Abstinence Only - Does Not Work! Duh!

[acme181169]

What would 'more absinance programs' entail? Saying don't have sex 100x a day?

[whotrickedyou]

If a cop comes home early from work and catches you, your brother, your son fooling around with his wife or 12 year old daughter (you'll wish that would've abstinence worked). What do you say to a cop, who catches you or your son, with his 12 year old daughter and your 19? Will her father the armed cop have a smile on his face, lol? No really what do you say? Do you say "sir, I know i'm on top of your daughter but i'll be finished in a minute" lol. The cop came home un-announced!

[whotrickedyou]

I learned much of this from former NBA Champ AC Green - club ac ,com. Being a fan for years I heard his whole story and as a result I switched and commited myself to waiting till marraige too. And so far its working! Awe too bad for those who wanted to use me for 1.child support cash, 2. to abort my son, to enrich Planned Parenthood. By not doing this now number 1 and 2 above cant happen. I deny the deceiver opportunity to exploit me. Being a black guy, was I suppose to know this?

[whotrickedyou]

These guys want me to fall for the trick, when they say "did ya get some? They say this with no regard for the outcome of their "suggested" actions, in question form. This is a trick to get me to make a baby with the wrong girl, an air-head. Some guys like us use HIGHER thought Thats why we're so hard to decieve. I have the ability to make babies and to me I take that seriously. That child will be my most precious possesion and I said no to air- heads, no ooops babies! Only the wife!

[lilmerboy]

Recent studies have shown that men who wait to have sex later in life, have a major increase in suffering from erectile dysfunction.

....So by the time you wait to do it with only one person and get married, "it" doesn't even work for long...

[lilmerboy]

Sex isn't that good where you have to wait your whole life to do it with one person.

[whotrickedyou]

Think i'll allow the movies, culture or crowd to trick or deceive me? How about you? Who is deceiving or tricking you? Is it the movies, music, friends, sleaze sites (the leaders of lewdness websites) a boy fiend? Ladies, the truth is, if you ever become the "victim" of a life long, no cure – STD, was the frog worth it? Or should you wait to marry that special dream prince charming?

(Here's a hint, skip the frog, "ribbit" lol).

[Headhunter004]

@whotrickedyou the rate of STDs actually DOUBLED with the teaching of "abstinence-only education" FYI. If you actually think you're gonna be able to convince the entire world not to have sex until marriage, you're delusional. Telling kids "DON'T HAVE SEX!" doesn't work, it never has, and it never will. Somehow, this is lost on Conservatanazi fucktards, what part of "kids are going to have sex no matter what because it's in their hormones" don't you understand?

[whotrickedyou]

@Headhunter004 ... Read my comments, in the view all comments. Also, hear Jasons talk to teens "Romance without regrets" from my link. There Jason makes an excellent presentation proving what we already know in our hearts (but wont admit) that abstinence does work. I have NO Hiv, Aids, Costly Child support that cuts your check to 99.00 a week. Abstinence works and the girls are signing up, so guys are fighting it, lol. (But beyond that as I said on my page I DON'T WANT AIR HEADS HAVING MY KID)!

[whotrickedyou]

@Headhunter... Ok using your argument, lets say

you have a 19 year old son (25 years from now) and

a woman invites him over at 11:30pm and you taught

your son, to "just protect yourself" and its all ok. Now

in "this case" here's what would've happened as your

son is in bed with her...HER HUSBAND, forgot his

wallet on the table and came back at 12:30 to get it

in his police car and catches your boy in bed with

his wife! And cops are armed, WHAT DO YOU tell

him then? Any answers lol?

[anabyloxin]

What is the name of the first song that starts the video?

[PeytonMarieThompson]

everyone has diffrent views on sex, some ppl want 2 wait till married, some wait till they get out of school, some want to have sex but hadn't found the right person yet, and some students already had sex. But in the end, it's better to have a good sex education and have less of a chance of getting pregnant or an STD then just simply saying "NO SEX EVER!". It's like telling a kid not to eat candy because 'Its bad for you" they are just going to do it anyway because they want to.

[Jordanicolass]

Abstinence don't work unless you have religious beliefs. If you say no to a teenager, they would just say : Why cause you say so ?

[brandonjaylocke]

abstinence is the only way b/c it's the way God intended us to stay pure for our spouses. When you say "I do" it means i do you, you do me and we don't do other people.

[Catsie15]

b.s im not gonna give sh*t up even if i was married.

[shawnsbigtube]

brandonjaylocke: I'm sorry, but you're an idiot. Not everyone believes in an Almighty. And even when they do, people STILL have sex before marriage and WHILE they're married. Wake up and see what's happening around you and not be a blind, fanatical fool!!!

People like you are so irritating because you're the fools pushing this crap even though studies show it is NOT affective!!

[Cypherfall]

@brandonjaylocke

so what commitment only counts after your married. that's a pretty flawed reasoning

[rsiegenbe]

Well im living proof they do work

[lanakid1]

Abstinence...works 99.999% of the time.

(not that i support abstinence-only programs)

[shawnsbigtube]

lanakid1: Huh? Are you stupid or what?

[lanakid1]

@shawnsbigtube:

Ever hear of Jesus? born of a virgin

Ever hear of Zoroaster? born of a virgin.

Who else was born of a virgin?

Mars, Perseus, Osiris, every avatar taken by Vishnu on earth, Karna, Kabir, Mut-em-ua, Tammuz, Tukulti-Ninurta II, Ashurbanipal, Ra, Krishna, Attis, Auge, Dionysus, Horus, Melanippe, and Mithras just to name a few.

[Cypherfall]

@lanakid1

ever heard of something that isnt real - oh wait, yeah..

[DevilMayhem666]

@lanakid1 Mars? As in The Roman God of War? Huh, I don't think so...

[Cypherfall]

@lanakid1 fail

[lanakid1]

@Cypherfall jeez lay off. i was only making a joke. I know that being born of a virgin isn't real. it's only a joke.

(the people of the interwebs are hates)

[Cypherfall]

bad joke

[lanakid1]

yea it was a bad joke. usually it is accompanied by a picture of jesus.

[Bluedragon094]

3:42 - AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... Translation: "IT'S A CONSPIRACY I TELL'Z YA! I CONSPIRACY AGAINST THE ALMIGHTY WORD OF GOD! (...even though all these ideas came from me and other humans...)"

[Emocrash]

Ahahaha, there are people out there taht think "abstinence only" works?? And teh US government is funding that? WHAT? Americans amuse me :D

Teach teh kids that they have to wear condoms in bed (or wherever). Its simple as that.

If my parents or any school teacher woudl have told me when i was 16 i am not supposed to have sex till i get married i woudl have seriously told them to gtfo.

I still cant believe a government is fundign such bullshit....

"a german guy"

[txmcxlx]

I was interested in sex after my big sister started fucking. Then my BGF Maggs showed me how to have orgasms using my brothers old skateboard. My sister did a gangbang and had 14 orgasms. Right now I'll stick to the skateboard although my sister says sex is better when you have the cum inside. Maggs and me have sex but that doesn't count - right?

[Emocrash]

wait wat?

[zokka]

"Abstinence education is a holystic message blablabla"

Man this culture is weird... Religion is forced on to people.

"Yipee! Lets rip off the femininity from women and read more bible!"

-European guy-

[XxJosielxX]

i do want to wait till my wedding night..

i know now im in highschool it might be hard but it will get alot easier i think...

[PRESTOTHECAT]

That was an excellent video. The sequence is well done. The TFF record was a solid memory and poignant.

It seems like sheer arrogance that they think abstinence only training is enough with the reality of primal options that are within reach and stds, HIV, pregnancy.

Mind-boggling.

[missstarwars]

I think abstinence works when taught the right way, check out Pam Stenzel's 'Sex has a Price tag' videos on here, they're worth watching and have alot of good info, even if you decide not to abstain.

[Symos]

Problem is, abtinence only education (a term I could argue is inaccurate) won't take away the natural instinct to have sexual intercourse. Lustful erges ae part of the reproductive system that helps produce offspring. You can't fight instinct forever, but you can work around it. Learn about contraception. Plus marriage is when you think about it unnatural in the strictest sence, has no influence when to have sex or not.

[mcelite14]

I don't believe in an abstinence only program...that's dangerous. Nobody is perfect and therefore both abstinence and promoting sexual respondsiblilty(using protection) is important. Fighting are instinct is what makes us different than animals. Marriage is not an unnatural way of life. There are numerous species that are completely monogamous. Marriage is God's gift 2 huminaty it helps create balance in our society. Something animals don't need but we do need we're naturally self destructive.

[Symos]

Monogamy does not equal marraige. They just stay together, like an unmarried human couple. It's generally not considered a marriage if there is no wedding.

[mcelite14]

True and that's the difference between humans and animals..We have documentation to show loyalty and marriage but animals that are monogamous have loyalty and argued by some this is true symbol of love. Loyalty takes effort (more for some) but it is a symbol of good. Also not everyone that gets married has a wedding for numerous reasons.

[therrydicule]

Even worst! The definition of marriage have move with the time.I see in a book write around 100 CE that it was a private matter of two person engage by mutual consent under promises and declaration of intention of the two part with no ceremony around that give subsequent physical union of the parties.

I see that form of marriage, from early Christian era, as the modern equivalent of a girlfriend with her boyfriend handing around by mutual consent... It is mostly the same thing.

[mcelite14]

I'm sorry but abstinence is realistic. Children have to be taught it is a high honor to wait until marriage especially when since "They are the ones that give to go to how far a relationship goes physically". It's very important to instill that pride of this is my body and only one man will have the honor of going the full way. It's hard as hell to do it but it's not unrealistic at all.

[somberlight]

abstinence as a idea is beautiful, but as the only truth fails short on many counts. One cannot suppress the natural instincts, nor how things just go when you're teenager, you know.. hormones etc. lets this way, would you like your kids to know whats coming up and whats responsible, and THEN choose abstinence or would you be one of those just simply go "no.. no .. just.. no." when asked about sex ed?

[therrydicule]

No, it is not realistic. I see some people tried it and it is a piece of crap that lead to psychological trouble latter on. Some of them had dream all the night of having sex with a lot of women they see all week. Why? Simple signal of alarm about some form of repression ;) And they know it...

Plus, if it is their body... Why not let them know how it's work and let them make their choices? You might not be happy with their choices, but it would be their.

[mcelite14]

It's not a piece of crap. It does take work to do that and takes alot of will power to do the right thing. It is a high honor to get married and be a virgin that makes it even more sacred. Also it's not forbiding ppl to know how their body works sex is a natural part of life and there is nothing wrong about it's about how you carry yourself in a healthy way. Living the life of a ho is a personal choice but it isn't a healthy one spiritually, mentally, or physically.

[therrydicule]

Natural? It is not natural. If it was not, why some people feel shamefully about their virginity? Why their sex life, something that should be fun and gratifying lead to low self-esteem, depressive and aggressive adult? The only answer I got is because they have constraint, poorly, their sexual desire.

Not to mention that the definition of marriage evolve.

Not to mention some possible link with erectile problem.

[mcelite14]

The purpose of TRYING to wait is to unavoid unnecassary drama. It 's HARD to accomplish and it is a HIGH honor to actually do this. It has to be taught that it is not easy but it is a prefered road to take in order to help strengthen the American culture and to show that it's not impossible because people sure the hell did it in the past and to just follow desire is a fool's road. That's how u self destruct by going only by desire and not doin da right thing..that's one way affairs happen.

[therrydicule]

Sir, at what age do you have your first sexual relation?

Because, the average marriage, as define by the legal institution, is 26 years old. The first sexual arousal, for man, happen at 13 years old...

And so,have you been able to wait at least 10 years without having sex?

And talking about honor, where is the honor given by inaction if even the advocate of this form of inaction are not-able to not have sex...Damn, double negation...Anyway, be honest and fair.

[mcelite14]

Ok first nobody is perfect. Just to make it clear i'm not condeming anyone. I'm just saying at least through high school abistenence is possible hard but possible. I sense of PRIDE has to be put into a person to really want to make the effort to do that. I'm not a virgin and honestly i wish i didn't fuck that first bitch but i do have female friends that are in their 20s and a virgin (not inexperienced) just they want to wait until they are married. It's somethin dats needs 2 b reinstalled

[therrydicule]

Even if you regret it, it is normal that it happen ;) Sometime, people have sex for the wrong reasons... I do not think it should be imposed to them to remain abstinent, like I do not think it should be imposed to...So, what I ask is to give them accurate medical information about what is a dick&vagina, the std. Here abstinence work 100%, condom work 99.9%.

Also include some notion about the emotional nature of human,the right timing, and being realist and it's not always fun.

[mcelite14]

Oh it was a i thought i was in love moment. and of coarse it's completely natrual. I also agree that it must be taught about the use of protection and hormones etc etc also that abstinence should be heavily included. However, it should not be the only thing mentioned I am completely against that cause like u said it's human nature and nobody is perfect wit it and it's HARD to do.

[Bluedragon094]

Are you fucking serious? Yeah if you're not having contact with other humans you're avoiding "unnecessary" drama. You're also avoiding having a life, but you're also avoiding unnecessary drama. You're view on what is honorable and what isn't is skewed and based on drivel.

It doesn't strengthen the american culture, nor does it take anything away. Another bit of drivel.

Yeah, and people who do have sexual relations before marriage don't necessarily fuck everything that moves! (cont.)

[Bluedragon094]

(cont.) You've got this WEIRD conception that either people don't have any sex at all before marriage, or they fuck constantly and all the time! God forbid there actually might be balanced individuals!

Oh yes, because you partake in sex YOU'RE OBVIOUSLY only following your desires 100% of the time and have no rationality, like yourself, at all. /sarcasm.

What kind of bullshit have you been slurping down without getting any REAL experience in the real world all these years?

[mcelite14]

You don't get it. Of coarse sex is natural and nobody is perfect.

1. Sex wasn't created just for us to follow an urge.

2. Staying abstinant takes work and effort fighting emotions and hormones. The spirit is strong but the flesh is weak.

3. There are things in life that are not necessary to go through. Experience can also come from other things.

[Bluedragon094]

0. I never mentioned anything about whether or not sex is natural, why you brought it up is beyond me.

1. Sex is a method of process in which organisms reproduce. End of story. It's happenstance that humans derive pleasure from it.

2. Spirits/Souls are make-believe, just as much as fairies and pixies. Flesh is weak in comparison to what?

3. Experience comes from only one route, and that is experiencing the events in question. You can not claim expertise is something if you have... (cont.)

[Bluedragon094]

(cont.) ...not done the event in question, and you making judgment calls on people based on no other criteria than, "Oh well i just don't like it," is VERY telling about your character.

4. No i'm not really concerned and the fact you took it that i was means you completely missed the point. The original point was illustrating some of the rationalizations people make to themselves.

5. Well i suppose by your criteria of "well-balanced", i say "balanced" loosely.

[mcelite14]

Ok so people dont have a soul or spirit? Wow...so that's what point of view ur coming from.

Yes sex is used for reproduction that's it's main use. However, sex is a gift and I hold to that it is God's gift to us to enjoy life and make the most of it. Not abuse or take it lightly..we are self destructive naturally and we need rules and barriers so we can have the best of life. Like most Americans I believe I have to answer 2 God for what i do. Also I'm not judging anyone nobody is perfect

[Bluedragon094]

I don't see any reason to believe people have souls.

I don't see any reason to believe sex is anything more then for reproduction and pleasure purposes.

Maybe YOU'RE self-destructive naturally. I don't see why you extrapolate that to all of humanity.

[mcelite14]

Ok take a good long look at human history..look at how many species we have been clearly respondsible for their extinction. Look at why wars were started..many over stupid things. There is much more to this world than just our flesh and blood bodies. Maybe you do need a spiritual experience to help you understand the difference between us and other animals...it's our world and our repsondsibility =)

[Bluedragon094]

I know you mean well, but you must realize how absolutely offensive your last bit comes off to people like me.

No where in my comments was i trying to say that human beings are exactly like other animals or that the well fare of the world wasn't our responsibility, but yet you tack that last sentence on as if i had said otherwise. As if i was for the destruction of civilization and humans living in some tree somewhere or that we should let the world go to shit.

(cont.)

[Bluedragon094]

(cont.) With that squared away, lets get to the meat of your post. Yeah, human history is fraught with violence, however, you must look at WHY such violence occurs. It's ALL learned behavior. Behavior IMPRESSED upon by their surroundings. I don't think senseless destruction for destruction's sake is inherently human nature, it's just not that simple.

Also, that view point completely disregards all the good humans do as well, and not only for religious reasons either.

(cont.)

[Bluedragon094]

(cont.)

And lastly, i don't know whether that line about "difference between us and animals" was a dig at evolution, but it doesn't matter.

People often have, yet again, a simplistic idea of the animal kingdom and only think of savagery and cheetahs eating antelope viciously or something. Again, it completely ignores that not every animal is savage nor is it any less gruesome then us butchering our meat. There are differences, sure. Not nearly as much as you let on however.

[mcelite14]

Ok..no the good shouldn't be over looked in our history if we looked at every negative thing that would be depressing..it is our nature to do bad things but the thing is we have a choice to do the bad thing or not. Also yes behavior can and is influenced by environment and on evolution. No not a dig at evolution but at da same time evolution doesn't take credit away from God in my opinion but brings more questions and chance to gain more knowledge. That's why we need rules to deal wit weakness

[Bluedragon094]

I don't know where i implied that we didn't need rules or that we should live in a lawless society.

I disagree, i don't think it's in our nature to do bad things, i think people bring up other people to do bad things. Nazi's weren't born, they were made.

I never implied evolution discredited the notion of a god.

[mcelite14]

Ok let me clarify what i meant by rules. Not rules but standards when it comes to sexual behavior. I should have thought that through....and it is true the Nazis were made but also keep in mind those men had a choice not all of them were fighting with evil intention but all humans have a general sense of good and evil unlike animals

[Bluedragon094]

Sure humans have a sense of good and bad, but it's relative. There were many nazis that thought they were choosing the moral path, that the jews were really a cancer upon society. That's one of the many reasons why i think morality is truly subjective, especially in cases with sex.

[mcelite14]

Well that were a standard for morality needs to be set for the greater good of human society. At the same time have realistic goals and standards for the younger generations not lower them. Waiting b4 is possible but hard and just telling kids dont do it won't work. It needs to be explained there we be some hard times and you should walk away and not just follow ur instincts. Following ur instincts isnt always the right thing 2 do and that should be explained 2 teenagers not that sex is bad

[mcelite14]

(cont) but that there is a right time to do it and that with the right person. Nothing wrong with experimenting with someone u love...not ur prom date u'll end up breaking up wit in a month.

[mcelite14]

4. You seem concerned with a person's performance in bed which is normal i'd be worried if that wasn't ur concern but that's what honeymoons are for. That's went you let loose and let the freak out.

NOt on prom night.

5. Yes most ppl don't pull it off because we are not perfect and fall to our own emotions and temptation. We are human and yes people are balanced that wait they are very strong willed ppl that try their best

[Headhunter004]

Typical Fundie Fucktard logic. OMFG, every time I read comments from these brainless, moronic Fundie Fucktards, it damn near makes my head explode! NEWSFLASH, morons: people are sexual BY NATURE! It's a NATURAL part of growing up and hitting puberty: when you hit puberty, you get a thing called SEX DRIVE that urges you to have sex for pleasure, you know, just like hunger urges you to eat, the longer you surpress these urges, the WORSE off you'll be, Simple Biology 101. Fucking morons.

[Bluedragon094]

Oh you're so full of shit. There is absolutely NOTHING 'sacred', whatever that means, about sex. There is nothing honorable by being terrible in bed by the time you lay your first member of the opposite sex. It's an EXCUSE to stay emotionally repressed, or a rationalization for not being good at attracting members of the opposite sex!

And how would you know if being a ho isn't healthy? Do you have some expertise in that matter?

You're just spouting off presuppositions.

[hinakuu]

'whenever i evaluate myself i turn out to be doing awesome, as well.'

[CraigHNIsbet]

I think the government is funneling money through this program and using it for something else.

[Stridus7]

i dont understand you Americans here you are saying things like 'A nation under God' or 'God bless America' calling your self "Christians" but fucking everting that moves. you guys are fucking hypocrites, i hope AIDS kills you al.

[bamboobaby2003]

what? abstinence doesn't work for teens? do you remember being a teenager? The hormones!

Love our children, teach them about sex.

[vmaramis]

Personally I don't understand why the abstinence programs are still being used. We have statistical evidence that the damn does not work. Every time that these programs get used the teen pregnancy and std transmission rates goes up. These people need to own up that preaching ignorance about sex is wrong.

[drlarrymitchell]

Has anyone else noticed the change in language regarding this topic? It seems to me that only a few weeks ago, we laughed at "Creationists" in the same way we did the "Flat-Earth Society." Now these knuckle-draggers are promoting "Intelligent Design"- like it's a new and improved product that will get your souls 30% whiter or your money back.