I FUCKED HIM TO HAVE THEM.. NOT YOU..STAY IN YOUR PLACE(21+)

[AshaPrettyLady77]

I know I woulda whooper her ass if he pierced my childs ear

[AshaPrettyLady77]

I woulda straight up took it to court she would have paid out of pocket to get my daughters hair back in place like it was before...and my baby girl would had to sport braids for a little while

[Lovelyladybug12ify]

I don't have any children..but I wud be mad too.. cos it is YOUR child...she is the step-mom she should not do that.

[kshel104]

Numerous times? You really need to beat that bitch ass to the ground until you see white! because apparently they don't give a damn. I got a 6 yr old with thick natural hair down her back and dare a bitch to perm it. I feel your frustration and I feel bad for you. You probably should trim her ends and rollerset and braid it to transition. Products with protein will reduce breakage.

[FATAND2CUTE]

This is a GRAB A BITCH BY THE NECK MOMENT clearly she needs an understanding beat into her ass its not like she wasnt warned now beat that ass smh that was bad advice lawd ..........your better then me cause the first time i would have gone ape shit oooooh boy but your doing the right thing talking to him first next stop is a visit to their house so homegirl can see your face when you grit you teeth and tell her to stop fucking with your childs hair

[mybrnskn]

Oh my goodness...No she didn't I can't believe that. That was something that should have been discussed with you. I understand your anger. I would be upset too. We would have to discuss his visitation and not allowing his wife to be there. I'm so upset for you.

[kareemtiheed]

No dont cut it. You can grow it out. Two textures are tough but i did with my daughter. Deep conditioning every week and trims until it's natural.. Use these styles braidout,phony ponies and braids.My ex wife messed her hair up with some old dollar store perm!

[CYRINTHIA212]

@kareemtiheed thanks for the advice.

[kareemtiheed]

@CYRINTHIA212 feel free to contact with any questions or concerns...i've grown both my daughters hair out.

[maxxnout]

Girl I am so pissed at what she did to ur childs hair. I think she just wants ur girl hair to be messed up, but if it was me I would beat the damn breaks off her ass and if he cant controll his dog then I would take her ass to court about it because it is messing her hair up and have it where she will have to pay a hairdresser to do her hair til its back to normal. I dont play when it comes to my children.

[lilgirl20]

im sorry maybe because im 23 and all and still have alot more maturing to do but the "step mom" needs dat ass beat...maybe she will get it then that thats YOUR child

[ThePoeticflava]

This woman needs an up close & personal conversation. Her father is wrong for allowing this to take place. I totally understand why you're so upset. I really cannot believe that she thought that it would be okay to do so. SMDH

[jbaybayyx3]

you are right gurl , she had no say and NO RIGHT to do any of that , that is NOT her daughter. she has no respect for you and your rules. and to go and do it again thats just another thing. you go girl for saying how you feel about it because in the end your the right one. shes not !

[lolagloss]

oooh this made me so mad!!!!!!!!! When I was younger my mom always told me to NEVER let my Dad's family to do my hair unless it was braids. I have never had a perm and they always wanted me to get one

[MrsShancha]

there has to be some law against this. You might want to find out if you can sue her in small claims court for damages. Because now your childs hair is severely damaged and you might have to cut it not to mention the extra expense you will now incur to keep what left of it on her head.

[imnotgonnadie1549]

21+ :o 

[speshalkaye]

Girl my daughter is 10 years old and I have NEVER EVER let ANYBODY comb her hair BUT ME. I WISH A BITCH WOULD mess with her hair without my permission? Girl u good cause I swear before Jesus I would have gone TO HER HOUSE and gave that bitch a 'good old fashioned ASS WHOOPIN' - i bet she'd think twice b 4 she did some more shit without my permission. YES THAT MIGHT BE GHETTO - BUT SHE'D GET THE FUCKIN' POINT!!!!!

[monimom3]

She clearly steped outside of her bounds!! If this continues,maybe she should not be around the step mother.

[darlynasanford]

She was way out of line and so was he because he went along with it. Baby first I want you to finish crying about what she did to your baby! Get your camera out and take pictures as you try to maintain her hair to keep it from breaking off. get a lawyer and sue them for damages to your daughter hair and ears. I would keep my children at home and they would have to come to my house for supervised visit since she can't abide by what I asked and he can't control her.

[raaven36]

Without your permission I would think this is assault on your child.

[raaven36]

Without your permission I would think this assault on your child.

[queenfee]

Damn...Sorry that happened to you Diva, maybe you can giver some cute two strand twist until it grows out.

[Luckey2007]

Oh no honey! Who in the hell fuckin with you! *Call my girls and my boys*

[rmbb10]

I so feel ya and then it was done again after you said it no. Wow.

[lela616]

ooohh i would of whooped his an her ass!!! exspecially hers!

[monee127]

Oh bayyy-beee no! Unh unh! I don't want you to go to jail but do what you gotta do. That cinderella-stepmother ignorant asx hoe.

[goldcherry103]

I understand your side of things. I am also a natural sister, without a relaxer. And I would be pissed if it happened to me. I dont feel that relaxers are for kids(my opinion). However, you should SUE this woman and take her ass to court. If necessary sue your child's father and his wife. Take pictures of the damaged hair and hire a lawyer. Good luck!!!

[terri318]

Hey love, she did that to piss you off.. That's why she did it..I don't blame you, I'll be upset to.

[JAYSMOOTHE83]

This is crazy and is this lady a certified beautician? Shes putting perm on the ends as well? And the fact that her step mother lets this go on? You are absolutely right, and shes completely stepping out of her boundaries, so YES bring it to her!

[cynmille2000]

thjat b want her ass kicked. she had no right to perm alley's hair,lazy hoe

[budgetqueen79]

((HUGS)) I understand why you are upset. I would been lit too because if she do one wrong step your baby could be bald.

[budgetqueen79]

@budgetqueen79 and I would be damned if she bald my baby. I would cut it little by little and keep it braided up until it grows out. She might be jealous and don't know what she doing that's why she did it. Men don't know nothing about hair he might didn't even tell her.

[egiggles79]

You did the right thing to bring it to him instead of her at first,but I agree, if he aint straightening her than maybe you need to kick the middleman and go straight to her. Cause im sure he did tell her,but it seems like she is doing it deliberately even after he told her.

Giggs :)

[CYRINTHIA212]

@egiggles79 thanks sista gurl im so upset right now..ive been crying all day behind this and i cursed his ass out AGAIN and his wife just does what ever the fuck she wanna do and he dont say or do shit..but when i get iggnant and fly off the handle im wrong..im the one that needs to grow up..imma see her..trust me on that shit..i hope somebody got my bail money too