The Transgender Manual - Dress & Presentation Advice

[albundyhun]

u r pretty

[MsYassine1985]

you are beautiful

[dumbtrooper]

mmmm you look delicious

[midwife2thesoul]

Thank you for creating this video - I'm sure it will be of great help to other people in the transgender community - Hugs

[domnal]

Your advice is appropriate to all women not just Transgender I suppose.

However as you can only choose from what is in the shops and what is fashionable at the time.What are you supposed to do ? I mean just 'cos you are 60 today in 2011 does not mean you should dress 60 from a time gone by . I don't suppose that when you are 60 you will start suddenly dressing like your moth. I have seen women dressed in a variety of ways and If they are confident in their choices - what's wrong with that ? !!

[debbiemc0]

you look fantastic! im sooo jealous!

[oswale23]

You aré very hot i love pleas anwer

[xCazza1995x]

Have your bones become less dense since you've had female hormones?

[jake0010110]

@xCazza1995x

MTF hormones do not change bone structure. However, they do reduce muscle mass.

[urmwhynot]

@xCazza1995x I have heard that certain hormone medications used in transition can affect bone density and cause an onset of early ostero-related problems, but I can't tell you which ones.

[gearjammer65todrive]

you're beautiful.............

[20091965david]

schöne frau

[StudNerd1015]

:D wow ur hot ,

[MrMephisto38]

You're hot! :-)

[MichaelGim]

I Like You

[xyz01]

I fall at TS4 o the Harry Benjaman Scale, right in the middle of "transgender". I had never really considered that TV would not be GID diagnosed. It brings up lots of interesting issues. Like when you said in another video, do what makes you happy. I was not unhappy in my old life and I am not completely happy in my new one, though every day is an easy decision to continue this path. I have no identity disorder, I am in the middle. Society has a problem thought. :) I M a nude transvestite.

[earlybird38]

Damn are you transgender?!?! Wow you are completely gorgeous!!! I would date you in a heartbeat.

[elguapo342006]

u seem cool and are very gorgeous, move to maine

[GhibliFan1]

You're quite literally one of the most beautiful women I've seen in a LONG time - with facial bone structure to die for. Your transition is a 110% success...never in a million years would I have suspected you were born in a male's body. In fact I first thought your videos were fake...so I guess that is the highest compliment I could pay. Just be careful going around looking that good....heartbreakers like you should be illegal, LOL. ;)

[cwahner]

Great idea ... however, it might make sense to give some illustrations to single aspects of passing and to reduce repetitions in the video.

Moreover, I think that it is necessary to point out that there is a wide variety between feminine and masculine style. So, it can be very interesting to find a balanced mix of feminine and masculine elements for the individual outfit.

[malawri67]

urmwhynot you are very beautiful and sexy and feminine.congrats!

xoxoxoxo...

[XFox98]

Hey where are you located? I think you are very hot and your voice is extremely sexy

[Marisa20XI]

you're advice is very helpful, not to mention SO RIGHT ON!!!! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and for clarifying to well,...everyone lol! I mean, I respect the way a certain person dresses, or course, but I dont know, I have to admit, it can very...unsettling, when I see a t-girl of any sort dressing in way that just makes an ass out of themselves. I always compare it to someone who is "petite" (like myself) wearing XXL clothes. The "bagginess" would just make me look shorter

[heavensclown]

i am so turned on! How in the world!!!!!!! You are the girl of my dreams.

[irishfitzy22]

your gorgeous

[deathsminion25]

Nervous?

[emileyummyyum]

pretty stunning

[tsloverlarry]

Damn, you are GORGEOUS!!

[MrOrthopedia]

I have seen transvestite on cops, are they transgendered gay or just plain loco?

[urmwhynot]

@MrOrthopedia Transvestites are not the same thing as a Transgendered person as I discuss them, but the term Transgendered is disambiguous. So when it is used as an umbrella term(mostly in the medical community) a transvestite DOES fall under the 'Transgendered' umbrella. However, a TV will not generally be diagnosed with GID, whereas a TG/TS will be - its all confusing I know...so imagine how we under the unbrella feel. It you ask me, all of these terms are hideous. But the serve a purpose.

[tattii4u]

@MrOrthopedia they are not plain loco. its their way to express who they are inside. its the same way as for people who are born with both male and female genitals. its a way of expression and we all should be respectful of it because we all like to be respected.

[jmvargasme]

TA TA TODAY JR!!!

[1JenniferEnglish1]

adifferent.me

[samoanjake88]

She Very fine!!!!!

[elvis3700]

Your very pretty.

[dman2009target]

how come ?

[Cornel2025]

looks like chris crocker in transgending here! :D

[darkqueen47]

you cool youe edvice come in handy? thanks you rock al go quickly end rite your video? end also add your video to my collection?

[TGirlAficionado]

So goreous

[seor1234567]

I LOVE YOU MAMI

[armydawg1292]

wat the fuck

[xdearlifex]

I need to learn this stuff but it's giving me a huge headache. No clothes look any good on me.

[msbeejones]

girl, i love your point of view! so honest and down to earth. :) plus, i love your accent!

[gram1615]

I have been help Trans women as well as dating since i was 19,Im 26 now. Some old women dress younger because they never had a teen/college/young adult life. That could be a mistake but not a huge one. If you got the bod then rock it. Also stop hiding your adams apple. Everyone has them. Some girls have big ones.I know its a guys trait but hiding makes people look at your necklace or scarf if it tight around your neck. lose necklace are good. Also scarfs and other things depending on your outfit

[fernanndacdzinha]

Hi , you are so beautiful , I'm a guy from brazil , I'm living in California , I would like to meet you, where do you live? or do you have frendes like you here in California , I really love people like you , it is my dreem , I have this fantasy one day be like you or date a person like you...I do ... take care okay ...

[tiburoncita99]

que preciosa te ves eres realmente hermosa congratulations

[fhorn4ever2007]

thanks - this helped me a lot bit - so thanks for explaining it (oh and i love your hair, i wanna try that color-style ^_^)

[Mrstransdiamond]

thank you :D

[1621981]

im a MTF trans and i have not hand any surgery yet manyl because i can not afford it but i was wondering if you had any advice on how to hide my male private part that way i can actually look good in a bikkini

[150aintenuff]

learn how to tuck

[lorddarknite]

nice cleavage

[CardinalSergeant]

You rule, and you're bare pretty.

[jeannettesissy]

I wish that I were HALF as good looking as YOU!! Love, "jeannette"

[jesscaralsen]

I guess i think a little differently. If people want to dress younger than they are or wear something despite their body shape it shouldn't really matter. Even though i'm really early in my transition, for me its not only about trying to be passable, but accepting myself and I don't believe that trying to hide or not acknowledge my entire body will help me with that. I understand that many would disagree though.

[urmwhynot]

Hey, I respect your opinion... but this video is simply speaking on one of the biggest issues that will cause a transwoman not to pass. This to me is most valuable above anything else... And at the same time, its not all about being boring with your presentation.. its about being proportionate.

[vergettigrego]

@urmwhynot you're a hottie. got a hard-on seeing you . Do you like Latin/Greek men? i am straight and only active, i like very feminine women and transgenders

[nekrose483]

@urmwhynot this video really istrue. i think thatsome older TG women (older being older than me, i am a TG girl, pre op and i am 18, hopefully starting the HRT on monday!!!! ^^) theydress younger because they couldn't do that when theywere younger and it makes them feel better... i've had thosethoughs cross my mind.. you know.. i think everyone has.. "what i could've done if i was a real girl right from thestart" but hey.. atleast im starting this erly enough to live the rest ofmy life asa girl

[AliceHadAButchCanary]

@urmwhynot

AliceHadAButchCanary supports your advice 100%. I commend you for giving the advice in such a nice manner. You obviously have feelings for those who may be sensitive toward advice like this, but you have communicated well. Let's hope your advice is taken in context and may be a positive influence upon some in the transgender community.

[Kadda1234]

@jesscaralsen

this is about how to not make it obvious to the rest of the world, but seeming real

[StandardizedTest]

You're all girl.

[Tiffanynicolina]

Im also TS ...I think youre sweet, adorable, intelligent, cute, and extremely generous to be giving your time to help others. Youre voice is amazing as well !

Age appropriate dress is important in daily life for safety and passing, but on the other hand TS people are about freedom of expression and therefore we should encourage individuality . If a TS woman whos 40'ish decides to go out on a sat night in a mini and low cut top...she should do it !

HUGS !!!

[purotriphop]

I watch lots of blogs from transgendered people not because im transgendered its just something that intrigues haha idk, anyways and I do notice the dressing thing as well. You dress very well by the way, that top is ver flattering for your curvy shoulders. Great vid, btw you're one of my favorite MTF women.

[urmwhynot]

aw.. tnx champ:)

[blondesugar7]

Your absolutely stunning, petal, but you need to loosen up. Take confidence in how good you look and the nerves will fall away!

[parisnj18]

i went to your site, and it was pretty nice...altho your wrong about the 1 body shape....women mostly are triangles and men are intra....but in the site you have it the other way around, you should do some more reading...all in all i give it a 9, good job

[LexiSatisfaction]

Yes! Many transgenders I think need to learn this hehe. I myself find it somewhat easy due to being 5'9-5'10 and roughly 115 pounds~

[Loraguy]

Two simple pieces of advice that (surprisingly) need to be said.

[jcarey65]

I sure would like to meet you. You seem like a lady I would like to know better.

[robertv120]

Good video.