what she wants, which means she isnt seeing his potential, but what she thinks he should be. Also, when she is comparing him to all of her 40 year old friends, that shows what she really wants him to be like. And its kinda creepy that she has so many 40 year old male friends. This fem-nazi song is a horrible way to try and empower women.
Is this song supposed to be empowering to women? because to me it seems like just some bitch that is trying to act like the one that was good in the relationship when in reality she was the reason that it failed in the first place. When she said that she focused on the man's potential is an example of how she tried to seem like she was doing the right thing, trying to get him to be all that he can be. That is quite positive. But earlier in the song she says that she is trying to mold him into
I think you have to be a bit emotionally immature to think she is dissign her ex, in fact I think it's clearly her taking the blame for all the things she did wrong in the relationship, which is emotionally mature. Although of course that is not to say the other person wasn't to blame too. I don't see this as a bitter song at all. It shows the complexities of relationships and makes for a deep song of reflection.
@charmed1ify ... How can you call an album that sold millions upon millions underated. Guess we have a different definition of that word. Had it sold 50,000 I might agree.
@WolfgangR5150 Underrated when stood up against Jagged Little Pill. This album was better- but underrated in the sense that it was in the shadow of that album.
probably what makes Alanis music so good and full of real sorrow and lovingly tasteful voice tones is she writes from what I can gather from a lot of her great lyrics , is personal experiences. Bad ones as well as the good one...even divorce....a true modern day folk writer ....
as much as i love alanis, this song is a tad bitter! and mean if its written about her ex. as talented as it is if you get me :) i just wouldnt go that far about someone i had cared about once
yes, SFIJ is a special one soo deep and beutiful!! listening to it helpd me out a lot...sigh..i miss that alanis a little but she's still the coolest person in the world!! i wish I could meet her one day..maybe I will!!
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TheBandnduss 2 weeks ago
what she wants, which means she isnt seeing his potential, but what she thinks he should be. Also, when she is comparing him to all of her 40 year old friends, that shows what she really wants him to be like. And its kinda creepy that she has so many 40 year old male friends. This fem-nazi song is a horrible way to try and empower women.
airandfelt 1 month ago
Is this song supposed to be empowering to women? because to me it seems like just some bitch that is trying to act like the one that was good in the relationship when in reality she was the reason that it failed in the first place. When she said that she focused on the man's potential is an example of how she tried to seem like she was doing the right thing, trying to get him to be all that he can be. That is quite positive. But earlier in the song she says that she is trying to mold him into
airandfelt 1 month ago
esos japoneses tenian menos sangre en las venas ... !!!
utena22 3 months ago
today I woke up feeling like this.....
loveyarock 9 months ago
Always nice to hear a free spirit sing, Lauryn Hill Unplugged is recommended if you like Alanis
Peace
kroikye 10 months ago
The 90's will never come again..... too bad I was born in 91.
PreciousEarthquakes2 11 months ago 6
I love how she sings the second "of course you are" in the choruses, it's incredible.
flrines 1 year ago 6
Hypnotic. I love this song. Her voice is simply hypnotic. This is one of her best, imo.
JRBL1A1 1 year ago 3
asombroso!! genial!! are you still mad!! una carta para mis ex!!
kesito18 1 year ago
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rooszinerin 1 year ago
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rooszinerin 1 year ago
i agree with everything posted, but what was with that "of course" part, that's one of the most haunting melodies i love about this song, gone.
goldnight 1 year ago
Supposed former infatuation junkie was her best album!!!!
And yeah, doesnt look like there will ever be another artist as good or as true as her.
Beanskieee 1 year ago 2
You are a beautiful woman in all senses! THANK YOU
bytton 1 year ago
Alanis rocks the house!!!! I LOVE HER!!!!
luisabs 1 year ago
wow
laikalynx 1 year ago
beautiful voice :]
LeeAusten27 1 year ago
Love this song explains everything and i understand what the songs about
jmariebarnes 1 year ago
isto e o melhor , alem do mais e muito linda!!!!
clauetxalar 1 year ago
She looks like prinses Leia from StarWars. Still hot nonetheless
Lebowskisan 1 year ago
Alanis is one of the best live performers I've ever heard. God I love her!
Foxlocke 1 year ago
она великолепна, кроме преклонения никаких чувств!
vladgrej 1 year ago
Never heard this one. I like it!
rynobeelee 1 year ago
no show you when yours are raised by the best
246867fraser 2 years ago
i saw her live and it was just like i was listen to her cd . the quality of her performance is astounding
TheSnotrag2009 2 years ago 3
im a dancer and one of my studio did a dance to this and i didnt like this song till i saw the danceee then i realized how nice this song is<3
dancingdancefool01 2 years ago
omg she is amazing. holy shit
greysanatomyfan25 2 years ago 3
I love thissssssssssssssssssssssssssssss <3
embrazure 2 years ago
Yes, still mad. Still mad am I.
Finish your training, you did not.
DuracellEnergizer 2 years ago
GOOD DAY
PauleQueenie 2 years ago
a voice that make u fly
anikan32 2 years ago 2
I think you have to be a bit emotionally immature to think she is dissign her ex, in fact I think it's clearly her taking the blame for all the things she did wrong in the relationship, which is emotionally mature. Although of course that is not to say the other person wasn't to blame too. I don't see this as a bitter song at all. It shows the complexities of relationships and makes for a deep song of reflection.
anz10 2 years ago 6
seen her live 4 times and i intend to see her again :)
faintingfrontrowfan 2 years ago
just one word : GENIUS
DarkStarDKH 2 years ago 6
supposed former infatuation junkie was an underated album, it was really good.
charmed1ify 2 years ago 99
absolutely!
purotriphop 2 years ago 2
@charmed1ify Completely agreed
Eckylis 1 year ago
@charmed1ify ... How can you call an album that sold millions upon millions underated. Guess we have a different definition of that word. Had it sold 50,000 I might agree.
WolfgangR5150 6 months ago
@WolfgangR5150 Underrated when stood up against Jagged Little Pill. This album was better- but underrated in the sense that it was in the shadow of that album.
yancybutler 3 months ago
Tune!
debalynz 2 years ago
are u still mad I gave up long before u did...
that fucking deep
PeaceOutPlayerz 2 years ago 6
Love your comment it really made me lmfao!!
debalynz 2 years ago
This song is one of the most wonderful and misunderstood I've ever heard. She's dissing herself, not an ex.
jfayiii 2 years ago 2
so true for my last boyfriend ..3 yrs spent and he was like this - the song is awsome ...
Elementfifth 2 years ago
Listen to the song 10 years from now and you may rethink that.
jfayiii 2 years ago 3
COOL! , She's HOT!
CapOlsen 2 years ago
CATCH ME ON MYSPACE SOON
TheHolidayfreak 2 years ago
ela é de mais..canta muito
552184765 2 years ago
love this song...
musicalwaysGMS 2 years ago
is she crying there?
btw...its a great song
MeiaCullen 2 years ago 2
No, it's glitter make up or something like that
Serena2412 2 years ago
Some sort of body glitter, I think.
donnerbrandpear 2 years ago
I love this song....one of my all time faves, and she never fails to do it live
debfan74 2 years ago 6
the very best!
54spiritedwill54 2 years ago
e um calssico
xeca1212 2 years ago 2
probably what makes Alanis music so good and full of real sorrow and lovingly tasteful voice tones is she writes from what I can gather from a lot of her great lyrics , is personal experiences. Bad ones as well as the good one...even divorce....a true modern day folk writer ....
8153max 2 years ago 5
ditto pineappleseeds. she fills me with emotion and a strange energy
nothingavailablehelp 2 years ago 4
I'm still mad for Alanis.
umadoshikakko 2 years ago 4
chills. everytime.
whatinspiresu 2 years ago
i just want to know if she can get any more amazing
xobreluvsmusic96 2 years ago 4
damn! wish i was there
leeroijaewon 3 years ago
she is the greatest!
herwendy09 3 years ago
it's a shame we don't have singers like her today
lightofdew 3 years ago 57
we have her! she's still here!!
moochacha2021 2 years ago
@lightofdew yeah, no one sings like her,, she's so unique in her own way and i love her voice , the way she sings is so amazing,,
lenjmmj 1 year ago 2
@lightofdew
we do have singers like her today. for example alanis morissette herself. she's still a singer
and there are a lot of great singers out there. turn of your tv and search a little better and you'll find them :-)
TytgadtL 1 year ago 2
@lightofdew Uh, she's not dead....
mattwinkworth 10 months ago 2
@lightofdew you' re so right.. today it' s all about appearance and scandals, people become so voyeur and pointless.. (sorry for my english)
DamnedBanshee86 9 months ago
@lightofdew i want to be a singer like her someday!
she's great!
0LittlemissLola 9 months ago
@lightofdew Fortunately her music exists.
Photographlife 5 months ago
I LOVE ALANIS !!!
heckalanis08 3 years ago 3
as much as i love alanis, this song is a tad bitter! and mean if its written about her ex. as talented as it is if you get me :) i just wouldnt go that far about someone i had cared about once
muzakbaby 3 years ago
OMG I need to go to a concert. How lyrically, vocally & musically talented is Alanis!!
Pineappleseeds 3 years ago 2
por favor q no pare d cantar !!! q exsista por siempre !
eldbnt 3 years ago 5
SIJF amazing...Alanis after JLP amazing!(before too =]_)
Joaokimuralegiao 3 years ago
I just saw her last night in louisville ky. She was awesome!!!!! I would go again in a minute!!!
meadewre 3 years ago 3
I could never be mad at you my darling!
lunaangel56 3 years ago 6
beautiful!!!
ivanechristina 3 years ago 2
=) my favorite Alanis song =)
LizandJess 3 years ago 2
i love this song.
and her.
so much.
babyyballerinaa 3 years ago 5
im not mad!!!!!!!!!!!!
chadb1986 3 years ago 2
Don't get me wrong -- she's very talented and very hot -- but I am sooooooo glad I'm not an ex-boyfriend! (:
tanukisan666 3 years ago 10
she's still hot!
shimofo 3 years ago 9
In the shallow ways, and every other way also
wrnchhead76 3 years ago
Is it really shallow to think she's an attractive women?
datoneportagee 3 years ago
not at all, i'm saying she's hot physically, and in every other way also.
wrnchhead76 3 years ago 5
the very best!
Jorasil 3 years ago
I wish I could sing along with her...
teakruzic 3 years ago 2
Amaazing...I wish I could see her live...*sighs* And yes, indeed SFIJ is the best album she has ever released...
bwaycraz3d84 3 years ago 5
love her...
TheDezios 3 years ago
i love her... anyone notice her in dogma? course u did!
vortex0productions 3 years ago 5
how could you not, she played god- with a voice that bursts the hearts of man :)
eddie2angel 3 years ago 4
WAUW this is amazing!!!
jenni4gigi 4 years ago
her voice is lower than it was when she recorded it.
but still
really good performance eh
quiksilviana 4 years ago
I agree with all of you. I'll always be an Alanis fan, but SFIJ was just special, there's no other album like it.
mar118mar 4 years ago 3
yes, SFIJ is a special one soo deep and beutiful!! listening to it helpd me out a lot...sigh..i miss that alanis a little but she's still the coolest person in the world!! i wish I could meet her one day..maybe I will!!
Alfarc83 4 years ago 2
SFIJ is my all time fave album. # 1
lunaangel56 4 years ago
the greatest album, the deepest, the strongest, the most real, the destroyer, the hopeful, for me SFIJ is her best
lordtever 3 years ago 2
thanks so much,
lunaangel56 4 years ago
SFIJ is my all timefave album.
This song is brilliant.
Thanks for uploading!
ShadowboxerXx 4 years ago 2
totally agree SFIJ is the best...
Alfarc83 4 years ago 2
love the lyrics
jalq 4 years ago 2