Sure, your father was a perv; but how dare you put yourself in the same victim category of children that were actually PENETRATED!
You're just looking for underserved sympathy, so that you can look heroic; conquering a perverted father. You weren't raped or sodomized; quit calling your father's action INCEST. You diminish actual victims of incest, by claiming that you're the victim of incest; YOU'RE NOT!
@FightBadBehavior are you kidding me? Incest is incest - whether she was touched or penetrated - it doesn't make it any LESS traumatizing. Who are you to judge an experience that YOU didn't have? "Incest can range from inappropriate touching or fondling to intercourse."
@kelaltieri Okay, dumb shit, time for you to do a little research on the definition of incest. You'll find that it is defined as SEXUAL INTERCOURSE between persons forbidden by law to marry.
As I stated to Teza, her father was indeed a perv, but they didn't have intercourse, so she is not the victim of incest. If Teza's story is true, her father is guilty of molestation & he should have been charged accordingly. Nevertheless, no incest occurred.
Dumb shit Kelaltieri asked, "Who are you to judge an experience that YOU didn't have?" Pay attention dumb ass, not judging an experience; Judging her inapproriate use of a word. NEWS FLASH! Words mean things! Have the balls to point out egregious errors.
And don't tell me that breasts being fondled is just as traumatic as anal rape for example. If you're ever the victim of both of these crimes, you'll come away more traumatized by the rape. Absorbing reality isn't your strong suit.
@kelaltieri FBB assessed you correctly; you are truly a dumb shit! Sure this lady endured a despicable act, but FBB is correct, it was not incest.
My father should have been jailed or imprisoned for the "psychotic" beatings that he gave me. Some fathers really SUCK! But life goes on & I'm greatful to be alive; guess that I'm a survior too, but I'm not going to embellish my suffering by using incorrect words like Teza did.
@JCboerlum you are very welcome, there is always light in the dark when you are open to healing your soul. May you find peace, unconditional love and joy in your togetherness. Blessings! Teza
god loves you. aslong as the sky is blue, the sun is shining n your face, and you breathe the air. You shall always be full of love. dont let the ignorance from others taint your soul. Your are beautiful
wait all he did was tell you to take off your shirt and looked at you....no ofence but so what it is not like he was having sex with you or even touching you
You are a very beautiful woman and strong to do something like this. And i hope that children will see this and realize that they are not alone. We have a voice.. We deserve the right to speak out but most of all we deserve to heal. Together,, God Bless You..
thank you and this is needed to help ohers realized that we are overcomers not victims of circumstances. We can elevate whatever happend in our journeys, when we start seeing ourselves as an observer of our own consciousness. We are all masters of our own destiny. Blessings to you!
There is no worse crime than taking advantage of the innocence of a child. It takes the ultimate of strength to forgive. Thank you for having the courage to share your story. It was very touching and heart felt. I have to say that I find you to be truly amazing. You are a beautiful inspiring spirit. May you find everlasting peace from that terrible event. May others be inspired by your strength to find the same. Ingat ka! :)
Incest Survivors Anonymous, The Community Centre, top floor, 78 Hampstead High Street , London, every Thursday 8.30, its a space for men and woman dealing with this stuff. Just walk in.
You are inspiring. You have shared the painful process of healing your soul & shown that you are beautiful both inside and out. God's Love is within you and with It all will be set right again. Have you ever heard of Divine Love? You are a living example of Its magnificent power. You have met deep pain with Love and Love has triumphed. Others prolong their pain by clinging to anger so they never heal. Not you. May God's Love continue to fill your heart and shine forth through your lovely soul.
thank you for your beautiful self, I believe forgiveness is one of my lessons in life and I am about service to humanity. Out of pain comes truth and unconditional love. Blessings!
dear Teza, a innocent child with tears revealing the wound ...a letter sent to papa
the prayer of healing for daughter // father you are so beautiful a woman who has known sorrow with a gentle smile bright with a grace of forgiveness healing found with warmth. afew shared tears Paul
thank you so much for your taouching words, this why I continue to have this wound exposed to help others in their sufferrings and be able to shed a light to their souls that there is always hope in your darkest nights..I honor your presence in my heart!
thank you for your warmth and loving comment, I believe my story is here to help others who are going through the same trauma. There is always light in times of darkness. All the best for you and your loved ones! blessings!
Linda thank you for your support! we are all one pure beautiful spirit and yes OVERCOMERS! not victims, let go of the VICTIM MENTALITY...blessings to you, Teza
thank you Matt for your support I don't even know you but I feel I've known you for a long time.You have such a loving kind soul! This is quite difficult for me to do but I'm just following my calling to be a voice for others to give them courage in times like this. lots of love and light to you Matt! Teza
Wow u should hear all my dad has done to me
Daddystoy11 3 months ago
Azn preeple have many pride..if her mom had done the same thing she wouldnt be so traumatized...shes overreacting..
1ascendhigher1 3 months ago
I bet he could not esist- because you are soooo cute@!
Lindawatcher 4 months ago
How could a father do that to his old child? He has no shame or conscience. He should be burn in Hell.
vaneztax 5 months ago
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there is nothing wrong with incest as long as it is concensual
xzaxx 9 months ago
Sure, your father was a perv; but how dare you put yourself in the same victim category of children that were actually PENETRATED!
You're just looking for underserved sympathy, so that you can look heroic; conquering a perverted father. You weren't raped or sodomized; quit calling your father's action INCEST. You diminish actual victims of incest, by claiming that you're the victim of incest; YOU'RE NOT!
FightBadBehavior 9 months ago 6
@FightBadBehavior are you kidding me? Incest is incest - whether she was touched or penetrated - it doesn't make it any LESS traumatizing. Who are you to judge an experience that YOU didn't have? "Incest can range from inappropriate touching or fondling to intercourse."
kelaltieri 1 week ago
@kelaltieri Okay, dumb shit, time for you to do a little research on the definition of incest. You'll find that it is defined as SEXUAL INTERCOURSE between persons forbidden by law to marry.
As I stated to Teza, her father was indeed a perv, but they didn't have intercourse, so she is not the victim of incest. If Teza's story is true, her father is guilty of molestation & he should have been charged accordingly. Nevertheless, no incest occurred.
FightBadBehavior 1 week ago 4
Dumb shit Kelaltieri asked, "Who are you to judge an experience that YOU didn't have?" Pay attention dumb ass, not judging an experience; Judging her inapproriate use of a word. NEWS FLASH! Words mean things! Have the balls to point out egregious errors.
And don't tell me that breasts being fondled is just as traumatic as anal rape for example. If you're ever the victim of both of these crimes, you'll come away more traumatized by the rape. Absorbing reality isn't your strong suit.
FightBadBehavior 1 week ago 2
@kelaltieri FBB assessed you correctly; you are truly a dumb shit! Sure this lady endured a despicable act, but FBB is correct, it was not incest.
My father should have been jailed or imprisoned for the "psychotic" beatings that he gave me. Some fathers really SUCK! But life goes on & I'm greatful to be alive; guess that I'm a survior too, but I'm not going to embellish my suffering by using incorrect words like Teza did.
constitutionalist79 6 days ago
@kelaltieri I must agree; your are indeed a "dumb shit", as pointed out by FBB & con79.
USA1960 19 hours ago
Thank you for your strength and honesty to help others who need to know that they are not alon.
katdee76 1 year ago
i would let you molest me anytime you want you are cute
armagedon026 1 year ago
Thank you! You gave me hope for me and my girlfriend, that are going through some hard times right now. I'm triaging hard to make her self, as I do.
JCboerlum 1 year ago
@JCboerlum you are very welcome, there is always light in the dark when you are open to healing your soul. May you find peace, unconditional love and joy in your togetherness. Blessings! Teza
tezamysticangel 1 year ago
god loves you. aslong as the sky is blue, the sun is shining n your face, and you breathe the air. You shall always be full of love. dont let the ignorance from others taint your soul. Your are beautiful
grandravine123456 1 year ago
wait all he did was tell you to take off your shirt and looked at you....no ofence but so what it is not like he was having sex with you or even touching you
jessicaroy19 1 year ago
Beautiful, beautiful letter. You are a wonderful survivor! Much aloha to you and your new future full of trust and love. You deserve it!
FilmActorsStudioHI 1 year ago
@FilmActorsStudioHI thank you for your support! and lots of love and light to you!! Teza
tezamysticangel 1 year ago
You are a very beautiful woman and strong to do something like this. And i hope that children will see this and realize that they are not alone. We have a voice.. We deserve the right to speak out but most of all we deserve to heal. Together,, God Bless You..
I WAS
and I am not a victim but a survivor..
CTHTaco 1 year ago 2
thank you and this is needed to help ohers realized that we are overcomers not victims of circumstances. We can elevate whatever happend in our journeys, when we start seeing ourselves as an observer of our own consciousness. We are all masters of our own destiny. Blessings to you!
tezamysticangel 1 year ago
you have so much sadness in your eyes......i hope you heal.
snv2211 2 years ago
thank you and yes I found my inner peace..when this was made I was feeling a lot of pain and I share this to the world to help others heal!!
blessings,
Teza
tezamysticangel 2 years ago
There is no worse crime than taking advantage of the innocence of a child. It takes the ultimate of strength to forgive. Thank you for having the courage to share your story. It was very touching and heart felt. I have to say that I find you to be truly amazing. You are a beautiful inspiring spirit. May you find everlasting peace from that terrible event. May others be inspired by your strength to find the same. Ingat ka! :)
NoWattz 2 years ago
thank you and that is my purpose to give hope and strength to the victims of this abuse! take care!
tezamysticangel 2 years ago
thank you for telling your story
tinypuppies3 2 years ago
Incest Survivors Anonymous, The Community Centre, top floor, 78 Hampstead High Street , London, every Thursday 8.30, its a space for men and woman dealing with this stuff. Just walk in.
BombMaking4Beginners 2 years ago
Thank you for sharing your heart and pain. I think you are doing a wonderful thing by letting the world know and bringing awareness.
nema2511 2 years ago
you're welcome! this was made from the bottom of my heart and hoping to give light and love to all that are suffering in SILENCE!
blessings,
Teza
tezamysticangel 2 years ago
God riches blessing to you., and keep looking to Jesus, and the cross.
BrothersamDavis 2 years ago
You are inspiring. You have shared the painful process of healing your soul & shown that you are beautiful both inside and out. God's Love is within you and with It all will be set right again. Have you ever heard of Divine Love? You are a living example of Its magnificent power. You have met deep pain with Love and Love has triumphed. Others prolong their pain by clinging to anger so they never heal. Not you. May God's Love continue to fill your heart and shine forth through your lovely soul.
clarasman 2 years ago 2
thank you for your beautiful self, I believe forgiveness is one of my lessons in life and I am about service to humanity. Out of pain comes truth and unconditional love. Blessings!
tezamysticangel 2 years ago
Un très beau geste, tu L'as pardonné pendant qu'il est encore vivant ,c'est un bel un exemple pour nous tous,bon courage et que Dieu te benisse!
pepy5000 2 years ago
Brave lady. I salute you.
lukeabaya 2 years ago
dear Teza, a innocent child with tears revealing the wound ...a letter sent to papa
the prayer of healing for daughter // father you are so beautiful a woman who has known sorrow with a gentle smile bright with a grace of forgiveness healing found with warmth. afew shared tears Paul
AdelightfulEcho 3 years ago
thank you so much for your taouching words, this why I continue to have this wound exposed to help others in their sufferrings and be able to shed a light to their souls that there is always hope in your darkest nights..I honor your presence in my heart!
tezamysticangel 3 years ago
Thank you for your prayer. Keep tellig your story - God is using you to heal others. You are a beautiful person - God Bless you.
iez2007 3 years ago
thank you for your warmth and loving comment, I believe my story is here to help others who are going through the same trauma. There is always light in times of darkness. All the best for you and your loved ones! blessings!
tezamysticangel 3 years ago
You are a brave and beautiful woman. Thank you for this video.
That was a beautiful prayer.
*Bright Blessings*
Linda
(fellow incest over-comer)
I don't like the words "victim" or "survivor"--I don't want to barely survive--I want to Thrive!
ladyopinx 3 years ago
Linda thank you for your support! we are all one pure beautiful spirit and yes OVERCOMERS! not victims, let go of the VICTIM MENTALITY...blessings to you, Teza
tezamysticangel 3 years ago
thank you Matt for your support I don't even know you but I feel I've known you for a long time.You have such a loving kind soul! This is quite difficult for me to do but I'm just following my calling to be a voice for others to give them courage in times like this. lots of love and light to you Matt! Teza
tezamysticangel 3 years ago
I'm so proud of you.
You've shown that you can be in the same 'space' as those overwhelming feelings by talking about them openly here.
There's such a strong desire to repress, suppress and deny. The feelings are "dirty" and "bad" and we just want to forget them and bury them.
But I'm so proud of you for recognizing them in counseling, to your dad and most importantly to yourself.
I hope it inspires others to do the same. As I know that's your intention here. Myself 2
Come here gimme ahug
matt0218 3 years ago