Transitions; What Would YOU Do. TonyaTko Asks

[glitzdealer1]

Dear Tonya, I am a month behind on your videos so I am having a catch up day. I thought this was a marvellous message and the bit that struck me was when you said about talking things into reality. I have often seen that process of "think it-speak it-act on it" to create my path. I am amazed when people haven't realised the power of thought. Thank-you for spreading positivity in such a wonderful way. I know you will be truly blessed.

[KhaeyLove]

I just want to say that: You are a beautiful woman with the most beautiful smile!!.....Una mujer muy intressante!.

[jody808]

looking good Tonya

[GerlaineTalk]

Love you girl. This was very motivating. Congrats on the Successful Skin Line. I will be investing in a few products soon. I want my skin to be beautiful like yours.

[jpphy23]

Great video and I agree you that our belief systems come the same root. Our religious beliefs should empower us to be the best we can be. That is the basis of any real religion-as you adhere to it, it makes you stronger and when you make a transition in life, you would have the strength, faith and wisdom in order do so.

[krenzzzo]

1. If I could not fail I'd sure buy a lottery ticket.

2. Do your "thang". I like that message.

3. Tell that young man that took your money..."It was worth more when I had it because of the falling dollar...so THERE!"

[woodie62]

. . . spirits with human experiences, rather than humans with spiritual experiences. . . . . very interesting!!

[woodie62]

Well, T. . .if I knew I couldn't fail, I'd more than likely be overloaded with things to do and would probably self-destruct. But I have a certain circumstance that has kept me from succeeding in most of the choices I've made so far. It's something most people swear they understand and in reality, they really don't cause it doesn't happen to them. The experts may have a better handle on the whats and whys but nobody truly understands except those who can truly empathize.

[o0Asami0o]

Tonya, I am facing so much so much difficulties in my life lately and I needed to hear this , it helped a lot.. Thank you.

[mealmaster]

That was your fling you were talking 2

[mealmaster]

Nice show were can i find good vitamen E

[MicroKitty]

Girl, you've lost weight!

[jthanz87]

you are amazing tonya... love the way you share your thoughts. makes it easier to understand mine.

[MsIreneRenee]

Wow Tonya, as always you put some deep stuff out there for us to really dig deep and think! Moreover, come OUT to ourselves with a HONEST answer, even if we choose not to share that answer with the rest of the world! What would you Do if you Knew you could not fail............ I answered it right away but I've been so hurt by it that I have althered my path to do somehting else......Thank you for posing that question and making me put it in my conscious awareness!

[mixedchik923]

skin looks beautiful. can u say wat product u put on it?

[TonyaTko]

Hey Mixed, now you know my skin regiment is a public secret ;-) hv you been to my skin site yet? TkoSkin. Im using the PUREST most potent form of Vitamin E. Naturessss Gold baybay!

Get on the mailing list. It'll be available in a little over a week.

-Tko

[mixedchik923]

ok. thanks so much!! luv ur videos:)

[abrenee]

Tonya is so "Special" she has something for everyone. I feel in this message she was clearly just saying something that was really meant for someone in particular but everyone can use. Transitions in life are scary and sometimes it does take faith and fear to step out and do something that we normally wouldn't do. My own transition right now is exciting for me but I have no idea how it's going to come together but I believe deep down inside that it will.

[Omelanin]

Catholicism is an exact blueprint of Zen Buddism...esp. in terms of ritual... how they carry out the service, the priest's dress, incense burnint and chanting etc

[SayuriLady]

I believe that praying is talking to God and meditating is listening to God.

Nice video!! I've been feeling really stressed out lately about college. I'm trying to transfer to a new college for my Japanese major next quarter and I'm worried I might not be accepted into that college. I'm worried about money to pay for college. I'm nervous about transitioning from a teenager to an adult and being able to pay for rent. Thank you!

[Sougen02]

Thank you.

*speechless*

[imsuckingwind]

This might not be the best place to preach but , we have rules God gave us to follow the spiritual blue print.If we dont follow His rules we will fall.When you come to that fork in the road, look to the Word of God for Wisdom.

[LydiaKelso123]

and jesus provided us with grace so that when we do fall we can get right back up again :)

[imsuckingwind]

It was Abba father that provided the grace through his son Jesus the anointed one.

[Crystal110987]

You are a mind reader! Today I needed this pep talk..I get so down and unsure about my decisions. . what to do, what not to do and making sure Im doing what I should for my son. If we could not fail, I really dont think we would be the people we are, mistakes make us stronger people! I always find that if i trust my instict then things workout well.

[northofgeomom]

wow Tonya. Your ripple effects coming all the way to Norway, where i am and hit heart and mind. Great video. you look super cute. True motivation for a single mom of 2. thank you. God bless your life and work

[WomanInTransition]

FAVORITED!! I'm transitioning to a better woman, the woman I want to be. My outlook on life has evolved & so has the way I express myself (among other things).

I printed out a document entitled "The Woman I Want To Be Is...." where I bullet characteristics & goals of the woman I strive to be. I put it where it's the 1st thing I see in the morning & it's been great motivation.

I'm so excited & optimistic about these next few months. I expect challenges, but I'm ready.

[rdloco]

youtube's must beautiful lips!!

[guilers]

miss tko you got way to much time on your hands

you need to be wed and inpregnated ASAP lol

[sabrina1luv2000]

I'm going through major transition...I ended a relationship with a man a thought one day would be my husband, I'm moving to a new place, and starting school in the winter to pursue a career that I was too afraid to fail in when I got my first degree, and I'm honing my skills as a make-up artist!! This a very exciting but also a but scary time in my life.

[SpecialDewi]

I have been doing a lot of getting into the quiet place to create my future. I'd love to meditate as it sounds affirming! I'm at a transition period, had a lot of pain to go through (lost my Dad). I changed my thoughts and actions too create better and be better. I attracted you as I was looking to remove stretchmarks and you literally do all the things I've been doing! I wish I lived in NY as I'd love to meet you. Also what is the 40 *something* I'd like to read that!. Love You Tonya.

[ReviveUK]

Great vid...I always say wait and suss out a situation with your heart and common sense/risk assess...if still unsure dip your toes and if poss have a backup/get out plan! afterall we're here to live life to the full and so can't close the door on new opportunities without having a good look or ponder about it! :0) comin from someone who used to leap before she looked and hit a few brick walls!!!! :0)

[KnickerYankee]

Great video, Tonya and you're mad cute too!

[Unidentified43]

so needed to hear this right now..im torn inbetween transfering schools, what to do about friends, relationships...I just dont know. Im taking a hard look at myself and what I want out of life right now. I also loved what u said about religions and how they are all the same in some way...I feel the exact same way. That is why I belong to no religion. Buddha has a quote that says

[Unidentified43]

"Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense."

I think that quote had something to do with what u said in the video

[Elking55]

wow your wonderful first time watcher

[sns1618]

Love the vid!! You look like you have lost weight! Cant wait till the vitamin e comes out!

[zbasarab]

this vid really helped me, thanks >)

[peaceamorlife]

Thank you sooo much for this! I seriously have barely anyone to talk to and this really helped me in making a really serious tough decison!! Thanks soo much tonya!!! much love! Keep the videos coming!!!!!

[BSLJ111]

thank you I really needed that

[yosoyb1]

How ironic you are talking about this topic when earlier this morning I was talking about this with a co-worker. I really needed this you just don't know. Thank You so very much. This video was right on time for me had to listen to it a second time. Failure makes us grow, strong but often times more than not our fear holds us back from accomplishing our goals.

I had to watch this video a second time and again I needed this.

[tdiep]

Wow.. you know what, I'm in a place where I'm not able to control myself and what going on in my life. I feel lost and like a fish out of water. I guess your right I just to go through it.

[2damnfunny]

Loving the scarf.

[slugger408]

i'm in the transition of making it to my workouts and enduring more and working harder. i'm working hard to move past doubt and past pain. my goal is to be as tough and as hard as possible from head to toe. it's geting brutal but i fuel my fighting spirit with thoughts of others pain and i endure since they do. i'm also working on not judging people...even my enemies. i want to be fair and open to people. i'm also also in the transition of developing my math skills. 2 + 2 = threeve

[MC0090]

stay up sista another great video..............i told several folks (women in particular) about the universal truths in the Bible/Koran/Tora/I Ching and Shintu/Yoruba etc ....one told me i was crazy to read all that stuff ...she couldnt understand its not about the ritual/ceremony it's about seeking/finding the wonder of God

[hvyweight20]

Tonya TKO strikes again...

You always know exactly what to say at just the right time...

Great Video...

[290aua]

Excellent Video Tonya..Kuddos!

[TshaFromTWest]

The headwrap does look cute on you, Tonya!

[Member2287]

luv the headwrap style. really suits you

[layougirl]

you should act in movies you look good on camra

[kdeazzy]

I Would Like To Thank You So Much For This Message It Really helped me and open my eyes cause I've been down and out for several months now cause i could not find a job or be happy with my self i felt like everything was going wrong with my life. but now I see the truth and am joy i heard this message. Thank So Much!!!

[QuanSai]

0:57 to 1:21 : Narcissism at it's finest. lol At least the one displaying a bit of it is fly.

Excuse my butt-kissing, Ms. Thompson -- err... I meant "Ms. TKO." I slipped thinking about how we're going to get married and stuff like that. xD

By the way, I strongly confide in the ruling of physical laws in our universe to push us to do things. That's just a little about QuanSai for future reference! =]

[TonyaTko]

Quansai,... I cant understand the English you are speakin. Can you uncomplicate it? Lol

-Tko

[TonyaTko]

& NO Quansai, 20:07 is Narcissism at its FINEST! (and I DO mean FINEEESSTT!)

holla!

-Tko

[lexy004]

I am 19 yrsold and am thinking about dating a 27 yrold man. He has a daughter and is currently fighting in court for more time with her. He told me his age and his situation in the first 5 minutes we met; I had to give him credit for that. I could have walked away but I didnt. He made it clear he was interested but yet hasnt called me in 4 days (since the night we fooled around). I see that as a red flag.

[TonyaTko]

Have you meditated on the outcome of either endeavor Lexy?

-Tko

[lexy004]

I laid in my bed and tought about it for quite a while but, meditate... How long is too long? because at some point i feel like i'm going around in circles

[TonyaTko]

No, Lexy, Laying around in your bed fraught with thought is NOT meditating. Search for a video or two on How to meditate and you gotta get into a CLEAR zone...without the distractions of your conscious mind.

-Tko

[lexy004]

I'm searching right now. i'll get back to you, probably not in 10minutes from what I see, but I'm going to try it for real. And I'll tell you the outcome too.

[lexy004]

So I see two options: 1) forget him and never look back, I never planned on raising someone elses child in these conditions. Plus, Im a virgin, hes clearly not, and I dont know if hes serious. On the other hand 2) I did keep talking to him at the beginning because there was something. When I think about him, I smile. I see him as a good person, a good man, from what hes told me, and sometimes thinking about running away makes me feel like a coward. I dont know which way to go

[lexy004]

Hey Tonya, love the wrap and I must say your skin looks flawless. I do realize that there are a lot of similarities in a lot of religions but I say it comes down to the person. If you truly have a good heart, then in the end, you'll be in a good place. Personally, I think that good place is heaven. Now about transitions, ahh I'm torn, I'm standing in front of a fork. Both ways have their pros and cons and I still don't know what to do. It's really long, I'll explain in my next comment:

[mskalabama]

thanks Tonya, i really needed that! and I love you too!!!

[Derrica85]

I missed you tonya.....i broked my laptop in July and just now getting another one....every week i was wondering what is tonya talking about....too bad i'm too busy to play catch up

[zheahra]

Hi,Tonya,

I was talking with my coworker today about wanting to change my major to a totally dif field.I told her that the other one would be so demanding.She went on to say that whatever you decide to go into will be demanding.Also,your trials and tribulations will be there regardless of what you decide to do.Life doesn't allow us to dodge anything;we must face ourselves.

[brain96969]

"Be careful of your thoughts, for your thoughts become your words. Be careful of your words, for your words become your actions. Be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits. Be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character. Be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny." -- Author Unknown

[TonyaTko]

HEY! I posted that on twitter and facebook the other day Brain, are you stalkin me! LOL

-Tko

[Victorian9322]

I would finally ask that shy boy out in my class and be outspoken. Can you help me, Tonya? I want to kinda get to know him but another girl in my class laughs with him and he smiles at her and talks to her. please, help!

[TonyaTko]

What do you need help with Vic? You want me to beat her up? LOL

-Tko

[Victorian9322]

Sure! lol punch her in her throat! My mama is from Brooklyn, born and raised, so she likes to say "I'ma punch her in her throat!" lol. But, I would kinda like for you to maybe make a video for the teen girls who watch your videos like 'How to talk to a boy you like:for teen girls" and give relationship advice or something. if you've already done that, I'm sorry and I'll look for that video!

[itachitheultimate]

I love YOU TONYA.. KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DOIN GIRL.

[NationInvasion]

Very good video. .

btw you look beautiful in this video. . Does vitamin E oil make you break out??

[TonyaTko]

Umn.,,, no, can't you see vitamin E CLEARS me up :)

& thank you

-TKo

[NvrSettle]

And by large I know just me probably wants about 10. And the others...dangerous territory.

[brain96969]

Tonya, you look now 10 years younger now!

[TonyaTko]

10 years Brain? Ppl already told me I look 27, so now I look 17.. come on... youre taking a compliment TOO far LOL :-P

Seriously though... this is the MOST potent form of vitamin e on the market. Its supposed to be like a mini facelift in a bottle.

-Tko

[brain96969]

I have never seen such metamorphosis from any cosmetic product, not even from "Capture Totale"!

[Sallyakerti]

Thanks Dear sisTonya.

[NvrSettle]

Is the Vit E in? It still says coming soon. I need to place a rather large order.

[TonyaTko]

Hey Nvr, what do you consider a "Rather large Order" the supplies are limited. Are you opening an E-store? LOL.

Seriously I can't announce in public when its coming. Are you on my website already? TkoSkin

Holla Bk

-Tko

[NvrSettle]

I sure am on there already. I'm just woman with a product addiction who knows several other women with the same issue. Lol. We are all on the quest for nonsynthetic Vit E. When you reveal the goods, WE ARE THERE!! Lol.

[NativeCain]

20:59 - 21:10 = LOVE!

lolx..made me feel like I was in Church or something..haha

And It's hard to just think of how you want things to be in the future..cuz then bad thing happen and shot you down hard from that cloud you were floating on. I always found it easier to expect the worse and let the good be a pleasant surprise.

[bassgladys1]

You should make a poem called TRANSITIONS and read it to pass it around. You're the perfect person for that

[TonyaTko]

Glady's is that YOU hiding in plain sight? LOL

-Tko

[nikamiw]

Okay I watched it lol, you do look wonderful in this, and also I love your eyebrows! I've always been curious about meditation, and it sounds like something I really want to get into.. Thank you for inspiring me in all of your videos!

[ericsurf6]

Just stopping by to say hello.  You are looking fine today Tonya.

Transitions. I enjoyed this one.

[bassgladys1]

Yes, ur head wrap looks good girl! YOur skin looks smooth too, gotta try the Vitamin E. lol@answering the phone while u doing the video! laughing at the part between 7:52 and 8:09 when u tried to get serious after laughing about the guy who had no advice to offer. Send me the link about that Obama thing, About the transitions, I tried Acupuncture with my patients in the Detox unit. It relaxes you and helps u think clearer. Lol @ da hug at da end and u saying get into the Quiet Zone Funny Tonya !

[songbird4u]

I meant to say intelligent answer...

[songbird4u]

Tonya,

girl the look on your face when you hung up was like...( why the hell am I even talking to you) lmao... Hahahaha.. Girl Transitions.. hahahaha

I will come back with an intelligent

You are soooo intelligent and I just love it

[nikamiw]

First! I didn't watch the video yet but I just wanted to be first..