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  • After I got dumped several months ago, I was the saddest guy on earth, but right after a little surfing I stumbled upon a free resource that taught me how to mend my relationship! I want to share it with all you broken hearts out there but youtube wont allow me post it here, so I put it on my profile. Hope it works for you too!

  • I was the saddest person on earth as soon as I got dumped a few months ago, but right after some surfing I discovered a totally free resource that taught me how to get her back! I need to share it with all the heartbroken fellas out there but youtube wont allow me post it here, so I put it on my profile. Hope it works for you too!

  • Just imagine your ex getting hit doggy by that one guy you know

  • I fixed my relationship with "Surviving a Breakup: Getting Back Your Ex For Good" by Matthew Mehra. It is available in the Kindle store on Amazon. It was just a fraction of the cost and worked very well for my case.

  • Very interesting video indeed...

  • Thank you for sharing this. Love your wisdom, thanks.

  • This guy is right IF YOU HAVE YOUR SELF-RESPECT ALREADY. Then you can walk away (emotionally bruised of course) knowing that you have the option of always meeting more women that will be good for you.

    If you have never learned to get your inner core full of respect, then buddy, you better get that first. You will never meet a women that can make you respect yourself. Only you can do that.

  • your the man Bro x)

  • Thank you for this video. You have to let go of a woman that does not want you. Think about it, she does not care about you anymore so why should you care for her. Just move on if she is not interested.

  • this guy is right

  • She is seeing a guy but we have a kid together i don't like when she disrespects herself .... I want my family back so what should i do? Advice???? anyone?

    PS yeah but i don't want another girl i tried dating and i just want her???

  • @expex20 I have a few core strategies to give you but need to have a chat with you to adapt my answers to your situation and make sure they match your needs - visit my site and get in touch for a coaching session - The link that says "coaching" is right on top of the home page

  • @expex20 I'm sort of in the same boat.....except we have three kids together....and I don't want her to have her creepy f@cking home wrecking assholes around my daughters!!! I'm going crazy from it.....don't know what to do....It makes me wanna go postal.

  • She is seeing a guy but we have a kid together i don't like when she disrespects herself .... I want my family back so what should i do? Advice???? anyone?

  • @stylianos75 hahaha thats what i tried to do!!! it didn't work... better luck to you sir

  • NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!

    Women hate nice guys. They hate needy guys. They want a caveman! Stop believing the "feminist" bullshit! Women want an Alpha Male. They want to feel small and safely being led by a confident, assured male.

    Stop the "being nice guy" shit! Stop kissing her ass! SHE NEEDS TO KISS YOUR ASS! You are worth it! Am I right? If you disagree, then fucking just kill yourself and spare the rest of us with your self torture.

    Be happy with women. Enjoy them. Enjoy life...AS A MAN!

  • loool niccee 

  • @JesusManson323 PART II: Don't carry an asshole attitude, but don't carry a needy guy attitude either. Make decisions and stand by them with your honor. You must have your own honor, & respect first. Women can smell authentic confidence & self-respect a mile away.

    Even the most hardcore Feminist melts into a little girl in the presence of a calm, decisive Man who has his shit together. Don't believe me? Just look at all the women spreading their legs for politicians in Washington DC.

  • @JesusManson323 I half agree with you. I am a nice guy, I treat women well and value love in a relationship. If my girl is wrong about something, however, I tell her. I don't kiss her ass, let her walk over me or refrain from asserting myself when she needs to be put in check. The difference is, WOMEN want a confident strong and loving man. GIRLS want a caveman and BOYS need their asses kissed to feel like men. I'm a real man. I want a real woman.

  • lol i watched this after my breakup today i thought of the part that she is free and so am i, but i also started to think about the times i eyed other girls and she would get mad, but now I CAN! woot woot.

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  • Thank you, you helped me with my pain. I appreciate it.

  • I came across this video just in time. I have have been obessed with wanting to know what my exwife is doing. Wanting to control whom she sees and sleeps with.

  • Cant wait to get over this girl I seriously dont trust chicks anymore at all regardless unless she is 100% mine an is my wife or something I aint gonna wear my heart on my sleeve

  • Man, I applaud you! Thank you very much. I just get so tired of it.

  • @Redsox940 thanks! Glad you like it

  • hey im not retarted you just want us to move on so you can move on to our gfs..... smooth techno dj but i caught you

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  • yo i wanted to ask for ur advise my ex wants to be with me but not right now. she wants to go out n have funn but with her gf and she promised me dat no other guys will be in da picture should i keep goin with this relationship and let her have her funn or get over her any advise would help thanks

  • @818k9 let her have fun but be ready to step out (just in case she goes too far and starts dating other guys

  • @vitalcoaching thanks n I will let her

  • @awsomeeeee - by now you should be noticing that its getting easier, best advice i can give is to CUT YOURSELF OFF from her.. and I mean completely, delete her number block her on facebook, delete all her txt and phone calls from your phone, a new start... but as I said before DO NOT CONTACT HER. trust me one day you WILL stop thinking about her and on those times that you do you'll wonder what you saw in her... YOU WILL MEET SOMEONE ELSE.. :)

  • I know it sucks man, that one person who you thought really loved and cared about you, just fuckin walks away and doesnt give a shit. Girls are fuck ups man, they think men are emotionless but in reality, they are completely cold bitches. All they think about is themselves, my gf of 5 years just walked out of my life completely one day, and all she was worried about, is not being able to move on because of being scared of what id do. Its so fucked up. Girls are all me me me me me

  • "Hi, this is Francisco Vagin!" :))

  • ye watchin this helps

  • Thank you very much for this video. Its really helping me :-)

  • dude thanks i mean really thanks...

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  • There you go nice video :) Thanks for the learning and plese see my videos to share ideas!!!

  • wow if only it was this easy!!! not sure if you are talking about love or lust? "LUST" yeah well fuck the bitch she is none of my buissness anymore! "LOVE" well i built my life around this girl i was going to marry and have kids with really be happy with. sorry youtube guy that was no answer! but serves me right for looking for one on you tube.

  • @christ1984able - actually is a pretty good answer... becouse the man said what you need to do with is cut yourself off from the girl and get on with your life, the only reason you think its bad advice is becouse you want a way to get her back but the fact is this girl doesnt want you back. trust me there will be a time when you look back and wonder why you were so interested in her. time is the best healer in these cases, trust it and let it do its job..

  • it's been about a month since my ex of 8 years left me and I feel a bit better knowing these mindsets to have. thanks for this video.

  • im practically over my ex, but sometimes when im alone in my room or even outside i start to think about us and remember the good and bad memories and sometimes it gets to me, but mostly im over her, i have to admit the first 3-4 months were the most depressing of my life. Its really hard to get into another relationship because i think the next one will probably play games also but i shouldnt think like that at all.

  • You and all viewers need some real education. Please read Living Life as Nature Designed by Dr. Herman Ammer, 2009, PublishAmerica.

  • this helped. my biggest problem is jealosy. the only thing i have been doing with all my time is worry about what my ex and her new man are doing. its messing me up. we were together for 5 and a half years, now were broke up and some other guy has her. she still tells me she she loves me, and i hang on that so much. but she's with him now. im trying so hard to forget her, and i feel my life will never be good again.

  • haha best excuse I've heard "This isn't practical" from a girl who said she loved me i was like "Brilliant" with a sarcastic tone

  • listen to this, im 13 and my 12 year old gf left me for a 15 year old. thats messed up isnt it?

  • My gf broke up wit me cus she said i loved her to much and she didnt love me as much and she didnt want an umfair relationship doesnt make to much sense does it?

  • dude that's exactly what my girlfriend said.

    makes me wonder...

  • It has been almost 6 months. I can get any hott girl i want in high school, but everything i do or see or look at reminds me of her. haha

    were all really desperate arent we? it's a little amusing eh? :D

  • this guy tells it like it is. Sumtimes the truth hurts. Accept the facts

  • my girlfriend just broke up with me because she said she was unhappy =/ i feel like killing myself i just got the worst results ever for my gcse's been told i cant get into college then she broke up with me all in the same day =/

  • @wishlist224 LOL, I lost my job after a girl broke up with me once. my head was that messed up..... best advice I can give is to PICK RIGHT next time. dont be afraid to dump a lass if your gut tells you somthing is wrong.

  • this has helped me...everytime i say that i get a bit a power back...and i gained MY FUTURE BACK thank you dude!!!

  • fuck this guy...i need to know to get over a girl, not get her back. FUCK!! everything is some scam to sell you shit. getting back with her is only going to prolong my misery.

  • My girl just broke up with me, she says that i dont earn enough to keep her happy.Her exact words were "i cant afford her" and that "all i have for her is love" :(

    She said she was very happy with me a week or 2 ago and then i took her to dinner, we were kissing as usual but then she went cold on me after the dinner date.

    She just got back from a holiday with a guy friend whos much richer than me and it's fucked everything up for me.She says nothing is going on.

  • uh yeah...FUCK THAT GIRL!! any chick that worried about money would piss me right the fuck off.

  • Everything that chick was too you was fake, looking for one thing and one thing only theres nothing to get over as far as I;m concerned COMPLETE BITCH

  • so basically, she's a hoeee

  • i wish there was a video on how to get over ex baby mommas..because i still have to deal with her and be nice to her.

  • this advice is exactly what happend to me...thnx

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  • fucking good advice

  • LMAO

    I Dont Even No Y I Watched 20 Seconds On This

    Or How I Ended Up On It But Jesus Christ .. We ARe Only Girls .. Theres So Many More Of Us Let Go ... Der Obviously Not Worth It And It Wasnt Meant To Be..

    Amd The Information Hes giving Sounds Like Hes Trying To Tell You How To Make A Girl Happier After She's Desroyed You

    " She Is Free" Constantly ... Om LaKk

    Ask Yer Friends What To Do This Is Crappy Advise ... :D

    X

  • if ur grl left u 4 another man,fuck her if she try 2 come back 4 get her!

  • you told me a bunch of shit i already know... how do i get her out of my dreams at night? Investing time and energy into other things only does so much buddy..

  • his advise is garbage just move on,get another girl friend and,don't b love or p... whip,somany women out thre don't listen 2 this garbage advise!

  • u don't know shit abt me,so i am no't gonna say nothing cause the looser speak himself!

  • i always have a back up girl friend,u know how my second girl frien i don;t kiss h er just in case i break w/the main one i have some thing 2 fall 2 beside,i don't trust a woman!

  • you are a weak loser.

  • thts smart shit dont fucking trust women

  • i hear you! me and you both brother

  • @moneytalks213 Na Id say trust them but trust your gut feeling about them more... when thigs start going bad in a relationship...ie shes not acting as interested in you, best thing to do is dissapear for a few weeks, if she doesnt come back then meet other people. Becouse if you dont and you keep chasing her all you will do is make her hate you...

  • my ex broke up with me 2 months ago, i cant stop feeling like shit its so painful cuz she never really gave me a clear explanation on why she broke up with me. well we were in long distance relationship but we had agreed that it was just gonna be for a while but i guess it was too much for her. i cant stop thinking about her though its killing me

  • lol i feel you, happened to me recently. and it was cuz of long term issues and her being unable to focus on what she needs to do..

    i dunno why but it makes me feel like everything we did, doesnt feel real anymore like it was all fake.

  • thats crazy dude i feel the exact same way. like idk if a long distance relationship counts? i mean should it go on my record? lol but like u said it feels like it never happened its a weird feeling, but dont get me wrong i did have her in my arms for a time we didnt hold back anything and we let every instinct go.

    i know she loved me but the distance was just too much i guess and she didnt have patience which is all i asked from her.

  • this is scary if u read this far u will die in 10 days if u dont send to any 15 videos in 2 hours good luck hope u dont die

  • easier said than done bro. easier said than done.

  • my girlfriend broke up with me today, i'm incredibly depressed, she said it wasn't because of me, so she's also depressed. i want to make her feel better, but im too depressed to do it myself, i just feel there is nothing left inside me anymore.......

  • trust me focus on recovering yourself do anything to keep you busy

  • wow i thought my life was crap, some of the stuff that i have heard everyone say here just makes my break up very minor.. wow i really feel sorry for all u guys who have fallen in love with these girls & had to have broken up... i hope all of your situations get better.

  • today i broke up with my girl, and it doesn't feel right,,,the only thing is that i'm gonna miss her.......

  • this really helped im going trough a brake up

  • mmmmmmeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaa

  • Thanks men well done

  • you're welcome

  • so if her life is none of your business then the same applies for your life is none of her business even after a few months after the breakup and she ask how are you it's really none of her concern

  • exactly! - you can still answer if you want to though ;)

  • nah i want to be out of her sight even though she wants us to be friends

  • in my situation she wants to be friends but doest kow how to be a friend to me...

  • in my opinion i would win some as friends or lose some as friends one of my exs wanted to be friends with me but i ignored her and now after she tried and tried i wanted to end the friendship but my friends were trying to convice me not to do it!

  • yea well in the end its all up to you...with me she just seems to act cold to me as in to try and prove a point or something to me...i dont know whatevers...if we dont end up talking its because of her actions towards me...its like if she doesnt care...she puts proving a point to me ahead of being a friend and that sucks i guess but if thats what she wants then thats what shell get...i feel like im ready to move on and if somebody come along i will take my chances!!!

  • same here sometime it's worth keeping and sometimes it's not in the end

  • yea youre completely right...hehe...my bad it just feels good to talk about!!!

  • it's kool i mean im in college in a different city and she's in high school back at my old hometown and there no way in hell I want to be friends with her but that's just me

  • wow...that must be a challenge if you actually do want to keep it as friends...with me were both in college but we go to different ones in the same city though and she only lives like a block away...

  • ouch that would be awakard and yeah it was tough but before graduation she tried talking to me and now i really don't feel the need to anymore i mean somewhere last saturday i almost ran into to her and her new bf but manage to get away yeah i know sounds immature

  • wow thats not childish though...i would of dome the same...whats funny is that they always tend to get a boyfriend so quickly like if their doing it just to get one dont you think???

  • thanks after returning to the high school i had this sick feeling and im sure that it's going to happen again at some point i better watch out

  • really whats gonna happen again???

  • oh the usual be like a ninja and disappear

    or stand my position but chances are that i may not

  • haha...thats tight...but man i feel like crap...because i know im still not completely over her but it can never be and i thought atleast our friendship can be but she just doesnt seem to care i wish i wasnt in this situation!!!

  • if she doesn't care about having a friendship with you then why not just cut her loose

  • i know thats what ive been thinking of but its not that simple in my case...i know im gonna end up missing her...it just sucks that eventhough things didnt workout i still have some feelings for her...it was 5 years of my life!!!

  • 5 years aww man

    look dude you should stop feeling sorry for yourself. GO out with friends and places that she doesn't go too. Also don't dwell on the past trust me it's better to find somethingto keep you busy and go out searching for another also if she has a new bf and you have a new gf and say like your ex wants to double date don't go for it!!

  • yea i know man i was doing that...its been 9 months since we broke up but recently everything has changed in my life...im in a crisis with money and i dont have a car anymore...i havent been able to see my friends since my car is under the insurance of my parents and theres an issue there...its been almost 2 months that i feel like crap and i dont know why its like she matters now...i do go out with friends and i feel fine but once im back home or im not hanging out i feel pretty low...

  • then stop and plan the small goals in getting control in your life right now it hurts but later on you'll feel swell without her

  • yea im trying...i felt good for the most part of thursday until yesterday but i woke up with that feeling that just sort of lingers in the chest...i dont know man im just fucked...or atleast i feel fucked...

  • still don't give in man!!

  • i know man thanks...theres this one girl i met that seems to be really cool with me but im not too sure if it can become anything...thats the only allowing me to feel ok...that there might be a chance!!!either way i like hanging out with her...

  • well don't rush it just enjoy hanging out with her and try to get better before you go into dating don't overdo it

  • i know thank you very much...i will do my best to go steady...do you think that i might take too long though???

  • that's something only you can answer!

  • i know youre right...i know im dragging this too long man and my bad but i just still feel like crap though!!!i wish there was a way i could just wish this feeling away!!!

  • all it needs is time!

  • i know...im doing me best to let time pass slowly and try to feel atleast a little normal!!!

  • well it's good that your making progress and i wish you the best

  • i hope im making progress but thank you for listening!!!thank you very much!!!

  • how did things go?

  • well...im just living life for now...still feel a bit down every now and than but id say im 90% good...im meeting some people just having fun being single and just i guess playing around lol but she still contacts me just a week ago she was trying to kiss me and stuff and on monday we were on the phone and asked if i would fuck around with her still and she asked me if i wanted some lol i think shes crazy!!!

  • lol nicee

  • haha yea...her bf i guess hates me now but it sucks for him because he thinks me and her dont even talk let alone touch eachother lol but im trying to stop its her who has been calling me...i havent tried at all!!!

  • @red88alert Yea shes crazy... If I were you I would tell her to stop calling you. becouse all she is doing is using you and until you tell her to delete your number and forget your name you wont be 100%...

  • @Elcristoph haha thanks for the reply...since that last time i posted here i started seeing somebody else and alot has happened since...i did talk yo my ex though like last night and she still asks wierd questions but she knows im with another girl now and to me the way she makes it sound seems like if shes not happy but than again she could be pretending lol i dont know...

  • well, you are right, but it is not about the guy understanding that a girl is no longer HIS girl (which you explained perfectly)

    how do you get OVER an ex is something different.

  • really good advice :) i think you should do a video for how a girl can get over her ex boyfriend who keeps playing mind games (will talk to you one day and avoid you the next) Its really frustrating =(

  • same thing for a guy...my ex does the same stuff...

  • goog advice, guys need to hear this. i've noticed women are starting to move on alot faster than men now and men are the ones that pine at home.

  • i think so too men do need to move on

  • Wow Great message. Thank you!

  • glad to hear that

  • excellent!

  • thank you man you really helped me with letting go

  • you're welcome

  • ur good, i did somthin my x didnt like so i sent her im sorry by buckcherry and now we goin out again

  • excellent! well done!

  • lol.. thx but im only 12..lol..it helped

  • whaou!

  • this really helped me in a matter of seconds. this video really opened my eyes and i feel great, after sleepless nights wondering what she is doing and who with, its all in the past now and i can gather up my life to full potential. im doing better in life. with less distractions im doing better at my job, i even got a raise due to flawless work. i really appreciate this. you are probably one of the smartest guys i know. once again thank you!!!

  • good on you mate your a better man then me

  • excellent! Well done!

  • hey i would really apreciate if you help me. i have this ex that i met during the summer we met in this cruise and well we just had a long distance relationship. we were crazy for each other. then out of nowere she cheats on me and i just get devistated. now i cant stop think about her. any advice? please and thank you.

  • did u end it?

  • go to my site and get the full "break up for men" system - it will save you loads ot time and trouble, really!

  • Thanks dude

    This video changed my life

  • excellent! Glad to hear that - Toake care

  • You too friend

  • Want investment advice? Don't get married. 18 years of marriage will get you 9 years of alimony. You'll loose half your income and half all your stuff. It happens over and over and over and over yet your brainwashed parents tell you it's the right thing to do. The divorce rate is 65%. Helllooo!

  • A personal comment that was sent to me - What do you guys think?

    "Women in general i think do pick up the pieces much easier.

    When theres a breakup.. they get with their friends, have a laugh/cry..go get their freaken hair/nails done or wateva and life goes on.

    Men on the other hand..get stuck in the moment and find it hard to get past it.

    Not just with relationships.. but anything where emotions are invoved..."

  • Followed... "It shows in the suicide rate for men, dont you think?

    I dont know what the numbers are there, but in New Zealand the men far outnumber woman in suicide.

    I always tend to sympathise with the males when theres a breakup.Some woman can be very harsh and insensitive to this weaker side in men.Reading some of the comments on your videos.......there are some very desperate men out there who can not let go. "

  • Actually, women -attept- suicide at higher rates than that of men.

  • great video

  • thanks!

  • this shit it did realy help me, now u stupid bitch go fuck whoever u want cuz i dont wanna see u mothefucker nasty ass again, u heard dat blanca

  • he reminds me of god :/

  • god???! ;)

  • I really really want to just let her go... But i cant stop texting her and taking contact... even tho she's been cheating on me, and i kindof fed up with this relationship, i cant stop taking contact with her...

  • i feel better now too!! go suck dick you misrable crazy boot!! ive got my power back!!!

  • thanks boys i know im not thinkin rationale right now ! i understand how gettin my act together is key as well as not lookin desparate, which ive done by seeing other gals ,but time is not on my side

  • dood i want my girl back caz shes truly amazing, its been a month i tryed the hard to get thing and it backfired and drunk dials and texts insue , she no longer wants anything to do with me .... how do i get her back!!

  • =/ it says get over not get back i believe....

  • You're at a fraction of your potential - right now you appear totally powerless to her - that's a massive turn that kills attraction - First you need to get your act back together

  • thank you so much for this video. i broke up with my girlfriend two weeks ago after two years and she is already moved on to another guy. i was upset and mad at the fact and didnt know what to do. it was odd, because when we broke up i was fine about it. then she told me about her new guy and it hit me hard. but now i watched this video for advice in help of getting rid of the sadness and it worked. i now realize it isnt my problem or bussiness anymore, and i have my power and energy back! thank

  • pass it dude, dont look back and let go..trust me,,and i did it after i saw this on youtube. hehehe. thanx coach.

    regards

  • Man the same thing happened to me...She's amazing but apparently she doesn't feel the same anymore...but then just yesterday she said "sometimes you leave the one you love not because your feelings suddenly changed for them, but because you need to see if they truly care about you and will come back no matter what"

    I'm not sure if I should keep trying to talk to her as friends or just get over her though...

  • Id say give it all you got to save the relationship, if it didnt work, screw it.

    its all up to her now. not urs, you did all you could. move on

  • thanx a lot coach..

  • You're welcome!

  • thanks man i have been struggling with my divorce. Its hard cuz we have a daughter so i still have to see her and she calls me alot.

  • Yes, I know how it feels - If you like the idea, get in touch and sign up for a couple of sessions - I'll give you extra strategies on how to deal with her when you have kids together - There are a few ways to make it much easier for you...

  • cheers man. Its been like 3 months and i still get little jealous twinges. This helped thanks a lot :)

  • you're welcome ;) - Good luck!

  • ty me nd my gf broke up today ty so much

  • you're welcome

  • wow man thx man