Life is precious and so is true love. People get caught up in all of the wrong things and never find what it is God made us all to have, love. I thank God each and everyday for my husband. He's truly one of a kind.
It's been ages since I've watched this video and heard this song. Back then I longed for someone to fall in love with. Now that I have, this song reminds me of how I was back then, and how I am now. Love you, Victoria.
this song is to my wife, all she wanted to do was love me and build me up, but I didnt want to see that and betrayed her deeply and now all I want is her back, cause all she wanted me to be a good man...
RIP LIL BROTHER YOU WERE A GOOD MAN AND YOU WILL BE TRULY MISSED8-2-11 GOTTA BE A DREAM YOU NOT HERE AND NOT COMING BACK BUT I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN I GOT TO LOVE YOU BRO YOUR BIG SISTER JACKIE 4 LIFE YOUR NEPHEW MISSES YOU TO MONTE I SEE YOU EVERYDAY HE LOOK JUST LIKE YOU THATS SO CRAZY
i really feel like crying at the end,all this while i thought he was gona propose to her then i see he went in the church and put the ring on the casket.
This song tell my daughter life to a tee, I thank GOD that she was able to find true love before she was called home. Her boyfriend was going to purpose he and I talked about the wedding he had the ring and everything he was just waiting for her to wake up and come home she never did. Please cherish love. A very saddd mom
Had hopes...but just another cookie cutter song....they all sound alike, with the snap of the beat and the vocals...not like real music of the past that was original
@mikebuckets thanks for the heads up but i know he isnt sweetie i have my own rl well had. i dnt wanna send him to his grave early but still thank you
I loved the song from the moment i heard it and after i heard the video, i wanted to cry. I'm an author and i'm gonna create a beautiful background story for the music video. Look forward to it on my facebook page.
I lost my fiance and he was sucj a good man so every time I hear this I think of him. Sometimes there are tears but smile mostly knowing I had a chance to love him
I love this song. Its so touching. Its sad that girl past away. R.L really love this girl. I listen to this song about 4 to 5 before I listen to other song love this song a lot.
This video is a true song,cause if a man really have had a very bad past and listen at this song it can teach him a lesson,to listen at his woman and starting taking advice.To all you women i can say i have had my ups and downs but i'm still holding on.When i listened to this video it brought memory back to me..Shout outs to RL..
Let it be a lesson to all us brothas regardless of race. Don't wait until it's too late to thank the women-whether mother, wife, sister, auntie, girlfriend or daughter-that helped make us good men...
Over 1 Million views and no dislikes! Yes, it's that GOOD! Come BACK to help save R&B, RL!!! I MISS YOU!!! Probably about a thousand of these views are mine! lol
this song invokes a love that i fear this gen. will never see. with all the bullshyt in music these days most ppl have kno idea what tru love is. we need more music like this... bring back tha real shyt plz. Kudos RL
there's a korean version of this tune, well not really officially but put 2 and 2 together and u realize the tune and its MV was heavily influenced by this one....its titled CONFESSION by 4MEN...they got mad vocals al give them that! awesome group btw, am a kpop fan so in this mad almost talentless world of idol dominated music scene these guys are a breath of fresh air! STILL RL RULES ; )
@rloquent You are most welcome, I can appreciate GREAT talent. From the 1st moment this song was released i fell in love with the lyrics, then i saw the video and it touched my heart. Today this song remains just as relevant to me now as it did back then.
The first time I saw this video I thought he preparing for his wedding, cause he was smiling and all... Then as the video kept going and he got to her funeral I realized what was goin on. When he set the wedding ring down on her casket is when it really hit home and had me in tears man... This is good music that speaks the truth... <3
Great song....my best friend has been playing the hell out of it for awhile and she kept telling me to go watch the video and I finally did great song and video was NOT expecting that ending
i cry everytime i watch this video because i was so sure they were about to get married and it sucks because he was in love with her and she changed him but now she gone he'll probably never find love again its just to sad.
@moetolden I've always wondered that too!! And since she looks perfectly healthy on the outside I'm going to assume maybe an over-sized heart or something like that...(shrugs)
DID ANYBODY NOTICE THE COLD SORE ON HIS LIP???? HE COULD HAVE WAITED TO DO THIS VIDEO SHOOT AND I SWEAR I LOVE THIS SONG BUT HE BLEW IT WITH THE HERPES DISPLAY!!!!
@BossChickRiskey09 There was no hating invoived at all miss simply an observation, and as far as your ppl always have something to say hmmmm... u r that person !! Your name iss not RL so what I said should not have bothered you at all. Real talk !!
Life is precious and so is true love. People get caught up in all of the wrong things and never find what it is God made us all to have, love. I thank God each and everyday for my husband. He's truly one of a kind.
hugsandkisses708 1 day ago
i will always love this song!
jeredine24 6 days ago
I LOVE THIS SONG AND THIS MAN HE THE MOST HOMBLE PERSON TO KNOW PLUS HE WROTE THIS SONG ABOUT MY SISTER
ASHIMYIA92 1 week ago
Best saddest song ever
louwizajay 1 week ago
I CANT GET ENOUGH OF THIS SONG...ITS SO AMZING <3
MissSexyLakeisha 2 weeks ago
never gets old. i love this song
Delishisgirl 3 weeks ago
i have been listening to this song for close to ten years now, nearly everyday. i love it n i never seem to get enough of it
pennypeshable 3 weeks ago
beautiful song
kasia0003 1 month ago
OMG....Love the song to bits,its so emotional and beautiful......
ntheks1 1 month ago
This song is just so beautiful,i become so emotional every time i listen to it,love it and always will....thumbs up!!!
ntheks1 1 month ago
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ntheks1 1 month ago
To Cedrick, my good man!
TheSaila84 1 month ago
this song is so true cuz i have a good man and i lay with him every night (I love you cedric d johnson) my good man
QUITANINETEEN 1 month ago
classic
MyJakis 1 month ago
omfg.. Love this song even more now than the first time i heard it..Never gets old
dzbaby23 1 month ago
thumbs up if your still listening this in 2012
RowlexEnterprise 1 month ago 3
This i one of the best vidoe/song ever. In my opinion. Perfect!
yeassir69 1 month ago
This song is so beautiful. Thumps up if you came after hearing it on MTV B2ST!
VanessaAnneHudgensF 2 months ago
as much as i hate 2admit it-it never fails, this video always makes me cry :(
LuvMzLuna 2 months ago 4
It's been ages since I've watched this video and heard this song. Back then I longed for someone to fall in love with. Now that I have, this song reminds me of how I was back then, and how I am now. Love you, Victoria.
Jonbwriter 2 months ago in playlist Favorite videos
Thumbs up if you still listen to this in 2011 :)
CecevsCeleste 2 months ago 7
i have an really good man but he's lock up and now im lonely until he comes homes.so ladies if you have some thing good please dont let him go.
mzwashington1986 2 months ago
@mzwashington1986 so how is he a good man? He's a criminal
Awo3232 1 month ago
this song is to my wife, all she wanted to do was love me and build me up, but I didnt want to see that and betrayed her deeply and now all I want is her back, cause all she wanted me to be a good man...
prince1077 3 months ago
WHAT HAPPENED TO THE WOMAN?
yungbreezy11 3 months ago
@yungbreezy11 She died. How? We dont really know...
Babidee93 2 months ago
A fuckin classic!!!!!!!! Love 90's music
PrinceCharming205 3 months ago 2
RIP LIL BROTHER YOU WERE A GOOD MAN AND YOU WILL BE TRULY MISSED8-2-11 GOTTA BE A DREAM YOU NOT HERE AND NOT COMING BACK BUT I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN I GOT TO LOVE YOU BRO YOUR BIG SISTER JACKIE 4 LIFE YOUR NEPHEW MISSES YOU TO MONTE I SEE YOU EVERYDAY HE LOOK JUST LIKE YOU THATS SO CRAZY
DREADH34D96 3 months ago 2
This video & song are truly something, very moving... videos need unpredictability sometimes. They slept on him & this song...should have been big.
checkavanz101 3 months ago
@checkavanz101 its like that with some of the greatest artists
BULLENTIN 3 months ago
R.I.P to my first love Crystal Brito. You made me a Good Man.
sabreoscar 3 months ago 2
i really feel like crying at the end,all this while i thought he was gona propose to her then i see he went in the church and put the ring on the casket.
claudia9551 4 months ago
beautiful song.luv it
claudia9551 4 months ago
I'm not crying I just have something in my eye.
TheNjTurnpike 4 months ago 9
Thanks i was just about to cry and this comment so made me laugh @TheNjTurnpike
Sherrie2Sweet 2 months ago
@Sherrie2Sweet
HAHAHA...I was about to tear up as well :) so i had to do something.
TheNjTurnpike 2 months ago
This song tell my daughter life to a tee, I thank GOD that she was able to find true love before she was called home. Her boyfriend was going to purpose he and I talked about the wedding he had the ring and everything he was just waiting for her to wake up and come home she never did. Please cherish love. A very saddd mom
smithmarquitta 4 months ago in playlist R.L good man 35
@smithmarquitta May GOD Bless you and your family. I wish I could reach out and hug you. May Gods Peace keep you
nguoy123 3 months ago
R L
TheCapri77 4 months ago
i love this song it makes me cry everytime i hear it or watch da video but its a beautiful song
almetra84 4 months ago
anyone else surprised by the ending =[
truesoldier11231 4 months ago 5
Beautiful song. Brings tears to my eyes. I had a Good Man but lost him 3 years ago :o(
namariya0809 4 months ago
wow!! that was touching!!!
sassytrini 4 months ago
who is that woman?she is stunning!!! i always wanted to know who that woman was.
mikebuckets 4 months ago
@mikebuckets I know right. She is very pretty.
mpope409 4 months ago
this song brings me some good memories
pampulha12 4 months ago
Had hopes...but just another cookie cutter song....they all sound alike, with the snap of the beat and the vocals...not like real music of the past that was original
jasbud 5 months ago
Im going to subscribe for more
itschrisrickyandjoe 5 months ago
Im going to subscribe for more
itschrisrickyandjoe 5 months ago
OMG i love this song sad but really amazing.
hmustang1 5 months ago
wonderful song. every good woman needs a good a woman
ebonay31 5 months ago
wonderful song r.i.p RL
winniebabygirl89 5 months ago
@winniebabygirl89 R.L. isnt dead
mikebuckets 4 months ago
@mikebuckets thanks for the heads up but i know he isnt sweetie i have my own rl well had. i dnt wanna send him to his grave early but still thank you
winniebabygirl89 3 months ago
@unwantedbitch yeah just started watching it heyy,, love them <3
NAZZIE26 5 months ago
@unwantedbitch high five :D
NAZZIE26 5 months ago
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NAZZIE26 5 months ago
I love this song and the video... speechless!!!
bmar1980 5 months ago
I loved the song from the moment i heard it and after i heard the video, i wanted to cry. I'm an author and i'm gonna create a beautiful background story for the music video. Look forward to it on my facebook page.
dingenabangi 5 months ago
I love this song its so sweet anybody else feeling it
sexycescily10 5 months ago in playlist late slow james 2
I lost my fiance and he was sucj a good man so every time I hear this I think of him. Sometimes there are tears but smile mostly knowing I had a chance to love him
calmpassionate1 5 months ago in playlist slow jams 45
he kown he is fine as hell!!!!!!!!!!
24lewislatasha 5 months ago
OMG.. THAT WAS SO SAD...THEY SHOULD OF SHOWED HOW SHE DIED
Dominsha1015 6 months ago
OMG what a sad vid............
I guess all I can say to that is tell the person that you love your feelings before it's too late!!!
MsTracyMichelle 6 months ago
Perfect song, sad video
cheermocha 6 months ago
I heard this on Midnight Love ALLL THE TIME!!! I miss the OLD BET!!!
Qiuera91 6 months ago 3
I love this song. Its so touching. Its sad that girl past away. R.L really love this girl. I listen to this song about 4 to 5 before I listen to other song love this song a lot.
taytaytori2011 6 months ago
I REALLY LOVE THIS SONG..... BEEN LOOKING FOR IT EVERY WHERE CANT SEEM TO FIND IT
sunshine84c 6 months ago
I'm at work tears all in my eyes!!
Love this song!!
2devinebre 6 months ago
wuteva happen to this kind of music
AHIDFIRJG 6 months ago
I'm over here boo whooing like a baby. This song always tugs at my heart strings. And the video... just does it for me
BuffieVanderbilt 6 months ago
i remember when i first heard this song... loved it n still do... so emotional
TeneikaBrown 6 months ago
Ugh such a beautiful song....got tears in my eyes!
MissLLz 6 months ago
LOVE THE SONG BUT STILL DONT KNO WUT HAPPEN TO HIS SHAWTY
AHIDFIRJG 6 months ago
WOW WOW WOW- talk about a video taking an unexpected turn
badgyrlx 6 months ago 2
When me and my ex broke up.. he made me listen to this song.. and it still gets to me sometimes.
lexiluvstris 6 months ago
Mannn, I used to have the biggest crush on him when I was little lol. This was my songgg though.
TreseyB 6 months ago
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TreseyB 6 months ago
This video is a true song,cause if a man really have had a very bad past and listen at this song it can teach him a lesson,to listen at his woman and starting taking advice.To all you women i can say i have had my ups and downs but i'm still holding on.When i listened to this video it brought memory back to me..Shout outs to RL..
lelandjay30 6 months ago
best song ever
hotansexyloli2 6 months ago
black woman are beautiful : )
funkmex 6 months ago
IM CRYING LIK A BIG BABY
Tinietott 7 months ago
I Miss This Kind Of Music! Smh It's A Lot Of Shitty Artist Out Now!
XxXMrsGivensXxX 7 months ago
they don't make songs this good anymore!!!
tessacox100 7 months ago 2
That one person that disliked this song is an idiot! This is the jam!!!
Msadriiiable 7 months ago
R.L. is an amazing singer and I really miss songs from the late 90s, early 2000, the crap thats playing on the radio these days is driving me nuts.
aznmafia77 7 months ago 2
@aznmafia77 i thought i was the only one that felt that way.
mscocotootsiepop 7 months ago
sad but this song is amazing song!!!! first time i watch this I thought he is goin get married but he went to the funeral :( sad very sad
missjan3 7 months ago
OMG this song is soooooo good....... BRILLIANT RL
tbryant318 7 months ago
OMG this song is soooooo goood......brilliant RL
tbryant318 7 months ago
HE IS WRITING MUSIC AND DOING A SOLO PROJECT
kiddupreerong 7 months ago
This song only got 1million something hits wtf.
liberianwifey2 7 months ago
Damn I forgot how fine he was, I wonder were he is now!!
83nakia 7 months ago 3
RL One of the best writters in the music business!
pjzpage 7 months ago
one million views plus and not a single dislike... that says it all (and if you dislike because of this comment you're a loser)
oroge 7 months ago
watched this because Beast did an acapella cover, but omg the video is just GAAHH!!! made me cry :(
justthegirl926 7 months ago
I forgot sge died at the end...made me shed a rear...i miss videos like this
lwilburn1 7 months ago
beautiful
tgreen005 8 months ago
Damn smh i have to get my shit together
timothydify 8 months ago 17
dis song make me think..love it
prettygirl94100 8 months ago
nice video subscribe to my page for more good videos
kblizzy100 8 months ago
this song made me cry at the end i though it was his wedding or he was going to propose <3
Tiffani25g 8 months ago 3
you cant dislike this song... its too touching
jolladaniel 8 months ago 2
Let it be a lesson to all us brothas regardless of race. Don't wait until it's too late to thank the women-whether mother, wife, sister, auntie, girlfriend or daughter-that helped make us good men...
DarqueChilde9 8 months ago 21
i love this song
cutiee32able 8 months ago in playlist love songz
his thowedest single...
YungATMHearMe 8 months ago
@YungATMHearMe what the hell does "thowdest" mean??!!
Rayne852 8 months ago
he is sexy
chaseclassof2011 8 months ago
I miss RL and Next I hope they come back soon. Good times good music.
MsMochaKiss 8 months ago 2
Over 1 Million views and no dislikes! Yes, it's that GOOD! Come BACK to help save R&B, RL!!! I MISS YOU!!! Probably about a thousand of these views are mine! lol
Ms. Malcolmite
Malcolmite08 8 months ago
Is this Teddy Riley?
futuredwade 8 months ago
@futuredwade This is RL of Next, guy...
DarqueChilde9 8 months ago
@DarqueChilde9
He looks so much like Teddy Riley, guy...
futuredwade 8 months ago
@futuredwade I think that's intentional...for marketing purposes (lol).
DarqueChilde9 8 months ago
I used to have the BIGGGGGGGGGGGGGGEST CRUSH ON HIM lol *sigh*... closeted homesexual days... good times lol
Dc3atl 8 months ago
@Dc3atl not at all.... #funny
rloquent 5 months ago
@rloquent not at all what?
Dc3atl 5 months ago
I love RL still....and his beautiful eyes.
MrsMayo08 8 months ago
awwww! this is one of the best videos/songs i've ever seen/heard.! cant believe i aint never heard this smh
laydeelee08 8 months ago
does anybody know how she died??
strongerthanever185 8 months ago
yeah ive listen to this but i didnt no why he lost her.
superstar1218 8 months ago
I was not expecing this ending:( tears! I love me some of him though:)
kcraigen 8 months ago
this dude fighting in a celebrity boxing match in atl june 9th 2011 against dude from soul food, ha
adwerdz 9 months ago
Yeah baby this is the jam
k2stevenson 9 months ago
BEAUTIFUL!!!
onejqueen 9 months ago
Ahh man this right here is good music
skinnylilwyteguy 9 months ago
still makes me cry...now this is what music is about
TheRoxie08 9 months ago
I fell in love with this song late one night a long time ago and it def made me cry..soul singer.
ldye7890 9 months ago
I'm a grown man, and I even shed a tear at the end.
gisfinest01 9 months ago 2
love diz song... how did she die.....
MultiDaisha 9 months ago
love diz song... how did she die.....
MultiDaisha 9 months ago
he is simple A M A Z I N G.
CeceLuvv1424 9 months ago
wonder if this is based on something that really happened to him
great song !!!
truesoldier11231 9 months ago
this song invokes a love that i fear this gen. will never see. with all the bullshyt in music these days most ppl have kno idea what tru love is. we need more music like this... bring back tha real shyt plz. Kudos RL
1upwired 10 months ago 3
THAT is a FINNNEEEE specimen!!! Love a man lookin good in a suit! :p
Dimplez816 10 months ago 3
@Dimplez816 Yes maam. I agree.
prettysmile30 9 months ago
THAT is a FINNNEEE specimen :p
Dimplez816 10 months ago 2
Song really hits close to home
mylyfe85 10 months ago
Whatever happen to R.L.
Excellent singer
Didn't have enough c.d.'s
So underrated!
woowoo5407 10 months ago 22
@woowoo5407 he's in Atlanta now he's a producer.. He has gotton fat too you wouldn't recognize him if he wasn't introduced..
rap19856 6 months ago
@rap19856 lies.
rloquent 5 months ago
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@rloquent NIGGER WHAT THE FUCK IS YOU CALLING LIES YOU BITCH ASS FAGGOT?
rap19856 5 months ago
@rap19856 How bout RL himself.. and FYI I'm not a "nigger"... Lets respect one another.
rloquent 5 months ago
Crying :(
jaydamuah 10 months ago
there's a korean version of this tune, well not really officially but put 2 and 2 together and u realize the tune and its MV was heavily influenced by this one....its titled CONFESSION by 4MEN...they got mad vocals al give them that! awesome group btw, am a kpop fan so in this mad almost talentless world of idol dominated music scene these guys are a breath of fresh air! STILL RL RULES ; )
liseana 10 months ago
No one could have done this song any better...RL killed it and the video sealed it...
angeleyes8424 10 months ago 3
@angeleyes8424 I appreciate that...
rloquent 5 months ago
@rloquent I appreciate YOU and your music!!
angeleyes8424 5 months ago
Respond to this video... Thanks!!
rloquent 5 months ago
@rloquent You are most welcome, I can appreciate GREAT talent. From the 1st moment this song was released i fell in love with the lyrics, then i saw the video and it touched my heart. Today this song remains just as relevant to me now as it did back then.
angeleyes8424 5 months ago
Man...love this song bro...love the video..colors...etc... 4 THUMBS UP!!
cwstudiosatl 10 months ago
I went to sleep to this song every night..
TheDetermine11 10 months ago
wutta song!!!???
MrAremis 10 months ago
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!
RACQUELGEMINI 10 months ago
The first time I saw this video I thought he preparing for his wedding, cause he was smiling and all... Then as the video kept going and he got to her funeral I realized what was goin on. When he set the wedding ring down on her casket is when it really hit home and had me in tears man... This is good music that speaks the truth... <3
Spontaneous954 11 months ago 3
Hey guys I have a new song i guarantee ya ganna love. It's called "thinking of you" Please give it a chance thanks.. YouTube BennyGhost
Super9999999999999 11 months ago
Great song....my best friend has been playing the hell out of it for awhile and she kept telling me to go watch the video and I finally did great song and video was NOT expecting that ending
CountryBumpin205 11 months ago 2
@desirous82
Very heart breaking! My God!
akamizzT 11 months ago
i cry everytime i watch this video because i was so sure they were about to get married and it sucks because he was in love with her and she changed him but now she gone he'll probably never find love again its just to sad.
ookibubble 11 months ago 2
man this song make me cry every time i see it or hear it............. da worst thing that cn happen to me happened today
radatudal1032 11 months ago
he got a new one out called running its on my page check it out yall
biggs6108 11 months ago
I would really like to know how she dies
moetolden 11 months ago
@moetolden I've always wondered that too!! And since she looks perfectly healthy on the outside I'm going to assume maybe an over-sized heart or something like that...(shrugs)
Sophfa86 11 months ago
I would really love to know how she died...
moetolden 11 months ago
Love this video
mscarter519 1 year ago
I had a women like that, damn I miss her.
tman2si 1 year ago
This video always makes me wanna cry!
jazzyme10 1 year ago
DID ANYBODY NOTICE THE COLD SORE ON HIS LIP???? HE COULD HAVE WAITED TO DO THIS VIDEO SHOOT AND I SWEAR I LOVE THIS SONG BUT HE BLEW IT WITH THE HERPES DISPLAY!!!!
tntgray032908 1 year ago
@tntgray032908 lol too funny
htowngurl17 1 year ago
@tntgray032908 yhu lookin dhaat hard ? danq all on da man lips'x wrrye boud yhur ! pple always'x qot some ta sayy . ! smh !
BossChickRiskey09 1 year ago
@BossChickRiskey09 There was no hating invoived at all miss simply an observation, and as far as your ppl always have something to say hmmmm... u r that person !! Your name iss not RL so what I said should not have bothered you at all. Real talk !!
tntgray032908 11 months ago
@tntgray032908 well it's actually a scar from a fight when I was little. #comedy
rloquent 5 months ago
@tntgray032908 LMBO! I noticed it too.
NCEEMAIL 11 months ago
@tntgray032908 i think thats jus his lip...not a cold sore.
Tponcho2453 11 months ago