NOT EVERY MAN CHEATS... Some of us can stay at our commitment mall, thank you very much. I don't think that "she will never know", that's how some end up cheating, I simply think " I love her, I don't need these other broads...." So instead of hanging at the clubs, I go lift weights at the gym or chill at the crib. NO LIE. ( and I have women come at me OFTEN, so its NOT about options...)
never saw this one i love it!!!!! i'm actually avoiding a long distance relationship right now for this very reason.... so there's an understanding...crazy
very well spoken, you tackled the issue from both sides...im in one now n i agree with everything he says...but i think u should have addressed that it depends on the type of people involved as to what the outcome will be
OK, that was the perfect analogy! So, so funny, sad, but WOW! Are brothas mad at you for giving out all this secret info? Your videos are a goldmine. Better than Oprah and Tyra! Ha! Keep up the good work, brotha! LMAO!
Omg i think this is addressed to the MAJORITE of long distance relationships dat dont wuk, cause some lond distance relationship do work! If there's communication and honesty (especially me im a very honest person, i cant stand people lying to me so dats how i am) things will work out fine
" If there's communication and honesty (especially me im a very honest person, i cant stand people lying to me so dats how i am) things will work out fine"
Signed
I was in a long distance relationship, myself.
But, it didn't work out because my girl wasn't completely honest and wasn't open with me. I tried to be as honest as possible and communicate from jumpstreet, but it takes two to tango.
ok so i am in a long distance relatioonship with a nice looking woman so what your say is i cant trust her to stay faitful to me till we do meet and its been almost a 2 years now i know women have needs but why do the whole seeing each other process got to be on me?
because ignorant guys make a bad name for all the good ones and its such a vast majority of ignorant guys the good guys get antagonized and left out so majority of people labl guys as ignorant douchebags dats y i got the same problem. god bless
Have a open relationship until ya'll get to an understanding of being together in one place. And that will probably pop some trust issues too but overall have safe sex either way.
i am in a long term relationship with my partner. we have been together for almost four years and this past year i have been away for college. he works for the airlines, came up a few times, and we've never had any big problems, even being away. so, let me know! same shit goes? he;s probably sexing someone else? and if he is (and i truly don't care if he was, if i knew) how can we work it out without messing up our relationship?
Have a open relationship until ya'll get to an understanding of being together in one place. And that will probably pop some trust issues too but overall have safe sex either way.
lol...you were on point and very informative. I also like your creativness. I've been wanting a guy friend that will teach me how a man think. This so cool!
well i believe that the base of a relationship is trust even though you must earn it not love, and i'm not sue that i'm looking for so much as companionship i think i'm looking for love because i dont want to be someones companion that i'm not in love with because everything they do would most lkily irritate me and about the analogyi would continue to shop at the first mall because i would be acostomed to the sales people that work their and the enviroment
Sex (in my opinion) is not that important... If he loves her then he can only be with her in that way. If she believes in him then I give him the benefit of the dout and I wish their relationship the best... You did a lot of messed up crap in your youth and that's why you don't have that kind of faith in other men...
You have enlightened me. I can't believe the problem was so simple, yet I have spent the last few months pulling my hair out over this! I have re-written your argument against LDR's in the form of a syllogism. See ABOVE!
If a man cheats on you because u r in a long distance relationship because he sees a good looking women then he DONT LOVE U.. I dont believe that B.S. So u claim MEN ARE SUPPOSE TO CHEAT..I guess that means WOMEN Are supposed wo whine, bitch and complain..and if a MAN calls himself a MAN he should be MAN ENOUGH TO tell u how he feels and LEAVE instead of cheat like a COWARD..
DONT LISTEN TO HIM..people that think everybody cheats is either PEOPLE THAT ARE CHEATERS..or women who always messing with somebodys man and never been anyones girl...or men who are just dogs and think everyone is like them
In no way am I saying a L.D. relationship can't work, what I am saying is that a L.D. relationship cannot work if we do not accept the realities of human nature. And in most cases a lack of consistent companionship can open the door to cheating. So the point is, b4 engaging in a L.D. relationship or while engaging in one, make sure you and your partner have the tough conversations to ensure that the relationship can last long enough to make it back to the same zip code.
ROFLMAO - GurlTalkk - "...temper the insecurity of his woman." Why didn't you just quote Aretha before you started this segment, Temple. LET ME PUT YOU UP ON GAME!
they can work under the "right" circumstances. for example, if the two ppl were together and one went away for school. that can work because of the foundation that was established before they left. thats just one scenario but like i said. it depends on the situation.
raxxie, i want to agree with you luv. i wish i could sit here and tell you that even in the most pristine of situations a man would not be tempted to cheat. but the honest truth is this, men are visual creatures. they were created to be just that. it is not in the best interest of a healthy relationship for a woman to believe that after a prolonged period of time, the long distance man will not drift, wander, or seek other interests even if he means well.
I'm not saying all men cheat. I'm saying it goes against the very nature of a man standing in the middle of a candy shop to be told that he has to wait 60 days when his "milk duds" come to visit before he can taste the sweets. For the analogy impaired: you're 300 miles away; another dime is 3 miles away; the pressure is great... too great for some. Bet on Clark Kent rather than Superman. Have realistic expectations and you won't be disappointed.
No Like how he compared the mega mall to a relationship...yeah I go away to school and of course thereis attractive men there but thats not enough for me to cheat..and my boyfriend never finding out about it has nothing to do with not cheating on him..I dont cheat because 1. I fear AIDS 2. I cant break his heart 3. the sex is good 4. its just not in my nature no matter what hes doing
Right. But sweetie, we're not talking about you (or any other female for that matter). This topic and this video are about the way that MEN think. And if you have not grasped the revelation that men and women not only think differently, but act differently, I suggest you do some reading on the subject matter. 1 luv.
okay I didnt say the topic was about me. I was just making a statement and I know I am entitled to. And I know men and women think differently..but YOU OR ANYBODY else cant say that all men may think this way all men DONT think the same..and neither do women..You havent met every man. I know men think differently im not 12 yrs old or stupid..
Diva, U R entitled to every pea-brained opinion you'd like to have, just like ur L.D. boyfriend is entitled to screw anyone he wants locally. STOP MAKING THIS PERSONAL. This is not about ur relationship, or is it? If ur so secure in ur 4 year seemingly monogamous relationship (that began at 19?) then be secure and get the heck off the message board with this B.S. Nobody said "ALL". I've got 13 years on you, baby & I'm mature enuff to stay away from generalizations. U should learn 2 do the same.
wait...i do believe in long distance on one condition. if the person has established a foundation i.e. has been friends for longer than a yr /really know each other. then i'd say go for it. Not that it would be easy, but at least there is some established trust. it could work. I know of 2 ppl that long distance relationships did work for, but it's rare and it takes a lot of energy but it's feasible.
why do you have to give that whack senario for women and a shopping mall. A Mall isnt a living, breathing, feeling, emotional, organism, that you see everyday,touch, live with, go on vacation, marry, or have children with...:( Please
"men date for companionship" it's so true. i don't believe in long distance, attempted it once, never again! unless he's ballin and can meet me on the weekends or something i'm keeping it moving playa
and I loved the way you explained it with the mega mall...yes I would definately check it out...haha discount nigga discount!
But...
I have a question...
Can U really Feel like you love someone sooooo much without even meeting them? I used to not even believe in love at 1st sight...but I am kinda severly emotionally attached to SOMEONE! and I always wonder how did this happen??!!
It feels great so I am not complaining...Just wondering!!!
im a long term realtionship myself but he dont live that far long distance never worked out for me i have to agree though but not just companionship though
At the very beginning we committed to be honest and upfront with each other about our feelings as well as communicate freely on our minds. So far, I've held up my end of that agreement. That's the important part.
ALL do respect mr. but um i'm in a long distance relationship and we doin pretty good and i say if one of us wanted to cheat we could do it no matter what the distance between us
and thats real i don't have time for no extras i have a lot on my plate and so does he but hey its different things for different people
Hey I have to agree long distance relationships SUCK and are not real, they are only in the heart of the female on the other end, NOT THE DUDE IN THE OTHER TOWN. LOL!
Hi Temple. I wanted to tell you that I really enjoyed the way you put this video together. I also the rhythm of your speech/flow of the topic. I rarely subscribe when people send me videos, but you got me with this one. So subscribed! :D
YOU comapre a mall to a relationship..i think people that cheat say things like Pooobaihr23..JUST BECAUSE U R A CHEATER that dont mean everybody IS..I'm not cheating on my man for some LIL boy who just want to stick his miniture penis in me and tell the world..WHAT FUCK sense does that make...NOT EVERYBODY OUT HERE IS STUPID
R U SERIOUS..Me and my boyfriend been thogethr for 4 yrs thats bs..I DONT CHEAT ON HIM..AND cant nobody tell me i do..JUst becuase some people cheat that dont mean WOMEN DO
I think it really depends on the long-distanceness of the relationship. I'm in a long distance relationship right now, but I live close enough to see my girlfriend ever couple of weeks, including times when we spend an entire week together. We also spend four months together in during the summers. We're also going to be moving in together in about a year.
Even if she would never find out, I wouldn't cheat on her, and I can trust her to do the same. Even is she never knew, I would know about it.
Its crazy to know that some chicks believe that if the guy lives very long distances from them, that he is still going to be faithful. I never believed things like that. NEVER... hahaha.. crazy
Yeh.... naw. I don't actually expect people in long distance relationships to remain faithful to each other, because of that companionship issue. I understood already that companionship comes before love. I see plenty LD couples "taking breaks" to avoid technical cheating...And I think that's really it more than any other issue they claim to be upset about. It's the companionship. But some people will straight up step into the mega mall, for real.
LMFAO!!!....Keeping it "Gully" Do you REALLY think that Any relationship as EVER existed purely on trust....HELL NAW!!!....but you do make such valid points:) Love it!!
Yes...ouch is the word of the day. You make me wanna come through this screen and smack you silly because some of the things you say hurt, but it's real talk though...that's why we love you. The Mega Mall analogy got me thinking though.
so temple are you saying that when in a long distance loving relationship because the companionship is not there, one should allow or except infidelity due to the love being greater than some "bullshit" talk to me!
I am not saying one should allow or accept anything at least not in this video. :) What I am saying however is that in a L.D. Relationship if the couple isn't brutally honest & realistic about both their physical & emotional needs during their relationship, then infidelty may become an issue because the relationship is built upon a foundation of unrealistic bullshit rather than the truth of life & human nature. By the way, I did receive ur email, so look out 4 mine soon.
Great video and the mall scenario was interesting. I feel that LDR are not impossible but not everyone are meant to be in one. I am currently in one and it has made our relationship stronger. I feel like this, if you can maintain a relationship with distance, you can withstand anything.
Yo the Mega Mall theory had me weak!LOL I was like this dude is so funny and truthful at the same time. I mean..ok you cant compare the mall to a man or woman for that matter but I have to admit...very good concept.
im all late but i have been looking at your channel my girl jia introduced you to me. your so funny i love it you really make people think. and the thing i love most is YOUR A MAN thank you for giving your opinion
But the truth had been spoken..I love the mall analogy..Really hit home for me..lol..It's REALLy does make some KIND of SENSE when you put it that way..
I had to go get my boyfriend and forced him to watch the beginning of this with the bump and grind booty dance. He unfortunately does not have my sense of humor, so he's standing there and I'm about to piss down my leg from laughing so hard.
You can wrap it in foil and superglue it between her butt cheeks, but most women won't just take your word that it IS what it IS unless/until they reach back there with their own hand, and see for themselves.
I just got out of a long distance what ever you wanna call it cause it wasn't a true relationship. So I got this ice box where my heart used to be right now.
I like the way you addressed the issue and kept a neutral position at all times. No definite answers to the situation. Huh? I saw that. There is no definite answer to it. Both parties have to face the reality of it. If they want to stay together, they should trust each other enought to simply not question one another. That's my opinion. :)
Concerning long distance relationships, I wouldn't say that they are unrealistic or impossible to maintain. HARD, but not impossible. A guy has to use his brain. He must be modest with himself and know his limitations. It can work if the guy is careful not to put himself in the wrong predicaments.
For example, he must avoid areas that'll bring back the nostalgia of when he was probably gettin it(nightclubs,bars,ESPECIALLY strip clubs,,,a lot of late night scenes--"The Freaks come out at night, the Freaks come out at night!"),and not have close friends of the opposite sex who are not related to him. I don't think it's practical to have close girl friends when a guy is in a relationship with his special girl.
More clarity on strip clubs--I'm not implying that the guy was getting it there, rather, such places would probably encourage him to "want to" have sex. In conclusion, the long distance thing isn't for everybody, especially those who cannot bear sleeping alone for extended periods of time. My advice to couples who do this is keep yourself so busy that you'll be too tired for any sex at the end of the day, AND don't do it for long!
A shopping mall right. I hardly ever go to a shopping mall, way too busy and too tempting to buy things I don't need and come home without the things do I need. If there is however a new shopping mall in town, I'll make sure I got enough money, a 'free' purse so to speak. If not, I'll pass it by blindfolded, probably bang my head into a lamppost, get knocked out and have to go home. So either new shopping mall or a lamppost, I loose on both accounts.
Man HELLLLLLLLL NAW! Im shoppin at the mega mall. Real talk man, We know when we bein played, we be actin dumb because it hurts less. Thas where u get the "I aint gon accuse him unless I see it wit my own eyes." We aint dummies, this goes back to your "women holding on to uncommitted men" video. Most women pass the faithful guy by and break their necks to get to the MAN WHORES. Its our own faults sometimes for making bad choices when we know better.
Im a youtuber wit no camera and no mic. I found ur channel watchin the tag of love responses. Im a young married mother of two who is wise beyond her years(so I like to think). I enjoy your videos very much and am happy to comment where I feel I can offer insight! 1Luv 2u2
makes perfect sense to me. i wouldnt be able to be interested in anyone that i just talk to the phone or don't see when there are men all around me...If I was into someone and they had to leave then we'd just have to call it quits. I'm the type that if you're mine you have to be the person i associate with the most so I don't stray...cuz i will stray...=/
the love is important but trust and clear understanding of what each person expects from the relationship are essential BUT long distance relationships do work-that's a whole nother episode though :0)
ok well.. i like the clip but on the one note... if that mall you will comfort in does not have that many people comin in and out... then they build a mega mall that everyone and they grandma go to... and shop in which on would YOU want to go into the mall that everyone in and touchin everything.. or the mall no onereally go to but got good deals ;)
Your so on the money slimmy "Temple". I was in a long distance relationship (2yrs) Things were cool for the first year, but mama didn't raise no fool. When he started changing things up on me, I knew something was wrong.
We didn't serve "Baby I forgot" at my mall.
We didn't have "Where you been all day" on the shoe racks either. Yep, he was across the street at the other mall.
luv the video it funny as hell but also made me think seriously about my relationship thank you for the invite and i am definatly subscribing keep them comin
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cmuzita 2 years ago
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dbp1991 2 years ago
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MsWomba 2 years ago
NOT EVERY MAN CHEATS... Some of us can stay at our commitment mall, thank you very much. I don't think that "she will never know", that's how some end up cheating, I simply think " I love her, I don't need these other broads...." So instead of hanging at the clubs, I go lift weights at the gym or chill at the crib. NO LIE. ( and I have women come at me OFTEN, so its NOT about options...)
whatkindaboi 2 years ago
never saw this one i love it!!!!! i'm actually avoiding a long distance relationship right now for this very reason.... so there's an understanding...crazy
QueenCleopatra0606 2 years ago
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Dawg u Halarious! But dont tell the females every damn thing, you killing us dawg!
Naw keep doing ya thing.
pcarlton3 2 years ago 5
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Knottyboytsir 3 years ago
Yo I love this Nigga..lmao
Goddess19602 3 years ago
very well spoken, you tackled the issue from both sides...im in one now n i agree with everything he says...but i think u should have addressed that it depends on the type of people involved as to what the outcome will be
cocoacute 3 years ago
that was some real stuff.
YOU GOTTA LOVE THIS GUY!
chareeseN 3 years ago 4
OK, that was the perfect analogy! So, so funny, sad, but WOW! Are brothas mad at you for giving out all this secret info? Your videos are a goldmine. Better than Oprah and Tyra! Ha! Keep up the good work, brotha! LMAO!
nurseyfay 3 years ago 5
Omg i think this is addressed to the MAJORITE of long distance relationships dat dont wuk, cause some lond distance relationship do work! If there's communication and honesty (especially me im a very honest person, i cant stand people lying to me so dats how i am) things will work out fine
SherilynRichards 3 years ago
" If there's communication and honesty (especially me im a very honest person, i cant stand people lying to me so dats how i am) things will work out fine"
Signed
I was in a long distance relationship, myself.
But, it didn't work out because my girl wasn't completely honest and wasn't open with me. I tried to be as honest as possible and communicate from jumpstreet, but it takes two to tango.
Oh well, open relationships only ever since.
sc0pl355 3 years ago
lmao!!
blacklily624 3 years ago 4
ok so i am in a long distance relatioonship with a nice looking woman so what your say is i cant trust her to stay faitful to me till we do meet and its been almost a 2 years now i know women have needs but why do the whole seeing each other process got to be on me?
yahmorah 3 years ago
because ignorant guys make a bad name for all the good ones and its such a vast majority of ignorant guys the good guys get antagonized and left out so majority of people labl guys as ignorant douchebags dats y i got the same problem. god bless
pidaman72 3 years ago 2
The booty roll was slightly disturbing lol. But i love your vids.
megoingdumb 3 years ago
hey syshady2000,
Have a open relationship until ya'll get to an understanding of being together in one place. And that will probably pop some trust issues too but overall have safe sex either way.
kae186h 3 years ago
i am in a long term relationship with my partner. we have been together for almost four years and this past year i have been away for college. he works for the airlines, came up a few times, and we've never had any big problems, even being away. so, let me know! same shit goes? he;s probably sexing someone else? and if he is (and i truly don't care if he was, if i knew) how can we work it out without messing up our relationship?
sydshady2000 3 years ago
Hey syshady2000,
Have a open relationship until ya'll get to an understanding of being together in one place. And that will probably pop some trust issues too but overall have safe sex either way.
kae186h 3 years ago
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QWILDER 3 years ago
thanks for the slang translations temple..
kinda embarrassing that as a black female,
i STILL don't understand half of the things you say ha.
but i still love the show :)
justcallmeGIA 3 years ago
lol...you were on point and very informative. I also like your creativness. I've been wanting a guy friend that will teach me how a man think. This so cool!
indeanfeather 3 years ago
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iGETMONEY91 3 years ago 2
well i believe that the base of a relationship is trust even though you must earn it not love, and i'm not sue that i'm looking for so much as companionship i think i'm looking for love because i dont want to be someones companion that i'm not in love with because everything they do would most lkily irritate me and about the analogyi would continue to shop at the first mall because i would be acostomed to the sales people that work their and the enviroment
CharSheKirbyissofly 3 years ago
i liked ur video
i thought that was some real shit
bA6yCh0ppA 3 years ago
Sex (in my opinion) is not that important... If he loves her then he can only be with her in that way. If she believes in him then I give him the benefit of the dout and I wish their relationship the best... You did a lot of messed up crap in your youth and that's why you don't have that kind of faith in other men...
hollyhollyrose 3 years ago
i love this
11432 3 years ago
But people aren't mega malls boo boo....
Mangobaby1 3 years ago 2
U need spelling 101, that was a great vid, u r 2 funny.
lovablelibra 3 years ago
im ma start tunnin in..lol..u funny but everythin u said is true
tenika17 3 years ago
Why LDR's are Inherently Defective
P1 People engage in relationships not for love but mainly for companionship.
(C1) Hence relationships are based on a need for companionship
P2 Long Distance Relationships, by virtue of their nature, hinders/prevents the act and/or development of companionship.
(C2) Therefore, Long Distance Relationships are inherently defective. (From C1 and P2)
LovelyBeanz 3 years ago
You have enlightened me. I can't believe the problem was so simple, yet I have spent the last few months pulling my hair out over this! I have re-written your argument against LDR's in the form of a syllogism. See ABOVE!
LovelyBeanz 3 years ago
If a man cheats on you because u r in a long distance relationship because he sees a good looking women then he DONT LOVE U.. I dont believe that B.S. So u claim MEN ARE SUPPOSE TO CHEAT..I guess that means WOMEN Are supposed wo whine, bitch and complain..and if a MAN calls himself a MAN he should be MAN ENOUGH TO tell u how he feels and LEAVE instead of cheat like a COWARD..
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
Wow... so you're saying a long distance relationship can't work?
jazzyaries06 3 years ago
DONT LISTEN TO HIM..people that think everybody cheats is either PEOPLE THAT ARE CHEATERS..or women who always messing with somebodys man and never been anyones girl...or men who are just dogs and think everyone is like them
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
In no way am I saying a L.D. relationship can't work, what I am saying is that a L.D. relationship cannot work if we do not accept the realities of human nature. And in most cases a lack of consistent companionship can open the door to cheating. So the point is, b4 engaging in a L.D. relationship or while engaging in one, make sure you and your partner have the tough conversations to ensure that the relationship can last long enough to make it back to the same zip code.
GurlTalkkTV 3 years ago
PEOPPLE THAT THINK EVERYONE WILL CHEAT IS people that CHEAT..have been cheated on, or was the mistress on the side lmfao
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
Discount bitch Discount LMAO
Jsand007 3 years ago
whose = who's... just sayin
aph401 3 years ago
I totally agree... hehehe
oliversmomma84 3 years ago
OMG! lo0ol...ppl can work out thier long distance relationship really good but some cant.. u know y... :(
XxMaiLuvHimxX 3 years ago
ROFLMAO - GurlTalkk - "...temper the insecurity of his woman." Why didn't you just quote Aretha before you started this segment, Temple. LET ME PUT YOU UP ON GAME!
realtalent 3 years ago
they can work under the "right" circumstances. for example, if the two ppl were together and one went away for school. that can work because of the foundation that was established before they left. thats just one scenario but like i said. it depends on the situation.
raxxie 3 years ago
raxxie, i want to agree with you luv. i wish i could sit here and tell you that even in the most pristine of situations a man would not be tempted to cheat. but the honest truth is this, men are visual creatures. they were created to be just that. it is not in the best interest of a healthy relationship for a woman to believe that after a prolonged period of time, the long distance man will not drift, wander, or seek other interests even if he means well.
realtalent 3 years ago
so u saying all men cheat?
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
I'm not saying all men cheat. I'm saying it goes against the very nature of a man standing in the middle of a candy shop to be told that he has to wait 60 days when his "milk duds" come to visit before he can taste the sweets. For the analogy impaired: you're 300 miles away; another dime is 3 miles away; the pressure is great... too great for some. Bet on Clark Kent rather than Superman. Have realistic expectations and you won't be disappointed.
realtalent 3 years ago
YEAH I had a problem with that analogy too..with the mall that was stupid
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
You had a problem with what analogy? The candy store?
realtalent 3 years ago
No Like how he compared the mega mall to a relationship...yeah I go away to school and of course thereis attractive men there but thats not enough for me to cheat..and my boyfriend never finding out about it has nothing to do with not cheating on him..I dont cheat because 1. I fear AIDS 2. I cant break his heart 3. the sex is good 4. its just not in my nature no matter what hes doing
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
Right. But sweetie, we're not talking about you (or any other female for that matter). This topic and this video are about the way that MEN think. And if you have not grasped the revelation that men and women not only think differently, but act differently, I suggest you do some reading on the subject matter. 1 luv.
realtalent 3 years ago
okay I didnt say the topic was about me. I was just making a statement and I know I am entitled to. And I know men and women think differently..but YOU OR ANYBODY else cant say that all men may think this way all men DONT think the same..and neither do women..You havent met every man. I know men think differently im not 12 yrs old or stupid..
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
Diva, U R entitled to every pea-brained opinion you'd like to have, just like ur L.D. boyfriend is entitled to screw anyone he wants locally. STOP MAKING THIS PERSONAL. This is not about ur relationship, or is it? If ur so secure in ur 4 year seemingly monogamous relationship (that began at 19?) then be secure and get the heck off the message board with this B.S. Nobody said "ALL". I've got 13 years on you, baby & I'm mature enuff to stay away from generalizations. U should learn 2 do the same.
realtalent 3 years ago
yup thats how my relationship is
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
wait...i do believe in long distance on one condition. if the person has established a foundation i.e. has been friends for longer than a yr /really know each other. then i'd say go for it. Not that it would be easy, but at least there is some established trust. it could work. I know of 2 ppl that long distance relationships did work for, but it's rare and it takes a lot of energy but it's feasible.
violet787 3 years ago
That was great! :)
roboprimus 3 years ago
why do you have to give that whack senario for women and a shopping mall. A Mall isnt a living, breathing, feeling, emotional, organism, that you see everyday,touch, live with, go on vacation, marry, or have children with...:( Please
roboprimus 3 years ago 2
i think ur being a little to literal. besides i think we know that malls cant think or breathe. last time i checked u shop in them dont u..lol
ryukamisan777 3 years ago
please Temple! whether you spell it Nigger or Nigga it has the same meaning. Promoting being a 'Playa'...:(
roboprimus 3 years ago
"men date for companionship" it's so true. i don't believe in long distance, attempted it once, never again! unless he's ballin and can meet me on the weekends or something i'm keeping it moving playa
violet787 3 years ago
I agreeeeeee with everything you said...
and I loved the way you explained it with the mega mall...yes I would definately check it out...haha discount nigga discount!
But...
I have a question...
Can U really Feel like you love someone sooooo much without even meeting them? I used to not even believe in love at 1st sight...but I am kinda severly emotionally attached to SOMEONE! and I always wonder how did this happen??!!
It feels great so I am not complaining...Just wondering!!!
nano4eva 3 years ago
lol :)
Nefitara 3 years ago
lol@ discount bitch discount!
that was funny and good! you made a lot of valid points, especially at the end.
I enjoyed watching.
artistiik 3 years ago
That was funny and interesting..lol
kissey19 3 years ago
True true true...
buttaluv10 3 years ago
i don't get it, was it suppose to be inspiring? Or a comedy?
tiffane973 3 years ago
Loved it = ]
BluestarMRC 3 years ago
hell no!!! lol
helen26686 3 years ago
lmao i was laughin so hard i was crying lol
helen26686 3 years ago
this is a good video
shawtytite334 3 years ago
nname of song at beginning ?
thereemix 3 years ago
im a long term realtionship myself but he dont live that far long distance never worked out for me i have to agree though but not just companionship though
xxxsweetladyxxx 3 years ago
I'm in a long distance relationship.
At the very beginning we committed to be honest and upfront with each other about our feelings as well as communicate freely on our minds. So far, I've held up my end of that agreement. That's the important part.
n0sc0p35 3 years ago
Ok
i was feelin that...u should def. have a professional job with this show...
Yashiema 3 years ago
LOVE IT! Awesome! great advice, i'm sending this to my boyfriend now!!
sock69rocker 3 years ago
very funny and enjoying.
Dosaluv 3 years ago
Ty for the invite.Subbed.Rated5* Relationships in general are tricky. But I believe it can be done. Love & Respect.
lilbits 3 years ago
glad to meet you!
judithorloffmd 3 years ago
ALL do respect mr. but um i'm in a long distance relationship and we doin pretty good and i say if one of us wanted to cheat we could do it no matter what the distance between us
and thats real i don't have time for no extras i have a lot on my plate and so does he but hey its different things for different people
1luv
zpitts10 3 years ago
My goodness is the only way you can make a point to woman is by using a mall/shopping analogy? Gee so much for substance...
RenGib123 3 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
nigger. ....you are nothing but out dated farm equipment....you savage negro beast
jungabungaa 3 years ago
ugh.. i hate long distance
but thanks for sending me that message
i subscribed
you're very entertaining! :)
mizzcha 3 years ago
haha this shit nice and enjoying.
Mistrey333 3 years ago 2
very funning opening !
Spinxo 3 years ago 2
i couldnt agree MORE with everything that you said. you truly know what the fuck is UP. im def. amazed. :)
0neinamilli0n 3 years ago
Brilliant.
applemilk1988 3 years ago
thats a awsome VIDEO GREAT I LOVE THE VIDEO KEEP THEM COMMING ,,,,,,,,,,,,, LOVE YA LO!!!!!WHERE U FROM
loitalove7733 3 years ago
You are hilarious...subscribing :-)
ladykpnyc 3 years ago
yOUR FUNNEY!!!
greenly100 3 years ago
Hey I have to agree long distance relationships SUCK and are not real, they are only in the heart of the female on the other end, NOT THE DUDE IN THE OTHER TOWN. LOL!
Crmjohnson 3 years ago
This is simply HILARIOUS!!! I enjoyed it very much!! :-)
TNPATL 3 years ago
boy you crazy
terence20 3 years ago
at wat point in this video did he say anything about women cheating. theres sum either unintellegent or folks wit a guilty concious out there
ryukamisan777 3 years ago
Hi Temple. I wanted to tell you that I really enjoyed the way you put this video together. I also the rhythm of your speech/flow of the topic. I rarely subscribe when people send me videos, but you got me with this one. So subscribed! :D
jenluv37 3 years ago
I needed to hear this from a real man. This is so true Temple C you keep doing what your doing it's sooo good.. Luv ya
gogirldee 3 years ago
Thanks for sending me the video I have subbed and sent friend request.
James
bedoboy 3 years ago
YOU comapre a mall to a relationship..i think people that cheat say things like Pooobaihr23..JUST BECAUSE U R A CHEATER that dont mean everybody IS..I'm not cheating on my man for some LIL boy who just want to stick his miniture penis in me and tell the world..WHAT FUCK sense does that make...NOT EVERYBODY OUT HERE IS STUPID
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
R U SERIOUS..Me and my boyfriend been thogethr for 4 yrs thats bs..I DONT CHEAT ON HIM..AND cant nobody tell me i do..JUst becuase some people cheat that dont mean WOMEN DO
DivaAwwKrazy 3 years ago
i love this vid too, :)
u are a good singer wow:)
helen2U 3 years ago
I think it really depends on the long-distanceness of the relationship. I'm in a long distance relationship right now, but I live close enough to see my girlfriend ever couple of weeks, including times when we spend an entire week together. We also spend four months together in during the summers. We're also going to be moving in together in about a year.
Even if she would never find out, I wouldn't cheat on her, and I can trust her to do the same. Even is she never knew, I would know about it.
Ethoxyethane 3 years ago
Good vid temp.
marcdaddy33 3 years ago
Its crazy to know that some chicks believe that if the guy lives very long distances from them, that he is still going to be faithful. I never believed things like that. NEVER... hahaha.. crazy
Pooobaihr23 3 years ago 2
Yeh.... naw. I don't actually expect people in long distance relationships to remain faithful to each other, because of that companionship issue. I understood already that companionship comes before love. I see plenty LD couples "taking breaks" to avoid technical cheating...And I think that's really it more than any other issue they claim to be upset about. It's the companionship. But some people will straight up step into the mega mall, for real.
ms770 3 years ago
YYYYYYYYOOOOOO I love him. "If the love is true it's not worth losing it over bs" that is so true.
JamaicanGalTisha 3 years ago
discount bitch discount lol
chichi71489 3 years ago
LMFAO!!!....Keeping it "Gully" Do you REALLY think that Any relationship as EVER existed purely on trust....HELL NAW!!!....but you do make such valid points:) Love it!!
iamej1 3 years ago
I think there's a shortage of guys like you around. That's a damn shame.
jazzfreak127 3 years ago
Hey..that was a very nice thing to say so Thank You Very Much.
1Luv
GurlTalkkTV 3 years ago
Yes...ouch is the word of the day. You make me wanna come through this screen and smack you silly because some of the things you say hurt, but it's real talk though...that's why we love you. The Mega Mall analogy got me thinking though.
rss22 3 years ago
i just love you! How are you so damn funny?!?!
sugamama8 3 years ago
Realistically many times long distance is across town. Oops did that sound bitter...
oneblkprincess 3 years ago
so temple are you saying that when in a long distance loving relationship because the companionship is not there, one should allow or except infidelity due to the love being greater than some "bullshit" talk to me!
goldengoodas 3 years ago
Hey Luv,
I am not saying one should allow or accept anything at least not in this video. :) What I am saying however is that in a L.D. Relationship if the couple isn't brutally honest & realistic about both their physical & emotional needs during their relationship, then infidelty may become an issue because the relationship is built upon a foundation of unrealistic bullshit rather than the truth of life & human nature. By the way, I did receive ur email, so look out 4 mine soon.
1Luv
GurlTalkkTV 3 years ago
thanks babe!
goldengoodas 3 years ago
man i've seen this vid soo many times, no lie!!
i love this guy makes a lot of sense
28silverdale 3 years ago
DAM the maga mall analogy is realllllly good.
Xaeravoq 3 years ago
Great video and the mall scenario was interesting. I feel that LDR are not impossible but not everyone are meant to be in one. I am currently in one and it has made our relationship stronger. I feel like this, if you can maintain a relationship with distance, you can withstand anything.
tinkatoya 3 years ago
I love this video!!
glamaddictdotnet 3 years ago
Yo the Mega Mall theory had me weak!LOL I was like this dude is so funny and truthful at the same time. I mean..ok you cant compare the mall to a man or woman for that matter but I have to admit...very good concept.
Spread Love
Later
daluvofmylife75 3 years ago
Ouch...
shaylaarielle 3 years ago
Ouch...
shaylaarielle 3 years ago
im all late but i have been looking at your channel my girl jia introduced you to me. your so funny i love it you really make people think. and the thing i love most is YOUR A MAN thank you for giving your opinion
kittenblack 3 years ago
lol...i need to definitely keep up with this channel!
SugaStormBabi 3 years ago
i'm sorry Temple but nobody is compelled to think with his dick
freekeezeekee 3 years ago
well since you put it like that...ok
eyz73 3 years ago
Oh my...I just got my feelings hurt. Damn, I got some reflectin to do.
Thanks for keepin it real.
nolagirl06 4 years ago
LOLOLhahhahahaLOL...You are a fool..
But the truth had been spoken..I love the mall analogy..Really hit home for me..lol..It's REALLy does make some KIND of SENSE when you put it that way..
xquizit448 4 years ago
you have multiple personalities but give good advice lol
daydreamingisfun 4 years ago
I LOVED IT!!! There were some parts that were disappointing to a woman (the shopping mall scenario), but the overall message was pretty good.
LittleMsLori 4 years ago
Aye,man! That's some REAL shit! I never thought about it like that!
AshleyIzDaName 4 years ago
You're funny and real, I like:) Keep the vid coming.
itsurgirl2 4 years ago
damn damn damn....if only i had this advice 2 years ago!!! thanks♥
natashaYM 4 years ago
I had to go get my boyfriend and forced him to watch the beginning of this with the bump and grind booty dance. He unfortunately does not have my sense of humor, so he's standing there and I'm about to piss down my leg from laughing so hard.
BigxButtxWendy 4 years ago
You are ONE funny guy who should seriously be getting paid to make these. Someone stick this guy on tv already.
BigxButtxWendy 4 years ago
I think I've grown a~DICK~
Ted to these damn videos.
You can wrap it in foil and superglue it between her butt cheeks, but most women won't just take your word that it IS what it IS unless/until they reach back there with their own hand, and see for themselves.
BigxButtxWendy 4 years ago
Honestely I beleive you should be a Youtube Partner lol
iam4evermute 4 years ago 2
I just got out of a long distance what ever you wanna call it cause it wasn't a true relationship. So I got this ice box where my heart used to be right now.
dilliot2k 4 years ago
you are a funny guy that is for sure. cool vid 5/5...
pinklisa 4 years ago
lol that was great! I for one, appreciate the translation! I didn't even realize I was slang impaired until now! lol
TidderSisters 4 years ago
I like the way you addressed the issue and kept a neutral position at all times. No definite answers to the situation. Huh? I saw that. There is no definite answer to it. Both parties have to face the reality of it. If they want to stay together, they should trust each other enought to simply not question one another. That's my opinion. :)
LUVNHAPINESS 4 years ago
this was good. your funny as hell
nyokalover2 4 years ago
roflmfao@ "discount bitch discount"
alexciaramirez05 4 years ago
That's a 5 star intro
ladygc419 4 years ago
You really liked the R. Kelly Music didn't you. lol
But thanks Luv, I had to dig deep to come up with that one :)
GurlTalkkTV 4 years ago
That was an unfair and aweful analogy; (rolling my eyes and mumbling) 'why he have to mention a discount...lol.
captivatejoy 4 years ago 2
GOTCHA!!!! LOL
GurlTalkkTV 4 years ago
Concerning long distance relationships, I wouldn't say that they are unrealistic or impossible to maintain. HARD, but not impossible. A guy has to use his brain. He must be modest with himself and know his limitations. It can work if the guy is careful not to put himself in the wrong predicaments.
jemidar 4 years ago
For example, he must avoid areas that'll bring back the nostalgia of when he was probably gettin it(nightclubs,bars,ESPECIALLY strip clubs,,,a lot of late night scenes--"The Freaks come out at night, the Freaks come out at night!"),and not have close friends of the opposite sex who are not related to him. I don't think it's practical to have close girl friends when a guy is in a relationship with his special girl.
jemidar 4 years ago
More clarity on strip clubs--I'm not implying that the guy was getting it there, rather, such places would probably encourage him to "want to" have sex. In conclusion, the long distance thing isn't for everybody, especially those who cannot bear sleeping alone for extended periods of time. My advice to couples who do this is keep yourself so busy that you'll be too tired for any sex at the end of the day, AND don't do it for long!
jemidar 4 years ago
i am thankful for a man who looks at cheating as the most evil sin to make. i got a man i can't and will never lose
STEFFwaF 4 years ago
There's no one to tell. LOL! But if you find her please let me know I need a mall any mall will do right about now. LOL!
Rasha1177 4 years ago
Hmmm in that case I'd better get my bread at the baker's around the corner. Much safer! LOL
deborahbetty58 4 years ago
A shopping mall right. I hardly ever go to a shopping mall, way too busy and too tempting to buy things I don't need and come home without the things do I need. If there is however a new shopping mall in town, I'll make sure I got enough money, a 'free' purse so to speak. If not, I'll pass it by blindfolded, probably bang my head into a lamppost, get knocked out and have to go home. So either new shopping mall or a lamppost, I loose on both accounts.
deborahbetty58 4 years ago
Ok I'll admit it I hate s hopping but I'm going to the new mall! LOL
Rasha1177 4 years ago
okay i was feelin this video. lol im subscribing lol
detroit4sho 4 years ago
Man HELLLLLLLLL NAW! Im shoppin at the mega mall. Real talk man, We know when we bein played, we be actin dumb because it hurts less. Thas where u get the "I aint gon accuse him unless I see it wit my own eyes." We aint dummies, this goes back to your "women holding on to uncommitted men" video. Most women pass the faithful guy by and break their necks to get to the MAN WHORES. Its our own faults sometimes for making bad choices when we know better.
TinaSoFresh 4 years ago 2
Tina Who Are You...I think I luv you!!! lol
1Luv,
GurlTalkkTV
GurlTalkkTV 4 years ago
Im a youtuber wit no camera and no mic. I found ur channel watchin the tag of love responses. Im a young married mother of two who is wise beyond her years(so I like to think). I enjoy your videos very much and am happy to comment where I feel I can offer insight! 1Luv 2u2
TinaSoFresh 4 years ago 3
Can I get an AMEN for the thinking sistas!!!
realtalent 3 years ago
aaaaay-maayan lol
TinaSoFresh 3 years ago 2
Discount Bitch Discount! Hilarious!
Moccasin144 4 years ago 2
"discount bitch discount" lmaooooooooooooooo
makes perfect sense to me. i wouldnt be able to be interested in anyone that i just talk to the phone or don't see when there are men all around me...If I was into someone and they had to leave then we'd just have to call it quits. I'm the type that if you're mine you have to be the person i associate with the most so I don't stray...cuz i will stray...=/
bo0ogeyWoman 4 years ago
You freaking CRACK ME THE HELL UP LMAO....
shav0nne 4 years ago
wow, very intresting, the roles men and women play. i subscribed to you, and i look forward to more of ur perspective videos! :)
NileJoi 4 years ago
Preach Nicca...discount bitch discount...
I was rolling.....
juiceegapeach 4 years ago
lol!..this was funny....and you made some strong points!
ikn001 4 years ago
You bring up very good points...lol, crazy but good nonetheless. And thus...i think i shall subscribe. - Nikki
NikDaChic 4 years ago
the love is important but trust and clear understanding of what each person expects from the relationship are essential BUT long distance relationships do work-that's a whole nother episode though :0)
syckindahead 4 years ago
Damn, you are good...Keep up the good work!
afrochick39 4 years ago
Preach!!!!!!
dantzlermplan 4 years ago
ok well.. i like the clip but on the one note... if that mall you will comfort in does not have that many people comin in and out... then they build a mega mall that everyone and they grandma go to... and shop in which on would YOU want to go into the mall that everyone in and touchin everything.. or the mall no onereally go to but got good deals ;)
VaGurl88 4 years ago
Your so on the money slimmy "Temple". I was in a long distance relationship (2yrs) Things were cool for the first year, but mama didn't raise no fool. When he started changing things up on me, I knew something was wrong.
We didn't serve "Baby I forgot" at my mall.
We didn't have "Where you been all day" on the shoe racks either. Yep, he was across the street at the other mall.
Sahbisun 4 years ago
luv the video it funny as hell but also made me think seriously about my relationship thank you for the invite and i am definatly subscribing keep them comin
yvette404 4 years ago