Online Dating - How Soon Should You Take Down Your Profile?

[21centurynostradamus]

slowbeef's video okstupid sent me here lmao .

[operations1000]

If you're a male on match.com take it down IMMEDIATELY, you'll get harrassed by angry biter women on there it's not worth the hassle, go on plentyoffish or adult friend finder..something else!

[makingbux]

A lot of sites have a "hide profile" option which hides your profile from search results. If you think you may have found "the one" but aren't quite sure yet, use this option until you are more sure of the situation. This way, if he/she turns out to be a dud, you can make your profile visible again with one or two clicks instead of having to completely re-create the whole thing. Then just update your existing profile from there. You can then delete it when you're sure of your relationship.

[LittleImpaler]

As soon as you are dating someone. A lot of people cheat online.

[xcutekatie18x]

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[kortexsirvasil]

What the fuck is wrong with your sleeves???

[LongReach]

@kortexsirvasil bahaha that what i was thinking!

[MatchableDate]

You guys are great. Yes, don't take it down until he decided to talk to you and set the record straight.

[luv2bud]

Add some Drano to that Windex you like to drink. It's really good . . .

[datingonlinedating]

How Soon Should You Take Down Your Profile? The answer id obvious... You take your profile down when you don't want to date online any more.

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[AthenaLailaify]

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[REXROTH61]

this sucks dog balls

[axelowns1337]

Did this question really needed to be answered? 

[brizzlestick]

dating is just getting to know someone for who they are..

shouldn't have to use a dating site to find someone.. that's too easy..

the old fashion way is not a bad way to date. lol..

shouldn't even have a dating site up in the first place.. worry about your own life, and get things right with your own life, before you have someone swoop in, and cling to you.

[californiarawrstarr]

if your legit in a relationship and he takes his down =]

[NocturnalSweetie]

you don't take it down until you are in a relationship

[archetype001]

Hi Dan&Jenn,

I just studied on my mba class that the number of singles are raising, and one of that is me. So, need your help, okey here is my question about online dating, how long should I persue someone online if they don't want to meet but keep on emailing/chatting?

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[hyrohero1]

so... when a guy looks at online dating profiles, he's not just looking for the hell of it, he's a LYING, CHEATING JERK!

stupid fucks.

[rcc8xoxo]

they hav some good pionts bt at the same time they didnt say i would like my man to take his profile down after 6 months but kind of think its a guy thing look at her husband think men just like having bunch of women that are sults and show every body every thing maybe not sure not a guy cant understand

[chrisgugino]

@rcc8xoxo jesus fucking christ, dude. it's called the english language and clearly you haven't spoken it ever.

yr post should read:

they HAVE some good pOInts, BUT they DIDN"T say, 'i would like my man to take his profile down after six months.' but I kind of think IT'S a guy thing. look at her husband. I think men just like having A bunch of women WHO are sluts and show everybody everything. maybe not sure a woman can understand.

[chrisgugino]

@rcc8xoxo capitalization added to show corrections for yr horrible attempts at grammar and spelling, you fucktard.

in fact, i'm even questioning if the post in question was written in english. do you speak fucking tagalog or something?

[rcc8xoxo]

@chrisgugino stop crying you little fairy really asshole iam sure iam not the only one who has made a mistake in grammer on you tube you sissy lalla bitch dont get your panties in a bunch unless it is in your nature to cry like a true punk ass bitch i will continue my bad grammar on youtube until you stop annoying me and complain with out being so fuckin rude you are like nagging bitch on your period shut the fuck up i dont care stop reading it if you dont like it dumbass

[DudeWithaPage]

when its facebook official...

[Affrogamer]

a gun is begin pointed to dan's head

[TheRealBlackHair]

looking for a woman for friendship.

someone who's out going and likes animals, especially sheep.

with a keen interest in music and beach valley ball.

must be in late 40's to early 80's and chubby please.

oh, and she must have lots of money.

well thats about it, come and get me get ladys!

[Randumb96]

Dan looks like the kinda guy who says he has to stay late at work, but secretly goes to bath houses and sucks dick

[bobobobo568]

Dan: I suggest you grow facial hair.

It will make you less "killed by marriage" looking.

[Hannahdabeast]

faggot drink.

[SLDrisk]

Has our race stooped so low that we need a video to tell us how to deal with this? Dan, I highly encourage for that shirt to stay in the closet and never come out.

[shakerson]

That was, by far, THE most annoying fucking thing I have watched in my entire fucking life. I hate you both.

P.S. That song sucks horsedick.

[YakChap]

Take it down when you've had too much poontang. So much that your old chap is red and sore and it hurts to walk.

[Fingermush]

She pronounced Nevada wrong.

[FlameAdder]

I wanted to rate this 1 star, but there ARE no more stars! Now I'm sad. Disliking just isn't the same.

[CCP2]

kill your're selves

[jannecechmanek]

@CCP2 kill your are selves

[urantivirus]

@CCP2 nice, now I don't have to write this comment and hope it gets thumbed up. epic fail on the "your" though. lol

*yourself ;)

[posthumanfetus]

A: Take down your online profile when you give up on online dating sites.

[mouthmw]

you 2 schmucks look like a rundown out-of-job porn whore and a hoping-to-land-a-gay-porn-job faggot, a bald one.

[greenimp111]

Now, call me crazy, but maybe when you're no longer single?

[kerirose2009]

I agree with Jennifer :).

[ToshiroDK]

My thought... Take down your profile.. and tell her.. that shows commitment :-) When to take it down? ... Take it down when you feel it's right... generally that would be just before you start being -just you two- ...

[vince38curious2]

When we get married!

[maywora]

when i'm in a relationship ....after i broke up with someone ..or when he breaks up with me ....then i put it back up again :)

[onyxhart]

This is what I think.. It is the Candy Store Syndrome. I think they always are looking because that piece of candy looks a little bit better then this piece of candy, I think I should just try that one ..  That is just my opinion.

[DecayofReconcile]

Seriously if you have to use an online dating service you're a fucking loser!!!!!

[likawildcougar]

@DecayofReconcile

this is probably coming from a loser who probably even hasn't even been on a date.

[TeknoMaX]

I've never used one of those things, but they are made for people who don't have the time to keep going to bars, pubs, discos or whatever to find someone, or doesn't have a bunch of friends so they introduces somebody to them. My bet is that if you are such a closed mind that can't understand loneliness, it's you who are the f*cking looser...

[LovelyWhiteWitch]

this video is an eye-opener to me. my bf and i are already in our 8-month relationship and he still has his damned profile on a dating site. i deleted mine after a month of our relationship. he's doesn't even changed his relationship status from single to in an relationship. he said he's not opening it but i found out that he even updated it with new photos and added girls. am i so stupid to still keep him? yes, i know i am!

[YakChap]

@LovelyWhiteWitch It doesn't mean he's cheating on you. He's probably just keeping it up so he doesn't have to type it all out again when you inevitably get fat and he has to dump you. 

[skmeeras]

i have lady dress like and sex no enjoy how to possible life

[ShanellMum3]

MAYBE AFTER A MONTH!!

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[bestamerica]

why NO closed captioned in here video

[benoitvibes]

it doesnt mean that he/she wants to cheat, its a confidence thing , the internet is fiction in many ways ... be more confident of the real world , and you wont be jalous ... maybe just less

[waschdel16]

der Typ hat keine Ahnung

und ne schwule stimme xD

[keyser33]

when she puts out!

[havemyownmind4life]

when she is living with the person. why do girls everytime they are passing or they look or see me they laugh whats it mean?

[Frazin75]

Good Answer Jennifer! {when you both agree you're an exclusive relationship} ; ).

[OswestryGrey]

Leave your profile up just in case you new girlfriend turns out to be a crack whore (which is often the case).

[debzeppeliniv]

lmfao

[ShanellMum3]

LOL!!!

[eljagg01]

When you're in an exclusive relationship. Absolutely, Jennifer. :D

[alorathegreat]

i think jen looks like febe off of friends

[Discreet2Infidelity]

i love it

[goofywilly]

Just won a BIG lottery and was lookin to party one time before settling back down.Are there any honest sites out there? LOL my Lawyer said not to do anything like this but oh well!!! the temptations are too great!!!

[JenTeaRs]

Just do what the fuck you have to if you are taken put ur profile as taken, if u r single again then as single , i dont get it? whats actually the question..btw if girls didn't know guys always cyber and flirt with online girls even if they have a Real life GF . Guys : sick pigs, dont trust them :) . they think its noting until you do those things too pretty Owned OK BYE -bad english- [just dont date if you are thinking of someone who might come after that person,Thats just a MANWHORE the END]

[OswestryGrey]

Leave your profile up permanently so you can have sex with another girl when the first girl has her period.

[7775399]

those days you don't trust any body, you lock somebody in but that somebody is looking for a spare, and don't tell me there should be trust beacsue there isn't, so keep your profile active and on different websites too.....life is short.

[LindB377]

Dating websites are going to lead to overpopulation. They make it that much easier for people to find their "perfect match." Then they will fuck and have babies = overpopulation.

[doujinshilover64]

I think you should take down your profile after you've been dating for at least two months, that way both of you will be sure you will want to continue dating or not

[Suorrel]

I always get the feeling that these guy just finished having sexs before shooting? Probably just me.

[alorathegreat]

ha thats the only way they can stand each other

[parluv09]

nice!!!

[Asterix0205]

i dont agree with B00mBoomboy, because i know a girl that put her status as "in a relationship" and the boyfriend got played and i also got played. if you really care for someone you should take your obvious dating networks

[seeqer109]

agree

[FlowingGeisha]

When I get a boyfriend then the profile comes down. If we break up, I have other options to interview.

[Idate2009]

I agree. After I started dating someone I found on People2People I took my profile down, knowing I could always put it back up if I needed to. Luckily we've been together for almost six months, so I haven't had to go back!

[ursaucie]

I totally agree with Jennifer when you both talk about it and both decide to take them down and when you both decide you are in a committed relationship. If it doesn't work out you and the relationship is over then you can always post them back up.

[B00mBoomboy]

I don't think you should take it down, just change your status to "in a relationship"!! if ur partner is that possessive of you that they want you to shut down your myspace, then I think you should take the partner down!!

[gio957]

its never a good idea to meet people in front of a computer,most online dating are scams anyway

[Jazzper79]

You take if off after she has asked you to be the boyfriend. And she should take off her own right there also.

[YakChap]

@Jazzper79 "after she has asked you to be the boyfriend". Are you in 5th grade or something?

[Jazzper79]

@YakChap Why?

[deejaystyle1]

keep it up and forget its there basicly. lol

[Calisto100quality]

it's all about Calisto100

[syberiaman7]

the starting song is from Hot4Words

[Gandocera]

i could not get ony women from online dating site, it is lie, most of the is guy, or ugly girl.

[tikafabulous]

But I think they have the perfect answer! As soon as you are both exclusive and talk about it.:) And that is the day I will jump for joy...dating sucks!

[johndavies115]

Keep it up forever.

[Ana1Hai1]

but yeah take it off once you feel a connection to that other person.

[Ana1Hai1]

well i don't have an online profile but i would say that it is best that you change it if it is on a social network like facebook. but for me being a guy, looking doesn't hurt as long as you're not planning on doing anything and your girl/partner knows that you are online and they are ok with it.

[WonderWomanUS]

Hi nice to to see men and women not lying to each other. I'm a woman and I think we would have all benefitted from not hearing that 'men are cheating jerks line.' There is no shortage on women who bullshit themselves, then get uppity and offended

[jtaha]

aww I've never paid attention to your hair Dan...it's FALLING!! lol jk

[LBJcontrol]

and maybe its because people forget about the profile.

[Region39]

I agree with Jennifer. =)

[robertdoyle1975]

Your losing the hair Dan

[DanAndJenn]

it's been slowly going that way for 10 yrs, lol. high virility, what can you do... :-)

[Majutsukou]

Just make sure you shave it all off the day you find yourself wearing a crown. ;)

[Helghast]

I thought that was a yamacha. lol

[SoDamnGangsta]

@DanAndJenn you used virility completely wrong. also youre a faggot

[donkeydong75402]

I would say delete the dating profile after you have been on a couple of dates with the ones that have replied and you have weeded out the ones where there is no way and have narrowed it down to just a particular one

[edmondov]

Someone does not have common sense and therefore, needs advice

[hornydutch2]

a lot of the times u dont really answer the questions haha is all so subjective :P u talk ur way around it.

[snoopyloopy]

yeah, i agree. if a couple hasn't talked and defined their coupleness, no one there is REALLY obligated to act exclusive when they're not.

[Rubberbandmoviesinc]

Never is a good answer because in case you guys get into a fight and break up then you pick from the people that pile up lol.

[idgirl97]

You don't know that this guy is a "lying cheating jerk" - I met my husband online and our dating profiles are STILL up because we want to meet friends. It isn't just a dating website, it's also an easy way to find local people who share the same interests. Not everything needs to be reduced to a level of being immature and untrustworthy.

[idgirl97]

also what if just forgot he put the damn thing up? It doesn't mean he's using it. I know I don't have time to piddle around with removing old profiles all the time.

[idgirl97]

the thing to do really is being communicative and open, and ASK what the deal is if it conerns her... he probably doesn't mean to offend.

[Backhymen]

My thoughts exactly without actualy meeting someone they shouldnt label them anything if they dont know the whole story behind what is happening, its like back in middle school when someone would hear a rumor about someone and badmouth them which is exactly what jenn did

[chachee99]

I think Jenn nailed it on the head. No one should ever take down their profile until they know they found the person they want to be with.

[TheJazzman44]

I think that cheating is probably the most common reason to not take it down, but you never know, it may just be random fun online, I mean is watching porn cheating, some might consider it to be, others not so much, I mean it kinda depends on your partner, and also you should take it down once you know that you are certainly going to be committed and won't need the page up anymore, until then it could probably stay up as just in case the new relationship goes under, you never know

[BigFireDave]

I see answeres that are childish and some that are quite frank. But it is not an easy question to answer! IF you have had the conversation and it is agreed upon then both profiles come down. If one is commited to a relationship his or her profile will be down without the conversation. If the other stays up, forget it. Unless you have had the conversation and decide you both are commited to each other but want to keep the profiles up, but that is an entirely different topic all together. ;-)

[chachee99]

That's bullshit! Once you had a conversation without any bullshit about commitment, and I do mean bullshit, then the profile should be taken down. Some people say that they want to be with someone, but actually don't believe it. Once you feel connected with someone then you can take down the profile because you feel that you are exclusive, which isthe key word here, in the relationship that you are in.

Excusive is user defined.

[belail8]

5 stars you guys are great))

[iLOCOE]

o 3o;; Nice? xD

[jjintexas]

Jen is right- If you haven't had a convo to say you are exclusive- assume you aren't. You have to make sure that the other person is looking for the same thing you are. Some people like to window shop and some want to buy- know who you are dealing with, and be honest about what you are looking for.

[mlw1968]

When you had "SEX"

[chachee99]

absolutely not. SEX? sorry, but sex does not solidfy any relationship. If sex is used to make the realtionship excluse, then perhaps one must look at sex in a different light. Sex is not something that one must earn in any relationship. It is something that both people must feel once they have an emotional connection. For some it might be a single night, or several. But really the amount of time doesn't matter.

[HindranceToAll]

second, awkwardish :)

[joshua188]

i would take it down when you can both say that your happy being with each other

[F4T4LL3G3ND666]

first view

[lewisbd92]

and your point is faggot?