I'm monogamous too, I'm only 16 but I know what I want. I don't want to have sex with anyone but the person I want to be with for the rest of my life, I can't say I'm really looking for a boyfriend, but I know at the same time, that if I were looking at my age, I'd just find immaturity, I can't be taken seriously at my age, not by anyone, and no one my age is serious enough to want to have the commitment I have, they're all sex fiends.
“On the dogmas of religion, as distinguished from moral principles, all mankind, from the beginning of the world to this day, have been quarreling, fighting, burning and torturing one another, for abstractions unintelligible to themselves and to all others, and absolutely beyond the comprehension of the human mind.”
Thomas Jefferson quote and you might like my video, so let me know, God loves you more then you know! God Bless!
I think you a pretty awesome and very creative young man. If you wouldn't mind please check out here youtube, star trek blood and fire part 1. Let me know what you think-K? You may not like sci fi or even star trek, but it is in the future which the fate of all humankind has it's hopes and dreams. This episode addresses Gays (us, yeah I am one) and gay marriage
When I was younger I always wanted to find one special person, but I could never find anyone. All of the guys were either unattractive or else if they were attractive they were not available or else they were just a bit frightening in some ways. One of the guys told me he'd done boxing. he was really attractive, but when I started going out for lunch alone, he'd get really aggressive. "Where the hell do you go?" he''d demanded when I got back to work. I could see where it was heading.
I think the christians need to take responsibility for the troubles they have caused by condemning all groups of people regardless of the issue. Religion has always condemned people in the name of God.
Homosexual activists know the importance of words.
Please visit my channel to watch a one-minute video clip in which famous atheist Richard Dawkins admits that homosexual activists "hijacked the word 'gay'".
The word "gay" has helped homosexual activists push their dishonest agenda on unsuspecting people.
The word "homosexual" is more appropriate and accurate because it, unlike the word "gay", actually describes the behavior/attraction/relationship being discussed.
Monogamy among gays is possible,i really depends on your values and the people you date. I'm in a monogamous relationship right now and it's the best thing.
ALL HOMOS ARE GOING TO HELL! GOD SAID: "If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."
Please visit my channel for the unpopular truth about homosexuality.
A person does not need hatred or any kind of phobia in order to acknowledge important differences between heterosexual attraction / behavior / marriage / adoption and homosexual attraction / behavior / marriage / adoption. Even non-religious people know this.
Homosexual activists, with support from the media, have succeeded at framing themselves as noble victims; it's an effective way to push a social agenda.
wow u so cute. Well u must stop being sad but instead go out there 2 being a gay n enjoy what being gay can brings u. n forget about friend. Happiness is not brought about by friend or other person but by yourself. U bath with self, u eat with self so enjoy being a gay by yourself. That's a gift god has given us homo!
You know what's a pain? Being a gay southerner. In Tennessee. The belt buckle on the bible belt of America. But yes, Bigotry is the only true downside to being gay... That and not being able to have a baby made from just you and your baby.
You're going to be fine sweet one! The world you will likely be "out" in is so
transformed from the one a boy I once loved (Bobby Griffith/Prayers for Bobby)
and I were out in. It thrills me to think that you will likely be able to marry the person whom you love, even rear or raise children, if you so choose! And to think , I get to watch it happen! Yeah!!!
wonderful video mate! :) im also gay, and a closet one at this point, i was wondering how on earth you found the courage to come out and tell people. also do you come from a religious background, because i do, and while it isnt super conservative, i will probably lose most of my friends, my role in sunday school, and possibly have to leave my church.... do you also think its different for women? the reason i asked is because i am one.
I would change the fact that people think being gay is derogatory or it equals to be feminine...like if it made you less of a man...odd enough, I believe many gays themselves believe they have to be feminine, call each other "girl".
You are a good proof of the exact opposite, you're just a guy who just happens to be gay, that's how I would like people to see it: you're tall, you have dark hair, you might be good at math, you might speak french and yeah, you're also gay, THAT'S IT!.
good video it gave me a lot to think about, im still in the closet, im from south america here is really hard being gay but im proud of who i am!!!! as you say there are thing that i would change if i could... and things that i would never touch jeje great videos
There is a great misconception that promiscuity is a 'gay' thing when in reality it is more to do with male sexuality. Its a biological fact that men have less biological consequences when casting his seed, he does not have to bear child. It would then play out that gay male relationships are more likely to be unfaithful. I wish you luck in the search for monogamy, though I have found it best to be faithful to yourself!
what i hate about being gay is the fact that it can be a very lonely life, especially when you get older. things dont always work the way you planned them. as a gay person i have had to develop my own views on almost everything. it is easier to be straight and to have society give you a blue print for a life.
I agree with you partially. I think however that you should avoid most people that hate you for being who you are. I agree that some times that is not possible.
I hope you do find that man with which to spend your life. If that is what you want, you can do it! I know because I have. This year will be our 40th anniversary of our long and faithful gay relationship. Your vid put a smile on our faces. :-)
Monogomy rocks & it isn't just a kind of wooden furniture! After coming out - now you have all this energy to change the world as you aren't wasting it all hiding who you are,,,:)
You have a good head on your shoulders..great vid!
I think things are changing for the better. Can you imagine how horrible it would have been to be gay..let's say in the 1920's? Coming out is the best weapon against homophobia. We are not landing from space ships..we are brothers, uncles, cousins, neighbors, coworkers.
I wholeheartedly agree. There is a perception out there that most gays are promiscuous, which is very discouraging as a 25 year-old gay man, just now coming out, who wants to find a partner for life. Hopefully one day that perception will change...I hope to find someone out there like you who "gets it!"
@johnny71809 try being 29, married to a woman, and then coming out after being raised Mormon. It's even more terrifying. I too hope perceptions will change and that we can all find the person we were meant to share our lives with as the people we were created to be. I have no doubt David will find an attractive and intelligent guy to spend the rest of hist life with.
Love your insight as always...thanks for sharing this. Your future husband will be very lucky to have someone like you. And our community is very lucky to have people like you!
David, your insights are always valued. I agree with everything you've said here. I would say that the monogamy perception is just that: a perception and not a reality. In the coming years, as gays and lesbians settle closer and are allowed more into the cultural mainstream, the monogamous sector of the LGBT community will only become even more important and continue to grow. I hope to be a part of that community myself. Thank you for your video.
I haven't come out yet for fear of losing some of my friends, but I've been thinking about doing it a lot now lately. Maybe thats an indication that its time! I feel like I would be such a happier person once I do it.
Very well said. Being gay really does allow you to better discern who your friends are. Thomas Jefferson was a wise man. He and John Adams were politically quite different, yet they were friends. Each was perhaps one of the most important person is the other's life.
I wholeheartedly agree with you about monogomy. I want to stay with my husband for life as well. I would be terribly hurt if my husband was not monogomous.
You are a smart man! Thank you for sharing with everyone!
Im very lucky, in that the religion i grew up in didnt openly condemn gays, didnt grow up hating myself. That is what i would change for struggling gays. I fight for them, because i have seen the terrible damage done. I wouldnt change who i am if i could, it has made me a more compassionate person, less judgemental, unashamed, stronger person. I believe once u can accept, love urself, learn from all the great YT guys, u can live life with more passion, because of, not inspite of the hand ur delt
@sleekcartim I totally love you Sleek! I read all your comments and you are one rock solid good guy! I dont know you well, but we have talked a few times and I think your a really cool person. I feel the same way asyou do about being gay. I just wouldnt change it even if I could. I no longer choose self hatered or loathing. The struggles I survived being gay made me a pretty decent person I think!. :)
@pvampire aww thx! I try. think we chatted bout derek a few times, i miss him, he is so much like me at his age. It's nice to know he was helped by both of us. ppl are subbing me cuz of my comments, & favs which i find very interesting. Ive had a lot of practice helping teens, so this clarity comes natural to me, They say you get more than you give, this is evidence. I highly recommend volunteer work, esp for teens & 20 somethings !
ive been out since 82...Im 49....Im hopin things drastically change in my lifetime.....and agreed about friend thing...tho, I would NOT be friends/or family with someone who voted against me..that would be MY choice! The older u get the more you settle down...is monogomy rampant in Hetero life,NO. Always BE YOU....your personal world revolves around u tho. ..I wouldn't change anything either....and to you, I guess Id be considered old..?
Excllent.proud to b a gay.
usmansings 2 weeks ago
I'm monogamous too, I'm only 16 but I know what I want. I don't want to have sex with anyone but the person I want to be with for the rest of my life, I can't say I'm really looking for a boyfriend, but I know at the same time, that if I were looking at my age, I'd just find immaturity, I can't be taken seriously at my age, not by anyone, and no one my age is serious enough to want to have the commitment I have, they're all sex fiends.
FinalFantasyXPro 3 weeks ago
“On the dogmas of religion, as distinguished from moral principles, all mankind, from the beginning of the world to this day, have been quarreling, fighting, burning and torturing one another, for abstractions unintelligible to themselves and to all others, and absolutely beyond the comprehension of the human mind.”
Thomas Jefferson quote and you might like my video, so let me know, God loves you more then you know! God Bless!
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When I was younger I always wanted to find one special person, but I could never find anyone. All of the guys were either unattractive or else if they were attractive they were not available or else they were just a bit frightening in some ways. One of the guys told me he'd done boxing. he was really attractive, but when I started going out for lunch alone, he'd get really aggressive. "Where the hell do you go?" he''d demanded when I got back to work. I could see where it was heading.
RayL1983 1 month ago
Thanks for this video -3 very insightful
BOSTONBLITZ 2 months ago
Very good video. Cheers!
tiramisu100 2 months ago
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The word "gay" has helped homosexual activists push their dishonest agenda on unsuspecting people.
The word "homosexual" is more appropriate and accurate because it, unlike the word "gay", actually describes the behavior/attraction/relationship being discussed.
lightandbeautiful 2 months ago
Monogamy among gays is possible,i really depends on your values and the people you date. I'm in a monogamous relationship right now and it's the best thing.
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ALL HOMOS ARE GOING TO HELL! GOD SAID: "If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."
IIIIlllllll 4 months ago
He is cute.
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A person does not need hatred or any kind of phobia in order to acknowledge important differences between heterosexual attraction / behavior / marriage / adoption and homosexual attraction / behavior / marriage / adoption. Even non-religious people know this.
Homosexual activists, with support from the media, have succeeded at framing themselves as noble victims; it's an effective way to push a social agenda.
lightandbeautiful 4 months ago
You're super right! plus ur really cute :) I'm mormon too
diegovecova 4 months ago
wow u so cute. Well u must stop being sad but instead go out there 2 being a gay n enjoy what being gay can brings u. n forget about friend. Happiness is not brought about by friend or other person but by yourself. U bath with self, u eat with self so enjoy being a gay by yourself. That's a gift god has given us homo!
01sakyacg 4 months ago
you are cute !!!!
sarabification 5 months ago
The best thing is finding who your real friends are.
stephenwalls1 7 months ago
Wow you're cute.
korisx 8 months ago 2
ha im viewer 6,666
YUGIOHbuyANDsell 8 months ago
You seem like a really nice person. Seriously. Obviously I don't know you personally, but you just seem like a good, down-to-earth guy.
gocallyoualawyer 9 months ago
You know what's a pain? Being a gay southerner. In Tennessee. The belt buckle on the bible belt of America. But yes, Bigotry is the only true downside to being gay... That and not being able to have a baby made from just you and your baby.
PrinceRutherford 9 months ago
Ciao Bello!
You're going to be fine sweet one! The world you will likely be "out" in is so
transformed from the one a boy I once loved (Bobby Griffith/Prayers for Bobby)
and I were out in. It thrills me to think that you will likely be able to marry the person whom you love, even rear or raise children, if you so choose! And to think , I get to watch it happen! Yeah!!!
Grazie Mille!
Blaine
blainebill39 1 year ago
wonderful video mate! :) im also gay, and a closet one at this point, i was wondering how on earth you found the courage to come out and tell people. also do you come from a religious background, because i do, and while it isnt super conservative, i will probably lose most of my friends, my role in sunday school, and possibly have to leave my church.... do you also think its different for women? the reason i asked is because i am one.
Griffin9857 1 year ago
I would change gay rights!! I would make gay marriage legal!! I would give gay couples all the rights a straight couple gets!!
shigoku0shoujo 1 year ago
Jesusfuck you are a cute guy and so sweet sounding too!
electronicoffee 1 year ago
I've been monogamous for 14 years. It's possible and, with the right person, is wonderful and fulfilling.
GaryInMilwaukee 1 year ago
OH MY....no. heterosexual means promiscuous. and hypocritical. lying two faced
pieces of shit. ask their wives. they know what shit they married. you are much
better off being gay. we dont hide too much from each other. we cant. we are
just nice people, and always have been. we have higher iq's and better taste too.
we speak more languages than the UN. and we are much cleaner. really.
jumbobobcleo 1 year ago
I would change the fact that people think being gay is derogatory or it equals to be feminine...like if it made you less of a man...odd enough, I believe many gays themselves believe they have to be feminine, call each other "girl".
You are a good proof of the exact opposite, you're just a guy who just happens to be gay, that's how I would like people to see it: you're tall, you have dark hair, you might be good at math, you might speak french and yeah, you're also gay, THAT'S IT!.
preppyboy9016 1 year ago
Thank you so much for your coming out story. I really appreciated it....
hofferkamp 1 year ago
@MechanicalWood Haha, yes true. But then I do the same >_<
QwertyYuk 1 year ago
@MechanicalWood Oh, that's what I usually do. And say. If I get into an argument :P but let's not argue on ;P
QwertyYuk 1 year ago
@MechanicalWood Shut up man, it's what you're doing. Damn, where's your brains.
QwertyYuk 1 year ago
@MechanicalWood Well, MechanicalWood, shut up. You're the one posting comments about it.
QwertyYuk 1 year ago
@MechanicalWood Fail. You hate yourself just because some lunatics taught you that God is everything. Wrong. Be yourself, you can't help it.
QwertyYuk 1 year ago
good video it gave me a lot to think about, im still in the closet, im from south america here is really hard being gay but im proud of who i am!!!! as you say there are thing that i would change if i could... and things that i would never touch jeje great videos
sgyeods 1 year ago
i totally agree with you!!
TheN92 1 year ago
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kfag101 1 year ago
nice insights and your cute
defeatingthenorm 1 year ago
I TOTALLY totally agree!!
I am a bisexual mormon, so I totally understand everything in this video!
(I share a bday with t.Jefferson - he's awesome! i love that you quoted him)
Also, I follow carlkr as well.
You remind me of me! I hope i meet you someday, you seem really nice. =)
bradleyman888 1 year ago
you seem so selfless and so understanding. your awesome!
mousebitch04 1 year ago
It's not hatred.
gneerowblack 1 year ago
Very sweet, particularly at the end. Thanks for sharing.
donstrom 1 year ago
There is a great misconception that promiscuity is a 'gay' thing when in reality it is more to do with male sexuality. Its a biological fact that men have less biological consequences when casting his seed, he does not have to bear child. It would then play out that gay male relationships are more likely to be unfaithful. I wish you luck in the search for monogamy, though I have found it best to be faithful to yourself!
Queerkunt 2 years ago
what i hate about being gay is the fact that it can be a very lonely life, especially when you get older. things dont always work the way you planned them. as a gay person i have had to develop my own views on almost everything. it is easier to be straight and to have society give you a blue print for a life.
terrafirmaterrafirma 2 years ago
I agree with you partially. I think however that you should avoid most people that hate you for being who you are. I agree that some times that is not possible.
terrafirmaterrafirma 2 years ago
I hope you do find that man with which to spend your life. If that is what you want, you can do it! I know because I have. This year will be our 40th anniversary of our long and faithful gay relationship. Your vid put a smile on our faces. :-)
tedhax 2 years ago
Monogomy rocks & it isn't just a kind of wooden furniture! After coming out - now you have all this energy to change the world as you aren't wasting it all hiding who you are,,,:)
xfiles987 2 years ago
As always David, a brilliant vid! Thanks.
praestant8 2 years ago 3
You have a good head on your shoulders..great vid!
I think things are changing for the better. Can you imagine how horrible it would have been to be gay..let's say in the 1920's? Coming out is the best weapon against homophobia. We are not landing from space ships..we are brothers, uncles, cousins, neighbors, coworkers.
Good luck on your journey!!!
stoner829 2 years ago
I wholeheartedly agree. There is a perception out there that most gays are promiscuous, which is very discouraging as a 25 year-old gay man, just now coming out, who wants to find a partner for life. Hopefully one day that perception will change...I hope to find someone out there like you who "gets it!"
johnny71809 2 years ago
@johnny71809 try being 29, married to a woman, and then coming out after being raised Mormon. It's even more terrifying. I too hope perceptions will change and that we can all find the person we were meant to share our lives with as the people we were created to be. I have no doubt David will find an attractive and intelligent guy to spend the rest of hist life with.
praestant8 2 years ago
As a gay man who is married to another man (in Iowa), I totally respect your view. Thanks.
zionschurch 2 years ago
Still a beautiful soul inside a beautiful man...
May you find your sister soul and walk hand in hand for the rest of your lives...
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your loved ones !!!
<3 <3 <3
Your Auntie Mamie
AuntieMamiesBlog 2 years ago 2
Man, I am so damn proud of you for this David. I am honored to call you my friend.
msdemocrat3rd 2 years ago
Love your insight as always...thanks for sharing this. Your future husband will be very lucky to have someone like you. And our community is very lucky to have people like you!
fieryphoenixg1 2 years ago
David, your insights are always valued. I agree with everything you've said here. I would say that the monogamy perception is just that: a perception and not a reality. In the coming years, as gays and lesbians settle closer and are allowed more into the cultural mainstream, the monogamous sector of the LGBT community will only become even more important and continue to grow. I hope to be a part of that community myself. Thank you for your video.
CalebWandering 2 years ago
I agree 100% with everything you just said!!
I haven't come out yet for fear of losing some of my friends, but I've been thinking about doing it a lot now lately. Maybe thats an indication that its time! I feel like I would be such a happier person once I do it.
Anyway, Thanks for sharing!
TylerAg07 2 years ago
Always wise and thoughtful comments from you. Glad to have you on this coast!
nexttsar 2 years ago
Very well said. Being gay really does allow you to better discern who your friends are. Thomas Jefferson was a wise man. He and John Adams were politically quite different, yet they were friends. Each was perhaps one of the most important person is the other's life.
I wholeheartedly agree with you about monogomy. I want to stay with my husband for life as well. I would be terribly hurt if my husband was not monogomous.
You are a smart man! Thank you for sharing with everyone!
=)
StraightActingGayGuy 2 years ago
Im very lucky, in that the religion i grew up in didnt openly condemn gays, didnt grow up hating myself. That is what i would change for struggling gays. I fight for them, because i have seen the terrible damage done. I wouldnt change who i am if i could, it has made me a more compassionate person, less judgemental, unashamed, stronger person. I believe once u can accept, love urself, learn from all the great YT guys, u can live life with more passion, because of, not inspite of the hand ur delt
sleekcartim 2 years ago 9
@sleekcartim I totally love you Sleek! I read all your comments and you are one rock solid good guy! I dont know you well, but we have talked a few times and I think your a really cool person. I feel the same way asyou do about being gay. I just wouldnt change it even if I could. I no longer choose self hatered or loathing. The struggles I survived being gay made me a pretty decent person I think!. :)
pvampire 1 year ago
@pvampire aww thx! I try. think we chatted bout derek a few times, i miss him, he is so much like me at his age. It's nice to know he was helped by both of us. ppl are subbing me cuz of my comments, & favs which i find very interesting. Ive had a lot of practice helping teens, so this clarity comes natural to me, They say you get more than you give, this is evidence. I highly recommend volunteer work, esp for teens & 20 somethings !
1 LIFE
sleekcartim 1 year ago
ive been out since 82...Im 49....Im hopin things drastically change in my lifetime.....and agreed about friend thing...tho, I would NOT be friends/or family with someone who voted against me..that would be MY choice! The older u get the more you settle down...is monogomy rampant in Hetero life,NO. Always BE YOU....your personal world revolves around u tho. ..I wouldn't change anything either....and to you, I guess Id be considered old..?
rextrek 2 years ago