Is You Dead Yet?

[WendyInDC]

Can she be saved? what has happened in her life that she is so desperate to get away from it like this? Very sad...

[marquisdejolie]

@WendyInDC

She beats her 79 year-old mother and steals from everyone in the family. She is a monster. Don't be fooled so easily.

[BETTYPRO40]

kevin does some excellent music!

[marquisdejolie]

@BETTYPRO40

He sure DOES!

[oldbag699]

when death comes calling she will missit cause she will be asleep

this would be funny if it wasnt so bloody serious - what a complete waste of a life - for all 3 of you

[marquisdejolie]

@oldbag699 Yeah, Beth is like a black hole.

[CWM480]

please get this woman some help

this is horrible.. please do something before its too late.

[marquisdejolie]

The ambulance guys refuse to take her against her will. The cops refuse to arrest her for committing crimes under the influence. The local E.R. refuses to keep treating her for drug ODs when all she wants is more drugs. The Adult Protective Services people refuse to separate Beth from her enabler.

[chevkoch]

But when your sister is not conscious or "there" as she appears in this video, the ambulance surely would take her to the E.R.? When do you call an ambulance?

[marquisdejolie]

@chevkoch

I used to call when Beth was seizing but the paramedicswouldn't take her. I used to call them when I knew she had overdosed but the cops and paramedics wouldn't force her into the ambulance. So now I only call them when her withdrawal pain makes her scream foul curses at God.

[chevkoch]

You seem to describe a situation where everyone is stuck. Your sister in her ways, your mother operating in co-dependent mode and the resources you know and turn to not helping towards a solution. Do you have a next step in unraveling this?

[marquisdejolie]

@chevkoch

I'm flummoxed.

[chevkoch]

@marquisdejolie In any case, good luck , James.

[marquisdejolie]

@chevkoch Thanks :)

[TheBlueFlamingo]

Buy her a coffin to sleep in (a cheap one) and next time she sleeps over 48 hours, bury her.

[marquisdejolie]

All my coffin money went to support momma while Beth was bleeding her for drug money.

[islandGAL7]

:  )

[marquisdejolie]

:)

:)

[phekwig]

Ninety hours just ain't right... I think you're allowed to pull the plug after forty-eight...

[marquisdejolie]

Hahaha!

[BeYourHuckleberry]

And I though I knew some hardcore nappers...goodness. Five stars!

[marquisdejolie]

Five thanks!

[BeYourHuckleberry]

No problem :) Sent you a PM about "Tobacco Road". Have a great evening.

[fiddlestix2006]

I know mama protects Beth, and doesn't wanna get her treatment. But how about if u slipped off and called the ambulance, and blamed it on one of us YT viewers??? Something needs to be done her, because she will get dangerously dehydtarted, which can cause a serious electrolyte imbalance. This can lead to more problems than u can shake a stick at, and the problem of dehydration is just scratching the surface here. :(:(.

[marquisdejolie]

The ambulance folks have been here so often that our address is on their "Problem Calls" chalkboard. I saw it at a recent fire station open house. If Beth refuses to go, which she usually does, they can't take her against her will. In fact, they are more than happy not to take her because the E.R. don't like her either.

[fiddlestix2006]

Since she's been in the bed so long, I am confused as to "why". Is she OVER DRUGGED, or OUT OF DRUGS, and suffering withdrawals? Does she ever eat? Is she egting up to pee and poop, or just going all over herself in the bed, because she's so "out of it"? Strangers or not, I have cried many tears over this situation, and sent many prayers up for ya'll. God bless u for tolerating this mess, James. :(:(

[marquisdejolie]

This time is Xanax withdrawal, I think, but it might be Seroquel overdosing. I don't know what role the hydrocodone plays.

[MyHils]

Yuck! What WAS in that bowl...

[marquisdejolie]

Turkey puke.

[theGHETTOMAN1]

hehe ya gotta get some of those alien/bug antenna springy headband things and put it on her when she's sleepin..or maybe do her make up for her while shes out..LMAO ; D *thumbs up*

[marquisdejolie]

One time I loaded Beth up into my pickup truck bed and drove her over to the local E.R. and dumped her into a wheelchair in the hallway.

[sheri226]

This has been going on longer than I've seen in the past videos. She perked up the other day when she asked if you had any meds... Is she detoxing James? As a nurse, I can't help but worry. Patients can suffer strokes/seizures while detoxing at home without medical intervention, some in-patient WITH help. Hope all is well, I don't live too far away, if you or Momma need help, let me know.

[fiddlestix2006]

God bless ya for offering to help,, lady !! :):)

[marquisdejolie]

Beth goes through withdrawal (and seizures) regularly because she overdoses every time she gets a new prescription.

[dkline00]

Ha! The ad that come up at the beginning of the video was for a Drug Rehab (Hint, hint)! I think there are two options, a, it's going to be all over soon, or b, she's pickled and it never going to end! Good luck bro.

[marquisdejolie]

Beth's been in drug rehab many many times. She's pickled by now. Its going to end badly because momma "protects" Beth from getting the help she needs.

[MrsE24179]

something REALLY needs to be done before she really is dead....This is terrible

[marquisdejolie]

Momma is the problem. She "protects" Beth from getting the help she needs.

[MrsE24179]

Maybe your mom needs to be helped too...seriously, not trying to be hateful, this is a tragedy

[marquisdejolie]

It IS, but its one where momma is fighting against me to get Beth help.

[BETTYPRO40]

@MrsE24179 u cant help anyone until they want to be helped......

[marquisdejolie]

Amen!

[lilliteningpea]

you're VERY brave going into that room

[marquisdejolie]

No sh*t! The germs. The germs! Poop and puke, booze and drugs. Nasty smell in there.

[hellavadeal]

I think she died years ago and just hangs around to give you guys greef. hahaha

Hang in there .

[marquisdejolie]

She looks undead most of the time.

[wiiiilbur]

Man! Hey, this is gonna end up bad dude. She needs help. SERIOUS help. I feel sorry for you and your mom.

[marquisdejolie]

Momma refuses to let Beth get the help she needs. Momma wants Beth drugging at home.

[farnk]

Into the arms of morphi...er Morpheus...

[marquisdejolie]

Either

:)

[Bl4zz3r]

Nice puke bucket...

[marquisdejolie]

That's turkey she puked therein.

:)

[2MuChDeAn]

most days i like turkey