@CharlesFox im goth, but im a friend of real scene people, not so much emo, though. anyway, they accept me, and vise veresa, so its not all scene peoples fault.
thanks so much for posting! my dad thinks im becoming a satanist, which im not, and if i were the one posting this it would have been directed at my neighborhood, because they all misunderstand me.
every goth video i ever see is of two things. one....they defend being goth, and how they are real goths and other people arent or how emo isnt goth etc. ////if you have to defend it you are more than likely insecure about it or are trying to convince others your genuine, neither shows confidence in what you do reguardless of others.....the second thing is goth videos are all about the outfit or cute pose. which show a focus on the superficial and not true inner beauty.
Nicely done Seb - I gave the goth thing for awhile back when I was younger and enjoyed it a lot - I moved on from it. I ended up trading my soul for suits, cufflinks and the yuppy scene lol. Any way what I wanted to say is well done on this video it was nicely done and I think you are right more parents need to be educated on this.
This is just a question for anyone who could give an answer really. But how can I get my dad to realize that goths really AREN'T bad? Like... He's adamant to believe that all goths slit there wrists and worship Satan (I play Magic the Gathering. He saw my cards once and now believes I'm a Satanist). I just feel that no matter what I say, he won't listen to me (he's very stubborn and I guess you can say arrogant). So. Yeah. How can I get my dad to be more accepting? Any help is appreciated.Thanks
@SentientCenobite6 Have you got any friends or people you know who are gothic? My parents really calmed down after meeting a few of my friends who are similar to me, and are polite, well mannered and educated, not the goat sacrificing types they had previously believed them to be. That might help? x
@sarahfaerie1 It would if I actually had any gothic friends xD I have some, but none that I talk to on a regular basis. And one is an actual Satanist so that would be fairly counter productive. Haha. And he's very antisocial so bringing any friends home will just result in him sitting in his bedroom all day.
I find that Emo kids and Scene kids give Goths a bad name...Goths to me just have their own style in how they dress and they listen to a different kind of music..Emo/Scene kids are the ones who to me have emotional problems..slicing their wrists, into the drugs...they are depressed unhappy with themselves..Goths don't hate themselves they just dress different..
I dont agree with her i drink and will smoke a joint every once in a while and i have been suspended multiple times and i why would you ever lable your self? I do agree with the good grades but the only reson is so i can continue to play football. Although i am hated by my entiar team it does matter because i play cournerback, but this shows how judgment the " popular kids" are of how you look
i love black thts my wardrobe lol but i love poofy hair and bows with grapich tees and emo ehh thts hardeer to explain oooh btw @SebastianTheGirl whats tht doll in the bckground its preety
I didn't have time to watch the whole video and I don't have anything against Goths, but...
I have a question - being a teenager, being sad, silent, keeping away from most of the people, wearing black, having a strange haircut, having all these crazy gadgets on your body... that's how I imagine a goth, correct me if I'm wrong (I haven't ever met one, actually).
back to my question: what does a goth do when he grows up, when he realizes everything he did, all that young rebellion, was ridiculous?
@PlayerJackPL Goth to me is a lifestyle, and just having a love for the darker things in life that most people don't understand. I don't even consider myself a goth, I just like the music! "Young rebellion" doesn't have anything to do with it...
if a teenager is rebellious, well... that's their fault!
@PlayerJackPL Hell I'm not even grown up and I'm still pretty damn embarrassed of what I was like a year ago. Haha. Kids will be kids is the best way I can explain it. When you grow up and you're still into it, you'll look back at your life, laugh in some sort of shame, and maybe slap your head into the palm of your hand thinking, "What the hell was that?" I know I do that a lot. And I'm pretty sure a lot of people do that when looking back at the teen years, goth or not.
It all depends on the person. Voltaire's what, in his 30s? He won't deny being Goth. I guess you can say there's those people who have that "gothic phase" (mostly teenagers) but they grow out of it for some reason, and that's okay. High school is about discovering yourself right? But there are people who really love it and they feel comfortable with it and that's that. They'll laugh at their rebellious years, but they enjoy who they are and what they do.Isn't that what's important?
Ahh, my parents hate me for being Goth.. They're' like no you can't have a collar you're not an animal xD
They tell me to be myself and stuff everyone else but they hate me dressing Gothic :s They don't mind me wearing black skinys with those Spiral tops but stuff like Queen of Darkness they say is to far. Just because it's got a few holes in or you can see through it -.-
You say 'we' alot, Im evil and love drugs ;3 Lol jk,yer adorable and put out alot of good ass points;Im a goth but Im not the sterotypical one so I never get critisied on how I look since I just dress the way I feel and not to stamp "goth" on myself;My mother thinks its pretty awesome actually and it' like the opposite for me since my moms TRYING to get me goth related items and im against it xD
Wow this is just awesome. I love your message. When I turned emo my family had a really big problem with it and I just really wish I had of had this video to maybe show them. My mom actually finally came around to the idea of me being emo. The rest of my family was still a little cautious though. But anyway thank you for the video :)
thanks hun. That makes me feel good. I'm not goth, but I do have general issues with my family accepting my style, (lolita) they say I look like a little girl when I wear the clothes. Other people treat me like a slut. They are coming around though, thanks.
@VexensTrue I sympathize. I wear a tophat and eye makeup, a waist chain and a choker, and I get my share of grief in public. I ignore most of it, but now and then I will stare back and ask ask what their problem is. I'm sorry your parents feel that way, that's rough. Hang in there.
@altravemix May not mean much to you but there are a lot of kids and parents out there who want to get a point across. There are sooo many misconceptions and stereotypes about goths they're not true.
@zorbakpants2 its facist ... but not really, i would also be classed as alternative but if you're going to put yourself into a stereotype then everyone else is going to.
"the problem is you wear things not to express your individuality but you wear things that other goths wear so that people know your goth, like you want to be categorized and stereotyped, just like if you want people to know your a punk you get a mohawk or something"
Hay SebastianTheGirl i am a goth, but im a black goth and i had a horrible day everyone looks at me like im crazy because i wear goth maskes and i have no other goth friends to turn and talk to why does the world treat us goths like nothing...
@ElizabethTheCrazzy First off, why in the name of FUCK would you deliberately choose to label yourself as emo/scene? That's like calling yourself a turd. Also, why the FUCK would you go out of your way to comment on a Goth video? You do realize the labels you associate yourself with have totally fucking ruined Gothic subculture, right? I can't walk around in Goth clothing without being called emo anymore, which pisses me off. Your labels fucking SUCK.
@CharlesFox, Enough of that! Personally, i don't like to label myself. i am me! However, i think it's the same vice versa. saying "why in the name of FUCK would you deliberately choose to label yourself as emo/scene?" that's like someone being rude enough to say "why the FUCK are you Goth? That's stupid!" you wouldn't like that. you're labelling your self, as are scene and emo's. stop hating each other and show some respect?! everyone's different. Much love to all^_^
being "goth" im afraid my kids will grow out of the "dark" stage n as teenagers act out n do weird shit like wear plad n join the chess team! no seriously it keeps me up at night!
@xXPurplexNightmareXx You're making two faulty assumptions here. You assume I care about the direction that modern society has gone, and that I care what labels society wants to throw at me. You also assume I'm not stuck in the 80's, which I totally am. The point of Goth subculture is to deliberately go in the opposite direction of what is acceptable in normal society. You're completely missing that point.
@CharlesFox Okay, um, I like the gothic subculture, the dress, the music etc but if I wanted to be a goth, I'd be a baby bat. I personally think the gothic subculture is difficult to understand that's why I refer more to the emotive hardcore scene. I like goth more because it's an actually way of life and its something to be part of, not a trend like 'emo' and 'scene'.
@xXPurplexNightmareXx Hard to understand? Not really. Just wear black and hate everything, that's the basis of the subculture, when you boil it down. Not exactly rocket science. Although I agree with your basic assessment, which I read as "trends suck".
@CharlesFoxfirst of all, you are being a hypocrite by saying she is stupid by calling herself emo/scene... then you call yourself goth. please be more respectful of other people. also I hope you know goth isn't about wearing all black and hating everything.
@CRexSexyFan Just so you know, she is goth. People wearing 1/2 a gas mask dancing to rave is NOT goth. Its a different style all together. So you probably aren't goth, but something else entirely. Not saying its bad or anything, but it isn't gothic.
@CRexSexyFan u r an ass fuck u u didint even explain why shes a fail right u cant because u r only simply haiting! go be troll mother fucker some where else ps i dislike goth but she is right i am emo and i know she is right so shut the fuck up
when i was around 11 or 12 i tried to show more of myself as a goth to my parents....my dad called me a faggot and told me to get all the shit i was wearing off :(. then till now i have been hiding the mystery of who i really am.
lol i made my perents watch this even though there ok with me bing goth but i wish i could show it to some of my other friends perents cuz just like you one of my friends got her iPod take away and all her good music deleted from it because her dads a preacher and thinks Goth is just worshiping the devil so even though she want to she cant dress goth and express her style because her perents are stupid and don't take the time to know us goths they take one look and seem to just KNOW were bad wtf
my mom is a stereotype like tht she thinks all goths worship satan(sp?) and like when i had a goth boyfriend she asked if he worshiped the devil and kinda started making funny of him a lil
parents...try your bosses. The place I work for is banning me from wearing black or the makeup I favor because we are supposed to "approachable and trustworthy".. why does dye and pigment make me bad?
@iambonnieful To some people it's a full on lifestyle. And as much as you would like to trivialize it, I take the way I live my life seriously. @SebastianTheGirl You keep it up. You are acting as a positive role model. Thank you. I wish I had someone who was able to talk sensibly about the Goth lifestyle when I was a baby bat.
thank you im a baby bat and just starting out im in midel school and i have been haveing a hard time i live with my grandparents and who pull me away take everything away from me and i have good grades also never been in trouble no drugs no drinks ever and they been really rood i seem to be haveing a hard time and to top it all of i live where there are no goths im the only one in my town and school
can you make a video about why dying your hair colors is okay? my mom will not let me dye my hair red because of her hate of the alternative style... but i feel so terrible about myself looking like everyone else... she says its not good for my future career, but im going to be an artist.. it makes no sense.
Your doing nothing but perpetuating a stereotype. You could easily dress and act however you like and be 'you' instead of 'Goth'. The sub culture is completely irrelevant and has nothing to do with where it actually originated from. The people that actually dressed in Gothic attire (real goths, many years ago) did so because they were in deep mourning. A feeling many of today's Gothic tweens have never felt, only claiming to be Goth to make a fashion statement and rebel against their parents. GJ
I'm not a goth I'm not emo or what ever but you seems really cool and I think your cool for making this video dude you are so awesome it's totally amazing
Wow. You did great with the speech! :) Plus your really cute!! xD I'm just glad I can wear goth type clothes now. My Mom has no problem with it. She used to and we'd get in fights a LOT. :/ I dont know...I really think its because i fully dyed my hair blond. If it were pitch black...she'd probably have a fit. I just think it's so cool to be blond and wear that type of stuff.
i dont think goths have problems with their parrents.. the whole thing is with baby-bats.... when i was a baby bat... i was argueing with my parrents the whole day... .... but now.... about 2-3 years after they re supportive and... i dont know.... i think i helped them become more open minded.... my grades are super... i got my friends... i dont argue with my parrents anymore... and im happy with my life as a goth... :)
ok so sorry mimi for using ur utube thing but had to comment : okay this is an excelent video couse lots of people misunderstand gothisim and hell i'm all for it i love goth music and clothes unfortunetly were i liive it's almost impossible to find those things.
and though i've been told a gajillon times i'd be a good goth i've got a thing against waering a lot of black XDDDD soo i'm just messed up in the end.
but i still seriously love goths they are awsome people and an awsome culture.
People can be whom ever they want to be, whatever they want to be. I think parents should give their children a break about how they should dress. But, of course those children and some teens know what "over doing it" is. Goth people are no different then as other people say "Normal" people.. <3 Also, you're pretty! :D
I'm really curious as to how a person becomes a goth. Like what are the characteristics of one? I'm not goth but ive really gotten into wanting to know how people come to wanting to look goth or scene or whatever. If someone can answer my question that'd be great cuz I want to be more open and aware of these things cuz there r virtually no goths that I know of anywhere around me, so I'm not that used to it :/
@addieaquarius When I was younger I went through an extremely traumatic experience and I was searching for something, anything to get rid of pain. Then I found out about "Goths" It seemed to me it was the best way to get rid of this pain. Why not dwell in it? I never took up the gothic look. I hung around them and still relate to their look to this very day. But I have absolutely no urge to make myself look like they do. It's a self image thing. I am me. Why would you categorize yourself?
There is alot of information on the internet about the goth scene..Youtube has lots of gothmusic ,ie sisters of mercy ,The cure, Siouxsie and the banshees,The mission.I am a goth female, i got into the scene by listening to the goth music, The cure were my favourite and Robert smith.Then i gradually listenened to more goth music,going to gothclubs,gigs.Dyeing my hair red, then black and wearing goth clothing,Corsets..hope this answers your question:)
im really into heavy metal music but i dont need to wear combat boots, chain wallets, and leather jackets because other "metal heads'' do and so others know i like metal, you dont need to express who you are through what you look like, but if just really like wearing black all the time thats cool, just do what you do for the right reasons not so that people know what you want to be represented as... i think you are a beautiful young girl and would still be that even with out all the make up:)
i think you seem like a good kid but the problem is you wear things not to express your individuality but you wear things that other goths wear so that people know your goth, like you want to be categorized and stereotyped, just like if you want people to know your a punk you get a mohawk or something like that.parents call these situations phases, but i see see it as a kid on ajourney trying to find out who they are.You dont need to classify your self or belong to a certain group like goths.
I appriciate that someone was nice enough to try and talk to parents about Goth,my parents are fairly accepting but since my mom was preppyish in high school and continued to be,we don't always see eye to eye but we can still compromise with each other and talk to each other like respectful adults.I'm 21,have been Goth for almost 5 years now and my mom I think is accepting that for me at least this isn't a phase.I've seen parents be strict about how their child is and it just makes things worse.
I hate the goth stereotype. Goths are good people. I'm friends with some goths and they are one of the nicest people I know. The only thing different about them is their view on life, then again everyone has a different view on life.
i really wanna dress you up in cute colored clothes, and put maybe a blonde of brown curly wig on you, do your makeup natural just to see how you'd look. I cant stop thinking about it as i watch your video, do you ever want to dress differently? But feel like people would judge you because theyre so used to seeing you this way? I used to feel that way when i dressed really emo/scene. Now I'm just me, not saying you arent being yourself, hope you understand what im meaning by this.
LOL one more thing PUNK? Girl, google punk it means bad. Fucks sake. . "cartoons portray punks and goths as bad" two different things get your shit straight.
@SebastianTheGirl YOU need to realize that everyone is different so you can't go around saying "most of us.," and as much I really don't care you were being really rude "I know those cheerleader, football type..and they're like aneroxic and are bad,"truly it's a good laugh. We get it your GOTH and you don't do shit cause you're a loner and refuse to be "normal" when in reality isn't that how 'cheerleader football' type feel that they're not normal either?Enough videos telling us how goth you are
Besides that of what I said. I'm not quite even what you'd called Gothic. I wear white as much, even more than I wear black. But then again, I'm just Monochromatic that way and stick to wearing white and black. No makeup for me. Not at all, and I still agree with this video. No. She's not Generalizing and Labeling people. She's giving out examples of what it's like through her own perspective AS a Goth. Is that a big deal? No not really. At least to me. But if it is to you then you should go.
Summary of the Video: Just because someone looks different i.e: Gothic, Visual Kei, or in Any way different from other society, doesn't always mean that they are bad people. It's rude, inconsiderate, and stereotypical of parents or other adults that criticize people of being that way. Just because you are intimidated or cannot understand the way someone is, does not mean you need to shun them or disrespect them in any way. If it bothers you so much, go talk to them yourselves and see yourself.
I think that maybe, goth isnt a necessary term to describe you, or anyyone else you think may be like you, in some way. I think your inspirational, yes, but i also think you may be intruding at this point. The way you look...is beautiful, in its own way..and isnt everyone.Everyone has their definition. But their parents, are nothing compared to what they wish to be. This is AMERICA..and for how mainstream and degrading, we are all doomed/faced with ourselves. Your beautiful.
This is a good video, but don't label people. Being goth is a lifestyle, and it is wrong for people to be stereotipic about it just because you wear and look dark. Most goth kids do seem to act depressed, simply because they feel they don't fit in in the first place......
yes goth is a lifestyle.I am a goth, been into the scene a long time.I do not know any goths who act depressed.The Emo culture has a reputation for this which is not helpful to the alternative scene, emo and goth are not the same thing.This is another stereotype of goths ,that we are all depressed .We are Not.Wearing black clothes does not mean your depressed, goth clothing is an image its a fashion.Where as Depression is a serious mental health condition.
@JamesonLemonade are you a satanist? And tbh; I think the stupidest thing I've ever read was the satanic bible. No offense to you, if you are and follow Anton.
BUT LMAO IKR that's the reason I looked like a scene kid for years xD 14. Best age of them all. 15, better and yeah xD
How judgemental!That is a incorrect stereotype. No Goths are NOT Satanists.Sick of people assuming this about goths.I get this all the time as a Goth..Goth fashion is we wear blackclothes, it is a Fashion, a style.It has nothing what so ever to do with religion.Goths can be any religion, its not affliated with a religion, and its not a cult.It is self expression.
exactally. im goth, but im nice. i dont do good in school, cause i have ADHD. but ive never done drugs. never got introuble with the law. but yeah, theres more football players that does drugs than goths. i dont know a goth that does/did drugs. i know several football players that did or still does drugs. im afraid to say this. but true satanist dont do sacrifice. or harm animals. we follow the law (yes, im a satanist) the christians and jews push on that picture of a satanist. its about evil
You sound nervous, and it's kind of cute and such. I have a love for everything goth and I seriously love the culture and style. I own a few pieces of what some call goth clothing, but I freak people out when I go from Jeans that fit me with a System of a Down shirt to being decked-out in Tripp clothes here and there.
At first my parents didn't mind, well first it was an fetish for NBC movie untill I went to a restaurant and got one dirty look. All because I had on stripped gloves, a NBC purse and a black shirt. My parents went to a strict dress code. No black at all, it was terrible, I wanted it even more. I wasn't emo or goth, I just loved the theme. I've been battling ever since. My grandma got me knee-high purple converses and they went off. I even took a survey of 50 kids at school and all if them agree
I'm not goth. I'm pretty much just death/black metal, but my parents we're still against it at first. But then they realized that my behavior and my grades weren't affected by the music or the clothing, and i wasn't a trouble maker at all. Just assure them that you're still the same person.
If I had to guess at what the goth lifestyle should be (this is me speculating), it would be one of inquiry, skepticism and intellectual pursuit, not just saying, "oh! we are little goodie-gum-drops that conform to the values of kids from the 50s! Golly gosh darn!"
I agree with your point about talking to parents, but if you see that religion is horribly flawed or that a new fashion is the bees knees, learn how to debate, following the logical fallacies and go with that :)
What's wrong with Satanism? I mean conceptually if a guy came to town and said he was God or Jesus, would you believe him/her? How about Satan? Even traditional and mainstream churches that worship God believe in horribly repressive things. Look at the rules of LaVeyan Satanism and I'm sure most people would agree they make more sense than Christian rules.
Drugs are also not all evil. Many can be used medically under certain conditions and moderate use can be beneficial.
thank you so much for making this... I'm not goth, but im defiantly not normal either... This videos gives me some hope though... Thank you so much...
You're really pretty, and while I support the Goth look, I think it can be toned down a bit as necessary. Like, if you're going out to a store or something. There are ways to dress to suit your interests, while still being subtle with it. :)
my mother liked it at the beginning because she remembert how she tried things out when she was young. but after several years she often says i shouldnt always wear black.. ^^
my father is not interestet and never asks. but not in a bad way, he just accepts me the way i am. maybe he doesnt notice xD
i don't understand why would u want to look like that , unless its halloween. Do you guys at least try to explain your parents about whats going on? Still...i think teenagers should not try to look goth.....The way this girl looks, should be the furthest a person should go ...if you do more...like paint your face more in black and pierce your face....that's just stupid...its not beautiful , its ugly... If you are doing this because you have a problem, then you are doin the wrong thing.
@RSVDCN who are you to fricking say that? i'm not goth, but yes, i have a very punk look. many people i know and love are goth, however and they are perfectly good kids. and did you not see n her other freaking video?? she saaid: I DO THIS BECAUSE IT IS THE WAY I FEEL BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who the heck are ho to bash her confidence like that? if we all elt beautiful by wearing a dead fish on out head then SO BE IT. If your best friend felt beautiful by dressing up like they were from
(cont.) the late 1700's then SHUT UP AND LET THEM.SUPPORT THEM NO MATTER WHAT. if it makes you happy then do it and go on with your life! stop being a jerk and just GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Have a good day now. BYE.
@123abcLizzie sorry if i offended you. Its just my opinion about the goth look, and yes, i can say what i want, cause its free speech, i can state my opinion here even if you don't like it. But that's not what matters here. I commented in another video of her, the one with the makeup, where you can see her face and i mentioned that she look more beautiful without it. I'm not here to offend people, thou you still seem to believe that.....even thou there are others who actually hate without reason
I just found you and your videos. And I am in love with you.
MikaKnarkare 5 hours ago
im goth i do drugz
C0ll1txcore 1 day ago
ur so g0th
C0ll1txcore 1 day ago
" I can't walk around in Goth clothing without being called emo anymore"
C0ll1txcore 1 day ago
i think everyone should be ready to be looked at oddly sometimes.
i know i am, and not usually because of how i look, since i dont wear any makeup at all or anything, but because i act crazy sometiems.
ppl arent ready for that
redbird8899 1 day ago
you're right
the "popular" kids, normally, are the "bad" kids.
not all, but you gotta be careful around everyone.
you cant just avoid someone cuz of their image.....
this is why parents need to accept their kids for who they are. if you teach ur kid to be strong they'll be fine
redbird8899 1 day ago
@CharlesFox im goth, but im a friend of real scene people, not so much emo, though. anyway, they accept me, and vise veresa, so its not all scene peoples fault.
HannahIsHaunted 1 day ago
thanks so much for posting! my dad thinks im becoming a satanist, which im not, and if i were the one posting this it would have been directed at my neighborhood, because they all misunderstand me.
HannahIsHaunted 1 day ago
every goth video i ever see is of two things. one....they defend being goth, and how they are real goths and other people arent or how emo isnt goth etc. ////if you have to defend it you are more than likely insecure about it or are trying to convince others your genuine, neither shows confidence in what you do reguardless of others.....the second thing is goth videos are all about the outfit or cute pose. which show a focus on the superficial and not true inner beauty.
toolerloot 2 days ago
Nicely done Seb - I gave the goth thing for awhile back when I was younger and enjoyed it a lot - I moved on from it. I ended up trading my soul for suits, cufflinks and the yuppy scene lol. Any way what I wanted to say is well done on this video it was nicely done and I think you are right more parents need to be educated on this.
Daintao 2 days ago
i dont do drugs either <3 im a goth. and yes im just like you haha :D good grades, no trouble, and nice :D
MrPopbottle7 2 days ago
This is just a question for anyone who could give an answer really. But how can I get my dad to realize that goths really AREN'T bad? Like... He's adamant to believe that all goths slit there wrists and worship Satan (I play Magic the Gathering. He saw my cards once and now believes I'm a Satanist). I just feel that no matter what I say, he won't listen to me (he's very stubborn and I guess you can say arrogant). So. Yeah. How can I get my dad to be more accepting? Any help is appreciated.Thanks
SentientCenobite6 3 days ago
@SentientCenobite6 Have you got any friends or people you know who are gothic? My parents really calmed down after meeting a few of my friends who are similar to me, and are polite, well mannered and educated, not the goat sacrificing types they had previously believed them to be. That might help? x
sarahfaerie1 3 days ago
@sarahfaerie1 It would if I actually had any gothic friends xD I have some, but none that I talk to on a regular basis. And one is an actual Satanist so that would be fairly counter productive. Haha. And he's very antisocial so bringing any friends home will just result in him sitting in his bedroom all day.
SentientCenobite6 3 days ago
"Dark Side people"...BLAH! There's more horror going on in a board or conference room than a haunted house these days...
Crazcompart 5 days ago
I find that Emo kids and Scene kids give Goths a bad name...Goths to me just have their own style in how they dress and they listen to a different kind of music..Emo/Scene kids are the ones who to me have emotional problems..slicing their wrists, into the drugs...they are depressed unhappy with themselves..Goths don't hate themselves they just dress different..
amaramichelle 6 days ago
I dont agree with her i drink and will smoke a joint every once in a while and i have been suspended multiple times and i why would you ever lable your self? I do agree with the good grades but the only reson is so i can continue to play football. Although i am hated by my entiar team it does matter because i play cournerback, but this shows how judgment the " popular kids" are of how you look
1The1stPredator 6 days ago
I don't do drugs either haha=]
TheDeadhead22 1 week ago
my mom took away my makeup :l
jasiragusa 1 week ago
dont cry girl its ok :)
bizou154 1 week ago
i love the necklace
bc13screams 1 week ago
im a mixture of scene/goth/emo
i love black thts my wardrobe lol but i love poofy hair and bows with grapich tees and emo ehh thts hardeer to explain oooh btw @SebastianTheGirl whats tht doll in the bckground its preety
coolgirl703 1 week ago
YOUR ALL FAGGOTS.
TeenagePredator 1 week ago
@TeenagePredator dude your username is TeenagePredator, just stop now before you embarass yourself
themadhatter10771 1 week ago 4
@TeenagePredator you also have very bad grammar ._..
TheTomatoFeet 1 week ago
I didn't have time to watch the whole video and I don't have anything against Goths, but...
I have a question - being a teenager, being sad, silent, keeping away from most of the people, wearing black, having a strange haircut, having all these crazy gadgets on your body... that's how I imagine a goth, correct me if I'm wrong (I haven't ever met one, actually).
back to my question: what does a goth do when he grows up, when he realizes everything he did, all that young rebellion, was ridiculous?
PlayerJackPL 1 week ago
@PlayerJackPL Goth to me is a lifestyle, and just having a love for the darker things in life that most people don't understand. I don't even consider myself a goth, I just like the music! "Young rebellion" doesn't have anything to do with it...
if a teenager is rebellious, well... that's their fault!
katieebelleful 1 week ago
@PlayerJackPL Hell I'm not even grown up and I'm still pretty damn embarrassed of what I was like a year ago. Haha. Kids will be kids is the best way I can explain it. When you grow up and you're still into it, you'll look back at your life, laugh in some sort of shame, and maybe slap your head into the palm of your hand thinking, "What the hell was that?" I know I do that a lot. And I'm pretty sure a lot of people do that when looking back at the teen years, goth or not.
SentientCenobite6 3 days ago 2
@SentientCenobite6 Thank you very much for that answer ;)
I gotta say I respect goth culture, mostly Voltaire - this man is a genius!
...but still, it kinda seems like a teenage-breakout-thingy.
PlayerJackPL 3 days ago
It all depends on the person. Voltaire's what, in his 30s? He won't deny being Goth. I guess you can say there's those people who have that "gothic phase" (mostly teenagers) but they grow out of it for some reason, and that's okay. High school is about discovering yourself right? But there are people who really love it and they feel comfortable with it and that's that. They'll laugh at their rebellious years, but they enjoy who they are and what they do.Isn't that what's important?
SentientCenobite6 3 days ago
@SentientCenobite6 Amen.
PlayerJackPL 2 days ago
fucking posers
CrusaderPRT 2 weeks ago
Goth people are the sexiest looking people ever
XxArjaypheonixxX 2 weeks ago
@XxArjaypheonixxX Indeed! i myself look like a "normal person", but i have a secret obsession with gothic stlye.
MasterNinja1250 1 week ago
plz read about islam you will love it
HendMakeup 2 weeks ago
Ahh, my parents hate me for being Goth.. They're' like no you can't have a collar you're not an animal xD
They tell me to be myself and stuff everyone else but they hate me dressing Gothic :s They don't mind me wearing black skinys with those Spiral tops but stuff like Queen of Darkness they say is to far. Just because it's got a few holes in or you can see through it -.-
MindSeeR666 2 weeks ago
You say 'we' alot, Im evil and love drugs ;3 Lol jk,yer adorable and put out alot of good ass points;Im a goth but Im not the sterotypical one so I never get critisied on how I look since I just dress the way I feel and not to stamp "goth" on myself;My mother thinks its pretty awesome actually and it' like the opposite for me since my moms TRYING to get me goth related items and im against it xD
millianne55 2 weeks ago
With your hair like that you look a bit like a kitten.
1966Daywalker 2 weeks ago
Wow this is just awesome. I love your message. When I turned emo my family had a really big problem with it and I just really wish I had of had this video to maybe show them. My mom actually finally came around to the idea of me being emo. The rest of my family was still a little cautious though. But anyway thank you for the video :)
zombievampire1 2 weeks ago
Don't know what to say about this. It seems you just read my mind and recorded this video :3
Congrats ^^ Love the way you see the worl
germanye94 2 weeks ago
my grandad was thrilled when he found out I was a goth XD
waxwingeddemon4 3 weeks ago
@waxwingeddemon4 You grandpa is a cool dude.
greenghost2008 2 weeks ago 7
@greenghost2008 that he is ^_^
waxwingeddemon4 2 weeks ago
great message. i hate it when parents automatically rule you out on your friends "friend" list, its frustrating
PhoenixGrimwald 3 weeks ago
thanks hun. That makes me feel good. I'm not goth, but I do have general issues with my family accepting my style, (lolita) they say I look like a little girl when I wear the clothes. Other people treat me like a slut. They are coming around though, thanks.
VexensTrue 3 weeks ago
@VexensTrue I sympathize. I wear a tophat and eye makeup, a waist chain and a choker, and I get my share of grief in public. I ignore most of it, but now and then I will stare back and ask ask what their problem is. I'm sorry your parents feel that way, that's rough. Hang in there.
1966Daywalker 2 weeks ago
goths are normal people just like all of you so stfu!!!
GothicHauta 3 weeks ago
i'm amazed you that you managed to talk absolute nonsense for 9:43
altravemix 3 weeks ago
@altravemix May not mean much to you but there are a lot of kids and parents out there who want to get a point across. There are sooo many misconceptions and stereotypes about goths they're not true.
rayuelarcaica 3 weeks ago
@altravemix fascist
zorbakpants2 3 weeks ago
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@zorbakpants2 its facist ... but not really, i would also be classed as alternative but if you're going to put yourself into a stereotype then everyone else is going to.
to quote @KingDaaan666 cos he got it spot on:
"the problem is you wear things not to express your individuality but you wear things that other goths wear so that people know your goth, like you want to be categorized and stereotyped, just like if you want people to know your a punk you get a mohawk or something"
altravemix 3 weeks ago
you cant blame parents for reacting to stereotypical prejudice?
TrueLiar80 3 weeks ago
the doll. in the background. what is it and where can i get one?
theythinkimcrazy 3 weeks ago
Hay SebastianTheGirl i am a goth, but im a black goth and i had a horrible day everyone looks at me like im crazy because i wear goth maskes and i have no other goth friends to turn and talk to why does the world treat us goths like nothing...
gothik226 3 weeks ago
^-^ I love how you express how you feel and show the world what goths really are ^-^ xx
Loziemoo89 3 weeks ago
@ElizabethTheCrazzy First off, why in the name of FUCK would you deliberately choose to label yourself as emo/scene? That's like calling yourself a turd. Also, why the FUCK would you go out of your way to comment on a Goth video? You do realize the labels you associate yourself with have totally fucking ruined Gothic subculture, right? I can't walk around in Goth clothing without being called emo anymore, which pisses me off. Your labels fucking SUCK.
CharlesFox 3 weeks ago 25
@CharlesFox UMAD?!
MyNameIsGirll 1 week ago
@CharlesFox, Enough of that! Personally, i don't like to label myself. i am me! However, i think it's the same vice versa. saying "why in the name of FUCK would you deliberately choose to label yourself as emo/scene?" that's like someone being rude enough to say "why the FUCK are you Goth? That's stupid!" you wouldn't like that. you're labelling your self, as are scene and emo's. stop hating each other and show some respect?! everyone's different. Much love to all^_^
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HollieeMassacre 1 week ago
@CharlesFox Emos and scenes did not ruin goth subculture, society not fully understanding the differences between the three ruined it.
RoseNinaful 2 days ago
being "goth" im afraid my kids will grow out of the "dark" stage n as teenagers act out n do weird shit like wear plad n join the chess team! no seriously it keeps me up at night!
lilpixxxie 3 weeks ago
Thankyou for this
disorderleigh 3 weeks ago
I really feel you 3
ScreamBrie 3 weeks ago
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xXPurplexNightmareXx 3 weeks ago
@xXPurplexNightmareXx You're making two faulty assumptions here. You assume I care about the direction that modern society has gone, and that I care what labels society wants to throw at me. You also assume I'm not stuck in the 80's, which I totally am. The point of Goth subculture is to deliberately go in the opposite direction of what is acceptable in normal society. You're completely missing that point.
CharlesFox 3 weeks ago
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xXPurplexNightmareXx 3 weeks ago
@CharlesFox Okay, um, I like the gothic subculture, the dress, the music etc but if I wanted to be a goth, I'd be a baby bat. I personally think the gothic subculture is difficult to understand that's why I refer more to the emotive hardcore scene. I like goth more because it's an actually way of life and its something to be part of, not a trend like 'emo' and 'scene'.
xXPurplexNightmareXx 3 weeks ago
@xXPurplexNightmareXx Hard to understand? Not really. Just wear black and hate everything, that's the basis of the subculture, when you boil it down. Not exactly rocket science. Although I agree with your basic assessment, which I read as "trends suck".
CharlesFox 3 weeks ago
@CharlesFox Yeah and you said it yourself what I want to say to the girl who is calling herself emo/scene :L
xXPurplexNightmareXx 3 weeks ago
@CharlesFoxfirst of all, you are being a hypocrite by saying she is stupid by calling herself emo/scene... then you call yourself goth. please be more respectful of other people. also I hope you know goth isn't about wearing all black and hating everything.
EsterElmer 1 week ago
Nicely put :)
missknivesandpens 3 weeks ago
FAIL!! U suck at being goth! stupid girl u dont know gothic
CRexSexyFan 4 weeks ago
@CRexSexyFan she clearly does, i mean look at her, she is the perfect example of a goth, and i love her for that
j4niform 4 weeks ago
@CRexSexyFan Just so you know, she is goth. People wearing 1/2 a gas mask dancing to rave is NOT goth. Its a different style all together. So you probably aren't goth, but something else entirely. Not saying its bad or anything, but it isn't gothic.
loljokesimdumbledore 3 weeks ago
@CRexSexyFan u r an ass fuck u u didint even explain why shes a fail right u cant because u r only simply haiting! go be troll mother fucker some where else ps i dislike goth but she is right i am emo and i know she is right so shut the fuck up
101straightUp 3 weeks ago
@CRexSexyFan like seriousely stfu if u dont have something smart to say
101straightUp 3 weeks ago
when i was around 11 or 12 i tried to show more of myself as a goth to my parents....my dad called me a faggot and told me to get all the shit i was wearing off :(. then till now i have been hiding the mystery of who i really am.
SHROOMST3R 4 weeks ago
@SHROOMST3R i feel you so deeply
Princesshadowknight 4 weeks ago
Ill convense my parents also but im also emo
TheJarquin25 4 weeks ago
@TheJarquin25 Emo is imaginary, unicorns are real.
SheebyWeeby13 4 weeks ago
Breeze.
biogenesisx 1 month ago
Amazing. Your face actually looks symmetrical.
1355steveo 1 month ago
my parents dont believe in making deals.. =(
GothSmogg 1 month ago
if you take everything away from some one, ur taking away their personality..
GothSmogg 1 month ago
GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY
a89dc 1 month ago
I like the doll in the background :)
SuperRandom1girl 1 month ago
Nty. But gothic toys are great. So I buy them. ._.
TheIrkenBrittany 1 month ago
I agree and I'm so gonna use this video to convince my parents to convince my parents that I'm normal really, just my gothic normal
PassionateAndFallen 1 month ago
Lmfao labeling
Sasukegrl12 1 month ago
for some reason every time I see your videos... I want to get you a smoothie. .-)
But no I agree. Some of the nicest people I've met were Goth so I don't really mind it at all and neither should parents. .-P
TakedaRaito 1 month ago
lol i made my perents watch this even though there ok with me bing goth but i wish i could show it to some of my other friends perents cuz just like you one of my friends got her iPod take away and all her good music deleted from it because her dads a preacher and thinks Goth is just worshiping the devil so even though she want to she cant dress goth and express her style because her perents are stupid and don't take the time to know us goths they take one look and seem to just KNOW were bad wtf
DeadRosesAnDarkMusic 1 month ago
You look like Kitty from Mindless Self Inudlgence :D (That's a compliment)
TheOrangeMickey 1 month ago
my mom is a stereotype like tht she thinks all goths worship satan(sp?) and like when i had a goth boyfriend she asked if he worshiped the devil and kinda started making funny of him a lil
Ticklenose24 1 month ago
Absolutely dear~
fluffythewulf257 1 month ago
You look like a Miley Cyrus.. sorry xd I don't know why XD
Hambar7 1 month ago
parents...try your bosses. The place I work for is banning me from wearing black or the makeup I favor because we are supposed to "approachable and trustworthy".. why does dye and pigment make me bad?
sallypoe 1 month ago
Well to me, goth is being taken way to seriously. Both teenagers and adults need to shut the fuck up. Its a style & interest nothing more.
iambonnieful 1 month ago
@iambonnieful To some people it's a full on lifestyle. And as much as you would like to trivialize it, I take the way I live my life seriously. @SebastianTheGirl You keep it up. You are acting as a positive role model. Thank you. I wish I had someone who was able to talk sensibly about the Goth lifestyle when I was a baby bat.
NVLaroux 1 month ago
thank you im a baby bat and just starting out im in midel school and i have been haveing a hard time i live with my grandparents and who pull me away take everything away from me and i have good grades also never been in trouble no drugs no drinks ever and they been really rood i seem to be haveing a hard time and to top it all of i live where there are no goths im the only one in my town and school
ravenvampier244 1 month ago in playlist Goth inspired..!!
can you make a video about why dying your hair colors is okay? my mom will not let me dye my hair red because of her hate of the alternative style... but i feel so terrible about myself looking like everyone else... she says its not good for my future career, but im going to be an artist.. it makes no sense.
baboopeanut 1 month ago
Your doing nothing but perpetuating a stereotype. You could easily dress and act however you like and be 'you' instead of 'Goth'. The sub culture is completely irrelevant and has nothing to do with where it actually originated from. The people that actually dressed in Gothic attire (real goths, many years ago) did so because they were in deep mourning. A feeling many of today's Gothic tweens have never felt, only claiming to be Goth to make a fashion statement and rebel against their parents. GJ
alessaapathy 1 month ago
Huh? Why am I here?
Chinatownsoverseer 1 month ago
My friend is goth and she say being goth is being okay with wearing all black not all those styro types.
WikedAgentLoser 1 month ago
I'm not a goth I'm not emo or what ever but you seems really cool and I think your cool for making this video dude you are so awesome it's totally amazing
lacey1996 1 month ago
@SebastianTheGirl
first of all- Marry me, yes, I'm a chick xD
Second- I watch Disney Channel with my little sister, and they make fun of goth, emo and hipster people all the time.
XBreakfallX 1 month ago
Goths and Emo's have feelings and souls. It's just those damn gingers xD
boatonhana 1 month ago 29
@boatonhana gothic emos life the the girl gothic thanks for esintence
MsStraightedgelife 2 weeks ago
My parents are pretty cool about the fact that I'm a goth :D
WickedThePureEvil 1 month ago
I'm goth and now I am a parent. All of my kids' friends are surprised some how about how supportive we are with subcultures.
scottcain20051 1 month ago
any time i see her user name i think or black butler grell roxx
gothgothgoth123 1 month ago 35
@gothgothgoth123 I LOVE the Undertaker!
batinthebelltower 1 month ago
I'm not a goth, but I might show this to my mum anyway. :D
LucyWithAnUmlaut 1 month ago
I have bad grades but not cuzz im goth
justicecarlone 1 month ago
My mom wont let me die my hair until February 9th!!!!! I need my purple hair!!
justicecarlone 1 month ago
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MrDukeecw 1 month ago
Wow. You did great with the speech! :) Plus your really cute!! xD I'm just glad I can wear goth type clothes now. My Mom has no problem with it. She used to and we'd get in fights a LOT. :/ I dont know...I really think its because i fully dyed my hair blond. If it were pitch black...she'd probably have a fit. I just think it's so cool to be blond and wear that type of stuff.
AngelofTime02 1 month ago
i dont think goths have problems with their parrents.. the whole thing is with baby-bats.... when i was a baby bat... i was argueing with my parrents the whole day... .... but now.... about 2-3 years after they re supportive and... i dont know.... i think i helped them become more open minded.... my grades are super... i got my friends... i dont argue with my parrents anymore... and im happy with my life as a goth... :)
emptynes61 1 month ago
ok so sorry mimi for using ur utube thing but had to comment : okay this is an excelent video couse lots of people misunderstand gothisim and hell i'm all for it i love goth music and clothes unfortunetly were i liive it's almost impossible to find those things.
and though i've been told a gajillon times i'd be a good goth i've got a thing against waering a lot of black XDDDD soo i'm just messed up in the end.
but i still seriously love goths they are awsome people and an awsome culture.
SerenadeOfWather123 1 month ago
People can be whom ever they want to be, whatever they want to be. I think parents should give their children a break about how they should dress. But, of course those children and some teens know what "over doing it" is. Goth people are no different then as other people say "Normal" people.. <3 Also, you're pretty! :D
egioescandon1 1 month ago
Is that a Dal in the backround?
Btw you have pretty eyes :)
animeandluv 1 month ago
Goth isn't nothing related to this shit!
CrusaderPRT 1 month ago
Your voice and facial expression look like Pam from The Office.
Rubybookify 1 month ago
I'm really curious as to how a person becomes a goth. Like what are the characteristics of one? I'm not goth but ive really gotten into wanting to know how people come to wanting to look goth or scene or whatever. If someone can answer my question that'd be great cuz I want to be more open and aware of these things cuz there r virtually no goths that I know of anywhere around me, so I'm not that used to it :/
addieaquarius 1 month ago
@addieaquarius When I was younger I went through an extremely traumatic experience and I was searching for something, anything to get rid of pain. Then I found out about "Goths" It seemed to me it was the best way to get rid of this pain. Why not dwell in it? I never took up the gothic look. I hung around them and still relate to their look to this very day. But I have absolutely no urge to make myself look like they do. It's a self image thing. I am me. Why would you categorize yourself?
upelt 1 month ago
There is alot of information on the internet about the goth scene..Youtube has lots of gothmusic ,ie sisters of mercy ,The cure, Siouxsie and the banshees,The mission.I am a goth female, i got into the scene by listening to the goth music, The cure were my favourite and Robert smith.Then i gradually listenened to more goth music,going to gothclubs,gigs.Dyeing my hair red, then black and wearing goth clothing,Corsets..hope this answers your question:)
LadyofSharlot 1 month ago
im really into heavy metal music but i dont need to wear combat boots, chain wallets, and leather jackets because other "metal heads'' do and so others know i like metal, you dont need to express who you are through what you look like, but if just really like wearing black all the time thats cool, just do what you do for the right reasons not so that people know what you want to be represented as... i think you are a beautiful young girl and would still be that even with out all the make up:)
KingDaaan666 1 month ago
i think you seem like a good kid but the problem is you wear things not to express your individuality but you wear things that other goths wear so that people know your goth, like you want to be categorized and stereotyped, just like if you want people to know your a punk you get a mohawk or something like that.parents call these situations phases, but i see see it as a kid on ajourney trying to find out who they are.You dont need to classify your self or belong to a certain group like goths.
KingDaaan666 1 month ago
I appriciate that someone was nice enough to try and talk to parents about Goth,my parents are fairly accepting but since my mom was preppyish in high school and continued to be,we don't always see eye to eye but we can still compromise with each other and talk to each other like respectful adults.I'm 21,have been Goth for almost 5 years now and my mom I think is accepting that for me at least this isn't a phase.I've seen parents be strict about how their child is and it just makes things worse.
shady22necol 1 month ago
you should do a video of other looks like scene, punk or emo becuase i like the scene look
daCOONERS 1 month ago
I was born a goth, came out of the room and was covered in makeup. *sarcasm
MsBobeesha 1 month ago
You REALLY seem to believe that all "goths" are exactly like you.
ScreamingBabies1 1 month ago
I love how your makeup makes your face look super expressive.
xariltngraxe 1 month ago 31
I hate the goth stereotype. Goths are good people. I'm friends with some goths and they are one of the nicest people I know. The only thing different about them is their view on life, then again everyone has a different view on life.
Linlee1000 1 month ago
the thing i used to tell disgruntled parents was "if the worst thing your child is doing is wearing a lot of black, crap you've got some good kids."
missXmarie0990 1 month ago
i really wanna dress you up in cute colored clothes, and put maybe a blonde of brown curly wig on you, do your makeup natural just to see how you'd look. I cant stop thinking about it as i watch your video, do you ever want to dress differently? But feel like people would judge you because theyre so used to seeing you this way? I used to feel that way when i dressed really emo/scene. Now I'm just me, not saying you arent being yourself, hope you understand what im meaning by this.
leetledanigirl 1 month ago
LOL one more thing PUNK? Girl, google punk it means bad. Fucks sake. . "cartoons portray punks and goths as bad" two different things get your shit straight.
IsCedar 1 month ago
@SebastianTheGirl YOU need to realize that everyone is different so you can't go around saying "most of us.," and as much I really don't care you were being really rude "I know those cheerleader, football type..and they're like aneroxic and are bad,"truly it's a good laugh. We get it your GOTH and you don't do shit cause you're a loner and refuse to be "normal" when in reality isn't that how 'cheerleader football' type feel that they're not normal either?Enough videos telling us how goth you are
IsCedar 1 month ago
Besides that of what I said. I'm not quite even what you'd called Gothic. I wear white as much, even more than I wear black. But then again, I'm just Monochromatic that way and stick to wearing white and black. No makeup for me. Not at all, and I still agree with this video. No. She's not Generalizing and Labeling people. She's giving out examples of what it's like through her own perspective AS a Goth. Is that a big deal? No not really. At least to me. But if it is to you then you should go.
Scarletdropper99 1 month ago
Summary of the Video: Just because someone looks different i.e: Gothic, Visual Kei, or in Any way different from other society, doesn't always mean that they are bad people. It's rude, inconsiderate, and stereotypical of parents or other adults that criticize people of being that way. Just because you are intimidated or cannot understand the way someone is, does not mean you need to shun them or disrespect them in any way. If it bothers you so much, go talk to them yourselves and see yourself.
Scarletdropper99 1 month ago
I think that maybe, goth isnt a necessary term to describe you, or anyyone else you think may be like you, in some way. I think your inspirational, yes, but i also think you may be intruding at this point. The way you look...is beautiful, in its own way..and isnt everyone.Everyone has their definition. But their parents, are nothing compared to what they wish to be. This is AMERICA..and for how mainstream and degrading, we are all doomed/faced with ourselves. Your beautiful.
jazzr03 1 month ago
@jazzr03 I think she chooses to call herself a Goth because she's proud of it... More to it than the state of dress ya know.
LiesBehindMirrors 1 month ago
yall look weird :l
Cryeck 1 month ago
well you're ugly anyway so what the hell er umm... yeh.. like ....a....mmmm. ...great bio
jimtunes4u 1 month ago
This is a good video, but don't label people. Being goth is a lifestyle, and it is wrong for people to be stereotipic about it just because you wear and look dark. Most goth kids do seem to act depressed, simply because they feel they don't fit in in the first place......
rebelcowgirl00 1 month ago
yes goth is a lifestyle.I am a goth, been into the scene a long time.I do not know any goths who act depressed.The Emo culture has a reputation for this which is not helpful to the alternative scene, emo and goth are not the same thing.This is another stereotype of goths ,that we are all depressed .We are Not.Wearing black clothes does not mean your depressed, goth clothing is an image its a fashion.Where as Depression is a serious mental health condition.
LadyofSharlot 1 month ago
@JamesonLemonade are you a satanist? And tbh; I think the stupidest thing I've ever read was the satanic bible. No offense to you, if you are and follow Anton.
BUT LMAO IKR that's the reason I looked like a scene kid for years xD 14. Best age of them all. 15, better and yeah xD
NotCreative1000 1 month ago
How judgemental!That is a incorrect stereotype. No Goths are NOT Satanists.Sick of people assuming this about goths.I get this all the time as a Goth..Goth fashion is we wear blackclothes, it is a Fashion, a style.It has nothing what so ever to do with religion.Goths can be any religion, its not affliated with a religion, and its not a cult.It is self expression.
LadyofSharlot 1 month ago
exactally. im goth, but im nice. i dont do good in school, cause i have ADHD. but ive never done drugs. never got introuble with the law. but yeah, theres more football players that does drugs than goths. i dont know a goth that does/did drugs. i know several football players that did or still does drugs. im afraid to say this. but true satanist dont do sacrifice. or harm animals. we follow the law (yes, im a satanist) the christians and jews push on that picture of a satanist. its about evil
unholyraviel1 1 month ago
You sound nervous, and it's kind of cute and such. I have a love for everything goth and I seriously love the culture and style. I own a few pieces of what some call goth clothing, but I freak people out when I go from Jeans that fit me with a System of a Down shirt to being decked-out in Tripp clothes here and there.
jimmygames666 1 month ago
At first my parents didn't mind, well first it was an fetish for NBC movie untill I went to a restaurant and got one dirty look. All because I had on stripped gloves, a NBC purse and a black shirt. My parents went to a strict dress code. No black at all, it was terrible, I wanted it even more. I wasn't emo or goth, I just loved the theme. I've been battling ever since. My grandma got me knee-high purple converses and they went off. I even took a survey of 50 kids at school and all if them agree
4whe3 1 month ago
some parents will never give up. its been 9 years and my mom is still buying me clothes colorfl girly clothes. its kinda funny though.
pleiadestrange 1 month ago
Your skin is beautiful ^ - ^
Ladadadadaxoxo10 1 month ago
I'm not goth. I'm pretty much just death/black metal, but my parents we're still against it at first. But then they realized that my behavior and my grades weren't affected by the music or the clothing, and i wasn't a trouble maker at all. Just assure them that you're still the same person.
TheFallOfManbearpig 1 month ago
If I had to guess at what the goth lifestyle should be (this is me speculating), it would be one of inquiry, skepticism and intellectual pursuit, not just saying, "oh! we are little goodie-gum-drops that conform to the values of kids from the 50s! Golly gosh darn!"
I agree with your point about talking to parents, but if you see that religion is horribly flawed or that a new fashion is the bees knees, learn how to debate, following the logical fallacies and go with that :)
JamesonLemonade 1 month ago
What's wrong with Satanism? I mean conceptually if a guy came to town and said he was God or Jesus, would you believe him/her? How about Satan? Even traditional and mainstream churches that worship God believe in horribly repressive things. Look at the rules of LaVeyan Satanism and I'm sure most people would agree they make more sense than Christian rules.
Drugs are also not all evil. Many can be used medically under certain conditions and moderate use can be beneficial.
JamesonLemonade 1 month ago
I'm ghetto-goth.
CyberMan14 1 month ago
how old are you?
konnabellatrix 1 month ago
You sound like you're gonna cry :'( Please don't you're adorable!
middynighty 1 month ago
thank you so much for making this... I'm not goth, but im defiantly not normal either... This videos gives me some hope though... Thank you so much...
AnnaStarsTv 1 month ago
your doll in the back. ITS ADORABLE. and your beautiful :)
StrangeGirlMBG 1 month ago
You're really pretty, and while I support the Goth look, I think it can be toned down a bit as necessary. Like, if you're going out to a store or something. There are ways to dress to suit your interests, while still being subtle with it. :)
StrawberrySpiderMilk 1 month ago 19
@StrawberrySpiderMilk Wow fuck you. Dress however you want kids give me shit to look at
LexProduca 1 month ago
my mother liked it at the beginning because she remembert how she tried things out when she was young. but after several years she often says i shouldnt always wear black.. ^^
my father is not interestet and never asks. but not in a bad way, he just accepts me the way i am. maybe he doesnt notice xD
todgeweilt 1 month ago
You're so beautiful! :)
HilariousMayhem 1 month ago
i don't understand why would u want to look like that , unless its halloween. Do you guys at least try to explain your parents about whats going on? Still...i think teenagers should not try to look goth.....The way this girl looks, should be the furthest a person should go ...if you do more...like paint your face more in black and pierce your face....that's just stupid...its not beautiful , its ugly... If you are doing this because you have a problem, then you are doin the wrong thing.
RSVDCN 1 month ago
@RSVDCN who are you to fricking say that? i'm not goth, but yes, i have a very punk look. many people i know and love are goth, however and they are perfectly good kids. and did you not see n her other freaking video?? she saaid: I DO THIS BECAUSE IT IS THE WAY I FEEL BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who the heck are ho to bash her confidence like that? if we all elt beautiful by wearing a dead fish on out head then SO BE IT. If your best friend felt beautiful by dressing up like they were from
123abcLizzie 1 month ago
(cont.) the late 1700's then SHUT UP AND LET THEM.SUPPORT THEM NO MATTER WHAT. if it makes you happy then do it and go on with your life! stop being a jerk and just GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Have a good day now. BYE.
123abcLizzie 1 month ago
@123abcLizzie sorry if i offended you. Its just my opinion about the goth look, and yes, i can say what i want, cause its free speech, i can state my opinion here even if you don't like it. But that's not what matters here. I commented in another video of her, the one with the makeup, where you can see her face and i mentioned that she look more beautiful without it. I'm not here to offend people, thou you still seem to believe that.....even thou there are others who actually hate without reason
RSVDCN 1 month ago