@Lmechelleonpurpose Paul Hunter directed this video. He's a popular music video director who has done videos for Aaliyah, Marilyn Manson and Michael Jackson to name a few.
I knew this song when I west in Bali Island (Indonesia) but now I leaved Bali to Jakarta since to years ago and am still love this song, will love it forever....!
Gorgeous singer, gorgeous song, gorgeous video. Absolutely LOVE the Asian theme. The great thing about the video is the beauty in the video scene is the complete opposite of what she is actually singing about. Very smart interpretation! The entertainment scene needs more talent like Tamia's definitely.
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@blognewb expect it looks to staged and awkward like she's thinking about the sexiest way to pull her shirt. I find it odd, and not sensual in the slightest.
@Galicia0629 oh yes midnight love,citas world,rap city,etc. So much trash on the radio these songs seems so long ago but they never lose there freshness.
@Galicia0629 I'm with you. That was back when BET was a music channel. Now the only music show they have is 106th and park. I swear if i didn't come on youtube I wouldn't know what's out there. I found some old Midnight Love shows on Comcast On Demand
Estimated friend, if you want to listen again this song and an endless number of successes of the love I suggest you to visit Radio MUSICA PARA MIMOS - looks for his direction URL in Google ( search Musica para Mimos in Google)-. best romantic music of all the times in Internet, is great, is very good ...!!!
People keep saying why doesn't she sing anymore. She does still make music but she is busy raising her two daughters with her husband Grant Hill but she has a another album coming soon.
The fraternal twin of Toni Braxton.....man, I miss this good music. The vocals, tonation, pitch, and background music were off the hook. Somebody create a time machine so I can go back to the 90s, please. I'll pay very well......
She was one of the few r&b singers who had the amazing voice to match her amazing looks. Most of these singers these days only have one of the two and it's mostly just looks.
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I love the 80's and 90's r&b and soul, I love modern symphonic and operatic metal. I prefer styles that have strong and beautiful women who do honor to us in culture and class. Tamia stands for beauty and a lesson to women not to take abuse, we need more like her today!
all haters need to shut up.relationships are nearly impossible,and dealing with an ahole partner makes it ten times worse.just because you have no talent doesnt mean we need to hear you b**** and moan
Lawd...she ALWAYS sung what she brung. I wish we had more like this these days. She never got the respect and success her talent warrented. I've always loved her voice and would support any project she puts out.
Exactly! I love Tamia and she has an amazingggg voice. But in both this video and Officially Missing You video, all she is doing is rubbing all over herself. Strange. But I'll listen non stop :)
@The13music13: The sensuality is strictly for entertainment purposes....it's not strange. Nowadays, less talented singers do way more than "rubbing" themselves....Tamia is embracing her sensual side with the painful lyrics....true talent in my eyes. Nowadays, the pop, R n B, and other genres aren't sensual at all---they're poor attempts at music with classless and trashy movement with no meaning to the lyrics.
every time i look up an old music video and try to reminisce about the old days why when i look at the top comments does sum1 always have to say like if ur still watching in 2011 ..... shiittt i know what fuckin year it is dang smh... and I will still be watching classics like dis in freakin 2040 as long as i am still breathing. so who gives a fuck wat year it is danng
@BabyLorV When she says "he wouldnt touch me like that" and "And he wouldnt treat me like you do" she means the man that she knew wouldnt do those things, meaning he's changed....Now when she says "That the stranger is me" she means that maybe the man has been like that all along and shes changed and shes taking notice that he doesnt deserve her
When you are with someone for so many years and it feels like a stranger is in your house maybe its time to let go. I know its hard because I can't let go of 5 years with this stranger in my house either
Deep song....Tamia has a lovely voice. A natural beauty. Another singer who is strangely under rated!!! Love this song and video.Wasn't she introduced by BabyFace??
If there's a stranger in your house, then i highly advise that one of yall need to leave!
#TeamScaryShit, lol
playboyquan 5 hours ago
this song was written by shae jones! i love her she is amazing...her and tamia!
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LovelyCxo 1 week ago
That stranger is lucky Grant Hill
EthioGQ 1 week ago
Who Directed this video? This is beautifully done.
Lmechelleonpurpose 2 weeks ago
@Lmechelleonpurpose Paul Hunter directed this video. He's a popular music video director who has done videos for Aaliyah, Marilyn Manson and Michael Jackson to name a few.
gwsjr87 1 week ago
I love Tamia! This is her at her best!
Lmechelleonpurpose 2 weeks ago
It is Ecstasy of Africa. Millions of years deep in time.
shanawan65 2 weeks ago
love this song
10SEXYRED101 2 weeks ago
Oooooooooooooh yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeah...
Vitalaufolauleka 2 weeks ago
This video was so ahead of it's time. Classic! =)
THEKIMYKOTOKYOSHOW 2 weeks ago
I knew this song when I west in Bali Island (Indonesia) but now I leaved Bali to Jakarta since to years ago and am still love this song, will love it forever....!
usedance 2 weeks ago in playlist Favorite videos
Oh RNB I missed u!
onyxxx101 3 weeks ago
this was a sexy video!!! damn tamia grant is a lucky lucky man
TheEaglesfanindc 3 weeks ago
love this song
alexisjoh13 3 weeks ago
omg
blueice10253 3 weeks ago in playlist Favorite videos
Look great Tamia, nice body
ilsye 3 weeks ago
loved this song
jnnfr05j24 1 month ago
What ever happen to good music smh lol
Rotten103 1 month ago
sometime in my relationship i feel lost and think that the person does not care anymore
jamkid101 1 month ago
uh oh i need a cold shower after this video
Jiv3Turk3y161 1 month ago
There's a stranger in my house, and he's called my roommate, who I believe is prostituting to pay his portion of the rent!
stylestar07 1 month ago 3
@stylestar07 hahahahaha!!! Whatever pays the rent!
mzshawtybynatur3 1 month ago
Tamia is extremely talented... and so much better than others who are well known and make top 5 records of the month.... Paradox...
PROSTOFUNTIK 1 month ago
Man, I loved her. Black women are so beautiful.
SteamEqualsFAIL 1 month ago
Music was music. BET was BET. Now...
marlo971 1 month ago
Why is this woman so goddamn sexy?
quintencornelius 1 month ago
I wonder why everyone wears skimpy clothes when they are in a show business.
sopranoms 1 month ago
@sopranoms Sex sells.
SteamEqualsFAIL 1 month ago
@sopranoms its all about sex appeal
Lenell22 1 month ago
Tamia needs to and underwear model
CREWDOG289 1 month ago in playlist tamia
amazin
begoi 1 month ago
She is so g**damn fine. It's ridiculous.
Sigmamafia 1 month ago
good :)
phong57 1 month ago
Gorgeous singer, gorgeous song, gorgeous video. Absolutely LOVE the Asian theme. The great thing about the video is the beauty in the video scene is the complete opposite of what she is actually singing about. Very smart interpretation! The entertainment scene needs more talent like Tamia's definitely.
bisdd 2 months ago 2
I feel this way sometimes with my man
MrKeonia 2 months ago 13
i so wish she would come back out and show real talent unlike this garbage we hear in 2011
ILoveMyDeezy 2 months ago 3
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ShaeTheSinger 2 months ago
i love this song and this video really does something to me. i don't know the meaning of the video but i can live with it
hassanmd101 2 months ago
@hassanmd101...When u go thru it youll understand!!!!
This is a real azz song!
4u2nv365 1 month ago
Like the song, but the video just didn't make sense.
blackandgold51 2 months ago
The tatoo on her back is the kanji for "chikara" meaning "power". That's soooo cool!! :D <3 Tamia
TheMasqueraid 2 months ago
136 peeps suck
KabbalahWestCoast 2 months ago
IF UR GONNA TAKE THE FUCKING SHIRT OFF TAKE IT FUCKING OFF!! STOP PLAYING WITH OUR MINDS!!!!
PERSON:OOHHH YEAHHHH!!! BOOBIES!!!:).....oh wait she... DAMMIT!!!!
2k11cupcake 2 months ago
@2k11cupcake go somewhere else wit hyoru mouth! thx
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2k11cupcake 2 months ago
real music!!
bossman55ify 2 months ago
She is a good singer, but I just can't take this seriously when she's playing with her shirt that much.
magicpeach2011 2 months ago
@magicpeach2011 She is showing self-confidence by feeling her own sensuality. That is a real woman.
blognewb 2 months ago
@blognewb expect it looks to staged and awkward like she's thinking about the sexiest way to pull her shirt. I find it odd, and not sensual in the slightest.
magicpeach2011 1 month ago
tamia she is obsessed with her blouse. all the time it wants to go, but it does not T_T
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SoNicole143 2 months ago
Wish there was a Tamia Vevo. nb4 haters of Vevo, get adblock and you'd love it too.
elvickRULES 2 months ago
She's an awesome singer!!!!
latricemm 2 months ago 3
The song is like Japanese Enka song has the same type of rhythm.
DustinBroke84 2 months ago
Love it!
Turtle3487 2 months ago
phewww! hot song and hot Tamia
chatnoir77777777777 2 months ago
nice
KEYMONEE01 3 months ago
still give me chills very sexy and those vocals are to die for,females nowaday in the industry wish they could sing like this
CountryBoyJoina 3 months ago
I miss the days when midnight love was still on BET...whatever happened to that?
Galicia0629 3 months ago 61
@Galicia0629 oh yes midnight love,citas world,rap city,etc. So much trash on the radio these songs seems so long ago but they never lose there freshness.
CountryBoyJoina 3 months ago 3
@Galicia0629 They put on the ignorant shit for the new viewers. :- (
reelpebbles 1 month ago
@Galicia0629 I'm with you. That was back when BET was a music channel. Now the only music show they have is 106th and park. I swear if i didn't come on youtube I wouldn't know what's out there. I found some old Midnight Love shows on Comcast On Demand
dlove1219 1 month ago
gotta love the 90's and early 2000's (2000-2005)
devaughnje5 3 months ago
waa q habia una artista llamada tamia??,..jejej yo me llamop tamia asi me llamaron x q significa lluvia!
mstamia25 3 months ago
TAMIA SLAYS YOUR LIFE
charcharbanga 3 months ago
yes guys 2001 not 90's
agentm6009 3 months ago
I LOOOOOOOOVE THIS SONG :D YOU LOOK JUST LIKE A MAN IS HE A MAN??
sims2lover2010 3 months ago
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robertoamor2011 3 months ago
"Tell me where my spot is" CLASSIC!!
RivaKaree 3 months ago
when i was younger i couldnt go to sleep until this video came on midnight love on bet. Amazing song!
AlbieJr1 3 months ago
Canadian POWER!!!!!!!!!!!!
missericacjohnson 3 months ago
I love the song but the video plays like an underwear ad. I'd buy her pool outfit from Victoria's Secret, lol. Her robe, too!
PrincezzMeechie 3 months ago
love this song =D
tommyboyfierce 3 months ago
this was 2001 guys, not 90s...
andreskizzo 3 months ago 2
i love this song,thats how i felt about my never more husband
bevford65 3 months ago
People keep saying why doesn't she sing anymore. She does still make music but she is busy raising her two daughters with her husband Grant Hill but she has a another album coming soon.
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bfly1 3 months ago
The fraternal twin of Toni Braxton.....man, I miss this good music. The vocals, tonation, pitch, and background music were off the hook. Somebody create a time machine so I can go back to the 90s, please. I'll pay very well......
Bloombaby99 3 months ago
90s swag.
breannamstewart 3 months ago
she didnt die, smh she had a baby n she had issues with her vocal cords
MsTJohnson29 3 months ago
@MsTJohnson29 She actually has two daughters now and she still sings she has another album coming.
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Her voice is amazing so is her body !
CuteArabGirl1 3 months ago
Her voice is amazing so is her body !
CuteArabGirl1 3 months ago
Sensual....................
antwuanburton 3 months ago
did she die
MizzDynamiteDiva 3 months ago
@MizzDynamiteDiva
no
kiah0425 3 months ago
@MizzDynamiteDiva NO!!!
mikayla57807 3 months ago
why is she not recording while so many FAR less talented won't stop
cqsax1 3 months ago 3
She was one of the few r&b singers who had the amazing voice to match her amazing looks. Most of these singers these days only have one of the two and it's mostly just looks.
Tigerlily21 4 months ago 3
@Tigerlily21: So true....I wish people would look to singers back in the 90s to see true talent.....
Bloombaby99 3 months ago
if i had that body id rub on it all the time too! shii
tellmeverything123 4 months ago
never gets old!
tellmeverything123 4 months ago
REAL love never changes, when it's real it's forever.
arkemein24 4 months ago
real love never ends.it always changes
TheJuggernautBitch86 3 months ago
She is so underrated, she has one of the best voices in music. :D
CartoonPropaganda 4 months ago 79
I agree
jelondawalton 3 months ago
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Love This Song!!!!
MsLadyLove27 4 months ago
Love This Song!!!!
MsLadyLove27 4 months ago
she keeps stretching her shirt lol
Sharaallan 4 months ago 2
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Sharaallan 4 months ago
one of the best videos ever!
markechio 4 months ago
Grant HIll is one lucky guy!
h2o1204 4 months ago 12
i love this song...probably one of her best songs to date.
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easttexaspcrepair 4 months ago
@easttexaspcrepair And you suck your mom's 1 inch dick
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easttexaspcrepair 4 months ago
amazing song lol :D
angleofdea13 4 months ago
i love this song!!!! :)
MegaDamon28 4 months ago
SOOOO SEXY
YungTodd91 4 months ago
this tht damnn songg
MzBieber121 4 months ago
I REALLY GET IN MY FEELINGS LISTENING TO DIS SONG..SHEESH..
rosz305 4 months ago
I love the 80's and 90's r&b and soul, I love modern symphonic and operatic metal. I prefer styles that have strong and beautiful women who do honor to us in culture and class. Tamia stands for beauty and a lesson to women not to take abuse, we need more like her today!
TearisShatteredMoon 4 months ago 27
@TearisShatteredMoon AGREED!
tellmeverything123 4 months ago
@tellmeverything123 thank you!
TearisShatteredMoon 4 months ago
I just want the world to know that this is my favorite song ever. alright, bye now.
sammiwyatt 4 months ago
she sexy! love tha song!
gucci25teft1 4 months ago
TAMIA YOU MAKE MY DAY BABY ,I LIKE THIS SONG ALOT .''STRANGER IN MY LIFE"
PEACEMAKER55569 5 months ago
all haters need to shut up.relationships are nearly impossible,and dealing with an ahole partner makes it ten times worse.just because you have no talent doesnt mean we need to hear you b**** and moan
itischelsea 5 months ago
where is she now i liked her as a artist
romanfly12 5 months ago 2
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deadeye800 5 months ago
exy ass video
deadeye800 5 months ago
love this song
cryangel768 5 months ago 2
Grant Hill must been really trippin for her to make this video.
KingJarvis10000 5 months ago
Is there someone imitating me? Could she be taking my place? LOOK ME IN MY FACE !!!!
Jecire 5 months ago
She looks just as good as she sounds.
ProximaB 5 months ago
amazing song & a rockin' bud!♥ =hotness♥
pocahontasmama07 5 months ago
Lawd...she ALWAYS sung what she brung. I wish we had more like this these days. She never got the respect and success her talent warrented. I've always loved her voice and would support any project she puts out.
jsull81079 5 months ago 2
wtf this video has nothing to do with da song lol
moonharpz321 5 months ago 4
@moonharpz321
Exactly! I love Tamia and she has an amazingggg voice. But in both this video and Officially Missing You video, all she is doing is rubbing all over herself. Strange. But I'll listen non stop :)
The13music13 5 months ago
@The13music13 sex sells lol
JudeSantana 5 months ago
@The13music13: The sensuality is strictly for entertainment purposes....it's not strange. Nowadays, less talented singers do way more than "rubbing" themselves....Tamia is embracing her sensual side with the painful lyrics....true talent in my eyes. Nowadays, the pop, R n B, and other genres aren't sensual at all---they're poor attempts at music with classless and trashy movement with no meaning to the lyrics.
Bloombaby99 3 months ago 2
Sing Tamia!
csharp2002 5 months ago
this my shit =)
sexystar9120 5 months ago 2
real feeling when i hear this song u feel that when the one u love treats u badly.
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This is my FAVORITE video!!!!!!!!
Kindanger 5 months ago
every time i look up an old music video and try to reminisce about the old days why when i look at the top comments does sum1 always have to say like if ur still watching in 2011 ..... shiittt i know what fuckin year it is dang smh... and I will still be watching classics like dis in freakin 2040 as long as i am still breathing. so who gives a fuck wat year it is danng
doe922 5 months ago 4
I love this song. Man when I was going through it I put this on and remembered I deserved better.
cuteRacquel 5 months ago
luv this song to death.. there's a stranger in my house
MsNicole505 6 months ago in playlist R&B/Spanish/Punk/ Soft Rock 3
@BabyLorV lol
heijegerthea 6 months ago
Tamia has a beautiful voice..
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justplayfm 6 months ago
Love her music!!!
MsLadyLove27 6 months ago
Love love this song! Loved dancing to the Remix at the Club also!
3lutz3toe 6 months ago
jacktown bitch
purpleaxxe 6 months ago
jacktown bitch
purpleaxxe 6 months ago
@BabyLorV When she says "he wouldnt touch me like that" and "And he wouldnt treat me like you do" she means the man that she knew wouldnt do those things, meaning he's changed....Now when she says "That the stranger is me" she means that maybe the man has been like that all along and shes changed and shes taking notice that he doesnt deserve her
hamco93 6 months ago 4
@BabyLorV is that a joke? -____-
thatBrittannyGirl 6 months ago
She could do better. Dig deeper T.
negrilsand 6 months ago
Grant Hill is a lucky man
jonnio33 6 months ago
love the eyebrow at 2:35 man she's gorgeous!!!
GGHBT 6 months ago
TOO UNDERRATEED! ..... <3 LOVE HER!!
kimnylotion 6 months ago
Tamia is one of the greatest vocalist =)
nadawadanada 6 months ago 2
This song made me realize i was in a bad relationship! LOVE IT!!!
jessiemac702 6 months ago
yep i got a stranger in my house and i dont do strangers so somebody gotta go!!!!
mstoyota 6 months ago
When you are with someone for so many years and it feels like a stranger is in your house maybe its time to let go. I know its hard because I can't let go of 5 years with this stranger in my house either
stupidme4u 6 months ago
I love this song the 1st time I play it.
Charmaine5390 6 months ago
this is how i feel sometimes with the man i lived with for ten years
lisbanmaria 6 months ago
love this song
TheSelena1231616 6 months ago
Deep song....Tamia has a lovely voice. A natural beauty. Another singer who is strangely under rated!!! Love this song and video.Wasn't she introduced by BabyFace??
HearNSee1 6 months ago
Tamia could sing!!!!
TheLilyrose21 6 months ago
i love dis song soooo much!!
mizzcutiepink21 6 months ago
great song...but does anyone else realize how unnecessary the bikini shots and partial nudity are...im just saying.
pria114 6 months ago 3
@pria114 I agree
TamilGyal 6 months ago
@pria114 This song would not have gotten any play if she didn't sell sex.
josbo51715 6 months ago
@josbo51715 what!!!! is that true really
maadkk 6 months ago
Respond to this video... i love this song
maadkk 6 months ago
kissed
breakingRVD 6 months ago
Pop quiz
Tell me where we first kissed
Tell me where my spot is
Tell me if I liked it, loved it
Or could it be
That the stranger is me
Have I changed so drastically?
Is it I want more for me?
And you remain the same
sazatulazura 6 months ago 127
i love this song....
sazatulazura 6 months ago
I would adore her, I wouldn't ignore her.
slplp3 6 months ago
I can't wait until someone creates a time machine.I would go back for quality artist and music alone!
MrPrincefuego 6 months ago in playlist memories 2
This takes me back to early secondary school days :)
aeromaximon 6 months ago
good song
prettylilliar2 7 months ago
She was underrated.
xMiLLY23 7 months ago
i was scared of this song when i was a child but now i love it
swagg6358 7 months ago
@swagg6358 LOL
misserica3434 7 months ago
tamia is great
cece831000 7 months ago
didi arafeli magas mariam akobias simgera mirchevnia :D:D :P:p
oto123451 7 months ago in playlist Lissen 2 Um!
thumbs up if she is a good singer
dramafree210 7 months ago 2
The 135 people who pressed the dislike button doesnt know what real music is!!!!