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  • i just got diagnosed with M.E and this video has made me very scared

  • Touching story, and what an amazing and supportive family! I wish there was a permanent solution for ME, until then, all the best! <3

  • Hearing about this young woman's energy deficits, two words pop into my head: Mitochondrial disease! Although there's no cure for mito dx, there are supplements which can help improve symptoms and even help w/ energy levels. If you have CFS/ME w/ no known cause, please investigate mito disease. It took my family over 20 years to be diagnosed, but we are FINALLY seeing some symptom relief using mito supplements. Praying for all affected w/ mito, CFS/ME and all invisible illnesses. God bless.

  • for other people with cfs i really don't think they should make documentaries like this. I am only 19 and have had this for four years and I really am trying to keep hope and never give up as many people should. I feel really sorry this person/relate to her. But it really makes me lose hope. I wish they could post documentaries where they actually are treating and helping people with this. Or success stories of people who have actually overcome this

  • @supahfreeak I really do hope you overcome your illness. My Partner has been suffering for 7 years now. Its great when people get through it but the reality is that there is no proven cure and treatment for the condition. Scientitsts dont even knwo what causes it. it is still all therom and speculation. Hopefulyl raising awareness will help raise funding into further research. Best of luck.

  • it looks fake as fuck!

    

  • @dannypercival how does this look fake, until u go through it u will never no

  • @babysmudgeiloveu . Don't be offended, I didn't mean the illness, I meant the documentary, it looks staged, performed, amateur, do you understand? I'm sorry for anyone with this illness, truly I am. I don't however feel sorry for the production team of this short film. Is that OK for you.

  • Google "environmental illness resource center". I helped myself more than anyone. Google "wheat/milk intolerance". It is the first step toward increasing the power of the immune system. No detergent. No perfumes. Baking soda to brush teeth and clean house and dishes. See for yourself. I used to try all sorts of things if you want to study. "the cure for all diseases." CLUE.

  • Who ever says ME is a Psychological ilness they are talkin rubish, I hav ME and am very determined to do normal teenage activities, even if it is just going to a friends house, but there are some days no matter how motivated I may be I physically can not do it!

  • I don't know what I think about the causes of CFS, but people who dismiss it because they think it's a psychiatric disease are idiots. Everything you 'choose' to do is the result of a real, physical organ in your head called a brain.

    (I don't have CFS)

  • My social worker I used to have said people who have ME are just lazy and that is all that's wrong with them, people like him need to be shot!!!

  • I would give one of my legs, yip I would give one of my legs to get rid of my M.E. I am 22 and I can only go for a 5 minute walk every 2 days in the forest. I used to mountain bike ride/cycle 80 kilometers almost everyday, it made me so fit and healthy but then I was put on a medication and it made me throw up for 3 months as they said the side effect would go away which it never did. I am off the medication now but got M.E from it I have had M.E for 1 year and one month now! It isn't pleasant.

  • And I do look at all the facts. Hence my conclusions. Honestly, It is easy for one to believe they have a physical impairment if you think long enough about it and oversleep/fail to move around to the point where muscle wastage sets in. So I do believe your convictions are deeply held but it's psychological. Fact.

  • @ohpleasereally I can't believe that you think this is psychological. I was diagnosed by a top University here in the states and I didn't know what was wrong with me over the last 20 yrs or so from being in the Persian Gulf War. I am not faking these symptoms, they inflict my immune system, endocrine system, nervous system and the lymphatic system. This is more of a auto immune disease that is very debilitating. I didn't know what was wrong with me all that time but now I do know it is CFS.

  • @ohpleasereally Absurd. Why is it that Olympic level athletes get sick, even though they still try to exercise? (albeit at an incredibly lower intensity and duration.) Could it be because most people with this illness have infectious diastolic cardiomyopathy? So it's just a coincidence that most of the viruses assoc. are cardiotrophic. It's coincidence that Serial exercise testing shows measurable deficiency in recovery (much worse than congestive heart failure?)

  • Lol! I can safely say i wont develop this psychological 'condition' but then I don't have self esteem issues nor a subconscious desire to blame my deeply entrenched fears of normal social interaction on something tangible like a so called medical illness. Seriously - go to counselling, try some exercise. You'll be amazed at how your 'illness' starts to fade... Stop wasting your money on books, drugs or otherwise, it's a con. Most psychologists, psychiatrists and physicists will tell you the sam

  • Vicmitch, if you bothered to read the rest of my comment (u probably didn't want to waste the precious little energy the 'ME' leaves u with) you would see that both my parents are doctors who also see this 'disorder' for the horseshit it is - I am very well informed thank you. You people infuriate me. Get some dignity and start living instead of sitting on your backside having others feed you the attention you so desperately crave.

  • @ohpleasereally after my degree which took a lot of motivation as a single parent running a household & working hard at many things, including raising £5,000 for my local hospital in a charity event that caused an allergic reaction that nearly killed me, reaction to steroids. I persevered determined to recover, tried to keep my self employment going, pushed myself. Slowly losing the ability to express at will, self care the basics etc was devastating, people walked away. It could happen to you.

  • @ohpleasereally Psychology, that explains a lot. Overcompensating because you got a degree in a pseudo science. Why didn't you at least try for something useful like medieval literature? Instead of wasting everyone's time why don't you try reading the latest research on ME/CFS in Science or JAMA? If you know how...

  • @ohpleasereally Be careful - pride comes before a fall - you still have a lifetime left to develop this illness, then perhaps you won't be so bigoted. Obviously your educational training didn't teach you how to look at all the facts, first. Go back to your books and look up 'bigotry', 'media stereotype' and 'prejudice', then walk away feeling good about yourself. You are an obnoxious, conceited idiotl.

  • @ohpleasereally "I myself WORK for a living after I received a top degree from a top university in psychology. Uneducated I certainly am not! I will never have ME because I have motivation and self-pride."

    Yeah, you also have sound physical health, you fucking retard

  • @TheJoyLoveMoney Hope your one of your family members doesn't ever get this, or your old child.

  • @ohpleasereally you are an ass! you have no idea what this disease is like. Since you dont know what is, you think it can only be be some form of hypochondria. I HATE how self-righteous people like you are - you really think you know everything, don't you?

  • @ohpleasereally wow, you're an ignorant fool. you don't know the pain and suffering that a person with ME is facing, how painful it is to see people you know moving forward while you're stuck in the same place everyday and feeling like there's no where to go. Alone and very misunderstood is what they are feeling. They didn't want to have that illness. You're the uneducated one who keep posting moronic comments. I hope you get ME so you'll know how it feels, you effin retard.

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  • ohpleasereally - you are talking out of bilssfull ignorance who are u to judge ? u it is veiws like yours that make living with ME harder and its already impossible. i would like to point out  sleep deprevation is used as tortuer. you cannot understand what it is like (luckly for you) to be that tired and in so much pain . you talk about trusting the proffesionals ? NICE guidelines state that it is a neurological disease .dont talk about what you dont know you only embarrse yourself.

  • Yes because medical psychiatrists with all their years of specialist training and study are no match for your expert knowledge. And by expert knowledge I mean the ranting of someone who clearly has too much time on their hands. I cant believe I'm even replying to your uneducated moronic comment.

  • @ohpleasereally - So you've replied to my post but deleted my post. I have looked into this issue and came across this information about the files being witheld. I then went to archives and found this to be the case. Anyone with any brain cells can do that. You don't even have to leave your own house to do it. That IS an issue. My own policy (proven over the years) is believe the OPPOSITE of anything any psychiatrist says.

  • Now now nitrochic... Uve got access to secret government archives? Oh god then I'm really sorry! I didn't know u worked for MI5!

    Put ur tinfoil hat back on u loon. ME is a noted somatatization disorder - why else do u think u've had to argue ur case that it is a 'disease?' u don't see MS succeeded having to do that because MS IS REAL!!!!

  • @ohpleasereally  I do not understand why you are so interested and so outspoken in a disease that you do not understand. This is NOT a psychiatric disease, it is an immune system dysfunction. If you are familiar with medical journals, you would have read recently about the XMRV / MLV virus relationship to ME / CFS and the immune system . As you are interested in the condition you may find the YOUTUBE DENLANDER794 video that I made for my patients helpful in your understanding.

    DR Derek Enlander

  • Oh my god.

    Of course she has no energy. All she does is eat and sleep causing her to pile on weight. Shes pale because she doesn't get any sunlight. I see a spoilt little girl who's parents are indulging her to a dangerous degree. They indulge her because they want her to stay like a baby. Cutting off the crusts because chewing uses too much energy? Dear god!

    ME is a psychological condition suffered by those who are afraid of the real world and who subconsciously want to be pandered to and b

  • There is a known cure, some people just try real hard to make sure you don't find out. It's a miracle drug called Cannabis. Medical marijuana is prescribed by doctors in 14 states in America now for this and other chronic disorders Better show up a bonghit late then not at all. This plant saved my life.

  • @flyashx Exactly how did it save your life??

  • GOD! LOVE YA!  PRAYERS ARW WITH YOU!!

  • From my experience and from what I hear, being in the Caribbean area is the best

    chance for ME/CFS people to be well. I don't know that the poor girl in this video

    could make the trip though. I certainly wish her well. I admire her family for caring and I admire her ability to enunciate her situation.

  • @PaulBeet This video was shot several years ago and I think she has improved somewhat since then. A trip to the Caribbean from England is out of the question for anyone with very severe ME - the journey alone would last a day or more, there would be the noise, the sensation of movement which some ME sufferers find very difficult, and then adjusting to the climate and whatever the healthcare situation there is like. It's just out of the question.

  • Thanks for sharing that vid. I have ME too but I'm lucky because mine is in remission. I wish you all the best.

  • Be strong.. your a good individual! my thoughts are with you!

  • I think this is Claire Wade; she has two websites. You can google "Surviving Severe ME" and "ME and my life" - I think the first is more recent. She did a book which AYME published, but AYME have just published one this year by Emily Collingridge, but you can download Claire's in PDF form from the SSME site.

  • This young lady has got a great mum. I hope that a cure is found for this horrendous illness soon. Too many lives have been wasted and too many people are still suffering and yet there are some ignoramuses who still call this "yuppie flu".

  • I am bedritten for 3 years now with cfs so know what you going trew googel dr clark

  • We've just started a project trying to raise some awareness for M.E as so few people understand what it is.

    It's up on our channel - it'd be great if you could all go and have a watch and subscribe and spread the word.

    x

  • We have many specialised ME/ CFS videos on our channel - please do feel free to take a look and thanks for this great video

  • i have a friend with CFS. she says its like being able to sleep for a week but your still tired

  • I think that the cause of CFS/ME has many faces.

    I don't think it is a virus ... it is probably a contaminant that exists in many organisms that spreads without any symptoms (especially when it reacts with lactose / fructose) but causes effects when it reacts with other things like cells, viruses bakteria and fungi. It causes inflammation (and it is the ONLY cause). Hormone stimulation is fuel for the contaminant.

    The higher its concentration in the blood the worse the effect in hot spots is.

  • i was like this for 3 months but gradually got better but it took some work. i had to do yoga, meditation, and experiment with exercise. changing your diet can really help you, i noticed that she was eating toast wheat can make this condition worse.

  • neil - three months either means you have CFS/ME and are in remission (good), or that you had something else. You should do some research into this and find out what it really is. Posts like yours only feed the ignorance of others, who tell us that we can just 'snap out of it.' We can't, any more than someone with MS or MD or polio can. Please don't make comments about freaking wheat toast.

  • the point i was trying to make is that you really have to put the effort in if you want to get better, making drastic changes to your diet this girl did'nt seem to want to change and just accepted the fact she was stuck in bed, trust me i feel absolutley awful when i walk but i still fight and do it, the major difference with MS is that there is evidence of something pyhsical going wrong, chronic fatigue is an illness which varies a lot but what u need to know is people do recover after years.

  • if i could say something to her, i'd say it does get easier - ive had m.e for the past 8 years and am now at a point were i am looking for part time work, although i still have to rest in between, - i'll be thinking of you hun - i was trapped in my own home for years xxxxx

  • I don't have cps. I don't have a normal teenage life too. I am victim of a bully lol

  • I have been trying to load dirty dishes into the dishwasher for 2 days now. I can put a few in and then have to stop. This can go on for quite some time.

    If I drop something on the floor I have to muster up enough energy just to pick it up.

    I wish people would just understand how devastating this is. I visited my relatives yesterday and will pay for it for the rest of the week. My whole day has to be fit into 2-3 hours.

    The worst is that people think we look OK. We're not OK.

  • Cissy2cute I will be praying you,I go through the same thing so I know.

  • Cissy, this describes it very well. I lie in bed and wish I had the energy to make it to my desk a few feet away and go online. Some days I don't make it. Making plans went out years ago. I am lucky to make it to the dentist and necessary things like that. I am not old but I think seriously about going into a nursing home. How can I though when most people don't believe this exists. Which is the cruelest part of all. I am not stupid and I am not crazy. I am ill. It's Kafka-esque.

  • @Ruby--Another quote from a sufferer. Sometimes I ask myself this: (sorry, don't know who wrote it)

    "Is this Real? Have I been Poisoned?"

    Makes me wonder sometimes just what has gone wrong :(

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  • I feel so sorry for her

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  • People like this arent ding a proper rehabilitation approach

  • notthelastword aka internet troll - exercise makes this WORSE, fat lot you know. Get your facts right before making ignorant posts.

  • @RubyMiami

    Exercise has been shown to give therapeutic benefit, and it was critical to my recovery. Often people who have never recovered claim to know the most about what works and what doesn't.

  • Oh boy. I know what it is like for a fork to be too heavy. I use lightweight unbreakable plates. Once I could not tear open a paper packet of sugar. The fatigue, the muscle pains, not being able to walk. If I stay in bed then I can't walk up the stairs so I have to keep moving. I do some small specific exercises with therabands.

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  • if I eat too much sugar like I did today, I am quite worried about how bad this will get.

    The range of other problems I have is enough to keep me from having a normal life - my tinnitus is extremely depressing, I am sensitive to noises, I never seem to enjoy anything. Seeing psychiatrists is BULLSHIT, you just don't know what sort of trouble peole with this DIABLOLICAL condition go through.

    This is a SERIOUS condition, not merely one of feeling alittle tired and shit,

    SO SUCK IT UP AND LEARN

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  • Who the "F" is this ezadda guy?!!

    Hoho...

    :<P

    I have had CFS/ME since 13, I am 29 now. I do NOT have FM (fibromyalgia) but my legs do ache constantly, it's just my brain shuts it out.

    I assume people with FM have a much more severe thing going on with it.

    Re. my life, I have tried but failed, I am having too many palpitations and digestive issues leading to palpitations etc.. these days and have had to go on Propranolol (Inderal) but at 80 mg / day it is not enough to stop them

  • I have cfs plus many other conditions, and as so, mylife is very different now to what it would have been.

    I have it since i was 12 after a operation, now at 28 yes my life is very different to what i would have liked, but i still do have a life.

    Even though most days i can not make it out of the house, I still have good friends and am very much a part of my familys life.

    I have been lucky with my doctors and family and this i will always be greatfull for.

  • Just asking were you reply to me, because i think it's quite clear that i keep a very up side to my life and not

    "taking it seriously".

    didn't know if yo ment this to me or a comment about the video in geneal so thought i'd ask??

  • I wouldn't bother commenting on this love untill you have any idea of what the hell you are talking about :)

  • Jesus Christ get this girl some thyroid some T4/T3, she is clearly low on it. Her face is puffy, loss of eyebrows, hair is thin.

    Wow I am not a doctor and can see this.

    By the way I have CFS and am being treated and am getting better. There is hope people.

    She needs to read the Book From Fatigued to Fantastic.

  • i have undiagnosed cfs. It feels like schizophrenia but i have no previous health problems. People think i act lazy on purpose and when i say im tired they say the doctor said u have no brain tumor or mental problem just depression. But its complete bullshit and i can never say things without studerinng its annoying and it affects my mood extremely, ppl think im mean but im really not. Please if you have any TESTIMONIES OR CURES PLEASE TELL ME. THANK YOU!

  • how are you now? has your condition changed?

  • I've had CFS for over 18 years so I do feel your pain.. . . . .Its so hard to move around and have a normal life. I spend most of my days inside and when I go to the mall I only go to Border's Bookstore. I can no longer go to cultural and art festivals because it can be overwhelming on my body and then I have to spend the next 3 days resting, usually sleeping non-stop and that's without muscle relaxants or sleeping pills. Long trips to the country are also a burden. Research "gut leak"

  • Only people with CNS' disorders such as MS, ALS, Guillén-Barre can understand what the child is trying to say. Compassion and understanding are the best support she can be given.

    Sefardisafran

    Hoboken NJ

    USA

  • im 14 and i have m.e. and fibro too. it really sucks, i feel so down all the time and people saying im lazy and a lier just makes me feel even worse. some people are so ignorant lol. im at 30% now ( basicly means im just outside the severe category of m.e.) but i was at 15% 2 years ago. i couldnt get up, talk, or eat. it was the worst time of my life. i didnt speak to my family for about 7 months. :(

  • Just like to say that I don't think she should be criticized for showing signs of wellness, ie talking.She said she was better than she had been.Frankly I'm really glad for her.I can chew and talk like that.Other days I can't get out of bed for pain.I am thankful I am not in the worst catagory,and recognise the awful trial those with very bad ME have, but it doesn't diminish my difficulties.I still can't care for my family properly,work, have a normal social life or have day without pain.

  • ME or CFS?

  • tomme1981, has anyone ever done a demographic study on internet trolls? Is it mostly bored little kiddies in their parents' basement?

  • Thankyou for sharing this with. I am a Mum of 3 with CFS. There are days when , if I push myself, I can be as animated as you and seem apparently absolutely normal. Then spend the next week just recovering from it! Also I know that after a while you get through a kind of pain barrier to get things done.If you know you've got to do something you can try and gather the energy over a week or so and then afterwards allow time to recoperate.This is not laziness or any where near the normal life.

  • I don't understand how she can talk so much, but eating crust is hard. Also, why would a real fork be so heavy when she can use her arms while she talks? I never even wave my arms around that much while talking.

  • yea I am wondering the same thing, most of the time I can't keep my eyes open, it takes effort to open them, and I sound drunk and half asleep when I talk

  • the wieght, do you know how many muscle involed in chewing?

  • owt, it can be hard to understand until you have lived through it. But short bouts of adrenaline due to excitement can give a bout of false energy. Imagine being shut in a room for years; would you be excited if there was someone to talk to? That might give a bout of false energy. But people with CFS/ME pay for it with days sleeping after. Holding a fork is fine muscle control, different than 'arm waving' though I noticed no 'arm waving.' She's stuck in bed and is 18. Do you call that normal?

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  • what about talking -crusts! i am sorry i had ME really bad ad you dont worry and obsess like that you are wiped out with a constant flu like illness!

  • Mold and CFS symptoms are directly related to each other. You can prove this to yourself by going to walmart buying a $37 dome shaped 9x7 tent,(no stakes needed, nylon very low on VOC'S) setting it up in your bedroom and putting a medium to large size hepa filter in it. Don't come out without a respirator designed for asbestos and mold abatement EVER,For about a week anyways. I know I am not the only one with this condition. PLEASE TRY IT AND CONFIRM IT FOR YOURSELF WHAT YOU ARE UP AGAINST!

  • She is severly hypothyroid. Migranes, thin hair, puffy face. Get her some T3 for Gods sake

  • May I ask if you are a nurse or Dr? I also have CFS and they have tested my thyroid and everything else. My tests are all normal. But I have these awful symptoms. How do you know she is "severly hypothyroid"? The puffy face is just her wieght. She doesn't move or exercise because of CFS so ofcoarse her face is puffy. She's a little heavy. If you have some helpful medical advice to offer, please do. I and other people with this are suffering. But it's not thyroid.

  • Beachbayu, are you a Neurologist? are you a "visionaire"? or are just some scumbag that hates people because of your lousy life.

    Youn Anarch

  • i think youre right about thats actually.she has alot of energy for a ME person. when i was bedridden with the illness i wasnt talking like her -she could run a talk show.

  • i agree with you!

    i havn't ever got as bad with my m.e to be bed ridden but on a bad day sometime i don't have the energy to talk for that long and when i do i sound drunk cause of brain fog!! haha

  • Mold and CFS symptoms are directly related to each other. You can prove this to yourself by going to walmart buying a $37 dome shaped 9x7 tent, (no stakes needed, nylon very low on VOC'S) setting it up in your bedroom and putting a medium to large size hepa filter in it. Don't come out without a respirator designed for asbestos and mold abatement EVER, For about a week anyways. I know I am not the only one with this condition. PLEASE TRY IT AND CONFIRM IT FOR YOURSELF WHAT YOU ARE UP AGAINST!

  • I have been back and fore hospitals trying new treatments ever since it first started, altered everything in my life right down to what i have my clothes washed in, upto now nothing has worked, but that won't stop me being first in the que next time they find something worth trying.

    I really hope it works for your girlfriend but i have heard and tryed many if these "cures" over the years,But if it don't work you just have to keep going. If it do work please post more about the treatment.thanks

  • I am 27 and since i have been 11 years old i have had cfs.

    I was enable to attened secondry school, and was home schooled but the illness became quite bad, quite quick.

    Now at 27, the illness has stoped me doing thing i would have liked to do, because i know have CFS, fibromyalgia, PCOS, IBS, GERD, meiners disease and neuralgia.

    So my life is very different to what it could have been, but i still do have a good life, I have a wounderfull family, good doctor and most of the time good outlook.

  • I just want to say something to the people who've said ME/CFS can be cured:

    1) There is no definite cure for ME/CFS (the comment about functional gut disease, & being cured once you heal your guts, that might work for you, don't assume about other people though)

    2) Everybody's experience with ME/CFS is different, including what things do & don't work for each person, & how long they are sick with it.

    There are some treatments, but there's no guarantee that they work for everyone with ME/CFS.

  • i totaly agree with you,

    cfs/me has different causes.

    but why is everybody thinking there is no cure?

    even when there is one guy out there who got cured somehow, it profs that there is a cure for cfs/me.

    and i dont think you have ever met a doctor who said you cant be cured...

    there are no longtime studies about cfs/me. the longest studie ive heard from was about 5 jears.

    doctors and sientists started searching just about few jears ago.

    no one can say what cfs/me 100% is.

  • all i want to say to you is that there is hope though...

  • there is a cure for cfs anyway...

    i served cfs for 5 jears and im "cured" now

    its just ignorant to say that there is no cure. but its no surprise that everybody says so, doctors dont say that there is no cure. only people like that girl are the reason why everybody thinks so...

    many people with cfs/me have a funcional gut diseas, what means all the toxins and bacteria can leave the guts and make truble all around the body. when you heal your guts you can be cured.

  • Hi,

    I recovered from CFS and am now writing a book about my experience. The book also includes the know-how of how to heal yourself. E-mail me to receive a copy.

    The process took me 3 years, but could have been much faster.

  • My friend had servere M.E and recovered within 3 years. It was amazing, inspiration to me

  • Any information that she can give us..?

  • She doesn't talk about it much as it was a bad time for her but she has said that you should have faith in your docotor, go to a spiecalist. She said the rest, activity thing really worked for her. Don't push yourslef furthur than you can do.

  • Does anyone know how this girl is? Let us know!

  • I've had ME/CFS for around 7years, undiagnosed and unrecognised as a problem for 5 of those years. After being diagnosed I was encouraged do to a Graded Excercise Program. By 'pushing' and trying to maximise what I could do my health continued to deteriorate to the point where I was so sick the 'severe' glandular fever I'd suffered from the year before seemed like a piece of cake. I still push occassionally, I end up struggling to digest food and able to do even less. Be cautious of GET!!

  • 4 yrs ago anyone claiming cfs i would call nuts,having severe cfs now i know better....IM NOW TREATED LIKE IM NUTS,i will no longer defend myself,its not in the head

  • I hope you understand I'm not trying to criticise, just to make more people understand that doctors who prescribe CBT/GET are NOT saying that the ME isn't real, as they are prescribing something that they use on obviously "real" illnesses.

  • *cont.*

    I think what many people who have CFS/ME don't realise is that CBT is used on so many other people such as cancer patients. The fact that our community seems to have such a paranoia that everyone thinks it's in the mind just means people become ignorant about treatments that could, potentially, help them. I have M.E. so it isn't as if I don't understand what it's like, but spreading this anti-CBT view doesn't help anyone.

  • Unfortunately CBT is usually used incorrectly in people with CFS/ME. The only common "illness perpetruating behavior" in people with CFS/ME is doing too much, while the whole point of CBT as a treatment for CFS/ME (instead of just a coping tool) is usually to get people to do _more_, because it is erroneously thought that CFS/ME stems from deconditioning.

    I don't think there are many CFS/ME people who are "anti CBT". We're just against doctors pushing CBT as an effective treatment for CFS/ME.

  • What knowledge have you got of this? Doing too little also makes us worse, as when the underlying cause goes, it hurts to do "normal" things again. CBT isn't about "making you do more", it's about using your energy effectively and making yourself better. I doubt you've ever done it, then? There are a huge amount of people on forums etc. who, without too much knowledge about it, push a view which is not necessarily the same for everyone. It helps some people with CFS/ME so don't put everyone off.

  • Please read my message as I wrote it and do not try to intepret it in other ways. Like I said, CBT is _usually_ used _incorrectly_ in CFS/ME. _Most_ of us do _too much_ instead of _too little_ and if CBT assumes we do too little (as it often does), it is at best ineffective, at worst dangerous.

    No, I have not done CBT, as I have no psychiatric problems and can manage my illness fine. I am, however, a medical writer, specializing in CFS/ME and I have read a lot about this specific subject.

  • I can't quite see how I've interpreted it in any other way than how you wrote it. CBT is actually about balancing the amount you do-if you do too little then your muscles weaken and it hurts more when there is no underlying cause.I am doing CBT and it is not about having psychiatric problems,in fact nothing psychiatric has been mentioned.If you can manage your illness then that's great, but don't put other people off doing it when it can really help some people, although others may not agree.

  • Kinetophobia is a psychiatric problem. I have never heard of a single patient with CFS/ME who actually has this condition. So called "deconditioning" has never been shown to be a factor in CFS/ME, which explains why in a large survey 93% of CFS/ME patients found CBT unhelpful. In another survey 22% even found CBT harmful.

    The most helpful treatment for CFS/ME is rest. Pharmaceuticals can also be extremely helpful, like in my case they stopped illness progression, which CBT is not able to do.

  • I disagree. having first hand experience of CBT. i know that every time physical symptoms and ways of managing them were brought up when i was there, they would divert it to trying to sort out alleged social problems i was having. they wouldnt even mention it, and implied i was a hypochondriac, rather than giving and tools to manage my life around my symptoms.

  • @damnshesbionic I agree 100% If you do things slowly, rest in between it should help you from getting too tired. I always have to take breaks in between work. I still sleep a lot and get constant headaches and pains but thank God I am not bed ridden. I hate being tired all the time but i'm so determined to lead a normal life I don't let CFS get me down. I am always in pain, when I'm not its great. I guess we hide it well.

  • @DiamonDie I have to completely agree with you on CBT. The reason it's pushed so much is because it's the only idea mainstream medicine has, along with 'graded excercise therapy', which is completely useless in severe CFS/ME. CBT *can* help some to 'cope' - but I think it's those that are down or negative thinkers along with the CFS that would benefit most from it. Myself I have it in a severe way, but by nature i'm a very positive & patient person, & rarely think negatively.

  • I don't agree that this video should be used as a medium in which to complain about the lack of research, or argue about the causes.

    However, luminescent, it is crazy to say CBT/GET should go, especially in such a harsh way as it is found to have helped many people.

  • No, it has been shown to HARM so many people with ME.

    There is no medical research to show that CBT helps people, other than people with mental illness (Oxford Criteria CFS).

    If you study ME research you would know that ME patients have increased oxidative stress - AT REST.

    Exercise only INCREASES this oxidative damage in ME patients blood vessels, risking heart attack and stroke.

    So, you are claiming that harming people, 'helps many'!!

    Watch my videos for the truth.

  • very interesting. i love working out and was in tip-top shape for the last 20 years. after being diagnosed with CFS 8months ago, i cannot workout at all even a 10 min walk "crashes" me.

  • I've had M.E. since 96. Yes, it's mainly immune system related. But regular relaxation slots, exercise (sensible:do what u can, no more) emotional support, getting out (if and when u can) and a mainly raw vegan diet does help a lot

  • Try my theory on yourself and let me know if it helps before you knock it. Theory being our immune systems are trashed and cannot handle normal expousure to pathogins were exposed to everyday be it weather were ingesting them via our food or inhaling them via the mold in our homes.

  • Hi there,

    I didn't knock your way. I only suggested another 2 u. M.E. is so difficult to treat. It varies from one to another in many ways. Yes, pathogens r killed when u cook. But so r nutrients. So, A balance between the 2 is probably right.

  • I believe based on 10 years of experience Cfs/mcs is an immune disorder that manifest's it's self by reactivity to pathogins. Mold is simply a pathogin of opportunity. Another instance of this is the food you eat. If you cook EVERYTHING you eat you won't have reactivity anymore which lends credance to my theory.

    STAY AWAY FROM THE QUACKS! They are vultures.

  • I've moved many times trying to escape mold it's no easy task! Out of desparation I went to craigs list and am renting a room in a brand new house for $600 a month. I am doing much better. Still have issues but the difference between some of the places I have been in the last ten years are stark and unmistakable.

  • CHECK MY VIDEOS HENRY IT WILL HELP YOU

  • Anyone who says they are 'cured' of ME is a laughing stock of themselves. ME is a chronic illness - hence the word Chronic fatigue Syndrome. These graded exercise/CBT loons need to be rounded up and deported to the north pole. Then people with real ME can finally get some treatment.

  • I have had cfs for ten years and have found one common denominater. The connection of my up and down swings are always related to mold expousure. It's a travesty that this isn't recognized by science becuase it's reproducible and thus verifyable. That and this illness IS very treatable.

  • Mold exposure can indeed cause CFS or CFS like illness in some cases. The weird thing is that some of these cases of illness (even very severe ones) resolve completely or almost completely after the mold exposure is removed, but others remain very ill (such as a friend of mine). It would be great to find out what makes the difference.

  • check out my vi on cfs

  • I've had CFS for 5 years & although the messaged feeling is to stay in bed u REALLY have to fight it. Even when am v. ill I make it a rule not to stay within covers during day but get dressed eventually just as symbolic act & lie only under day blanket. You also have GOT to get out of wheelchair. Use sticks just for bit even if shaking & just for 1 short attempt everyday. Your circulation will respond and aid self-healing. And that's because you're young, your body will respond.

  • Unfortunately, that doesn't work for people who really have CFS/ME and can be extremely dangerous, even life-threatening. For many people this illness is progressive. They cannot increase their activity levels. They cannot even maintain their activity levels, because the amount of what they can do gets smaller all the time. Fighting back only accelerates the progression. I've been there myself, only proper medication (LDN) stopped that deteroriation. And I still can't gain more stamina.

  • I really do have CFS and which was catagorised as severe. I was also shocked I could at all get better or increase my activity levels. However, from what you say it was obviously not as severe as that, and I think the term of fighting back only applies to when you get a bit better. But I meant in a spiritual sense too, and I am extremely sorry to cause offence.

  • To anyone out there who believes they were cured from M.E. through physical exertion - I say good for you...but you probably weren't suffering from M.E. in the first place. The scientific literature simply does not support this.

  • I agree 100 percent, David. Dancerguy9999 never had this disease. I'm not saying he wasn't sick, but he didn't have CFS. People who have sudden-onset CFS often get better after a certain period of time. Then they credit voodoo or tantric sex or whatever they were doing at that moment with their cure. It's just coincidental. He's one of those people who looks down on medicines. I am not fortunate enough to be able to do that.

  • I believe it might be true that there is an optimal amount of physical activity that can benefit someone with mild to moderate M.E., like myself for instance. However, this will not cure M.E., it may just lead to better overall health. But for a girl like Claire physical activity simply is not an option. She is too sick with this physical illness.

  • Wow this is very moving. Does anyone by any chance know how I can get a hold of Claire? Perhaps a myspace page, email address or anything like that? I'd like to contact her. I also have M.E.

  • It would be interesting to know whether the very POOR get this disease. I doubt it. No. I do not understand this illness: I am not cold hearted. But man, I have NEVER seen anyone in the GRIM ghetto's with this.

  • Of course they do. Sadly, they don't usually have access to medical care (or answer phone surveys). They don't make it to the statistics, but that doesn't mean they don't exist.

    I don't live in a ghetto, but I am on minimum welfare due to CFS. I've faced the risk of homelessness several times since I was 16 (both because of this illness and and other reasons). And the risk is still there, as my only source of income could be withdrawn at any time, and then I would end up on the streets.

  • Yes, the poor get CFS. In fact, many with CFS live in poverty.

    Thank you, Claire, for sharig yoru story. I, too, am bedbound and am now unable to speak. But my spirit remains strong, as does yours. Someday soon we will get our lives back!

  • Laying in bed all day will never help you. Cutting crust off of bread because you are too tired to chew just makes me sick.

  • Sometimes there isnt a choice to make. You have to be in bed because if your in enough pain you wont get up, regardless of how strong your willpower is. Willpower wont help you

  • And - Cold - You might want to watch Greg Crowhursts channel to see how bad it can be - I am luckier than his wife - I only spent a few years that bad - I am still largely house-bound though after 11 years - I have lost everything I ever cared about to this illness. 80% of people do not recover - that means until they find a treatment we have it for LIFE!

  • ME/CFS is defined as a neurological disorder by the World Health rganisation - it is a serious illness. It was recorded as cause of death on Sophia Mirza's death certificate. It has occurredas epidemics recorded since 1934 - anyone who thinks it is just 'feeling tired' is seriously misguided - for more info on why things have become muddled around it go to hummingbirdsguide website - read it and weap!

  • holy shit, she has CFS so much worse than.

  • Wonderful video.

    I have empathy for everyone suffering with this dehabilitating illness.

    This girl is so blessed that she has family that helps her and believes her.

    I got CFS 28 years ago and it gradually got worse.

    Now the symptoms vary everyday.

    Last week it was all I could do to feed myself and go to the bathroom.

    This week,so far,I am able to do the basics.

    Don't ever give up.

  • Thank you for posting this. I have M.E and although I'm not quite as disabled as the Claire I could really relate to this. I would love to write to Claire. The depressing thing here is thinking of all the s##ts who are probably watching that and thinking it's all psycological. There is nothing more physical than this. Thanks to Claire and fmily and for posting this.

    Thanks