Amen! I am so happy to see Christian sisters standing up and empowering other women to be the wives and mothers God has called us to be. Bless you and your family. :)
What would do if your husband had an affair or told you he doesn't love you anymore? I hope your husband treats you as good as you treat him. You come across like it's the women's job to do everything and any bad thing that happens in your marriage is the women's fault. It would be nice to see another side. Maybe your husband's side or you being real and talking about the bad things that have happened in your marriage.
@PrettyLittleLiar98 I will always seek restoration and forgiveness in my marriage - as I quoted in the video - a good marriage is made of TWO good forgivers. So this is for husband and wife but my ministry is titled Women Living Well Ministries - so women are my audience and I speak to them mainly. The Bible does say that it is permissable for divorce in the case of an affair (Matthew 5:32). In the cases you mentioned I would highly recommend Biblical counselling for both involved.
i agree it takes two people ti forgive. which is how it should be ( meanin he should give it to you too, just to be clear) and i just wanted to know if thats what you meant that you both should forgive eachother. so when your husband does domething to u, u frogive him and when u do somthing to him, he forgives u. I hope tht's what u were saying but im not sur.. tell me.
@snickers3abc Yes, this is two sided and I said that in the video. I said "a good marriage is made up of TWO good forgivers." My blog is written to women - so I am addressing women only. (The blog is titled Women Living Well). If my audience had men in it - I'd say the same thing :-).
I know this is off the subject but please tell me where u get most of your tops? I love all of them!! I came across your videos lookin for a jam recipe go figure...anyway i am a christian and really love your videos and long to be a woman of God and will continue to watch them and share them with my friends and family. Thanks and may the lord bless you for making such a great effort in changing the lives of familys, and how woman look at their husbands.
@smithjackie15 Aww - thanks! I have a video titled Shopping for Feminine Clothes on a Budget ( youtube.com/watch?v=2bOkrR0fkAs ) - so check that out and you'll hear where I get most of my clothes...basically I do a lot of consignment shops -so the white shirt above was from Plato's Closet and it still had the tags on it when I bought it - it was $3. If I go to the mall - I always start at New York and Company's sale rack :-)
I think something you should bring up in a video (to appease the haters!) is that this is your choice to live this way. Your husband is not forcing you to be submissive, he is not abusing you or manipulating you. That you are a strong, educated women who chooses to live this way. I think a lot of people think Christian women are brainwashed, when we actually choose to live like Christ because we have experienced His love and hope. God bless you!
It's not a "choice" to be submissive .It's a DUTY because it's the only way things can be right ,both for Christians or non christians. Male domination /female submission is THE pattern for the whole mankind ,you can't find another one. Men have power ,just like God and Christ .Women submit , just like the church.
@framboise595 A man is the spiritual head regardless of his wife's choices. It is his actions and response to her no matter what she does that he respond in love. As Christ laid down His life for the church, so should a man for his wife. Obviously if a man is not following godly principles he is not being a leader.
@rws1222 I am so sorry you are going through this. Reading this broke my heart for you. Biblically you are free to divorce your husband. In Matthew 19:9 Jesus says divorce is permitted for marital unfaithfulness. Are you seeking restoration? Has your husband sought help? This is a very complicated question that I don't think I could answer here on youtube - focusonthefamily(dot)com has a 1-800 number you can call with questions - that may be a good resource for you.
So how do I forgive my husband for having sex over 200 times with prostitutes and spending $30,000 over our entire 13 year marriage? He admitted this to me after he got caught but tell me how do you rebuild respect? and trust?
@rws1222 I hear you! It's easy to talk about forgiveness and submitting to your husband when everything is easy. But throw real sorrow, heartache, betrayal and loss into your marriage and all this sounds ridiculous. Nothing-not even the Bible-say you have to stay and continue to be treated in that way. You do have to forgive him eventually, but take care of yourself first, whatever that means. God loves you and does not want his Daughter to be treated like that.
@rws1222 God is the source of forgiveness because human forgiveness is limited. we cannot do anything on our own. GOD gives the courage and the will to forgive no matter how deep the hurt and wound is
I love all your videos, they are all encouraging, wish i had a friend like you in real life. well my life lol. thanks for your uploads.
AlmondEyes661 2 months ago
Great video! I love the example you use with the poison ivy!
unveiledwife 4 months ago
Amen! I am so happy to see Christian sisters standing up and empowering other women to be the wives and mothers God has called us to be. Bless you and your family. :)
MasasWife 7 months ago
What would do if your husband had an affair or told you he doesn't love you anymore? I hope your husband treats you as good as you treat him. You come across like it's the women's job to do everything and any bad thing that happens in your marriage is the women's fault. It would be nice to see another side. Maybe your husband's side or you being real and talking about the bad things that have happened in your marriage.
PrettyLittleLiar98 7 months ago
@PrettyLittleLiar98 I will always seek restoration and forgiveness in my marriage - as I quoted in the video - a good marriage is made of TWO good forgivers. So this is for husband and wife but my ministry is titled Women Living Well Ministries - so women are my audience and I speak to them mainly. The Bible does say that it is permissable for divorce in the case of an affair (Matthew 5:32). In the cases you mentioned I would highly recommend Biblical counselling for both involved.
Courtneylivingwell 7 months ago
i agree it takes two people ti forgive. which is how it should be ( meanin he should give it to you too, just to be clear) and i just wanted to know if thats what you meant that you both should forgive eachother. so when your husband does domething to u, u frogive him and when u do somthing to him, he forgives u. I hope tht's what u were saying but im not sur.. tell me.
snickers3abc 10 months ago
@snickers3abc Yes, this is two sided and I said that in the video. I said "a good marriage is made up of TWO good forgivers." My blog is written to women - so I am addressing women only. (The blog is titled Women Living Well). If my audience had men in it - I'd say the same thing :-).
Courtneylivingwell 10 months ago
I know this is off the subject but please tell me where u get most of your tops? I love all of them!! I came across your videos lookin for a jam recipe go figure...anyway i am a christian and really love your videos and long to be a woman of God and will continue to watch them and share them with my friends and family. Thanks and may the lord bless you for making such a great effort in changing the lives of familys, and how woman look at their husbands.
smithjackie15 1 year ago
@smithjackie15 Aww - thanks! I have a video titled Shopping for Feminine Clothes on a Budget ( youtube.com/watch?v=2bOkrR0fkAs ) - so check that out and you'll hear where I get most of my clothes...basically I do a lot of consignment shops -so the white shirt above was from Plato's Closet and it still had the tags on it when I bought it - it was $3. If I go to the mall - I always start at New York and Company's sale rack :-)
Courtneylivingwell 1 year ago
I think something you should bring up in a video (to appease the haters!) is that this is your choice to live this way. Your husband is not forcing you to be submissive, he is not abusing you or manipulating you. That you are a strong, educated women who chooses to live this way. I think a lot of people think Christian women are brainwashed, when we actually choose to live like Christ because we have experienced His love and hope. God bless you!
befany14 1 year ago
@befany14
It's not a "choice" to be submissive .It's a DUTY because it's the only way things can be right ,both for Christians or non christians. Male domination /female submission is THE pattern for the whole mankind ,you can't find another one. Men have power ,just like God and Christ .Women submit , just like the church.
framboise595 5 months ago
@befany14
Tell me , with your pseudo "choice" ,how can a man be the head of his family if his wife does not submit ??
Does he have the "choice" not to be the head ,not to provide ,not to rule ????????
framboise595 5 months ago
@framboise595 A man is the spiritual head regardless of his wife's choices. It is his actions and response to her no matter what she does that he respond in love. As Christ laid down His life for the church, so should a man for his wife. Obviously if a man is not following godly principles he is not being a leader.
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shakira20848 1 year ago
@rws1222 I am so sorry you are going through this. Reading this broke my heart for you. Biblically you are free to divorce your husband. In Matthew 19:9 Jesus says divorce is permitted for marital unfaithfulness. Are you seeking restoration? Has your husband sought help? This is a very complicated question that I don't think I could answer here on youtube - focusonthefamily(dot)com has a 1-800 number you can call with questions - that may be a good resource for you.
Much Love
Courtney
Courtneylivingwell 1 year ago
So how do I forgive my husband for having sex over 200 times with prostitutes and spending $30,000 over our entire 13 year marriage? He admitted this to me after he got caught but tell me how do you rebuild respect? and trust?
rws1222 1 year ago
@rws1222 I hear you! It's easy to talk about forgiveness and submitting to your husband when everything is easy. But throw real sorrow, heartache, betrayal and loss into your marriage and all this sounds ridiculous. Nothing-not even the Bible-say you have to stay and continue to be treated in that way. You do have to forgive him eventually, but take care of yourself first, whatever that means. God loves you and does not want his Daughter to be treated like that.
BlackSunJamie 1 year ago
@rws1222 God is the source of forgiveness because human forgiveness is limited. we cannot do anything on our own. GOD gives the courage and the will to forgive no matter how deep the hurt and wound is
swordseller1 11 months ago
Thank you :) God Bless you.
Toughy09 1 year ago