The joy of pain vs the pain of no pain

[YesterdaysNewspaper]

I just want to give you a big hug

[yanghaiying]

I sure take it and return you a bigger one.

[KathyCustren]

Your artist's eye shines through in your life philosophy. I appreciate your observations on getting through life. We are not here to just give up; we need to keep going, as you have said. Blessings!

[tamaakii]

thanks mam

[TheCoco999]

Love your sincerity!

[smilingjenn]

I don't know if your Christian, but I think you should look up the song, or just the lyrics to "Beauty from Pain" from Superchick

[coilnova3]

this is true

[bbornets]

Haiying, remember the Chinese saying?

"The storm never lasts the whole night?"

Can you say this in pinyin?

Barbara

[rowkitty]

Seeing your video and reading all these comments is like being in the middle of a big virtual group hug. It's lovely. =)

I was a depression-battler for the last 5ish years, and after building confidence in myself, I know I have at least a little power to wade through the dirt. What really helps me, though, is having a wonderful network of friends to reach out to, and stumbling upon these wonderful, geniune videos of a lady not afraid to openly give herself completely. Thank you so much. =)

[DKMontoya4670]

Stress is the fire that tempers our metal. Whatever fire we pass through strenthens the steel with which we must fight stress, heartache, physical illness, and emotional turmoil. Labor on, My sister......every labor pain brings us closer to the first cry of new birth. PUSH, PUSH, PUSH. Love you....ME

[Jaghoda]

I totally agree!

[jakeness19]

Thanks. Some good advice for me now :)

[apictureofruit]

Thank You

[77katrine]

Hang on and relish every moment. Excellent video. Everything you said is sooooooo true! I've learned these things in the past few years for myself. Love and Light, Misty

[L0LROBOTZ]

Just like everyone else commenting, I completely agree. I'm going through hardship in my own life and for me personally, and I think with plenty of other viewers, your strength and positivity through the rough times brings strength to all of us. Maybe sometimes we forget that you have hard times and pain to go through as well because you seem so strong all the time. I think we could all learn from you, your outlook on life is so positive and inspiring. Knowing you is truly a blessing. :)

[JoshuaHults]

very true

[lizzy6786]

Thank you so much for this! I watch your videos all the time and they give me so much inspiration. I am starting a business right now, and sometimes it is so tempting to want to give up because I feel like I will never get to where I want to go, but it is so encouraging to hear that others go through the same thing. Never give up on your dreams.

[applesomething]

I completely agree with you Haiying. What you are saying has been on my mind for the past several months. It's one thing to say it but to actually understand it as I do now is a blessing. I appreciate your candidness as always. Thank you <3

[WesternWheels]

It been hard for me to find happiness recently. But this week im house sitting for my parents and it's been very relaxing. Spenting time with my dogs, taking care of their garden, it's all made me feel more relaxed about life. I've alway loved being outdoors so theowing the ball for my dogs in their big yard is so nice. I love days like this. :-)

[WesternWheels]

I it's always nice to see we are all human.

[gaudissimo]

Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts with us :)

[NikoClemente]

your such a beautiful soul

[wojiaokatya]

Dear Haying, hang on, you are dealing with this hardship in an absolutely delightful way.

Which gives strength not only to you but to all of us. :)

Thank you, holding my fists for you, hardship passes. In Judaism we say that everything is always for the better.

:) hang in there.

[artfantasies]

This is life, Haiying. We not only grow because we experience good and funny things but also to challenge and overcome difficult times and problems.

That reminding me on an old saying in my native: Good times as bad times both pass by.

[artfantasies]

... So don't be desperated! ... Sometimes we can choose our life and the circumstances in it. There are difficult times now. Things will go better when time is right again.

[petrakroon]

Thank you! You are a beautiful person with a warm heart...

Peace from my heart to yours :)

Petra x

[limeodis]

there is a Buddhist saying that says "suffering is the doorway to deeper insight". From our pain, sadness and suffering we learn and become better people.

[honeyshinestars]

Thank You.

[SokudoJutsu]

Thank you very much :)

[sviatlanar]

So true! Thank u!

[ANGELAH7030]

thank you for sharing thse beautiful words my frend. In my life also i suffer much pain and sometimes I do forget to enjoy my triumps my successes thank you for reminding me of hope.

[colquitt2010]

Thank you for baring a bit of your soul here today. It is very true, without pain, we do not recognize joy. I have been unemployed for two months. But, I have hope.

[gerryman30]

Your words of wisdom are much appreciated. Thank you.

[TheWisemonkey8]

You are a very wise woman. Such a beautiful message. Beautiful. I send my warm regards,

[TheWisemonkey8]

Dear lady... you are NOT a loser!!! This short view proves this!!! Nin3 de lu4 ying3 fei1 chang2 ji1 fa1 ren2 xin1, wo3 xiang1 xin nin2 shi4 ge zhi2 ren2 zun1 jing4 de4 hao3 lao3 shi1. Wo3 hui4 ji4 de shi2 chang2 mian4 dai4 xiao4 rong2. I hope this pinyin makes sense :). Xie2xie lao3 shi1.