I love that there are men/women out there that love their partners for who they are, but I personally know that how you truly feel about yourself -regardless of how often you're told that you're beautiful- can affect your experience in the bedroom. I would like to make love without worrying how a certain position might show my sex so I can just let loose and enjoy. But being young I wonder if this is just something I have to get over...I wonder, what is the average age of your patients?
what is the reason these things happen why do labia get so large and droopy?????? why?????????? i know someone who has and she never even had been pregnant she never delivered a child why is her labia like that????
This is really depressing. Women are supposed to have labia. When did labia become something undesirable? The message here is that women's genitals are supposed to look pre-pubescent -- small and pink instead of the more typical large and brown. Sobering thought. Men's genitals, however, are supposed to look big and mature. Imagine the absurdity of men wanting small penises! So they have penis reduction surgery! Men, does that sound painful? Then why would you encourage a woman to do the same?
You seem to harbor much resentment, No one forces anyone to have this surgery. Paitent's request it much like they do breast reductions for large breasts. It is great that you enjoy your wife's large labia. That should create a lot of extra "grip" as you describe below. Good for you!
I like big lips, they have character. But if they cause health problems or discomfort then I think that would be the only good reason to have surgery.
The purposes of the inner labia -- the labia women seem to be most concerned with in queries like these -- are to keep bacteria outside of the vestibule for vaginal health, and in terms of sex, to provide additional genital sensation and lubrication during sexual activities, and additionally an extra "grip" on anything inserted in the vagina. In some ways, they're backup singers to the outer labia when it comes to both keeping out the yuckies and providing extra sexual sensation.
@kevnat123 your a dude with a vagina and your worried about what it looks like? your boyfriend is probably gonna be more pissed that he doesnt have a big gay cock to play with
my right side is larger and my left side is a normal size (i say too small) and i hate having a larger labia! it gets in the way and it looks like a tongue and the worst part of having one is that i have a new bf and he doesn't know about it and im scared to tell him! it truly does suck.. oh ya,it can be painful when i walk.
The purposes of the inner labia -- the labia women seem to be most concerned with in queries like these -- are to keep bacteria outside of the vestibule for vaginal health, and in terms of sex, to provide additional genital sensation and lubrication during sexual activities, and additionally an extra "grip" on anything inserted in the vagina. In some ways, they're backup singers to the outer labia when it comes to both keeping out the yuckies and providing extra sexual sensation.
I want the surgary because after 15 years of marrabe to a man who did ORAL sex on me, they are streatched out,and UGLY, it is imbarrasing to have to reach down and spread the apart just to have sex,and to me is is GOSH AWFUL UGLY .not at all pretty like I was when I was 23 and a young mother of 2.
They look UGLY to me,and it is embarrishing when I have to reach down,and spread them apart just so the Penis can enter, my vagina. I really would like to have this surgary. Before I get involved in a new relationship.I think that is why my husband left me.
You made me smile, I must say THANK YOU. Maby women thinking our vagana lips are too big, is like men thinking their penis is TOO small. No such thing as too small. it is all GOOD. Size DON'T matter, IT is how you use it. thank you for making me smile today.
I am glad I could make you smile. Hey the vagina is a beautifull thing. And for some of us more is better.
There are cultures in the orient that actually stretch the Labia. So if you are one of the few and beautifull be proud. There are a number of us gentlemen who prefer something to play with.
And yes my womans Labia measures 3 1/2 inches on one side. Glad I found her.
Labiaplasty can be a 1 or 2 sided labia minora reduction, labia majora augmentation/reduction, clitoral hood reduction, labia minora/majora revision, etc. It can be done under local or general anesthesia in an office, surgicenter or hospital. Depending on these factors, procedures begin at about $3000 (low end) and may proceed up to $15,000. However they generally total about $4700 for 2-sided labia minora reduction under local in the office. Clitoral hood reduction may add up to $750
For women that say sex is uncomfortable... It's mor pleasurable if you're with a partner that is patient and doesn't, how do I put this nicely, ram you.
You're actually "more senstive" than those with average labia minor and those women that lack them at all.
I agree, i know several woman who find having sex with their partners embarrassing and don't like wearing tight clothing or swimsuits as you can see through the clothes that they have enlarged labia, its a personal choice,
But for us men to see the imprint of the vagina is a turn on. Its only women who find panty lines and camel toes a turn off. Why I don't know. Maybe if women and men traded places for a day. Then we would know what the other wants. And when true sexual harasment begins. We would actually know.
Women here is your wake up call. Us guys like to see a camel toe.
Try this. Wear cotton spandex shorts that are white, No underwear, rake em up high and put on some very dark sunglasses.
That is a wonderful Idea. I have wished lots of times,that my husband and I could TRADE bodies for a week, then we might understand each other a lot better, but we can't so we just strugle along doing the best we can , like talking in 2 differant languages.
Really it is. All men look at the crotch. Just some harder than others.
If there are any women her in Lexington KY. I would love to observe. Tell me a place and time. Let it all hang out. I think the vagina is the beauty of a woman.
Women don't do this for men. Women commonly have breast reductions for similar reasons. The labia are more like the scrotum than the penis. If you had a scrotum that got pinched & twisted whenever you rode a bike or excercise garments, would you have a scrotum reduction if it were safe & allowed you to exercise without pain or discomfort. A male patient once requested a scrotum reduction because they would fall into the toilet water in public bathrooms. Do you want me to tell him to tough luck?
A man should'nt pee sitting down. To compare a Labia to Balls. Is like comparing hot to cold. The head of my penis has more outside of my body than the largest of labia and clits.
Maybe that guy should stop hanging weight of his junk. Sounds like a BME olympian to me.
Its beautifull and women are having it cut off. For many guys we like this. To put it in perspective. Should well hung guys get part of thier dicks chopped off? No. So why mess with the LM.
You are not the woman with vaganial lips that are too large, so you have no IDEA how self concious a woman LIKE MYSELF can be about it. It is imbarrasing, because men like women in the magazines, and I do not look like that, I am emvarrised by them being too long .
Thank you for your honesty! Many women have similar complaints. There are alot of people who think this is a joke. We are currently completing a medical study to show that there are treatment options for these women.
well i can't even ride a bisycle...i find it difficult to sit for long hours....not to mention the sex and the foreplay...i want to be able to open my legs when the lights are still on and feel comfortable...and most o all i want to feel good about my self and feel sexy
dear person who called me a feminist bitch. Religion is the culprit to blame for cutting the skin off infant dicks. I agree with you that the practice is barbaric. The porn industry can't be blamed for it, however, like it can for women being told their labia is too big. Have a nice day.
I am one of those women, but after my husband left, me I am strongly condidering getting BACK into a physical realtion ship and I am very, very self concious about my genital appearance now.
Aslong as Women do this to babys I will not feel sory for Women!
Prolabiaplasty 8 months ago
I love that there are men/women out there that love their partners for who they are, but I personally know that how you truly feel about yourself -regardless of how often you're told that you're beautiful- can affect your experience in the bedroom. I would like to make love without worrying how a certain position might show my sex so I can just let loose and enjoy. But being young I wonder if this is just something I have to get over...I wonder, what is the average age of your patients?
bluewillow379 1 year ago
what is the reason these things happen why do labia get so large and droopy?????? why?????????? i know someone who has and she never even had been pregnant she never delivered a child why is her labia like that????
jesuslivesinjoyce 1 year ago
This is really depressing. Women are supposed to have labia. When did labia become something undesirable? The message here is that women's genitals are supposed to look pre-pubescent -- small and pink instead of the more typical large and brown. Sobering thought. Men's genitals, however, are supposed to look big and mature. Imagine the absurdity of men wanting small penises! So they have penis reduction surgery! Men, does that sound painful? Then why would you encourage a woman to do the same?
thehepdog 1 year ago
@thehepdog Women have breast reductions all the time. So what is your point?
Videoplast 1 year ago
Just get you a sharp pair of scissors and some ice.
klamatoconlimon 2 years ago 2
You seem to harbor much resentment, No one forces anyone to have this surgery. Paitent's request it much like they do breast reductions for large breasts. It is great that you enjoy your wife's large labia. That should create a lot of extra "grip" as you describe below. Good for you!
doofusdad 2 years ago
I like big lips, they have character. But if they cause health problems or discomfort then I think that would be the only good reason to have surgery.
daibutsu01 2 years ago 3
btw im 17 and i didnt have this my whole life and idk how it got stretched out soo long...
kevnat123 2 years ago
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The purposes of the inner labia -- the labia women seem to be most concerned with in queries like these -- are to keep bacteria outside of the vestibule for vaginal health, and in terms of sex, to provide additional genital sensation and lubrication during sexual activities, and additionally an extra "grip" on anything inserted in the vagina. In some ways, they're backup singers to the outer labia when it comes to both keeping out the yuckies and providing extra sexual sensation.
utubcomment 2 years ago
@kevnat123 your a dude with a vagina and your worried about what it looks like? your boyfriend is probably gonna be more pissed that he doesnt have a big gay cock to play with
drweelz 1 year ago
my right side is larger and my left side is a normal size (i say too small) and i hate having a larger labia! it gets in the way and it looks like a tongue and the worst part of having one is that i have a new bf and he doesn't know about it and im scared to tell him! it truly does suck.. oh ya,it can be painful when i walk.
kevnat123 2 years ago
why do u think your labia became like that? did u ever stretched it before???? thats why its like that now??
jesuslivesinjoyce 2 years ago
The purposes of the inner labia -- the labia women seem to be most concerned with in queries like these -- are to keep bacteria outside of the vestibule for vaginal health, and in terms of sex, to provide additional genital sensation and lubrication during sexual activities, and additionally an extra "grip" on anything inserted in the vagina. In some ways, they're backup singers to the outer labia when it comes to both keeping out the yuckies and providing extra sexual sensation.
utubcomment 2 years ago
I want the surgary because after 15 years of marrabe to a man who did ORAL sex on me, they are streatched out,and UGLY, it is imbarrasing to have to reach down and spread the apart just to have sex,and to me is is GOSH AWFUL UGLY .not at all pretty like I was when I was 23 and a young mother of 2.
starfish50 2 years ago
Sorry I accidently hit thumbs down. I meant up. Also money drives everything.
I find every woman has a beautifull thing.
Face, body etc etc. Labia drives me nuts.
DobermansRock 2 years ago 2
They look UGLY to me,and it is embarrishing when I have to reach down,and spread them apart just so the Penis can enter, my vagina. I really would like to have this surgary. Before I get involved in a new relationship.I think that is why my husband left me.
starfish50 2 years ago
Sorry your hudband was a fool... Give me something to suck on....
DobermansRock 2 years ago 2
You made me smile, I must say THANK YOU. Maby women thinking our vagana lips are too big, is like men thinking their penis is TOO small. No such thing as too small. it is all GOOD. Size DON'T matter, IT is how you use it. thank you for making me smile today.
starfish50 2 years ago 3
I am glad I could make you smile. Hey the vagina is a beautifull thing. And for some of us more is better.
There are cultures in the orient that actually stretch the Labia. So if you are one of the few and beautifull be proud. There are a number of us gentlemen who prefer something to play with.
And yes my womans Labia measures 3 1/2 inches on one side. Glad I found her.
DobermansRock 2 years ago 6
Well said! Thank you for contributing.
doofusdad 2 years ago
you forgot piss flaps
whak01 2 years ago
Labiaplasty can be a 1 or 2 sided labia minora reduction, labia majora augmentation/reduction, clitoral hood reduction, labia minora/majora revision, etc. It can be done under local or general anesthesia in an office, surgicenter or hospital. Depending on these factors, procedures begin at about $3000 (low end) and may proceed up to $15,000. However they generally total about $4700 for 2-sided labia minora reduction under local in the office. Clitoral hood reduction may add up to $750
doofusdad 2 years ago
It is very uncomfortable going commando!! and I am also self conscious about it.... how much is it??
rOmAnArOuNd20 2 years ago
Breast reduction is a commonly accepted medical procedure. Are you saying by your criteria, that women should be denied that procedure too?
Think about it.
doofusdad 3 years ago 2
For women that say sex is uncomfortable... It's mor pleasurable if you're with a partner that is patient and doesn't, how do I put this nicely, ram you.
You're actually "more senstive" than those with average labia minor and those women that lack them at all.
Think about it.
soulfulpisces 3 years ago
poppycock... I'm a woman and I know.
It's the era of designer vaginas as they call it. Young women are growing up into this and older women are second questioning themselves.
This is utter BS.
soulfulpisces 3 years ago 2
I agree, i know several woman who find having sex with their partners embarrassing and don't like wearing tight clothing or swimsuits as you can see through the clothes that they have enlarged labia, its a personal choice,
Chachewie 3 years ago
It doesn't make sense at all.
Why would anyone be embarrased about her/his natural design?
People are not usually embarrased about their natural curves.
I think those women need therapy rather than surgury!
tantanjab 2 years ago 2
But for us men to see the imprint of the vagina is a turn on. Its only women who find panty lines and camel toes a turn off. Why I don't know. Maybe if women and men traded places for a day. Then we would know what the other wants. And when true sexual harasment begins. We would actually know.
Women here is your wake up call. Us guys like to see a camel toe.
Try this. Wear cotton spandex shorts that are white, No underwear, rake em up high and put on some very dark sunglasses.
DobermansRock 2 years ago
What you will see is a lot of happy stares.
I am tired of women being so off about thier bodies.
DobermansRock 2 years ago
That is a wonderful Idea. I have wished lots of times,that my husband and I could TRADE bodies for a week, then we might understand each other a lot better, but we can't so we just strugle along doing the best we can , like talking in 2 differant languages.
starfish50 2 years ago
Really it is. All men look at the crotch. Just some harder than others.
If there are any women her in Lexington KY. I would love to observe. Tell me a place and time. Let it all hang out. I think the vagina is the beauty of a woman.
DobermansRock 2 years ago 2
Women don't do this for men. Women commonly have breast reductions for similar reasons. The labia are more like the scrotum than the penis. If you had a scrotum that got pinched & twisted whenever you rode a bike or excercise garments, would you have a scrotum reduction if it were safe & allowed you to exercise without pain or discomfort. A male patient once requested a scrotum reduction because they would fall into the toilet water in public bathrooms. Do you want me to tell him to tough luck?
doofusdad 3 years ago
A man should'nt pee sitting down. To compare a Labia to Balls. Is like comparing hot to cold. The head of my penis has more outside of my body than the largest of labia and clits.
Maybe that guy should stop hanging weight of his junk. Sounds like a BME olympian to me.
DobermansRock 2 years ago
Its beautifull and women are having it cut off. For many guys we like this. To put it in perspective. Should well hung guys get part of thier dicks chopped off? No. So why mess with the LM.
DobermansRock 3 years ago 5
You are not the woman with vaganial lips that are too large, so you have no IDEA how self concious a woman LIKE MYSELF can be about it. It is imbarrasing, because men like women in the magazines, and I do not look like that, I am emvarrised by them being too long .
starfish50 2 years ago
Thank you for your honesty! Many women have similar complaints. There are alot of people who think this is a joke. We are currently completing a medical study to show that there are treatment options for these women.
doofusdad 3 years ago
@doofusdad
yeah an there one culture that cut the skin of male cheldren penis america fuck women!
Prolabiaplasty 7 months ago
well i can't even ride a bisycle...i find it difficult to sit for long hours....not to mention the sex and the foreplay...i want to be able to open my legs when the lights are still on and feel comfortable...and most o all i want to feel good about my self and feel sexy
e1l2e3n4i 3 years ago
can't imagine WHY someone might be self-conscious about their labia--oh wait, there's an industry counting on it....
angieslindmusic 3 years ago 8
Right, an industry that feeds on insecurity & creating that insecurity
pompodore 3 years ago 5
@angieslindmusic
what about cuting off the skin of infiant dicks feminist bitch!
Prolabiaplasty 11 months ago
@Prolabiaplasty
dear person who called me a feminist bitch. Religion is the culprit to blame for cutting the skin off infant dicks. I agree with you that the practice is barbaric. The porn industry can't be blamed for it, however, like it can for women being told their labia is too big. Have a nice day.
angieslindmusic 11 months ago
Thanks for your feedback!
doofusdad 3 years ago
Too add to that. My husband calls me all those things as a joke. I think it's funny .
thedistillers27 3 years ago
Mine does that too. I really don't worry too much about it. There are a lot of women like this.
thedistillers27 3 years ago 2
I am one of those women, but after my husband left, me I am strongly condidering getting BACK into a physical realtion ship and I am very, very self concious about my genital appearance now.
starfish50 2 years ago
It does not get bigger by oral or any other kind of sex or stretching, Educate yourself!
utubcomment 2 years ago
i cant wear cute underwear because my tounge goes through the little holes and hurts.
kssmtcb91 3 years ago