I think we all feel awkward at times wheather we are trannies or not, thats just life, so I say just be yourself and who cares what others think...you seem to be a good guy, so be a good guy and good things will come your way
Just be yourself, no matter whether you seem "flamboyant" or not, and if you are confident then people will probably come to admire you for it. Most girls will find it attractive that you don't worry about other's opinions. I find that attractive about my boyfriend; he is who he is, and doesn't care what people think. It's harder than it sounds, yeah, but just relax. Go eat sushi, or take a hot bath or something. =D
yes I agree with Kittibouchan. I recently broke up with someone and she was listing one of the things that bothered her about me was that I cared a little too much about what she thought of me and would rather have seen me interested in my own things and sharing those with her. So just be yourself, do what you like!
But I do agree that there's like some kind of bro-culture that exists that you might not be familiar with. Fortunately I think as long as you're a dude you're instantly in the club.
welllll....I can't REALLY say I know exactly how you feel, because I am mtf, but I do know what you mean to an extent. My boyfriend is ftm, and I am sure he worries about the same thing sometimes. For me, after being raised as a boy, but with the gender of a girl, it does feel odd to be in public as a girl..not to mention I haven't perfected my voice, so I don't really speak in public either, making me seem strange. XD Anywho, don't read too much into it, it's prolly just anxiety. ^__-
wanted to say hello I am a mom of an ftm and he I should say is only 7 years old I would love to know more about how you feel and maybe comunicate via email so I can do all I need to do as a mom for him, and maybe give you a little insite on what you prob were like when so young. how do I get in touch with you I am very new at this internet you tube thing.
I feel the same way! Most of my friends are female also. Its good to know I'm not the only one who feels that way. I just don't how to fit in with bio guys.
Well I don't feel awkward like you because I am a bio girl.. however I have always had manly features and have been mistaken for a man on the phone many a time.. so in that sense I hear ya.. you shouldn't worry about what bio guys see you as... who cares.. aren't you the GUY you wanted to be? Just be yourself.. you seem pretty cool:D
I think of you as 100% a dude. Like any other guy I know only cooler :) But really I dont think you are awkward in public, not any more awkward than anyone else. I guess that doenst mean much though because I feel like I am awkward in public :) Still trying to figure out where I fit in the world and who I am. Cant wait to be your roommie!!!
you have people there that love you! i see you as ryan...the ryan i still need to get to know. THIS makes me want to hang out. you seem in such a better place ryan. you may be starting all over, but really alot of those people that loved you before still love you. lesbians, gays, straights....
yeah dude. i have mostly friends that are girls. being in the south, though, guys don't really put that much thought into it. they're probably thinking "oh you're a dude? cool. let's go drink a beer, man!" haha
lol i hate that the awkward feeling im 24 i want to go to dr. garrome in fl
SuperChris2727 2 years ago
I think we all feel awkward at times wheather we are trannies or not, thats just life, so I say just be yourself and who cares what others think...you seem to be a good guy, so be a good guy and good things will come your way
scarypowers 2 years ago
You got amazing voice!
Noninterfering 2 years ago
Just be yourself, no matter whether you seem "flamboyant" or not, and if you are confident then people will probably come to admire you for it. Most girls will find it attractive that you don't worry about other's opinions. I find that attractive about my boyfriend; he is who he is, and doesn't care what people think. It's harder than it sounds, yeah, but just relax. Go eat sushi, or take a hot bath or something. =D
Kittibouchan 2 years ago
yes I agree with Kittibouchan. I recently broke up with someone and she was listing one of the things that bothered her about me was that I cared a little too much about what she thought of me and would rather have seen me interested in my own things and sharing those with her. So just be yourself, do what you like!
But I do agree that there's like some kind of bro-culture that exists that you might not be familiar with. Fortunately I think as long as you're a dude you're instantly in the club.
johnsmithingtons 2 years ago
welllll....I can't REALLY say I know exactly how you feel, because I am mtf, but I do know what you mean to an extent. My boyfriend is ftm, and I am sure he worries about the same thing sometimes. For me, after being raised as a boy, but with the gender of a girl, it does feel odd to be in public as a girl..not to mention I haven't perfected my voice, so I don't really speak in public either, making me seem strange. XD Anywho, don't read too much into it, it's prolly just anxiety. ^__-
Kittibouchan 2 years ago
wanted to say hello I am a mom of an ftm and he I should say is only 7 years old I would love to know more about how you feel and maybe comunicate via email so I can do all I need to do as a mom for him, and maybe give you a little insite on what you prob were like when so young. how do I get in touch with you I am very new at this internet you tube thing.
momtoftm 2 years ago
hey you are pretty hot :D
getleashed 2 years ago
I feel the same way! Most of my friends are female also. Its good to know I'm not the only one who feels that way. I just don't how to fit in with bio guys.
transman0000 2 years ago
Well I don't feel awkward like you because I am a bio girl.. however I have always had manly features and have been mistaken for a man on the phone many a time.. so in that sense I hear ya.. you shouldn't worry about what bio guys see you as... who cares.. aren't you the GUY you wanted to be? Just be yourself.. you seem pretty cool:D
missmaria21 2 years ago
thanks for your honest video
sad to hear all this confusions don t go away when being on t as i m feeling the same without i hope y ll feel better soon
noorderloos 2 years ago
I think of you as 100% a dude. Like any other guy I know only cooler :) But really I dont think you are awkward in public, not any more awkward than anyone else. I guess that doenst mean much though because I feel like I am awkward in public :) Still trying to figure out where I fit in the world and who I am. Cant wait to be your roommie!!!
alpvagabond 2 years ago
you have people there that love you! i see you as ryan...the ryan i still need to get to know. THIS makes me want to hang out. you seem in such a better place ryan. you may be starting all over, but really alot of those people that loved you before still love you. lesbians, gays, straights....
vixen0995 2 years ago
yeah dude. i have mostly friends that are girls. being in the south, though, guys don't really put that much thought into it. they're probably thinking "oh you're a dude? cool. let's go drink a beer, man!" haha
tunesluvr 2 years ago
I dont have anything on the awkwardness but I did find the faces amusing.... : )...hey someones gotta be goofy!!!
chillin26 2 years ago