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  • objects on move tend to stay in move

  • I wanna see some videos of failedpl approaches. If a girl blows me off what's the right way of handling it? I want to see a video of unresponsive women. It would inspire me to keep moving forward

  • I'm just afraid of the conversation not being smooth. Maybe she's cold or maybe I appear creepy.

  • @kelly2charmin When you're starting out you can use routines to help you get through any awkward conversation, but eventually you'll feel comfortable just talking. Remember too that body language is absolutely critical in day game. It's already a shock to stop a woman and start talking to her, so your body MUST be saying the right things. Watch this and our other day game videos to see what the Love Systems instructors are doing.

  • @aznboyyeah How did it go with the blonde? And yea u are so right most guys are shit scared to aproach....I know I am.

  • @1THETRUTH10 Yes your right most guys are scared aproaching if have fresh out bootcamp and i had no idee that it worked so well i still have allot to learn but i wish this was here 20 years ago

  • It's absolute torture watching all those women walk past not getting picked up!

  • He's cheating! He has a cool accent! How dare he

    In all honestly, he has a great vibe and it inspires me to improve my game to this level.

    The girls want to pull him in, its great.

  • this is fantastic day game. I think for some reason it pays off to be a little apologetic at the start even though this conflicts with some PUA beliefs. For one the girls were hysterical and happy, and the number wasn't just some way to get rid of the guy. I have started day game and its fucking hard to get them laughing, number closes arent so hard but great work soul

  • I'm always worried that a random girl I approach might be in a relationship or maybe their boyfriend just stepped away for a minute. Don't know why I get hung up on that haha but it really does keep me from approaching a girl if I have any doubts. I don't care about looking stupid as much as I worry about offending or upsetting someone be it her or a possible significant other.

  • @jbartz Well never assume! You wont know until you try man

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  • Daygame is much more fun.

    Hit on girls in bars and clubs suck you have a million problems to deal with:asshole friends,asshole boyfriends,loud music,bitch shields,cockblocks...

    Daygame is funnier and I don't have to wait till friday or saturday night.

  • @SundiataOfMali

    "Daygame is funnier and I don't have to wait till friday or saturday night." I agree with that 100%. However, even tho picking up girls in clubs or in bars is a lil more complicated. You makes your game better and stronger, because you have to get used to over coming obstacles. So if you got game on LOCK in that environment, then daytime pick ups is NOTHING!

  • @movies1239 That's true but Soul said that a lot of guys who can sucessfully pick up girls in clubs are shit scared of talking to hot chicks during the day.

    I think the most intelligent thing to do would be: learn both :)

  • his voice is quite camp which totally helps in disarming the girls, as does his accent thats what I noticed

  • @aznboyyeah agree 100%. im currently studying the venusian arts 2, and planning on my first sarge next weekend. This guy's got skills.

  • you know what...a lot of these things contradict with David De Angelo materials. They don't have the same style. This guy is very open and friendly he is not cocky funny he gives direct answers ect...I found that it is much easier for me to have an approach like this guy here. sorry david

  • These "players" don't seem to understand the social setting differences between approaching women in the day time and in the night time at a club/bar. Soul is in control, he has solid body language, he has humor, and he is developing an exciting connection with them. If you have that much, compliments are welcome. And how do the people know that the brunette isn't attractive? She can be a solid 8, 9, 10 but you can barely see.

  • Why does he leaves first? The girls were standing there and chating, no hurry from them. Beacuse a real player doesn't settle for phone numbers. He can escalate and get a makeout or fuck the woman the same day. Thats a real player. He got the number so the movie is a blessing for 99% of people who want to learn how to deal with women.

  • if it was me, I'd just tell her "hey, i think you're really pretty and I love that dress you are wearing. Is it possible I could have your number? That is, if you don't mind." But, of course, only someone who is very confident about his looks can do this the straight-forward way :)

  • @xBl00dBrothersX That could work if you have absolutely rock solid body language and confidence. But even then, we'd probably suggest eliminating the "if you don't mind" part. Sounds a little like supplication.

  • @xBl00dBrothersX

    Would probably work if you where gay and would approach a dude

  • He sucks :)) He probablly looks two times better than those girls. Two much talking for a phone number. You don't have to be a player to get phone numbers. Girls give phone numbers to bums just to get rid of them. A real player kiss closes or fuck closes.Phone numbers and facebook is zero.

  • @romicabogdan "You don't have to be a player to get phone numbers?" Well, you sure do if you want those numbers to work. You're right, anybody can get #s that turn into flakes, but with Love Systems you get women answering your calls and meeting up with you. In day game logistics takes on a whole new aspect; most women, especially the good looking ones, are on their way somewhere and won't necessarily have time right then to come back to your place.

  • @LoveSystems I kinda agree with romica...you should have F closed threesome style in the middle of the street maybe.

  • I applaud people who do what they want... Seize the opportunities you are presented with or they are just opportunities wasted. You see someone you like or have an attraction to go ahead and start a conversation see where it takes you. Peace n Love everyone

  • Love it how everyones an expert on here! If you can do better than Jeremy why aren't you getting paid to teach other people!?

  • @higginside all these so called "experts" are probably night club gamers or approach girls after a couple beers. I've done both day game and night game. Day game is way better and I'm pretty good with night game. I sucked at day game cause it's a total different, almost opposite, way of "gaming", it fucked with my mind for a bit, but I've gotten decent at day game now and I like it more. Try it for a few weeks his way and see what happens. It worked for me and others and him, y not u?

  • He is good, but he gave too many compliments w/o any negs. When she said she doesn't get approached a lot, he should have played on it .

  • can u ask a girl her opinion on something after having approached her directly?It might be easy to have a conversation i guess.Let me know what u guys think.

  • @moijesuismoi99 What you're looking for is a good Transition, something you always need to go from an opener to a normal conversation. After approaching in a direct manner you don't want to use a generic opinion opener; it'll kill all of the momentum you've created. Notice something about her or where she's going and take the conversation from there.

  • Where's the kino, where's the sexual tension

  • walking up with a compliment...HELL NO

  • @smarteffort You might find it counterintuitive, but what works works!

  • you can easily tell if a women is easy ...usually short 5'4 below..fair looking are easy like this ladies.

  • Hes too good

  • The problem with this kind of approach is that girls get freaked out when they get approached by strangers. Even if you get their number when you call them they don't answer. Tried so many times and still having the same problem.. Or I'm hell of an unlucky guy.

  • @palindrome06

    Maybe you should try texting them. Texting is much easier esp. in the beginning because most girls are busy and don't feel like committing their time to a phone call for a guy who doesn't yet have enough attraction and comfort.  If the girls you approach are getting freaked out you must be coming on too strong, or not smiling, or being too un-natural. Just practice and go in trying to brighten their day rather than having an agenda and you will do fine. Props to Soul!

  • does nervous laughter count as well?

  • pretty solid.. from what i can see though his approach is aimed at a certain kind of girl.. luckily for him these girls matched, i wouldnt be surprised if he wasnt very consistant.. But hey, he's better than i am so what do i know..

  • I think its stupid with opener starting ''excuse me''...Excuse me for what? For that I want to say something to you? Thats nothing you need to excuse for....

  • @AdamasCZ It's polite and shows you have social skills to say "excuse me" when stopping a stranger on the street. In most cases it would be a little weird to get in front of someone and start in on a routine or try to begin a conversation; you can try it and probably succeed with the right attitude and body language, but you must be very careful not to come off as having bad social calibration.

  • @LoveSystems Thats right. I am also in the game, Im trying to dont start the conversation with ''excuse me'' I like word ''please'' thats OK to say because you need some information from her..good luck with your game buddy

  • :25 I bet if the dark haired broad was fat and the blonde was thin,, he would have said "You're both lovely, It's just that I have a thing for blondes"

  • I consider myself an 8, who shoots for 9's and 10's which is difficult. Girls that are 7's, and 8's, are also shooting for 9's and 10's, making it difficult for both of us.

    ......

    5's and 6's are shooting for my league, which makes it super easy for me. Problem is, an 8 is not interested in a 5.

    Damn mother nature.....you cruel.

  • Not that complicated. These girls are not very attractive, he chose them specifically for their average looks and their friendliness. (You can usually scope someones friendliness, especially when they are with other people). He is out of their league.

    ........

    Pickup is easy if you shoot below your league. Most people shoot high, or wait around in life until they are 40 until they aknowledge their own league.

  • SHOPPING? usaly the type of girls are busy and bitchy wtf!

  • he used to open with "excuse me", i remembered Mystery (master PUA) saying that opening with that lowers your value. doesn't it?

  • @kevtje2k That's somewhat old technology nowadays. Jeremy Soul's Day Game approaches are legendary, and you'll see in his videos that they don't require a tremendous amount of tactics and lines. He's very honest and often direct, getting right to the point. "Excuse me" can often help to show that you're socially calibrated, not just grabbing at random girls on the street.

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  • @kevtje2k

    true!

    and i do way better with only 4 months PU experience. ^^

  • @kevtje2k Saying 'Excuse me' can lower your value if you let it. Like Mystery Method and The Game explains, it looks needy or beggar-like. However, if you're confident (as in don't stutter or sound like a mouse when you open) this polite approach works just fine. It sounds odd, but I've opened sets on buses, in stores and on the street with 'Excuse me, madam'. Combined with a wry smile, this exaggerates the formal approach in a playful way. This means you can be polite without being a sap.

  • how in the hell these girls are so friendly...all the girls i approach are fucking cold and has huge ego and bitch shield.

  • @gongxia649 Maybe your approach is too strong or your body language needs some work? On the Love Systems website we have several articles and posts about Day Game; check 'em out!

  • @LoveSystems You need to approach strong, like invade her space.

  • @gongxia649 What you do pre open is very very important. If you approach with a smile and assume a warm response, it usually happens. Always assume comfort...

  • @gongxia649 Very true. They're probably paid actresses for the video.

  • @gongxia649 Change your game to more laid back and disinterested mind fuck. Make them think they are picking you up. Watch some clips of Californication's "Hank Moody". You'll learn a shit ton.

  • @WillWriteYourSongs My game is direct not indirect. I don't think that will work.

  • fatties.

  • i cant understand his accent

  • @killlagger468 It's called English. He has an English accent. English comes from England. You guys need to leave your country now and again and stop relying on Disney for your view of the world. There's more to the planet than the USA.

  • @townie76 Y do Europeans assume Americans never leave the country? i never understood this big misrepresentation.

  • @townie76 Got that right.

  • I have public fuck closes after 1min

    I send several dhvs withing 10 secs

    I bang HB11 all the way

    Hell, I am such a cool pua!

  • epic

    

  • sometimes it's quite hard to keep the convo going but he looks so natural when doing it.I wished I could do that.And also in case if the girl is a bitch what do u do u just walk away from her or try to get through the bitch shield?

  • He did some more convo after the number so that she feels it wasn't just a cheesy pickup

  • oh i get it, rapport..

  • This was a pretty long pick up...why didnt he leave after getting the number?

  • Is it ok to swear in pickup's or does that lower your value? 

  • @FitFast8 There is no hard and fast rule on this. Try to avoid it though because for some women it will be a turn-off.

  • this is quite basic gaming in my opinion. anyone could have got the number here. he kept the 'date' quite open ended. he should have agreed to meet up that evening (fuck work) or created a time bridge to a meet up within 48 hours. plus they didnt look that hot

  • but the girl with the glasses is clearly aware that he is with two other guys, one of which is facing them, holding a camera at head height, and pointing it in her direction

    also the blonde girl 3/4 through notices the guy with the camera and stares for a few seconds like him why is there a guy pointing a camera in my direction?

  • Pimp!

  • damn looks exhausting. I must be getting old.

  • ewww but those girls r rank!

  • i applaud his sincerity, you just know it came from the heart. I was wondering how long it would take you to get good at day game, if only practicing once a week for say 3-4 hours? Anyone have any vague estimations!

  • @whotwhot44 Within a couple months is def feasible.

  • @LoveSystems thanks will defiantly try! 

  • Looks too much like hard work to me. I know people like that who spend hours chatting up randomers and get nowhere beyond friendship. Save it for the dancefloor.

  • the dude is good but it contradicts magic bullets alot, he opens with clear intent which i guess is a more advanced approach i thought the objective was to get them to think your not hitting on them until they are attracted to you? but i could be wrong haha i just started looking into you guys like a month ago savoy is brilliant by the way.

  • @JoshuaGT06 The classic indirect mystery method is formulated for a club environment where women get hit on a lot. In the day time, no-one's doing this, which is why direct is used.

  • @yaziyo right but if shes a gorgeous girl she has still been approached a big number of times it dosnt matter what time of day it is that she gets hit on, so i guess its just the girl

  • @JoshuaGT06 hiding intent is one of the worst things you can do in pickup. 

  • Did one of them say "Love you, bye" at the end?

  • wow that was amazing! respect!

  • Props to him. He's a pro. Pulling off that body language without any hint of nervousness and coming off as calm, cool, and collected takes enormous practice. When you make it look easy like he does, it means you're good -- like Olympic ice skaters. Does he do camps in America?

  • @jkirk1626 Thanks! He actually does teach workshops all over the US, specifically for day game. Have a look at our website for more info.

  • @LoveSystems now your material is all over the net and has gotten several media coverage. What i am trying to say, dont the ladies already know about this stuff and they might make fun of me if i try to pick them up using love system material

  • @drinkyman2007 No, because 80% of the guy who read this stuff have these beliefs and NEVER actually approach.

  • not bad

  • It really does take a certain type of person to approach people like this. Even if you know what to do, you still may not necessarily be able to do it right

  • you don't have to learn social conduct from idiots on Youtube. - It's built in and intuitive.

  • lol @ the guys facial expression (The one facing the camera) looiool

  • In b4 the girls flaked!

  • i was only watching him and i had butterflies!

    I would love to be able to do that, I could try it not a problem but I think I would get stuck and there would be an awkward pause which is bad. If I could do it the way he did I bet I could close more than 10 numbers in a day easily because all your doing is havign a friendly chat.

    He was smooth, kept the ball constantly rolling up to the point he left them. and he was talking to two girls.

  • @f1tness It's something you can learn. It's a skill set like anything. It took him a lot of work to get at that point, but as you saw totally worth it. We have workshops where we teach all these things and take you out too to show it.

  • hi

    is there supposed to be some kind of 'pre-conversation' interaction with a girl like eye contact flirting, which gives you the green light to open or could you just approach her instantly even though she never saw you from afar?? i always thought the girl had to show an indicator of interest usually by eye contact, then you can approach??

  • Fuckkk...dude is ugly as fuck but still mackin..

  • I don't like Jeremy Soul's game. Reasons being is that he said "Sorry to ...." at the start of this approach. Plus he seemed abit too needy, in his body language. Girls like Bad Boys, Soul doesn't seem like a "Bad Boy"

  • This guy is doing all the work, I can barely spot a point where the girls are saying something. He doing as a 100% entertainer to them.

    He closes the number but how effective this can be?

  • @Katyna780 If he were to stop talking, guess what would happen? Awkward silence, and he would have to eject. This way, the more he talks the more he can convey a possibly attractive personality which the girls will have a chance to like, as opposed to the everyday polite and nice guy that will undoubtedly end up in the friend zone.

  • @HamsterManV2 Great comment.

  • @Katyna780 Bottom line is he showed them a good time and they will associate him with good feelings, which will make them want to see him again. The point of "pick up" is to get more time in the future so the girls can get to know you and thus a relationship may grow from there.

  • @Katyna780 good point, ideally you want to get them starting to invest in you. however, this is LondonSoul and I assume he knows what he's doing.

  • I like his energy level and his proper use of a direct opener

    But the girls were already interested in him b4 any DHV

    And his body language seemed like he was gonna stay there forever

    I personally think this video is of little educational value

    But at the end of the day, the girls liked him and he #-closed so great job

  • He said sorry from the very start? What's up with that, isn't it our duty to approach women. We are not to apologize! And this convo took too long, he should have left some mystery in it. Leave that convo for when ya go out for drinks.

  • what i was wondering, friend of mine really looks like he had a car accident. he was born with some deformaty. how can these kind of guys get women??

    plz i really need help, cause i cant stand watching him being depressed all the time

  • @ziggaza make him contact Love Systems. Any man can get any women. Looks matter, but only to a certain degree.

  • @ziggaza its called a hooker dumbass

  • too much too long, get the number and get the fuck out.

  • Every girl loves a gay best friend.

  • Nicely done dude :P

  • LoveSystems, Not just another video, this one stands out.

  • "Excuse me"?

    Isn't this beta language? What are you excusing yourself for?

  • That dude is annoying.

  • lol @ all the kj's talking shit

  • that guy was awesome man shit

  • All the people who typed negative things about this are right to do it.

  • this guy should go back to india or whatever hell hole he came from.

  • india created america.

  • @1987dman what the hell makes you say that. I don't want an explanation either. That's just dumb. Jews did. LOL

  • Lads I am currently Sarging in Iceland, and it is almost impossible to Peacock here as EVERYONE dresses strangely. It helps being Irish but the tips in this books are a little difficult to put into practice.

  • Those two girls were chubby and fat. WTF They are easy. You don't need a book to tell you how to get them.

    Brits have poor taste in women just like Americans.

  • hahahahaah, so who has good taste in women?

  • Both. Americans and Brits.

  • no u just said they have poor taste in women, so i asked which country has good taste for women then? lol

  • ah so sry. Best countries for women are Southern Europe, Eastern Europ/Russia and parts of Latin-America. Way more high qualiy women compared with the U.S.

  • @madmaxninja08 I dunno man. Women in SoCal, Austin TX, Miami FL, Phoenix AZ are as hot as they come.

  • Texas is the fattest state in America.

    SoCal is all fake boobs.

    Miami, mostly same like SoCal.

    Phoenix, they're too short.

  • You obviously haven't been to Austin, all the fatties are mid aged women in Houston and San Antonio and the hillbilly areas. Take a trip to Austin sometime and you'll be blown away.

    Some women in Socal and Miami have fake boobs, but they'er still better than easter european boobs, which either don't exist or are readioactive growths from chernnobyle.

    Phoenix girls are taller than Latin American girls.

    Oh and southern european women have an expiration date.

  • I been to Texas, including your Austin, most of the women even under 25 looked overweight and averaged 150 pounds.

    Go visit Eastern Europe, and you will see the women are superior. Visit Prague, Kiev, Budapest, Moscow, or Bucharest, where they recruit girls for fashion magazines.

    And you clearly never been to Brazil. Another place where they recruite modelts.

    As for Southern Europe, American women age once they hit 25. Southern Europe is home to the Medeterranian diet.

  • no mind asking but what about miami? id it easy to pick up chicks there?

  • with money and/or nice cars.

  • it all depends on the girl. but what places are the best to pick up girls in miami

  • try clubs, bars, or lounges. you could try beach but it is difficult, and if you are fat and obese, then no chance.

  • i am assuming you mean hot girls. if u want fat girls, they are easy. anyone can get them.

  • yes i mean hot girls. u got to be retarded to go out with a obese girl, unless the guy is obese

  • That's good you have good taste

  • thank u

  • what do u mean be SoCal

  • SoCal is short for Southern California

  • @EAWingZeroGundam Not at all, you'll be killed there.

  • what do u mean and where?

  • faggot

  • i wanna see a guy pull this off in nyc its shitt out here.

  • @exsymphony fuck that

  • why fuck that? do u agree its hard? do u even live in nyc lol

  • @exsymphony

    in the end, if you are good enough (ofcourse you need to look tidy, smiling etc.) you can get ANY girls number. even if its on the moon.

  • @ziggaza that's because, the phone number is something, but not the ticket to her heart...... so if she enjoys your company, why not explore you? even two times talking with her doesn't meen that you would be her boyfriend..... maybe best friend, or having good time twice a month???

    i see that he dont let the girls talk... he let them answer only to his questions, if i heard the conv. by mistake i would really think he is a little crazy.......

  • @exsymphony Really? No way. America is way more friendly, in terms of approaching girls, than in the UK. UK girls are bitchy and reserved, culturally. American girls seem more naive and extrovert. That's why Maury works in your country and not over here lol.

  • entrepreneur in online marketing... he's good. im watching this video.

  • Soul is great, is talking a lot and keeps interrupting but still good stuff

  • very good conversationalist he never ever let it get any where near akward no routines very natural confident and intent was clear

  • i know, i was expecting routines since is love systems. But awesome!

  • once you learn to cycle you dont need the extra weels and the stick

  • That was very impressive.

  • This guy is a PUA master because he is so ugly.

  • lol at 5:17

  • day game is very different of club game. Wouldnt be lavishing them with compliments in a club....

  • 0:45

    -We are going to shopping...

    Maybe a good gambit should be:

    -You're lucky today, I'm free of charge....

    What do you think?

  • You would be devaluing yourself if you said that.

  • I notice that people that actually have value don't spend a lot of time thinking about "devaluing" themselves.

  • Who gives a fuck? Thinking about value makes you low value.