Love $cams: Never send money to a stranger over the internet, no getting involved with illegal immigrants/google marriage fraud, pass the check, never co-sign/mix anything legal, no marriage, avoid long distance relationships, when meeting women online avoid dinner & movies on first meet up (meet up at free/low cost places like bookstores/parks/cafes), stop paying for other men's kids/no single women with kids, always use a condom/no child support, never lend money to women.
this is why Mormonism works... 1 guy 10 moms with children ... as the moms love their children so much.... the kids are not around very long that is why moms love their kids so much.....guys that help out...may have a loving helper in their old age... step parenting if it works out... is a good investment.... guys worried about child support ... is there any better investment then a child? ... a car will last 5 years..child may last 100 years... priorities !
The deal is, the guy she meets who is not obsessed with how to fit in the time for him to "get in" is the guy she will want in (her life and the other place). The sanity level I suppose is something to watch, she could be a bit nutty in her choice of men (which originally put her in the failed relationshp), nutty in her relationships with men (which could have led to the split), or nutty in how she now deals with men due to the split. Could be a minefield but could be worth it too.
Why in the world would any sane guy date a single mom? The kid will probably hate you bc you're not his dad. You will become involved in psychodrama with the dad, who probably hates you bc she is living in his house that he is paying the mortgage on it & he is living in a dumpy apartment. AND in many states if you become involved with the parenting, you are on the hook for child support if you break up w her. (yes that's right, look it up!) In summary>>> DON"T DO IT.
@delta6335 Yes it is not for everyone but there are some amazing relationships that come out of step-parenting. Some people cannot have children & enjoy the benefits of being able to be a part of a child's life regardless of a biological connection. Those States you are talking about need to revise their child support rules~ Real Daddy #1 needs to be helping to pay the bills! Thanks for your feedback
@twobeavers "there are some amazing relationships that come out of step-parenting". I suppose that's possible but what is likely> What are the odds of a successful outcome vs. a nightmare for the guy? 50/50 chance of divorce; 70% of divorces instituted by women. Not my kind of odds. Its tough enough to make it work when the kid is ours. When the kid is hers, I am on the wrong side of her priorities. Sorry- it ain't a good bet.
I am not sure you do. I am NOT making the point its not for me (although its not) I am making the point that in all probability it is a bad choice/bet for any man thinking of taking on (or living with) a single mom.
Women date assholes and think they'll change. They ignore and tell the nice guys like me to get lost. Then they get knocked up and their prince charming either ditches or divorces them. Then they are alone with a kid and she'll go up to the guys she told before to get lost and she'll try to get him to raise her kids. Single moms go to hell, and take your bastard kids with you.
@mjdc2505 WOW I hope for your mother's sake she wasn't a single mom. You know what I find interesting? People who write these type of comments on YouTube do not have a profile photo on their own channel. Why is that?
@twobeavers It's the truth. And my mother and father were both in my life together living in the same home and was married not seprate meaning I'm not no fatherlesss punk only raised by his mother.
I've been on YouTube when the website was new and only a month old back in 2005 and I didn't create an account until it was over an year old before it was owned by Google. Making a profile photo back in the young aged YouTube era was complicated and the majority of the people didn't have them.
YouTube was primitive and a little complicated when I had this account and it wasn't has advance and a little easy has it is right now. You couldn't simply drag a picture off your computer file or link an image from your computer and throw it in your account online like you can do right now.
So you got a problem of me being an original member and having an account a long time on YouTube when YouTube was barely a new website?
Love $cams: Never send money to a stranger over the internet, no getting involved with illegal immigrants/google marriage fraud, pass the check, never co-sign/mix anything legal, no marriage, avoid long distance relationships, when meeting women online avoid dinner & movies on first meet up (meet up at free/low cost places like bookstores/parks/cafes), stop paying for other men's kids/no single women with kids, always use a condom/no child support, never lend money to women.
dontgetmarried999 5 days ago
I wonder where they shot this video. The background looks very pretty.
perfectbeat 1 month ago
@perfectbeat Hi...it was shot in Vancouver Canada across from English Bay.
twobeavers 1 month ago
@twobeavers Thanks. I thought Canada. Very pretty. I'll have to visit.
perfectbeat 1 month ago
this is why Mormonism works... 1 guy 10 moms with children ... as the moms love their children so much.... the kids are not around very long that is why moms love their kids so much.....guys that help out...may have a loving helper in their old age... step parenting if it works out... is a good investment.... guys worried about child support ... is there any better investment then a child? ... a car will last 5 years..child may last 100 years... priorities !
beefree1 1 month ago
@beefree1 interesting perspective...thanks for your feedback.
twobeavers 1 month ago
The deal is, the guy she meets who is not obsessed with how to fit in the time for him to "get in" is the guy she will want in (her life and the other place). The sanity level I suppose is something to watch, she could be a bit nutty in her choice of men (which originally put her in the failed relationshp), nutty in her relationships with men (which could have led to the split), or nutty in how she now deals with men due to the split. Could be a minefield but could be worth it too.
scottj719 1 month ago
Why in the world would any sane guy date a single mom? The kid will probably hate you bc you're not his dad. You will become involved in psychodrama with the dad, who probably hates you bc she is living in his house that he is paying the mortgage on it & he is living in a dumpy apartment. AND in many states if you become involved with the parenting, you are on the hook for child support if you break up w her. (yes that's right, look it up!) In summary>>> DON"T DO IT.
delta6335 1 month ago
@delta6335 Yes it is not for everyone but there are some amazing relationships that come out of step-parenting. Some people cannot have children & enjoy the benefits of being able to be a part of a child's life regardless of a biological connection. Those States you are talking about need to revise their child support rules~ Real Daddy #1 needs to be helping to pay the bills! Thanks for your feedback
twobeavers 1 month ago
@twobeavers "there are some amazing relationships that come out of step-parenting". I suppose that's possible but what is likely> What are the odds of a successful outcome vs. a nightmare for the guy? 50/50 chance of divorce; 70% of divorces instituted by women. Not my kind of odds. Its tough enough to make it work when the kid is ours. When the kid is hers, I am on the wrong side of her priorities. Sorry- it ain't a good bet.
delta6335 1 month ago
@delta6335 it's not for you, I get it...
twobeavers 1 month ago
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@twobeavers said "it's not for you, I get it..."
I am not sure you do. I am NOT making the point its not for me (although its not) I am making the point that in all probability it is a bad choice/bet for any man thinking of taking on (or living with) a single mom.
delta6335 1 month ago
iv never met a single mother that was in the least bit sane.
ThaDopist 2 months ago
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Women date assholes and think they'll change. They ignore and tell the nice guys like me to get lost. Then they get knocked up and their prince charming either ditches or divorces them. Then they are alone with a kid and she'll go up to the guys she told before to get lost and she'll try to get him to raise her kids. Single moms go to hell, and take your bastard kids with you.
capnhands 3 months ago
I'ma feel alittle sorry for Steve if he breaks up with a single mother and he'll have to pay child support for some children that isn't his.
Only the stupid ugly desprate fools date single mothers.
mjdc2505 3 months ago 3
@mjdc2505 WOW I hope for your mother's sake she wasn't a single mom. You know what I find interesting? People who write these type of comments on YouTube do not have a profile photo on their own channel. Why is that?
twobeavers 3 months ago
@twobeavers It's the truth. And my mother and father were both in my life together living in the same home and was married not seprate meaning I'm not no fatherlesss punk only raised by his mother.
I've been on YouTube when the website was new and only a month old back in 2005 and I didn't create an account until it was over an year old before it was owned by Google. Making a profile photo back in the young aged YouTube era was complicated and the majority of the people didn't have them.
mjdc2505 3 months ago
@mjdc2505
PART 2
YouTube was primitive and a little complicated when I had this account and it wasn't has advance and a little easy has it is right now. You couldn't simply drag a picture off your computer file or link an image from your computer and throw it in your account online like you can do right now.
So you got a problem of me being an original member and having an account a long time on YouTube when YouTube was barely a new website?
mjdc2505 3 months ago
@mjdc2505 so why don't you put a photo up now then?
twobeavers 3 months ago
@twobeavers Because it's not illegal and it's definitely not an requirement that's why. Plus I'm to good to have photo on my account.
mjdc2505 3 months ago
@mjdc2505 good comment, very true
ROCEMPOWERMENT 3 months ago
Pay for the baby sitter? thats just F-ed up!
vfIskullangel 4 months ago
You must be outta your freakin mind to date a single mum.
TheIceMurder 4 months ago 2
this guy is an idiot, dont date a single mom because you end up paying for shit!
2Banarne2 5 months ago
Don't date a single mom, plain and simple.
mercury4metal 5 months ago
One rule for dating single moms! DON'T
Tsugua21 7 months ago 9