Yes! Guys like kind girls - Here is why - FOR WOMEN ONLY ;)

[mizzbieber4eva1]

Great advice

[rose10100]

dont talk so fast x_x

[sgtank123]

I think I'm a very kind person but I can turn pretty harsh when I'm joking around with close friends. I only do it with people that I know for a fact won't take it personally and if I feel they are offended I apologize right away.

[sahr5]

thank you so much. you hav awesome advice

[vitalcoaching]

@sahr5 Thanks! What's the dating situation that you find the most challenging? Preparing some new vids and asking around for top challenges...

[lamrof]

For a guy to commit to a woman he has to be ready to commit to women. At around age 35, most men fall in the "ready to commit pool" These are the guys who are most probably will have the mental capacity to commit the rest of us are only looking to get laid.

We come up with all kind of reason, upturn so many rocks, research, we change ourselves, pay thousands of dollars to be able to lay many women as we can before we die. Commitment takes away from our natural programming.

[lamrof]

I can only commit to kind girls, hate loud women, hate dominating women, I hate women who compete at everything.

[ugowhereiwent]

don't be edgy!!! it dosen't work that way. you have to be a wise bee.

[ugowhereiwent]

you only need to choose your time

[ugowhereiwent]

beautiful flowers can also be poisonus. a way of life...

power is male energy. a bit about yin and yang

you must complete the other to be able keeping balance...

[hannaremnant]

Darn....I didn't wasn't aware of the "power" table...because then, I would have done the opposite of ignoring him just to make him lose interest completely. Weird, but when guys get older, they seem to be a lot more patient.

[annamc01]

Isn't he adorable?

[xiaoli26]

i keep in being kind at school...but they...run away???

just because I knock off a RUDE guy???

maybe...

I'm just a kind of ....violent...eheee~ = =(that was embarrassing)

5/5 sir...

[darlingangel4ever200]

I know this is going to sound funny, the thing is I AM a naturally kind girl but I've noticed that guys don't take interest in me because I'm like the friend, the little sister, the "buddy" it's horrible. I don't know how to make them realize that I am NOT just that. What is wrong with me? I dress and act like a girl, I'm not a tomboy, BUT I take interest in what men like. I GENUINELY take interest in what they do, like sports or fixing machines, technology, games. So what's up with that?

[Ravenex2]

@darlingangel4ever200 Make very powerful eye contact and get personal in conversation. All of the topics you mentioned...are very surface level, but none of the them are very personal topics. Men are also very horny and hungry creatures, use those elements to your advantage.

Let things flow while being personal, I find this is the best way to get to know someone in general.

[sarahjf2007]

ok mr dating genius I have all this going on & you're right; I have NO problem having guys want me HOWEVER... tell me then how to find one who does not cheat, lie, punch things when he is mad, get so drunk he urinates in random places, chew tobacco, have a criminal background, or act like a selfish jerk?

because I have dated musicians to professionals to church-goers & guess what? it doesnt matter how many men a woman attracts if none of them are keepers. thanks! :)

[Michaeltanase]

I'm a guy and I have to say you are 100% right!

I couldn't have said it better myself, good job my man.

[natgurl15]

i lose interest easily.. usually i go on first dates and refuse for seconds, but i think it's b/c those guys blow up my fone instead of being mysterious and let me wonder they make me want to change my number lol

[NexusVale]

Almost everything you said can be switched around to apply to what girls want, too.

I don't think Men and Women are after different things.

[vitalcoaching]

@NexusVale TRUE!

[golddust44]

You're sexy :oP

[RedOrchestraPro]

"...might confuse you a little bit..."

well... I am posting a comment on a "only for women" video so, eh...

I don't like mean girls and I am a handsome guy ;)

[sydalee9433]

lol and a bit proud too? :)

[Brettwbeyer14]

i agree. i hate mean woman. i hate woman that try to be bad. to me it's not feminine. mean comes off as masculine.

[JessieRavenblade]

I can't be a realy bad girl, I may say something flirty but i am sweet. And my b.f is different in some ways. He loves attrition and once he got upset at me because he Thought That I thought he wasin't taking him seriously, Of course he was a little cranky that day.. oh well, i love him,Cranky or not.

[0Humanity0]

wha?! where was i? last time i checked guys would go out with any girl

[Esgaroth1234]

Any! nah not any, if they're was a huge ass chick with boogers and rotting eye balls I dont think anyone would go out with her!

[0Humanity0]

hahaha. your cruel.

[TheCastellan]

Cruel, but accurate. B)

[Brettwbeyer14]

not at all. i hate mean woman. or woman that try to be in control. a woman's vibe is just as important as her look. being kind is very important, but don't be a push over either. a woman that is control of herself and is naturally kind without comming acrossed as neady is important.  attraction is a universal thing. the same things that turn off woman usually turn off men too, when talking about personality and demeaner and personal habits.

[0Humanity0]

I was joking

[RedOrchestraPro]

you should distinguish your brother from real men ;)

[Aguilagrace]

Guys like kind girls, because honestly, who likes rude people, right? Excessively kind girls are not very much liked, I suppose, because most often than not those excessively kind girls are the ugly ones, the not-so-desirable ones, and yeah, they somehow have to compesate, you know, they have to basically buy love, because otherwise it doesn't come for free to them! That's what I think anyways...

[vitalcoaching]

Thanks for sharing ;)

[jukijunk]

not all kind girls are ugly....the way i see it, theirs an evil side in every girl just waiting to come out..haha...

[vitalcoaching]

wise!