Immaturity
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  • You should be first women president.

  • I might have to watch this video once or twice a week just to remind myself that I can control what I do, and regardless of how other people effect me, I can control the way I react to it. Very well spoken, its good to hear an educated opinion rather than random thoughts.

  • My sister and I were watching this video. You go "the reason why you ran away from home" and then "the reason why you got smashed at that party" and she just looked at me and goes "told you" o,O. Awkward.

  • so... you think failing at a test is immaturity? Not saying i disagree with you it's just... there's nothing wrong with failing at a test or not going to school, or even yelling at your parents (if they have done something wrong that is). As much as you should see your problems, it's also important to realise that nobody is fucking perfect, its okay to be a bit selfish sometimes, as long as it's not too much and too often.

  • @skippy35 you should shut up thnx

  • You need to be more fluid with your words, and to not edit and cut your video.

  • I think she should be a motivational speaker.

  • @wildheartlila

    Wife=Washing,Ironing,Fucking,E­tc.

  • ok,I think we all understood by watching this video that we where immature =)

  • with this video you changed a lot. with every video, you make the world better and brighter for some of us.

  • You are a really good speaker!

  • that is the best thing I've seen on youtube... thank you

  • we should be best friends :)

  • Wow. You're smart.

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  • Haha Well Actually the only one I thought about when you started namming things was myself.

    I try to be mature. I think I am exeptional at it. I didn't start thinking of anyone else but myself until you mentioned it. I always look within before I look outwards. I try to better myself. That's all anyone can do,you are right. For any who dislyked this video. I am sure that you need to look within yourself also. Cause to be hounest, you wouldn't go on defence stryke if you didn't have a reason to

  • Btw, if I'm making some grammar mistakes, please forgive me. I'm a 14 year old Dutch girl so my English sure isn't perfect! (my other coment is below this one)

  • @loveJesseMcCartney13 You were correct on everything. im 14 too. haha.

  • I totally agree! But I also believe there's a certain boundry of immaturity and that some people are able to switch between mature and immature. Yes, I admit that I can be immature sometimes. But I do know when I need to be mature or when I can be immature. Sure, I do things that are immature and I'm not afraid to admit that. I regret things I've said and done. I will only learn from those stupid actions&words and they will help me grow up. I'm 14, far from perfect and not grown up yet.

  • @loveJesseMcCartney13 Awesome comment! And your english is flawless! Btw im dutch too so i do not actually know why i am writing this in english! Het is denk ik gewoon een gewoonte! Mooie woorden voor zo'n jong iemand!

  • @1994simonee haha thank you! Haha ja inderdaad, het is een gewoonte. Zelfs op een Nederlands filmpje reageer ik 9/10 keer in het Engels.. Maar bedankt voor het compliment! Denk dat het feit dat ik een aantal Engelse vriendinnen heb en dat mijn moeder 1 jaar in Engeland heeft gewoond er wat mee te maken kan hebben.. Haha heb gewoon een talenknobbel. Maar bedankt ^^

  • I think in some aspects of our lives everyone can tend to be immature, it all depends on the situation and on what you yourself thinks is immature or mature

  • well that was awesome! <3

  • ??? What the fuck are you? I fucking mind ninja or some shit?

  • you would make an exceptional therpist and/or school councelor reaching out to people

    in the way that you do.

  • @111peanutbutterlious I agree. A LOT.

  • @111peanutbutterlious no way. she'd make a great president of the US. I'm just saying she can do better.

  • Fit

  • okay so whats wrong with being immature?

  • Your so intelligent ... and beautiful . Damn your amazing

  • Sister calls cousin to the top of the stairs.

    Sister asks cousin, "Seth, do you wanna push me down the stairs?"

    Cousin is completely baffled by this and says, "Um... yes?"

    Sister yells, "MOMMMM!!!! SETH WANTS TO PUSH ME DOWN THE STAIRS!!!!"

    Sister's either a genius or an idiot.

  • Thank YOU for taking time to make this video. You're the best. =)

  • lol i say "because i can" a lot, but not in arguments ;)

  • @lesbiansanswers dude you are awesome

  • You're beautiful, Jenna. More importantly, your maturity. Continue being awesome, and all that jazz.

  • im still new to your videos so im not sure if you've ever adressed what your career aspirations are, but i think you would make a great life coach or motivational speaker.

  • Poo it cut me off :( and I had such an amazing rant too lol. I'll have to finish that another time. I is sleepy at 3:04 am currently ;)

  • That was a freaking AMAZING video. So very inspirational and eye opening. If there are any others out there like me (hopefully there is...or not I'm such a weirdo. 2 of me would b completely abnormal...anyways!) then they should realize how selfish and childlike we've all actually grown to become. And it's not just children or even teenagers that are like this, adults too. We've all become people who want all the pleasures of life exactly when we want them but don't want to face the consequence

  • Well said great vid. Wish those that are immature would watch this vid and absorb it.

  • Oh crap… I'm immature....

  • If only you were straight... :'(

    But let's think, if you were you probably wouldn't have the same motives and drives to be SOOOO amazing. So yay. Yay for you. :D

  • You are incredibly wise and I hope to become as self aware as you are one day. -3

  • Of course children are going to be immature that is expected but really its their asshole parents who spoil them in suburbia, the 1st step to that is raising them right, social net-working whores are annoying, you don't have to worry about a kid seeing how you are a lesbian, you really love to hear yourself talk? move over Dr. Phil.

  • Thank you for enlightening my hidden, rather to be changed part of myself, that would always act and respond as you mentioned, to such unimportant things that people simply love to do, maybe just for the fun of it.. Although it might be pretty tempering sometimes, forcing people to act the same again as they were used to for a long time, I think there's always another and alot better way to get out of/into anything that occurs throughout our lives, without being immature.. ;)

  • No way this was posted on my birthday . I FREAKING LOVE JENNA ANNE , she is amazing , and she inspires me every second of everyday. If only she knew how much she has changed my life for the better

  • I wish I could be ur bestfriend

  • you may know what immaturity is but what you might not realize is that half the time in your life you will be immature

  • well Jenna, you are a very mature person. Youre fantastic

  • You sound like Blake Lively, it's a good thing. :D

  • you're amazing (:

  • My wife said I’m too immature and if I don’t grow up it’s going to erect a barrier between us. Ha ha ha, erect.

  • @AngelGabriel253

    Wife=Washing,Ironing,Fucking,E­tc.

  • Great video, and thank you for YOUR time.

  • Wow, you are such a positive influence on my life. Everything you say in your videos hits home for me. Thank you so much for helping me be a good person. You truly have an incredible moral standard and I strive to be more like you

  • Im 9 and to me, these are stereotypes :I

  • Immaturity is very big nowadays especially on Facebook. That's why i love Twitter =) but on my channel i always talk about things on my mind and they are just my opinions to but there is always too much negativity on Youtube.

  • So cute when she said: "Thank you for your time"

  • its up to u its you life and if u rly think about it u no its true everything u say do feel shapes ur life and jenna i so agree well not wit what im thinking in it but a lil kinda i guess but i get cha keep it up :)?

  • its not just what u say or do but emotions are also choise u choose to get made or sad or just stay or be happy its ur choise u choose so let something some1 said or did to make u mad or what ever it is u choose how u take things and u choose ur life in a sence cause yes there are things u cant control but if ur happy in ur life or depressed or lonely what ever it is with some1 with out its all cause of u ur actions what u say how u choose to feel what can lead to the other 2 its all u

  • fckn hot, wish u were str8

  • I know someone with that same shirt~

  • Do you study in the field of psychology?? because i love your insights!!!

  • just the word "immature" got over used big time... And theres alotta drawbacks to it. What is maturity anyway? Being "Responsible"? "trustworthy"? w/e. idk what it is maybe just the people I dislike use it too often its just that Ive come to know and HATE that word

  • Y'know I agree with most of this but a lot of people/humans just need to be put in their place, I'm afraid. Many of them act as viruses, having the ability to infect others and spread their ignorance and malice until it becomes an accepted societal norm, as with the gay thing, the thoughts that other animals (pigs,wolves, etc) are inferior, and other arrogant mindsets. As for expressing anger, if I didn't express my emotions in some kinda way it would actually sicken me and to me feels dishonest

  • i will honestly say i can be immature and mature at times immature more but ive been working on it and this really helped me thanks your awesome

  • Not READABLE* I am on my I touch so I have autocorrect , but what I meant was * tears of joy or of sadness*

  • For me...being considered immature is like always kind of cutting people off, rudely and loudly yelling, but sometimes you can be really mature and make a fool of yourself aswell, a lot of people PRETEND to be mature like wearing dresses( no offense, but that really doesn't show how mature you are in my eyes). But Jenna, for some odd reason your video made me cry. I don't know if it was from readable joy or of sadness , but I cried. Overall, outstanding video Jenna Anne, I wish people in my s

  • I agree.

    And I don't think maturity (or immaturity) has necessarily something to do with someone's age. I know a few people that are way younger but way more mature than others. But I tent to hang out with older people because most of the people my age are quite immature.

  • I'm proud to be immature so there! :D

  • You are smart for a girl...probably that's why you are a lesbian XD

  • i have this theory of being so mature that you arent arfraid to be imature sometimes. and what i mean by that is theres a fake kind of maturity that people my age or around like 5th grade display. see i think of "childish" in this case is like if your 13 and your younger sibling watches a certain show and you enjoy it too some people might think you are childish. ok so say that your friend watches that show too but at school pretends to hate and teases you for liking it to make it seem like you

  • @crazyj3919 *they* are cool and theyre so mature because they don't watch that show because theyre too old for and its for babies and stuff like that they will say. now if you show that yes you like that show and your not ashamed to watch just because you are above the age group its reccomended for or popular with. and so thats kinda what i mean by being so mature your not afraid to be immature.

    i hope that made sense..

  • Seriously, how do you do this? I've been siting here on in front of the computer all afternoon and night and i'm still not tired of listening to you! You are TOO awsome Jenna! Too Awsome! My new biggest goal in life is to meet you!

    You're soo young and have such a clear view of life and relationships and human behavior! And you put it out there in such a clear way of understanding! YOU'RE AWSOME! i wish you all the sucess you can have in your life! For real... ALL OF IT!! <3<3<3<3<3<3<3

  • im mature at school and immature in bed.....

  • *and not label ourselves as immature

  • I do agree with some of the points you make in this video, but for once I do have to disagree with you on your opinion. If one were to judge someone's level of maturity based on what you just stated, then there is not one person waking this planet that is mature. If anything, this reminds me of the "seven deadly sins". Only seven sins but enough to make EVERYONE on this planet a sinner for acting on at least one of them. Why can't we all just admit that we have flaws, and not label ourselves as

  • talking like ur a guru u silly cunt

  • your like preaching my life,why are ppl so immature.sheesh i admit it im immature when it comes to some thing, but arent we all. Its in are dna i swere.

  • your like preaching my life,why are ppl so immature.sheesh

  • You ARE a child. You are 18. A "mature" individual is someone who understands that they will never have all of the answers. As you grow older, your convictions become less certain. The world is not black and white -- it is many, many complex shades of grey. You're very young so I don't expect you to fully grasp this concept quite yet, not to sound patronizing or anything. I'm sure one day you will.

  • you are so great. i love your videos. you should have a talk show

  • You opened my eyes.

  • What do you think about dating someone older than you?

  • Wow. You said what I needed to hear.

    You are so right!!!!!

  • Thank you Jenna. You're inspiring.

  • LEGIT! You're amazing. I really think you should be on Ellem. You have such a strong opinion and you speak so fluently. lol. I know there are more people like you out there we just have to find them!

  • "you responded so u care hurr durr"

    fkn lame, man. get off your high horse.

  • this video was extremely humbling. thank you

  • 25 people are immature.

  • I realize that I've been more immature than ever since a year or two ago. This is terrible. Never threw a tantrum as a kid, I threw one at my Mom last fall. I sometimes respond in bitter sarcasm being not able to handle my conflict emotions. Thanks for reminding me all the immature behaviours I had had, and I thus will improve as I grow.

  • Thanks. I really needed to hear that little piece of wisdom. 

  • More than anything, what I want to do is shake your hand and give you a hug.

  • wow. that was very well said. :) well done.

  • Wow you're such a fluent speaker...keep it up..+)

  • subscribed. where have you been all my life?? haha

  • Thank You :)

  • I fucking love you.

  • @blightmike How does this prove that lesbians don't make sense? :|

  • 3:37 - 3:58 you read my F-ing mind. hahha. that freaked me a bit, but gosh, I adore thee <3

  • Lesbians make no sense and this is my proof!

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  • reevaluate my stance on the issue and some of the choices i make daily...you are truly amazing jenna and you make me realize who i am and the kind of man i want to become

  • wow...i've watched a lot of your videos now and im a straight male who used to react very immaturely to the concept of homosexuality and occasionally still do...i cuss like a sailor and i have a short fuse...it seems like the more i watch your videos the more i realized how messed up i really am...im one of those people that would condemn gays and then label the concept of lesbianism as hot or sexy...in the end i realize they are one in the same and that i am a jerk who really needs to

  • One of the phrases I always hear my dad say is "you can't control what anybody else does, you can only control what YOU do." Thanks for this video (:

  • wow. do u wite this stuff down?! ur a GOD!!!! i love u, well i kant really say that becuz i dont no u but if i did no u im sure i would love u. wat im trying 2 say is that i love how honest nd in touch u r with ur self nd others. im so young (only 16) nd ever time i watch ur vids ilearn something new about myself nd i learn things that i can actually use in the real world... Thank you Jeena honestly from my heart 2 yours

  • Guuuurl u smarrrt.

    Lol So I was listening to what you were naming and giving examples of and I was thinking of all the people who go to my school. I also thought how about how I act immaturely sometimes too before you even pointed it out. This is a great topic and conversation starter. If you were my friend I could probably talk about this all day with you lol. You also give great advice...

  • You're absolutely right, However sometimes I do get really pissed.

  • You're brilliant. Like omg, amazing.

  • I wanna meet you after this vid.

    Rather than thinking about someone who's immature when I was watching, I was analyzing your logic and searching if I had done anything immature.

    Yes, I did.

    Not as often as certain ppl perhaps, but it is impossible to deny it's existence, I don't make excuse for those mistakes, I ask myself to learn from it.

    I like what pokeeuge said, "Maturity is to know when to act mature and when not to"(sth. like that).

  • ha ha ha! I did fail my test last week!

  • You are such a smart girl. Whatever you want to do in life you will go far.

  • Great video! I think that maturity is about taking responsibility for your life and what you do. My dad is 46, but he is still like kid. When he fail something, he always dump it on other people. It is really hard to live with him.

  • Immature spells I'm mature. So, that defeats the whole purpose of this video. :D

  • @Devvable No.

  • im a bit immature, but i feel mature because i know it.

  • wake up call.

  • Jenna, I consider myself mature yet i know i've done All of the things you've mentioned more than once.when i do something wrong i don't try to justify it but there is a reason for everything you know.sometimes its good others its bad.I dont blame others for my imperfections because i feel its wrong.in my opinion there is always a cycle u can stop and change any thing but only before it gets out of hand.

  • Your are so inspirational and motivational! You should be a public speaker ( considering you're vlogging this you in a way are) but I mean like professionaly.

  • look at her now... imagine her when shes older... shes gonna as wise as Mr. Miyagi when shes 25 ... nice n.n

  • How old are you to be giving this advice?

  • @harleensethi09 Is not the age what matters, is what is on our brain.

  • Excelente vídeo ;) GRACIAS

  • Love,Love,Love this so much ! Happy Valintines Day ((:

  • Wow...

    So much.

    Wisdom. O.O

  • "I'M MATURE!" LEAVE ME DA-FUCK ALOONE!!!*Cries*

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  • Well I'm an apathetic person by nature. Only reason I'd let people know is cuz I care enough to let them know I don't care. I don't necessarily like to ignore people. Guess I'm a nice guy who doesn't care. Difference is I hide my apathy. If people truly knew I didn't care about life's issues, they'd probably hate me.

    That's the one thing apathy can't cover...acceptance. Humans need to be accepted. I could give a damn what political party is in office, but I'd rather not piss anyone off for it.

  • Jenna, always blowing my mind.

  • the 23 people who disliked this is immature.

  • @Reptilegirl44 are bored!

  • My best friend's level of immaturity is laughable. We haven't spoken for 5 days because her ego is getting in the way. I tried to talk to her and I was met with an abundance of offensive words. She insisted on calling me many derogatory names, but I am willing to forgive her because I miss her.

    It's turbulent. to say the least.

  • @Taarable same thing here. :(

  • I'm in love with your voice.<333

  • so true

  • <3

  • This was a really good video ! It's inspiring ! :D Good work on it ! :]

    You're right, we can control only ourselves, but that counts for alot ! :D

  • @piickupthephone "and your over enunciating way too much so make yourself sound smarter." hmm... pretty sure it's *you're and *to make but that's ok. if you don't understand the point of the video then don't watch it. don't comment. especially to make negative comments to the person that posted it. i just don't understand the point of commenting on things you don't like. watch it, dislike, and move on.

  • is that what they call it....makes sense now.

  • ur effen cool (: js. thx

  • You are great at speaking. I stutter and stumble soooo much when I talk. I'm jealous. :D

  • you should really really write a book. 

  • people say im immature lol

  • you sound angry >.<

  • "you cannot control others, but you can control yourself"

    ....whoa that's what my teacher said this week. 8)

    thanks again for sharing your wisdom....ness..! ^^ [wisdomness? *checks translator*]

  • Thanks,I'm trying to better myself and stop being so immature.

  • aggggggggggh so much wisdom.

  • I love listening to you talk. You always make wonderful points. Plus you have a beautiful face too look at. XD <3

  • You're completely right Jenna (:

  • Amen. Thanks jenna.

  • I think wrong doing cannot equal being immature, it's just not the same. Many people do wrong things for the wrong reasons, but I believe it's not because of immaturity. Things you list from 4:25 onwards have a reason and are too complex for outsiders to understand. Situations shouldn't be judged by simply saying: 'Oh, that was immature!'

    The example of deleting facebook content made me laugh though. It may matter to people, but to me there are way more important things in life than facebook.

  • I cant believe youre so young. Wisdom :) 

  • there should be like a jenna religion ,

    if everyone followed you and lived by your beliefs then the world would be such a better place <3

  • woah, you're so wise.

  • You seem to hold high standards for yourself. You are a fantastic role model. Keep up the good work. :)

  • Speechless.

  • yur awesome :)

  • I HAVE YOUR NECKLACE HOLY CRAP

  • u have a teeny little lisp. its so cute :D

  • childish, not childlike. Childlike usually means something positive. Great video though. You're beautiful. :)

  • Okay you girl are amazing! The girl of my dreams (:. You do not act 18 AT ALL! Wow you are so smart it is crazy. You will go far in life, I believe it.

  • this is the first time i've disagreed with you. 

  • such a huge mind fuck. i'm so confused and angry at myself and other people now. ugh :(