

  • when thugs are getting rewarded with all the black pussy, why stop being thugs...

  • That is the most juvenile comment I have read.Unless a man is the biggest whore in America he is not getting "all the pussy."

    Why would a man degrade his body like that anyways?That is a excuse and a cop out.Thugs don't get anymore sex then men who are not thugs.Btw, what is your definition of a thug?

  • The beginning starts with the one that reads 4 minutes ago then 54 seconds then 13 seconds. I wrote too much so I had to space it apart

  • these type of woman I think you need to look in the mirror. Every word that came out your mouth has been nasty. the wisdom of the bible states that what comes out of a man is what is in his HEART. Please do some soul searching :)

  • I also want to point out that you need to change your environment of where you are meeting these woman. If you are going to the clubs or to bars or to sleezy places then you will not find your GEM there. Also from a spiritual perspective there is a reason you are attracting

  • Hi Brother I have so much to say. but what I will say is dont allow your bad experiences to generalize all black woman or your hope of ever finding one that is not like this.

  • I live in Philly, and I live in the hood, and ghetto people SUCK!!!!

  • race is not real. it is an invention of man

  • I think one of your problems is that you are approaching women in the wrong setting. I may get criticized for this, but I'm going to say it. Black women who are in inner city clubs, bars, arcades, and certain movie theaters are usually ghetto. You need to go to areas that are frequented by Black women who have class.

  • That's a good comment but you can't tell that to a black man in Brooklyn looking for a good black woman. Anytime he ventures out of his neighbourhood, the first classy woman he sees will most likely be of another race.

  • I've dated black men who have cheated and lied on me. I've dated black men who have embarassed me in public. I've even dated black men who have used me for money. All of these experiences have made me stronger and wiser as a black woman. HOWEVER..none of these experiences have made me hate, disrespect, or disregard my strong black brotha. I agree with mom2dave. Be mindful of where you look for women. Look in the garbage and you'll find trash.

  • You are TOO easy! You love the thugs. LOL.

  • LOL...I've been out of that bad boy phase for years. I dated 2 a few years back - aw naw, never again. They spotted my naive behind a mile away like I had the word "SUCKA" written all over my face :)

  • How about I start a rant about black men. How about I rant about how my black father left me at one and how many black men are not being fathers? Oh i dont make videos about that, WHY?????????? because I had faith that some of you would be different. But what i am starting to find out, is that their is a hatred for black women.

  • Calm down there. Nobody ever said they had a hatred for black women.

  • remove your video. It is idiotic....no one wants to hear it.

  • 1,387 views in a week. I beg to differ.

  • ...ok

  • WOW where did that come from?

    Nobody said anything about hating black women, we're talking about black women hooking up with worthless men and not the good ones. Read the comments and you'll see for yourself.

  • yo man thats just blantaly racist.

  • Actually you do need to talk about that, because those issues are the root of many Black women's hostility towards the world around them. You can't lash out like that and expect people, especially men, to just understand where you're coming from and "deal with it." Dialog is the beginning of healing.

  • Thedreamreborn, I cannot speak for black women. But as a black women, I do say this...even though it appears bw would don't want a thug/gangbanger are rare. There are ppl like myself who love to meet a cool dude and is very much educated. Educated bw, for the most part don't look for thugs. At of educated bw are going for white men actually. I repeat Black men we love you! peace

  • Come to canada non-baby daddy black men! There are many single beautiful black women (like myself) who have no children, educated and want U (eff thugs, rappers). BM we still love YOU!

  • I'm 20 years old, I live in ga. the bw my age 90% of them are single baby mamas. So what am I suppose to do, play step pops. These the same women that repeadly turned me down for the thugs, now that the thugs bouncin off to the next chick, bw want to look for some sugar daddys aka "good bm" what they call em. I was responsible enough to wear condoms therefore I want a bw thats responsible as me not these whores with multiple babies.

  • wow. 90%. that sounds VERY exaggerated

    ( . . . and if it's not maybe you should move)

  • Another problem is that most black women dont actually acknowledge that this even happens and we "well-to-do" black men are expected to sit by the sidelines until some of those black women grow up and realize that they're dating idiots and suddenly find interest in us. It's during this "wait-period" of black womens' intellectual actualization that most of us black men just decide to forget about the headaches and try elsewhere (DATING NON BLACK WOMEN).

  • Thank you for commenting. I am getting great comments on this video. I love the discussion.

    Peace.

  • The saying is true "Nice guys finish LAST" They want a REAL man but they get married and have kids with thugs that don't do anything for them. So what do they do, try to go back to the guy that was nice the whole time. And most of the time, it's too late to go back.

  • This is what I am picking up from you..you secretly want what those "thug boys" are able to attract but you want to get it by following the rules, education, being nice, not sagging etc. But show me one couple that is made up of two "dimes" where the love is everlasting. I mean I get Ebony every month and they always have an issue with the top ten couples, by the next year most of those couples are not even together.

  • I think Janet Jackson learned this lesson about looking deeper into a person beyond looks cuz she picked two brothers based upon looks the first two times and found out that they were straight up toads.

  • ? have you checked out my videos or the videos on 100blackfamilies. And I don't agree with a lot of what you said. But I'm going to keep quite right now and post a videos ones Christian is done with his videos.

  • No no, I mean "only good to listen to their sob stories".

  • All of the Black women I asked out turned me down. They said I talk too proper and that I wasn't good enough. I speak clean and clear english. I don't use big words around a person that doesn't know the meaning of the word. I don't speak to people like they're on the streets, so I can't win for losing.

  • I don't sag my pants, nor do I use the N word. I'm a Black and educated but you would think that would be enough for the black women I asked out. But the second they see me dating outside the race, I'm a sell out. What more do those woman want from me? I treat everyone with respect and they know it, but everything I did wasn't enough. But the VERY second their hearts get broken, they want to talk to me but won't go out with me.

  • LOL, seems like we lived the same life. I am only good enough for sob stories and the occasional favour.

  • LOL..No offense brother but are you really aware of the signals if you are rejected all of the time by women as you stated earlier or was that a joke?

  • I appreciate your opinion and I have not walked in your shoes so I know the way you feel about the situation is partially at least based on your personal experiences. However I implore to see people for people, black, white, puerto rican. IF a woman rejects you..look to the Gods and say "THANK YOU!" That woman regardless of her race was not for you. But please do not lump all AA women together based upon your experiences with a few.

  • I would also ask you to think about the women that you are approaching. Does she have a sweet smile or a just a phat booty? IF you are really in tune with women and the signals that they send both verbally and non verbally, if you are in tune with a woman's rhythm that can save you a lot of unnecessary heartbreak.

  • i could come back & say "but BM accept, perpetuate that image, even die for it" but this is my point, instead of addressing how BOTH sides are responsible for this kind of imagery, BW still get blamed in the end. its to the point where this becomes a discussion thats not about real commentary for real change its about making excuses, avoiding the facts and placing blame for an easy way out. I would rather brothas just say they prefer white women than to be so degrading to sistas and vice versa.

  • endangered species. wow.

    then i guess i should feel lucky to be alive.

  • good vid

  • The idea that black girls what a thug in their lives is really sad to hear. I never have dated, and never have wanted to date anyone who was/ acted like a gangster. I've heard this argument before and it just makes me sad to hear that in the future I might miss out on a good man because his ego has been hurt in the past a bruised ego.

  • I once had a girl break up with me because her "friends" told her that I was "too soft". Mind you, I never spoke to any of these "friends" before but I had seen them around. They made that judgement about me because I was never involved in any known fights and my grades were nice.

    Of course all girls don't want a thug, but the few "good" girls out there are being pressured to not date the intelligent brothers by the "hoodrats". "Good girls" are a dying breed. Trust me.

  • U r right there is alot of women who fall into a fetish based on an image of what a black man should be. But remember (think about it) this "image" i.e., thug, gangsta, hardcore etc., is embraced and promoted by BLACK MEN. So you cant just blame black women for playing into that image, what do you say to the brothas who are "playing that role" and feeding that image? The blame goes both ways.

  • this sounds like the 2bbgunsup video.

  • How so?

  • you sounded like you were downing yourself. giving up on approaching women in the club. rule #1 you don't go to a house party unless you know everybody throwing the party.

  • One of my friends new the person throwing the party.

  • lol at the part where u said

    'ha u could lose your life" omg thats crazy lol u too much babes

  • FACT:- Black women discriminate black men. Yo this is for all the brothers-look beyond your race. Why would you want to be with a black woman whom would date the same race that has discriminated us for over 400 years and still are(white men). So fuck 'em and move on Brothas-ya dig my nigger.

  • I do not condone such behaviour by rude black women because i think they are the reason i have to work 10 times harder to prove i am not an ANGRY, IGNORANT and UNEDUCATED black woman. However just out of curiosity, how come you didnt ask her first? I personally dislike when men just come up behind me and invade my personal space, just because i like to wine does not mean i want to be wined upon. However there are many other ways to deal with it and her response was very bad.

  • And just to add, does that mean that all the black women that recieve crap from black men that disrespect them should go to other races? I think if they did the black race would cease to exist. I think love should have no colour and we should not make such ignorant assumptions about a whole race or group of people, despite our past experiences. If black men think lowly of their women how will other races think highly of them?

  • As I said before, this was a Caribbean style party. Nobody asks for a dance at these parties. It's sort of a silent agreement. If the girl doesn't want to dance, she gestures to you that she is not interested and you just move along.

  • Ok, thanx for the reply but what about the other question i asked?

  • I don't think low of black women as a whole. I just have my guard up more with them because of past experiences.

    I believe that statement could go for many black men out here who share my opinions on this subject.

  • now that we've seen this from the male perspective, i think I'd only be fair to look at a black woman's

    I cant help but think that a majority of the time black woman cuss a dude out for trying to talk to her, she trying to beat him to the punch... because 9 times out of 9 and a half if she turns him down he'll cuss her out... so she just wants to cut out the middle man...

    I've BEEN cussed out and embarrassed by black men who've tried to holla, when i respectfully declined...

  • soooo its not only us...

    black men are not as innocent as these videos would lead you to believe...

    because you know that women get cussed out on a daily for declining men's advances...

    overall even though I don't agree with everything you said.. you brought up good points without making villains out of black women... I replied to your message

  • I agree, sometimes I get nervous when I decline a mans "advances" because I have been called a "bitch" because of it. And Im not mean, I just ignore and I ignore him because "whats up boo?" and "What it do shawty" just doesnt appeal to me. I just smile and continue walking and the next thing I hear is, "well fuck you then bitch" but, unlike some people, I'm not going to discount all black men beccause of the actions of a few.

  • There is nothing better than dating and/or having a black woman by your side.

    I'm a black male who likes women of all shapes, sizes and races, But I have a lot more in common with women of my race which is black. I been rejected a number of times by black women, but I did not give up. I just shoke it off and did not take it personal then moved on to the next black woman. You have to be a strong black man yourself on the inside. I don't want nothing easy!

  • ....ok

  • I have so many problems with what you just said, first off about what dream was saying about rejection, maybe the women he was attracted to weren't attracted to him but that's no reason to be rude. second Im one of those black men you were talking about, I understand that a lot of black men dont do the right thing but a lot of men aren't men, doesn't make it right. But Im a hell of a catch, Im loyal, loving, honest, clean, intelligent and smart, theres a difference, what you said was neither.

  • You see how you felt when the sista said what she said regarding BM vs. IM? That is how we (BW) feel when we see videos like these and comments like the ones left on this video. In the past when I would complain about how men have treated me I was always advised to look at myself to see if I was the problem yet, it seems that black men dont do this. They blame all black women and say such hurtful and demeaning things and in an elementary kind of way make it seem like WW are the "answer"...

  • Well Im not the kind of person to ever blame everyone for one persons issues and to me it sounded like she was implying that all BM are bad and all other men are good. Which is totally untrue and I gave myself as an example against that stereotype but there are always exceptions to any statement. I could say WM are funny and IM are serious, while I can probably find one of each to support that, Im sure I can find an exception to point out that that isn't true for all WM and IM.

  • I totally agree, its not a good look for either side to cast total blame, its a hinderance in my opinion.

  • No Dance 4 U boy,She ah slut anyway.

  • LOL, during Carnival '08 in Trinidad a woman stabbed a man after he danced on her.

    I guess I was lucky.

  • lmao "FUCK DA MEDIA" agreed...

  • OKAY, first: I LOOOVVEEE YA VIDDEOSSSS. second, i feel u on that shit, lol these stupid ass females always tryna get some bad ass who gonna be in jail fightin w/ they baby momma, in a gang, etc. and we black women wonder why we "supposedly" can't get a good man, cuz we keep choosing these assholes...

  • The diamond is worth the hunt. Why? YOU are actually just as rare as SHE is. She'll be glad that you've come along, trust me.

  • That's a very good comment. I have actually experienced this. Peace.

  • *I love your accent!!!!*

    Well, about the thug/gansta:

    I personally don't like them. I like nice brothers who know how to treat a woman. What I do like is safety. I like men who when we go out, I want to know that if someone disrespects, he will not HESITATE to put that smack down....while wearing nice pants that fit, not saggin to his ankles! LOL!!!!

    I know it's not funny, but you have met some "ignant" chicks! OMG! I'm sorry to hear that.

    LOL @ f**k the media! Good video!

  • great vid!

  • Dam I hear you man..not a big fan of going to places where people are throwing gang signs and acting all stupid..you know..when you know something isnt gonna go right!

  • No I'm not offended EleganceEmbark just you can't tell the man who & what he should like God never made a hand book saying ok all black men must only love and date only black women NO just you ignorant ass people if he finds his black queen then he finds her if he finds his white queen then he finds her if he finds his Asian queen then he finds her see I got a real problem with narrow minded thinking ppl from what I heard in this vid he did not put all black women in a 1 box this was a good vid

  • I'm not trying to be nosey & I'm not trying to defend Dream but EleganceEmbark please shut up you sound fucking stupid