158 Your Esteeming Self — NLP EFT Robert Smith

[eunahaverstick]

you have an awesome video..thanks for sharing!

[greta1870]

I have a 7 year old son with autistic tendencies and barely talking, but highly aware of surroundings, others' moods, etc. He has anxiety, fears...could I somehow tap on him even though I'm not sure if he is understanding my words or what's going on? We're desperate for help, and this is REALLY helping me!

[thethirdq]

However you come up with these great videos keep them coming!

[angelbe88]

I've enjoyed your videos very much. Thank-you. Wondering what you think of psyche-K and doing muscle testing while the person head straight, moves their eyes down to access emotions?

[MirandaSerra]

Wonderful peek inside on's self.

Would like to know if you ever considered coming to Portugal for lectures?

Peace,

Miranda

[florianwink]

So between 1 and 10, how bad is it?

That's a mistery to me how to rate it. Equally is it a mystery to me to find memories.

I think we should all go fishing together :-)

[sofiamedia]

Thank you so much for this video series. I really enjoy watching your presentations. Do you have workshops in Europe?

[Mr11JS]

Congratulations Robert !!! I start to see effects of my taping.... so congrats to my as well !!! Thank you for oppening the door !!!

[nimueladyofthelake]

Robert

Thank you so much. I've spent almost the whole day listening/watching your videos. They are wonderful! Where do you sell your DVDs?

[HealingMagic]

@nimueladyofthelake

You'll find them at fastereft with a com.

[Annah1964]

My sister died recently and your videos have helped me enormously with my grief. Working through the grief brought up so many other issues, such as low self esteem, and using your videos on these issues has brought me peace like I've never experienced before. From my heart, I thank you Robert.

[SuperMoldavite]

Robert I just wanted to thank you for posting these wonderful videos. I have been trained in traditional EFT, but find myself using your system more, and more. I have recently set myself up in practice and your videos have been a wonderful help in assisting me to become a better healer. Big thanks from me and all the people who I have helped utilizing Faster EFT. You are a wonderful cog in the wheel that is driving towards a more loving, peaceful world. Love and Light. Duey

[HealingMagic]

@SuperMoldavite

Thank you, I needed this. Robert

[shakoyan]

Hi, Robert I love your videos

Is it normal to have emotion of anger at 10 after tapping about ten times ?

[HealingMagic]

@shakoyan

Normal? Is there such a thing? Addressing what creates the anger may take less but time. Robert

[Mr11JS]

@shakoyan check if you are tapping the right problem... What is REALLY bothering you?

[afrosolinc]

Thank you so much!!

[semehet]

i just love your explanation & i find your videos very empowering.

thx alot & god bless u Robert :)

[HealingMagic]

Thank you and always share with those you care for! Peace Robert

[hoho69]

This makes sense. Great information. My question though is would it be okay for a former convict to love himself and develope their self-esteem?

[HealingMagic]

WHY not?

[Tim983]

hoho69: of course!!!! A former convict is human too, right? We all deserve our place here and to be happy!

That's what I believe.

[smileyally20001]

Great video! What do we do when we didn*t remember all the memories that we have until the present, memories that made a negative impact on us and caused us low self esteem? Will the tapping be effective if we tap only on the "events" that we remember? Because something big like low self esttem must have a lot of negative memories attaced to it.

[HealingMagic]

You can do what you do know and how you know that YOU are producing your seemingly low self-esteem. Esteem is what you keep affirming about yourself. Your esteem comes from how you represent yourself inside yourself with memories and events. Change all bad ones and make them good. Peace Robert

[person81243]

wow wow wow that is just simply amazing i am stunned that i get it and now i can change the emotion of how where and when thanks love and light ellen

[arumseed]

Robert, does this mean that if someone treats us badly in words or deeds, we're not supposed to react? :) Arum

[HealingMagic]

You tap on yourself until you have peace with it and stand up for yourself. They have problems and let go of yours. Robert

[arumseed]

Robert, you said,"sometimes I don't clear it out" Why not?  :) Arum

[kakudmi]

When you burn your fingers you remember the pain to protect yourself from the same experience in the future. The same mechanism works between our conscious and unconscious mind.Negative experiences are "hidden" in our unconscious and are acting as our protection mechanism against our reality and all the stress that is coming from it. This protection that's coming from our unconscious is accepted as the "self".When we change that,we can clean out easily. Painful identification = painful life.

[holymomy8]

This is a great segment, "I GOT IT"! I especially liked your view on the "saboteur within" not existing, it's just the bad memories creating the reaction to situations. There's a Dr. John Mace doing stuff in Australia that's cool too. He calls it the Mace Method, you can Google him.

I just love your EFT method and how you view our "stuff", great going... keep it up!

[yonaetc]

Hi Robert, I have a question about FasterEFT certification that is flashed across the screen of this video. I checked on your site and did not find any information on certification. When will certification become available? thank you very much for your work. I look forward to learning more.

[Felix2007sk]

Robert,

did you have a client who couldnt get rid of some pain, panic attack ?

Because its my case. When I am in danger or only see nice girl or imagine , I feel strong stab in my chest...

I tried to tap on this feeling, to listen what it say and tap on that, to imagine what it is, to accept it and let it go so lots of ways, but it is still there...

What should I do ? thanks

[HealingMagic]

You must realize it is you who is producing the panic feeling by what you are looking at in your mind. It is based on what you feel about yourself and your experiences. You must change the what it is you are doing within you.

[Felix2007sk]

yes, but how to do it ? what to do ?

[Felix2007sk]

I tapped 3 times on negative situations more than 150  , cleared huge amount of aspects , but still its not good.

[adrianeaglrck]

w r o n g

[Ryan4twenty]

What happens if you change your past event that gives you a negative emotional charge- to a positive event even if it didnt occur, The emotional charge would be positive making you feel better and great things will come to you holding that belief

[HealingMagic]

If it is in you then it seems real to you. Even if it never occurred because your unconscious mind can not tell if it is real. Making it positive reaps many rewards.

[imjetta]

WOW, how this hit home, I always thought it was my parents in my head but if it is my own, I can and will change it. I can really look at it different now. Thank you very much, This is very powerful.

[linasafe]

I was feeling down and now I understand why, the emotions in my past were negative and strong, thanks.

[Felix2008sk]

could you help me, please ?

I am working on my social anxiety half year with faster EFT (and other therapies like BSFF, Sedona method, TAT ), Ive tapped something around 250 negative experiences 3 times.

Sometimes I feel very good around people, but after some days anxiety come back again and again , I cant get rid of it completely. I dont know what to do now and I am hopeless.

Could you give me some suggest or where could be a problem ?

[HealingMagic]

The anxiety is generated from within you so the question is what was it that triggered it? You must make sure you cover all areas within you and those triggers that stir it up. Make sure you have changed each and every memory that supported the anxiety. Change your beliefs you have about it too. It is your response to the world and not the world doing it to you.

[150beth]

I have my volume turned all the way up and many of your videos I am straining to hear - not sure if it is on your end or mine. I bring it up as I listed to ALL of your videos and would like to hear them better :)

[amivag77]

While cleaning out the negative stuff... How do you build a positive self-esteem when you do not have many strong enough resources (positive experiences) from childhood? When you haven't experienced much love or attention and so on... how do you reach these levels towards yourself later on?

[eonmasterhand]

awesome stuff.