I love that someone else took this responsibility of helping other young males. In Romania, this happens to stand still on the grown ups' thinking too.
For example, I can't escape the feeling I don't attract somebody, even if my straight friends tell
me I am thin and beautiful and I realize this deception I've built myself being unable to enjoy the other pleasures of life.
@Riku1135 yes! exactly! the sages of meditation describe the result of suicide as having a huge negative effect on how fortunate your soul is. Apparently you get unpleasant lives after killing one you lucked into. I know people don't feel it's lucky because of the pain and anger and hurt they live through.... but that's the point. It is the test of fire.. can you be true to yourself and to life to get through... Earth is not meant for comfort. it is meant for testing and learning.
@themoonwolves1 Yes, it is my concern, despite that you wish it were not. It is the concern of many people around you, ones you may not be aware are affected by your presence/. Certainly they, we would be by your death. Death is Permanent. Cold. Gone. It hurts. It hurts even when you do not know the person. You are human, you have beauty and worth because you are a person. We feel that. I feel that. The death of that hurts. I am hurt by it. I do care what happens to you, even on our 1st meeting.
@themoonwolves1 I'm not sure how you mean that is so? It does make me remember what the ancient Hindu sages always point out, remembering your own death is key to living fully. They do not recommend suicide, however. In fact killing yourself rather seriously screws your karma, in Hinduism.
@SisterUnity They regard life as a rare and lucky classroom in which to face really fucking hard lessons about oneself and using these, to know and experience the truth of the Inner Self, to let go of the attachment and aversion to the outer drama, and to know the truth: that one's own Self is the Self of the universe, that nothing exists but one's own Self.
Oh, also, the 37-year-old pedophile, who caused the chain of suicides, was a police officer and never served a day in jail. I think he's still married to his wife.
All I'm saying is that suicide isn't a gay thing necessarily. I think Hitler and Ernest Hemmingway also shot themselves. They were straight men too, I believe. Maybe not Hitler, but who can say? He's dead after all. Can anyone ask a dead man what his sexual preference was?
I knew a straight kid, who committed suicide. He was on hard drugs like meth and crack. His girlfriend, who was also 16 years old, was being molested by a 37 year old man. She broke up with the kid, and he blew his head off with a shotgun in his compact car in the apartment parking lot. About 15 or 20 underage kids discovered the body and opened the car door, because they thought it was a Halloween prank. It wasn't. About five of those kids ended up killing themselves in adulthood.
I'm sorry for the people who comment that you look like a cockroach. At first, I thought you looked weird, but as I listened, I saw you as a truely beautiful person. Your words are uplifting and your presence is a good thing for the world.
@itsjojovan It's just the right thing to do. It's hard for a lot of people. I really hate it when people have the nerve to tell people they're wrong just because they're being themselves. I just told my mom I like girls and she called me a sin and told me I wasn't the same person and demanded I change for her. I know what it's like to hurt on the inside. Like I said; It's just the right thing to do to help a voice in need weather you know the pain or not.
@ManyLemons2 couldnt have said it better myself :) and as for your mother, give her time, im pretty sure shell come around, as they say, it gets better <3
@ManyLemons2 You and your Mom might benefit from the knowledge that your lives, though connected, are your own, not beholden to each in any way but the offering of love.
what about the normal people in society who are suicidal and have problems? are you discrimiating against straight people with depression. that aint nice.
@TheShootTruth10 I don't believe in comparing suicide risk. What I myself can do is address one at risk group who are at risk because of one trait we share and about which I can speak with some experience. What can you do for the at risk group of whom you are aware?
I love you Sister Unity. I watched this video and all of the others you have on here. You lifted my spirits and made me feel like I have a friend. Over time since the early eighties I have lost most of my friends to aids. I feel so empty sometimes that I actually feel numb. You words of encouragement and the stories you tell are some of the few things that keep me going! Keep up the good work .
Thank you for doing these videos and reaching out to those that need these comforting words. I am a huge supporter of the Sisters and the work that they do. Keep fighting the good fight and spreading the love that will change hearts and minds.
thank you so much sister unity,its people like you in this world that help people like me live,ive tryed once half heartedly to do it because of my mom,she just doesnt get that im bisexual at all and thinks its just a faze and that were all faking it to "try and be diffrent" and she thinks i only came out to spite her,but she came from a completely diffrent place growing up,a minenite community,where your a sinner if you are,so i guess i cant blame her
thank you so much fr ur support....... i'l start 2 love myself fr d way im ....... bt i need strenght to face my brother ...... i wish i had sme1 like u near to me here :'( .. in india . i hate god why he is soo soo unfair ... life is nt fair to me :x
It is not God who is unfair, it is your karma which you must deal with. Ask Ganesh for grace. Ganesha LOVES gay people.
You do not have to face your brother alone. Go make gay friends or friends with people who are OK with gay people, then face him with your friends. You are not alone, even in India.
@shubham54321 your loneliness will end. There are hundreds, thousands, millions like you in India, in this world. We are all cheering for you and sending you blessings. Be compassionate and loving toward yourself while this difficult time passes through your life. Balance the bad with your own patience and caring for yourself. Give yourself love. SAy to yourself every day, "I do not care what any one else says, I love myself. I love myself. I love myself exactly as I am."
i live in india and m 19 years old...... oftenly i remain depressed thinking abt my future my career as im a gay ...... ppl around me hav a narrow thinking nd i feel dey r nt gng to accept me d way i m. yes i did plan to commit suicide ....... hanging my self ,,, bt failed at doing so because i dont have d courage..... i feel so much trapped in dis body,, juss feel like runing away.... my brother got to knw am gay nd he bullys me ol d tym :( ,,, frm d past few days am really feelin
@shubham54321 committing suicide does not employ courage. It employs anger and selfishness, a bit of narcissism, and a lack of understanding about life and grace. You "failed" because you have too much inner grace to do this act. Your inner Self knows what death and suicide is and it pulled you back.
Your brother lives in a bad state. He has wounded the kindness of his own heart. Imagine what it must be like to live in such a mind and heart? He deserves only your pity.
@rainbowsstarfire and a redundant nobody at that! Of course you CAN do anything you damn well please. But, have you done all the research there is to do on the reality of your state, who you are versus who you think you are?
There is an important difference between opinion and objective research. Before taking key actions, the best and most thorough research is warranted.
@SisterUnity Certainly because death is irreversible, does not solve problems or feelings, just kills you, and because of the harsh and extremely painful tragedy you leave for all the rest of us when you do that.
I am bisexual...but it is very hard for me to admit it to myself at times...and i do wanna be in a relationship with a male,but im afraid of the backlash of it with my family and in particularly my brother.i do think of suicide often,and it doesnt help i have ptsd. I feel like im backed up into a corner.
thank you for "HAPPINESS IS INEVITABLE". i have discovered signs I need to watch out with my latest depression..... like isolation. But thank you for the video. My heart will keep beating.............plus I already pledged for same sex marriage to be legal accross the United States so I guess loosing one more gay life won't contribute to that pledge. Thank you seriously thank you. from san juan, puerto rico.
some one i love he is gay like me but he keep try to kill him slfe. one time i tack a gun from him but im scard if i call some one he will not like me no more and im scard to tall him im gay too and i love him. i just not want him to not like meno more what do you thicki need to do?
@YAOIXXX2 Hi my friend. Such a situation calls for courage. What is more important? your feelings or his life? (hint: his life). You sacrifice the friendship in order to dave a life. the friendship can come back later.. the life cannot. Forgiving someone who tried to help him can only be done if he is alive to do it. Be brave: do what is NECESSARY, and what is the RIGHT thing to do.
Dear Sister Unity, you are wonderful and beautiful!! You are so right!!
I am a young LGBT person, and I have thought about suicide many times.I have felt so alone. I have felt the anxiety, the depression. This video makes me feel so safe. I hope your positive message will reach everyone.
I wish resources like The Trevor Project existed in my country...
At least, thanks to this wonderful video, I feel warm, validated and not so alone. Thank you!!!
I have to admit.. I am a lesbian... I remember just like yesturday... I been out of school long time now, but I remember all my teachers took away everything that I can make or do to harm myself. I currently now some what stable but not really, cause I have constant urges and many flash backs. Its not what I wished for. :/
@phanggrl hang in there! I came out at 19. Eventually your parents and friends accept you for the person you are. I wish you only the best! Jeanne in Manhattan
Beauty is beauty no matter what packaging it comes in. Don't be so judgmental about people and how they wish to spend their time on this world. I would like to say thank you for this message and your ability to maintain your grace even in the face of such negativity. xoxox :)
i've got no problem w/ gay ppl. but i find tranny and flamboyantly feminine men. i mean i dun give an ever livin shit what sum1 does in thier personal life but why do you have to act like that? i got a freind who's gay but u would never no unless the subject came up. neway its the rainbow types that make it so "normal" gay ppl are expected to act like they are chics. i just think das fcked up like the thugs who make it so a normal black dude isnt black unless he raps or sum shit...
I know you aren't saying that no black men should rap, or look thuggish, ever, Right? Are you saying everyone has to look "normal" like you think normal looks? People are as they are, man. Queer is queer and it's part of the world, same as men who fuck men. If you don't understand it, ask questions. If you don't like it, walk on by.
did you read my comment? im not saying everyone has to be "normal". im saying is that people play into stererotypes and make it so that people who want to be themselves cant. example: i got a freind he happens to be white. he acts like what the majority of pp would call black. i mean thats just the way he is. bt since that stereotype is attactched to the black ppl he is seen as fake/illegit. same for vice versa. same for gay men who wanna be themselves but aint ligit less they be flamboyant.
my example of thugs is just this. i dunno what nationality u r, but most "races" have a stereotype that if one deviates from they will be seen as....not one of their race. asians expected to be book worms: fckin BS! i know sum korean cats that kill at B-Ball. whites are preppy: i already gave an example in my above comment. blacks r thuggish: i know alot enlightened type niggas. real spiritual,intelligent types. im just using this in comparison to gays. flamboyance is expected or they aint gay
I understand what you are saying. I think it is both true and untrue. My experience here in Los Angeles is the opposite; here if you are gay, your stereotype is the Abercrombie & Fitch boy-next-door. The flamboyant one is the outsider, even in the gay community... or, milder, is the creative extra-special gay and is not mainstream. I can't think of a place in the US where flamboyant is considered the norm for gay men other than in the most under-exposed right leaning places.
well, if you read 'Her' profile, she is kind of an alien biological walking orange glitter factory who converted to Hinduism, so, the eyelashes should be the least of your questions lol.
Do you even know WHY she has the makeup? She is part of a group called the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, a group that raises money for charities, and also fights for equality and equal rights. And, if you are talking club drugs, she is way too calm to have taken too much PCP in her club days. At least get the effects of your drugs right asshole.
@Kawamura2 Well, the Entire LGBT movement is based upon the premise that you need freedom for who you fuck, and considering the fact that THE GOVERNMENT CANT OBVIOUSLY STOP WHAT HAPPENS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS OR WHAT PEOPLE DO WITH THEIR FIRST AMMENDMENT, I don't see what the issue is. And everytime the movement is offered some constructive criticism, everybody goes "OH, PERCECUTION, YOU GAY BASHER."
You weren't giving any constructive criticism, you were commenting on her eyelashes. Her video is on GLBT teens who are considering suicide, what the ever living FUCK does that have to do with what people do behind closed doors or the first amendment? You do realize gay teens commit suicide more often than straight teens, right? They are persecuted more than any other teen group, and yet you bitch because people don't want to be persecuted. No sir, fuck you, and your shitty attitude.
There's nothing wrong with being asexual. I wouldn't persecute you. But since you are persecuted, you would think you would have sympathy for others who are as well.
@Kawamura2 Not really. I have came to the conclusion that it is just an aspect of humanity: To only care about one's self, and one's own will. This person wouldn't be making the videos if they didn't view themselves as profiting in some way from producing this video.
Well, that's a cynical view you have of humanity. I doubt she is profiting by making this video. How would she profit from making a video on GLBT teen suicide? And, while i agree the goal in life is to do one's true will, that doesn't include only looking out for number one, and fuck the rest. There is always room for caring about others.
cm2dude is correct, I experience benefits from making these videos and the responses. I get to express my feelings and thoughts and to be heard which satisfies me enormously. Addressing issues like the one in this video alleviates my anxiety over the poor conditions I encounter in my world in LA, so I get to feel relief that I have done at least this to help.
And it is just sheer fun.
Profit is not dirty when benefits are available for all while taking from one's own resources.
Well, it depends on the profit. I think he meant monetary profit, but the profit of feeling accomplishment in helping people, that is another thing. Profit can be good, and it doesn't always mean worldly profit. When i said i doubt you are profiting by making the video, i meant materialistically.
@SisterUnity Yes. But you profit, nonetheless. All people do what they perceive as being good. Even the people that bash gays might do so because they believe it is the right thing.
@SisterUnity People do what they generally believe to be good.
But the only thing is that "Good" in the eyes of everyone changes.
In Islam, "Good" is to follow Sharia law.
In some churches, "Good" is to follow the bible strictly.
SisterUnity, there is nothing special about mankind. We are still a primitive species, and the ultimate step towards evolution in my opinion is the development of an iron will, and to focus on matters beyond fornication and survival.
If we deconstruct "good" then what are these notions of "special" and primitive"? They are as subjective as good.
Your point is in a direction I recognize as a yogini. I would offer that when you attain that evolution, you find that the base and the transcendent are the same thing. "Na shivam vidyate quaachit". Of course you get to the transcendent faster by focusing on other than the base, usually, but it can depend your vision. As one Swami put it, "See God in everything."
You did such a great job! I've been on the suicide side- Yep, things really get better. And on the survivor side- that pain never totally goes away. Thanks so much. You are beautiful.
Thank you for posting this. I wish I had someone to tell me this when I was a teenager leaving the ranks of the fundamentalist right wing and coming to terms with the fact that I was gay and that wasn't something that God would change no matter how hard i prayed. I was fortunate to have two gay Uncles that were there for me as I was going through the feelings of loneliness but i know there are many out there that don't have that. Your words always touch my heart. Thank you Sister.
My own little "accident" is long past. Yet never a day goes by that I don't wish I'd succeded and revel in my current life and wonder what might have been and fear what is coming.
Yeah, alive is better; harder but better.
Sorrow and loss are an opportunity for growth. I wish I'd taken that opportunity sooner.
I do think this is real courage: living in the face of adversity, hardship, pain. Not defeating it or getting rid of it. Rather, facing it and living anyway.
@azinuamprieteni ... You are absolutely right. Today is 1st day i was Sister Unity's videos. And I already saw three videos. Sister is pretty, beautiful, very expressive and understand the needs of certain group of people that other don't care much for. God Bless You All
when i spent my teen years wanting to die, no one wanted to help. hell my mom kicked me out and i spent alot of time in juvy and escaping grouphomes, and the worlds lack of compassion made me turn my anger outward aswell as in, and suddenly people cared about my behavior. then i decided ill kill myself slowly with any and all substances, and only use suicide to escape responsibility for my actions. "dude the cops are coming" "ill fucking KILL myself ha ha ha"
i am almost 37 now and although i drink a dangerous ammount, i have taken directly killing myself off the table, and share the good parts of myself with people more. it is always funny when a friend has a child and they discover that ultra drunk frequently bleeding foulmouth roughneck often in his nun suit is better with their kids than they are! the lady i mentioned on another vid keeps asking me how im doing it, and other than family, and her spouse, i am the only person she trusts with him.
To quote rich & happy Manson in support of suicide is a little like quoting Senator Craig on opposing gay rights, I think. You might do better quoting Cobain. Though it seems to me the guy who killed himself paid a lot more than anybody else; he's frickin' dead.
Society has neither suppressed me nor destroyed me. I'm having a ball and enjoying the fight. I'm getting much father striking back with humor and beauty and truth than by hurting them or myself. Killing yourself in the midst of battle loses you the war. Also, it F#@ks up those who might support you and leaves the real opponents laughing at you. So, strategically, that's why not.
My question is, why hide the truth of your anger behind pretentious proclamations of anger? If you are angry for a specific cause, address that cause.
The hundred lives around us have no writ; That is why we look out for each other and cultivate happiness in our world.
The hundred lives around us need no writ; they are That which is happiness itself, as are we. To know this, engage anger and find out what is further beyond it, That from which it arises, it's sublime, pulsating, core origin.
Even if we achieve everything possible, what do we have to show for it? Money? Respect? Admiration?
We are forgotten within a generation's time.
Also, I was more speaking of violent suicide-bomber style attacks, Ala columbine. How else do you get societies attention? If your guns are loud enough people will remember your act. We all remember them, the media is still obsessed. In their death, they spoke louder than any of us could.
They lost everything. They are remembered only as a post-mortem diagnosed sociopath and a manipulable emotional dependent. Their point, if recalled, is valued at "Trite" or ignorant and misguided... or sociopathic.
So it is not only important to have a voice that will be heard and remembered, it is important to have something worth remembering to say.
I offer Ghandi and Martin Luther King as examples of revolutionaries remembered. If you want more anger and bitter critique, I offer Larry Kramer, Queer Nation, The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, and Harvey Milk.
Death left them with nothing as it always does. However, it left us with change for the better, which would have made them very happy.
Thanks for the video, it's so good to see encouragement for hope and the future. I was a victim of rejection and hate when I was younger and it was a person much like yourself who saved my life. Thanks so much! Keep up the good words!
wow... if it weren't for your voice I'd think your a girl! O_o You look better than a lot of MTF's I've seen do... I wish I could be that "Passable" (In the opposite direction though FTM)
Erm... Woops, I knew he was a "Drag-Nun" I was commenting on how well he dresses, I know a lot of MTFs that don't pass that well as a woman, it's amazing a drag queen passes that well though. ;)
Ohh, how this reminds me of 'Prayers for Bobby'..
I love that someone else took this responsibility of helping other young males. In Romania, this happens to stand still on the grown ups' thinking too.
For example, I can't escape the feeling I don't attract somebody, even if my straight friends tell
me I am thin and beautiful and I realize this deception I've built myself being unable to enjoy the other pleasures of life.
Take good care!
DailyQuestionsAnswer 2 hours ago
I don't fear death, I fear what happens next
Riku1135 2 weeks ago
@Riku1135 yes! exactly! the sages of meditation describe the result of suicide as having a huge negative effect on how fortunate your soul is. Apparently you get unpleasant lives after killing one you lucked into. I know people don't feel it's lucky because of the pain and anger and hurt they live through.... but that's the point. It is the test of fire.. can you be true to yourself and to life to get through... Earth is not meant for comfort. it is meant for testing and learning.
SisterUnity 2 weeks ago
im a gay teen and i know that just not right
mrpieman12 3 weeks ago
This is a miracle.
BarnyFife1 2 months ago
U look so cool!!!!!
Yoshibear1998 2 months ago
@ SisterUnity how did you get your eyelashes to do that?
Tyler64381 3 months ago
@Tyler64381 Plant food in my Visine, my Dear One.
SisterUnity 3 months ago
@Tyler64381 by being sooper dooper gay. and taking an arrow in the knee
dour2 1 month ago
so what what if i want to kill myslfe. its not your consern
themoonwolves1 4 months ago
@themoonwolves1 Yes, it is my concern, despite that you wish it were not. It is the concern of many people around you, ones you may not be aware are affected by your presence/. Certainly they, we would be by your death. Death is Permanent. Cold. Gone. It hurts. It hurts even when you do not know the person. You are human, you have beauty and worth because you are a person. We feel that. I feel that. The death of that hurts. I am hurt by it. I do care what happens to you, even on our 1st meeting.
SisterUnity 4 months ago
@SisterUnity death is the beaty of life
themoonwolves1 4 months ago
@themoonwolves1 I'm not sure how you mean that is so? It does make me remember what the ancient Hindu sages always point out, remembering your own death is key to living fully. They do not recommend suicide, however. In fact killing yourself rather seriously screws your karma, in Hinduism.
SisterUnity 4 months ago
@SisterUnity They regard life as a rare and lucky classroom in which to face really fucking hard lessons about oneself and using these, to know and experience the truth of the Inner Self, to let go of the attachment and aversion to the outer drama, and to know the truth: that one's own Self is the Self of the universe, that nothing exists but one's own Self.
SisterUnity 4 months ago
@SisterUnity its their concern then, not yours. it used to be my concern, then i took an arrow in the knee
dour2 1 month ago
I heard there's a new medication for depressed lesbians. It's called Tricoxaggen.
SpasticusAutisticus1 6 months ago
@SpasticusAutisticus1 No, dear, that's the ointment they rub on straight guys who haven't a clue about the world.
SisterUnity 6 months ago
I really like your makeup..it looks like a butterfly:)
MarinaNomNom 7 months ago
i think your message would be more powerful if you did have all the make up and the costume
ganaschico 7 months ago
Oh, also, the 37-year-old pedophile, who caused the chain of suicides, was a police officer and never served a day in jail. I think he's still married to his wife.
ebonics4everyone 8 months ago
All I'm saying is that suicide isn't a gay thing necessarily. I think Hitler and Ernest Hemmingway also shot themselves. They were straight men too, I believe. Maybe not Hitler, but who can say? He's dead after all. Can anyone ask a dead man what his sexual preference was?
ebonics4everyone 8 months ago
I knew a straight kid, who committed suicide. He was on hard drugs like meth and crack. His girlfriend, who was also 16 years old, was being molested by a 37 year old man. She broke up with the kid, and he blew his head off with a shotgun in his compact car in the apartment parking lot. About 15 or 20 underage kids discovered the body and opened the car door, because they thought it was a Halloween prank. It wasn't. About five of those kids ended up killing themselves in adulthood.
ebonics4everyone 8 months ago
Beautiful, like your butterfly.
Riku1135 10 months ago
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Dear Sister Unity,
Your spirit shines and i so appreciate what you are doing to help others.
Thank you for all that you do....
Many Blessings with Creative Love & Light,
Lisa Bull
zaishoservices 11 months ago
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zaishoservices 11 months ago
i like your face
ultama121 11 months ago
I love the Make up!
greendaylover323 1 year ago
I'm sorry for the people who comment that you look like a cockroach. At first, I thought you looked weird, but as I listened, I saw you as a truely beautiful person. Your words are uplifting and your presence is a good thing for the world.
ManyLemons2 1 year ago 3
@ManyLemons2 Thanks Lemons! Listening changes so much.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
@SisterUnity A lot of people listen. Only a few take the chance to reply to the call for help. That's why there's the saying "Men are cowards."
ManyLemons2 1 year ago
@ManyLemons2 i find it beautiful that you were willing to do that,
itsjojovan 1 year ago
@itsjojovan It's just the right thing to do. It's hard for a lot of people. I really hate it when people have the nerve to tell people they're wrong just because they're being themselves. I just told my mom I like girls and she called me a sin and told me I wasn't the same person and demanded I change for her. I know what it's like to hurt on the inside. Like I said; It's just the right thing to do to help a voice in need weather you know the pain or not.
ManyLemons2 1 year ago
@ManyLemons2 couldnt have said it better myself :) and as for your mother, give her time, im pretty sure shell come around, as they say, it gets better <3
itsjojovan 1 year ago
@itsjojovan Jesus Christ, I hope so. I'm suffering here.
ManyLemons2 1 year ago
@ManyLemons2 What's going on? Tell me your story.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
@ManyLemons2 :/ im sorry
itsjojovan 1 year ago
@ManyLemons2 You and your Mom might benefit from the knowledge that your lives, though connected, are your own, not beholden to each in any way but the offering of love.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
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DO IT FAGGOT KILL YOURSELF.
JFKillem 1 year ago
You are absolutely wonderful I love you! I think its great what you're doing. And you remind me of the disney Thumbalina movie!
BababoCopyrights 1 year ago
what about the normal people in society who are suicidal and have problems? are you discrimiating against straight people with depression. that aint nice.
TheShootTruth10 1 year ago
@TheShootTruth10 I don't believe in comparing suicide risk. What I myself can do is address one at risk group who are at risk because of one trait we share and about which I can speak with some experience. What can you do for the at risk group of whom you are aware?
SisterUnity 1 year ago
Beautiful, important message <3 Thankyou
(I can't help being reminded of 'Silence of the Lambs' with the whole butterfly motif haha)
lizzie25m 1 year ago
You look lovely! Thank you for the great message that will help people who are considering suicide as an option.
innocuousaccount 1 year ago
Sister Unity - you are beautiful! I've always enjoyed your videos! Thank you for this one!
danacianciotto 1 year ago
damn this is the third time today a coakroach has spoken too me
burninhell47 1 year ago
u look like a cockroach
3479449844 1 year ago
@3479449844 "The world is a mirror"
SisterUnity 1 year ago 7
@3479449844 - you sound like a fool.
danacianciotto 1 year ago
I love you Sister Unity. I watched this video and all of the others you have on here. You lifted my spirits and made me feel like I have a friend. Over time since the early eighties I have lost most of my friends to aids. I feel so empty sometimes that I actually feel numb. You words of encouragement and the stories you tell are some of the few things that keep me going! Keep up the good work .
ulltra 1 year ago
Are you prince poppycock? :o, And did you do the makeup yourself? O_O
groo737 1 year ago
WTF
SADproductionsMmM 1 year ago
Thank you, Sister!
Love ya,
BBK
berlion1 1 year ago
Love you sisters!
Jamesscalise 1 year ago
thank you.
sunburstcarrier 1 year ago
Thank you for doing these videos and reaching out to those that need these comforting words. I am a huge supporter of the Sisters and the work that they do. Keep fighting the good fight and spreading the love that will change hearts and minds.
faerywoman 1 year ago
wattup with the long lashes?
UfurReel 1 year ago
@UfurReel They're natural!
SisterUnity 1 year ago 9
@UfurReel All the better to catch you with, my dear.
HenhousetheRed 1 year ago
thank you so much sister unity,its people like you in this world that help people like me live,ive tryed once half heartedly to do it because of my mom,she just doesnt get that im bisexual at all and thinks its just a faze and that were all faking it to "try and be diffrent" and she thinks i only came out to spite her,but she came from a completely diffrent place growing up,a minenite community,where your a sinner if you are,so i guess i cant blame her
yfset8 1 year ago
thank you so much fr ur support....... i'l start 2 love myself fr d way im ....... bt i need strenght to face my brother ...... i wish i had sme1 like u near to me here :'( .. in india . i hate god why he is soo soo unfair ... life is nt fair to me :x
shubham54321 1 year ago
@shubham54321 You are very welcome.
It is not God who is unfair, it is your karma which you must deal with. Ask Ganesh for grace. Ganesha LOVES gay people.
You do not have to face your brother alone. Go make gay friends or friends with people who are OK with gay people, then face him with your friends. You are not alone, even in India.
SisterUnity 1 year ago 2
@shubham54321 i know wat u feel,im from Vietnam lol and my family is pretty communist............my mom would call me fat sometimes
milo1605 1 year ago
very low...... ive startd smoking,,,, nd drink alochohol ......... please help me ..... im feeling really lonely.......
shubham54321 1 year ago
@shubham54321 your loneliness will end. There are hundreds, thousands, millions like you in India, in this world. We are all cheering for you and sending you blessings. Be compassionate and loving toward yourself while this difficult time passes through your life. Balance the bad with your own patience and caring for yourself. Give yourself love. SAy to yourself every day, "I do not care what any one else says, I love myself. I love myself. I love myself exactly as I am."
SisterUnity 1 year ago
hey, hi.
i live in india and m 19 years old...... oftenly i remain depressed thinking abt my future my career as im a gay ...... ppl around me hav a narrow thinking nd i feel dey r nt gng to accept me d way i m. yes i did plan to commit suicide ....... hanging my self ,,, bt failed at doing so because i dont have d courage..... i feel so much trapped in dis body,, juss feel like runing away.... my brother got to knw am gay nd he bullys me ol d tym :( ,,, frm d past few days am really feelin
shubham54321 1 year ago
@shubham54321 committing suicide does not employ courage. It employs anger and selfishness, a bit of narcissism, and a lack of understanding about life and grace. You "failed" because you have too much inner grace to do this act. Your inner Self knows what death and suicide is and it pulled you back.
Your brother lives in a bad state. He has wounded the kindness of his own heart. Imagine what it must be like to live in such a mind and heart? He deserves only your pity.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
@shubham54321 Feel free to contact me anytime. I am gay and older. Bless you!
Jeanne in Manhattan
Jeannenyc57 1 year ago
if i want to kill myself i can because im just one nobody
rainbowsstarfire 1 year ago
@rainbowsstarfire and a redundant nobody at that! Of course you CAN do anything you damn well please. But, have you done all the research there is to do on the reality of your state, who you are versus who you think you are?
There is an important difference between opinion and objective research. Before taking key actions, the best and most thorough research is warranted.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
@SisterUnity Certainly because death is irreversible, does not solve problems or feelings, just kills you, and because of the harsh and extremely painful tragedy you leave for all the rest of us when you do that.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
@SisterUnity your nice
rainbowsstarfire 1 year ago
@rainbowsstarfire Thank you! Your words make me feel really good :)
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rainbowsstarfire 1 year ago
I am bisexual...but it is very hard for me to admit it to myself at times...and i do wanna be in a relationship with a male,but im afraid of the backlash of it with my family and in particularly my brother.i do think of suicide often,and it doesnt help i have ptsd. I feel like im backed up into a corner.
vulcan198888 1 year ago
thank you for "HAPPINESS IS INEVITABLE". i have discovered signs I need to watch out with my latest depression..... like isolation. But thank you for the video. My heart will keep beating.............plus I already pledged for same sex marriage to be legal accross the United States so I guess loosing one more gay life won't contribute to that pledge. Thank you seriously thank you. from san juan, puerto rico.
muellerican 1 year ago
some one i love he is gay like me but he keep try to kill him slfe. one time i tack a gun from him but im scard if i call some one he will not like me no more and im scard to tall him im gay too and i love him. i just not want him to not like meno more what do you thicki need to do?
YAOIXXX2 1 year ago
@YAOIXXX2 Hi my friend. Such a situation calls for courage. What is more important? your feelings or his life? (hint: his life). You sacrifice the friendship in order to dave a life. the friendship can come back later.. the life cannot. Forgiving someone who tried to help him can only be done if he is alive to do it. Be brave: do what is NECESSARY, and what is the RIGHT thing to do.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
Wow what way to get message very powerful!!!!!!!
peoplestandup 1 year ago
Dear Sister Unity, you are wonderful and beautiful!! You are so right!!
I am a young LGBT person, and I have thought about suicide many times.I have felt so alone. I have felt the anxiety, the depression. This video makes me feel so safe. I hope your positive message will reach everyone.
I wish resources like The Trevor Project existed in my country...
At least, thanks to this wonderful video, I feel warm, validated and not so alone. Thank you!!!
YukiNekoPrincess 1 year ago
scary as fuck
satanknight14 1 year ago
I have to admit.. I am a lesbian... I remember just like yesturday... I been out of school long time now, but I remember all my teachers took away everything that I can make or do to harm myself. I currently now some what stable but not really, cause I have constant urges and many flash backs. Its not what I wished for. :/
phanggrl 1 year ago
@phanggrl you might get something that can be useful which are explained in some other videos I made... the one called Self Esteem, for example.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
@phanggrl hang in there! I came out at 19. Eventually your parents and friends accept you for the person you are. I wish you only the best! Jeanne in Manhattan
Jeannenyc57 1 year ago
you should watch Prayers for Bobby....its just so sad people always result to suicidal attempts.
ct3gct3g 1 year ago
who the f**k is this? LOL God >??
ftsj90 1 year ago
I like white..but your too white for me! jk but good wisdom inducing words and advice thank you and bye bye ;D
Alfacuria 1 year ago
Great video! Really important message. Kudos for doing that Sister Unity!
barrilha 1 year ago
im from ny. a generally liberal place i'd like to think. but yes flamboyant gay men are more common. more expected.
neway i wanted to thank you for peacefully talkin abt it. and im impressed with the amount of interaction you keep up with the viewers. peace
CrunchyBlck73 1 year ago
Beauty is beauty no matter what packaging it comes in. Don't be so judgmental about people and how they wish to spend their time on this world. I would like to say thank you for this message and your ability to maintain your grace even in the face of such negativity. xoxox :)
Love will heal the World
Crystalxox8 1 year ago
i've got no problem w/ gay ppl. but i find tranny and flamboyantly feminine men. i mean i dun give an ever livin shit what sum1 does in thier personal life but why do you have to act like that? i got a freind who's gay but u would never no unless the subject came up. neway its the rainbow types that make it so "normal" gay ppl are expected to act like they are chics. i just think das fcked up like the thugs who make it so a normal black dude isnt black unless he raps or sum shit...
CrunchyBlck73 1 year ago
I know you aren't saying that no black men should rap, or look thuggish, ever, Right? Are you saying everyone has to look "normal" like you think normal looks? People are as they are, man. Queer is queer and it's part of the world, same as men who fuck men. If you don't understand it, ask questions. If you don't like it, walk on by.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
did you read my comment? im not saying everyone has to be "normal". im saying is that people play into stererotypes and make it so that people who want to be themselves cant. example: i got a freind he happens to be white. he acts like what the majority of pp would call black. i mean thats just the way he is. bt since that stereotype is attactched to the black ppl he is seen as fake/illegit. same for vice versa. same for gay men who wanna be themselves but aint ligit less they be flamboyant.
CrunchyBlck73 1 year ago
my example of thugs is just this. i dunno what nationality u r, but most "races" have a stereotype that if one deviates from they will be seen as....not one of their race. asians expected to be book worms: fckin BS! i know sum korean cats that kill at B-Ball. whites are preppy: i already gave an example in my above comment. blacks r thuggish: i know alot enlightened type niggas. real spiritual,intelligent types. im just using this in comparison to gays. flamboyance is expected or they aint gay
CrunchyBlck73 1 year ago
I understand what you are saying. I think it is both true and untrue. My experience here in Los Angeles is the opposite; here if you are gay, your stereotype is the Abercrombie & Fitch boy-next-door. The flamboyant one is the outsider, even in the gay community... or, milder, is the creative extra-special gay and is not mainstream. I can't think of a place in the US where flamboyant is considered the norm for gay men other than in the most under-exposed right leaning places.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
I think the long and short of it is, be yourself, where ever you are and how ever you are. Flamboyant or preppie or gangsta, just be and let be.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
Sorry for the cursing Sister Unity. Some people just rub me the wrong way.
Kawamura2 2 years ago
cool makeup
malangsob 2 years ago
What in the hell do you have on your face?
cm2dude 2 years ago
It's called makeup. Cool huh?
Kawamura2 2 years ago
@Kawamura2 No, like the lobster antennae coming off of his eyelashes.
Seriously, WTF.
cm2dude 2 years ago
well, if you read 'Her' profile, she is kind of an alien biological walking orange glitter factory who converted to Hinduism, so, the eyelashes should be the least of your questions lol.
Kawamura2 2 years ago
@Kawamura2 No, the top question should be how much PCP this person took back in their Club Kid days.
cm2dude 2 years ago
Do you even know WHY she has the makeup? She is part of a group called the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, a group that raises money for charities, and also fights for equality and equal rights. And, if you are talking club drugs, she is way too calm to have taken too much PCP in her club days. At least get the effects of your drugs right asshole.
Kawamura2 2 years ago
Plus, this is a serious video on a serious issue, and you are concerned with what she fucking looks like?
Kawamura2 2 years ago
@Kawamura2 Well, the Entire LGBT movement is based upon the premise that you need freedom for who you fuck, and considering the fact that THE GOVERNMENT CANT OBVIOUSLY STOP WHAT HAPPENS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS OR WHAT PEOPLE DO WITH THEIR FIRST AMMENDMENT, I don't see what the issue is. And everytime the movement is offered some constructive criticism, everybody goes "OH, PERCECUTION, YOU GAY BASHER."
Fuck you.
cm2dude 2 years ago
You weren't giving any constructive criticism, you were commenting on her eyelashes. Her video is on GLBT teens who are considering suicide, what the ever living FUCK does that have to do with what people do behind closed doors or the first amendment? You do realize gay teens commit suicide more often than straight teens, right? They are persecuted more than any other teen group, and yet you bitch because people don't want to be persecuted. No sir, fuck you, and your shitty attitude.
Kawamura2 2 years ago
@Kawamura2 Congrats. I am persecuted by all groups of people for not experiencing sexual attraction at all.
cm2dude 2 years ago
There's nothing wrong with being asexual. I wouldn't persecute you. But since you are persecuted, you would think you would have sympathy for others who are as well.
Kawamura2 2 years ago
@Kawamura2 Not really. I have came to the conclusion that it is just an aspect of humanity: To only care about one's self, and one's own will. This person wouldn't be making the videos if they didn't view themselves as profiting in some way from producing this video.
cm2dude 2 years ago
Well, that's a cynical view you have of humanity. I doubt she is profiting by making this video. How would she profit from making a video on GLBT teen suicide? And, while i agree the goal in life is to do one's true will, that doesn't include only looking out for number one, and fuck the rest. There is always room for caring about others.
Kawamura2 2 years ago
cm2dude is correct, I experience benefits from making these videos and the responses. I get to express my feelings and thoughts and to be heard which satisfies me enormously. Addressing issues like the one in this video alleviates my anxiety over the poor conditions I encounter in my world in LA, so I get to feel relief that I have done at least this to help.
And it is just sheer fun.
Profit is not dirty when benefits are available for all while taking from one's own resources.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
Well, it depends on the profit. I think he meant monetary profit, but the profit of feeling accomplishment in helping people, that is another thing. Profit can be good, and it doesn't always mean worldly profit. When i said i doubt you are profiting by making the video, i meant materialistically.
Kawamura2 2 years ago
@SisterUnity Yes. But you profit, nonetheless. All people do what they perceive as being good. Even the people that bash gays might do so because they believe it is the right thing.
cm2dude 2 years ago
@cm2dude I think you are correct about that. It is why humanity is beautiful at it's core. However, relative to humanity, bashing is bashing.
I'm not sure what you are intending to say about the profiting.
SisterUnity 1 year ago
@SisterUnity People do what they generally believe to be good.
But the only thing is that "Good" in the eyes of everyone changes.
In Islam, "Good" is to follow Sharia law.
In some churches, "Good" is to follow the bible strictly.
SisterUnity, there is nothing special about mankind. We are still a primitive species, and the ultimate step towards evolution in my opinion is the development of an iron will, and to focus on matters beyond fornication and survival.
cm2dude 1 year ago
If we deconstruct "good" then what are these notions of "special" and primitive"? They are as subjective as good.
Your point is in a direction I recognize as a yogini. I would offer that when you attain that evolution, you find that the base and the transcendent are the same thing. "Na shivam vidyate quaachit". Of course you get to the transcendent faster by focusing on other than the base, usually, but it can depend your vision. As one Swami put it, "See God in everything."
SisterUnity 1 year ago
You did such a great job! I've been on the suicide side- Yep, things really get better. And on the survivor side- that pain never totally goes away. Thanks so much. You are beautiful.
twinnumber3 2 years ago
I loved this video...it was really heart felt. With that out of the way, I couldn't stop watching the lashes, boing...boing.
DinosaurPanic 2 years ago
boing ... boing!
SisterUnity 2 years ago
Can transgenders use the hotline also becuse you only said gays and lesbians.
secretacct0125 2 years ago
Yes. Please feel free to call.
Thank you for asking this important question.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
I've been watching you a lot. And you really touch my heart.
Thank you for being here for us. Oh, And I have been learning this song (arranged for organ)
MrsAlexisClyde 2 years ago
Thank you sister unity.
OrgelUndMich 2 years ago
divine. and i'm not referring to your looks. but something radiating from within to this world
devaloki 2 years ago
I love the butterfly look. Butterflies are such magical, spiritual creatures. Like the shimmering butterflies, you're just as beautiful.
hnoss13 2 years ago
Thank you with kisses from France.
Hellfinky 2 years ago
merci et mille bisous!
SisterUnity 2 years ago
Awesome makeup. :D Good message too.
CdnStargazer 2 years ago
The eyelash thingys freaked me out.
Kind of distracted me.
SnickersInTheBarn 2 years ago
I thank god you posted this video. Thank you. You seem magical.
xmexdf1 2 years ago
I think god you posted this video.
xmexdf1 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
freaks of nature ...
on an other note SisterUnity
is a tranny fag.
42236118 2 years ago
classic!
SisterUnity 2 years ago
You have a very clear voice. :)
lastdancemaryjane1 2 years ago
Thank you for posting this. I wish I had someone to tell me this when I was a teenager leaving the ranks of the fundamentalist right wing and coming to terms with the fact that I was gay and that wasn't something that God would change no matter how hard i prayed. I was fortunate to have two gay Uncles that were there for me as I was going through the feelings of loneliness but i know there are many out there that don't have that. Your words always touch my heart. Thank you Sister.
penaetis 2 years ago
I am so glad you made it through! You are a wonderful contributer to our community and the world deserves your gifts!
SisterUnity 2 years ago
My own little "accident" is long past. Yet never a day goes by that I don't wish I'd succeded and revel in my current life and wonder what might have been and fear what is coming.
Yeah, alive is better; harder but better.
Sorrow and loss are an opportunity for growth. I wish I'd taken that opportunity sooner.
BTW, fabulous make-up. Orange makes me happy.
pbjoiner 2 years ago
Thanks for the compliment!
I do think this is real courage: living in the face of adversity, hardship, pain. Not defeating it or getting rid of it. Rather, facing it and living anyway.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
yr awesome! thanks for making this video!
MrLolasf 2 years ago
Thank you.
I hope that all parents of gay kids stop rejecting them so we will have less need of videos like these.
Life is hard enough.
It breaks my heart to see the hurt.
I could never reject my child.
and I hope whoever is raising his future spouse is being loving-- so my son can marry a healthy person.
KanuMom 2 years ago
That is a lovely thought.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
I think you are incredibly cool, your voice has such a calming effect.
Ladybyron100 2 years ago
you make me cry. you're the most beautiful person i've ever seen. thank you ...
azinuamprieteni 2 years ago 11
@azinuamprieteni ... You are absolutely right. Today is 1st day i was Sister Unity's videos. And I already saw three videos. Sister is pretty, beautiful, very expressive and understand the needs of certain group of people that other don't care much for. God Bless You All
MultiClearsky 1 year ago
You're beautiful. You're a wonderful human being for making this.
kawaiimusicbox 2 years ago 4
Thanks. I always say, it takes beauty to see beauty.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
I didn't hear one word you said
I was too focused on those eye whiskers you've got there
alessancastel13 2 years ago
you're beautiful..your an incarnated angel -fairy . ^_^
itsAndrogyn 2 years ago
Thanks. That helped.
Filifloats 2 years ago
when i spent my teen years wanting to die, no one wanted to help. hell my mom kicked me out and i spent alot of time in juvy and escaping grouphomes, and the worlds lack of compassion made me turn my anger outward aswell as in, and suddenly people cared about my behavior. then i decided ill kill myself slowly with any and all substances, and only use suicide to escape responsibility for my actions. "dude the cops are coming" "ill fucking KILL myself ha ha ha"
publicdrunkeness 2 years ago
i am almost 37 now and although i drink a dangerous ammount, i have taken directly killing myself off the table, and share the good parts of myself with people more. it is always funny when a friend has a child and they discover that ultra drunk frequently bleeding foulmouth roughneck often in his nun suit is better with their kids than they are! the lady i mentioned on another vid keeps asking me how im doing it, and other than family, and her spouse, i am the only person she trusts with him.
publicdrunkeness 2 years ago
As if the hundred lives around us have any writ to happiness?
Society has suppressed and destroyed the gay community. So if dying is the only way to strike back at them, why not?
"This was never my world. You took the angel away. I killed myself to make everybody pay." -- Marilyn Manson
Fuck God.
Fuck Nature.
Fuck America.
And Fuck you all too.
Pitastesgood 2 years ago
To quote rich & happy Manson in support of suicide is a little like quoting Senator Craig on opposing gay rights, I think. You might do better quoting Cobain. Though it seems to me the guy who killed himself paid a lot more than anybody else; he's frickin' dead.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
Society has neither suppressed me nor destroyed me. I'm having a ball and enjoying the fight. I'm getting much father striking back with humor and beauty and truth than by hurting them or myself. Killing yourself in the midst of battle loses you the war. Also, it F#@ks up those who might support you and leaves the real opponents laughing at you. So, strategically, that's why not.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
My question is, why hide the truth of your anger behind pretentious proclamations of anger? If you are angry for a specific cause, address that cause.
The hundred lives around us have no writ; That is why we look out for each other and cultivate happiness in our world.
The hundred lives around us need no writ; they are That which is happiness itself, as are we. To know this, engage anger and find out what is further beyond it, That from which it arises, it's sublime, pulsating, core origin.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
nice eyelash thingies! :D
celledge 2 years ago
Even if we achieve everything possible, what do we have to show for it? Money? Respect? Admiration?
We are forgotten within a generation's time.
Also, I was more speaking of violent suicide-bomber style attacks, Ala columbine. How else do you get societies attention? If your guns are loud enough people will remember your act. We all remember them, the media is still obsessed. In their death, they spoke louder than any of us could.
They won the battle. They did their part.
Pitastesgood 2 years ago
They lost everything. They are remembered only as a post-mortem diagnosed sociopath and a manipulable emotional dependent. Their point, if recalled, is valued at "Trite" or ignorant and misguided... or sociopathic.
So it is not only important to have a voice that will be heard and remembered, it is important to have something worth remembering to say.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
I offer Ghandi and Martin Luther King as examples of revolutionaries remembered. If you want more anger and bitter critique, I offer Larry Kramer, Queer Nation, The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, and Harvey Milk.
Death left them with nothing as it always does. However, it left us with change for the better, which would have made them very happy.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
Thanks for the video, it's so good to see encouragement for hope and the future. I was a victim of rejection and hate when I was younger and it was a person much like yourself who saved my life. Thanks so much! Keep up the good words!
stevemallen1 2 years ago
This is an awesome video. Much needed these days, i'm a breeder and it helped me emensley. Thank you.
subliminalvommit 2 years ago
WoW, trippy blinking eye wisker~ love the originality of makeup around your lips.
Exc3L 2 years ago
wow... if it weren't for your voice I'd think your a girl! O_o You look better than a lot of MTF's I've seen do... I wish I could be that "Passable" (In the opposite direction though FTM)
KGSGoFreak 2 years ago
Thanks! I assure you, several ounces of spackle-like grease paint enhance any face.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
KGSGoFreak, he is not MTF, he considers himself a man (am I wrong Sis?)
felixpetrar 2 years ago
Erm... Woops, I knew he was a "Drag-Nun" I was commenting on how well he dresses, I know a lot of MTFs that don't pass that well as a woman, it's amazing a drag queen passes that well though. ;)
KGSGoFreak 2 years ago
aaa, I just noticed the comments below. SisterUnity says she is a drag-nun (Sis, you are a drag nun queen)
felixpetrar 2 years ago
I assure you, I am a potato.
SisterUnity 2 years ago
sweet potato
felixpetrar 2 years ago 2