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  • LoL!!!! josh be a Non-conformist!!!!! conforming to hetero-normality (sp)* is sooooooo 19th and 20th century lol!!!!! BUT on the other hand I agree with davey if you are afraid for your physical well being talk to your school :) wish i would have brought my BF to prom :)

  • last night i was gonna bring my boyfriend to homecoming,thats pretty ironic,

  • It's called "GET SOME LESSONS IN MMA FIGHTING!!!!" If he is really concerned, maybe some lessons in how to defend himself and obliterate his attacker would remedy his problem, even if for a bit.

  • If all those people know you're gay then pretty much so does everyone else. I should know I go to a 5k school and people love to talk. That's how I'm gonna come out personally. Last year I went with friends, this time around with a girl and next year with a guy. I'm bi and only 3 people know at my school. I can't wait cause I'm like the least suspected person lol, I'm about to turn they're reality upside down.

  • he said the same thing twice... took me 10 replays to confirm my doubt. LOL

  • Wow i sound like a halmark card..dont i?

    LMFAO way to keep to classic davey!!

  • Was it me or did he say the same thing twice?

  • he should TOTALLY bring a boy to prom. if i had a boy to bring at that time, i would have. i did slow dance with another guy at my prom who i'd liked for most of high school. he is very out of the closet as was i. so once i had a boy i totally danced with him!! and if i'd had one all along i would have. so i think josh should bring a boy. it's something he will never regret.

  • I went prom solo with my friends. I couldn't pretend to be straight in the degree of ever leading a girl on too much. So I went my friends who were all with couples. And it was an okay time. I ended up leaving early. I hope he went with his bf cause if I had the guts to be open in high school I know my life would have been a lot happier and prom would have been much more of a blast.

  • Sooooo...Did Josh bring his boyfriend to the prom?!?!?!

  • Go Josh!

  • I was going to bring a guy friend to my prom... but then my asshat Health Occupations teacher shot that down =/ she was over the prom, and said no homosexuals allowed... Where I live, she got away with that.

  • My friend took his date to the prom and he got into a scuffle and all my str8 mates and I stepped in to protect the couple the thing is us str8 people have freedom but so shud gay people we are all human and fall In love!

  • Yes take the boy to the prom but ensure that there is a person who will look out for any signs of distress or bullying

  • yes i feel that if the school can not accept you for the student you are and how you do in school than they do not deserve to have a student like you. i graduated last year and i didnt go to my prom because i didnt have a date but i did go the year before with one of my best female friends and i said hopefully next year i will have a boyfriend to take with me...my friend said that i shouldnt. so i asked why should i have to go to a school dance with a female. I SAY GO DANCE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND!!

  • He should really take his boyfriend and some smoke pellets with pepper spray and just have a ball anyone who has a problem can shut up and mind their own business :-)

  • So..you would know who is real friend and who isn't....lol

  • I think he should bring the boy. I brought my boyfriend at the time now my husband as of really recently and we had a great reaction, we actually got cheered on by all of my teachers and am part of the first graduating class everyone loved it and the few other gay people there brought girls but we all were happy. Just be safe though !

  • Davey, why don't u have a book out yet??

    Yu need to dazzle the world with your radiant brilliance with yet another medium of communication that more than just people who youtube often use {^_^}

    XoxO

    Ectamar

  • in my opinion they should kiss in the slow music part in the middle of the place

  • Hey Josh. I don't know if you will ever read this but if you do I just want to say I too admire your courage for even considering this and although I can't tell you if you should or should not take your boyfriend to prom, I can say that even though I don't know you, I totally support you. So regardless of how the people in your school may react to you, know that you do have people who support you for being just who you are.

  • I am straight so my advice may not be as much but Josh awsome your even open to the point that this is an option. Way to be true to you. I keep sadely thinking about the scene in the movie CAMP that the boy goes to prom in a dress gets beat. I think it is sad that we live in a world that people can't be who they are. Josh ultimitly you have to do what makes you most safe, comfortable and and happy. Josh I'll pray for ease in this douf choice

  • People !

    I think this dude is gay, and shirt-less!

  • Is there a reason why this guy is topless?

  • I wanna bring a guy to my freshman/sophomore prom (I'm a guy) but my school has no other gay people that would be brave enough to do that. I am completely out and I am not afraid but I don't know how the guy would feel since he is not out at the moment...

  • I took my boyfriend to y Winter Formal. We had tons of people staring at us, but everytime someone said something wrong...my friends were on them like crazy.

    Josh, as long as you have your friends. Go ahead. (:

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  • Josh, do you have a group of friends in your school who can watch your back? My school friends (straight and gay) watch out for each other both on school grounds and out. However, if you are the first couple to do this at your school, it will probably get published quickly in the local newspaper. There are a lot of bashers out there, and you will have to be careful for a few weeks. It is great that you are taking your bf but we don't need you to be a sacrificial lamb for gay rights.

  • Josh, I never had the courage to come out in high school and that is something I regret every day of my life. I have found that if u can't be true to who u r then u will never be happy. Yes, there r people in this world who will look at u funny, make comments behind ur back and even some to ur face. But I have also found that those r the people who don't love themselves. I promise as time goes by u won't remember what those people look like, sound like, or even what they said 3 months in the

  • Dear, Davey Wavey My name is Randy and I'm 17; I am out to most of my friends and my mom. The thing I'm afraid of is telling my dad he looks at me like I am perfect and brags about me because I make all A's I'm just afraid after it I want be the perfect person my family loves and my dad's family is very homophobic so if you could please lend me some advise sure might save me some trouble tanks.

  • I'm a 16 yr. old teen, and he has every right to bring who every he wants... and about the reactions screw them. and a teen LGBTQ Activist he should know that he has all the support from his family and i know it might be scary at first but trust me later you'll be sooo glad you do just be true to yourself and do what u can and what u feel s best for you !!!!

  • ur hot <3

  • Josh, go to prom, unless you KNOW there is a major danger factor, and even then...stick it in their ears if they cant handle honesty and caring in this day and age

  • Josh has every right to bring a boy to prom.

    If that's what he wants, then why shouldn't he.?

    Love know no gender, race, etc.

    I wish you the best Josh.

    I hope all things go well if that's what you decide.

    And like what Davey said, let us know your decision

    and PLEASE send a prom pic.

    ^o^

  • I think it goes without saying that Josh should bring his boyfriend to the prom. But he may feel that he's not safe doing so, you say? That's no problem. I'd love nothing more than to play dyke-bodyguard for the couple all night. ;D In all seriousness, though, I think Josh should remember that if he is afraid of anything, the fact that he's thinking about bringing his boyfriend to the prom should tell him that he has bigger balls than whatever he's afraid of <3 ^_^

  • Josh i admire you, if i had a boyfriend i would have done that, me and my best friend, shes a lesbian and im gay, we went together even thoguht everyone knew we were gay, i wore a dress, she worse a suit, it was one of the best days of my life <3

  • You know, i also admire Josh, becasue i never had the guts to take my boyfriend to prom. i also have admiration from my friend JD becasue he went to his school prom in full drag, and was threatened with suspension and he did it anyway. and becasue they had no real reason to kick him out, they couldn't do anything becasue he told them he would press charges.

  • I'm in the same situation. I'm not really that "out" in school, but I also am in love. there is nothing (besides maybe a new rule that doesn't allow college students to prom) that is going to stop me and the love of my life from having fun together and showing everyone how a gay relationship actually acts like. I think Josh should bring his boyfriend if for no other reason than to share something with his boy and have fun.

  • GO THEATRE PEOPLE! <3

  • Josh should definatley bring his boyfriend to the prom, why should they be treated differently from any other couple?

  • I know a gay friend who was harassed by his students in a middle school though the administrators may b supportive & other students may b supportive & legally a school can't say no u have 2 realize & b ready for the possibility of unfortunate backlash. A school is a public institution is supposed 2 cater 2 the needs 4 equality & safety of all students & this being such a current issue your safety is something you need 2 consider what that means & how it should b manifested.

  • or wen i say all i mean most arrogance isnt very attractive but sometimes you need it to assert you authoratay :D lol or your gayness idk

  • 1 Dave dont try to be all serious without a shirt on lol

    2 kid take your damn boyfriend to the prom

    3 stop making a big deal about it lol this is the 20century NOT EVERYONE CARES ANYMORE LOLS

    4 Why do all people think gays cant fight ?

  • @littloered 21st Century???

  • I think they should go together, my school doesn't let gay couples attend prom together, and if yours let's you then do it. I'm in my senior year of high school and it would've meant the world to me if i could attend prom with my boyfriend instead of having to go alone.

  • :( my school doesnt even let us bring the same sex as a date to prom.

    i think he should go for it because not all people even have the option.

  • @panic13318 just go seprate and be together :D

  • @luxyducksy i know that you can the thing that sucks the most about my schools prom is that its required to do this prominade thingie where you have to walk out infront of everyone with your date or if your dateless alone. its jsut sad that same sex couples cant walk together when they want to, specially since if you dont do the walk your not allowed in prom.

  • this is an INCREDIBLE view of the thought process going into this. Great job Davey! Most people would just say yes go. You really went into the different fears behind it and which ones are rational and how to deal with them.

  • I think it depends on where you live. like if you live in the south east then hell no, you will definitely get beat up. but if you live in like massachusetts or california where homosexuality is mostly acceptable , then yes go for it!

  • I would give anything, anything in the world to be a relationship where that was even concievable. Maybe it's different cause i'm one of those people that need to swim aganist the current and be who I am, but still. If you love someone that much and want to share it in a way that straight couples have been doing forever, go for it. I would reather have a couple of idiots laugh at me, then spend time wishing that I had taken the chance to do it

  • Well they should go to the prom together

  • I live in Sweden and i remember a lesbian couple in my school that wanted to go to prom together and they where not aloud!

    And they contacted media and shit and it was national but they finaly got to do it both and its nice to see strong individuals!

    so hell yeah why not!

    why be a victim?

    just embrace yourself instead!:)

  • No.

  • I'm still looking for a girl to go to prom with lmao

  • 1 thumbs-down. xD

  • Fuck the other people!

    It would make the breeders blood BOIL when they see him

  • If there are going to be people there who can back you up then do it. I remember going to mine. Lots of single guys just brought girls who were friends, one even brought the principals daughter who ended up being the most embarrased person when her mom insisted on dancing with every student individually.

    Do it, people will get over it if they think it's an issue now, they need to get a dose of reality before they hit the real world

  • Dear josh friend sorry if it will seem more rude can not

    resist, your chest is pretty wonderful too bulky and I'm in love

    lovely lovely I'm crazy for breast'm so mad to look good week.

  • lord....this is 2011....now is the time to push these fears aside.... the best of your life is coming Josh... starting NOW...go for it without regrets

  • If he does do it he's is so brave I don't even have the guts to come out to the person that I love

  • Go Josh GO !!! Who cares what others think. Be yourself

  • Go Daveywavey! I really like your work. Keep it up with your shirt off!

  • Josh you rock, and Davey, you are without a doubt the coolest guy ever. How sweet is it making a video because a fan sent you a mail.

  • when i went to prom last year, i had a friend who also gay, and i thought "it's my prom, it's a special night, and i want to dance with someone." so when a slow song came on, i asked him to dance, and so we did, no opposition :) this year at homecoming, a friend asked me to dance with him. i was behind him, a kid saw me and started saying "EW no homo, man." i didn't really care and i just shook it off :)

  • Hey in my school they wouldn't even sell us the ticket for the prom

    couples were like $50.oo and a single was like $35.oo no exceptions

    Go as a traditional couple or a single guy or single girl period. so sad.

    that was in class of 85. If you feel SAFE DO IT!! Lots of luck I hope you

    can and do and have a awesome time, show me things have changed.

    Peace and lots of love.

  • I'm having the same issue!! Thx 4 advise

  • Uh oh. You've edited this so that you say the same thing twice:

    1:38 and 1:52 But if you're afraid because it's swimming against the current...

    Deja vu?

    ALSO, I think you should do it Josh! Take your boyfriend! It definitely wasn't on my radar, so good on you for having the courage to be true to yourself at such a young age!

  • yes because if a straight guy can bring a girlfriend a gay guy should be able to bring his bf

  • I think that any guy who's courageous enough to come out to that many people shouldn't care what the rest think. I think Josh should bring his boyfriend to the prom no matter what the consequences and if he has a problem with the other kids, he can easily fix that with the power of the school staff.

  • i think if josh had what it takes to come out to that many people i think he shouldnt care about what everyone else says i think they should go , but like you said its due to school adminstrators its self you should ask them .

  • I brought a girl junior and senior year. both times we had sex at the after party. IF I WERE JOSH and I were out in high school, I'd do it. If I were seriously threatened or harassed I would inform the police but I would NOT let it stop me.

  • I hope that josh and whomever else is in this predicament will be true to themselves and be safe. I will say that we all have opinions but only those people can answer as to what is right for them. My personal opinion is to bring your boyfriend if you want because prom is suppose to be a memory that you never forget and i wish i had had a boyfriend to bring lol

  • I did and i live in puerto rico and they where cool with it

  • Josh: Bring your boyfriend. :)

  • So yeah, I know what josh's going through, here in SA we have what's called a Matric Dance which is equal to a senior prom. So I wanted to go with my now ex-boyfriend, but I decided not to. The reason I decided not to was because I didn't want to feel like I was a circus show.... My whole school knew I was gay and was to a great length supportive but I think because nun of them saw me with a boy before they'd become weird around me and I didn't want my boyfriend to go through that, but if I wer

  • Theres a time and a place to start living different parts of your life, high school isnt necessarily the place to start all of that living, but if you feel you wont loose too much respect then take the plunge, just choose wisely.

  • Josh, you are a legend for even thinkng of this! i truly honour you!! if i could i would but its up to you! be and do what you want to do :) x

  • Nope! Don't rock the boat until your out of High School.

  • I'd Just do it, you sound like someone who is brave and different, so im going to Say GO FOR IT you should always have that memory and be someone who we can aspire to for our proms :D

  • I wish I had the balls to be out at my prom =[

  • @SooperNovak Hey, going through school now may be hard, but trust me it does get beter! Keep positive and good luck! :o)

  • prom..why bother.

  • A lot of schools (mainly in the mid west) have banned same sex prom partners.

    They have ever gone as far as canceling the prom to stop them from attending.

    it the school is going to back you up, then do what I couldn't do, and attend and have a amazing time.

  • i'm not gay.. but this is really good help for various other situations!

  • Oh, also I live in a small town. I do what I want as long as it does not harm anyone else.

  • I brought my boyfriend to my senior year prom and we were the most fabulous matching pair at the dance. Yeah. I said it! We danced and had a great time! No one bothered us and there was no need for PDA.

  • Hay I live in Kansas City, KS So I know a lot about MO. Depending where you live like if you live in big city then I don't see a problem. Now if you live in a small town. then there more then likely may be a problem. I would talk to family and friends and the school about it.

  • Josh, this comment's for you.

    I think you should. Unless you know of people who would undoubtedly harass you more than you or your boyfriend can handle, you should go. And in spirit, I'll be with you, ish. I'm going to prom this year, being a sophomore and out for a year to the whole school (it's a small school) and I'm one of four gay kids. And I'm going to wear a pink tux and my friends might maneuver a way to bring my boyfriend. So do it. Good luck :).

  • He should go and french kiss his boyfriend in public.

  • lolololol, my boyfriend's name is josh, and we're having the same problem. xD

  • @RyStrawMusic Was your bf the one who asked this

  • At our school, We aren't allowed to go with the same sex. What they do is, When you buy your ticket, You have to put who you're going with, and they have to put you. but as i said, If it is a same sex couple, they are not allowed to go. Which I think, is SOO not right. But everybody just gets around it. They go with one of their friends, and then when they get there, they meet up with their boyfriend/girlfriend. Also, The school is 40% Gay/lesbian. O: That's alot..

  • @BJeffery1312

    How can your school have such a large "queer population" and still have a homophobic dance policy?

    Or are you exaggerating that percentage?

  • @GyThanksGd Oh No No No, I'm SOO not lying about the percentage. >.< But I have no idea. It's just like that... :/

  • DO IT!

  • If Josh has people who support him in this event, why not take his guy to the dance, if he doesn't its understandable . Either way, Josh shows he has a lot of Cojones, simply by considering it as an option.

  • i think it is a great idea i wish i took a boy to my prom 10 years ago..... i think that josh should talk to the school and give them the heads up that he is going to bring the boy to the prom just so they can support him as well

  • JOSH, man i will kick anyone's ass if they say something or do something to you bc you bring your boy to prom. Ballet is an awesome way to strengthen your legs, and with a couple of kicks you can whip anyone's butt. Be confident and hey, if someone says or do something, leave the gayness away and and fight like a champ. Best of lucks and much love. :)

  • Do it! I was out in HS but never thought about asking a guy, I wish i had.

  • If I had a guy at the time I definitely would've brought him. Imagine us showing all those straighty's how gay's get down. lol =]

    Over all definitely go for it. Much support. =]]]

  • @jesssetorrence you are right my friend. No one can get it down like the gays, we own the dance floor and the red carpets.

  • Really do it up Josh be you everyone already knows who an what you are shwo them your ok with being you an who you are and if people say shit just tell them your to busy having fun to lisen to them. I think it takes alot of gutts to take your bf to prom an I think you should do it.

  • I think Davey has given some great guidelines to help you make your decision! Definitely talk to your family & friends, put your safety first and then go for it!

  • JUST DO IT! .........The time has come and it is your time Josh.

  • I saw your nude pics on QueerClick!!!!!!

  • wow... really love the quote at the end. :)

  • Yeah Josh should definitely bring his boyfriend.. If he did so, it could cause a chain reaction of other people in his school being more open and not ashamed of their sexuality, it might even help the straight people get used to stuff like that. We only get one prom so might as well make it the best one instead of worrying about what others think

  • Why does he have to go to prom...? Why not go see a movie with his boyfriend and have a nice romantic evening or something? Prom is overrated!

  • I also admire his courage. But, being from Missouri, I know how redneck they can be. Some will be very accepting. Some will be marginal or indifferent. Some will absolutely NOT accept it. It needs to be considered carefully.

  • I say do it. it's just as much as your night as it us to the other kids. So you should be happy and comfortable with the date you take.

  • I absolutely love the quotation at the end! I have it posted on my wall of inspirational stickers!

  • OMG!!! My school's Gay Straight Alliance Club is having a LGTBQ Dance next month =DDDDDDD  it's like a state wide dance in New Jersey (I think), so I'm gunna try and video tape some of it haha I think it was an amazing idea :)))) just letting you know.

  • Wow u said the same thing twice. That wuz scary.

    But anyway I found this video incredibly sweet and I loove when u wear ur hat backwards. :)

  • i live in MO and i live in a pretty small hick town, i've always felt its worth it to be out and openly gay in public. for a small town it also has a lot of other gay kids =)

  • they should go and have sex in the middle of the dance floor lol

  • @matboy891 wow ;o

  • @matboy891

    You're sick !!! you can be and do anything you want as long as it's in the privacy of your own home. Would you like it if a heterosexual couple did that !!!

  • wow..you are amazing and you look so charmingly hot in your cap.

  • I held a guy's hand on campus today at my college. It felt so good to be honest and not hide it. Josh-- I totally think you should go for it. It would be awesome.

  • Davey Wavey is fantastic at giving advise to his own age group, but does not venture outside of his peer group. Until he addresses those who will soon enter these trials of life, or those who have lost these battles and live daily on despair, he will remain a leader of potential, and not of so much more. You have the means to represent all of us, not some of us.

  • Girl do it I won Prom Queen at my prom

  • Kate Perry's "Firework" VEVO (Youtube won't let me post the url) => 2:12-2:22 :)

    Like, Davey, I commend Josh on his bravery. For a society that is so advanced, it is a shame that a male bringing another male to the prom (vice versa w/females, or any other variation) is so controversial. Well, I say go for it. With his family and friends as support, that’s all you need. As long as you and your bf are happy, who cares what everyone else thinks? Good luck with your decision and have a great prom!

  • In my opinion i'd say yes go for it! i did thight 2 years ago and I went to a french catholic school even though i though because it's a catholic school it would be harder but just stay with your friends and just try to sray away from people that your not sure of there reaction.I've been through this experience and I can tell you this, it's a once in a life time thing to do!!! :D:D I'd say go for it. If people around are on your side! Just Be Happy And Enjoy Your Graduation Lil Guy! :) <3

  • In my opinion i'd say yes go for it! I went to a french catholic school even though i though because it's a catholic school it would be harder but just stay with your friends and just try to sray away from people that your not sure of there reaction.I've been through this experience and I can tell you this, it's a once in a life time thing to do!!! :D:D I'd say go for it. If people around are on your side! Just Be Happy And Enjoy Your Graduation Lil Guy! :) <3

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  • I brought my bf too sadies an 80's theme dance and I loved it I didn't care what other people thought (: but then my teacher saw me grinding on him so LOL

  • One of my best friends went to prom together at a public school here in California. I think he will have to deal with some reactions but overall it should be a good experience because of that support system he does have!

  • I brought my boyfriend to my deb... But my school being slightly homophobic as it is I wasn't allowed to dance with him for the main thing, I had to dance with a girl *sad face*... But after the "formalities" were over with I was free to do whatever the f**k I wanted.

    I say go with it, be yourself, you and all that you can be... And be proud of it.

  • Am I the only one who noticed the repetition [word for word, action for action] from 1:40 to 2:05? It may have been on purpose, but it sort of seemed weird.

  • Umm this is plain and simple. If you are ready to be out, do it. If your uncomfertable being yourself publicly yet, don't do it.

  • Actually I want to bring a guy to my prom :D!

  • I get major flashbacks of the Queer as Folk prom episode. I really hope everything works out really well for Josh. Everyone should have a decent prom experience, but if he thinks his or his boyfriend's safety would be in danger, maybe it would be best to stand down.

  • Doooo itttt!

  • WOW..If I only had 1/1,000,000th of the courage to even come this far as Josh has would be enormous. That being said the ultimate choice is his. I will support to the death whichever choice he makes. I feel its time someone makes this leap and if this is it then "Josh go for it"!!! If your needing support we will have your back. Just remember its your choice and we will honor whatever you decide! No matter what though you are my new hero!!

  • Don't let what others might say or think ruin the fun you WILL have! This goes for anyone, I've done my share of things and had fun because I didn't give in to what MIGHT have been.

  • Another question is will your Boyfriend be comfortable?

  • he will be on the next 20/20

  • just go for it

  • I'm totally in his shoes right now. I don't know if I should take a boy to my senior prom or not. Lol. So far I'm going to.

  • Be Proud! Take him to the dance!!!

  • I know its easy to say but...

    Who cares what people say! Its ignorance...

    Yhoo have yhoor true friends and family support so...

    Its up too yhoo, but no matter where yhoo go yhoor gonna get hassle, unfortunately!

    Bring yhoor date but if it gets bad on the night yhoo have too leave!

    I know what its like cause I had same problem, but I was chicken and brought my friend! :(

  • i think yea but always have a safety net :3 have fun~

  • Oh hell yeah...you should take your boyfriend. You have to be comfortable with who you are to even consider it so go for it!!!

  • I agree that seeing two guys dancing with each other on the dance floor would bring someone hope who is not open about their sexuality. As I too was given hope when I saw my cousin with his boyfriend for the first time. Next day I came out to them both and visited Australia from England twice for their Civil Partnership all by myself at the age of 16 and 17 ! Had a whale of an experience and if it wasn't for them I'd still be unhappy.

  • YES but be prepared for anything

  • Please go and please GIVE US SOME PICS! (even if you make you guys' faces unrecognizable)

  • totally awesome advice davey. thankyou

  • as mother monster says we were all "Born This Way!"

  • I also live in Missouri and went to public HSl. I don't know what part of Missouri he lives in, but I live in the Kansas City area and it's pretty open here and in the area. I understand that some area's in rural Missouri might not have the same acceptance as a bigger city. It is nice to be there with someone you want to be there with. Do what you think is right. If you feel your going to be in danger then don't. Maybe go with a group of friends and invite him, then spend your time together.

  • I thought Davey Wavey Raw was unedited? ;)

  • He should be his boyfriend.

    Of course, with other friends also.

  • Go on, bring him to the prom. You only get one prom after all... right? And I am sure that you would love to be there with the person that you love.

    I hope it all goes well.

  • I love you josh :)

  • Public School? Of course he can bring a boy.

  • i'm with josh, i hope u guys have good times and have fun. :) XOXO

  • Do it Josh!! ......stand up for what is right.

  • I took my best-friend to my senior prom as my date we kissed all night. He is a guy . I was crowned Prince of the court, and when we had to do that solo dance me and my partner only on the floor. Everyone was shocked, as we kissed in front of the entire school, and I have no regrets at all !!! I say do it "life is what is happens to you while you are busy making other plans"and "fear is the unknown" or "if there is no struggle, there is no progress" love ya,,,,,North

  • If you choose to be someone to not care what other people are going to say (unless they are threatening you in any way) then you should choose to go to prom with who you want to go with. If that is a girl/boy, girl/girl or boy/boy situation. I can remember how happy my sort of out gay friend was when I mentioned one of his boyfriends in a way that made everyone have to accept is as just a part of the story.

    We support you Josh! Make a choice and if you are happy with it then it's the right one.

  • I voted yes on Josh bringing a boy to prom. However, for his safety and well-being, him and his date should go with a group because there would be a support system being in place just in case anything went wrong. I went to prom with a another boy, who happens to have the same name as Josh last year and it was one of the best nights of my life.

    So good luck to Josh and I hope that he has a wonderful time there.

  • I agree that going in a group is good, but I also think that if Josh and his boyfriend want to go alone, then they should. As big or small as the town is, as big or small as the school is, if it's senior year, then it will only be controversial for the rest of the year. Once he graduates, then it won't be too big a deal. Plus, when he is older, he will be able to look back on his life and be amazed by his accomplishments he has made.

  • Josh, and anyone in the same situation, I took my boyfriend to prom my junior year. It was one of the funnest nights ever. I was myself. I had the guy I wanted to be with. It was worth it.

  • he DEFINITELY should

  • The school may cancel prom. I have a lesbian friend who is not allowed to go with her girfriend.

  • I think he totally take a boy to prom. I have a friend that asked a admistrator about bring your boy friend or girlfriend to prom. The Adminstrator said "NO, because that will not look right" and other legal terms. Josh, If i was in your shoes i would go for it. and if it goes well then i think you will give me the confidence to talk to the staff at my school about it.

  • only viewed the first 10 seconds... answer is Y E S

  • As long as there is no credible threat of physical repercussions, I say Josh should take his boyfriend to the prom.

    It will mean something to more than just them.

  • Josh should D E F I N I T E L Y take his boyfriend to prom..

    I did senior year and everyone at school was totally cool with it.

    JUST DO IT