Beyond SRS - Why We Stay Married

[lormahoykyd2007]

I agree your story is heart-wrenching. I am glad that you became the person you were supposed to be. You are an attractive woman. I would be honored to have you on my arm. Hopefully you will find that "third" option someday.

[TylerAJeffries]

keep your head up and pray to god he can help things between you and your wife will get better im sure of it

[rickyragoo]

I feel bad for both of you. You two need to work this out ,stick it out, and pray to God alot and ask him to forgive and help u two out , and with god in the primary spot of your lives, your lives will be awesome . ok

[MrVision1992]

since we deal on 3 levels as human beings, mental, physical and spiritual your feelings are about right.. What level haven't you addressed?  Try Jesus... he's not a religion( a man made set of standards.. He is the son of god who said he doesn't judge.. but if he did he would use your set of standards.. Your wife had made a vow and she intends to keep it... my belief.. the fruit is in the seed.. ( ovaries and testes) swap those and

you now possess the gender.

[Jensagirl]

Chloe,

This is such a heartfelt video, my heart cries along with yours as I was in a similiar situation.

I came out as a Lucent Technologies employee and they have the same guidelines as A.T.& T. so I pretty much know how that must have gone for you.

I wish you all the luck in the world but you will need to find that partner that can provide you emotional happiness.

Stay in touch

Jenna

[Nicolewhite2011]

your my hero

[azorpico]

You have paid already a high price becoming who you are now, it seems even if you would not have been a TS this marriage like so many other would not have lasted. Staying together for the kids is for many a responsibility which they take, although there will come a moment when one of the 2 will find another partner and the divorce is a fact. Better alone for some time taking your part with the kids and looking for a new relation and also for a post up woman there is a loving partner somewhere

[freshplay2]

so difficult conditon omg !!!how did you do this .

[smlaurieanne]

thank u for doing this doll

[theqmogvlogs]

We all need fulfillment, and the love and affection of others, its natural. I know this is deeply personal and you don't need to reply, I just want to put the thought out there: Have you and your wife discussed the possibility of polyamory, of perhaps having a deep long term friendship and parenting commitment while allowing each other to go on their own paths romantically?

[joycloud]

I'm in the same boat as your wife. I loved my husband though, and feel like he is dead to me now. No one understands how I feel or what I am going through and I don't know how to express it. I'm sad lonely scared hurt and mad, and that only touches the surface. I'm mad that the wives are an after thought.

[yescandles]

Children are quite resilient as long as there is love. I would suggest that you are probably not doing them any favors by staying together since the relationship is askew. You and your wife both deserve love and connection on all levels, including physical. It sounds like time to get honest and real with each other and go your separate ways. (except with the children, of course, which is a "forever" thing) I am not sure how old your children are but prepare to take the blame in their eyes.

[Jensagirl]

I totally agree with you, in an earlier video the children mentioned just wanting their parents to be happy. I wonder that when they grow up they will resent both parents for staying together on their behalf?

[wonderwhaz797]

Well, it's apparent that you both struggle in your relationship like most people do. The problem is that you're both in love with an image, a memory of what once was. There are not two people in this so called relationship, but just two images. Your wife never loved you, she loved an image, and you have your image about her. This goes to show that sexual orientation is a form of conditional love. It's the soul that matters, but who the hell gives a shit about that? Image and desire destroy love.

[wonderwhaz797]

Well, it's apparent that you both struggle in your relationship like most people do. The problem is that you're both in love with an image, a memory of what once was. There are not two people in this so called relationship, but just two images. Your wife never loved you, she loved an image, and you have your image about her. This goes to show that sexual orientation is a form of conditional love. It's the soul that matters, but who the hell gives a shit about that? Image and desire destroy love.

[Sheik1847]

My heart goes out to you. I hope you find what you're looking for in time.

-Adisson

[CarmenRob2]

OMG!! I am 100% in the same situation as you! It's not easy I know.

[riverwest1]

Chloe - Thanks for being so open and honest.... as someone who is trans-identified, but has not transitioned, this is one of my fears. (I'm attracted to women), but would anyone ever love me and accept me if I did transition?

I've read your blogs & various web pages & seen your videos and see both your joys and frustrations.

You are stunningly beautiful and obviously very deep and sensitive - an inspiration in terms of the total person I wish I could be!!!

Best wishes always!

[annbgc]

I had a lump in my throat while watching this video...I felt so sad for you. I'm sorry it's so difficult for you. I hope it gets better soon.

-Annie

[jamiegottagunATyahoo]

If you are both getting along, then staying together can be of benefit to the kids. But, if you're bickering and fighting, then often it can be worse to stay together, since they will get bad ideas about marriage and relationships. Only the two of you can tell what's right for your situation.

[kyndra1966]

Oh Chloe, that is so personal and heart wrenching. My heart goes out to you and I wish I had something to offer, but I will resist advice-giving. Really, what do I know anyway that a person of your level of introspection hasn't thought of already? I did share one feeling you mention theough, the fear of being alone. I was sure nobody could ever love me again after my wife and it turned out I was so wrong and I am certainly not exceptional in terms of luck or charisma.

[WendyDaCanuck]

Wow Chloe that is a powerful video. Thanks for sharing.

[chloeprince2000]

Mark, I'm very honored to have you comment on my page... I have been enjoying your page and songs for sometime. Thank you by the way for all hope and inspiration you give us all.

I am happy with myself... very happy - but living in a walled garden, unhappily.

[markangeloc]

The question is are you happy? That is all that really matters. I hope you are and I hope you can eliminate the fear that has you holding on.

Peace & Love