Destiny's Child - Can't Help Myself

[StrawberryBigMac]

where the EFF can i get this!!! I need this. FInd me this. pleeeease

[2toledo]

@StrawberryBigMac i have the song,i can try and send it to u someway

[StrawberryBigMac]

@2toledo where did you get it? How can i not have it :(

[2toledo]

@StrawberryBigMac i got it off of limewire when there was one lol

[StrawberryBigMac]

@2toledo :(. you can upload it to a share site ....

[2toledo]

@StrawberryBigMac such as? lol which one should i use

[StrawberryBigMac]

@2toledo hulkshare

[2toledo]

@StrawberryBigMac i posted the song,youtube wont let me put the link up

[StrawberryBigMac]

@2toledo msg me it or post it withut the .com

[2toledo]

@StrawberryBigMac sent it in a msg

[cbsabc]

is it just me or kelly , letoya and beyonce have way too similar voices not a diss just realizing that DC5(kelly,beyonce,michelle,let­oya and latavia) would have made an awesome group becuz the harmony wud have been out of dis world

[ernabos1986]

@sllsnmhanson i never said that letoya's voice is bad or not that good as the others, you misunderstood..i love her music

but. beyonce and kelly have kinda similar voices, more compatible. beyonces voice is the sound of destiny's child. you would recognize her voice out of thounsands. letoya is really a great singer, but her voice is not that special like beyonces.

[desnudate92]

love this song!!!

[ernabos1986]

don't get me wrong, but beyonce and kelly have the most specific voices. la tavia and letoya are great singers, but there are lots of good rnb-singers. especially beyonce you would recognize everywhere. kelly is also great. but in fact, good management is the key to success, not the talent unfortunately.

[allanmhanson]

@ernabos1986 toya's voice is so unique.

have u ever heard to letoya or lady love???

[anjelheaven]

I really like LaTavia's voice, I would love to hear her sing today.

[mrswaglistic]

latavia can really sing she sounds like t-boz but mre clear wen the girls signed to coloumbia latavia didnt kno how sing she was a rapper columbia records didnt want a rapper so she had to tke singing lessons im pretty sure after 10 years her voice matured

[parasanders1]

LaTavia is not a singer, she's a rapper.

[MrSexiiass96]

this is random but LeToya actually did the adlibs and lead on the chorus for the song Tell Me too bad this is the ONLY song she had a major part in with the group

[allanmhanson]

@MrSexiiass96 she got the secong verse on birthday

[iiablaze]

i love this group back then...latavia sounded like tboz...i really miss this line up...i want a reunion already...i think they are gonna have one though

[Breautiful90]

IF U WATCH LATAVIA PERSONALITY WAS STRONG LIKE BEYONCES SHE WAS IN THE FRONT THEN WHEN THE LINEUP CHANGED BEY WAS IN THE FRONT IM NOT TLKN BULL IM JUST LOOKIN AT IT FROM REALITY PERSPECTIVE BEYONCE WANTED TO BE LEAD..AND SHE HAD FAMILY TO BACK HER UP-favortism+blood is thicker than 'bestfriends/sisters' (s/n every group member could sing her father knew it and anybody w/an ear knew it too. I LIKED THEM AS A GROUP DIVIDED YOU FALL and she did couple times lol much love

[JMOhorhay]

@Breautiful90

your right, and she was allways the most voacal in interviews too, letoya was the jokster, she was allways crackin jokes, kinda reminded me of how you see michelle in interviews, but letoya said matthew used to amke her feel like she couldnt sing ebcuase he never let her sing lead on any of the songs.

[enclosure22]

Beyonce said they (latavia and Letoya) couldnt sing in Vibe magazine in 2001

[RossD189]

Wow I believe the producers probably were Darryl Simmons and Babyface. It sounds like it to me.

[RossD189]

This song goes hard in the bucket. They were my group back in the day.

[princesschanelhilton]

this t boz feat beyonce not destinys child

[cchllover]

@princesschanelhilton ok why would it be T-Boz when she doesnt even like Destinys Child???? second of all this was on the international version of their debut album UGH STUPID PPL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is Destiny's Child with LaTavia on the 1st verse and Bee on the 2nd verse just like on Sweet 16! STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[RehmanTV]

@cchllover no it was letoya actuallyyyy.... listen to letoyas songs and sounds exactly like her, yeh ur rite about first verse being latavia but second IS letoya... beyonce isn't soprano like letoya... (letoya's voice is more higher then hers)

[borntoperform96]

does anybody else latavia and t-boz(TLC) sound alike

[Quellacroix]

ugh!!!!!!!!!!

[QueerasNina]

very good song "can't help myself"

[JonathanGardnerTV]

The song should have been called "CAN'T HELP MYSELF (STEAL THE FUCKING SONG)" - By Destiny's Child (aka Beyonce) LMAO.

Nah, I'm joking, I just find it funny how the ONE song out of the w h o l e DC catalogue which features a lead from LeToya (LaTavia got a full verse on Sweet Sixteen)...they have LeToya singing low, when everyone knew she was a soprano and also how they have Bey getting ad-lib all over the chorus KMT. I do love Bey but I'm glad DC changed LOL

[cushe83]

@JonathanGardnerTV

then they had kelly singign that after she left, wondering why she sounded funny in certain performances, the group was made for 4 women

[enclosure22]

FIrst verse Latavia (deep voice), Letoya (she can sing....her and kelly sound alike)... 2nd verse Beyonce(tries to over take the song lol), then Kelly (did a good job)

[1990soulman]

they shouldn't had more song like this when all had a part just cause Bee was the lead don't mean nothing but its funny how the 1st first or split by the 2 members who left and the 2nd verse is by Beyonce and kelly

[prosperabovehaters]

i wonder if they would ever do a reunion in the future...i know now is probably too early...but i mean later...maybe when they all have kids....how can the best female group of all time in music history not have a reunion together?

[wolfsmagik]

very nice

[ferbieboi]

its a shame after all these years yal still talkin bout the DC Drama these ladies are grown women the are chillen while yal sitting up here talkin shit about beyonce and blah blah blah! they are are it so i think its time for the fanse to move on!

[thamer0594]

Finally, we ACTUALLY hear LaTavia sing in a song. She didn't eve sing solo on any of the tracks on the album and they decided to put her on the bonus track? Thank god her and LeToya left. They deserved better.

[cushe83]

latavia sang the lead on sweet 16 in writings on the wall

[solostar55]

@cushe83 SHe also sings first verse of Illusion on their first album, and does the rap on "I can't go for that" Bills Bills Bills pt 2

[dxmien]

Does anyone have the .mp3 of this song???

[knightd12]

I have it. Drop an email address in my Message box

[DeeJayIsMuzik]

why on the picture it looks like beyonce stands out more on the pic lol

[cjb23cool]

Singing....

1st-LaTavia

2nd-Beyoncé

3rd-Kelly

***LeToya didn't get a solo*** :(

[matnic04]

LeToya sings after LaTavia. Beyonce leads the second verse followed by Kelly. All the girls sing lead on this song.

[sentrialle]

LeToya definitely has a solo in this song lOl

[DanariiMusic]

no letyona sings "i can not b more sincere" all the way to "swear i can do anything and i"

[bookshika]

yes she did u dumb ass she singin second verse

[RehmanTV]

@cjb23cool 2nd letoya, 3rd beyonce... you can tell

[JonathanGardnerTV]

Thank god! A song from the original DC lineup with ALL of them on lead!

[missu4u]

kool song, first time hearing it... great post!

[maxday1000]

@missu4u baby-face and la reed and t boz wrote the song.

[maxday1000]

@missu4u did u know that t boz is singing background with them. thats Dallas Austin with the good ter

[OralAnthonyOFFICIAL]

omg freaking G!!! i love this!! they actually sound like a group!!! thwey all are amazing,

[hejminrumse]

I just love Beyonces truly beautiful smile.

What a wonderful girl she is.

[hejminrumse]

Oh my God, I really love this song. Thank you DC.

[yaboitrey4evaontop]

this song would have been number #1 im telling you it has such a groove to it man this woulda worked!!!!

[yaboitrey4evaontop]

latavia sung 1st in sweet sixteen duh lol

[beelover9481]

I herd LaToya is working at a target in Houston!

[dangerous13303]

Please look @ ur Sn you worship the most heartless and SCANDALOUS bitch out there. If shes workin @ target so it Bey cuz "Regret" is blowin video phone AWAY on them Urban charts baby!!! HAHA

[beelover9481]

Never herd it...but I know millions have already heard Video Phone

[Scanned]

@dangerous13303 Regret is a lead single when Video Phone was Bey's eighth single. Oranges and apples, my dear. All of Bey's IASF singles performed better than Regret except Video Phone. So sit your hating ass down. Don't see you laughing now, bitch. HAHAHAHA..

[GoodCherry1]

stop haerin you stupid bitch

[beelover9481]

You mad?

[welovesjs]

Kelly killed her part on this song. Didn't she?

[jugaslug17]

Latavia kinda sound like t-boz a little bit

[TheOriginalSupreme]

It's a shame that this is the only song where all four members of the original group sing equal leads. It really makes me made because you an clearly hear LeToya and LaTavia got talent. Seeing as that's the case, I don't think it would've been so hard as to allow them to sing lead on a few of the tracks instead of having Beyonce and Kelly dominate. Even if the songs were never to be released as singles, it would've been fine but if they did, I wouldn't complain.

[bookshika]

latavia+latoya=michelle

[JAYMEEZY05]

i Miss LaTavia Pretty Ass, I Would She would Come back into the Limelight & do something it Doesnt have to be Music be a Actress or Something but i think shes Insecure about her voice even tho she sounds good to me but thats jus my opinion

[MrTavMarie110181]

I think it's safe to say that LaTavia does not want to be famous (for anything) anymore. I'll still be her no. 1 fan!!!

[JAYMEEZY05]

Noooooooo Lol We Gotta Have Faith, She Gon b the Next Doe Anita Baker or Toni Braxton watch & C lol

[brandoshine]

i dont understand how ppl still saying this is Beyonce & T-Boz.. do u NOT hear kelly singing all over this damn track?! and now that letoya is solo u can identify her voice easily

[thiccumchicc24]

LOL I think the whole description that you just said fits you. You still typing her name (on purpose) wrong. Where ever she's at i'm pretty sure she's doing better than you, coming up here on youtube acting all chidlish calling her "Actavia" does she looks like she belong to the Dannon company to you? Grow the hell up & keep it moving...

[TheOriginalSupreme]

It's nice to finally hear LeToya and LaTavia with solos, though LaTavia has had like 2 before this but still. I do fault Mathew for the split because he did push Beyonce a lot and I understand that's his daughter and all but if he wanted her to have that much attention, he should've let her just be alone. What would've been a smart business move, because he's always talking about that, would've been to have LeToya and LaTavia get solos on a few singles even if they weren't released as officials.

[thiccumchicc24]

If you think that. Get your ears clean... You sound very ignorant, her name is LaTavia. You're acting VERY childish now

[RTK46]

This was my favorite DC song.

[mamalilgirl]

They all had great voices... It was crazy Matthew only wanted Beyonce showcased... If you read an old copy of Sister 2 Sister with Letoya and Latavia on the copy their old vocal coach said that Letoya had the strongest voice out the group like she had the largest range out all the girls... check it out

[dmac9109]

THIS is how it should've been from the beginning instead of just having Beyonce and Kelly dominating in the lead roles. Though LeToya never had a solo until this and LaTavia had solos in "Illusion" and "Sweet Sixteen", it would've been nice to here them more often, even if the songs never became singles, though if they did I wouldn't complain.

[mz803xclusive]

Yes all four original members are VERY talented. Just wish they could've worked everything out.

[Eriq7001]

You got it the other way around..Letoya sand lead on 3 songs on the first cd..Latavia only sings lead on the 1st verse of "Sweet Sixteen".

[BlowMeAway]

LMAO Letoya never sang lead sweetie.

[Eriq7001]

Thanks for the wrog info....if you pick up there first cd LeToya is singing lead on 3 songs. Thank you.

[BlowMeAway]

bullshit.

[Eriq7001]

Do me a huge favor....GET A LIFE PLEASE.

[BlowMeAway]

You want me to get a life and I want you to get a hearing aid. Let me know when that happens.

[Eriq7001]

Whater..keeping usingprofanity and embarrasing yourself ..second of all end your strange obsession with a feamle singer.

[BlowMeAway]

LMAO now you want to be "mature". You were wrong. Admit it and sign off.

[dangerous13303]

Lets not be a HATER Letoya's new album was #1 on R&B and "Regret" is WAYYYY ahead of your fav's "Video Phone" song on the damn charts!!!! HA LeToya sings second verse in this song so U get a HEARING AID Bitch!

[bookshika]

it dont matter beyonce still in da to 40 and its ben almost a year

[ronald1509]

Can yal stop attacking one another...all of these ladies are somewhere enjoying solo sucess right now.And there nowhere fighting,so why are u?

[JAYMEEZY05]

i def. dont remember hearing any leads from her on the first cd Which Songs???

[Havea09]

It was always meant to be ONLY Beyonce,Kelly and Michelle.

[datnigga2fresh]

wish they did this on more songs.....

[datboibee]

i hear Latavia who sounds like Tboz, I hear Beyonce, and Kelly....Where is Latoya singing???

[plushspice808]

She sings right after Latavia

[enclosure22]

I hear Latavia and Letoya sing on this song! They can sing I don't know what Beyonce was talking about saying they couldn't sing. I like The Writings on the Wall but it would have been 10x better if every member could have led a verse or two. U get tired of listening to Beyonce after awhile. Oh and I really like Kelly's voice

[TheHeyyyou]

@enclosure22 Beyonce said they cant sing???

[enclosure22]

@TheHeyyyou yeah she said that in Vibe Magazine...she said Letoya was tone deaf and she said Latavia was a rapper and basically the only reason they were in the group was because they were close friends...she never believed in their talent...hints why she replaced them so quick without anyone knowing

[damezydemo]

@enclosure22 i remember that article when beyonce said that & agree wit the rest of what u said

[superkikiara13]

@enclosure22 lol

hol on

wen beyonce

say dey cant sing

i wana kno dis shood

(IM SO NOSEY)

[cushe83]

@superkikiara13

Beyonce has said a couple of times in old interviews that, after Farrah left the group , "for the first time in the group all the members can actually sing lead" her exact words, talking about her michelle and kelly.

[mznonchalant08]

ii KiiNDA GET THT NOW

[mznonchalant08]

tht sound like t-boz

[welovesjs]

its Latavia

[bigblac08]

i love this song i use to play it all the time

[thiccumchicc24]

Omg, I love this! This should've been on the original TWOTW album!

[LetoyaLuckettFan]

Girl it should have. But Matthew wasn't about to let that happend. They did a great job!!! =D

[mz803xclusive]

obviously beyonce wasn't telling the truth when she said letoya and latavia couldn't sing, because they both have nice voices

[4lifeDC3fan]

PLEASE

[beyoncefan2706]

to my knowledge beyonce never said that!!!! And believe me i have followed her for 12 years now and i would have heard it! As for Latavia and Letoya, they ruined it themselves when they left DC, they never should but lucky for Michelle they did! I have nothing against Letoya and Latavia, infact i am contimplating buying Letoya's album. As for this song, i don't think its that good! I am glad it wasn't on the original TWOTW album.

[mz803xclusive]

OK google it and see

[MrTavMarie110181]

Yes I did see Blvd of Broken dreams. But like I said, I still fault Letoya and Latavia for their own dismissal, because they knew that firing Bee's crooked ass pimp/father-ger would have led to no good. I fault them all for that situation: Beyonce for not fighting for her friends, Kelly being Beyonce's "cheerleader" all these years, only for her to get dropped recently. But, life goes on. You have to learn from your mistakes and keep it moving.

sorry about deleting your other comment.

[leem9966]

never fault toya and tavia cause they were gettin played in there money so they had reason and question

[jayy4life]

I know that's real!!! If my money isn't right I WILL have questions, I don't blame them...

[MrTavMarie110181]

Beyonce stated in a 2001 vibe magazine issue, that "Letoya was 'tone deaf' at times, and Latavia was originally a rapper and a dancer." She asked her to be in the group because they were friends. I do admit, that L&L played themselves by firing Pimp-daddy knowles as manager. Once that happened, The writing's were literally on the wall. but I fault Beyonce for not defending her "friends," or at least talk some sense into them not firing the "manager."

[plushspice808]

Welli don't really blame them for trying to fire Matt cause that was the rigt thing to dom he did them very wrong when it comes down to it so i don't really blame those two but i agree with you though

[JAYMEEZY05]

it was the other way around latavia is the tone deaf one & letoya was the dancer, vibe corrected themselves in the next issue after that one

[betrapvideos]

@beyoncefan2706 wow you're are such a hater...Matthew Knowles was very controlling and egotistical...he was trying to build an empire, and when Latavia and Letoya wanted a new manager he felt threatned and kicked them to the curb...but tell me this, isn't the artist supposed to fire the manager? not the manager firing the artist! he had a dictatorship going on with those girls....now 10 years later notice the empire is built and Beyonce doesnt have "hard fellings" anymore to Letoya and Tavia

[Bdrunnersinger2010]

@betrapvideos I agree completely. He tried to say it was the label, but you can totally tell he let personal issues get in the way.

[2toledo]

thank u so much for reposting this song i LUV this song

[Soplush322]

Thanks for psoting does any got thier song "Strange Game & Things", it's form thier self-titled debut album and I can't find it anyhwere

[babyboi1002]

Never heard of that song

[matheusrockbr]

oh god, toya and tavia voices *-* omg i loved this just cause of this

[leem9966]

im so happy this back i love this song i wish they all had a part in other songs

[702heaven32]

YES!!, I'm so glad you posted this back up, I love this song