Love, Sex, or Money? Why Do Couples Fight?

[chiharu232]

yeah why does your show suck so much and yeah again the guy in the middle hes bold.

[PrettyFreakinWise]

Couples do fight over who wears the pants. Remember the days when men were the head? What were the divorce rates from the beginning of time to the 1950's? More and more women want to be king and what is the divorce rate now? 57%? Its all about the feminist attitude and it destroys families through you. There is a natural order ladies. Wives, submit to your husbands. Husbands, LOVE you wives. Know your place and act accordingly or stay single until you choke.

[fattysnook]

Ignore all thee inmature comments,you two make a difference....Thanks..

[lOsTrakinaS]

sao mesmom malucos

[JohnnyRock2000]

Marriage is a dead concept. 60% of marriages ed in divorce. Half of the marriages that continue are not happy. Perhaps 1 out of 20 marriages are happy and successful. Marriage is dead.

[chattyQUEEN]

Hey, as long as there are still 1 our of 20 marriages that are successful, it's not dead. But, marriage is a big decision to make.

[JohnnyRock2000]

Emotions cause conflict and women are driven by emotions. Women should be taught at a young age to not let their emotions rule them and that most human emotions are negative and destructive.

[thphaca]

I couldn't have said it any better. Allot of the concepts stringed to emotions (most commonly, 'love') are just BS. We're no different than animals at a fundamental level. Subconsciously, men and women desire each other for purely sexual reasons... yet since we've started giving women power, we've also adapted their emotional concept of a stable compassionate relationship, which leads to a trap because women tend to reject the 'nice guy'. We simply need to acknowledge what we really are.

[IloveFootball1982]

Relationships.. Marriage.. all are bullshite!

the best thing is pure sexual relationship

or 1 nite fucken stand!

[chicn23]

thats dumb you must have been hurt in your past to say something like that!! If you find the right person then you will look at things in a different light!! Whats pure about just sex. Put pure with marriage thru good!! Now thats pure.

[IloveFootball1982]

well why do u think marriage is important then? just tell me how is such a relationship is built ? don't tell me love because this is truely bullshit!

all relationship and marriage based on LUST or money or even just fucken arranged.. so what the fuck is the use of marriage ?? just to cova an affair or love triangle?>>

[ubentu]

Your name kinda gives you away.. sorry.. I don't want to be mean, but that's not what relationships are based on.

There is love, there is security, marriage makes many things easier, many things harder, but it's a great journey. I understand if you're coming out of something hard, or if you've lived your life that way. You should never say "All *blank* is this" because there's no reality in those statements.

[edmondov]

You look great Jenn!

[kejholliday]

what is open communication? You always hear that open communication is the key to making relationships work. It's a tired cliche, but let me take it a step further and explain what that means: IT MEANS TALKING ABOUT THE THINGS YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT. IT MEANS TAKING A RISK. IT MEANS SAYING THINGS YOU THINK THE OTHER PERSON DOESN'T WANT TO HEAR.

[DanAndJenn]

And I might add - doing it in a way that does not attack or blame the other person...

Your statements need to stay about your feelings. Our rule when talking about difficult topics is to never start a sentence with the word "you". Just try it, you'll be surprised at the results.

[aaronmp2003]

Communication is definitely key, but at the same time, even 2 good communicators can let the stress get to them if money is too short.

[gossamerwindweb]

We fought a lot when we were first together. Now after 13 years, we hardly ever fight. I think the key was that we both figured out how communicate with the other. If we fight, it is almost always because of a misunderstanding.

[SuzyQ6930]

I would have to say that money is a key stressor in relationships which leads to fighting about all the other things as well. Communication is the key but....as he said men and women communicate very differently which makes it a trying thing.