traveled to the US. So, I know how it feels from both sides! And Im really glad I got rid if my prejudice!! I was only a teenager when I realised all this as well.
So, I can imagine her feelings, especially since they themselves saw the effects of the war and lived through it, and I only learned at school. And its even harder for her to let go, in a way. But you can see that shes not specifically anti- and xenophobic, not like she sits and indulges in it. I think shes open to change, its just
anti-Germans, and yet I also had an inner sense that it wasnt MY feeling, not like it was my own. And it took me a lot of effort to get rid of this feeling and change my attitude towards German people, cos I didnt want to live with a prejudice that has nothing to do with modern-day Germans!! They arent responsible for the things their ancestors did. And being Russian I really felt that (anti) attitude (prejudices) from the inside, once I myself was a foreigner and was studying in England and tr
BEHIND the whole thing and behind the idea of fighting for your country and beliefs and the right cause. No one explains any of that. You just get told about the horrors of that time (and btw, 25 million Russians died in WWII alone!), living off a quarter of a piece of bread a week during the blokade, etc. And even if you dont want to, you start becoming very anti whomever caused that! Anti-people, not anti-ideology that lead to that!.. I remember when I was young I felt very strongly anti-Germ
To whom did the mother say she might be related if its Russia?! You know, on the one hand I do have some negative responses towards her reactions, but on the other, I can also understand them very well. I grew up in Russia, and here the celebrations of WWII victory are very important. Children from a young are taught all about the war at school and taken to the memorial sites, etc. And no one really explains that its all about the moral message BE
@lightupthesky1211 It is good Julan is letting him go so he can be with hs wife and son and becasue he has German ancestry. I wonder if they know what part Herman came from.
Thanks for sharing. It was just amazing to watch this. I guess what people least expect or don't want to be true tend to be what things really are; like in Julian's mother's case. Perhaps deep down she might have known/suspected something or have heard some rumors previously and thus her strong reactions throughout the show. Just a wild guess. Her ancestry story somehow reminded me a bit of Barbara Delinsky's 'Family Tree' though...
Is he really this catty and egotistical or is he kidding? "I never knew my grandfather...and that's a shame. For him." or "Glad we have someone of class in our family. She taught me how to hold my spoon." Things like that. Class is not insulting people that way. For instance "I don't feel very close to him...or his very hefty wife." What *doesn't* he have prejudices about? And then the German thing, though that was true in a lot of places around war times.
Though the remarks about their German ancestory are a bit much, put into the context of Julian's parents, who can still remember WW2, it's isn't very surprising given the abject horrors of that time. We can't whitewash history and suddenly think-Oh isn't it lovely, now we're all friends again? People who lived through those dark days...well, I'm sorry, but they are entitled to some remaining bigotry. If it had turned out his ancestors were raving Nazi's, we wouldn't even be debating it.
I wonder if Julian took his parents to where Terisa lived on Circus street so they can see it is a nice place and even the church since he is taking all the way to Germany to see where she lived before that.
I think he comes across as a very beautiful person who struggles with his own demons in an effort to conquer them. I think this program is sensitive and honest. They could easily have edited the parts where prejudice arose. By letting us see Julian's and his mum's negative reactions to certain news we then get to see and appreciate the evolution of their attitudes into a humble and rather penitent acceptance. Wonderful, insightful viewing.
Seems to me that this guy is a bit facile, xenophobic and arrogant. If you compare this episode with the one, Mr. Stephen Fry found out about his ancestors, it is not difficult to tell which of them is smarter or more wise...
Just astounding. You'd have hoped that someone who undoubtably has experience extreme prejudice himself might show greater tolerance to others. But no. I have always adored Mr Clary but what he shows of himself in this program dampens my admiration for him considerably.
I thought the whole programme was great. Whenever you research your ancestry you will find surprises - some pleasant some not. I also have a german great-grandfather but unlike Julian I doubt I will find very much about him. Will not stop me looking though. As for comments made by Julian's mother she is only reflecting what she has been taught/heard as she has matured. Plus just because she says things does not mean she acts on them - racist actions are far worse!?
@britfrenir Sorry, I left out the l in Julian's surname. Sorry to Julian for that. It is rather nice to discover your ancestory. It is nice too that his great grand parent's professions and their parents were listed as well. Also nice that Germany has good records too. They do not have perfessions and parents for the records before the 1890's here or at least for Ohio and Illinois. It is good that the got to find out from the census too.
I have seen this episode and his mum is just a xenophobe racist cunt and I am so glad that she discovered to have german blood. Julian, on the other way, is clever and fascinating.
I don't know about this "trend" but I thought it was a bit rude to mention a german town is more "respectable" if it is beautiful and the part about being russian did offend me since I have slavic background... Just my thoughts..
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she carries the pains of that experiences...
So people on here are being too black-and-white about everything.
phlearze 3 weeks ago
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traveled to the US. So, I know how it feels from both sides! And Im really glad I got rid if my prejudice!! I was only a teenager when I realised all this as well.
So, I can imagine her feelings, especially since they themselves saw the effects of the war and lived through it, and I only learned at school. And its even harder for her to let go, in a way. But you can see that shes not specifically anti- and xenophobic, not like she sits and indulges in it. I think shes open to change, its just
phlearze 3 weeks ago
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anti-Germans, and yet I also had an inner sense that it wasnt MY feeling, not like it was my own. And it took me a lot of effort to get rid of this feeling and change my attitude towards German people, cos I didnt want to live with a prejudice that has nothing to do with modern-day Germans!! They arent responsible for the things their ancestors did. And being Russian I really felt that (anti) attitude (prejudices) from the inside, once I myself was a foreigner and was studying in England and tr
phlearze 3 weeks ago
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BEHIND the whole thing and behind the idea of fighting for your country and beliefs and the right cause. No one explains any of that. You just get told about the horrors of that time (and btw, 25 million Russians died in WWII alone!), living off a quarter of a piece of bread a week during the blokade, etc. And even if you dont want to, you start becoming very anti whomever caused that! Anti-people, not anti-ideology that lead to that!.. I remember when I was young I felt very strongly anti-Germ
phlearze 3 weeks ago
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The dads laugh upon the news is priceless!! XD
To whom did the mother say she might be related if its Russia?! You know, on the one hand I do have some negative responses towards her reactions, but on the other, I can also understand them very well. I grew up in Russia, and here the celebrations of WWII victory are very important. Children from a young are taught all about the war at school and taken to the memorial sites, etc. And no one really explains that its all about the moral message BE
phlearze 3 weeks ago
How funny she is more upset she might be German than her son being a flaming fairy. That would be 100X more embarrassing for me.
fantastic7heaven 1 month ago
"Mother, I'm afraid I'm homosexual" lols
EmmyNeander 2 months ago
Germamd Germans Germans , they are everywhere. Please dont meantion the war.
bardo0007 2 months ago
Interesting. I wonder if Julian's homosexuality can be put down to his relationship with his mother.
HughOxford 8 months ago
i would love to meet julian dad but not mother lol
katarinavalencia1113 8 months ago
and you can come as well. hahahaha :D
lightupthesky1211 9 months ago
@lightupthesky1211 It is good Julan is letting him go so he can be with hs wife and son and becasue he has German ancestry. I wonder if they know what part Herman came from.
britfrenir 4 months ago
If only I were German, would have some World Cup victories at last.
fritspas 9 months ago
Thanks for sharing. It was just amazing to watch this. I guess what people least expect or don't want to be true tend to be what things really are; like in Julian's mother's case. Perhaps deep down she might have known/suspected something or have heard some rumors previously and thus her strong reactions throughout the show. Just a wild guess. Her ancestry story somehow reminded me a bit of Barbara Delinsky's 'Family Tree' though...
DAddictiveFragrance 10 months ago
Is he really this catty and egotistical or is he kidding? "I never knew my grandfather...and that's a shame. For him." or "Glad we have someone of class in our family. She taught me how to hold my spoon." Things like that. Class is not insulting people that way. For instance "I don't feel very close to him...or his very hefty wife." What *doesn't* he have prejudices about? And then the German thing, though that was true in a lot of places around war times.
GirLInSecondLife 10 months ago
@GirLInSecondLife He's bloody kidding ! ; it's part of his persona as a dry and sarcastic comic
TheKenfig 5 months ago
Though the remarks about their German ancestory are a bit much, put into the context of Julian's parents, who can still remember WW2, it's isn't very surprising given the abject horrors of that time. We can't whitewash history and suddenly think-Oh isn't it lovely, now we're all friends again? People who lived through those dark days...well, I'm sorry, but they are entitled to some remaining bigotry. If it had turned out his ancestors were raving Nazi's, we wouldn't even be debating it.
petclark1 1 year ago
I wonder if Julian took his parents to where Terisa lived on Circus street so they can see it is a nice place and even the church since he is taking all the way to Germany to see where she lived before that.
britfrenir 1 year ago
his father laughing in the background is freakin' hysterical, take that missy! lol
Broadway3 1 year ago 8
I think he comes across as a very beautiful person who struggles with his own demons in an effort to conquer them. I think this program is sensitive and honest. They could easily have edited the parts where prejudice arose. By letting us see Julian's and his mum's negative reactions to certain news we then get to see and appreciate the evolution of their attitudes into a humble and rather penitent acceptance. Wonderful, insightful viewing.
Harvanic 1 year ago 12
I wuv the dog
KL001 1 year ago 2
Seems to me that this guy is a bit facile, xenophobic and arrogant. If you compare this episode with the one, Mr. Stephen Fry found out about his ancestors, it is not difficult to tell which of them is smarter or more wise...
Germanator93 1 year ago
Just astounding. You'd have hoped that someone who undoubtably has experience extreme prejudice himself might show greater tolerance to others. But no. I have always adored Mr Clary but what he shows of himself in this program dampens my admiration for him considerably.
slackerwho 1 year ago 4
trier is the oldest city in germany, so thats someting
kcronaldo 1 year ago
his mam nearly slips something out, i think you would know if your mam spoke with an accent different to others!
atomicnortherner 1 year ago
I really enjoyed this part of the series. Thanks so much for posting the Julian Clary episode. I have not had access to them in Australia. : )
wuduaelvin 1 year ago
Don't like her!
Pomponab 1 year ago
I thought the whole programme was great. Whenever you research your ancestry you will find surprises - some pleasant some not. I also have a german great-grandfather but unlike Julian I doubt I will find very much about him. Will not stop me looking though. As for comments made by Julian's mother she is only reflecting what she has been taught/heard as she has matured. Plus just because she says things does not mean she acts on them - racist actions are far worse!?
Thank you for posting this.
j4eyes1 1 year ago 2
I hate to say this, but he and his mother seem very unpleasant. Classist, xenophobes, etc. I wouldn't want to spend any time with that family.
quegold1911 1 year ago 6
Maybe they should have an episode where Julian explores Teresa's husband's and Jack Carry's part.
britfrenir 1 year ago
@britfrenir Sorry, I left out the l in Julian's surname. Sorry to Julian for that. It is rather nice to discover your ancestory. It is nice too that his great grand parent's professions and their parents were listed as well. Also nice that Germany has good records too. They do not have perfessions and parents for the records before the 1890's here or at least for Ohio and Illinois. It is good that the got to find out from the census too.
britfrenir 1 year ago
The look on his mothers face was priceless, the old bigot
TheDublinBhoy 1 year ago 10
Thank you for posting and intersting closing logo. I was expecting him to tell his parents about his father's side too.
britfrenir 1 year ago
I have seen this episode and his mum is just a xenophobe racist cunt and I am so glad that she discovered to have german blood. Julian, on the other way, is clever and fascinating.
nomartini1 1 year ago 2
Thanks for taking the time to post this. Ancestry is fascinating in the lead up to us as individuals.
Cheers
kingy002 2 years ago
It's quite alright to be prejudiced against your own European ancestry these days isn't it.
It's "politically correct" and quite acceptable to bad mouth any European really.
WhereEaglesDareWWII 2 years ago
@WhereEaglesDareWWII
I don't know about this "trend" but I thought it was a bit rude to mention a german town is more "respectable" if it is beautiful and the part about being russian did offend me since I have slavic background... Just my thoughts..
pinkshrimp 2 years ago
@pinkshrimp
I think she hoped it would be rather "Russia" than "Prussia". Maybe she didn't even know what does "Prussia" mean.
Pomponab 1 year ago
Thanks for posting this. :)
lizochka 2 years ago
"Prussia, also known as Germany" LOL, dont let the Bavarians hear that ^^
thanks so much for posting this and all your other Julian clips ;-)
demondiva77 2 years ago 25
he is so eloquent he should write a book.
katievhoneychurch 2 years ago
he's written loads of books!
markimark03 2 years ago 2
Well, I'm glad to see he's starting to wrestle with some of his prejudices. Although I suspect his class prejudice is with him for life.
spidrawebster 2 years ago 22
aww i love Julian :D
thank you!!
XMXJBXTX 2 years ago 6
thank you for putting this up, :)
fallingonabruise 2 years ago 5