not to be funny or rude but i dont know if u checked and seen my last comment but i just wanted to be clear im not trying rub u the wrong way i know u have a man.im just letting you know i find you inspiring and i think your special not lik ED but in a good way.i just wanted to let you know that and give u my blessins i be stressin sumtimes not tryn to compare but i can relate to one thing u said as far as being over welmed with sadness.shits been f*c*ed up like that b4 .. aitee.
I have never met anyone diagnosed with BPD that is passive and laid back so I am trying to find out how your thrapist came to diagnose you as BPD. What were some of the initial symptoms? Also, do you think it is a good idea to rely on someone else doing things like taking care of the money? You may be glad he is willing to do that but have you thought about the, 'what if?" scenarios? I hope you don't take this the wrong way and understand i am just curious.
@Diavna I was actually diagnosed by my psychiatrist about two years ago. I am in recovery now. I used to have constant serious mood swings and I would rage yell and break things constantly. When I tell people that they don't believe me. Haha. I am on a lot of medication now and I have done a lot of therapy to get to this point.
I am already relying on him since I work for his company. I'm not worried about what if. I'm going back to school and working on my goals regardless.
@thedanizblog it's awesome to know that there is hope and a light at the end of the tunnel. Very nice to see that someone is actually coping and dealing with the problems and such. My shrink told me today that there isn't any medication that is a quick fix or that would resolve the problem. I was under the impression that mood stablizers, antidepressants and anti-psychotics are normally the combo of meds to use for someone with BPD to help quell the negative responses. I'm confused now lol
@Diavna Yeah that is the combo I am on. I also take an antianxiety as needed. I wouldn't call it a quick fix but getting on the right medication has been a huge turning point in my life. I had done a lot of therapy before medication but it was never able to "stick" until after I got on the meds. That has been my experience.
@thedanizblog well at least that gives me some hope :-). I think I am going to do something similar to what you are doing with the video blog and such. I think it will make it easier to see how I really am reacting to certain things, how out of control it may be, and how well the new skills work.
Thank you for everything you do to help people understand & cope with our illness. :)
Good for you, Dani! Glad you're back and feeling better! Do you think that the goof up at work was at all an unconscious way of putting it on him (your boyfriend) to make the decision for you not to work there? (since you didn't feel confident in being assertive about it?) I have done things like this, so I am just wondering.
@thedanizblog Oh gosh, SO many times. During these instances, I've not had the courage to make certain decisions or changes, so I think I have done things (or not done things) so that things would "just happen" and take the responsibility off of me to assertively make the change. It's something I'm really working on.
So Nice to see you again Dani girl..... and it is so healthy that you express yourself like you do! Have fun with your dreams and goals and remember when fear creeps in it is just ( F)alse ( E)vidence ( A)ppearing ( R)eal You are loved and appreciated!
its great hearing your side of things. im feeling stressed that im out of shape, have no job, and that im not in classes right now... but its motivating to hear that means that i can change it in the new year. happy holidays!
YAY UR BACK I MISS U ALOT, UR CLOTHES ND HAIR LOOK SO CUTE!
ALSO IM SO HAPPY THAT UR GONNA DO THINGS THAT U LIKE AND THAT UR GONNA RETURN TO SCHOOL THAT WOULD GAVE UR LIVE 100% CHANGE ALSO WORKING OUT ITS GOOD I DONT KNOW WHY BUT IVE ALWAYS HEAR PEOPLE SAYING THAT WORKING OUT HELP U TO LIKE LET GO STRESS AND SHIT LIKE THAT!
your so wonderfully happy and smiley, it's infectious! im sorry that you've had a tough time recently, but hooray for things being on the up! keep chipping away and smiling, your beautiful!
great shirt and hair, definitely not frumpy miss!
I'm so glad to see you happy again! It must be nice to be able to breathe again.. Happy holidays Dani!! x.
MeAndMyBlackTable 1 year ago
@mrrrbt Thank you! :)
thedanizblog 1 year ago
@thedanizblog
did u get that new job and get back into shape over the last year? have u even got the same boyfriend?
malarki5 4 months ago
not to be funny or rude but i dont know if u checked and seen my last comment but i just wanted to be clear im not trying rub u the wrong way i know u have a man.im just letting you know i find you inspiring and i think your special not lik ED but in a good way.i just wanted to let you know that and give u my blessins i be stressin sumtimes not tryn to compare but i can relate to one thing u said as far as being over welmed with sadness.shits been f*c*ed up like that b4 .. aitee.
chazbeats 1 year ago
@chazbeats Oh haha I didn't see the other comment. Thank you for this one though it is sweet. :-D
thedanizblog 1 year ago
welcome back!! very excited for you <3
cinnamonroll9 1 year ago
@cinnamonroll9 Thank you!
thedanizblog 1 year ago
rockin!
smashbeans 1 year ago
@brynn30 Thank you! :-D
thedanizblog 1 year ago
I have never met anyone diagnosed with BPD that is passive and laid back so I am trying to find out how your thrapist came to diagnose you as BPD. What were some of the initial symptoms? Also, do you think it is a good idea to rely on someone else doing things like taking care of the money? You may be glad he is willing to do that but have you thought about the, 'what if?" scenarios? I hope you don't take this the wrong way and understand i am just curious.
Diavna 1 year ago
@Diavna I was actually diagnosed by my psychiatrist about two years ago. I am in recovery now. I used to have constant serious mood swings and I would rage yell and break things constantly. When I tell people that they don't believe me. Haha. I am on a lot of medication now and I have done a lot of therapy to get to this point.
I am already relying on him since I work for his company. I'm not worried about what if. I'm going back to school and working on my goals regardless.
thedanizblog 1 year ago
@thedanizblog it's awesome to know that there is hope and a light at the end of the tunnel. Very nice to see that someone is actually coping and dealing with the problems and such. My shrink told me today that there isn't any medication that is a quick fix or that would resolve the problem. I was under the impression that mood stablizers, antidepressants and anti-psychotics are normally the combo of meds to use for someone with BPD to help quell the negative responses. I'm confused now lol
Diavna 1 year ago
@Diavna Yeah that is the combo I am on. I also take an antianxiety as needed. I wouldn't call it a quick fix but getting on the right medication has been a huge turning point in my life. I had done a lot of therapy before medication but it was never able to "stick" until after I got on the meds. That has been my experience.
thedanizblog 1 year ago
@thedanizblog well at least that gives me some hope :-). I think I am going to do something similar to what you are doing with the video blog and such. I think it will make it easier to see how I really am reacting to certain things, how out of control it may be, and how well the new skills work.
Thank you for everything you do to help people understand & cope with our illness. :)
YOU RAWK!
Diavna 1 year ago
welcome back! merry christmas, happy new year!
AJBR1980 1 year ago
@AJBR1980 Thank you! Merry Christmas and happy new year to you too!
thedanizblog 1 year ago
Good to see you are back. Keep on trying.
ZZBob777 1 year ago
@ZZBob777 Thank you! I will. :)
thedanizblog 1 year ago
Hope you find real happiness in 2011, best wishes and thank's.
flomartoo 1 year ago
@flomartoo Thank you so much for the comment!
thedanizblog 1 year ago
Good for you, Dani! Glad you're back and feeling better! Do you think that the goof up at work was at all an unconscious way of putting it on him (your boyfriend) to make the decision for you not to work there? (since you didn't feel confident in being assertive about it?) I have done things like this, so I am just wondering.
BPDHealing 1 year ago
@BPDHealing It could have been. I haven't been doing nearly as good of a job as usual the past few weeks. You have been in the same situation?
thedanizblog 1 year ago
@thedanizblog Oh gosh, SO many times. During these instances, I've not had the courage to make certain decisions or changes, so I think I have done things (or not done things) so that things would "just happen" and take the responsibility off of me to assertively make the change. It's something I'm really working on.
BPDHealing 1 year ago
So Nice to see you again Dani girl..... and it is so healthy that you express yourself like you do! Have fun with your dreams and goals and remember when fear creeps in it is just ( F)alse ( E)vidence ( A)ppearing ( R)eal You are loved and appreciated!
OrangeCountyBeauty 1 year ago
@OrangeCountyBeauty Thank you for the wise words! :-D
thedanizblog 1 year ago
its great hearing your side of things. im feeling stressed that im out of shape, have no job, and that im not in classes right now... but its motivating to hear that means that i can change it in the new year. happy holidays!
trophification 1 year ago
@trophification Thanks happy holidays to you too! Yeah we can just think of the new year as a fresh start. :-)
thedanizblog 1 year ago
welcome back!!!!!!
:)
jasperrosesage 1 year ago
im from the south so i like da shirt and the hair, thats a southern belle look!!! glad to see u back mami!!! :)
YaKinfolkJStylesOO9 1 year ago
@YaKinfolkJStylesOO9 Cool thank you! :-D
thedanizblog 1 year ago
ok, call me 832-258-7511,lets talk bpd.
vintagebeware 1 year ago
Hey, beautiful. How are you doing today? I am so glad you are back. I hope you have a very Merry Christmas!
cymfsp117 1 year ago
@cymfsp117 Thank you so much! I hope you have a Merry Christmas too!
thedanizblog 1 year ago
W-E-L-C-O-M-E Back Dani!!!!!...so good to see you back!
cylawet 1 year ago
Much luck!
drjustincyr 1 year ago
@drjustincyr Thank you!
thedanizblog 1 year ago
You don't care about computers =( If you didn't have a computer we couldn't see you.
Won't somebody please think of the computers!?! (I took that quote and changed it a bit).
Do you notice that when you tell us about the screw up. You're smiling really big.
You look like a Mexican version of Daisy Duke from the Dukes of Hazard.
<333
GodlessManitoban 1 year ago
(not in a mean way) =/
GodlessManitoban 1 year ago
@GodlessManitoban Haha! You are right about computers. I luuuuuv my computer so I guess I do care about them.
thedanizblog 1 year ago
@thedanizblog
Yay!
<3
GodlessManitoban 1 year ago
YAY UR BACK I MISS U ALOT, UR CLOTHES ND HAIR LOOK SO CUTE!
ALSO IM SO HAPPY THAT UR GONNA DO THINGS THAT U LIKE AND THAT UR GONNA RETURN TO SCHOOL THAT WOULD GAVE UR LIVE 100% CHANGE ALSO WORKING OUT ITS GOOD I DONT KNOW WHY BUT IVE ALWAYS HEAR PEOPLE SAYING THAT WORKING OUT HELP U TO LIKE LET GO STRESS AND SHIT LIKE THAT!
I LOVE DANI Z
lizcatlover 1 year ago
@lizcatlover I love you too Liz!
thedanizblog 1 year ago
And I have good news for you too! I'm glad to see you back!
Donnyboy1984 1 year ago
@Donnyboy1984 Thanks Donny!
thedanizblog 1 year ago
@thedanizblog Welcome. Take care of yourself!
Donnyboy1984 1 year ago
Good luck with all 3 goals! Welcome back, and take care!
combatjm89 1 year ago
@combatjm89 Thank you!
thedanizblog 1 year ago
your so wonderfully happy and smiley, it's infectious! im sorry that you've had a tough time recently, but hooray for things being on the up! keep chipping away and smiling, your beautiful!
great shirt and hair, definitely not frumpy miss!
Jayce xx
lilmover 1 year ago
@lilmover Awwww thank you! You are so sweet! :-D
thedanizblog 1 year ago
@thedanizblog dani that's amazing i wish you the best of luck,you're an amazing person :)
scottblanch 1 year ago
Welcome back Dani! Glad to hear and see you are back on track!! Hope you have a great holiday!
PugGaming 1 year ago
@PugGaming Thank you so much! I hope you have a great holiday too! :-D
thedanizblog 1 year ago