Man ask woman out. Woman accepts. Man pays for dinner and movie. Woman decides she's not interested in man romantically or sexually. Math: Man -2 (takes hit to ego and wallet), Woman +1 (free food an entertainment). To any woman or man that says they support true "equality", this is completely incompatible. Shouldn't the woman be expected to do "something" to pull her weight, like openly declare she's not interested at the end and then give the man gas money or wash his car. Something?
@georgelopezblows I don't do restaurants for first dates. Because I can't use the gold diggers as wing women at restaurants. Go to bars or some social place for the first date. Once you find out the true intent of the girl, use her to pick up better partner material girls.
Any woman who comes with the real man pays speech I will slap you if you were in my face. Women wanted equality this is what you get. Stop trying to get equality +. You're able to work alongside males, get top education at prestigious universities, Own and afford cars, houses, venues, ect. If you can't go dutch fuck you bitch!
That's been my attitude ever since I started dating at 16.
@revemupman yeah they got equal rights but they want extra privileges to go with it, and it looks like they have them too, because they are able to eat with out out spending a dollar to even killing someone and getting away with it.
my girlfriend and i agree in one thing. if we fancy the guy, we let him pay.. if we don't like the guy, we pay for ourselves so the guy will not expect anything and may even get turned-off...ha ha it's fun..
in romantic situations, yes, let the man pay. to reciprocate with a nice romantic home made dinner, that is a good solution. men who want to go dutch are cheap and not really into you. It is nice to treat occasionally, after things get going, especially birthdays and special occasions. It's about love and generosity.
Well I think first it depends on the status of both. If the man is older and obviously has more money and takes me to a place that i cant affort myself to pay, why will i pay?
And if he is my age, then i will easily pay.
BUT. if i see him nerviously looking at me in fear that i will not pay- goodbye. He must say confidently: "I will pay!" and then i say "i will pay for myself". and only then he says "okay" and smile. only then it is okay. but if i see his greediness thats the end.
If its The First few Dates I Pay for What I Eat. She Pay For What She Eat. I Buy My Own Movie Ticket She Buy Her Own Movie tickect. Women Like to Say The Independent....Well Independantly Pay For Your Own Shit.
@expertvillage I feel really so nice if a woman pays for me. I feel wanted. It feels like that woman is not with you just because she is needy or greedy but she really wants you. This makes a man so speical. But I don't know why women don't want to make their man special why they always want men to make them special. Actually Women are highly selfish creatures when it comes to relationship, love and romance.
@expertvillage This is the 21st century. Women have the ability to do anything a man can do. It is not the man's place to 'make it happen', it is the couples place to 'make it happen'. How is a man supposed to make a woman feel secure when she makes more money than him?
Men never believe a woman who always demands money from you. She is using you for money. A woman who actually loves you will go through the good and bad times by your side.
I'm a man from Europe and I hate to pay. When I was in the US and I dated, women always expected me to pay and I hated it, ended up not to date that person again.
If a woman has enough self-esteem and dignity, she'll never let a man pay for her. In Europe men only pay prostitutes.
@pierneus This is typical of women to expect her man to pay for her wherever you take her, if you go to movie, dinner, or any place, Your woman will always want you to pay for her even if a woman is financially indepndent, because women want to show you as a needy and dependent
@pierneus Women still have age-old thoughts Man is a provider, protector and always a giver in this corporate-age too where both men and woman have equal oppurtunites for earning money and getting education. But Men have changed themelves, now they openly accept all rights of women, they approve of a woman being a career women.Women want to have their cake and eat it too with 21st century feminist views towards men, yet in the same breath want men to hold 18th century courtesies towards women.
@eleggance Yes, you're right my friend, what you told about women and men is absolutely true! The point is, what should we do about it now? Men should not accept to carry this tradition. Not to mention the fact that many times I've heard women saying things like:" Ho, I'm going out with him only to get a free meal, then I'll go straight home". I had a girlfriend from Germany once, she felt insulted when I suggested that I picked up the bill. THAT'S A WOMAN! :)
The first date should be on the person that invited the other person on the date. After that, you should take turns paying for it..Also, for the men\women that are dating please make sure that you bring money with you when you are going on a date and dont expect the other person to pay for all of your stuff that makes you look cheap and selfish :\..
@tranquilbluesky If i were rich, i still wouldn't pay for dinner on the first date. You can't buy a girl, so gifts, paying for food etc are a no no. Or... is she really such a bum that she can't afford her own food?
@tranquilbluesky I pay for my dates. But they put themselves in a lower class when they aren't equal to me. Then they just become my eye candy to attract the real partner material girls.
Let's make it easy, eh? Whoever invites the person out should pay. Like if I invite a guy to lunch/dinner, I have absolutely no problem paying. Even if I'm invited though, I personally feel better paying my portion of it because then I don't feel like I [owe] the guy later. (But of course that's just me) But to make it easier, whoever invites should pay.
@Fayme20 I agree with you. Unfortunately most of the women are not like you. It is typical of a woman to put financial burden on men shoulder alone. Most of the today's women are still living in 18th century.Even in this modern age, Women think Men are still provider and protector . Today, Women enjoy the same opportunities and rights as men for education and employment, but when they have a relationship, they look at men for their financial expenses. Basically This is women ego issue
@Fayme20 I firmly believe that If a woman has an employment then She must share burden of financial expenses with her man. This is the justice in a relationship. But if the woman is just a house wife or homemaker then the man will have no issues paying for expenses of his woman alone. and also this is totally justified
we don't live in the 50s anymore, since today women work and have equal oprtunities of being sucsessful the logical thing would be an extintion of this "law" that men always has pay.
what if the man invites a women out to dinner shouldn't it be expected for him to pay i mean when i invite someone its because i'm paying i'm confused!!! I mean if they didn't have the money we would the guy invite you out to begin with !!!
This isn't 1920 where a woman has no job and a man has to take care of a woman. Woman now boast about their independance and all that jazz, but still want the dude to pick up the tab. If you are dating, 50 50. If a guy says, hey... I want to take you out. Yeah, he should pay because that is what that infers. But dating is expensive, and the dude shouldn't have to pay to find out if she is girlfriend material.
just have one question. If you and your date were going out to the movies, paying your own way, is that a good idea? Or even offering to pay your own separate ways?
No! Not for a first date, thats just wrong.And I dont care what year it is, a man and a womans nature never changes.somethings a man is just supposed to do,out of respect.Nowadays men don't know how to be men any more, and some "dumb ass" women are the blame.
Man ask woman out. Woman accepts. Man pays for dinner and movie. Woman decides she's not interested in man romantically or sexually. Math: Man -2 (takes hit to ego and wallet), Woman +1 (free food an entertainment). To any woman or man that says they support true "equality", this is completely incompatible. Shouldn't the woman be expected to do "something" to pull her weight, like openly declare she's not interested at the end and then give the man gas money or wash his car. Something?
ActaNonVerba71 1 week ago
@georgelopezblows I don't do restaurants for first dates. Because I can't use the gold diggers as wing women at restaurants. Go to bars or some social place for the first date. Once you find out the true intent of the girl, use her to pick up better partner material girls.
buzzybeemarketing 1 month ago
I'm from Netherlands. Around here we men always are expected to pay
LBCDan 2 months ago
@LBCDan Maybe you should move to France. There are no such things as dates in France. You do dinner parties. Much better idea.
buzzybeemarketing 1 month ago
@buzzybeemarketing sounds cool hehe
LBCDan 1 month ago
@buzzybeemarketing i understand like 50% french
AndrewLaReal 1 month ago
i can feel my IQ melting as i watch this
simyan2012 3 months ago
Yes and no? That should mean SPLIT IT! ALWAYS!
YoByAxEs 7 months ago
Any woman who comes with the real man pays speech I will slap you if you were in my face. Women wanted equality this is what you get. Stop trying to get equality +. You're able to work alongside males, get top education at prestigious universities, Own and afford cars, houses, venues, ect. If you can't go dutch fuck you bitch!
That's been my attitude ever since I started dating at 16.
revemupman 7 months ago
@revemupman yeah they got equal rights but they want extra privileges to go with it, and it looks like they have them too, because they are able to eat with out out spending a dollar to even killing someone and getting away with it.
k5lta 7 months ago
a real man pays no matter what
BelieveDAaat 8 months ago 3
@BelieveDAaat And a real woman stays in the kitchen keeping her mouth shut.
DMalenfant1 5 months ago
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BelieveDAaat 5 months ago
I pay for my dinner and drink and the guy can pay for his lol
thickjai18 9 months ago
my girlfriend and i agree in one thing. if we fancy the guy, we let him pay.. if we don't like the guy, we pay for ourselves so the guy will not expect anything and may even get turned-off...ha ha it's fun..
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Just split it, or take turns paying.
UnknownXV 11 months ago
in romantic situations, yes, let the man pay. to reciprocate with a nice romantic home made dinner, that is a good solution. men who want to go dutch are cheap and not really into you. It is nice to treat occasionally, after things get going, especially birthdays and special occasions. It's about love and generosity.
frustratedoperator 1 year ago
i make my bitches pay. fuck, it's my money anyways.
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hinatachain 7 months ago
Well I think first it depends on the status of both. If the man is older and obviously has more money and takes me to a place that i cant affort myself to pay, why will i pay?
And if he is my age, then i will easily pay.
BUT. if i see him nerviously looking at me in fear that i will not pay- goodbye. He must say confidently: "I will pay!" and then i say "i will pay for myself". and only then he says "okay" and smile. only then it is okay. but if i see his greediness thats the end.
key1810 1 year ago
If its The First few Dates I Pay for What I Eat. She Pay For What She Eat. I Buy My Own Movie Ticket She Buy Her Own Movie tickect. Women Like to Say The Independent....Well Independantly Pay For Your Own Shit.
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@expertvillage I feel really so nice if a woman pays for me. I feel wanted. It feels like that woman is not with you just because she is needy or greedy but she really wants you. This makes a man so speical. But I don't know why women don't want to make their man special why they always want men to make them special. Actually Women are highly selfish creatures when it comes to relationship, love and romance.
eleggance 1 year ago
@expertvillage This is the 21st century. Women have the ability to do anything a man can do. It is not the man's place to 'make it happen', it is the couples place to 'make it happen'. How is a man supposed to make a woman feel secure when she makes more money than him?
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Men never believe a woman who always demands money from you. She is using you for money. A woman who actually loves you will go through the good and bad times by your side.
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Share the wealth and still maintain a free market capitalistic economy. That concept is possible eliminate greed, and there you have it.
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Money has made man mad.
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mystyle143 1 year ago
a men shoul never pay for the date just go to the park lol free dates eat bfore the date lol and chill at her house for dates lol
Rahhhsajp19 1 year ago
I'm a man from Europe and I hate to pay. When I was in the US and I dated, women always expected me to pay and I hated it, ended up not to date that person again.
If a woman has enough self-esteem and dignity, she'll never let a man pay for her. In Europe men only pay prostitutes.
Women, think about it!
pierneus 1 year ago
@pierneus This is typical of women to expect her man to pay for her wherever you take her, if you go to movie, dinner, or any place, Your woman will always want you to pay for her even if a woman is financially indepndent, because women want to show you as a needy and dependent
eleggance 1 year ago
@pierneus Women still have age-old thoughts Man is a provider, protector and always a giver in this corporate-age too where both men and woman have equal oppurtunites for earning money and getting education. But Men have changed themelves, now they openly accept all rights of women, they approve of a woman being a career women.Women want to have their cake and eat it too with 21st century feminist views towards men, yet in the same breath want men to hold 18th century courtesies towards women.
eleggance 1 year ago
@eleggance Yes, you're right my friend, what you told about women and men is absolutely true! The point is, what should we do about it now? Men should not accept to carry this tradition. Not to mention the fact that many times I've heard women saying things like:" Ho, I'm going out with him only to get a free meal, then I'll go straight home". I had a girlfriend from Germany once, she felt insulted when I suggested that I picked up the bill. THAT'S A WOMAN! :)
pierneus 1 year ago
The first date should be on the person that invited the other person on the date. After that, you should take turns paying for it..Also, for the men\women that are dating please make sure that you bring money with you when you are going on a date and dont expect the other person to pay for all of your stuff that makes you look cheap and selfish :\..
11skyy11 2 years ago 2
Depends on the situation.
Sometimes, the man will pay for the woman.
Sometimes, the woman will pay for the man.
And sometimes, they just go dutch.
NinjaGhostScorpion 2 years ago
only a bum wouldnt pay for his date
tranquilbluesky 2 years ago 18
@tranquilbluesky If i were rich, i still wouldn't pay for dinner on the first date. You can't buy a girl, so gifts, paying for food etc are a no no. Or... is she really such a bum that she can't afford her own food?
devilzown11 4 months ago
@tranquilbluesky I pay for my dates. But they put themselves in a lower class when they aren't equal to me. Then they just become my eye candy to attract the real partner material girls.
buzzybeemarketing 1 month ago
i think we should each pay for ourselves, i hate it when a guy pays for me
bitski777 2 years ago 2
Let's make it easy, eh? Whoever invites the person out should pay. Like if I invite a guy to lunch/dinner, I have absolutely no problem paying. Even if I'm invited though, I personally feel better paying my portion of it because then I don't feel like I [owe] the guy later. (But of course that's just me) But to make it easier, whoever invites should pay.
Fayme20 2 years ago
@Fayme20 I agree with you. Unfortunately most of the women are not like you. It is typical of a woman to put financial burden on men shoulder alone. Most of the today's women are still living in 18th century.Even in this modern age, Women think Men are still provider and protector . Today, Women enjoy the same opportunities and rights as men for education and employment, but when they have a relationship, they look at men for their financial expenses. Basically This is women ego issue
eleggance 1 year ago
@Fayme20 I firmly believe that If a woman has an employment then She must share burden of financial expenses with her man. This is the justice in a relationship. But if the woman is just a house wife or homemaker then the man will have no issues paying for expenses of his woman alone. and also this is totally justified
eleggance 1 year ago
@eleggance and the man must be ready to cook and clean the house as well
key1810 1 year ago
we don't live in the 50s anymore, since today women work and have equal oprtunities of being sucsessful the logical thing would be an extintion of this "law" that men always has pay.
vlrbcaixeta 2 years ago
My girlfriend often go 50/50
JBthree24 2 years ago
what if the man invites a women out to dinner shouldn't it be expected for him to pay i mean when i invite someone its because i'm paying i'm confused!!! I mean if they didn't have the money we would the guy invite you out to begin with !!!
paulababe1985 2 years ago 5
@paulababe1985 Most women don't ask guys out.
buzzybeemarketing 1 month ago
I don't know about all the other gals but there's no way I'm paying for a date. What happened to chivalry? That's sad lol
tomthecat2009 2 years ago
that is so true bro Women now a days always want a man to pay but some women want to pay for a date
rainbow1892 3 years ago
This isn't 1920 where a woman has no job and a man has to take care of a woman. Woman now boast about their independance and all that jazz, but still want the dude to pick up the tab. If you are dating, 50 50. If a guy says, hey... I want to take you out. Yeah, he should pay because that is what that infers. But dating is expensive, and the dude shouldn't have to pay to find out if she is girlfriend material.
emerson24 3 years ago 2
Yes, he should at first.Then the woman should after a while.back and forth.
vanitystarr1 3 years ago
just have one question. If you and your date were going out to the movies, paying your own way, is that a good idea? Or even offering to pay your own separate ways?
BCanNeers 3 years ago
No! Not for a first date, thats just wrong.And I dont care what year it is, a man and a womans nature never changes.somethings a man is just supposed to do,out of respect.Nowadays men don't know how to be men any more, and some "dumb ass" women are the blame.
vanitystarr1 3 years ago
Very true!!!
tomthecat2009 2 years ago
Very good.
JBthree24 2 years ago
I buy lunch,she buys movie tickets.
visa versa
hijorge 3 years ago