How to be a happy single / Love coach Carolin Dahlman

[DMRCapitalHill]

Im single

[Doityourselfgal]

Giving thanks on a regular basis works. Thanks for sharing all of this.

[Svenrox]

you make me smile just watching you.

:D

[texasmedic416]

Let me let you all in on a little secret. Life is full of a few winners and WHOLE LOT OF SINGLE LOSERS!!!!!!  Just like me

[carolinlovecoach]

@texasmedic416 Watch you mouth and thoughts. What you say about yourself will come true. You deserve better sweetie

[VooDooLynx]

@texasmedic416 I'm single and I'm bi-winning.

[2050miltons]

MERRIE ME?

[shechshire]

now from a phycological point of view, most people drop into this mentality because they've been either hurt or just had a bit of bad luck and use this "you don't need anybody" mentality as a defense mechanism. the truth is that like, loving, or whatever you want to call it requires commitment and by commitment i mean an emotional one in that this person now has the potential to break it leaving you emotionally hurt. There's no use in denying it. All there is is to know who u r and be mature.

[shechshire]

@shechshire sure, you don't absolutely need someone at all times to make you feel happy but, eventually you will want a partner so theirs no point in going out and saying you don't because if that were really true you wouldn't bother talking to any body. I know girls that say this all the time and go out and make out with whatever guy they want. Its human nature. We want sexual and emotional partnership with another.

[shechshire]

Yea actually you're wrong. Sorry but it's a scientific fact that humans are social creatures and need social stimulation to develop certain parts of their brain that are in charge of social skills. Mammals' main objective in their lifetime is to reproduce. The weakest at this don't and the strongest survive.

[KiriouSs]

hello my dead friends????

[kosko1993]

ill make you not single :)

[TheRestlessMinds]

@carolinlovecoach I think a part of society promotes this mind set. People think that you can't be happy, unless you have certain things. Sadly, love's on the top of the list. I know, I struggle w/ aspects of this myself. That's why it's refreshing, to hear u explain the consequences of thinking this way. U end up desperate, single, & going nowhere because of it, or u keep jumping from 1 hectic relationship to another. I know people, who wouldn't know what to do, if they were forced to be alone.

[carolinlovecoach]

@TheRestlessMinds Love is everywhere, and happiness is the purpose of life, but we just need to expand our view on how to get love. We already have it :)

[BloodRedApple16]

thanks so much for this video :), i will definitely sign up for your love letter thing :), i have been focusing on the darkness for all my life thus far, i'm trying to stop now, and I have an app on my ipod for me to type five things at for what im greatful for :) and im trying to not feel guilty for putting myself and my happiness first 

[annareina1988]

U R AWESOME SWEETHEART!!!! THANKS!!!!

[nickallah]

youre such a hippie....

keep up the good work

[SoccerismyDNA]

@nickallah lolz she's smart but she will menstrate and eventually release like anyone else..

[spidergirl16]

My boyfriend just dumped me for another girl.. And I know her... And I'm 16... I just want to know one thing.... Is there a prince for me?

[carolinlovecoach]

@spidergirl16 Of course. And the most important thing is that there is a PRINCESS. You :) Be as in love with yourself as you can now.

[vanelynnVOGUE]

Omg, your charisma is just amazing *___*

and btw you're just gorgeous.

I just broke up with my bf not long ago..and this video made me smile and now i'm motivated to move on. thank you so much. gonna sign up for the love letter ♥ kisses,V

[carolinlovecoach]

@vanelynnVOGUE oh thanks you :) sign up by emailing, details on my channel, not allowed to post in comments :)

[empoweredsingles]

Great Information love to hear about some more information.

Dont forget to check out my vids people. Lets get the conversation started.

[shawnme08]

Thanks, I've just had a break up and I nearly came close to killing myself. I'm was and still am very low. Taking small steps right now. Great video. Wish you could teach me in person ;)

[carolinlovecoach]

@shawnme08 Sweet, I know it hurts but hang in there. You get happy when you want to be happy - and that will feel better. Easy :)

[richiekock]

I go round in circels on ex-es that hurt me...

how do you solve that?

[ferdo621]

I'm trying to focus on the things that are good in my life. I write them down and remember them all the time. However, I still focus on the fact that I'm not in a relationship and that makes me feel bad or worried because of that "lack". I'm trying to work on this and hopefully I'll find a way to feel good about myself without focusing on this unrealistic "lack". Thank you so much for the video I really appreciate it

[carolinlovecoach]

@ferdo621 Thanks for trying :) The more we practice on having the right perspective, the closer to happiness we get. Feel faith, you will find a relationship. If you want me to guide you on the way, please come for coaching. We´ll fix this together!

[Hilallamaa]

But how about when you are a happy single, but when you find a perfect mate, you begin to fall back to the same neediness pattern, every tim, which also results in that the girl leaves...??? Because that's my case, when I meet girls I really like!

[carolinlovecoach]

Darling, nobody is perfect and we can not do and be right all the time. Be nice to yourself, but work on your issues in between relationships! Be tough. What makes you needy? That you don´t feel good enough. Being more social in general usually helps and build a strong base in you, before going into the risky relationship, where you test your skills. You will be fine!! What holds you back? What are you afraid of?

[Hilallamaa]

Thank you for your fast and great respons!

I guess I just deep don't feel I deserve those nice and great looking girls that I really want. Just like the one now that I have been wanting for so long, but am afraid of making a move on, cuz she's litteraly the perfect kind of girl for me, and it would really burn loosing her... How do I go about doing this?

Thank you so much! -From Denmark.

[xoxomystyle]

@Hilallamaa i know exactly how you feel.

[Hilallamaa]

@xoxomystyle

It's comforting to know that I'm not the only one who feel that, although I'm sorry to hear it at the same time, cuz it can really bump one out.... I just can't seem to figure it out... And It makes me really sad.

[BeiMutian]

what if I can't think of 5 good things in my day?...

[larryecon]

the fact that you wake up and the fact that you can breathe are the first two of the 5 good things! so, think about the other three and -TRUST ME- you will find more than that! (^_^)

[jasonwkeller76]

i focus on the fact that relationships bog people down. and make people unhappy. i was way more unhappy being married than i am divorced. lol

[Joyblossom2010]

@jasonwkeller76 I feel the exact same way!!! Thats why Im soooo happy being single right now!! :)

[cheerhotty5912]

if u guys and girls r happy being single then that is good and if you guys and girls want love make sure u r in the right path and find a good girl or guy

[phillintheuk1]

Thing is if we rely on & NEED someone else to make us happy, to trigger our happiness, we also must face the fact that we hand them the power to walk off into the sunset anytime they choose....... to leave, taking our happiness with them, whereas if we are happy within our own skin no one can take our joy away from us.....EVER !!!! Love yourself first is so true.

[greenspark3]

you are oozzing positively and this makes you very attractive muaahh

[papiyaray]

this isss sooo true....i'm saying from my own experience....that exactly how it is....i'm happy being single....and its making me better myself. x

[CurtisLN00]

I agree with Mister binx I would like to see a video on that topic, if it's a healthy option. P.S. the accent is very cute ha ha.

[MisterBinx]

I love how you have the Australian accent and then sound perfectly american on certain words lol. Great video, can you do one on when you start missing someone from the past, how to focus on the future. I find myself kind of staring in the review mirror when I know I should move on.