Marriage and sex: How to cope with a lack of sex in marriage

[chloeabibas]

From a woman's stand point, there can be tons of reason why your wife refuses to have sex with you. Maybe they feel like it is becoming a chore,Lack of romance/intimacy/foreplay, too tired ( especially if you guys have kids) or just plain not interested. Why dont you men spice things up???

[myjanuary151987]

Two old unfuckable hairy pussies discuss a problem of sex. LMAO!

[mba2ceo]

Women use sex to trap men !!! sad but true !!! I would say 80% of women marry men THEY HAVE NO SEXUAL ATTRACTION TO.

[drastaify]

okay if i really like someone a lot and i really really like them then sex wont even matter. i could be with her for my whole life and not have sex once and be really happy because thats not why i love her. i love her just because i just really really like her a lot

[limbo194]

seems like everyone is talking about the women being the ones who dont want to have sex....i'm a woman and i want to have sex, but my partner is just not interested!!!!! ironic isnt it??? so its not always the women to blame...................

[QuirkyGengar]

How to solve sexless marriages and make it work? Wives just shut up and fuck him, unless you are physically unable or are about to die. Nothing else gives you an inch of an excuse. Why do women not care if their husband wants to have sex with them, but care if he wants to have sex with other women? The problem is not in the man, because he went against his biological code to be loyal with one woman, these type of women have pre-evolved and need to be getten rid of immediately.

[CHASEDONKEYFISH]

My wife will only have sex with me 3-4 times a month. I have to beg for it every day just to get it that often. And when it happens, its like business. She has been taking anti-depressants for the last ten years which is scientifically proven to lower womens libido. But... I have a need that only she can fulfill, and she doesn't understand that. There are a few nice looking girls I work with that like me, I'm thinking about having sex with one of them. If things don't change soon, it'll be over.

[SuperTruth77]

I love my dear wife so much, but I fear our relationship is being jeapordised by my past career in Adult films. I left that life behind several years ago & have no wish to return.

I thought she knew my feelings, but recently has suggested acting out scenes I did back then to ‘jazz up’ our sex life. She’s started buying horrible slutty clothes that don’t even suit her & acting whoreish in the bedroom-giving me traumatic flashbacks every time. Now she plays my old DVDs every night, it’s awful!

[CrazyBrah21]

Women don't like sex

[ausar2379]

I wish it was just that easy to say .. Hey you know I think I having a problem. Yeah after regretting the fact you ever even went pass that happy time with them and really saw how they can go months with out sex. Then you go what are you a freaking sex camel?

[hamidkadir]

My advice to every man, if ur wife refused to have sex with u every night. Just 1 thing u can do. Pls don't ever ask again ur wife about sex that mean she is fucking someone else, what u can do go bar or club or any public place and try to meet a woman and believe me a lot of woman out there looking just for fun.. U know what I mean. What a stupid man who ask his wife for sex fuck that just ignore the bitch.

[Macabresque]

How about sex almost every night... :) Haha, high sex drives are fun!!

[ausar2379]

I'm on the same page. I mean what are they waiting on. Then again there is a reason. I just think if you find u have a high drive find one who has the same!

[RofIStomper]

My wife doesn't want to have sex with me after almost 2 years since we got married. It was like a bait and switch. The first 2 years I've known her was great, then we got married and everything changed. There was nothing in this video that helps me out. I tried to talking to my wife but she says that there is nothing I can do, she just doesn't want to do it, she doesn't even want to think about it. I am deeply hurt.

[Flouraflora]

@RofIStomper

Sadly I know what you mean, though it's the other way around in my case. My husband's libido was crazy high before getting married. Now, I find myself crying myself to sleep whenever he rejects me to get intimate. I don't know what I should do. He's okay with me doing stuff for him, but when it comes to actually having sex, he turns away.

..Maybe I'm just asking for too much?

[RofIStomper]

@Flouraflora I highly recommend going to counseling. There may be specific issues which is causing him to not want to be intimate. My wife and I have been going for 2 months now on a weekly basis, every Saturday. It turns out my wife was in an unhealthy relationship a long time ago where sex was forced on her. Her ex-boyfriend wouldn't let her go to sleep if she didn't put out. I just recently found out about this at our counselings. I am being patient and understanding for the time being.

[drastaify]

@RofIStomper do you actually really like your wife? what if you knew now that you would never have sex again with her. would you divorce her?

[librano]

@RofIStomper ditch her.

[sillykitty12345]

@RofIStomper u needa get over it..u dont need sex at all

[RofIStomper]

@sillykitty12345 You must be a Nun, Happy Holidays Sister!

[ausar2379]

Sad deal brother. I'd be so freaking pissed. Find her sister or flirt with her friends when they come over. Don't never think you are wrong for it. Sometimes seduction is warfare and you may not deserve the kind of pain you r getting! U don't have to nail them but I bet you would get her attention then.

[heavycluv1]

I don't know what country these ladies are in but here in America women don't like to have sex more than twice a month

[cwood4ever]

@heavycluv1 HAHA how about once a year

[hymenaeuseeks]

Sex is for evolution. You're 100% correct that sensuality is the barometer of the relationship. Scientific evidence from many disciplines show that monogamy is not compatible with our innate biology. While there is some diversity among us, women evolved to seek a new shiny man for each of her children and the popular men, like all men, were wired to want something new.

[sega31098]

@hymenaeuseeks

I'm not so sure about that. When people sleep around, I always hear of people feeling guilty and stuff.

[ProducersVault]

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