Her husband is bisexual but anyways I don't think that defining what you are attracted to is important. Btw what are these 2 couples? Are they swingers? They are like cheating on each other. Yuck....
Ellian,oh my god.Discusting. how could you do that.bring a guy to home to share sexual with your wife,and watch them....Sickness.Shame on you. oh my god
If they are happy and it works for them ! why knock it.? I mean who made the rules on relationships, and that we need to conform to what society dictates.
The long haired guy is bisexual. Him growing out his hair, like a woman's, also signifies a further internal identity conflict. Sexuality is extremely broad - and so is self identification. Perhaps, with her, he identifies as a "lesbian".
i think he only fucks her in the ass and thats all she want . dammn hes so lucky but not lucky that hes gay.i need a woman like this who only wants anal sex more thank vaginal sex
i think we all straight woman have always falled for a gay guy, or have some sort of "idont know what it is" attraction to them, at least that happened to me and a bunch of girls i know
It is amazing that there are extremly beautiful women that marry and have sex with gay men, its because they feel comfortable with them because they are like women in many ways
THIS IS SUCH BULLSHIT! IF IN FACT THEY ARE TELLING THE TRUTH I'M SO SORRY FOR THEM, BUT IF THEY ARE LYING, THEN SHAME ON TYRA AND ON THEM FOR SETTING BACK THE FULL EQUALITY MOVEMENT!
Being "gay" means being completely physically and emotionally attracted to other men. There is no physical or emotional attraction to women, period. I should know, I've been gay for the past 34 years. Elian is not "gay" if he's attracted to his wife, either emotionally or physically (and it's both according to him). I don't care if she's the "only woman in the world" he's at all attracted to. She's still a woman! She has a female anatomy. He's either bi or he's lying.
This is so perverted. They're married? they have sex with other people, he is married and attracted to a woman, yet he still sticks with the lie that he's gay? eeeewwwwwww. obviously their love is true, that guy just needs to get in line and be straight like he truly is stop all this fooling around.
My ex is gay, and he's always still been attracted to me even after we broke up because of a great friendship and mutual connection. This isn't too uncommon. I'm not attracted to women, but if my husband were a women I'd love and be attracted to him the same way. I love the inside of people, not the outside.
I think anyone who has a problem with this should shut up because I think this is beautiful: A homosexual man finding love that surpasses gender completely. I think it must be a very healthy relationship and to be honest, if your in love it shouldn't matter what gender they are. Love is a limitless force that knows no bounds. Don't conform to society (or in this guy's case, don't conform to what is considered 'norm' for a gay guy to be).
okay first off, look how far apart they are sitting, he does not enjoy this. this poor stupid person has been told by so many people that being gay is wrong and he took it to heart. now he is trying to deny who he is by marrying a woman.
Gay men marrying straight women disturbs me so much. One he is not happy and it is another straight women off the market. The woman in this video is hot.
@XyPunk77 don't come and say i'm not mature. i'm gay, and i'm proud of it, and these people are too confused and they either hate themselves or they're just dumb. Thing is, this is not normal and yes I do find it weird.
I don't know what it means to be attracted to men because I always have been sexually attracted only to women and girls but I think that they should not have sex with a man no matter what. If they are unable to have some regular sex with a girl they should not have sex at all. And is it really impossible for a man to love and have sex with a girl? Why would a man like to hold in his arms another man and not a beautiful woman/girl? This is creepy.
really cannot agree with U or admit with any honesty that [many ] are "bigoted', etc.. On the contrary my belief makes clear that the Savior who called us to what we are & believe does so for everyone in authentic & uncompromising love and perfection.In the book of Romans6, it makes clear that God came to all of us when we were fallen,helpless, immoral & condemned. We were morally bankrupt & confused but Christ died for us then.Desiring to reveal marvelous light of the Creator is not bigotry
I`d say hes more pansexual...like or even bi? He fell in Love with a woman, and if your full out "gay" that doesn`t happen....He probably just never found the right woman until her so he assumed he was gay?
this really makes me kind of angry. being gay is not a choice. you might think you're gay, like some of these guys, and not be. you might be experimenting, pansexual, bisexual, and the list goes on.. but basically they shouldn't have said that they're gay.. *sigh*
@llovemyllife pansexual is a bunch of bull shit. I'm gay so im not trying to diss. but when people say, "i love the person not the gender" A PERSON IS A GENDER, NO EXEPTION, YOUR EITHER A GUY OR A GIRL. doesnt matter what they say! if they like a person, they like the gender, end of convo! Pan is a bunch of bull, people say it when they cant exept that they like DICKS AND VAGINAS. theyre just not confident with themselfs so they try to mask it.
@uptoCHINAtown ithink it is of a half gay hlf straight. Like they like guys as much as girls so their gender makes more difference. Bis like one gender more.
@uptoCHINAtown Haha, what you just said is a bunch of bullshit. I am bisexual, and no, I'm not trying to 'mask anything'. I like dicks and vaginas, it IS possible. Some people out there may be attracted to one or the other gender more but they can always choose to have relationships based on the person themselves (you know, personality, voice, the way they carry themselves, the way they act towards others ect.) and not the gender, and people like that like to define themselves as pansexual.
@hinasakukimi it doesnt matter why you like the person, THE PERSON IS STILL A BOY OR A GIRL, pansexual is a bunch of shit! its for those stupid people who dont want to be in the status quo of gay or lesbian or bi, becasue if your a guy that says there pansexual, they still get girls, but if your bi, no girls will.
@uptoCHINAtown What I meant was that some people fall for other's not because of their gender but because of their personality, so in that aspect it DOESN'T MATTER if the person in question is a boy or a girl. Pansexualiy is just as frowned upon btw, there'd be no reason to want to be labelled as pansexual, if that's what you are then that's what you are. It's still hard for pansexuals to find love, it can be offputting for some people just the same as bisexuals.
@llovemyllife not a lot of people are even aware that pansexualismn exsist. I found out about it by trying to figure out myself and my feelings. I identified as bisexual since I was young. It is very true that you can fall in love with a person no matter what their gender, race or sexual orientaion is and I myself am living proof.
I totally understand their relationship. As I mentioned in another comment, my husband is with me because he's attracted to me but is not interested in other guys. I was married for some time to a female friend and we did have a sex a few times, we have a daughter. I did, however, need another guy around for it to work. I've never been so happy as I am now and him too.
@FlameintheFlood My husband, soon to be legally in a week since NY just passed the law, is basically a straight male. He's never been interested in other guys but we share a connection and love so deep we're together. We were best friends, nothing sexual, for the first ten years we knew each other in the 70s and nothing more came of it because it wasn't supposed to. You don't have to be all gay, all straight, etc. It's all garbage in a society hung up on labels and categories.
He reminds a lot of Taylor Lautner in the first Twilight movie. Only, Taylor is a bit gayer.
rminitials 2 days ago
OMG she sounds like kat von d!!!
littlechowders 2 days ago
hello HIV
ooora007 2 days ago
@ooora007 Hello. Nice to meet you Genitals.
istealsouls4soup 1 day ago
... DOES THAT MEAN THEY DO IT IN THE BUTT?!
BreakfastAtDior912 3 days ago
I hate when they jump to a camera closeup of some random queeny gay dude in the audience making a dirty look.
GetTheHook 1 week ago 2
One word. Pan-sexual.
falling07riot 1 week ago 3
I don't blame the guy... Who doesn't like dick? :D
xXxTwiggyzLovexXx 1 week ago 4
@xXxTwiggyzLovexXx Hii! I don't like Dick. :D
TeaMsMileyMiley 1 day ago
@2:53 i can relate :3 . i have no clue of my sexuallity, but i know im 99% into girls and 1% into guys ad that 1% is my now and forever love ;] <3 .
PencilOverPen 1 week ago
omg you do SMA I saw the guy that does Lita's voice in the crowed were you there too?
Nic4347 2 weeks ago
Honestly, their relationship seems healthier than that of MANY straight couples I know...
If they're happy, nothing else matters!
eamanemiriel 2 weeks ago
a really good friendship doesn't mean love wtf. - -
yagsimassamisgay 2 weeks ago
@yagsimassamisgay sometimes, i was good friends with my boyfriend first, then it turned into love :) .
PencilOverPen 1 week ago
He seem's Bi to me...His girlfriend sounds like a man, lol
love4musicuk 2 weeks ago
@love4musicuk you cant really sound like a man, i guess you might say eh sound like a stereotypical man i guess.
PencilOverPen 1 week ago
Her husband is bisexual but anyways I don't think that defining what you are attracted to is important. Btw what are these 2 couples? Are they swingers? They are like cheating on each other. Yuck....
Blueknightex 2 weeks ago
Ellian,oh my god.Discusting. how could you do that.bring a guy to home to share sexual with your wife,and watch them....Sickness.Shame on you. oh my god
ndakhoa1205 2 weeks ago
um..bisexual..duh
shawnasainnichols 3 weeks ago 17
haha someone tried clapping but they failed at 2:47
oR3E 3 weeks ago 2
katy is the moat selfish being on the planet....
MARTINSTERN 3 weeks ago
Katy desperate as hell...
bklegend718 3 weeks ago
If they are happy and it works for them ! why knock it.? I mean who made the rules on relationships, and that we need to conform to what society dictates.
TheBargar 3 weeks ago
What a mind fuck!?!
e2004657 4 weeks ago
are we sure the wife isn't a man who had a sex change...lol
junsu21 1 month ago
Why would you be gay with a wife like Katy?
Sandy4111 1 month ago
@Sandy4111 sigh The same reason that some one would be black..... it is not a choice
TheBargar 3 weeks ago
I am so confused! x.x
JMuslc 1 month ago
they have a very healthy sex life, she owns a strap on
TheIatolaofrocknroll 1 month ago
wierd
marvy1118 1 month ago
SOMEONE tried to start a clap. 2:49 xD
FAIL.
AlwaysAnxiousAllura 1 month ago
No no no no no no no no no non on on ononoonoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
salmadavid 1 month ago
lol.Will marries Grace.
69putana 1 month ago
they are a lesbian couple
yerald86 1 month ago
I totally understands what he's feeling like that he's in love with a specific person and not a specific gender!
vixelle2147 1 month ago
The long haired guy is bisexual. Him growing out his hair, like a woman's, also signifies a further internal identity conflict. Sexuality is extremely broad - and so is self identification. Perhaps, with her, he identifies as a "lesbian".
hunkysociologist 1 month ago
I would divorce...
SarahLoofromKalamazo 1 month ago
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I am gay but this is...My brain just can't take it...
newkid2120xX 1 month ago
this to much for me, my brain just freeze !
jeno930 1 month ago 2
Thats so disgusting he lets other men on his wife???? Wats wrong wit the world?
Sumerr22 1 month ago 2
the man is weak, submissive and a homo, that bitch is a whore with no shame, sick marriage
LeoLovesNature 1 month ago
@LeoLovesNature Damn, lots of name throwing, eh, Leo?
hunkysociologist 1 month ago
@hunkysociologist Yeah :D
LeoLovesNature 1 month ago
theyr much messy
oomodzinho 1 month ago
this is cwazzzie! hahahahahahaha
boikanyo19 1 month ago
that bitch is crazy
YellowLemonRedApple 1 month ago
they r pervs. its proof now matter how a woman is, she CAN'T cure homosexuality
sliat1981 1 month ago
@sliat1981 You are what needs to be cured.
hunkysociologist 1 month ago
@hunkysociologist nah homophobe and racists need 2 b cured
sliat1981 1 month ago
Saxuality, lol
NameSadlyTaken 1 month ago
This couple is weird! U can tell they love each other but they r pervs lol
fEistymus3 2 months ago
Perverted couple!
christianvideo4free 2 months ago
Fail Clap @2:48
KevinMasters100 2 months ago
"I fell in love with a person, not a gender." Best line throughout this episode.
GETintohisjeanns 2 months ago 109
This is one of the most fucked up non-abusive marriages i've ever heard of in my life
XTheOverseer 2 months ago
i think he only fucks her in the ass and thats all she want . dammn hes so lucky but not lucky that hes gay.i need a woman like this who only wants anal sex more thank vaginal sex
alnagar1985 2 months ago
I think Katy is a trap.
Mayercraft1 2 months ago
i think we all straight woman have always falled for a gay guy, or have some sort of "idont know what it is" attraction to them, at least that happened to me and a bunch of girls i know
MIssTouver 2 months ago
He's bi
kd5eet 2 months ago
@kd5eet probably more pansexual
proudgaywoman 2 months ago
He's bi gay!!! that's it!
YELLOWCOWDASH 2 months ago
Their marriage is funny
TheRubenchitito 2 months ago 2
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LitheInvestor 2 months ago
DUDE!!!!!! Elian,I will GLADY do your wife!
slingblade1991 2 months ago
I think the term for him would be bisexual
skinnycow97 2 months ago
It is amazing that there are extremly beautiful women that marry and have sex with gay men, its because they feel comfortable with them because they are like women in many ways
ranma1983 2 months ago
@ranma1983 maybe the girl is a lesbian.
skylec88 2 months ago
At least they are honest!
fridaymanly 2 months ago
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He is bisexual, cause gay men cant get a h@rd on with a woman no matter how much he tries.
NuLaifMusic 2 months ago
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Here's a video you should watch here on you tube:
The 'Gay Brain' Explained - Louann Brizendine
Also just google:
GAY BRAIN
And you're going to see all the recent discovery that gay man's brain is like a femles and Lesbians brains are like males.
Scientifictly proven, that is not a choice you are who you are since the night your parents... well... you know... and here we are!
NuLaifMusic 2 months ago
WTF!
zacharyhtc 2 months ago
@Ellohxx Love and sex are 2 different things.
KainSlash 2 months ago
THIS IS SUCH BULLSHIT! IF IN FACT THEY ARE TELLING THE TRUTH I'M SO SORRY FOR THEM, BUT IF THEY ARE LYING, THEN SHAME ON TYRA AND ON THEM FOR SETTING BACK THE FULL EQUALITY MOVEMENT!
thecutestprince 3 months ago
i thought katy was transgendered......
Tokiogrl09 3 months ago
this is some weird shit
crazycatlady777 3 months ago
seriously though..tyra is so gross in the way she behaves; sticking and waving out her FAT, prob STINKY ass in that genuine couple's faces. wth?
darkveder100 3 months ago
tall, deep voice, dinating the conversation... she is definitely a dude.
ps2zaniac 3 months ago
elian is pansexual!!!!!!!!!
piashadowdragon 3 months ago 2
ok seriously, how good must katy be in bed if a gay guy fucks her twice a week?
gokramer2 3 months ago
Elian is Pansexual. Simple as that.
goremister54321 3 months ago
He looks like that female conan character that Jim Carrey played on In Living Color!
Xcorgi 3 months ago
Very interesting. Definitely not for me but I say Good For Them!!
Dezzaster2 3 months ago 14
Katy & Elian makes me think if Hollywood made a sequel to that Jennifer Anniston/Paul Rudd movie.....
CashierSlave321 3 months ago
omg bisexual is the correct term for these ppl isnt it?
touchingwildhorses 3 months ago
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jposh707 3 months ago
Being "gay" means being completely physically and emotionally attracted to other men. There is no physical or emotional attraction to women, period. I should know, I've been gay for the past 34 years. Elian is not "gay" if he's attracted to his wife, either emotionally or physically (and it's both according to him). I don't care if she's the "only woman in the world" he's at all attracted to. She's still a woman! She has a female anatomy. He's either bi or he's lying.
jposh707 3 months ago
@jposh707
sometimes people feel diferently. not all steight people fit in the same catagory
Adyma1997 3 months ago
@jposh707 or she has a penis lol just saying.
MickKick69 3 months ago
@jposh707 Or pansexual, or just fluid.
Sexuality isn't a concrete thing. It's very fluid in itself.
TehJonneh 2 months ago
@jposh707 He's probably bi leaning towards gay.
EveryDayALittleDeath 1 month ago
Wow! The strangest thing.
1slandqu33n 3 months ago
they stop being gay. Nuff said
tristantrue 3 months ago
"we're talking to gay men who hate their homo sex"
kubetriangle 3 months ago
I wonder if he licks her vagina.
orbital92hotmail 3 months ago
@orbital92hotmail AAAAAAHHH! XD
reaceness 3 months ago
"I fell in love with a person, not a gender." :')
ClevelandClips 3 months ago
INCREDIBLE HOW THE BRAIN WORKS IN EACH BODY AND WHEN A PERSON IS OUT OF THE TEMOR DE DIOS.
franco201035 3 months ago
This is so perverted. They're married? they have sex with other people, he is married and attracted to a woman, yet he still sticks with the lie that he's gay? eeeewwwwwww. obviously their love is true, that guy just needs to get in line and be straight like he truly is stop all this fooling around.
gotGodandHislove 4 months ago
My ex is gay, and he's always still been attracted to me even after we broke up because of a great friendship and mutual connection. This isn't too uncommon. I'm not attracted to women, but if my husband were a women I'd love and be attracted to him the same way. I love the inside of people, not the outside.
KatamariOnTheSwing 4 months ago 3
theese two seem to really love each other, and are very creative when it comes to fulfilling both of their sexual needs. Good for them.
poppylv21 4 months ago
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poppylv21 4 months ago
now this is weird :O and sad for the girl
waytobluee 4 months ago
TARZANS GAY?!?!?!!?!?!?!?
JessLynnKay18 4 months ago 76
@JessLynnKay18 Hey...Hey...Hey...Tarzen was my child-hood crush. He was gawgus D:
Jennavee12 3 months ago
@Jennavee12 hahaha MINE TOO! :D
JessLynnKay18 3 months ago
@JessLynnKay18 GO us XD!!
Jennavee12 3 months ago
Wait he says give her a KISS then he watches them "do stuff" sex I'm guessing! That's just really messed up
glittery4life 4 months ago
What the fuck? I'm so confused!
NerdyGirly0 4 months ago
I think anyone who has a problem with this should shut up because I think this is beautiful: A homosexual man finding love that surpasses gender completely. I think it must be a very healthy relationship and to be honest, if your in love it shouldn't matter what gender they are. Love is a limitless force that knows no bounds. Don't conform to society (or in this guy's case, don't conform to what is considered 'norm' for a gay guy to be).
Turelx 4 months ago 3
@Turelx Thankyou, this actually reminds me of my husband and I. He's the first and only man I've been attracted to sexually.
whackowitch 4 months ago
I'm so confused.
illusions142 4 months ago
okay first off, look how far apart they are sitting, he does not enjoy this. this poor stupid person has been told by so many people that being gay is wrong and he took it to heart. now he is trying to deny who he is by marrying a woman.
MrRentcontrol 4 months ago
oooooooo it's making my head spin.......i'm confuuuuuuused
KaraLindaLee 5 months ago
at first I thought they were both girls lol
DJPierreFitchfan619 5 months ago 4
"I married a woman not a gender." that is a great quote.
italiangirl9696 5 months ago 33
Gay men marrying straight women disturbs me so much. One he is not happy and it is another straight women off the market. The woman in this video is hot.
Mvenven 5 months ago
Katy is so pretty
laeyZ 5 months ago
This is very facinating to me. As long as no one is getting hurt and every one consented then go for it. you only live once.
HP148409 5 months ago
w-h-a-t?! thats just dysfunctional
pekkle0724 5 months ago
that's just like me. i like girls but im in love with a guy :D
ashullu 5 months ago
i think she is a man
wbooker10 5 months ago
i think their relationship is going to end disastrously,but have fun while you can
justinroseart 5 months ago
this is too awkward !
vasconunes9 5 months ago
@vasconunes9 'cause your not mature enough....
XyPunk77 5 months ago
@XyPunk77 don't come and say i'm not mature. i'm gay, and i'm proud of it, and these people are too confused and they either hate themselves or they're just dumb. Thing is, this is not normal and yes I do find it weird.
vasconunes9 5 months ago
Her husband is very attractive!
CasseroleKitty 5 months ago
Im just watching this , and the whole time , im like . . . . . . . . waaahhhhhhhhh ??!
cuteluv13 5 months ago
They look alike
Musicofthissphere 5 months ago
i love tyras face at 2:27. haha.
jessicareneedaniels 5 months ago
WT.................FUCK
Damnstraight769 5 months ago
I don't know what it means to be attracted to men because I always have been sexually attracted only to women and girls but I think that they should not have sex with a man no matter what. If they are unable to have some regular sex with a girl they should not have sex at all. And is it really impossible for a man to love and have sex with a girl? Why would a man like to hold in his arms another man and not a beautiful woman/girl? This is creepy.
chris241289 5 months ago
@chris241289 I find your homophobia creepy.
SuperBenzid 5 months ago
@SuperBenzid What makes you think I am a homophob? When exactly did I say I am a homophob?
chris241289 5 months ago
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chris241289 5 months ago
@Ellohxx I do ;)
Molotov850 5 months ago
wow
PawneeStud 5 months ago
WT....F???
MisterTheLawence 5 months ago
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hotspotforrod 5 months ago
lol... she sounds like a Tranny.
PhantomWoods 5 months ago
That is not marriage. The woman always gets hurt.
ed91775 5 months ago
@ed91775 well, i wouldnt say always.
TheGuinnessboys 5 months ago
this is fucking bullshit.they are pimps to each other.what the hell is wrong with these people.
ahmadkhan7171 5 months ago
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really cannot agree with U or admit with any honesty that [many ] are "bigoted', etc.. On the contrary my belief makes clear that the Savior who called us to what we are & believe does so for everyone in authentic & uncompromising love and perfection.In the book of Romans6, it makes clear that God came to all of us when we were fallen,helpless, immoral & condemned. We were morally bankrupt & confused but Christ died for us then.Desiring to reveal marvelous light of the Creator is not bigotry
shieldsff 5 months ago
what a freak show! This couple does not know what love is.
azone123465 5 months ago
...I am so confused.
xCrazyChiChi 5 months ago
awkward
Sandland113 5 months ago
how the fuck does that happen ?!
MrsJolie15 5 months ago
At 4:51 Dude, ya shoulda thought about it before you married a gay man.
NickelodeonBuff 5 months ago
"Who hate their sackua-sexuality." Tyra fucked up...
erockexit 5 months ago
I`d say hes more pansexual...like or even bi? He fell in Love with a woman, and if your full out "gay" that doesn`t happen....He probably just never found the right woman until her so he assumed he was gay?
774moocow 5 months ago
Wat about a fine as man walkin down the street ?? Lmao
Kennieboo234 5 months ago
haha hey best gay friend..lets go get married yeahh..?
qt4eva528 5 months ago 42
theres weird people in this world get the fuck over it you dont have to make a show about it
alexandergrandy 5 months ago
Can I say A.I.D.S
sOnlight67 5 months ago
@sOnlight67
Can i say IMMATURE!?!
lalamccallum91 5 months ago
I swear this couple looks like brother and sister. This is some twisted s#$*%!
sOnlight67 5 months ago 3
the thing is that there is no definative "gay" or "straight". anyone can and will love anyone!!!
santiryro19skibuni 5 months ago
this is sick
AngeliaClaire 5 months ago in playlist Gay
strap-on's honey see if u can fulfill that need for teh penis now!
TheWolfiegirl94 5 months ago 5
Katy & Elian are so hot! :D
lifelineattack 5 months ago
>.> emotional with a woman physical with a man vice versa isnt that bisexual
spinturt 6 months ago
@spinturt no bisexuality means being physically and emotionally attracter to both genders
thedudsonette 6 months ago
Im in Love with the person Not with the gender . so nice
mohamed061996 6 months ago 4
@mohamed061996 then you're pansexual and awesome!
thedudsonette 6 months ago
Good for this couple they seem happy and healthy
devilshomie 6 months ago
How cute!
mariahlover09 6 months ago
and I love how katie shakes her head..lol. like 'he was gay but he's mine now, boys' lmfao...bitch maybe?
wanderlust342 6 months ago
this really makes me kind of angry. being gay is not a choice. you might think you're gay, like some of these guys, and not be. you might be experimenting, pansexual, bisexual, and the list goes on.. but basically they shouldn't have said that they're gay.. *sigh*
more like 'I THOUGHT I was gay, but...' geesh.
wanderlust342 6 months ago
He's pan I think. "I fell in love with a person, not a gender"
llovemyllife 6 months ago 102
@llovemyllife i second that. he sounds pansexual to me to. :)
wanderlust342 6 months ago
@llovemyllife pansexual is a bunch of bull shit. I'm gay so im not trying to diss. but when people say, "i love the person not the gender" A PERSON IS A GENDER, NO EXEPTION, YOUR EITHER A GUY OR A GIRL. doesnt matter what they say! if they like a person, they like the gender, end of convo! Pan is a bunch of bull, people say it when they cant exept that they like DICKS AND VAGINAS. theyre just not confident with themselfs so they try to mask it.
uptoCHINAtown 5 months ago
@uptoCHINAtown ithink it is of a half gay hlf straight. Like they like guys as much as girls so their gender makes more difference. Bis like one gender more.
jqlzp 5 months ago
@jqlzp bi-sexual?
chaosstarr 5 months ago
@chaosstarr yea
jqlzp 5 months ago
@uptoCHINAtown Haha, what you just said is a bunch of bullshit. I am bisexual, and no, I'm not trying to 'mask anything'. I like dicks and vaginas, it IS possible. Some people out there may be attracted to one or the other gender more but they can always choose to have relationships based on the person themselves (you know, personality, voice, the way they carry themselves, the way they act towards others ect.) and not the gender, and people like that like to define themselves as pansexual.
hinasakukimi 5 months ago
@hinasakukimi it doesnt matter why you like the person, THE PERSON IS STILL A BOY OR A GIRL, pansexual is a bunch of shit! its for those stupid people who dont want to be in the status quo of gay or lesbian or bi, becasue if your a guy that says there pansexual, they still get girls, but if your bi, no girls will.
uptoCHINAtown 5 months ago
@uptoCHINAtown What I meant was that some people fall for other's not because of their gender but because of their personality, so in that aspect it DOESN'T MATTER if the person in question is a boy or a girl. Pansexualiy is just as frowned upon btw, there'd be no reason to want to be labelled as pansexual, if that's what you are then that's what you are. It's still hard for pansexuals to find love, it can be offputting for some people just the same as bisexuals.
hinasakukimi 5 months ago
@llovemyllife not a lot of people are even aware that pansexualismn exsist. I found out about it by trying to figure out myself and my feelings. I identified as bisexual since I was young. It is very true that you can fall in love with a person no matter what their gender, race or sexual orientaion is and I myself am living proof.
sunflowers86 4 months ago
I totally understand their relationship. As I mentioned in another comment, my husband is with me because he's attracted to me but is not interested in other guys. I was married for some time to a female friend and we did have a sex a few times, we have a daughter. I did, however, need another guy around for it to work. I've never been so happy as I am now and him too.
BreezesofConey 6 months ago
It's not so black and white! Gay or Straight? You can be pan or a wide variety things.
FlameintheFlood 6 months ago 4
@FlameintheFlood My husband, soon to be legally in a week since NY just passed the law, is basically a straight male. He's never been interested in other guys but we share a connection and love so deep we're together. We were best friends, nothing sexual, for the first ten years we knew each other in the 70s and nothing more came of it because it wasn't supposed to. You don't have to be all gay, all straight, etc. It's all garbage in a society hung up on labels and categories.
BreezesofConey 6 months ago