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  • I couldn't walk out homosexuality by my own strength. So, yes technically people can't change but God can change them if they let Him. After years of repressing homosexuality and then gratifying homosexual desires, now God has redeemed me completely from homosexuality. So, yes people can actually be changed by God.

  • So you believe in God... you know that you were made in his image. Can you explain why he created Adam and Eve... and not another option. Contingent upon your saying that homosexual is not a choice. If she found peace with God and she has been delivered from whats completely not natural Leviticus 20:13.. read the word. Why speak negative of her? Lets focus on you. Why do you look so unhappy in your video. She look excited about her new life to me.. Don't take part of the BIBLE..

  • You wonder what gay "lifestyle" means? .. My guess is that they're thinking ohhh,.. orgies, wild parties, lewd dancing, leather bars, flashy and explicite manner of dress, Rush,.. and the whole like. You know,.. hedonism?

  • The bible is very clear that homosexuality is a sin against God, in fact it is a demonic spirit. Unless an individual confesses and repents (turns away) from their sin they will not enter the Kingdom of God. God's Word is true and will stand.

    Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed for this very reason, and the ashes remain to this day. God bless Charlene Cothran for speaking the truth and comitting her life to God! Scriptures (just a few): Romans 1:26-27 , 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Leviticus 18:22.

  • @DaughterOfYashua How Right you are. Sadly, homosexuals "need to believe" they were "born" that way in order to justify the debased behaviors in their own minds. However, in their preaching & embracing this lie, they in effect are calling the Most High God a liar. They refuse to accept Charlene Cothrane's testimony because to believe it only serves to condemn the lies they've been telling themselves about their practices & belief also puts LIE to the fact they were NOT born this way.

  • @San47di1 Well, actually, nobody is BORN homosexual, or heterosexual, or anythything sexual for that matter. Sexuality is something that DEVELOPES later on, sometime after birth ( normaly during adolesence ).

  • No the biggest form of blasphemy is speaking against the Holy Spirit. There was a man whom God prepared (raised up) to show His power (Judgment and wrath), that His name would be declared through out the world... That man was Pharaoh King of Egypt ... He was brought forth to be destroyed.... As The Creator the choice is totally His, and whom He will have mercy is His choice also... Peace

  • The thing that you don't understand is that there is nothig impossible for God. But you need to have a true encounter with Jesus. You need to ask Jesus to come into your heart, you will only find peace in Jesus.

    God loves you He really does, but the bible is very clear in the old testament and in the new testament, lesbians or gays will not enter the kingdom of God. Thats why God destroyed Sodome and Gomorra.

    Praying that you come to Jesus!!!

  • i used to be a lesbian im now straight but i always loved women and it's a demon that over takes you and im not talking about gay life style im talking about the lust !!!

  • The ex-gay thing has made me laugh ever since I watched But I'm a Cheerleader. It makes me think of the ex-ex-gays and their underground homo-railroad. :D

  • If you had three islands one with lesbians one with gay men and another with hetro couples, after 100 years went by which isle would still be inhabited and surviving? thats a no brainer homosexuality has no merit or value to society.

  • So, your only value or merit to society is producing children? Wow, I would love you to tell that to anyone with a straight face. So, Mother Teresa and others like her had absolutely no merit or value to society? Ok, what ever you say. Maybe you should go and tell all of those hetrosexual couples that can't have children that they have no merit or value to society and try to convice them to commit suside while you are at it

  • Your no Mother Teresa sweetheart , and what would you know about a " STRAIGHT '' face.....lol , listen i have a child she's studying to be a fasion designer, she's my legacy some day she'll have children, what legacy will you leave ? do you have children? homosexuels just bring nothing but confusion even Hollywood said no to gay marriege and Maine i was SHOCKED !

  • Actually, I do have a step son. In what part of my comment did I say I was Mother Teresa? I simply used her as an example of one of many people that don't have kids and yet you can't deny they have a legacy and have left this world something. Now I may be no Mother Teresa, you have no idea just what I do for my country, state, or community. Trust me, I will have left the world with somthing once I am gone.

  • You do seem like a nice lady, i pray you come to the saving knowledge of JESUS CHRIST one day and reach your true destinity in life cuz being a lesbian ain't it, its no ones destiny.

  • I have been there and done that. It isn't like I don't know Jesus or Christianity. I was born and raised in Christianity. You could say I am a born again Pagan. I can only pray that you are able to open your mind just a bit and experience life and knowledge in more than just one way.

  • no thanks im a outie exit only, anyway im sure you were born and raised in CHRISTIANITY as you say, then that means you strayed away, according to the scriptures you will come back, i sence that you have loved ones praying for , l'll pray with them, one day you will have powerful testimony and win thousands to JESUS CHRIST , so let it be written so let it be done.

  • Um... What does being an "outie exit only" have to do with what I just said? Been getting into the religious wine again? Guess what genious, I am an outie exit only as well. See, we have much more in common than you think. Sorry honey, I don't claim I will always practice what I am currently practicing but I do see myself as always being a Pagan of some type. I already have powerful testamonys as to why I left. I however don't shove it in others faces but only speak about it if asked.

  • I don't practice religion, in fact i HATE it, but the great thing about JESUS is that he dosn't see you as you are as much as what you shall be down the road, your gonna be a evangelist married with a husband and children flesh of your flesh bone of your bone, and i see you even appearing on the 700 club.......lol

  • If that is what you think, you have full permission to show that in a video when that happens. As long as you hold your breath until that happens. Just remember, I don't take any responsibility if you end up dyeing from lack of oxygen.

  • NOTHING is impossible for GOD

  • @TjmMinistries So you think your better than someone els just because you can screw and reproduce aye ? .. Animals can do THAT too!

  • @IAMVOL111 Animals also stay with in there own gender because they know better, makes ya wonder whats wrong with humans, could it be hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...........­.SATAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • You say she'll one day have children but you don't know this for certain unless she is pregnant now. Also you won't know IF she can have children unless she's had a fertility test, or has been pregnant before. In addition, what if the man she marries is infertile and she decides to remain married to him and sacrifice having children. What becomes of your legacy then?

  • your really reaching pal. smh

  • Again, no answer to back up anything you said.

  • OOh good one. The lowest life forms can reproduce like amoebas, fungi, bacteria, viruses, roaches, flies, etc. Reproduction is nothing extraordinarily special. This sentiment that you are worthless if you have no children is stupid and only applies to Dumb people. If you are below average intelligence, the only chance you have to be of any value is to have children b/c you certainly won't ever make any discoveries requiring thought. LOL

  • That makes no sense. If you put all straight women on an island and all straight men on another which one would still be inhabited and surviving after 100 years? NEITHER. See the flaw in your thinking? If you put gay men and lesbians on the same island just like straight women and straight men, BOTH will still survive. The gay men and women wldn't have to have sex either, they could artificially inseminate.

  • PS. if you killed all homosexuals today leaving only str8 ppl, in the next generation of people, There will again be gay people. gay people don't create gay people b/c they aren't sexually reproducing. Str8 ppl create gay ppl b/c 1 out of 10 ppl ARE GAY. it's a standard deviation.

  • as long as lucifer is around yes there will be gay people.

  • So I guess lucifer is the cause of hermaphodites, xx Males, XXY Males, Klienflelter's syndrome, and all other deviations in sex development at the genetic level. You have no heaven or hell to put any one in and obviously you aren't even as well versed on the bible you are attempting to use to case judgment. As such, you need to clean up your own yard before you throw stones abt someone elses. if you spend your time working on your own sin, you wouldn't have ANY free time to worry abt others.

  • Every minute you take trying to tell someone else that they are wrong based on your convoluted logic and faulty comprehenaion of the bible, is a minute taken away from securing your OWN salvation. It's quite obvious you have a lot of learning to do, not only with the bible but with simple grammar. I noted at least 15 2nd grade grammar mistakes on you page alone. How can you correctly interpret a bible if you can't even grasp basica concepts of grammar? You are in NO position to teach anyone lmao

  • your opinions are of no value to me.

  • Likewise and your ignorance is of no value to me. This is really pointless arguing with an embecile (you) casting judgment over the internet. I've wasted enough time, and I'm done. Just a heads up this is my last comment. Any further notifications will be deleted w/o being read, so keep em unless you enjoy wasting your time writing something to be ignored and discarded. It's sad when people like you become comfortable in their ignorance with no desire to learn the truth. SMH..I'm done.

  • Hey how about dealing wth the issue instead of doing the typical white supremacist savage thing and trying to attack simple mistakes as some how a sign of a lack of intelligence.

  • How about you stop responding to conversations over a month old in which you weren't even a participant. When one has an adequate working knowledge of their native language then certain "simple mistakes" don't happen. Also, White supremacist savage? You're kidding right? You must be to make such an uninformed and moronic statement to a BLACK MAN ! ----- You are officially dismissed.... ROTFFLMBAO!!!!

  • How about you look up what youtube is about dumb ass and then LFMAO or whatever chicken scratch that is. You complain and then respond at the same time. How about this you bipolar schizo, get an update on your medication amount and then when you're balanced or "stable" holla devil.

  • lol .... whatever ... asswipe. Buh Bye!!

  • Chicken scratch again. Can't expect anymore from a mutation of life.

  • Sorry, I don't comprehend fuckface vernacular! LOL.....

  • LMAO you don't respond well to life period devil.

  • Besides devil you were supposed to be "dismissing me" remember. Short term memory or too many drugs. Grow the fuck up.

  • Whatever. You are the one starting E-arguments....... You grow up. You did give me some comic relief though .. a laughing at your stupid ass.

  • go back to the word of God and do some searching. as i recall satan twisted God's word when he was tempting Jesus. matthew 4:5-11 if we twist God's word long enough will it change??? nope. say all that you want but when it comes down to the truth go to the word of God.

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  • you keep harping about the bible being written by men yet you forget we men were created in the image of GOD, and every significant thing including your computer was invented by men even the house you live in, so its only logical for GOD to use us to write his HOLY WORDS

  • If that was he case man (and woman) would never go to hell.

  • this man won't

  • Man was created in the image of god. Man does not mean a physical male, it means Mankind which includes women. We were made in God's image meaning it takes man AND woman to represent the image of god. This is why when a man and woman marry they are ONE. They also BOTH come together in order to create a child(again it takes two to make ONE). GOD is the only being who doesn't need another to make one for GOD IS ONE. Women are not less than but equal to a man for they are both necessary.

  • Females along with everything eles on this earth was created for males to enjoy.

  • Your just angry because this woman is happy and at peace, sure she was wounded and blind for a while but JESUS opened up her spiritual eyes and heald her wounds, now she can be the woman she was created to be, a wife a mother with children flesh of her flesh bone of her bone and blessed by GOD.

  • Really? I didn't think any anger came through. Probably because I am not angry. I just call bull shit where I see it. How can I be angry because she is happy when I myself am happy? I could see how I might be jelious if I wasn't happy but I am happy. How can I be jelious that she is right with her God because I myself have a personal relationship with the one and true God. I know I am blessed and I am the woman I should be. You sir make no sence.

  • so your saying her happiness and PEACE ( which can't be purchased with silver or gold )  is bull shit ? and of course you gays do have a god, its your lifestyle.

  • Being gay isnt a GOD Tj, it is living life and not bothering anyone EXCEPT Religious Zealots!!!

  • Exactly fitasafiddle

  • Tj,

    I suppose you follow Pat Robertson do you?

    You do know he 'prophetcized' ( God told him at his re- treat) a huge terrorist act at the end of 07, either Nuclear or non, and guess what? It never happened and there

    for making Pat a False Prophet. And yet he is so against the gay community....hypocrisy abound

  • I am saying she is as happy as she thinks she can be because she thinks if she is celebate that she isn't gay. Just because you aren't sleeping with anyone doesn't make you now straight. Um, I am not going to even ask how a lifestyle can be a God.  If that is how you see God, then more power to ya because I can't even comprehend that.

  • ive seen recent videos of ms cothran and she's not trying to look like man anymore in fact she looks beautiful as a woman should, no longer decieved by lucifer as you are ma'am, and you ask how can your gay lifestyle be your god, well if GOD says he dosn't aprove thats sin ! and if you keep doing it that means you value that particular thing more than your so called realationship with him, JESUS said you can't serve two masters.

  • What in the world are you talking about? Dude, stay off the substances! I never said she looked like a man. I never even said she was ugly or anything like that. Ah, I get it, you can refute what I say, so say I said something I didn't and try to spin it that way. Ok, what ever. God doesn't have a problem with homosexuality, it is the men who wrote the Bible that did. I don't serve 2 masters, just the one true God. I don't know who or what you do but that is a personal thing.

  • so i guess if women wrote the bible it would be a whole diffrent ballgame huh?

  • Man or HUMAN. The point is GOD DIDN'T WRITE THE BIBLE!  Dude, you need to seriously stay away from the ceremonial wine.

  • On, the contrary, there were quite a few female authors of books in the bible. Unfortunately in the extremely male dominated climate of that time period the Roman Church omitted them when they chose what would be the official canon.

  • He did the same thing to me. Accused me of making a racist statement by calling her ugly b/c she is AF AM. I never said anything about her looks at all. In fact the response was in regard to my post about Caster Semenya. I was like WTF is he talking about?

  • Exactly.Like I have said before, there is no such thing as Ex Gay. A refrain from sex doesn't make one ex-gay it makes them celibate. Also, if she is now having relationships with men, then it only means she wasn't a lesbian but bisexual all along. If she were truly a lesbian, she wouldn't have any attraction to men ever. honestly I think her readership was dwindling, so she "reinvinted" herself to tap into a new reader demographic in order to boost her income.

  • That could be true and nowhere near the truth. There really is no way you can say that. You have no idea of what my experiences, accomplishments, and failures are and untill you do know, that is a conclusion that you are not qualified to make. You assume I haven't had the experiences or accomplishments she has had because you happen to agree with her and not me. For all you know I have had the same life experience or even more.

  • Charlene is a woman who has accomplished more than you ever have. She has experienced things & perspectives that you never will. Yet because she has reached a different conclusion to you, you have totally written her point of view off. You have done exactly what so many Christians are accused of doing.

    Her point of view is valid- more valid than yours, because at least she thouroughly understands the issue, from the inside out, literally.

  • she is right anytime ANYONE says anything about homosexuals

    now your hating and judging

    here is how I TRULY feel we all need GOD

    WE ALL need guidance and deliverance for doing things that are not right

    is your argument with her or GOD?

    all she is trying to do is find peace in her life and trying to help others to see the light

    that homosexuality is wrong

  • But I don't have a problem with her. I cant really help her since she will never see this video but I am trying to help everyone else that may want to try to put themselves in the same painful situation understand that they may try to find peace but she and others never will like this. I certainly have no arguement with God. I am a big believer in God and I certainly have no problem with God. I am wondering where you you even came up with that.

  • no don't bash that woman for trying to do the right thing

    or what makes her happy

    it seems that you are hating on her

    to make a vid spitting hatred for her belief

  • I am sorry you see the video as me bashing her or spitting out hate. To be honest, bashing her or even feeling any anomosity let alone hatered never even crossed my mind. I just call em as I see em.

  • Great video, good points!

  • Read Romans chapter 1 and let

    God speak to you. Don't be deceived and don't deceive yourself. It will be too late when you end up in hell.

  • I usually don't do this but maybe you should read a bit more than Romans Ch1. Read the whole Bible from cover and see all the contradictions. See what a jelious sadistic, blood thirsty, war happy, God you have. Given a choice between heaven with a God like that and hell with out him, anyone who hasn't been brain washed would choose hell. Not that I have. I can't choose something I don't believe exists.

  • This is terrible . There is deliverance for homosexuality you can be delivered and anyone who say you is a lie . if by chance what Catherine say is true i give God all the Glory becuz living that life style is the road to destruction . Its in the book inthe beginning was the word and the word was God lets Remember God created man and women adam and eve correct .

  • I should know, I am the one that tried beyond everything to change and didn't. As I said before I whould have had a chance if I was BI but that wasn't the case. Once again I keep hearing about this "lifestyle". I don't and never have lived that "lifestyle" you and others assume homosexuals live. I have only dated 3 people in my life. My girlfriend have been together for 13 years and still going strong. The only way you can tell us from any other married couple is that we are both women.

  • Its in the Bible ah, which one? The Bible is so full of contradictions, it isn't even funny. Even if you think that isn't true, what about the book of the Bible that were taken out (by men might I add)? Actually in the beginning, it wasn't originally Adam and Eve, it was Adam and Lillith. Lilligh was replaced by Eve because she wouldn't cower to Adam like a good little wifey. Later on the Bible portrayed her as a demon.

  • no she was replaced because she aligned her self with Lucifer,

  • enjoyable video :)

  • I recommend you the video:

    /watch?v=A20l6HFL0Qs&feature=c­hannel_page

  • I pray that you will see you sin for what it is...a sin. I have sinned and have asked God to forgive me for them. I sin daily, but that doesn't mean that I should march and have parades and try to convince people that it's ok...because it's not! Homosexuality is a sin of confusion, lonliness and a cry for understanding. Know, if you do not repent, you will go to hell! Same as me! I love you as a sister in Christ and I will pray for you!

  • You need to open your eyes instead of being lead around by your nose and excepting any words as truth that is being spoon fed to you by your paster or rev. Start questionin things (including what you think you know as truth). Just find or confirm the answers for yourself. I will pray for you so you can one day have the courage to at least try.

  • An honest question: Can you take your own advice? Can you stop accepting everything you've been spoon fed as truth? What makes you think Christians haven't confirmed the answers for themselves and found the truth to be what the Bible says? You're assuming Christians follow God blindly. Have you taken the time to sincerely pray and ask God to reveal the truth to you instead of creating "your own truth." There's no such thing as "your own truth." Truth is truth and Christians have found it.

  • Can a hermaphrodite marry? If not, why? Did God make them?

    I support Gay marriage!!

  • Did God make pedophiles?

  • Wow, I really hope you weren't infering that all or even most homosexuals are pedophiles. Pedophiles come in all sexes, races, sexual orentations, creeds, ect... To be a pedophile is to have a mental disorder. It is agreeded that it isn't a mental or any other disorder to be homosexual. Pedophiles harm children mentaly, physically, or both. Last time I checked, homosexuals didn't harm each other because they are 2 CONSENTING ADULTS.

  • I didn't say that any homosexuals were pedophiles. You made the broad statement that "God made homosexuals that way". What you imply is that God made everything the way it is and therefore it is right because God made it. That's circular reasoning. So I added "did God make pedophiles?" Because by your reasoning if God made it then it is right.

  • "2 CONSENTING ADULTS"

    Is that all you need? Because there have been a couple of cases of one cannibal lover eating the other and both of them consenting.

  • Wow, I thought it was really a strech when people were compairing homosexuality with sex with animals and murder but you are now compairing it to cannibalism. So, were you makeing arguements like this against interacial marrage when that was illegal? Hay, if you have 2 people and 1 wants to cannibalize the other and the other person agrees to it, , I cant say I could ever understand what in the world either of them are thinking. I am certainly not to going to stop them.

  • You completely missed the point...

    "2 CONSENTING ADULTS" does not make something any more or any less right.  The whole point is that you made a logical fallacy.

  • what do you think?

  • if it works so well then why do 80% of ex gays go back to being gay

    it is called the ex ex gay movement the American Psychiatric Association and Canada Psychiatric Association say that conversion therapy is not effective and is potentially harmful Metropolitan Community Church does a thing with the ex ex gay movement

  • Jesus is waiting patiently to save you too. He loves you and He can give you the very same peace and joy that charlene has been given. it's true

  • The Goddess loves you, she is waiting for you to find your way back to her. What peace? The kind of peace I had when trying do deny myself for 25 years? No thanks, that made me suscidal. So thanks but no thanks. I am just glad the love your Jesus didn't totally consume me, I would have been dead by now like all those others that couldn't see the forest through the trees and did anything not to be gay. They are dead as well. I could commit suside now and just save time.

  • pls don't commit suicide. you still have a chance to turn to Jesus while still alive. You can't do that as a dead person. fact is, you are not so far gone to be beyond salvation. Bible says no matter how filthy your sins are, Jesus can cleanse all that. isn't that gracious and wonderful?

    enjoy your day.

  • Jesus preached to those in hell..so maybe there is time after this life?

  • maybe there's time for repentance for 'you' after this life, boom! so, go ahead and sin as much as you can and be as filthy as you can for the rest of your life. that's your choice. I'll wave goodbye to you on the other side. (or should i do it now?)

    'til 'then' (heheh)

  • Well, thats missing the point. I'm just saying Jesus did preach to those in hell. Do you bleive you are 'saved" by your good works? You seem to. I think grace is a hard concept for many if not most people, But no, don't sin for the sake of sinning but don't trust in your goodness either. Oh yeah...remember to love your neighbors and your enemies as yourself...and don't judge....now who said that again???

  • huh? aaaahh, ok.

    you see, boom, i don't pretend to live by anything that is mine, worldly, nor man-made. My yardstick is the bible and that is what i measure myself up against and most, if not all, of the time i fall short, however i never try to digest and worry about the nitty-gritties when my Saviour has already shown me the Way very very clearly. meaning? I dont kno that much but one thing i know for sure: Jesus has saved me in His grace and I am struggling but walking. And you? same?

  • The Bible is a good yardstick, but lets remember we worship a living God not a book translated thousands of times...like you i am saved by grace and like you i struggle on my journey...peace

  • universal salvation? well, that's a different grace, different salvation, and a different bible. peace anyhow

  • well, universal salvation is what the bible teaches but don't worry.....not believing in universal salvation will not cause you to lose your salvation :-)

    But Jesus is the ONLY way and we are saved by grace....remember every knee shall bend every tounge confess...and one can only confess Jesus is lord by the power of the Holy Spirit. Peace!

  • And once for all and for the last time. I am NOT gelous or upset or disapointed with Charlene for her personal and religious decisons and choices.

    Charlene, I wish you and the Chirstian commuity, the best luck and happiness, from the bottom of my heart.

    But I aint lying about who I am and I feel offended by you calling me LIER, and you are better have some proof about that, or you own me an appology.

    Until it comes, I reserve the right to criticise the way you chose to make your points.

  • I am not upset with Charlene for her beliefs, I'm upset for her DESRESPECT, and I take what she said as a personal offence.

    Explained:

    A lady who is over 60's y.o. and has no more sexual desires is not a living-proof of deliverance of any kind, nor she proves any "miracle";

    To have had homosexual relations in her past does't prove she was really gay;

    Sexual abstinence doesn't make her an ex-gay, nor a better person than anybody, nor she owns the "Truth".

    I'm gay and she called me LIAR.

  • If you are gay, Charlene called you a LIAR:

    "IT'S A LIE TOLD BY THE GAY COMMUNITY"

    She did it right in the Christian propagandistic media, who didn't miss the chance to take her thestimony as an absolute true. The same media that preaches against the "gay agenda", the "gay propaganda" and the "gay lifestyle".

    And you people dare to come here to criticize Mysticblue1212 and us for our responses back?

    You should take a better look on Charlene's videos and put the FACTS straight.

  • So your saying if a women is with a man.. than becomes a lesbian.. that she is not a lesbian but a straight women? I really think you should wish this women the best, and stay out of her bussness. Why do you think the worst of people? Are you jelouse because she over came her lifestyle, and gave her life to the lord?

  • People can be confused and experment. You are what you are. If you are TRULY attracted to both, you aren't straight or gay, you are BI. Again, what lifestyle are you speaking about? The lifestyle I am assuming you are speaking of is practiced just as much if not MORE OFTEN by hetrosexuals. I have been a lesbian all my life and never lived anything close to that kind of lifestyle. Neither have most homosexuals that I know.

  • Your right about one thing. People can become confused and experment. ESP with all the propaganda that the LGBT community puts on the world today. Anyone in a confused state can end up beliving anything if told something long enough. Take you for example.. Your part of the LGTB community, and spreading proganda that Charlene Cothran is a lesbian. The only thing that saved her from this brainwash was the lord. Praise God! Mysticblue.. if you would give your life to the lord today.

  • Lastly, my condescending friend, If you truly DO wish to let them live in peace then this video post is redundant and should not be here. I hope you learn that true security in one's life is by living that life w/o being bothered by those who do what you believe cannot be done. Search yourself, for you are not as sure as you THINK you are. You may reply but I will not. Anyone who reads my posts and desires "change" will find hope in these words. That is my motive, which is purer than yours.

  • Yea, we ALL think we have the answers. Curious how you never fall in the wrong side of a discussion. If someone were to "change", they could and would do so weather I am here "wasteing my time" or not. I have no power to stop such a change if that change is at all possible to begin with. The fact of the matter is out of all of those that have made that "change" you will find that they simply don't act on those attractions that they STILL have.

  • I don't call that change. If they truly changed, they wouldn't have feelings not to act upon and bury. Just because you bury feelings and urges doesn't mean you are an ex homosexual. It means you have gained the strength you didn't have before to cram all that under the carpet. That isn't change. If you truly changed, you wouldn't have anything to cram under the carpet. If you speak to any "changed" person, they admit to still having those feelings. Where is the cure?

  • Your are argument is based on ignorance. You say if you have an unrelenting urge then that urge defines who you are, right? Well, what if I have unending urge to make love to a collie. No matter what I try that's what I want. Am I a collie lover made in "God's image". I guess you'd say that was fine...Unless you owned a collie. Homosexuality is a best a barren love than cannot produce children. Society needs children. Therefore it is an empty pursuit. In the end you've just wasted time.

  • Homosexuals don't have to be barren. They can adopt, get inseminated, or get a saraget. What about all of those loving hetrosexual couples that can't have children? Is there marrage at best just as barren and worthless? Hmmm... Maybe you should get right to work and make their marrages null and void and stop them from getting married from now on since they can't do what you feel marrage is for.

  • "It is estimated that around five to eight percent of couples in the developed world are unable to have children"(cited in Webb and Holman 1992).That leaves 92-95% who can.Now,percentage of homosexuals with involuntary childlessness=100%.So,homosexu­als can ONLY recruit(someone elses child).Also, you "forgot" to address the first part of my statement.Because there are people engaged in bestiality and they think it's fine.There's aMotherAndSonInIncestAndTheyTh­inkThatsFine2.Hey,ifYouWantToD­oItDoIt.

  • I just didn't think the beastiality deserved to be responded to but no, I don't believe that is right. How is love and sex between consenting adults compairable to sex with an animal that can't consent? Sex with children is also wrong. Yet again, children are not consenting nor adults. So, are you saying those 5 to 8% of childless hetrosexual couples shouldn't be allowed to marry or have their marrage annuled?

  • As I said before, homosexual couples aren't childless if they want children. They can adopt, get inseminated, or use a seragate. As far as gays "recruting", that is rediculace. I was never recruted nor was any homosexual I have ever known or heard of. I grew up in a family that was totally against homosexuals. It is a well proven fact that 95% of all homosexuals are born of hetrosexual couples. Maybe they should be stoped from having anymore potential homosexuals.

  • You know what,ILoveYou..andGodLovesYou. BeingGayWillNotSendYouToHell;N­otAcceptingJesus asSaviorWill(acc2TheBible). I John 1:9, NIV. Rom 10:9-10 SinIsSimplyBreakingGodsLaws WeAllHaveStrongDesireToSinBeca­useWe AllHaveSinInOurNatureFromAdam&­Eve. ThatNatureRebelsAgainstGodsAut­hority. DailyIHaveToFightUrgesandLusts­ThatWant ToControlMe.The'Only'ReasonIDo­ntIsMyDesireTo BePleaseGod.TheTruthOfGodIsAbs­oluteTherefore SinceInGodsEyesIsAbsolutelyWro­ng.IWillPray ForGodToRevealHisLoveToYou.God­BlessYou
  • Well thank you and may the Goddess bless you.

  • :) Thank You.

  • Mystic, Why is it that you have a problem with people living their life as they see fit? Thats the core issue here. You're a lesbian I presume and you're happy with that. Great. But somehow I doubt you by your inability to let Charlene live her life w/o trying convince yourself and others that she is a self-hater. Thats wrong, Mystic, although you are entitled to your own beliefs. If you are truly happy as you are then nothing anyone can do will take that from you. This issue shouldnt you.

  • *bother*...pardon i left that out trying to fit this in w/o going over the character count. *Side Note* YouTube should expand to this to about 1000 characters. Thanks and have a good day

  • I don't have a problem with her wanting to TRY to change her sexual orientation. I have a problem with her making others think that is possible and making those that have tried and failed feel like a failure because they weren't able to pull off the impossible. If she truly loves men romantically now, she is and always was bisexual not lesbian. It makes a difference. You have people who really want to change comitting suside because they are a failure. That is just irresponsible.

  • You think she cant do it. Admit it You think that her being happy in her chastity in just not possible. Thats all I can gather from your reply. THAT is irresponisbile and unfair. Id never take the chance someone has at manifesting any goal they have for themselves away from them. whether i disagree or not. I do not subsrcibe to defeated mentality. Freedom and tolerance for all is the center of the gay movement is it not? Or so we have been told for the last 40yrs. You are not living up to that.

  • I wasn't questioning her ability to be happy with her choice of chastity. She is stateing that she is no longer a lesbian. If you are still romantically attracted to the same sex, and are celebet, you are STILL Bi or gay. To actually loose your attraction for the same sex all together is impossible. The only choice you have in the situation is to be celebate or not. To someone who DESPARATELY wants to change their orenation and can't, that is devistating.

  • Who said homosexuals are known for their tolerance? Although I do try to strive for that personally, some of the most biggotted people I know are gay. You got some lesbians that hate all men. You got some gay men that hate all women. Not many do but the ones that do have an intense hatred. I have witnessed more gays that don't like bisexuals. They get upset because they don't think bisexuals can get off the fence. This isn't prevelent in the gay community but it is definately out there.

  • Your political movement was based on that when it first started. Im not surprised your own community is not of 1 mind w/ eachother. Furthermore, you cannot hope to answer life's many ?'s w/ your text book responses. Through our conversations, you've shown how you write things in stone and do not allow other points of view to be considered that conflict with your own. That one track thinking you've displayed will cause the proverbial bleeding to worsen. Be a part of the solution. Im finished here

  • You don't realize that if person wants to change anything about themselves, failure is inevitable being so b/c we are flawed beings. However, it is determination within a person that allows them to continue striving to achieve that goal despite failure. A person of such nature will continue on until they get it right. We've all failed at things we want. Those who get it, never give up. Im sorry, its clear that you dislike a person leaving behind the gay lifestyle. I wanted to expose that. Thanks

  • It is clear that we disagree and that is fine but you have mentioned a couple of times her leaving behind "the gay lifestyle". I am assuming you are meaning what most people mean when mentioning that. If that is the case, I don't think it is fair you are calling it the "gay lifestyle" because I believe that "lifestyle is lived by far more straight people then gay people.

  • Lifestyles in that mannor don't define your sexual orentation, they can only define how easy you are or are not.

  • It's clear you think you know it all. This post both video and text is a frail attempt to convince yourself that change of feelings is impossible. While you waste your time here, many will achieve that "change" they so long for. My presence here is to show others that you are bothered by this "change" and to show that you would rather take their hope away then let them live. This points to a psychological insecurity in your own mind. Deny it all you want. I will say it again, leave them alone.

  • You are amazing! You just got yourself another subscriber. =P

  • Careful, you may give me a big head. Hell I don't need anymore help, I already have a big ass.  ROTFL.

  • What did Darwin say, Homosexuality is an evolutionary dead in. What would happen if everyone tomorrow were gay, it would be the end of the human race. Nuff said

  • What would happen if everyone was straight and was able to reproduce? The world would over populate and we would either kill ourselves by striping this planet of its natural resources and starve to death amoungst other things. Nuff said. Glad the world has some diversity in it. Its called the delicate balence of nature.  Nothing is natural about denying your nature.

  • If everyone tomorrow were roman catholic priests, it would also be the end of the human race.

    IF...

  • In reality, these "ex-gays" testimonials never gave enough FACTS to hold water. Was Charlene really gay? Those who are really gay do not have that "choice". For them people like Charlene are harmful because it can lead to despondency and suicide. Religious people who stand against gays are aparently very happy trying to get rid of them "in name of God". The way they are doing it is turning gays and haters into crime and suicide statistics. How Holy!

  • In truth, no amount of proof would ever satisfy you. I know your mind, you'll ferevently deny any attempts one may have to change themselves. You have more hatred in your heart than Christians. The truth is, the discrimination, bigotry and other false accusations are in your own heart and mind. Even Mystic admits that more hatred is in your community than in the hearts and minds of Christians. The only difference is you have laws to hide behind. Nothing rooted in cowardice will ever win the day

  • You may be able to read my mind if you are one of those who "talk" to god yourself.

    Nope, I will be VERY satisfied with a polygraph test result. But apparently god has something against that too, because so far no ex-gay jesus-freak has done it.

    I wish you could "walk a mile in my pumps" and then we'll talk about what hatred really means.

  • Your video is sweet.

    It's funny, reading these comments. I have never been able to connect with Christianity, mostly because every adherent I meet has a weaker understanding of their text and faith than I do, which I find rather pathetic. Religion is too often used as a way to claim superiority and status over others rather than the way it originates as a community support. It's funny how they use a religion to propogate their own opinions and forget that it's been translated x135720 times.

  • Oh my Go0000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­000000000000000000000000000000­00rd! Gay people are everywhere? . . . . Thank goodness for that! Diversity should be embraced.

  • Oh my Gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo­oooooooord! Gay people are everywhere? . . . . Thank goodness for that! Diversity should be embraced.

  • Gosh you take a hell of a lot of time to make a point - really ponderous stuff this.

  • I think you are a lesbian because no guy would ever be interested in you.

  • Well you just lost 50 IQ points. Not that it is any of your business but I get hit on by MEN and women all the time. How sad is it that I can have my pick and you can't even though you think you are so much better than me? The point is that if someone is attracted to those that aren't attracted to them usually end up going celebate and not changeing their sexuality like one would change their shirt. They aren't really gay if they could do that.

  • The Bible, God's word does say homosexuality is a sin you can except that or not. The Bible also says that we all have fallen short of God's glory, we all have sinned. Thank God for Jesus the redeemer of my soul, who has saved me :) and has taught me to repent ...

  • The bible also says people who wear poly-cotton blends should be stoned to death.

    The bible also has numerous accounts of incest.

    It's called historical context and understanding the cultural context of the text.

  • I can say from experience that I have struggled with my religion and what I have been taught to accept at face value from the bible and my sexuality since I was a small child. I love god and Jesus and not in all my prayers has a change of heart come about. One must look beyond the surface and see the man behind the curtain if you will.

  • Another great link-and teaching moment-through the 'GOOD AS YOU'connection. Let's hope that those who need to hear this simple, plainspoken response to Cothran's 'confession' do so. And while we're hoping-how about a little less hate in the new year? What a concept!

  • Poor woman. Contrast Cochrane's positive, hopeful outlook with this sad, hopeless diatribe.

  • Jesus can change your life...

  • Dear friend Jesus died for your sexual orientation, he loves you so much. He can transform your life with love. You were created to love and honor Jesus Christ.

    He loves you...

  • I think Jesus wouldn't care who you're fucking as long as you're fucking them faithfully, respectfully and with love monogamously for the rest of your human life.

  • You do not choose your sexual orientation, well, at least I dedn't. I was always straight, does anybody here recall the day or time they had to decide to be gay or straight?

  • Agreed.  My problem with her is that Charleen did decide to start trying to save all the homosexuals by trying to get them to believe that they are damned unless they change in one way shape or form.

  • I agree with you and as a Christian I am frustrated with the false teachings against gays that is so prevelant in the "church".

    peace

  • for 30yrs.?

  • I don't see why gays are criticizing Charlene. If she chose to leave that lifestyle, then so be it. Leave her alone. It's HER choice. Some people are born with predispositions e.g. addiction anger, OCD, pedophilia etc., and they face an uphill battle. Good for them should they decide to fight that urge. They aren't "cowards" as the author claims. They are strong. For a group of people who are all about "acceptance" the GLBT crowd sure are unaccepting of Charlene's choice. Hipocrits.

  • Jesus loves you, but homosexuals with not enter heaven!

  • Then I really don't want to be there. Speak to someone who could really care. I am not a Christian.

  • I agree. Scripture is very clear about this. Practicing homosexuals will not enter heaven. I think people should leave Charlene alone. She chose to repent. That's her free will and she chose God, not perverse sexuality. The author of this video needs to get off her back and respect her decision.

  • The Bible is not clear at all about this. At the time the Bible was written there was NO understanding of sexual orientation at all..the bible did speak out against sexual abuse, including same sex abuse.

  • You're right. I guess I just misread the following:

    Romans 1:27

    Genesis 1:27

    Lev 18:22-29

    Lev 20:13

    1Cor 6:9

    1Tim 1:9-10.

    Yeah, you're right, they didn't know what homosexuality was.

  • OK...66,000 verses and you found the 6-8 that mention samer sex activity (not sexual orientation which was not understood until the late 1800's)..now read them in CONTEXT...did Jesus even know about same sex activities?( Yup,He did) he sure camped on divorce but never once is recorded to mention Homosexuality...hmm, guess it wasn't a big deal to Him. Peace

  • boom. with all due respect, honestly, "did Jesus even know about same sex activities?" come on. I guess the all-knowing God, just never took the time to learn about that, well, except for Sodom. But I guess he forgot. By the way, the Bible is the word of God, so it doesn't matter if it says..."Jesus said..." it's ALL God's word. If you think God didn't know about homosexuality, you are severely limiting Him.

  • By the way, having the orientation, in itself isn't a sin, it's temptaion, just like drug/food/sex/TV addiction. It's acting upon it or seriously/deliberately contemplating temptation (any temptation that leads to sin) that is the sin.

  • The angels also praised a man for offering his underage, virgin daughters to a crowd of psychos in favor of two grown men who were strangers to him.

    Think about who wrote the bible, the cultural and historical context of the bible. Until you understand that, you don't fully understand the text.

  • Thank you for your comments. It is nice to know I am getting getting my point across or know that there are those that get it.

  • Do you mean that we should condemn homosexuals to death (Lev. 20:13)?

  • no. when WE sin, it's WE that condemn ourselves to death (hell), unless we make an honest effort at repentance and seek God's forgiveness. The point is, none of us is perfect, but we should strive to be holy and seek God's help/strength/guidance and forgiveness. We can't do it by ourselves, that's why He died for us. We ALL have some struggle e.g. anger, lust, addiction, etc that we could honestly say "I was born that way," but we are called to rise above that and be pleasing to God.

  • Look, I get your point and to a certain extent I agree that we all have our defects against which we should struggle. I just don't think that homosexuality falls in that category - it's to complex to explain further.

    By the way, Leviticus does not say "hell" it says something along the lines of "they should be killed swiftly".

  • So does that mean if the Bible told you you should be gay, you would be able to swing that way simply because the Bible told you that was the only way to be with out sin?

  • no..... unless they act upon it.. like sex i think..

  • That's funny.

    But beyond jokes, there are people in this world who actually believe that homosexuals should be condemned to death, and in fact in some parts of the world, they actually are. Moreover, even if you don't think they should be killed, people like Jbosso79 are straddling the line between disagreeing with homosexuality, and actually advocating public action against it (not in the form of death, i think).