@iceblock1980 Staying quite for sometime dosen't mean you are worthy of those abuses, it is just done to wait for time lapse to end for his anger & abuse that shaytaan(Satan) urges him to create fight between the husband & wife. Remember the most adorable thing on earth for Satan is make fight go successful between the couple, SO EVERY LITTLE WORD MATTERS!! . Thanx for giving me chance to answer you,hope it'll help u.
THNX ALLAH we have such a great religion of compassion wisdom true wisdom & other all best within.thnx for sharing..i understand many many things tonight thnx to Almighty. & then thnx to you dearAMuslimKnight all vids great & amazing.:)
I think not all man expect all of this is not fair that we try to do all of this things and they don't really care...I am not the type of woman to accept orders all of the time or to be as donkey...
one of the women companions said, serve your husband and he will serve you if you show him his rights he will give you yours. its not about being treated like a donkey its about giving each others rights your husbands right over you is that he feed, cloth and support you and your children and his rights are they you obey him the prophet said that the husband is either the womens way to heaven or hell and if she doesnt fulfill her husbands rights then she hasnt fulfilled her lords rights
Allah SWT said that if the people wouldn't prostrate to Him the wife would prostrate to her husband and the women who don't like this video this mean they find it hard to please Allah,we should all think about Allah in the first place,I know we are human and is hard for us to do some of things but we all want to go to the heaven Insha Allah or no?And not only the wife should do this but the husband as the prophet Muhammad SAW treated his wives and he had 13, no one of his wives complained .
60 ways to please your man?! lol MashaAllah some points were lovely but some were a little over the top for me and not entirely realistic for everyday. Real men are easily pleased, fussy men expect too much. I eagerly await the 60 ways to please your wife video????
m so happy alahmdulillah i follow many of points already before watching this video...n i think so my hubby loves me so much i came to know more abt their feelings from this video inshallah i'll try more to gain his love n alahmdulillah my husband is very kind to me , plz follow all the points, these r real good. thank u very much for this video jazakallahul khair
I think that this video is very patriarchal and one sided... not all women stay home and run to their husband and clean the house and "press his clothes" for him. A wife is not a slave, and a female does not need to thank her husband for providing him with "shelter and food" because its not a big deal! A woman can work like any other man. Ps. Why isn't there a video for "60 Ways To Win Your Wife's Love"? Oh.......that's right, she doesnt have any needs as long shes being provided for.
hmm..I'v a message to all my sisters in Islam...girls, Choose a husband whose religion & character is satisfied...Da one who, when invited towards haraam, refuses... Da one who agrees that he loves Allah more than u...and Da one whose religion, he does not deny....:)
I didn't mean to win back my husband,may be its too late for me to apply my self,but am sure if i read this earlier may I am not suffering this much actually I have a boy friend who is a Muslim and he change a lot due to my fault that I cant control my self asking and asking what is he doing,talking him rude sometimes.I am not making excuses for my self but I am just a human being and not created as perfect.I MAKE A COMMENTS HERE FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE STILL HAVING THEIR PARTNER.
this video is a very helpful to keep a relationship,do the tips u can do and try to adapt your self the tips you cant or else u will end up crying when you notice your partner or lover change the way he talks with you or ignore you after all the sufferings,and every thing you share with each other,this is not for Muslim people only but for all of us.
@vilma1035 Exactly. That is why the title is "60 ways to win your husband's rights" and not your MUSLIM husband. As you said, its either adapt.. or perish.. we let them choose for themselves.
This video is made by man.... I dont belive this has been made by woman!! I really liked the advice: brush your hair every day ... isnt it normal?? :D
Didn't like the context in which it was presented...where are the 60 ways to win your wife's love? Besides if she didn't love you in the start, chances are she never will.
These are not things you learn after you marry! even before you are to be feminine,smell nice,dress nice,not nag others,not tell things your friends entrusted you with,etc
In mariage communicationis key! a successful marriage is filled with LOVE,RESPECT,LOYALTY :D and many other factors ;) Jazakallahkhair for ths video
I love my husband so much but he left me 6 weeks ago. It's been hurting me so badly, I wasn't the best wife in the world but I was decent and I want to make him happy.. What can I do? Please say a du'a for me brothers and sisters. I don't want divorce, I know Allah hates divorce as well and I hope he bless me for my beloved husband to return. I would follow all of these 60 rules once he comes back and love him so much.
As a reminder to some of the negative comments... In islam it isnt just woman pleasing thier husband husband does things to please thier wives to! Go watch the mens version to please the wives youll see It isnt one way its how a marrage should be both working together:) salam
"dont talk to loud or laugh or walk like an elephant, press his clothes, let him win, and do all this so that we can be good mother, wives, and cooks"? um... this is a bit much yea? sounds a bit like being a doormat.
dont talk to loud or laugh or walk like an elephant, press his clothes, let him win, and do all this so that we can be good mother, wives, and cooks? um... this is a bit much yea? sounds a bit like being a doormat.
I really enjoyed this and im a woman, JazakAllah kher. I think some women need to be reminded to look good for their husbands. I hate seeing a man come home to his wife in stained clothes and messy hair, this is a no no=)
I thought women were half the human race? How is it that we must please men and not vice versa? That's why muslim men are so militant - they are so arrogant in their 'maleness' and use the koran to control their society just like the Christians did 500 years ago. You can be a woman and equal to men without losing your female qualities. We complement each other, none is better or more important than the other.
Salam. I'm not a Muslim but I really appreciate your video. It was an amazing way to encourage couples to treat their partners well.. i hope to see more of your videos inshallah
Salam. I'm not a Muslim but I really appreciate your video. It was an amazing way to encourage couples to treat their partners well.. i hope to see more of your videos inshallah
@000jansen000 Don't talk about your problems to anyone ; feel isolated and helpless. Let your husband yell- your feelings don't matter. I actually thought there were also a lot of good points until I read DO NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE WITHOUT HIS... PERMISSION? Really? I am a muslim and I really do not aprecciate your video.
@suzyrain2000us please enter 60 ways to keep your wife's love guaranteed.............there are so many lectures on this topic and actually not many on the wives duties.........please once again as i told another commenter. please look for the specific information before you make ignorant comments........thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan.
this brings up some good points but at the same time EVERY single one of those points can be used the other way around..so this vid should be titled how to win your SPOUSE's love NOT wife, NOT husband because marriage is a two way street. no woman will do all of that, go out of her way if shes not going to be treated in a similar way and btw, it shouldnt be about 'winning' the husbands love, because if he didnt already love her, they shouldnt be married
@silwadiya14 i think they did it this way because it is just targeting one at a time. this way is important because if a wife wants to help her husband understand his duties better she can just put a lecture targeting this and of course vice versa. please do not get offended by these kinds of posting there beautiful. i and a lot of women use these to remind ourselves of our duties because sometimes we get used or simply caught in our same routines. thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan.
@bonitaariana we all have great qualities and in fact more then half of these come to us naturally when we love and respect god, ourselves, our husbands and the home we have created(even if we were just married yesterday). the point is do your best! these are posted to help remind us and guide us as well. do not count just look for the ones you know you do not apply on a daily basis. thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan.
Now, i have seen many comments by brothers in Islam, and they say that if all women acted like this then the world would be so much better. True, it would be, for men. However, i would really encourage you to take a look at the video with the new name "60 ways to win your wife's love." I understand some of the cultural aspects are not translatable, but things like the kindness toward one another and letting each one "chill with their friends," that kind of stuff, ya know?
I, as a matter of fact, am not married. However, do not pity me. If you cannot see the sickness of these one-sided and grossly controlling suggestions, then you may have my pity.
I have won my wifes love and it wasn't by treating her as less than me. You lay these out as if she is a mindless slave. Truely, I think all these things your wife has done to annoy you and now you are venting. It's not about controlling your wife and the way she lives, it's about loving her unconditionally. You Muslims need to figure that out and stop trying to program your wife like she is some kind of robot.
@Inuyashian why are you so offended. men also have duties. both husband and wives have duties towards eachother and frankly speaking there is nothing wrong with these kinds of reminders being posted. i actually find them beautiful and also they tend to help remind us. our societies nowadays do not promote love(sincere love for eachother) it promotes cheating, disrespect, disloyalty and all sorts of other problems that lead to the brake up of a family. thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan.
@0nly1God1 Uhm... 1. I like to think I am not such an ignoramus as to have no idea about equality. 2. I took nothing out of context, and if i have, tell me how and where. 3. I simply remarked that while the this list shows 60 ways for a woman to make her husband happy, the culture it reflects is one where "separate but "equal" roles are played, instead of straight equality. What history has taught us is that "separate but equal" experiences are inherently unequal, especially in male domination.
@ItsEasyIfYouThink im not going to argue with you, because its not going to get me anywhere. men and women have different rights, but they can never be on the same level, because the man is just naturally different than the woman. they have different roles in society. go learn about islam and you will see what im talking about. do your research before you say silly things.
@0nly1God1 No, i mean, i understand that they have different roles in Islam. But take for example the America. Women and men are naturally different there, and still equality is the focus. In spite of the functional differences of each gender, America ensures almost complete equality to either gender. Also i think it is strange that you said men and women "can never be on the same level." Isn't that in itself putting one above the other, by way of society and mostly rules for only one gender?
@ItsEasyIfYouThink both have different obligations and play different roles in life. a woman will always be different than the man. the west is so screwed up because it's people only go by man made laws, and they do what is suiting themselves. that is why all the western countries are at the top of the chart in divorce statistics, and thats is why western nations have screwed up families: single moms, dads, and worst of all: no sense of honor whatsoever
@ItsEasyIfYouThink That one irritates me, because I see it as one more way that men brush off their own responsibilities, telling us to say alhamdolilleh about everything they do against the Quran and Islam. Ask any IMAM about how to get ones husband to respect your rights by sharia, and you are told to be patient and worry about your responsibilities, I don't see the men getting that particular bit of advice. I hear this from my sisters all the time. I've got a a good one, but not perfect.
@Nabilahjean Yeah, it really is considerably unfair how women are portreyed in this video... There should be no set things that one spouse should do for the other. It should all be for love, happiness, selflessness, and if you are religious, praise of god. But these are all from BOTH sides.
@ItsEasyIfYouThink Of course they are, but this is called "60 ways to win your husband's love". That is the focus of THIS you tube presentation. On the right hand side is "Rights of Wife in Islam", "the ideal Muslim Husband", How a Muslim husband should love his wife". I think we need to keep a little perspective. This is directed towareds women/wives, not the husbands.
Mashallah! what a beautiful video and very good advice. Inshallah i, as well as other wives can follow this. It is so very wonderful the love Allah SWT has for us and the love we share between our spouses Subhanallah
@ibnYusrat - yes i agree this is a lovely video but I'm a Muslim sister - and from a women's point of view in reality many of these statements, as great as they are would be very difficult to put into practice. There's no harm in trying most of them, my husband allhumdillilah is very pleased with me regardless, but I think most muslim men in this day and age, don't realise how many duties their wives perform day in day out.
Brother this beautiful video of yours almost brought tears to my eyes.. really.. if sisters become like this.. and brothers start trying to be the best husbands they can be (like said in some videos) then this world will surely become like heaven to live in.. full of peace..
Because wherever Islam goes, it takes peace and love with it in the air.
Alhamdulillah. I'm blessed to be a Muslim!
Jazakllah khair for this superb video! May Allah reward you! :)
All though these are all very nice - in reality we are a Human and don't have time to beautify ourselves for our husbands after running around feeding, clothing, bathing kids. Cooking all day, housework and working (all at the same time)!!! How about you post 70 Tips on how to keep a Muslim wife happy lol
@zakariyasaeed If you search youtube or google for "how to keep your wife happy" you'll get 50x more results as compared to how to keep your husband happy. I really commend the effort of this brother.
I mean we brothers also need attention.. people generally think "feelings" etc are only for girls.. and so we are all deprived.. Alhamdulillah this is a VERY good video and if every sister follows this, she will make her life a living heaven inshaAllah! :)
Masha Allah, Masha Allah. I really needed it soo bad. Jazakallah kheyr. I appreciated u for making this vi, this is very helpful. I'm glad I watched this vid. May Allah make my marriage stronger and to all Muslimiins, thanks again.
@MuslimAgenda I guess we should first concentrate upon fulfilling our DUTIES rather than demanding our rights. coz once duties are fulfilled, you will obtain full rights. Just an advice from an imaam I met.
And what happens when the husband loves his wife so much but she can no longer even kiss him after 6 months of marriage and things have only got worse after the baby. I work all day come home and she's sad and depressed. I try to do everything she would ever want. I encourage her to do great things with her life but she has lost all ambition and the love went with it. What have i done? Ive never cheated, never beat her always loved her sooo mightily, is divorce my only option?
@jesse7037 no is not divorce ur only choice .til that u have to talk with her and ask be honest with you ...to talk and see what is in each other mind by true way i think it s the best option!i wish for u patience and good luck!
@AMuslimKnight APPLAUSE FOR #1 AND #2!! im a female and i cant stand these manly men wannabes! Allah(Swt) created a woman in a delicate nature,nurturing,beautiful,precious....I wanted to shake ur hand for writing that. no man wants to marry another man! he wants a WOMAN
wonderful video clip ..but it s so sad when a wife gave all and husband turn his back !with respect and wish Allah give just wonderful things in our way!
The rules might sound like too much for a wife but in Islam even more Is expected from a husband..... A couple who say they love each other would already be doing most of the 60 things mentioned .... Every expectation from ur spouse is naturally fulfilled by the grace of god if there is love in the relationship frm both sides...
I had heard that muslim women were expected to be house-pets. This video seems to confirm it. What if the woman works and the man works from home? Who runs to the door feigning excitement then?
@sumedocinquiet If a wife is home, and isn't looking forward to seeing her husband, that is something husband needs to wonder about and try to rectify. Women are NOT expected to be housepets. What husband wouldn't want his wife to greet him happily when he comes home and she is there? Is it different among Christians or Jews? When I come home, and my husband is already there, he greets me with affection and love also. That's what people do when they LOVE each other.
@zareenazam1 It doesn't matter what religion you have right? If you just respect each other and be good to others you'll be rewarded with a lucky life =D
I'm studying the 2000 year history of the middle east and the blooming of the islam, and I discovered that the islam is very tolerant towards other people.
One of the best videos iv'e ever come across with on Youtube. Well done it is amazing !!!! It has really changed my mood tonight, especially whilst thinking about marriage life.
@dollie2904 Thanks for appreciating my effort of trying to make the most perfect video with the most synchronizing music to it so that it touches the right spot. JazaakAllah for appreciating.
Love the video lots of good advice and I love that first bit of music and song.
44. Brush your hair... Was there a problem with women not brushing their hair? I brush mine atleast 20 times a day to keep it managable.... Am I abnormal?
omg i'm just 19 but i watched this! hahhaa. i'm in love right now with my bf and i hope soon when we get married, i'll be the best wife he cud ever imagine, insyaAllah :p
And, "dont walk like an elephant"?! that's sooooo hillarious i burst into laugh XD
i llove this video,, its very useful n helpful.. jazakallah for uploadin.. im not marred yet but im glad i found this video now. inshallah i will do my best to do all of those when be married...i went on muslim girls summer camp n a sheik gave us a lecture aboot marriage n how to be wife that her husband n allah r pleased with.. most of the info in ths vid came up... may allah bless u n ur family sis/bro
number 7 is one of the MOST important key as i hear ''wife's'' talking about their partners problems to their ''friends'' , please ppl refrain from such talks as it should be between you and your spouse.
May Allaah Give us the perfect Spouse In the Future Inshallaah!
@vesta759 It all depends on the man himself if he is good or not.
these are tips justfor general situations, and we have to patient and Allah will give us teh best reward if not in this life then the next and you will have the last laugh. Now its ramadon its the best time to make duaa and allah will always hear you!
i practice most of these things but my husband never appreciates it. complementing him all the time makes him proud. being nice with my mother in law does pay because he's disrespected my mother a few times, and i've never done that with his mother. walk like an elephant? my husband had the audacity to tell me that i'm heavy like an elephant even though i'm only 105 pounds. sigh, it's a little more complicated than this i'm afraid.
walk like an elephant!! haha! that cracked me up!! haha! but remember, the relationship is both ways, so they should do things for each other to please each other. like a team! haha!
mash'allah..i pray that be such a wife described above insh'allah. thank you for this video..may Allah bless you and your family with happiness and good health inshallah :)
some of the points in here are okay But what about how a husband should treat his wife?? in a marriege or a relationship a husband is to honour his wife as it is a wife is to honour her husband , this is like SLAVERY a woman should make sure she looks good keep the laundry done keep him feed well thats a wifes duty anyway you dont need to right a book about it.. BUT WHAT IS A HUSBAND DUTY IN YOUR RELIGION ? hairy men
@wahine27 men also have duties towards his wife and his children. before you write these kinds of messages look for the information so that you may avoid ignorant comments......thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan....
Excellent mashallah...Great job.
concerty2k 1 day ago
Mashallah, this video is great. Shukran and Jazak' Allah khayr.
Caramelix999 3 weeks ago
WOW mashallah !! Its a really good video! Mashaallah for the person who made it!
Barakallahou fikom And may the Blessings of Allah be upon that person.
lisahiya19 1 month ago
point 7 is not right, when a woman is being abused by her husband should she stay quiet even though is her right to talk?
iceblock1980 1 month ago
@iceblock1980 Staying quite for sometime dosen't mean you are worthy of those abuses, it is just done to wait for time lapse to end for his anger & abuse that shaytaan(Satan) urges him to create fight between the husband & wife. Remember the most adorable thing on earth for Satan is make fight go successful between the couple, SO EVERY LITTLE WORD MATTERS!! . Thanx for giving me chance to answer you,hope it'll help u.
concerty2k 1 day ago
added to my favourite :-)
MsAnnaroy 2 months ago
BEAUTIFUL!!
BABILONKA 2 months ago
I love it.. ♥♥♥
iamsoooFABuLous 2 months ago
I'm not Muslim, and I don't agree with all the points, but this is some good advice. :) One day I will have a happy marriage, unlike my mother's.
Darkangelmmortalwin 2 months ago 4
@Darkangelmmortalwin ,,in Sha Allah You willl .. good luck ..and stay blessed :-)
MsAnnaroy 2 months ago
Wow this is beautiful! Inshallah I shall take this advice for the future
shiasoldier313 2 months ago
MashaAllah! This is an excellent reminder! I save it as a favorite and watch every time I feel I need some pointers!
JazakallahuKhayr!
AliyyahJN 2 months ago
If any altering of our bodies is 'haram' or forbidden, then shouldn't this include FGM (female genital mutilation) t?!
penelopeulysses 3 months ago
Mash'Allah, If i had a wife that acted on half of these things I would be the happiest man in this Dunya.
Make dua for me that I get a wife who will do these things Insh'Allah and that I be a good husband. Jazakallah :)
Abullah1992 3 months ago
THNX ALLAH we have such a great religion of compassion wisdom true wisdom & other all best within.thnx for sharing..i understand many many things tonight thnx to Almighty. & then thnx to you dearAMuslimKnight all vids great & amazing.:)
smileyMia12 3 months ago
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xxxxx7004 3 months ago
Now i wanna get married :)
haronm1990 4 months ago
Such a beautiful video with a superb message! Thank you kindly!
TheBinipini 4 months ago
This is nice & and very meaningfull. I guess the exact applies to the Husband equally for most!
bazilrazik 4 months ago
I think not all man expect all of this is not fair that we try to do all of this things and they don't really care...I am not the type of woman to accept orders all of the time or to be as donkey...
xSonix21 4 months ago
one of the women companions said, serve your husband and he will serve you if you show him his rights he will give you yours. its not about being treated like a donkey its about giving each others rights your husbands right over you is that he feed, cloth and support you and your children and his rights are they you obey him the prophet said that the husband is either the womens way to heaven or hell and if she doesnt fulfill her husbands rights then she hasnt fulfilled her lords rights
angelsDOexist4eva 3 months ago
Allah SWT said that if the people wouldn't prostrate to Him the wife would prostrate to her husband and the women who don't like this video this mean they find it hard to please Allah,we should all think about Allah in the first place,I know we are human and is hard for us to do some of things but we all want to go to the heaven Insha Allah or no?And not only the wife should do this but the husband as the prophet Muhammad SAW treated his wives and he had 13, no one of his wives complained .
xSonix21 4 months ago
I hate Looong commets
NYJATTI1 4 months ago
Nice ...But i really LiKe 14,15 lmao
NYJATTI1 4 months ago
wow everything applies to me love it! but its just sooo hard :(
sarahforeverish 4 months ago
i dont like my mother in law the stupid barelvi bid'ah lover....lol
MuminahG 4 months ago
What about they 60 ways a husband is to win his wife's love?
MsChristiangirl33 4 months ago
@MsChristiangirl33
It's already been done, try youtube searching;
60 ways to keep your wife's love GUARANTEED!!!
Or copy and paste this link;
youtube.com/watch?v=wOlqBIpnPPc
golbourne1234 3 months ago
60 ways to please your man?! lol MashaAllah some points were lovely but some were a little over the top for me and not entirely realistic for everyday. Real men are easily pleased, fussy men expect too much. I eagerly await the 60 ways to please your wife video????
Tawhidlover 5 months ago
scary
somme36 5 months ago
If she really displeases you dig a hole invite your mates round get stoned
somme36 5 months ago
23 dislikes = feminist ???
66kapitanstraat 5 months ago in playlist arabic
@66kapitanstraat People who value human rights, respectively. That's all.
ItsEasyIfYouThink 5 months ago
nice video ;)
sophiakhan1 5 months ago
jazakallah,very useful and very true.
raniaafghan 5 months ago
m so happy alahmdulillah i follow many of points already before watching this video...n i think so my hubby loves me so much i came to know more abt their feelings from this video inshallah i'll try more to gain his love n alahmdulillah my husband is very kind to me , plz follow all the points, these r real good. thank u very much for this video jazakallahul khair
afshaanization 5 months ago
I think that this video is very patriarchal and one sided... not all women stay home and run to their husband and clean the house and "press his clothes" for him. A wife is not a slave, and a female does not need to thank her husband for providing him with "shelter and food" because its not a big deal! A woman can work like any other man. Ps. Why isn't there a video for "60 Ways To Win Your Wife's Love"? Oh.......that's right, she doesnt have any needs as long shes being provided for.
nini7joon 5 months ago
yeah it was good, but i thought they might show something new that i post it to my fience, but this is very common things, but anyway. it is nice
ungman1 6 months ago
HAHAHA THIS VIDEOS JOKES LMFAAAAAAAAAAAAOOOOOOOOOO
0iindianRani0 6 months ago
thnx for dis awesome video...really helpful :)
hmm..I'v a message to all my sisters in Islam...girls, Choose a husband whose religion & character is satisfied...Da one who, when invited towards haraam, refuses... Da one who agrees that he loves Allah more than u...and Da one whose religion, he does not deny....:)
MuslimahCute 6 months ago
I didn't mean to win back my husband,may be its too late for me to apply my self,but am sure if i read this earlier may I am not suffering this much actually I have a boy friend who is a Muslim and he change a lot due to my fault that I cant control my self asking and asking what is he doing,talking him rude sometimes.I am not making excuses for my self but I am just a human being and not created as perfect.I MAKE A COMMENTS HERE FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE STILL HAVING THEIR PARTNER.
vilma1035 6 months ago
this video is a very helpful to keep a relationship,do the tips u can do and try to adapt your self the tips you cant or else u will end up crying when you notice your partner or lover change the way he talks with you or ignore you after all the sufferings,and every thing you share with each other,this is not for Muslim people only but for all of us.
vilma1035 6 months ago 6
@vilma1035 Exactly. That is why the title is "60 ways to win your husband's rights" and not your MUSLIM husband. As you said, its either adapt.. or perish.. we let them choose for themselves.
AMuslimKnight 6 months ago
this video is reallly helpful.. i did a lot of mistakes in treating him after i watched the video i know now what to do.. thanks!
maekhanics 6 months ago
Brilliant video..............love it i've got it on my fave!
101AngelKay 6 months ago
Good tips to keep your marriage strong and win your husband's heart. It's not bullshit Muslim haters!!!
MsAimos 7 months ago
Patriarchal bullshit.
ciannagh 7 months ago
This video is made by man.... I dont belive this has been made by woman!! I really liked the advice: brush your hair every day ... isnt it normal?? :D
teterak007 7 months ago
Didn't like the context in which it was presented...where are the 60 ways to win your wife's love? Besides if she didn't love you in the start, chances are she never will.
Raiya30 7 months ago
if you'r not funny.. go read a joke online.. LOL love it! :)
myraceishumanity 7 months ago
These are not things you learn after you marry! even before you are to be feminine,smell nice,dress nice,not nag others,not tell things your friends entrusted you with,etc
In mariage communicationis key! a successful marriage is filled with LOVE,RESPECT,LOYALTY :D and many other factors ;) Jazakallahkhair for ths video
LadyInRedNY 7 months ago
jazakallahu kairan katheeran need to apply this very soon in-shaa'Allaah
Journey4Jannah 7 months ago
I love my husband so much but he left me 6 weeks ago. It's been hurting me so badly, I wasn't the best wife in the world but I was decent and I want to make him happy.. What can I do? Please say a du'a for me brothers and sisters. I don't want divorce, I know Allah hates divorce as well and I hope he bless me for my beloved husband to return. I would follow all of these 60 rules once he comes back and love him so much.
ximenhyper 7 months ago
MashaAllah! May Allah reward your good efforts and intentions well! ameen! Jazakallah khair for uploading a very beneficial vid that can be applied!
786afz 8 months ago
As a reminder to some of the negative comments... In islam it isnt just woman pleasing thier husband husband does things to please thier wives to! Go watch the mens version to please the wives youll see It isnt one way its how a marrage should be both working together:) salam
Tmsmhk 8 months ago
"dont talk to loud or laugh or walk like an elephant, press his clothes, let him win, and do all this so that we can be good mother, wives, and cooks"? um... this is a bit much yea? sounds a bit like being a doormat.
orangecountyl 9 months ago
dont talk to loud or laugh or walk like an elephant, press his clothes, let him win, and do all this so that we can be good mother, wives, and cooks? um... this is a bit much yea? sounds a bit like being a doormat.
orangecountyl 9 months ago
same goes for the husband too...lol
AbortedBabysInMakeUp 9 months ago
I really enjoyed this and im a woman, JazakAllah kher. I think some women need to be reminded to look good for their husbands. I hate seeing a man come home to his wife in stained clothes and messy hair, this is a no no=)
PalisPrincess 9 months ago
Maasha'Allah, subhan'Allah; may Allah(swt) gave all of the muslims a blessed mariage.. [amiin]
Iqrakalamallah 9 months ago
no words 2 describe dis VDO<< MAASHA ALLAH,, u deserve a big thank from me n blessings from almyty ALLAH (SWT) 4 ur job
MrAnisha10 9 months ago
I thought women were half the human race? How is it that we must please men and not vice versa? That's why muslim men are so militant - they are so arrogant in their 'maleness' and use the koran to control their society just like the Christians did 500 years ago. You can be a woman and equal to men without losing your female qualities. We complement each other, none is better or more important than the other.
jaquie321 10 months ago
we should try to win Allah swt love bcoz its never dies and its true...Allah swt will never leave you, a man can leave you...
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othaminjaresjdl 10 months ago
:) made me smile.
sidrah112 10 months ago
5* mashallah
292asma 11 months ago
Nice. I added it to my site. Jazak Allah Khair
LeFemmeBodyShaper27 11 months ago
;)
NiiiJu 1 year ago
am not married bt inshallah we i get married i will try to do so................jazakalu kheir for sharing this
Haybo60 1 year ago 3
you are a brainwashed dog married to a weak idiot
suzyrain2000us 1 year ago
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Salam. I'm not a Muslim but I really appreciate your video. It was an amazing way to encourage couples to treat their partners well.. i hope to see more of your videos inshallah
000jansen000 1 year ago
Salam. I'm not a Muslim but I really appreciate your video. It was an amazing way to encourage couples to treat their partners well.. i hope to see more of your videos inshallah
000jansen000 1 year ago 13
@000jansen000 Don't talk about your problems to anyone ; feel isolated and helpless. Let your husband yell- your feelings don't matter. I actually thought there were also a lot of good points until I read DO NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE WITHOUT HIS... PERMISSION? Really? I am a muslim and I really do not aprecciate your video.
Tinatempa 4 months ago
where is the link to compare what a husband can do in 69 ways to keep his wife happy
suzyrain2000us 1 year ago
@suzyrain2000us please enter 60 ways to keep your wife's love guaranteed.............there are so many lectures on this topic and actually not many on the wives duties.........please once again as i told another commenter. please look for the specific information before you make ignorant comments........thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan.
kishakisha17 1 year ago
this brings up some good points but at the same time EVERY single one of those points can be used the other way around..so this vid should be titled how to win your SPOUSE's love NOT wife, NOT husband because marriage is a two way street. no woman will do all of that, go out of her way if shes not going to be treated in a similar way and btw, it shouldnt be about 'winning' the husbands love, because if he didnt already love her, they shouldnt be married
silwadiya14 1 year ago 2
@silwadiya14 i think they did it this way because it is just targeting one at a time. this way is important because if a wife wants to help her husband understand his duties better she can just put a lecture targeting this and of course vice versa. please do not get offended by these kinds of posting there beautiful. i and a lot of women use these to remind ourselves of our duties because sometimes we get used or simply caught in our same routines. thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan.
kishakisha17 1 year ago
60 things is too much to remember =P
bonitaariana 1 year ago
@bonitaariana we all have great qualities and in fact more then half of these come to us naturally when we love and respect god, ourselves, our husbands and the home we have created(even if we were just married yesterday). the point is do your best! these are posted to help remind us and guide us as well. do not count just look for the ones you know you do not apply on a daily basis. thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan.
kishakisha17 1 year ago 3
Now, i have seen many comments by brothers in Islam, and they say that if all women acted like this then the world would be so much better. True, it would be, for men. However, i would really encourage you to take a look at the video with the new name "60 ways to win your wife's love." I understand some of the cultural aspects are not translatable, but things like the kindness toward one another and letting each one "chill with their friends," that kind of stuff, ya know?
ItsEasyIfYouThink 1 year ago 2
I, as a matter of fact, am not married. However, do not pity me. If you cannot see the sickness of these one-sided and grossly controlling suggestions, then you may have my pity.
ItsEasyIfYouThink 1 year ago 2
"Focus on fulfilling your obligations, not demanding your rights" holy shit
ItsEasyIfYouThink 1 year ago 2
@ItsEasyIfYouThink 7 people didn't win their wife's love. I pity u, Loser.
AMuslimKnight 1 year ago 5
@AMuslimKnight
I have won my wifes love and it wasn't by treating her as less than me. You lay these out as if she is a mindless slave. Truely, I think all these things your wife has done to annoy you and now you are venting. It's not about controlling your wife and the way she lives, it's about loving her unconditionally. You Muslims need to figure that out and stop trying to program your wife like she is some kind of robot.
Inuyashian 1 year ago 3
@Inuyashian why are you so offended. men also have duties. both husband and wives have duties towards eachother and frankly speaking there is nothing wrong with these kinds of reminders being posted. i actually find them beautiful and also they tend to help remind us. our societies nowadays do not promote love(sincere love for eachother) it promotes cheating, disrespect, disloyalty and all sorts of other problems that lead to the brake up of a family. thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan.
kishakisha17 1 year ago
@ItsEasyIfYouThink
His list is pure garbage, be glad you aren't a muslim woman.
Inuyashian 1 year ago
@Inuyashian hah i am glad... i am indeed. those poor women...
ItsEasyIfYouThink 11 months ago
@Inuyashian Christian sites would give the same advice!!!
Nabilahjean 5 months ago
@ItsEasyIfYouThink typical ignoramus, taking things out of context
0nly1God1 7 months ago
@0nly1God1 Uhm... 1. I like to think I am not such an ignoramus as to have no idea about equality. 2. I took nothing out of context, and if i have, tell me how and where. 3. I simply remarked that while the this list shows 60 ways for a woman to make her husband happy, the culture it reflects is one where "separate but "equal" roles are played, instead of straight equality. What history has taught us is that "separate but equal" experiences are inherently unequal, especially in male domination.
ItsEasyIfYouThink 7 months ago
@ItsEasyIfYouThink im not going to argue with you, because its not going to get me anywhere. men and women have different rights, but they can never be on the same level, because the man is just naturally different than the woman. they have different roles in society. go learn about islam and you will see what im talking about. do your research before you say silly things.
0nly1God1 7 months ago
@0nly1God1 No, i mean, i understand that they have different roles in Islam. But take for example the America. Women and men are naturally different there, and still equality is the focus. In spite of the functional differences of each gender, America ensures almost complete equality to either gender. Also i think it is strange that you said men and women "can never be on the same level." Isn't that in itself putting one above the other, by way of society and mostly rules for only one gender?
ItsEasyIfYouThink 7 months ago
@ItsEasyIfYouThink both have different obligations and play different roles in life. a woman will always be different than the man. the west is so screwed up because it's people only go by man made laws, and they do what is suiting themselves. that is why all the western countries are at the top of the chart in divorce statistics, and thats is why western nations have screwed up families: single moms, dads, and worst of all: no sense of honor whatsoever
0nly1God1 7 months ago
@ItsEasyIfYouThink hey i have something nice for you (no sarcasm) sorry for calling you an ignoramus. i have a question for you :)
have u ever heard of the "arrivals"
0nly1God1 7 months ago
@0nly1God1 Hmm... i haven't. What are/is they/it?
ItsEasyIfYouThink 7 months ago
@ItsEasyIfYouThink That one irritates me, because I see it as one more way that men brush off their own responsibilities, telling us to say alhamdolilleh about everything they do against the Quran and Islam. Ask any IMAM about how to get ones husband to respect your rights by sharia, and you are told to be patient and worry about your responsibilities, I don't see the men getting that particular bit of advice. I hear this from my sisters all the time. I've got a a good one, but not perfect.
Nabilahjean 5 months ago
@Nabilahjean Yeah, it really is considerably unfair how women are portreyed in this video... There should be no set things that one spouse should do for the other. It should all be for love, happiness, selflessness, and if you are religious, praise of god. But these are all from BOTH sides.
ItsEasyIfYouThink 5 months ago
@ItsEasyIfYouThink Of course they are, but this is called "60 ways to win your husband's love". That is the focus of THIS you tube presentation. On the right hand side is "Rights of Wife in Islam", "the ideal Muslim Husband", How a Muslim husband should love his wife". I think we need to keep a little perspective. This is directed towareds women/wives, not the husbands.
Nabilahjean 5 months ago
hahaha MashAllah !
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tapmeester 1 year ago
Mashallah! what a beautiful video and very good advice. Inshallah i, as well as other wives can follow this. It is so very wonderful the love Allah SWT has for us and the love we share between our spouses Subhanallah
fatima23reed 1 year ago
@ibnYusrat - yes i agree this is a lovely video but I'm a Muslim sister - and from a women's point of view in reality many of these statements, as great as they are would be very difficult to put into practice. There's no harm in trying most of them, my husband allhumdillilah is very pleased with me regardless, but I think most muslim men in this day and age, don't realise how many duties their wives perform day in day out.
zakariyasaeed 1 year ago 3
@AMuslimKnight..
Brother this beautiful video of yours almost brought tears to my eyes.. really.. if sisters become like this.. and brothers start trying to be the best husbands they can be (like said in some videos) then this world will surely become like heaven to live in.. full of peace..
Because wherever Islam goes, it takes peace and love with it in the air.
Alhamdulillah. I'm blessed to be a Muslim!
Jazakllah khair for this superb video! May Allah reward you! :)
ibnYusrat 1 year ago
LOL @ Point # 47! :P
Hahahahah :D
"Listen to him even when he is talking about 'Computers'"
ahahahhahaha :D
ibnYusrat 1 year ago
All though these are all very nice - in reality we are a Human and don't have time to beautify ourselves for our husbands after running around feeding, clothing, bathing kids. Cooking all day, housework and working (all at the same time)!!! How about you post 70 Tips on how to keep a Muslim wife happy lol
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ibnYusrat 1 year ago
@zakariyasaeed If you search youtube or google for "how to keep your wife happy" you'll get 50x more results as compared to how to keep your husband happy. I really commend the effort of this brother.
I mean we brothers also need attention.. people generally think "feelings" etc are only for girls.. and so we are all deprived.. Alhamdulillah this is a VERY good video and if every sister follows this, she will make her life a living heaven inshaAllah! :)
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ghryjuy 1 year ago
It made me smile and cry.... are you a muslim woman? if yes are you single? (no, im not joking)
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faizal1449 1 year ago
@amnz25 The songs are in the description area and available for download.
AMuslimKnight 1 year ago
?omg how can i get this song and how can i find it? who sings it? thankss
NancitaBonita09 1 year ago
@NancitaBonita09 The download links for the two songs are in the description area.
AMuslimKnight 1 year ago
@NancitaBonita09 i know the song shall i sent you
SuperAnab 8 months ago
Masha Allah, Masha Allah. I really needed it soo bad. Jazakallah kheyr. I appreciated u for making this vi, this is very helpful. I'm glad I watched this vid. May Allah make my marriage stronger and to all Muslimiins, thanks again.
naimaaf1 1 year ago
some very good tips for wives & wives to be... nice vid
onli1luv 1 year ago
@onli1luv JazaakAllah for appreciating. (^,^)
AMuslimKnight 1 year ago
And always remember... you have feelings too, and rights, and he should make you feel good too. If not, he's worthless.
MuslimAgenda 1 year ago 13
@MuslimAgenda I guess we should first concentrate upon fulfilling our DUTIES rather than demanding our rights. coz once duties are fulfilled, you will obtain full rights. Just an advice from an imaam I met.
AMuslimKnight 1 year ago 2
Manshallah great video and thnkx for sharing it with us! Pray for me that I marry a good religous husband plzzz jazakulah khair!
riyaq3 1 year ago
Mashallah jazakallahu khairan!!!!!
spreadingdawah 1 year ago
For the brothers
ummali03.multiply.com/journal/item/876/60_Ways_To_Win_You_Wifes_Love
ummali03 1 year ago
And what happens when the husband loves his wife so much but she can no longer even kiss him after 6 months of marriage and things have only got worse after the baby. I work all day come home and she's sad and depressed. I try to do everything she would ever want. I encourage her to do great things with her life but she has lost all ambition and the love went with it. What have i done? Ive never cheated, never beat her always loved her sooo mightily, is divorce my only option?
jesse7037 1 year ago
@jesse7037 NO, you should talk about it to her and work it out... you can always try harder if shez worth it...
83902583 1 year ago
@83902583 guess not
jesse7037 1 year ago
@jesse7037 no is not divorce ur only choice .til that u have to talk with her and ask be honest with you ...to talk and see what is in each other mind by true way i think it s the best option!i wish for u patience and good luck!
arinadodan 1 year ago
@jesse7037 Post partum depression? Perhaps she should go to a doctor to see if she might have a chemical imbalance in her brain. :(
faetrn 1 year ago
Well done.(JZK)
even tho..i'm not marry but still i learn alot things.
iluvisalam 1 year ago
MASHALLAH beautiful ! it's in my favorite =) as salam at all the muslims..
999 999 999 999 999 999** stars
openyoureyesandlook 1 year ago 4
@openyoureyesandlook Waralaikum Assalaam.. JazaakAllah for your nice and motivating comment. makes my day! (^.^)!
AMuslimKnight 1 year ago
@AMuslimKnight APPLAUSE FOR #1 AND #2!! im a female and i cant stand these manly men wannabes! Allah(Swt) created a woman in a delicate nature,nurturing,beautiful,precious....I wanted to shake ur hand for writing that. no man wants to marry another man! he wants a WOMAN
markee871 10 months ago
good job really !!
there are some good advice
thank u
aclassicfanatic 1 year ago
wonderful video clip ..but it s so sad when a wife gave all and husband turn his back !with respect and wish Allah give just wonderful things in our way!
arinadodan 1 year ago
thanks my muslim brother.
abubakar5677 1 year ago
The rules might sound like too much for a wife but in Islam even more Is expected from a husband..... A couple who say they love each other would already be doing most of the 60 things mentioned .... Every expectation from ur spouse is naturally fulfilled by the grace of god if there is love in the relationship frm both sides...
makeupfreak81 1 year ago
Jazak'Allahu khair for the advice..
ILuvIslam1 1 year ago
Jazak Allahu khairn.nice video and very good advices .
IslamResponses 1 year ago
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deebafarooqi68 1 year ago
I had heard that muslim women were expected to be house-pets. This video seems to confirm it. What if the woman works and the man works from home? Who runs to the door feigning excitement then?
sumedocinquiet 1 year ago
@sumedocinquiet If a wife is home, and isn't looking forward to seeing her husband, that is something husband needs to wonder about and try to rectify. Women are NOT expected to be housepets. What husband wouldn't want his wife to greet him happily when he comes home and she is there? Is it different among Christians or Jews? When I come home, and my husband is already there, he greets me with affection and love also. That's what people do when they LOVE each other.
Nabilahjean 5 months ago
@zareenazam1 It doesn't matter what religion you have right? If you just respect each other and be good to others you'll be rewarded with a lucky life =D
I'm studying the 2000 year history of the middle east and the blooming of the islam, and I discovered that the islam is very tolerant towards other people.
Bless you with love and light =)
xXDarkAngelsCryXx 1 year ago
Jazakallah for the upload
No. 60 was my favourite tip.
deryabalci 1 year ago
@deryabalci The best is always found at the end.. so that it is least forgotten!
AMuslimKnight 1 year ago
One of the best videos iv'e ever come across with on Youtube. Well done it is amazing !!!! It has really changed my mood tonight, especially whilst thinking about marriage life.
MashaAllah it is an fantastique video ! ;)
dollie2904 1 year ago 2
@dollie2904 Thanks for appreciating my effort of trying to make the most perfect video with the most synchronizing music to it so that it touches the right spot. JazaakAllah for appreciating.
AMuslimKnight 1 year ago
44, 45, 53 hahahaha <3
paradisechic 1 year ago
Love the video lots of good advice and I love that first bit of music and song.
44. Brush your hair... Was there a problem with women not brushing their hair? I brush mine atleast 20 times a day to keep it managable.... Am I abnormal?
HeavenlyValo 1 year ago
Many thank for who va uploded this vedio .
Ileally liked it.
even 60 times liked it or more then that
RSM786 1 year ago
Many thank for who va uploded this vedio .
Ileally liked it.
even 60 times liked it.
RSM786 1 year ago
lol do not walk like a elephant
TheJyotikajoy 1 year ago
omg i'm just 19 but i watched this! hahhaa. i'm in love right now with my bf and i hope soon when we get married, i'll be the best wife he cud ever imagine, insyaAllah :p
And, "dont walk like an elephant"?! that's sooooo hillarious i burst into laugh XD
IceCraver 1 year ago
Ameen !!
alam992000 1 year ago
i llove this video,, its very useful n helpful.. jazakallah for uploadin.. im not marred yet but im glad i found this video now. inshallah i will do my best to do all of those when be married...i went on muslim girls summer camp n a sheik gave us a lecture aboot marriage n how to be wife that her husband n allah r pleased with.. most of the info in ths vid came up... may allah bless u n ur family sis/bro
Falisia11 1 year ago
Wonderful!!
number 7 is one of the MOST important key as i hear ''wife's'' talking about their partners problems to their ''friends'' , please ppl refrain from such talks as it should be between you and your spouse.
May Allaah Give us the perfect Spouse In the Future Inshallaah!
AMEEEEN!
SIKM4N 1 year ago
awh inshallah! one day when i get married
xpwincess99x 1 year ago
This is desribing the perfect wife. May Allah bless those women who fit this catorgory Ameen!
vesta759 1 year ago
@vesta759
Ameeen!
:)
SIKM4N 1 year ago
@vesta759 It all depends on the man himself if he is good or not.
these are tips justfor general situations, and we have to patient and Allah will give us teh best reward if not in this life then the next and you will have the last laugh. Now its ramadon its the best time to make duaa and allah will always hear you!
themuslimah1993 1 year ago
i practice most of these things but my husband never appreciates it. complementing him all the time makes him proud. being nice with my mother in law does pay because he's disrespected my mother a few times, and i've never done that with his mother. walk like an elephant? my husband had the audacity to tell me that i'm heavy like an elephant even though i'm only 105 pounds. sigh, it's a little more complicated than this i'm afraid.
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eastbaysf 1 year ago
walk like an elephant!! haha! that cracked me up!! haha! but remember, the relationship is both ways, so they should do things for each other to please each other. like a team! haha!
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GardenofTruth 1 year ago
mash'allah..i pray that be such a wife described above insh'allah. thank you for this video..may Allah bless you and your family with happiness and good health inshallah :)
Yasminess1 1 year ago
some of the points in here are okay But what about how a husband should treat his wife?? in a marriege or a relationship a husband is to honour his wife as it is a wife is to honour her husband , this is like SLAVERY a woman should make sure she looks good keep the laundry done keep him feed well thats a wifes duty anyway you dont need to right a book about it.. BUT WHAT IS A HUSBAND DUTY IN YOUR RELIGION ? hairy men
wahine27 1 year ago 6
@wahine27 you can watch 60 ways to keep your wife's love GUARANTEED!!! part 1/2
chisoorah 1 year ago
@wahine27 you can watch another video on Husbands Duty to his Wife In Islam.
hawker1010ify 1 year ago
@wahine27 men also have duties towards his wife and his children. before you write these kinds of messages look for the information so that you may avoid ignorant comments......thank you from the wife of a gentle afghan....
kishakisha17 1 year ago
@wahine27 well this is for women. there are other videos/clips for the men!
292asma 11 months ago