If I'm in a monogamous (I probably spelled that wrong, but who gives a fuck this is YT) relationship for a certain period of time, and if my man is doing it to me then I have no problem getting down on my knees for him. When I'm in love with someone and they're giving me pleasures it's only natural for me to want to make them feel good down there also.
A woman who doesn't give oral, is a woman who isn't mature enough to be in a relationship. If you can't bring yourself to do something so vanilla in order to please the person you love, then you're not relationship material. I would go to almost any length to please the woman I love, and if I get anything less than those standards in return, she isn't worth my time.
Also @mellamobrittney your analogy is ignorant and holds little value. I expect you're still in high school. You'll learn.
@LudicLorenzo I agree with u 100000000%!! It's about give and take. I'm a woman and I feel the same way about guys who don't give oral. I don't wanna be bothered with them at all.
@TheRealMidori I understand you. I just think you're under the assumption that most girls with positive personality traits are girls that DON'T give HEAD. And I think you're wrong about that. Not as many girls hate giving oral sex as much as you think. I know PLENTY of girls who rather enjoy giving oral sex (and not just "pretending to" either) who are still good girls. Again, I get what you're saying. (Don't take a bad person who gives head over a good girl who DOESN'T) Just stating a point.
@TheRealMidori You're misunderstanding me. I'm not saying I'd take oral sex over EVERYTHING ELSE. I'm saying I would much rather have an honest, loyal, faithful attractive girl who DOES give me oral sex, than an honest, faithful & loyal girl who DOESN'T give me oral sex. Get what I'm sayin? I'm not putting oral sex IN PLACE of those other qualities. I'm ADDING oral sex IN ADDITION to those other qualities. That's what you're not understanding.
@TheRealMidori That's the thing though. You just said it: A LIFETIME. Marriage (or a lifelong commitment in general) is nothing to take lightly. If you're going to commit to something like that, wouldn't you want to be happy in every way? For someone who enjoys receiving oral sex, to go a LIFETIME without ever getting it again, how "happy" is that life? Sure there may be other positive aspects of your relationship, but if that's something you like, why WOULDN'T you want it in a wife?
@TheRealMidori I wouldn't threaten to break up with her. If it was that big of a deal to me, I probably wouldn't date her in the first place. But again, that's IF it was that big of a deal. While it is something I expect/require from a girl I'm dating, I can make exceptions to my rule, depending on how much the girl means to me.
If its just skin cant the girl just do it with her hand instead? Lmao why put ur dick in sumeones mouth? The thing bout sucking dick is its nasty like crazy and extreme for a girl to do and dats wat guys like bout it, so why downplay it saying its just skin? A foot in ur mouth is skin too aint it???? But is dat shit not degrading???? Feel me?
@princesstiara305 lol, A foot is also walking around in shoes all day, (or even barefoot sometimes in the summer) so it's not QUITE the same. Besides, if a person just steps out the shower, their feet are clean too. And I know several people who've either sucked toes, or gotten them sucked. So even THAT isn't unheard of.
@TrueTalkTV idk how to explain it to where ull understand but its just not cool to me.....it seems like a bitch job, slave work!!!lmao no disrespect to those who suk dik
@princesstiara305 lol @ slave work. Pleasing your partner should never be considered "slave work" unless it's COMPLETELY one sided, or they have you running here & running there, LIKE a slave. But going down on someone to give them a little extra physical satisfaction? Why is that a problem? That's what's wrong w/so many women. They think they're too good to do shit, or that "only hos do it" which is a silly mindset to have. "Hos" have sex too, but you'll still do THAT. So what's the difference?
well, i don't know what those other girls are talking about. giving head is delicious. and if he cums while i'm doing it, even better. means i'm good. and that's pretty delicious too.
i'm all about giving. i just need a little back. and, i don't really like getting eaten out. i'd rather be fingered. lol.
i guess i'm weird. but, all those girls don't know what they're missing. mmm.
@imasingleladyful You definitely have the right mind. I think I might have to interview you for my next book. If not, you should make your own video on the subject.
Nah dawg I wouldn't eat a girl out that shits nasty. I know where my dick been and the area around there and i would never tell a girl, so I wouldn't trust a girl with that shit either.
umm ok but yeah i think for a lot of women it's not the penis they can't stand it's the stuff that comes out of it. i'm just sayin if you really wanna/don't know... that's prolly mostly why some women woudn't do it.
Consider oral as like an appetizer before the main course.
Or better yet...
Consider this scenario:
It's late at night, and you want a midnight snack. You don't want an entire MEAL, b/c you're not HUNGRY enough for all that. But you WOULD like SOMETHING. So, you get a snack.
If I'm getting head BEFORE sex, then no. I don't have to cum. I don't even WANT to, because I'll get that from SEX. The head is just to "get me right" and get me ready.
Now, if I'm having this snack WITHOUT the meal, meaning JUST head, then of course I'd want to cum. And the reason that ISN'T like a full meal, is because I don't have to do nearly as much WORK.
However, since I don't cum from head anyway, it really wouldn't matter, lol.
if it's about how much "work" you have to do - then is having the woman on top during sex the equivalent of head? because in both cases you don't have to do anything while she does her thing.
Nope. It's still not the same. Because having a woman RIDE you, still takes more ENERGY out of a man, than just sitting back and getting HEAD does.
And a MAJOR reason for that, is because we get that INSTINCT to just "fuck her BACK!" Like while we're on the bottom, as she bounces on us, we get INTO it and we wanna slide UP, just so it's even MORE intense. At least I do.
well i don' t mind doing it at all... as long as my man is pleased thats all that matters.. its not even about him giving me head either. If i get it then i do if i don't then i don't. To all of you ladies out there afraid to try it... don't be afraid cuz u mite lose out if another girl is suckin your man off good && u still afraid to even try.
i love to give my guys evrythin but 4 me oral is a big no i dont mind him uno dat thing wen he puts his penis between ur boobs
i will do nythink that he asks 4 litrally anything and wen he asks 4 a hand job uno i dont really care or 2 do 1 of his fantises i dont care but wen he asks me 2 do him a blow job i think its nasty coz he peed & i wnt 1 put my mouth around dat
& i hate him givin oral 2 me but i ant got problems anythinelse like if he says 2 me dat he wnts 2 do it in da bush im ill do it
please em 2 the best of ur ability if thats ya man n u love him then give em all the pleasure he could want. giv em a reason 2 stay home n not stray. pleez em the way he wanna be pleased, every once in awhile bring out somethin new/frsh/diff./sumthin special/sumthin u dont doevry nite blow his mind keep things fresh,sexy, spicy n exciting his ass will b home wit u evry nite n wateva u wont/cant the next will thn instead of bein home wit u evry nite his ass ova her house gettn wat he cant at home
its not something ive done before but as of next month i will not be just a girlfriend but a wife and if my husband even hints that he likes that or its something he'dbeinterested in i'd be willingto try it to fulfill his needs and make him happy. i dontagree with just doin itwit any1 but when ur in a monogamous relationship then u need to pleaxe ya partner. ppl2 picky bout wat they will n wont do especially if u love that person. when you love some1 your spose 2
lol @ other girls have been on that dick. Yea, females love to say that, but have NO PROBLEM KISSING a dude, even though they have NO idea whose pussy his LIPS were just on.
That's my issue with women who use those excuses for not sucking dick.
Accepting your man with all his foibles is crucial to a long lasting relationship, understanding a man's needs and desires, sexual and emotional, are beyond important to maintaining a strong relationship. Be up front and honest about what you are and what you need, and encourage the same in your mate, accepting what they are and what their needs are.
Of course I don't take everything literally, but still I don't think that I was supposed to assume what you REALLY meant. lol I mean, throughout this whole discussion/debate whatever I haven't been able to understand you completely. I just don't get you and your mentality. Obviously this is going no where so let's just let bygones be bygones.
Usually when people say something, or in this case write something, people take it as how it sounds. But I guess I was supposed to read your mind and realize that by "need" you simply meant something you would like, or in other words want? lol and to think that all these years I've been under the impression that the words need and want had two very different meanings. Wants: iphone, new mac book... Needs: water, shelter...So I'm sorry that I don't pick up on when you use them interchangeably.
Since I'm a girl, I don't need a healthy sex life to have intimacy with a partner...but guys do? Correct me if I'm wrong but that's kind of what it sounded like you were trying to say. Why are you throwing the word "need" around as if its a life or death situation? This may come as a shocker to you, but I know guys my age, 20, who are still virgins because they are waiting for marriage. And isn't the early 20ish the sexual prime for men? They are perfectly content in a relationship without sex.
So you actually base whether or not to be in a relationship on her willingness to give you head? So what is it like some kind of pre-screening interview in which the subject of oral sex comes up and if she shows any signs of objection she gets the boot--even if you really like her and she has all the other important qualities worth mentioning: looks, personality, intellect, humor...but because she objects to giving head...thats it? Wow. Is it really that important? I'm sorry I misunderstood.
lol, It's not the ONLY factor, but it IS ONE of them.
Let's say you have 5 major qualities you want in a guy, that you MUST HAVE. And if he only has 3 or 4, you may not date him.
Well, to me, sex is, ok sex WAS a big deal. So BACK THEN, I absolutely would've had a problem dating someone who wouldn't give me head.
A chick from '07 who I was REALLY INTO, didn't give head. It was an issue. (Then again, her sex drive seemed to be lacking period.) A healthy sex life is/was a big deal to me.
I'm a guy though. So I'd expect that. Since you're a woman, you don't need a healthy SEX life to have intimacy with your partner (which I UNDERSTAND)
Sex isn't the ONLY way to experience intimacy, but it IS SOMETHING we want (as males)
Then again, as I said, this is me speaking as I would have a few YEARS ago. Right NOW, I don't think I NEED sex as much, due to my diminished sex drive.
I would only do something like that is with someone I am in LOVE with--boyfriend, husband, or fiance. A penis secretes various things like parasites, diseases, viruses...Just because a woman does not want to give oral sex does not mean she's a little girl. It means that she does not like it or is cautious. Oral sex is not something that should be recreational. If it's not wrapped up, leave it ALONE.
Why is it a problem? Sure its just skin as you say and you compared it to sucking on a guy's neck...but guess what? PISS doesn't leak from a guys neck or lips. That's what makes it entirely different. I may as well go lick the inside of a urinal.
Well unless he's pissing when you DO it, you won't TASTE any of that. You women pee from your vagina, but men go down anyway. Not just sucking the clit, but I'm sure putting their tongue in every crevice with no complaints.
In my opinion, just the simple fact that various fluids leak through this area, makes it disgusting. It's all in one's personal preference. I love how you praise the women that are doing what they're "supposed" to be doing, as if giving oral sex is a pre-requisite to having a healthy intimate relationship. One woman may have a problem with it, and another one may not. Either way, niether of them is more of a "grown woman" because of their own personal preference.
I mean, this could be debated all night long. I guess, for me, when it comes to pleasing my partner, nothing between she & I should be "off limits."
It's crazy how some women will love a man enough to "die" for him, but not enough to put a penis in her mouth. That just seems kind of backwards to me.
Interesting. So what if your girl has this fantasy of sticking a dildo up your butt, and it would really please her if you would let her do it...would you? Or is she wanted oral sex while she was menstruating? Should you have to put all of your convictions aside in the name of pleasing your partner? It's only normal and healthy for people to have limits to things they will and will not do. To put pressure one a supposed love to do something they don't want to do is simply selfish.
Who said I would PRESSURE her? I'd know not to GET with her if she didn't like to perform oral. She'd be my FRIEND. I would know from the GET go not to make her my woman. So I'd never HAVE to pressure her.
@mellamobrittney Buahaahaha Agreement there. A penis is very different from a vagina, which has a self-cleaning system unbeknownst to the video poster here. How is that even same? You pee out of your penis, a woman doesn't. And besides, if someone does not want to do it, then it is there choice. If you think that a long lasting relationship is dependent on oral sex, then, you are not relationship material. There, that is me being totally blunt.
@girlgamer1984 Why? People have all KINDS of dealbreakers that determine whether or not a relationship is for them. For some, it's their partner having a car, for some, it's that their partner not be "too nice", for some it's sex, and for some, it's ORAL sex. Besides, I never SAID my relationship was dependent on it. I'm simply giving my opinion on why oral sex isn't that big of a deal. There's a reason that more women perform oral than not.
@mellamobrittney I just realized I never replied to this. So I will now: Piss doesn't leak from a guy's neck, you're right. However, piss doesn't come from a guy's dick either UNLESS HE'S PISSING! Therefore, during oral, you don't have to worry about that. (So much for that excuse.)
Hmm. Getting inside the head (no pun intended) of women... Well, my sister says she doesn't like to do it because she doesn't want semen/sperm in her mouth (to put it bluntly). There are some guys who even suggest that the woman drink it. My sister just finds it disgusting. Now whether she does it at times to please her man...I don't know.
Honestly dog, I avoid oral sex because a lot of women use it as an alternative to intercourse when they're not committed. Brothers do it too. I have high regards as to where I put my mouth, and a genital ain't the place.
I've done it and received it. My ex's bj felt good, but... it didn't seem intimate to me. Also, it seemed like it wasn't about exchange, but rather, a recipient experience. It felt good, but my mentality didn't follow.
Exactly. and I take back the fact that I would have oral sex with my husband. If he is my husband, why even worry about an alternative when we can have unprotected sex?
Why, you ask? (@ babydoll) Simple. It adds variety. Not unprotected intercourse and "ONLY" that EVERY SINGLE TIME lol. Toss in some oral sex and spice it up every once in a while.
But yeah, X-Mas will hopefully be good. You know, at 28, you don't get as many presents as you would if you were still a KID lol. I'll manage, though. I'm just happy to be alive. lol
In my opinion it all depends how the female was raised, who inspires them, and who they look up to as role model. For most it comes down to inexperience, and you know a majority of women are shy when it comes to sex talk. The bottom line is that you need a freak! Not a conservative chic... Just not gonna work lol.
lmao, nah. head is a REQUIREMENT for all my women. so i wouldnt date a girl who wouldnt do it. I HAVE run INTO some who don't, tho. Only 2 or 3 in LIFE, but still there ARE some. this vid is just directed toward those women.
lol, Maaan I had that shit done for the FIRST TIME back in OCTOBER. First time I ever had a chick suck my toes and I didn't even wanna fuck her that night lol.
Why U didnt wanna fuck her? U must have some messed up feet. I take good care of mine, and had no problem kissing her afterwards. I look forward to having that shit done everytime we make love now lol
lmao, fool that aint WHY I didnt fuck her. She'd pissed me off that day, so I knew b4 I even HAD her suck my toes (and every OTHER part of me) that I wasn't givin her no dick. It ain't like I NEVER fucked her though lol.
Plus I think your situation's different. This wasn't my woman. So there was no "lovemaking"
lmao How could U have a girl suck any part of yo body, and not get aroused enough to wanna Fuck? I dont give a rats ass if the chic pissed me off, because if she manage get me excited below the belt...its going DOWN!
Oh I DID get aroused. But it was HER who was BEGGIN for it, which made it even BETTER. It got to the point where I teased the FUCK out of her, (even stuck the HEAD in) then pulled out, stroked til I busted on her stomach and said "OK, let's go get somethin to eat." lol.
Now, you might say "FUCK THAT!" But it worked for me, because it accomplished 2 things: I got a nut (not the BEST, but I GOT one) AND she had to settle for not fuckin me.
Damn...this chic must of looked like Wesley Snipes from To wong foo. LOL@let's go get somthing to to eat. Lucky she didnt scratch your car with a key. U know how crazy these women can get.
LMAOOOO @ Wesley Snipes. Nah. I just don't let bitches/pussy control me. They already think they can control most niggas with their pussy ANYWAY. So it kinda fucks their head up when they CAN'T. I'll fuck you when *I* want to. Feel me? That's my attitude.
Like this one chick I used to LOVE fuckin a few yrs back started askin again just recently. But I was nonchalant about it cuz I wasn't pressed. After askin several times, she gave up like "fuck you then". So that kinda backfired lol
Yea Never let a woman control you PERIOD!! They already have us opening doors and shit, like they handicap or somthing. But U gotta be careful, cuz most girls would spread rumors that U are GAY if you reject the pussy. Even though i'm bisexual, and dont give a fuck. However alot of stra8 guys are afraid to be categorized with "gay" so they are much easier for woman to control. LOL
I will say that luckily, I haven't run into many who won't go down. Most of them do. But there ARE still a FEW who are on that BULLSHIT. This is for them.
If I'm in a monogamous (I probably spelled that wrong, but who gives a fuck this is YT) relationship for a certain period of time, and if my man is doing it to me then I have no problem getting down on my knees for him. When I'm in love with someone and they're giving me pleasures it's only natural for me to want to make them feel good down there also.
IMaHotMessSoWhat 3 days ago
A woman who doesn't give oral, is a woman who isn't mature enough to be in a relationship. If you can't bring yourself to do something so vanilla in order to please the person you love, then you're not relationship material. I would go to almost any length to please the woman I love, and if I get anything less than those standards in return, she isn't worth my time.
Also @mellamobrittney your analogy is ignorant and holds little value. I expect you're still in high school. You'll learn.
LudicLorenzo 2 weeks ago
@LudicLorenzo I agree with u 100000000%!! It's about give and take. I'm a woman and I feel the same way about guys who don't give oral. I don't wanna be bothered with them at all.
IMaHotMessSoWhat 3 days ago
@TheRealMidori I understand you. I just think you're under the assumption that most girls with positive personality traits are girls that DON'T give HEAD. And I think you're wrong about that. Not as many girls hate giving oral sex as much as you think. I know PLENTY of girls who rather enjoy giving oral sex (and not just "pretending to" either) who are still good girls. Again, I get what you're saying. (Don't take a bad person who gives head over a good girl who DOESN'T) Just stating a point.
TrueTalkTV 8 months ago
@TheRealMidori You're misunderstanding me. I'm not saying I'd take oral sex over EVERYTHING ELSE. I'm saying I would much rather have an honest, loyal, faithful attractive girl who DOES give me oral sex, than an honest, faithful & loyal girl who DOESN'T give me oral sex. Get what I'm sayin? I'm not putting oral sex IN PLACE of those other qualities. I'm ADDING oral sex IN ADDITION to those other qualities. That's what you're not understanding.
TrueTalkTV 8 months ago
@TheRealMidori That's the thing though. You just said it: A LIFETIME. Marriage (or a lifelong commitment in general) is nothing to take lightly. If you're going to commit to something like that, wouldn't you want to be happy in every way? For someone who enjoys receiving oral sex, to go a LIFETIME without ever getting it again, how "happy" is that life? Sure there may be other positive aspects of your relationship, but if that's something you like, why WOULDN'T you want it in a wife?
TrueTalkTV 8 months ago
@TheRealMidori I wouldn't threaten to break up with her. If it was that big of a deal to me, I probably wouldn't date her in the first place. But again, that's IF it was that big of a deal. While it is something I expect/require from a girl I'm dating, I can make exceptions to my rule, depending on how much the girl means to me.
TrueTalkTV 8 months ago
If its just skin cant the girl just do it with her hand instead? Lmao why put ur dick in sumeones mouth? The thing bout sucking dick is its nasty like crazy and extreme for a girl to do and dats wat guys like bout it, so why downplay it saying its just skin? A foot in ur mouth is skin too aint it???? But is dat shit not degrading???? Feel me?
princesstiara305 8 months ago 2
@princesstiara305 lol, A foot is also walking around in shoes all day, (or even barefoot sometimes in the summer) so it's not QUITE the same. Besides, if a person just steps out the shower, their feet are clean too. And I know several people who've either sucked toes, or gotten them sucked. So even THAT isn't unheard of.
TrueTalkTV 8 months ago
@TrueTalkTV idk how to explain it to where ull understand but its just not cool to me.....it seems like a bitch job, slave work!!!lmao no disrespect to those who suk dik
princesstiara305 8 months ago
@princesstiara305 lol @ slave work. Pleasing your partner should never be considered "slave work" unless it's COMPLETELY one sided, or they have you running here & running there, LIKE a slave. But going down on someone to give them a little extra physical satisfaction? Why is that a problem? That's what's wrong w/so many women. They think they're too good to do shit, or that "only hos do it" which is a silly mindset to have. "Hos" have sex too, but you'll still do THAT. So what's the difference?
TrueTalkTV 8 months ago
@TrueTalkTV it is slave work if u do it unmillingly or if dey always try to push u to do what you dont want to,feel me?
princesstiara305 8 months ago
well, i don't know what those other girls are talking about. giving head is delicious. and if he cums while i'm doing it, even better. means i'm good. and that's pretty delicious too.
i'm all about giving. i just need a little back. and, i don't really like getting eaten out. i'd rather be fingered. lol.
i guess i'm weird. but, all those girls don't know what they're missing. mmm.
imasingleladyful 1 year ago
@imasingleladyful You definitely have the right mind. I think I might have to interview you for my next book. If not, you should make your own video on the subject.
TrueTalkTV 1 year ago
i once dated a woman that didnt give head. that relationship didnt last to long.
wayniac917 1 year ago
Some women actually don't want to get ejaculated in their faces so really it's not penis' fault
RealHipHopTunes 1 year ago
Nah dawg I wouldn't eat a girl out that shits nasty. I know where my dick been and the area around there and i would never tell a girl, so I wouldn't trust a girl with that shit either.
FXThug 1 year ago 2
well first of all piss is comming out of there!
andredw 2 years ago
Not while she's DOING it though! lol
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
@TrueTalkTV Actually old piss and old semen (dried up semen) comes out during pre ejaculate and ejaculate.
bigphatkdawg 1 year ago 2
@bigphatkdawg Never had a chick complain about that with me, so it must not be too noticeable.
TrueTalkTV 8 months ago
umm ok but yeah i think for a lot of women it's not the penis they can't stand it's the stuff that comes out of it. i'm just sayin if you really wanna/don't know... that's prolly mostly why some women woudn't do it.
luvrip4life 2 years ago 2
i dont understand why a vagina isnt good enough? why do you need mouth as a hole too?
princessannikki 2 years ago 2
Consider oral as like an appetizer before the main course.
Or better yet...
Consider this scenario:
It's late at night, and you want a midnight snack. You don't want an entire MEAL, b/c you're not HUNGRY enough for all that. But you WOULD like SOMETHING. So, you get a snack.
Well, that's what HEAD is compared to sex.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
lol that makes sense. do you have to cum to have a "snack"? i think if you've cum then you've had a whole meal.
princessannikki 2 years ago
It depends.
If I'm getting head BEFORE sex, then no. I don't have to cum. I don't even WANT to, because I'll get that from SEX. The head is just to "get me right" and get me ready.
Now, if I'm having this snack WITHOUT the meal, meaning JUST head, then of course I'd want to cum. And the reason that ISN'T like a full meal, is because I don't have to do nearly as much WORK.
However, since I don't cum from head anyway, it really wouldn't matter, lol.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
if it's about how much "work" you have to do - then is having the woman on top during sex the equivalent of head? because in both cases you don't have to do anything while she does her thing.
princessannikki 2 years ago
Nope. It's still not the same. Because having a woman RIDE you, still takes more ENERGY out of a man, than just sitting back and getting HEAD does.
And a MAJOR reason for that, is because we get that INSTINCT to just "fuck her BACK!" Like while we're on the bottom, as she bounces on us, we get INTO it and we wanna slide UP, just so it's even MORE intense. At least I do.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago 2
well i don' t mind doing it at all... as long as my man is pleased thats all that matters.. its not even about him giving me head either. If i get it then i do if i don't then i don't. To all of you ladies out there afraid to try it... don't be afraid cuz u mite lose out if another girl is suckin your man off good && u still afraid to even try.
arw5163 2 years ago
This is a beautiful answer.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
i love to give my guys evrythin but 4 me oral is a big no i dont mind him uno dat thing wen he puts his penis between ur boobs
i will do nythink that he asks 4 litrally anything and wen he asks 4 a hand job uno i dont really care or 2 do 1 of his fantises i dont care but wen he asks me 2 do him a blow job i think its nasty coz he peed & i wnt 1 put my mouth around dat
& i hate him givin oral 2 me but i ant got problems anythinelse like if he says 2 me dat he wnts 2 do it in da bush im ill do it
sexwheneverwherever 2 years ago
so? it's not like he's not pee'ing WHILE YOU'RE DOING IT! it's just SKIN. I think yall REALLY think to HARD about it.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
he is not even a real player. HHAHAH he sucks and i give this video .5 stars.
WickedG5150 2 years ago
lol, not tryna be a player man. I'm just givin my opinion.
I cant really hate on you because you're an NWA fan like me. Glad to see another one on here.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
WORD.. u are cool man. Disregard my comment, it was stupid.
WickedG5150 2 years ago
please em 2 the best of ur ability if thats ya man n u love him then give em all the pleasure he could want. giv em a reason 2 stay home n not stray. pleez em the way he wanna be pleased, every once in awhile bring out somethin new/frsh/diff./sumthin special/sumthin u dont doevry nite blow his mind keep things fresh,sexy, spicy n exciting his ass will b home wit u evry nite n wateva u wont/cant the next will thn instead of bein home wit u evry nite his ass ova her house gettn wat he cant at home
prettyladya87 2 years ago
its not something ive done before but as of next month i will not be just a girlfriend but a wife and if my husband even hints that he likes that or its something he'dbeinterested in i'd be willingto try it to fulfill his needs and make him happy. i dontagree with just doin itwit any1 but when ur in a monogamous relationship then u need to pleaxe ya partner. ppl2 picky bout wat they will n wont do especially if u love that person. when you love some1 your spose 2
prettyladya87 2 years ago
Actually I do give heads but some girls think that well he pees out his dick and other girls hav been on that dick and etc
i dont reli care but i think they need to grow up dont u?
QUEENIECO 2 years ago
lol @ other girls have been on that dick. Yea, females love to say that, but have NO PROBLEM KISSING a dude, even though they have NO idea whose pussy his LIPS were just on.
That's my issue with women who use those excuses for not sucking dick.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
Accepting your man with all his foibles is crucial to a long lasting relationship, understanding a man's needs and desires, sexual and emotional, are beyond important to maintaining a strong relationship. Be up front and honest about what you are and what you need, and encourage the same in your mate, accepting what they are and what their needs are.
sonny6967 2 years ago
you are awesome!!!!!!!!!!
reedfanguy1995 2 years ago
THANK YOU MY NIGGA
thebest0354 2 years ago
Of course I don't take everything literally, but still I don't think that I was supposed to assume what you REALLY meant. lol I mean, throughout this whole discussion/debate whatever I haven't been able to understand you completely. I just don't get you and your mentality. Obviously this is going no where so let's just let bygones be bygones.
mellamobrittney 2 years ago
Usually when people say something, or in this case write something, people take it as how it sounds. But I guess I was supposed to read your mind and realize that by "need" you simply meant something you would like, or in other words want? lol and to think that all these years I've been under the impression that the words need and want had two very different meanings. Wants: iphone, new mac book... Needs: water, shelter...So I'm sorry that I don't pick up on when you use them interchangeably.
mellamobrittney 2 years ago
You're not familiar with tropes? Such as "Damn, it's hot as HELL in here" or "I'm so hungry I could eat a horse."
Is it REALLY as hot as "hell"? No. But it's a figure of speech. Could I REALLY eat an ENTIRE HORSE? No. It would just mean I was "very hungry."
Common sense would tell you not to take these things so literally.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
Since I'm a girl, I don't need a healthy sex life to have intimacy with a partner...but guys do? Correct me if I'm wrong but that's kind of what it sounded like you were trying to say. Why are you throwing the word "need" around as if its a life or death situation? This may come as a shocker to you, but I know guys my age, 20, who are still virgins because they are waiting for marriage. And isn't the early 20ish the sexual prime for men? They are perfectly content in a relationship without sex.
mellamobrittney 2 years ago
Why are you taking the word "need" so literally?
I didn't realize you'd be so anal about it.
Let me rephrase: "Things we would LIKE in a relationship" or "Things we'd find necessary to HAVE in a relationship, to help make it work"
Honesty, monogamy, sexual desire/openness, common interests, devotion/dedication, love, etc.
Those are things *I* find necessary to help make my relationship work.
Better?
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
So you actually base whether or not to be in a relationship on her willingness to give you head? So what is it like some kind of pre-screening interview in which the subject of oral sex comes up and if she shows any signs of objection she gets the boot--even if you really like her and she has all the other important qualities worth mentioning: looks, personality, intellect, humor...but because she objects to giving head...thats it? Wow. Is it really that important? I'm sorry I misunderstood.
mellamobrittney 2 years ago
lol, It's not the ONLY factor, but it IS ONE of them.
Let's say you have 5 major qualities you want in a guy, that you MUST HAVE. And if he only has 3 or 4, you may not date him.
Well, to me, sex is, ok sex WAS a big deal. So BACK THEN, I absolutely would've had a problem dating someone who wouldn't give me head.
A chick from '07 who I was REALLY INTO, didn't give head. It was an issue. (Then again, her sex drive seemed to be lacking period.) A healthy sex life is/was a big deal to me.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
...obviously we have very conflicting ideas about the criteria of a healthy intimate relationship...and I guess that's just that.=]
mellamobrittney 2 years ago
I'm a guy though. So I'd expect that. Since you're a woman, you don't need a healthy SEX life to have intimacy with your partner (which I UNDERSTAND)
Sex isn't the ONLY way to experience intimacy, but it IS SOMETHING we want (as males)
Then again, as I said, this is me speaking as I would have a few YEARS ago. Right NOW, I don't think I NEED sex as much, due to my diminished sex drive.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
I would only do something like that is with someone I am in LOVE with--boyfriend, husband, or fiance. A penis secretes various things like parasites, diseases, viruses...Just because a woman does not want to give oral sex does not mean she's a little girl. It means that she does not like it or is cautious. Oral sex is not something that should be recreational. If it's not wrapped up, leave it ALONE.
twistedbabydoll 2 years ago
Why is it a problem? Sure its just skin as you say and you compared it to sucking on a guy's neck...but guess what? PISS doesn't leak from a guys neck or lips. That's what makes it entirely different. I may as well go lick the inside of a urinal.
mellamobrittney 2 years ago 10
Well unless he's pissing when you DO it, you won't TASTE any of that. You women pee from your vagina, but men go down anyway. Not just sucking the clit, but I'm sure putting their tongue in every crevice with no complaints.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
In my opinion, just the simple fact that various fluids leak through this area, makes it disgusting. It's all in one's personal preference. I love how you praise the women that are doing what they're "supposed" to be doing, as if giving oral sex is a pre-requisite to having a healthy intimate relationship. One woman may have a problem with it, and another one may not. Either way, niether of them is more of a "grown woman" because of their own personal preference.
mellamobrittney 2 years ago
I mean, this could be debated all night long. I guess, for me, when it comes to pleasing my partner, nothing between she & I should be "off limits."
It's crazy how some women will love a man enough to "die" for him, but not enough to put a penis in her mouth. That just seems kind of backwards to me.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
Interesting. So what if your girl has this fantasy of sticking a dildo up your butt, and it would really please her if you would let her do it...would you? Or is she wanted oral sex while she was menstruating? Should you have to put all of your convictions aside in the name of pleasing your partner? It's only normal and healthy for people to have limits to things they will and will not do. To put pressure one a supposed love to do something they don't want to do is simply selfish.
mellamobrittney 2 years ago
Who said I would PRESSURE her? I'd know not to GET with her if she didn't like to perform oral. She'd be my FRIEND. I would know from the GET go not to make her my woman. So I'd never HAVE to pressure her.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
@mellamobrittney Buahaahaha Agreement there. A penis is very different from a vagina, which has a self-cleaning system unbeknownst to the video poster here. How is that even same? You pee out of your penis, a woman doesn't. And besides, if someone does not want to do it, then it is there choice. If you think that a long lasting relationship is dependent on oral sex, then, you are not relationship material. There, that is me being totally blunt.
girlgamer1984 1 year ago 2
@girlgamer1984 Why? People have all KINDS of dealbreakers that determine whether or not a relationship is for them. For some, it's their partner having a car, for some, it's that their partner not be "too nice", for some it's sex, and for some, it's ORAL sex. Besides, I never SAID my relationship was dependent on it. I'm simply giving my opinion on why oral sex isn't that big of a deal. There's a reason that more women perform oral than not.
TrueTalkTV 8 months ago
@TrueTalkTV Would you like to blow yourself? If so, then you CAN expect someone to go down on you as well.
girlgamer1984 8 months ago
@mellamobrittney I just realized I never replied to this. So I will now: Piss doesn't leak from a guy's neck, you're right. However, piss doesn't come from a guy's dick either UNLESS HE'S PISSING! Therefore, during oral, you don't have to worry about that. (So much for that excuse.)
TrueTalkTV 8 months ago
Hmm. Getting inside the head (no pun intended) of women... Well, my sister says she doesn't like to do it because she doesn't want semen/sperm in her mouth (to put it bluntly). There are some guys who even suggest that the woman drink it. My sister just finds it disgusting. Now whether she does it at times to please her man...I don't know.
Foergang 2 years ago
That's easy to AVOID, though. She should just stop before he cums, or not let it enter her mouth when he DOES.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
big L nice choice friend
gittygittygoo1012 3 years ago
Giving a girl a tongue was kinky and arousing, but it tasted horrible. Disclaim me as a brother, but like you said, keep it real.
Ghettoflame1 3 years ago
Honestly dog, I avoid oral sex because a lot of women use it as an alternative to intercourse when they're not committed. Brothers do it too. I have high regards as to where I put my mouth, and a genital ain't the place.
I've done it and received it. My ex's bj felt good, but... it didn't seem intimate to me. Also, it seemed like it wasn't about exchange, but rather, a recipient experience. It felt good, but my mentality didn't follow.
Ghettoflame1 3 years ago 5
Exactly. and I take back the fact that I would have oral sex with my husband. If he is my husband, why even worry about an alternative when we can have unprotected sex?
twistedbabydoll 2 years ago
Well, do what you do.
Ghettoflame1 2 years ago
What's with the cynical replies. I'm on your side! Can you comprehend? O_o
twistedbabydoll 2 years ago
I understood this time! LOL! I was being neutral, actually.
Ghettoflame1 2 years ago
Why, you ask? (@ babydoll) Simple. It adds variety. Not unprotected intercourse and "ONLY" that EVERY SINGLE TIME lol. Toss in some oral sex and spice it up every once in a while.
TrueTalkTV 2 years ago
LOL yes!
Smokey137 3 years ago
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8732youngjeezy09 3 years ago
Big l in the back
but yeah women love receiving but not giving...
falconpierce 3 years ago
lol, Yeah @ Big L. I knew a couple heads would peep that.
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
Couple?! You got more than a couple.
TSquared2001 3 years ago
I dont mind giving head...
hehe. especially with some flavored lube and such ... :)
just saying ....
LOL
8======D
hammybaby13 3 years ago
lol, I had a chick use some of that shit on me (flavored lube, edible oil or whatever) That was a fun night.
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
LOL, Thats what Im talking about!! :)
hammybaby13 3 years ago
Damn scallywag.
twistedbabydoll 2 years ago
Omg!
I'm speechless (lol).
Gabbycrts 3 years ago
lol, aww man. The ONE WOMAN who responds is speechless lol That sucks.
Why are u speechless, though? The video, or the other comments?
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
Oh, I was speechless because I was laughing so hard at this video. I did't expect to run up on this. Anyway, are you going to have a good Christmas?
Gabbycrts 3 years ago
lol, must've SHOCKED you.
But yeah, X-Mas will hopefully be good. You know, at 28, you don't get as many presents as you would if you were still a KID lol. I'll manage, though. I'm just happy to be alive. lol
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
TrueTalk.. yo girl not giving U head dawg?
In my opinion it all depends how the female was raised, who inspires them, and who they look up to as role model. For most it comes down to inexperience, and you know a majority of women are shy when it comes to sex talk. The bottom line is that you need a freak! Not a conservative chic... Just not gonna work lol.
ecstyles411 3 years ago
lmao, nah. head is a REQUIREMENT for all my women. so i wouldnt date a girl who wouldnt do it. I HAVE run INTO some who don't, tho. Only 2 or 3 in LIFE, but still there ARE some. this vid is just directed toward those women.
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
Man I dated a girl who was actually more into sucking on my toes than anything else. I have to admit...that shit felt GOOD! lol
ecstyles411 3 years ago
lol, Maaan I had that shit done for the FIRST TIME back in OCTOBER. First time I ever had a chick suck my toes and I didn't even wanna fuck her that night lol.
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
Why U didnt wanna fuck her? U must have some messed up feet. I take good care of mine, and had no problem kissing her afterwards. I look forward to having that shit done everytime we make love now lol
ecstyles411 3 years ago
lmao, fool that aint WHY I didnt fuck her. She'd pissed me off that day, so I knew b4 I even HAD her suck my toes (and every OTHER part of me) that I wasn't givin her no dick. It ain't like I NEVER fucked her though lol.
Plus I think your situation's different. This wasn't my woman. So there was no "lovemaking"
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
lmao How could U have a girl suck any part of yo body, and not get aroused enough to wanna Fuck? I dont give a rats ass if the chic pissed me off, because if she manage get me excited below the belt...its going DOWN!
ecstyles411 3 years ago
Oh I DID get aroused. But it was HER who was BEGGIN for it, which made it even BETTER. It got to the point where I teased the FUCK out of her, (even stuck the HEAD in) then pulled out, stroked til I busted on her stomach and said "OK, let's go get somethin to eat." lol.
Now, you might say "FUCK THAT!" But it worked for me, because it accomplished 2 things: I got a nut (not the BEST, but I GOT one) AND she had to settle for not fuckin me.
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
Damn...this chic must of looked like Wesley Snipes from To wong foo. LOL@let's go get somthing to to eat. Lucky she didnt scratch your car with a key. U know how crazy these women can get.
ecstyles411 3 years ago
LMAOOOO @ Wesley Snipes. Nah. I just don't let bitches/pussy control me. They already think they can control most niggas with their pussy ANYWAY. So it kinda fucks their head up when they CAN'T. I'll fuck you when *I* want to. Feel me? That's my attitude.
Like this one chick I used to LOVE fuckin a few yrs back started askin again just recently. But I was nonchalant about it cuz I wasn't pressed. After askin several times, she gave up like "fuck you then". So that kinda backfired lol
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
Yea Never let a woman control you PERIOD!! They already have us opening doors and shit, like they handicap or somthing. But U gotta be careful, cuz most girls would spread rumors that U are GAY if you reject the pussy. Even though i'm bisexual, and dont give a fuck. However alot of stra8 guys are afraid to be categorized with "gay" so they are much easier for woman to control. LOL
ecstyles411 3 years ago
Well I'm straight, and I'm NOT lettin a chick control ME. Save that for those OTHER jokers. lol
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
Yuck!!!!
Flames00809 2 years ago
I agree homie... these women nowadays are selfish and stuck up when it comes to givin head... this is some real talk
Dsick757 3 years ago
I will say that luckily, I haven't run into many who won't go down. Most of them do. But there ARE still a FEW who are on that BULLSHIT. This is for them.
TrueTalkTV 3 years ago
1st
baielynadorj 3 years ago