My Single Experience

[hopenicoleee]

There needs to be more males like you in this world.

[Slave4Christ09]

Wow that sucks your such a cutie i would have talk to you. Im waiting for marriage too and its very hard and i so agree with you sometimes nice guys and nice girls finish last but be blessed God has someone for you..

[IconMatthew1]

@Slave4Christ09 thank you and keep strong. I know God has someone for me, and I can't wait to experience it.

[Slave4Christ09]

@IconMatthew1 ok i wouldn't have it any other way...

[TheDymondusic]

awww

[ShebeLyrik]

I'm so glad I came across the video. You are a rare guy and I applaud you. I am celibate as well, most people don't get it, don't understand why I stick with such a sometimes difficult decision, I truly feel this is what is best for my life. Thank You for sharing, you are an inspiration.

[IconMatthew1]

@ShebeLyrik glad I could help! I think its a good decision as well.

[prettikitti]

Why aren't there more guys like you? Gosh, you are a rare find! Almost non-existent! I value virginity and celibacy too. There are people who are saving themselves and it does take some searching for. It's not easy. I share your struggle and viewpoint. Please, stay like you are and don't change. We'll find what we're looking for eventually :)

[IconMatthew1]

@prettikitti thank you! Its encouraging to hear people like you. Yeah its tough ya know gotta find a woman who respects that a lot don't. Or they respect it but not enough to date you, heck even when I find a woman who is like it's hard to get a chance. But I just gotta keep on keeping on.

[08suress]

You are very brave for saying all of this in a public forum. Your confidence and upbeat attitude are admirable. By respecting women around you, you yourself command a lot of respect. Never forget that, and like everyone else on this forum has said, stay strong. You'll find that special woman someday; I know it.

[IconMatthew1]

@08suress thank you, your words mean a lot to me right now.

[99grandprix17]

This is just wonderful. Glad someone else share's my perspective!

[aisha06baby]

WOW! admirable. really! not much left like you. Stay strong and never let words let you down =D

I know the feeling....

[IconMatthew1]

@aisha06baby Yeah can't let words bring you down!

[KrissyJay678]

wow, ur a rear find... i am i the exact same boat (just the other way around), well stay strong and i hope u hold to ur principles ;)

God Bleaa

[IconMatthew1]

@KrissyJay678 thank you! Stay strong as well!

[akakesha]

most girls like men that they feel they will get security from and is a boss! if u feel u can stand up for ur women anytime and show her ur a man, not the aggressive kind that hits women, but protects women! nice is GOOD :)

[oooNUUBAooo]

the reason a LOT of women are single is coz of the lack of MORE guys like you!! :) wow!!!!

[kevantewhite]

wow ive never been the ladies man either...i dont feel alone anymore,,

[suitelayde2006]

Oh my gosh i am just loving your channel. To bad there not to many good men out there like you.

[IconMatthew1]

@suitelayde2006 Thank you! I hope you continue to check out my channel!

[YumDumGum]

=)

-Yum Dum Gum

[suitelayde2006]

You so cute!!!! I would date cuz you seem like a respectful person. I need men like you in my city

[seeurope1]

Thank you very much for this. I'm a single girl looking for a respectful, attractive guy. I'm excited to know that there are dudes like yourself out there. Don't change : ) God bless

[bkdiamond124]

I respect you completely! You're quite attractive and articulate...family taught you well! Keep pushin' hun...your wife will be exceptionally lucky one day

[IconMatthew1]

@bkdiamond124 thank you!

[fergiemon18]

Kudos to you man i feel the same way but when i came to college i got frustrated got off the virginity train smh...well stay strong sir and u will find her!

[IconMatthew1]

@fergiemon18 thanks man, I hope I do.

[CJThaSavage]

That is actually very similar to me. I'm going into my senior year of high school and I'm just starting to just let loose and lose that shyness. I've had a lot of girls who've I talked with and am cool with but it's like they like the bad boys. The guys who treat them like there inferior and play those 1st grade games with them rather than the guy who treats them good. Maybe they mistake that for a weakness idk. And most people don't even believe me when I tell them I'm practicing abstinence.

[IconMatthew1]

@CJThaSavage yeah I think our society has major fault that while we tell women to get a nice guy we also say at the same time being nice is a sign of weakness. And hey man you just gotta do you.

[broken4faith]

Your video makes me *smile* for some reason and i like the other vids so i sub'd dont worry your handsome you will find someone sooner than later (by the way, not to sound rude but you shouldnt put yourself down with someone not being on your level, they could not be on yours) :)

many blessings*

~B4F~

[IconMatthew1]

@broken4faith I dont find that rude at all.

[irvin5623]

I think that this is a good video. It seem like most women don't want the nice guys. they want the guys that cheat on time or beat on time. They feel that is love. I think there is nothing wrong with be saving yourself for marriage. You dont have worried about sexually transmitted diseases or aids.

[IconMatthew1]

@irvin5623 good point

[Stamfurdgurl]

You are VERY attractive and saving yourself for your wife is very special and sweet! =0)

[IconMatthew1]

@Stamfurdgurl thank you!

[adelarge]

You didn't not date the people you wanted in high school because you were nice. That excuse is terrible. The problem was that you had low self-esteem, which is really unattractive and worse still, hard to hide. Worthwhile women don't like to be mistreated.  :)

[themukisa11]

Aww! you are too cute! I would totally scoop you up if I wasn't darn there 10 yrs older than you! :) anywho, I'll tell you what I have told my younger brother. the girls that you meet now don't really know what they want or don't realize that its better to have a someone who respects them and values them rather than some dude that wants to get into their pants from the door! you are actually a great catch. and any good WOMAN will be able to see that:) just hang in there:)

[IconMatthew1]

@themukisa11 Thanks, I'm holding in there

[iSk8te94]

Matthew, I dont know if you've ever seen the movie Hitch, but the way women work is very similar. There's no such thing as " Out of my league" especially when dealing with a warm-hearted person such as yourself. You have a very compassionate mindset, and I can tell, the one that finds you will be the luckiest lady alive!

[prettipoison27]

I'm soo late lol but I hope you find what you're looking for. Good things come to those who wait

[BReyn86]

I tip my hat to you Matt. Wish there were more men out there like you.

[NiniDread]

Matthew... take your time my friend. You will find someone you can be yourself with. Don't ever feel like someone is out of your league, they are human too and probably have insecurities themselves. Stay on the right track... it will lead you to the woman of your dreams.

[IconMatthew1]

thank you for your encouraging words, I wonder if I ever get a girlfriend if I should make a video on that lol

[NiniDread]

@IconMatthew1 Me picturing your video: SMILING A LOT UP CLOSE... possibly doing flips, doing the running man, bouncing off the walls, with a megaphone, all shot at high speed and short.. because you will want to spend your time with your girlfriend.

[IconMatthew1]

lol yeah that will probably be me.

[chi9ja]

brov keep it strong, i totally get where u r coming 4rm n wat u r saying but 4 us women u r labelled as picky, a tease or playing mind games if u make similar demands, smh. as 4 d girls who rn't women yet sorry nothing much u can do about that, d standard of men these days hv dropped so much that women dont hv standards anymore, smh plus they will grow up(hopefully) in their own time, growing up is such a personal thing. m happy when i c and hear men like u, it gives me hope n i kw m not crazy.

[IconMatthew1]

thanks you just brightened my day.

[chi9ja]

my absolute pleasure, good men and women( i hope i am) wit character, proper upbring and correct standards r a dying breed nowadays, we need 2 lift each other up.

[IconMatthew1]

so true, fight on sista!

[spicyeve]

LOL 5 stars for black and white

great vid, i made one wayy back when too :)

shout out from austin texas

[ClassyC07]

can we clone you because unlike most guys you are a man and you actually act like one when some of the rest act like boys

[IconMatthew1]

lol I'm too goofy to clone, trust me.

[Dtreen2]

you look like larry fitzgerald and hes the man

[IconMatthew1]

lol yeah he didn't play too well today though sadly.

[Dtreen2]

ha yeah but your awesome and i dont know how your still single dude win that girl that you like over

[IconMatthew1]

I'll try lol I get nervous too much.

[Dtreen2]

haha that happens to me alot but i just picture the girl as one of my friends that i hang out with and be friendly and not too flirty but i also always get nervous if its one on one just us but if you have a group then it helps a lot you know?

[IconMatthew1]

true dude, if I ever do get a girlfriend I should make a video response to my own video

[NerdyArtGirl]

I don't see how you have a problem. You're intelligent and attractive. I would love to date a guy like you.

[IconMatthew1]

I wish more girls would say that =(

[iROCKThis4life]

and also, what is the song at the beginning??..lol..im a big fan of jazz music..

[IconMatthew1]

just generic music from imovie

[iROCKThis4life]

oh my GOD!! i feel like we are the exact same person...everything..everythin­g you're saying is exactly what my life has been and is!!! i guess what im saying is, its just refreshing that im not the only one in the world like this..and going through this..lol!! KEEP IT UP!!

[IconMatthew1]

thanks man! Always good to know not alone in the world!

[hugandkissme33]

you sound like a wise man. hats off to you. sounds like a smart plan. no one is out of your league until you think so. your queen will come along one day sure enough, but you've got to put yourself out there and keep on the look out for her, if you'd like to find her. that's my take.

[mrultra2008]

Thank you so much man for this video right here. So many things you said hit home with me and just like wow I'm not the only brotha out here who goes through this.

[QuanaJBoo]

You are shockin to me. I find you to be very handsome. If I walked past you in the street I would have NEVER thought you have problems socally and relationship wise. Wow, you never know, huh? Got me thinking. I think I'ma do one of these videos. You opened my eyes.

[ivy9857]

hey Matthew! there is really nothing wrong with a single experience. you are far better off to be in a sucessful relationship/marriage than somebuddy who is sexually active outside of marriage. you sound like a strong man principled with decipline and patience. Yes a real strong man respects women. now remember! everything good, worthy and valuable will always require persistance, patience and hardwork to archive. my advice! don't be tempted to take shortcuts if want a good woman.

[IconMatthew1]

thanks dude!

[christalkshowrule]

this made me sad .....I understand you man

[crocopliddell]

thats the prob you are nice first off u should say bitch or hoe not woman and u got to learn to smack a how if needed and last but not least bitchs are only good for one thing fucking.

lol im just kiding agree with everything you said

[ThompsonMiss]

Wow...AMEN, a guy who respects women - keep it up - I wish and pray more young men follow your lead.

The "right" woman will come along soon, don't you fret!

x

[harpkang]

As continued with my previous comment. Nothing wrong with being too nice, I am like that as well. It makes you rare and unique of a person. There are girls out there in your league and celebate as you. But they are just hiding in there homes because of their strict parents that raised them good. I'm an indian man, and live in a town of lots of indian people. And my parents are like its crazy how its still hard to find the right person in our culture, that lives in the same type of town.

[harpkang]

GREATEST VIDEO EVER !!!!!! I so feel like I am on the same boat as you. I'm so glad I just randomly click on your account and this video. I'm looking for the right girl as well, I'm 6'1" and between 180 to 190lbs of a man that most girls look for. I use to be super shy in high school, and didn't feel like I was good looking either. I've dated a girl about 2 years ago, but it wasn't happening. Currently I like someone as well. Talk to the person when I get a chance with the busy lifestyle.

[crunkmachine]

i feel u bro there is such a thing as too nice its a hard reality to face but your woman is definately out there the one who will love you cuz your nice.

[IconMatthew1]

I truly hope your right. thx

[harpkang]

Man, I just can't get enough of this video. You need to make more along this topic. You are really inspiring and putting less stress and worries on people like ourselves who had trouble finding the right girl and feeling left out from his friends. Because all your friends are either married or in relationships.

[IconMatthew1]

I have gotten some requests in the past to do a video on interracial relationships.....what do you think?

[crunkmachine]

yeah man please do.

[harpkang]

topic on interracial relationships, not a bad idea.

[monilove5]

Too nice. I never understood that and I never will. You'll find her

[purexpression]

i definitely can relate to this. cool man thanks

[Kortino27]

I like this video. It's sincere... I definately can relate to a lot that u had to say... especially the nice/too nice part & wanting companionship. Sex is too easy to attain these days. Worthwhile companionship, in my own experience, is a lot tougher to get, but much more satisfying in the long run! That's why I've been single for a bit. But keep your thoughts positive, your confidence up, and your eyes open. The right opportunity will come by for you to get the one you want & need, man.

[RacquelNM]

Wow! You totally summed up my high school experience in the first half of this video. I definitely understand what you're saying about having the dating experience to gage what it is exactly you're looking for in your future wife. I think the reason why some girls have yet to mature into a woman is because they don't think that guys like yourself still exist. Great video!

[crazyrj14]

im sure you know this now but ass teenagers,for most-all teenage girls they are too young and or immature to actually know what they want in a relationship...so dumb shyt happens lol.

love,compassion,positiveness is not a weakness...far from it.and in thsi world its harder to be that way because there are so many weaklings in the world that try to appear negatively to block their own negative qualities.

you're a good person-and you deserve a good girlfriend/wife that loves u for you. :)

[IconMatthew1]

thanks man!

[wesley00008]

great vid

[9to5p]

u look like Eazy-E

[harpkang]

Looking like Easy-E makes him not a bad looking man for the ladies !

[kaffum]

Much respect to you brother. Patience, time, and self-control will make you the best "you" possible and when you become that person, your queen will present herself to you. I'm right there with you buddy. Peace

[NarutoDX]

Don't feel bad dude. They're are many guys who are in the same predicament you're in. But you had had the guts to express those feelings when many of us are constantly holding it in, I commend you for that. And also, You are a handsome guy(no homo), so don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

[CoffeeLoverGirl]

I think its funny you think you were unattractive and stuff because I think you are so handsome and definitely not unlikable. Of course, you've probably realized that now. I love the approach you have treating woman. I just wanted to say how I admire your point of view. Wish I knew more men like you!!

[realchick339]

aww I LOVE IT!! ur soo cute!!

[khyledeen]

I was exactly like you in school!, I had no idea, i'm looking for my one too, I have respect for you for the celibacy commitment, that I've taken it myself!, you'll find the right woman one day, so will I, I believe in soul mates, she's out there!, 5 stars, great video, (applause) (cheers) whooo

[chefdavejones55]

nice vid man

[magnoliagirl21]

This was very sweet and sincere. I am positive you will find the right one when the time is right.

[Pareja7]

Matthew your a stand up gentlemen. I pray that you find your Queen who shares the very same values as you. They are out there. Don't settle. She's longing for you to find her. Keep soaring!

[Cmarie87]

I love your vid! You have awesome values and I hope you meet the WOMAN of your dreams.lol Just keep being who you are. =)

[ladiesman8000]

very wise words matt. it know all too well about the nice guys finish last part.

[cgace1]

and i wanted to add..never think a girl is outta your league..youll be suprised..i know im not the greatest looking thing out there.. but i had to just put myself out there and try..and if i got turned down..yea it hurts..but there are plenty of other women out there and that one wasnt the one for me

[IconMatthew1]

good point, trust me I will try to get her if it fails like you said she wasnt for me. That is some of my old self coming back need to kick that guy to the curb, your right no girl is out of my league lol

[fatboitino2]

I thought that I was unattractive aswell until i started to pay attention to the females around me who were constantly staring(in a good way) so it does not matter who you are, someone out there will be attracted and even love you. In the best relationship I could want thanks to God and the Lord Jesus Christ( Yes, I am a Christian).......Completely unrelated but you need to post a dreadlock timeline vid, and

[cgace1]

nice guys dont always finish last.. im prime example of it..i treated every woman i was ever with , like they were queens...it was just differences in where we were and wanted to do with our lives that seperated us..now of course i have the love of a beautiful woman that i have been with for the last 5 years and have a beautiful daughter..so 1 day it will happen..

[Drogynn]

Hey man good video. I think we are much alike.. I can find myself in every one of your expressions. :) You're right you know.. Nice guys do finish last. But somewhere I don't regret it cuz I'm sure all the waiting for the right woman will be rewarded one day :)

[earvase]

I never had a girlfriend. The one girl I liked in high school I got the guts to ask her to are senior prom and she ended up being crazy. I don't know any girls that i can date now that I am done with high school. I am shy i am not good with going up to new girls.

[IconMatthew1]

just have confidence man. The right girl will come along.

[earvase]

I Hope So.

[AGentertainment]

What an honest video. Keep makin' vids like this...

[dportis47]

5 stars homie, thank you!

[waltbaby8]

stay up folk ur gurl will come dnt rush it

[dunte86]

Good video man,this thing has really taken off

[amirhashman123]

dude dont mind you have to be the coolest guy on this thing you will find a girl one day . and ask that girl as soon as possible whats the worst that can happen she says yes or no . and i no how you feel i was going to ask a girl out tomoro but my freind ask today and she said yes lol