(cont.) and despised them well before gay men were stereotyped as being very flamouyant. Feminine guys that do fit some of the stereotypes are often made to feel bad about it (especially from other gay men). The media has come along way with gay characters on tv though. People often think of Jack as the gay stereotype from Will & Grace, but that show had several characters that were everyday guys that dated Will. I could go on and on, but I'll shut up now.
These videos are really interesting. You're very articulate and comfortable in front of the camera. Anyway, in regards to feminine and flambouyant gay men in the media and the real world, I think they are often discriminated against in their own community. Many masculine or "normal" gay men seem to blame (at least subconsciouly) feminine guys for the negative connotation many people have with gay men. It's important to acknowledge that many people felt that homosexuals were bad people
One way society continues to spread homophobia is by associating the word GAY with everything NEGATIVE there is. So you may think by say "that's so gay" means nothing, but infact, you are helping to spread the message of hate against gay people.
So that when people encounter other people who happens to be gay, their brains automatically thinks GAY = BAD then GAY PEOPLE = BAD... to justify the hate crimes and discrimination.
one of my straight guy friends doesn't like gay gays cause he thinks that the vast majority of them are queer-eye like and "basically girls". i'm thinking of showing him this video to help him understand gay people more and to see most are practically like him. should i show him this one or the 1st one that defines being gay?
I truly enjoy your videos especially the few pertaining to homosexuality and issues related. I show them to people that I have known to stereotype or group together men and women who are openly or obviously gay. I find it to be a good non-insulting way to help educate people about something they don't fully understand in hopes that the next time they find themselves in situations where such a topic may arise, the element of discomfort may be negated. I can't wait to see your next installment.
wow, you are doing a great thing here. i accidentally stumbled upon your vlog, and subscribed right away! I wish I had something like this to turn to when I was coming out..great job!
Hey, pal...I liked the video SOOOoo much, that I rated it. It looks like everyone else agrees with what I gave it. I can't help it if I enjoy the videos I make. haha.
Don't you hate it when your supporters don't know that you're friends with other people on the internet? Can I get a WTF? Don't thumbs down my shit >:-O
I agree. One day I will have the capablitys to join you and your revoloution. For now funds and time are getting put in other projects BUT I can really feel the pull to come together and make a difference here on youtube so.....it will happen....all in due time. All in due time.
very funny. 5 stars. Cant wait for the next one. :D:D:D
I agree, Matthew..some of it is perhaps unconscious, but damaging nonetheless. There's a parallel in the depiction of Blacks in movies in the 30's..jocular buffoons, lacking intelligence, easily scared and intimidated, superstitious, but fiercely loyal to the "masta"..seems incredible now, but that was the way it was portrayed! About the only exception was the maid who had a practical intelligence and common sense that "masta" didn't have.
Dan-iel! haha thank you for rubbing my 'cada beijo' matt. :P very good vid and response btw. but i aint surprised ;) i think this is by far your funniest one!
And the media always trots out the same old protagonists . In Australia, it's Reverend Fred Nile. Laughably, I don't think they can actually find anybody else that holds the same views as him.
I think the opening should be lightning zapping something... Ant's, people, idk xD... Yup, completely off topic >.>...
Titanz91 1 year ago
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OnlyAPawn1970 2 years ago
that pretty much sums them up. they want attention and to force society to legitimize this and entrust children to these folks.
kendoka5 2 years ago
(cont.) and despised them well before gay men were stereotyped as being very flamouyant. Feminine guys that do fit some of the stereotypes are often made to feel bad about it (especially from other gay men). The media has come along way with gay characters on tv though. People often think of Jack as the gay stereotype from Will & Grace, but that show had several characters that were everyday guys that dated Will. I could go on and on, but I'll shut up now.
djork05 3 years ago
These videos are really interesting. You're very articulate and comfortable in front of the camera. Anyway, in regards to feminine and flambouyant gay men in the media and the real world, I think they are often discriminated against in their own community. Many masculine or "normal" gay men seem to blame (at least subconsciouly) feminine guys for the negative connotation many people have with gay men. It's important to acknowledge that many people felt that homosexuals were bad people
djork05 3 years ago
i love this
ogbechiekiki 3 years ago
These episodes are wonderful. I hope you keep making them for a long time to come.
BrizyComics 3 years ago
dude, you are my hero!!
msan9800 3 years ago 4
One way society continues to spread homophobia is by associating the word GAY with everything NEGATIVE there is. So you may think by say "that's so gay" means nothing, but infact, you are helping to spread the message of hate against gay people.
So that when people encounter other people who happens to be gay, their brains automatically thinks GAY = BAD then GAY PEOPLE = BAD... to justify the hate crimes and discrimination.
ohnoyoudidntx 3 years ago 3
you're a hottie! you single?
brottha 3 years ago
one of my straight guy friends doesn't like gay gays cause he thinks that the vast majority of them are queer-eye like and "basically girls". i'm thinking of showing him this video to help him understand gay people more and to see most are practically like him. should i show him this one or the 1st one that defines being gay?
rivertam00 4 years ago
I am gay and i am just like every other dude, i just check some hot guy passing by than a hot chick. Being gay is small part of my life.
staraction 3 years ago
Absolutly brilliant! Thanks man!
pvampire 4 years ago
Excellent video...
I believe you hit the nail on the head.
crazeycat65 4 years ago 5
I truly enjoy your videos especially the few pertaining to homosexuality and issues related. I show them to people that I have known to stereotype or group together men and women who are openly or obviously gay. I find it to be a good non-insulting way to help educate people about something they don't fully understand in hopes that the next time they find themselves in situations where such a topic may arise, the element of discomfort may be negated. I can't wait to see your next installment.
iclash 4 years ago
Your videos are so great. Thanks for doing this.
textytestyonetwo 4 years ago 2
You're an inspiration, man! =D
irishmaestro 4 years ago
that's pretty cool
hottydelia 4 years ago 2
i support you 100% in what you are doing.
and i agree with you.
when you DO NOT KNOW... you should ASK.
that's how you beat ignorance.
shaints 4 years ago 3
wow, you are doing a great thing here. i accidentally stumbled upon your vlog, and subscribed right away! I wish I had something like this to turn to when I was coming out..great job!
grbnmar 4 years ago
You're too cute for words Matthew :wub:
indicatoto101 4 years ago
Another fantastic video. I look forward to seeing you answer more questions soon.
Aquilometer 4 years ago
Great & funny video...I'm a guy who found the perfect guy while wearing hiking boots...Wanna form a gang?
gsw93 4 years ago
great job matthew.
continue to be proud of who you are.
that's what we all must do to change perception.
patton54 4 years ago
You rated your own video? Lamer :-p
Um, well, ...Hmm...perhaps this would go better as a vid response. LOVE YOU
demonickalfun 4 years ago
Hey, pal...I liked the video SOOOoo much, that I rated it. It looks like everyone else agrees with what I gave it. I can't help it if I enjoy the videos I make. haha.
take care.
machelli 4 years ago
Why the EFF was I "Thumbs Down"ed?
Don't you hate it when your supporters don't know that you're friends with other people on the internet? Can I get a WTF? Don't thumbs down my shit >:-O
demonickalfun 4 years ago 2
wuh oh, negative two! you're in trouble. haha.
machelli 4 years ago 2
you called mathew a lamer.......
boportsmouth 4 years ago
and YOU are an idiot, He's my friend, moron
demonickalfun 4 years ago
let's all take a deep breath, and forget the swear word we were gonna use that breath to belt out.
machelli 4 years ago 2
Nick, you're so emotional! Don't worry... I thumbsupped ya.
dkatzism 4 years ago
I agree. One day I will have the capablitys to join you and your revoloution. For now funds and time are getting put in other projects BUT I can really feel the pull to come together and make a difference here on youtube so.....it will happen....all in due time. All in due time.
very funny. 5 stars. Cant wait for the next one. :D:D:D
Lonewolf91744 4 years ago
I agree, Matthew..some of it is perhaps unconscious, but damaging nonetheless. There's a parallel in the depiction of Blacks in movies in the 30's..jocular buffoons, lacking intelligence, easily scared and intimidated, superstitious, but fiercely loyal to the "masta"..seems incredible now, but that was the way it was portrayed! About the only exception was the maid who had a practical intelligence and common sense that "masta" didn't have.
raconter1 4 years ago
Another great video! You and I were thinking along the same line. I put together a video on the same topic (sitcoms, specifically) last night.
You're exactly right - the best way to change perceptions about gay people is by showing the other side of things via YouTube.
gadgetfreak84 4 years ago
This is a ridiculously great video, Matthew.
Entertaining and thought provoking. The perfect mix. :) Keep it up!
GeniusRickyD 4 years ago
Dan-iel! haha thank you for rubbing my 'cada beijo' matt. :P very good vid and response btw. but i aint surprised ;) i think this is by far your funniest one!
whitemagick4 4 years ago
awesome posting
windcu 4 years ago
And the media always trots out the same old protagonists . In Australia, it's Reverend Fred Nile. Laughably, I don't think they can actually find anybody else that holds the same views as him.
5cheherazade 4 years ago