lol the brutha is clowin the lac of self control on the sex is because a lack of it,sexAND control,once u getting it well u can control the desire.I see why his woman is yelling at him because he clowin and she realize his attitude and in her mind she may consider him a child who has no control and when u yell at a kid they correct for the moment. And I think that is the response most sista take to uy with kid minds..buta real women knows how to address a real man and he response the same way..
Hmmm...maybe I'm missing something hear. But how is it that this man can take the time to complain about black women yelling at him. I feel sorry for his wife. He's committing adultery every chance he gets. Yet, she puts up with him screwing (STD risk)other women and to show his appreciation, he create a video complaining about OTHER black women yelling at him. Then he tries to lay the prob with his dick issues on every black man. Every black man is not a hoe. Too bad for your wife. Get a life.
I personally believe that most black women need therapy. The majority of them have too many emotional and psychological issues to work out before they should enter ANY relationship.
black women are insecure...we're so afraid of losing our men, and how the hell can we not be with the statistics against us than with us. Light-skinned this, Asian that, white women this...it's like we're not appreciated. It's like we're not good enough. So when we fear we're gonna lose you, we panic and express ourselves that way...we love you! We love our black men, but the rarely love us back in return...how can we not be angry?
..Plus theres a reason y people act the way they do.Mayb there's sum deep anger inside of us that we jus so happen to release it on the main people we see every day(our man/da kidz).Now ladiez, when will we ever change our attitudes?And we wonder y we cant find or have or keep a good "black man."They dont like drama n bullshit!Hell they have enuff goin on n their lives..(its hard out here for a pimp lol dat song popped n my head)Learn how to luv n luv is God n God is luv n luv is in OURSELVES!
trinabhear: wow...i wished you would have posted this comment a while back when this vid originally came out. don't think anybody got it. but some did...lol. that's all i was trying to say.
Your wife should consider herself blessed to have a man like u.And she has a right to bitch at u when eva she wants (she do own ur ass now lol) Plus u r so muthafuckin sexy.But us black women n general are insecure,"unstabled creatures" flat out.We're emotional and paranoid as fuck and always think sum1's out to get us or our man.Moodswings n bad attitudes are part of every black woman's character flat out.......
i understand what you are saying; i only speak to what is happening in my world. it may not be political correct but it is correct to me hey its my world. some women is off the hook. i am firm believer that men will only shut down with all that yelling and it will take a week to hear you when it should only take a day. but hey you know yall be pressing that nerve though lol. i hate yelling personally i do not like to argue its just not my style what can you say i am wired differently
All black women do not yell at their men. Stop catagorizing your people brotha. You are so saturated I can understand why you would feel this way. However, the African American community is not in its rightful place because SOME black men have not stepped up to the plate. When our black men get themselves together we will gladely follow. But a strong black woman is not going to follow a boy. Until the time comes we will continue to raise your children and carry this community.
qnbeey: yeah, black women say they'll continue to carry this community and take full credit for it, well look at the state of it today...'the black community'. but i guess now the blame goes on the man, right? 'we'll continue to carry it', but the community is messed up...'well, we need black men to lead us'. make up your mind. the black community is fucked because women want to lead but not take responsibility when they lead and it's messed up. let the men lead, you get more with honey always..
woman think with both the left and right temple lobe.
the right lobe is for emotions & the left is for intellectualism's. the emotional side of the womans lobe are much stronger than the left. and there for causing woman to over power there own intellectualism's coming from the left lobe. meaning most woman cannot make split decisions. because they cant easily separate there right lobe emotions from over powering there left lobe intellectualism's this may be why most woman argue more than reason
men also have a left logic and a right emotional lobe but when we use one at a time meaning when we r emotional the left side is blocked and vise verse. this might meaning most men can put our emotional differences to side and think using only our left logical expression and thought this might explain why men r always trying Analise situations and become easily agitated when woman apear as if they r ignoring our views i say apear because she is ignoring our logic by nature and not by ignorance
whats important is that both men and woman need to first understand why we r thinking differently and then remember the differences and work together to manipulate our thinking patterns so that they work for us and not against us
I'm black, I'm not running to white women. And neither are any of the brothas my age are. So this must be some kind of publicity stunt being triggered by biracial people. Because it's funny I've never heard of this interracial dating being a big problem until I signed up for youtube. Isn't that something? The media = full of shit.
I dread being "jumped on" too, as you say at the end of your video, but you brought up an important topic. Many of us have wondered about the same thing, male & female, so I thought I should comment in spite of potential backlash.
I was taught never to "yell" even when they might have "deserved it," so is this a cultural thing? What?
Anger and hostility doesn't serve anyone very well, men or women. I would hope that people would be able to express love, consideration & kindness at some point.
I've been yelled at & have experienced extremely negative attitudes with the same people you are describing, and I'm not a black man!
I've heard "I'm gone kill that white bitch!" just by entering the room; especially if some men's eyes turn that way, no matter how I dress down. One look & "it's on." It's awful.
I see some women yelling at their children & understand why men might "date outside their race." Racism, threats & hostility is ridiculous & unnecessary. I hope things change soon.
Not all black women yell and have attitudes.There are alot of other types of women who have attitudes and yell. And it takes two people to bring a relationship to the place where you cant communicate in a healthy way.Just because the black women you deal with act like that dosent mean we all do.
texasdollar: you think i don't know your last statement. this video was just for fun, but construed in the wrong way...that's it. i love my black women.
lol... I said that, and I didn't realize you were married for real. So i can't really say..ahem. *two steps to the left...to the left.. to the left.. to the left....to the leffftttt* lol jp
well, i think all men like it at certain points. sometimes you just wish you could turn it off for a little while...lol. but not in da hood baby! lol....:)
The simple answer to ur question is tat we just want to b heard! simplified reason tat support this: -u fight all day -job discriminates -children demand time -ur community doesn't support u -ur men disrespect/exploit u -people don't care, nor help u -ur man looks at other women (who aren't u cuz they not black) -u don't fit tha description of beauty -and u have 2 strikes against u (1,black,2, women) hell if you went through what a black woman went through you'd go crazy!
what do you mean for a change? i've never made a video about black women....i have over 300 vids and this was one video asking a simple question. funny. all of ya'll can chastise me, but laugh at every single thing tyler perry puts out. madea is not the representative of black women, but millions of black women love to see a gun-toting black woman cuss men out and shoot at men in every single way. i don't know if you watch her, but every single black woman i know does...and i know a lot.
We tell blk men time and time again you have to get a grip of yourselves we love you so much we'll put up with your lust problems, no child support problems, the jail time, the unemployment line evry 3 months. You have to man up and stop playing games...WE ARE YELLING FOR A REASON...A MAJOR REASON...CAN YOU HEAR ME LOUD AND CLEAR? READ THE WORDS THAT I TYPE...GET IT TOGETHER!! YOU HAVE NO TIME TO WASTE. YOU ARE SELF DESTRUCTION. Wow that felt good, Now do you understand? We love you!
I've never heard a white man say blk women yell too much whenever their in a relationship with a blk woman. For one thing the white man will not give her a chance to yell because he's so busy adoring her and treating her like a queen there's nothing he's lacking or slacking. basically there is no frustration coming from her partner. So blk man you have to ask yourself is there anything your doing to your woman that is making her yell at you so much. You can't be all that innocent.
No I'm not innocent that's why I've developed into a beautiful blk woman that has been married for 14yrs. I decided to get a grip of who I am, I decided to make right choices. And I don't do anything more but show love and patience to my spouse. I'm not talking shit I just explained what most blk men put on open display for everyone to see that's all.
good for you too, It's a good thing in your case because if it's impossible for you to deal with blk women then I think your doing the right thing. Always do what your comfortable with when your in relationships who ever treats you the way you want to be treated that's what matters most.
brinny: you're generalizing just like you accuse me of. i tried my best to say 'some' or 'most' black women. man, ya'll take stuff too serious on here. before you get so pissed at me, go tell terry mcmillan and every other black woman to stop writing books about black men. terry's rich as hell for degrading black men in every way possible. i don't get that. as soon as the table is turned ya'll pissed as hell...that's why i ask the questions. a simple video has turned into a shitstorm...sad.
i mean yes black women have work to do why you have to talk about why black women do this and that and you will never have one on your arm again and try and understand her there alot it all go back to us being slaves the black women talking care of everything while the black men is beatin rape by some white women while the white men show the black women that this black men will not be there for you so dont look to him for nothing whats different today tell me?
talking about why black women do this and that there going to feel attack you have white women so you have already give up on black women to what a black women can see black women have been the strenght of the black men go back and look at the blackmovement black women have give birth to black men who have not been there for them who have give up on there own birth kids
hello i been watchin your video for sometime for i mean your funny its nice to watch you but you dont get the fact that when your talking about no disrespect at all for real your kids are beautiful but when you have a white women on your arm
This is what it is. Women have dealt with alot of BOYS playing MEN. and when they get a real MAN they end up treating them like BOYS. First, I think women need to realize that all Men are different and you need to let a man be a man. Women cry about respect and how they need to feel that they are respected, well it's a two way street.
DeJuanP. I think you have a few screws loose and I think your Mom paid your wife to marry you!
Seriously. You are funny!!! And you don't have to make excuses for being funny. You can do 99 things right, then on the 1 wrong, you are portrayed as bad. That aint right, but that is life.
If people don't see the love and tenderness that is so vehemently displayed in your videos then they need to make a video to explain themselves. Do you DP! and please, keep making me laugh!
It's responses like this dat black men are so tense. In regards to this video, this is not a question for black men in general. This is a question for this guy. He said he's lustful, he already admitted 2 it. He should be questionin himself. I would yell at him! He doesn't seem respectful of women in general. It's not good 2 mak comical relief on a situation most tak seriously. D situation itself, I support bl women on breakn d stereotype. But, do it d right way. Don't nsult othrs 2 maka point.
saenzym: thanks for your reply, but i may be a little misunderstood...put it this way. i may feel a certain way from looking at someone. i'm a man. all men find beautiful women attractive. but i am never, in any way tempted to cheat on my wife. i've had ample times i could have done it, but it never crossed my mind...but the person's above comments were really unintelligent and don't even warrant a response. everyone is entitled to their own opinion...
WOW.... Ok I'm a bit DISCUSSED by your insensitive comments. Maybe I'm just not use to hearing one speak so BOLD,BLUNT,DISRESPECTFUL and VULGAR. And on top of that MARRIED.
Hmmm....(shakes head) If I ever heard my husband speak and act the way you do.
the video was taken out of context. people on here know i joke around. you hear this everyday on tv and movies you love, so don't act like i'm the first person that has ever joked. how many books bashing black men can you find in the store or movie(waiting to exhale).
Yea, disgusted. I kinda got upset and irritated and was thinking faster than I could type. Sorry if I got a little extreme on my comment. I just get tired of men making such horrible comments about black women. I guess its the feelings that alot of black men feel when they are labeled as dogs.
But you came from a black women, and i believe are married to one. Black women have to yell because they deal with ignorance all the time. From slavery to present were always on the bottom of the todom pole, and now some of our men dont respect us. Just remeber that black women have to be strong and heard or they wont be taken seriously at times. if you guys would just pay attention that wouldnt have to happen.
*Brings out Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon on Dejuan...Hooooooyah!*
~Just kidding~
I yelled at my past boyfriends for the same reason I yell at my current boyfriend, it's because they were in the wrong. If they were doing right I wouldn't have to yell now would I? :oP
I also think there is a time and place for everything. If we're at Applebee's or something, I wouldn't just start yelling at my boyfriend, I would wait until we're in the privacy of our own home.
I think we yell at ya'll because we do what other women think. If a girl of another race thinks you're cheating, they are going to think about asking you about it, but we go ahead and ask and sometimes we try to find out if you're cheating.
Another reason we yell at ya'll is because ya'll do stuff that makes us mad and we have to let you know right then or ya'll would keep doing it like it is not a problem. That is my opinion.
LAJCain: it was for all women who just 'yell'...i asked specifically black women because i'm around them all the time. i've been yelled at and sometimes the yelling is uncalled for. you know how us men are. i'm pretty much living what you're saying in this comment. but i'm taking care of my son. i worked for five years and never came home fussing...i was just happy to be home. but this video has been taken out of context. it was a lighthearted vid...but the timing was off..
ok, i tried to post my response in 2 comments, but it ain't working, if it doesn't make sense and there seemed like a point u really wanted to make sense...just be like wtf were you saying...and i'll try again
I guess the reason I didnt usually rip is cuz I cut ya loose&move on.Guys b like,"I aint heard from u n a min."I b like"Theres a reason."But if yall would act right,many of these "yellings" wouldn't take place.If men would try 2 b as considerate as many women r,then the entire argument thing wouldnt exist.Yall just do trifling stuff.But dejuanp..u aint got no sense,lol..i was laughing through the entire video..even with the serious topic.
I can't say it's all the same with white women of course, but the relationships have their troubles too. One thing that I've noticed is that while it may not be so up-in-your-face, white women just tend to be more manipulative, comparatively. Sometimes, just having it straight is refreshing. Instead of "what's wrong?" "Nothing" over and over... (Knowing there's something wrong.)
The grass isn't always greener, it's just different grass. =)
...that was definitey different Dejuan LMAO! I was scared; I have to be honest.
But anyway, if y'all men wouldn't act like such assholes then we wouldn't need to raise our voices! I swear, men are just... argh! Like having a penis just makes you into an asshole...=P
loud women will always be loud whether white or black young or old. As long as that works for them that is what they will do. Yelling is what children do when they cant express themselves. Sometimes when I am upset or sad I will write a song and sing it to my husband, I get his attention and we have dialogue. There are many ways to express yourself, rolling your neck and cursing and screaming is not always the answer, whatever race u are. And if u have to yell u may need a new nan
I have been married for 13 years we have 3 children and I still love a hard penis every night. Once I learned how to allow my man to be the man there was no need to yell. When we disagree we work it out we speak calmly. We close the door and soon we are making love. I support him and he supports me. It makes me feel great to know that on this long roller coaster ride called life I enjoy have a black man to go threw the loops with me, allow me to scream along the way. submsve & suprtve R
Quick comment, many men think black women have this attitude and black women yell too much. As for myself I use to yell at my man, and because I don't yell anymore I speak with a clam voice, because I am not going to stress my self out over BULL SHIT. He still thinks that I have an attitude towards him, because he is use to yelling. I tell him just because I don't say anything doesn't mean I have a problem, and when I do say something to you I don't have to yell.
We all know that when you're yelled at you tend to tune out whomever is doing the yelling. Besides when you do yell at someone their response is going to be in the negative. So the best way to get your point across is by relaying it in calm manner. Damn shame we've been so conditioned to accept yelling as the norm, i.e. parents, grandparents and other adults yelling at us while growing up.
for every action there is a reaction...you can't just come out like there is no reason for black women to have an attitude???? one reason for attitude could be the lack of consideration for our feelins/emotions...which men know women run off of, and us against us...and don't front like y'all don't...
How ignorant can you be to generalize all black women in the same category?? Especially out of all the people who have something negative to say... A BLACK MAN is trying to speak on something? haha are YOU KIDDING ME? DO you know the statistics of Black men before you open your mouth and talk? To me it's insecurity with yourselves and you look for something to talk about to make yourselves feel better.
women yell when they feel they are not being heard. It takes YEARS to build up to a yeal though. It starts out with talking louder and louder. Then one day you ARE SCREAMING AND YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHY. I went to counseling after my first marriage and that was what I was told. Maybe that will shed some light on the subject for you.
jala: thanks. this is the only type of comment i was looking for. instead, a crapstorm started...lol. but read my homie response up top. chuloonthe6....he's hilarious!
I love it. It is sick and so true. We have many faces. When I am quiet,one of two things you can happen. You are going to get full force.Or like my husband, you cease to exist. lol.
Iite sorry, Dejuan...but I've gotta let you go. I've been watching your videos for a couple weeks now and I thought you were HILARIOUS, down-to-earth and just an over-all good person. But I'm jus getting kind of fed up with he way you talk about women, especially on that sexual level..alwayz on the booty and them brazillian chicks etc. I aint watched the whole video..I just had to stop sorry.
Well I do have a concern though, did it ever occur 2 anyone that black men have their flaws too? I mean seriously, I laid down last night thinking about this topic & I'm like black men do some really irritating shit that sometimes provoke black women 2b upset all the time, i mean really, black men tend 2b the laziest i have ever seen. I mean not all of them of course but some black men don't know how to treat or talk 2 a woman 2 make her feel wanted. Black men are usually 2 damn aggressive
I don't think anyone should be shouting at anyone in relationships, its just disrespectful and if you're gonna spend your life with someone you cant disrespect them like that and expect it to work. People need to learn to take a deep breath, walk away, calm down and then come back to discuss the problem, I realise that's not necessarily an easy thing to do......sometimes you just wanna kill the people you love. ♥
emily: thanks for understanding. all i 'really' wanted were some answers. yeah, i specifically stated black women, but it seems that's who i'll be around for the rest of my life so why now illustrate a few instances and ask them why they act a certain way with me.
There are lots of women and men regardless of race who feel its acceptable to yell at their other half like some old fish wife. Personally for me I don't yell at people im in a relationship with and I wont be shouted at either......like I said its just disrespectful.
People disrespect you when you allow them to. If people are shouting at you its because you haven't put your foot down and explained why it isn't acceptable, the fact is they can get away with it so they do it. Its like someone who continually hits their partner, why would they stop when all their partner does is complain a lil but lets them carry on regardless.
I've had men shout at me once and then realise pretty quickly that it wont be happening again, there are consequences for people who feel they can disrespect me. Maybe you need to come up with some consequences of your own babe.
emily: this vid was a good idea for a comedy. there was truth in it, but i had fun making it. i was actually laughing at myself when i did the predator impression. how can someone get bashing from that..? lol. i just laugh back. some women on here that take this vid too seriously need to look at themselves and wonder why it matters that much. i see thousands of racist comments and videos on here. how many times have you seen me respond to them. why not? because i know who i am...
i think people are getting a little more upset at this vid than they should...
I think if it was posted months earlier or later it wouldnt have been such an 'impact'..but with all of the other ones sprouting..it kind of puts the icing on the cake.
Nah, I aint upset in the slightest. There are a few people who are separate in my eyes from everyone else so I don't make judgements about them regardless........Mr Ps one of um, I know where he's coming from, gotta love him. You also come under that category and Ms Jia for that matter.
meant alot of the comments. aww i love u girl u always have something positive to say...and when are u gonna do another video of ur baby or u talking dammit?!!
Please girl, you know procrastination is my second job, ive got loads of half finished ones.
I've stopped reading most of the comments, I read the ones from people I know but that's about it. You cant let fools you don't even know get on your nerves first thing on a Saturday morning....geez....I just woke up, need me some relaxation time. ;)
momo: well, i'm glad you've caught it now. i saw your other vid. didn't seem like you shared this view. don't worry another vid'll be coming up to address certain types of women. because a lot of em on here don't know who they are. if anyone is offended by 'my' video, the self esteem is really down there. i see racist vids on here all the time, get comments too. doesn't effect me one bit. i know who this dude is. at the end of the day, i lie with my beautiful wife and son. all i care about!
I was just reading some of the comments you're getting babe......they're all up in yo ass like its a shelter from the rain or summat...lol.
Don't fret freckles, you can come round my gaff and hide in the airing cupboard when all these birds track you down and start tryna batter you.....I still love ya. ; )
like i said dejuan it wasn't your video that really set it off for me...it was just the timing..im not attacking you and u know i love you and your videos..it was a response to what Jia was saying..and how i felt about what was being said...i wish i would have never made the video now because i think your taking it the wrong way from me...grrrr ill just talk to u later too much to type
OMG, you summed it up PERFECTLY (initial comment). I wish you were a vlogger. LOL :oP
It's very hard to walk away, I repeat VERY, but you are 100% correct. If we are adults we need to learn how to control our emotions. I'm working on that, but when you're burning mad, it's easier said than done. ♥
You just have to remember that after you've finished being pissed off and over indulging your temper you're still going to be married to the person you've just belittled and disrespected, knowing that how can anyone deem it acceptable to behave like that.
That vow of love, honour and respect isn't there just for the priest to have a job. If a person honours their vows then their relationship will last and be a positive experience. If they cant honour them then maybe its not the right time to get married.;)
Id also add that the whole boyfriend/girlfriend stage is just the part where you're building the foundations of a relationship. So if that person isn't your husband or wife yet and you're still shouting at them and feeling it isn't necessary to show them respect then why waste your time being in a relationships with them, its never gonna work long term.
Curvylicious: Very good points. Something to think about. Just know the times I've yelled (it's few and far between these days) at him, were deserved, but I get your point, it's better to have an ADULT conversation, than yell like a little kid. We'll make it. Might hear wedding bells soon...MAYBE :oP
Lol!! This was hilarious!! And I'm gonna work on the arguing thing. My mom yells alot and so she passed it down to me. Yelling is an attempt to gain control of an already out of control argument...it rarely works and its not the best way to go about getting control of it anyway. We also yell to intimidate, but as women why should we try to intimidate men...I kinda wanna do a video response now...maybe I will. And yeah, your sound effects were nice! Lol.
dejaun!!!!!!! you always gettin yelled at cause you always in trouble!!!! why is you always in trouble,..why you got to be so bad!!!!!!thatss why u get yelled at!!!!!!rais'in my blood pressure,.....
seaki: you're crazy as hell. what you worried about blood pressure for..? you younger than me. how's everything going my man? yeah, i stay in trouble.
IMMA SAY THIS RIGHT NOW!!!! MY VIDEO WAS NOT REALLY DIRECTED AT DEJAUN: just at brothers that need to correct themselves cause us people like me and sistaz are tired of dudes actin silly,..disrespecting us,...then expect for us to suck it up,.and not say nothing,..we got feelings too. Im good playa,..workin on a design project right now
yeah, right? it hurts us when we're getting yelled at. why we can't talk about it and find an answer. obviously somebody's not dishing the answer out. just like men don't reveal certain things ever, women do the same. we'll never really know why 'yellin' is the first resort for 'some' women, not just black ones. but c'est la vie right?
to everyone who reads this watch all 4 of gurltalktvs vids on why we ya know cuz my man temple SPEAKS THE TRUTH i agree with every word that came out his mouth he be preachin
I know I'm stating the obvious, but I believe when anyone (male or female) yells it is usually out of frustration or anger. I don't think it has anything to do with color...just your temperament. You probably don't understand why the women in your life were always yelling because you didn't consider whatever they were yelling about as something WORTH yelling about. If that makes sense...lol!
Kittysplit: gotta love that name to start off. well, why some people yell is one thing, but what about the ones who yell for no reason. you're sitting and your chillin', two words are said and 'bam'...argument time! definitely not feeling that.
I'm sorry but this video is not entertaining or remotely educational. What is the point? Are you trying to compete with Temple? His points are well thoughtout and his examples make sense. This video is worthless. I'd like the last 8 minutes of my life back... NO I didn't watch the whole thing. I got a headache half way through and just couldn't make it... *SMDH*
belle: no, i wasn't trying to compete with anyone. he made some points in pt 4 that i related to. i make my own vids. been doing it longer than anybody you see on here...anybody. no need to call my vid 'worthless'. but that's your opinion. sorry about the headache. excedrin usually does the trick. don't worry you can have the minutes back. i'm pretty sure you'll waste them on more negative words...holla at da kids...lol.
Why shouldn't I call your video worthless? That is exactly how I feel about it. I didn't call YOU worthless. If I did that would be something to object to. As far as my "negetive words" I'll just tell you now that ONE day I may have something positive to say about your videos. Give me some time. I'm sure it will happen soon. Perhaps someday you will also have some positive words for the black women you claim to love. One can only hope... Until then I bid you adieu.
belle: well, my vid may be that way to you, but some people aren't as sensitive. it was a simple question put in comedic form. you write a whole lot harder than you sound. you don't have to wait til ONE day to write anything. believe me i'll live. i've been on here for two years doing my thing. you've come along and you'll pass like everyone else has. i've seen it all on here. you honestly think that this would be the last video on this subject? oh, well. adieu back to ya my love.
Maybe deep down you like that type of women. I don't consider myself a confrontational type. If I am that pissed where I stress myself out chewing him out daily I may as well be by myself. I have enough stress alone.
lol yea i use to be like that but i had to check myself and now im not a yeller...neva did yell when he got off work i jus gave massages cuz i kno how it is but do ur thing ~jessica~
jessica: thanks for your comment. some women yell, some don't. this video was specifically for the ones that do....text yellling is cooler to me. i don't mind it at all. but my eardrums are just tired...lol.
I think that black men on youtube are going through a "menstration" cycle but instead of bleeding they are spewing venom on black women with all of these harsh words that they are labeling as "wisdom" for us or "givin' us the game" or "educating us on how to keep a black man"
If you cant say what you love about us, then why do you feel it's ok to say what you hate, so much?
Do we do ANYTHING right in ya'lls site besides what's done in the bedroom?
honeygyrl: not the menstration cycle joke...well, on that note...doens't feel too good huh? we've been getting ya'lls menstration cycle since the beginning of time...lol. j/k. but in this vid my love, i was simply asking a question. nothing more. my comedic twist was to let the black ladies know that i really, truly wanted an answer. i ain't coming down on no one. just because it coincided with somebody else's vid has nothing to do with me. yeah, it's fucked up to talk about on here...but
why not? the only reason so many black women are upset is because this is a popular site. who gives a fuck if people are on revver or livevideo. this is just the place to be(at the moment). i wasn't trying to come down on my sistas cause believe me, i'm gon praise you. but you have to understand that vloggers speak mainly or most of the time directly when the situation happens. you don't know what i was going through at the time, but i was still calm enough to put it in a nice way.
it can be offensive to some but i was specifically talking to the sistas that were the ones doing the yelling. no one else. i said this is for the sistas that know deep down inside that they yell a big too much...nothing more. don't worry i'll be back.
lol the brutha is clowin the lac of self control on the sex is because a lack of it,sexAND control,once u getting it well u can control the desire.I see why his woman is yelling at him because he clowin and she realize his attitude and in her mind she may consider him a child who has no control and when u yell at a kid they correct for the moment. And I think that is the response most sista take to uy with kid minds..buta real women knows how to address a real man and he response the same way..
KEVINBMORE 3 years ago
Hmmm...maybe I'm missing something hear. But how is it that this man can take the time to complain about black women yelling at him. I feel sorry for his wife. He's committing adultery every chance he gets. Yet, she puts up with him screwing (STD risk)other women and to show his appreciation, he create a video complaining about OTHER black women yelling at him. Then he tries to lay the prob with his dick issues on every black man. Every black man is not a hoe. Too bad for your wife. Get a life.
joyceepoo56 3 years ago
I personally believe that most black women need therapy. The majority of them have too many emotional and psychological issues to work out before they should enter ANY relationship.
DA8653 3 years ago
black women are insecure...we're so afraid of losing our men, and how the hell can we not be with the statistics against us than with us. Light-skinned this, Asian that, white women this...it's like we're not appreciated. It's like we're not good enough. So when we fear we're gonna lose you, we panic and express ourselves that way...we love you! We love our black men, but the rarely love us back in return...how can we not be angry?
onediva69 3 years ago
..Plus theres a reason y people act the way they do.Mayb there's sum deep anger inside of us that we jus so happen to release it on the main people we see every day(our man/da kidz).Now ladiez, when will we ever change our attitudes?And we wonder y we cant find or have or keep a good "black man."They dont like drama n bullshit!Hell they have enuff goin on n their lives..(its hard out here for a pimp lol dat song popped n my head)Learn how to luv n luv is God n God is luv n luv is in OURSELVES!
TrinaBhearD 3 years ago
trinabhear: wow...i wished you would have posted this comment a while back when this vid originally came out. don't think anybody got it. but some did...lol. that's all i was trying to say.
dejuanp 3 years ago
Your wife should consider herself blessed to have a man like u.And she has a right to bitch at u when eva she wants (she do own ur ass now lol) Plus u r so muthafuckin sexy.But us black women n general are insecure,"unstabled creatures" flat out.We're emotional and paranoid as fuck and always think sum1's out to get us or our man.Moodswings n bad attitudes are part of every black woman's character flat out.......
TrinaBhearD 3 years ago
i understand what you are saying; i only speak to what is happening in my world. it may not be political correct but it is correct to me hey its my world. some women is off the hook. i am firm believer that men will only shut down with all that yelling and it will take a week to hear you when it should only take a day. but hey you know yall be pressing that nerve though lol. i hate yelling personally i do not like to argue its just not my style what can you say i am wired differently
bbwfinest 3 years ago
All black women do not yell at their men. Stop catagorizing your people brotha. You are so saturated I can understand why you would feel this way. However, the African American community is not in its rightful place because SOME black men have not stepped up to the plate. When our black men get themselves together we will gladely follow. But a strong black woman is not going to follow a boy. Until the time comes we will continue to raise your children and carry this community.
QnBeey 3 years ago
qnbeey: yeah, black women say they'll continue to carry this community and take full credit for it, well look at the state of it today...'the black community'. but i guess now the blame goes on the man, right? 'we'll continue to carry it', but the community is messed up...'well, we need black men to lead us'. make up your mind. the black community is fucked because women want to lead but not take responsibility when they lead and it's messed up. let the men lead, you get more with honey always..
dejuanp 3 years ago
You Are a DAMNNNNNN FOOOL....ROTF....lol...you lucky i'm at work so i can't yell...and why the heck you hiding in the bathroom
Shantrel619 3 years ago
woman think with both the left and right temple lobe.
the right lobe is for emotions & the left is for intellectualism's. the emotional side of the womans lobe are much stronger than the left. and there for causing woman to over power there own intellectualism's coming from the left lobe. meaning most woman cannot make split decisions. because they cant easily separate there right lobe emotions from over powering there left lobe intellectualism's this may be why most woman argue more than reason
urbanpsychoanalyst 3 years ago
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men also have a left logic and a right emotional lobe but when we use one at a time meaning when we r emotional the left side is blocked and vise verse. this might meaning most men can put our emotional differences to side and think using only our left logical expression and thought this might explain why men r always trying Analise situations and become easily agitated when woman apear as if they r ignoring our views i say apear because she is ignoring our logic by nature and not by ignorance
urbanpsychoanalyst 3 years ago
whats important is that both men and woman need to first understand why we r thinking differently and then remember the differences and work together to manipulate our thinking patterns so that they work for us and not against us
urbanpsychoanalyst 3 years ago
I DON'T NO WERE U LIVE BUT I LIVE IN NEW YORK CITY. AND HERE I C IT ALL.
AND I WILL TELL YOU THAT MOST BLACK WOMAN R N DENILE TO THIS FACT.
MOST CHILDREN ARE RAISED BY BLACK WOMAN. AND EVEN IF THE FATHER LEAVES THATS NO REASON 4 U NOT TO RAISE A DECENT HUMAN BEING
MOST OF THE ATTITUDES YOU R HEARING FROM BLACK MEN ARE LEARNED RIGHT AT HOME.
NOW WHO DO YOU THINK THEY LEARNED IT FROM?
CANT SAY THE FATHERS REMEMBER NOT ALL BUT MOST R NOT AROUND? DON'T BE A GOOD INDIVIDUAL BE A GOOD Analyst
miranett 3 years ago
I'm black, I'm not running to white women. And neither are any of the brothas my age are. So this must be some kind of publicity stunt being triggered by biracial people. Because it's funny I've never heard of this interracial dating being a big problem until I signed up for youtube. Isn't that something? The media = full of shit.
BIackHaze 3 years ago 2
I dread being "jumped on" too, as you say at the end of your video, but you brought up an important topic. Many of us have wondered about the same thing, male & female, so I thought I should comment in spite of potential backlash.
I was taught never to "yell" even when they might have "deserved it," so is this a cultural thing? What?
Anger and hostility doesn't serve anyone very well, men or women. I would hope that people would be able to express love, consideration & kindness at some point.
catherinetodd 3 years ago
I've been yelled at & have experienced extremely negative attitudes with the same people you are describing, and I'm not a black man!
I've heard "I'm gone kill that white bitch!" just by entering the room; especially if some men's eyes turn that way, no matter how I dress down. One look & "it's on." It's awful.
I see some women yelling at their children & understand why men might "date outside their race." Racism, threats & hostility is ridiculous & unnecessary. I hope things change soon.
catherinetodd 3 years ago
Not all black women yell and have attitudes.There are alot of other types of women who have attitudes and yell. And it takes two people to bring a relationship to the place where you cant communicate in a healthy way.Just because the black women you deal with act like that dosent mean we all do.
texasdollar2000 3 years ago
texasdollar: you think i don't know your last statement. this video was just for fun, but construed in the wrong way...that's it. i love my black women.
dejuanp 3 years ago
i love me some white pussy
LaCokaNostra81 3 years ago
DAMN.... freckle face cutie pie!!! sexy gap in his teeth... wow...
internallyintense 3 years ago
You are so cute. Your wife should be happy you mentioned her. Some men are hummm humm about that.
latiness 3 years ago
You need a bi-racial mixed honey suckle PYT!
Mangobaby1 3 years ago
like who? lol...
dejuanp 3 years ago
lol... I said that, and I didn't realize you were married for real. So i can't really say..ahem. *two steps to the left...to the left.. to the left.. to the left....to the leffftttt* lol jp
Mangobaby1 3 years ago
i think you're a masochist and enjoy black women being that way.
970975 3 years ago
well, i think all men like it at certain points. sometimes you just wish you could turn it off for a little while...lol. but not in da hood baby! lol....:)
dejuanp 3 years ago
is it the women, or is it you. I've never gotten yelled at. Except from my mom when I was a young knucklehead.
kidbizq 3 years ago
kid: maybe it was meeee!lol...:) but i do know a few chicks that have a chip on their shoulder.
dejuanp 3 years ago
LOL at the faces of the girls in the video responses...before I even see your video, but just look at the title, I know you done did it, man!
HaloedG 3 years ago
haha...the lightskinned one is my wife...:)
dejuanp 3 years ago
meancookie89 3 years ago 2
coming from a black women
meancookie89 3 years ago
ITS funny YOU SAY WE HAVE ATTITUDES BUT YET BLACK MEN HAVE THEM TOO! THEY WILL SAY HI TO A WHITE WOMAN IN A STORE BEFORE ME!
Empiren1 3 years ago 2
empiren: i don't do that...
dejuanp 3 years ago
thats good! these days our men just seem intimidated by us or give the meanest looks.
Empiren1 3 years ago
Make a vid about white women for a change!!..point out bad things about them :(
MariahM87 3 years ago
what do you mean for a change? i've never made a video about black women....i have over 300 vids and this was one video asking a simple question. funny. all of ya'll can chastise me, but laugh at every single thing tyler perry puts out. madea is not the representative of black women, but millions of black women love to see a gun-toting black woman cuss men out and shoot at men in every single way. i don't know if you watch her, but every single black woman i know does...and i know a lot.
dejuanp 3 years ago
We tell blk men time and time again you have to get a grip of yourselves we love you so much we'll put up with your lust problems, no child support problems, the jail time, the unemployment line evry 3 months. You have to man up and stop playing games...WE ARE YELLING FOR A REASON...A MAJOR REASON...CAN YOU HEAR ME LOUD AND CLEAR? READ THE WORDS THAT I TYPE...GET IT TOGETHER!! YOU HAVE NO TIME TO WASTE. YOU ARE SELF DESTRUCTION. Wow that felt good, Now do you understand? We love you!
brinny776 4 years ago
I've never heard a white man say blk women yell too much whenever their in a relationship with a blk woman. For one thing the white man will not give her a chance to yell because he's so busy adoring her and treating her like a queen there's nothing he's lacking or slacking. basically there is no frustration coming from her partner. So blk man you have to ask yourself is there anything your doing to your woman that is making her yell at you so much. You can't be all that innocent.
brinny776 4 years ago 2
you cant be all that innocent either, you talk shit about us, all the time, and you do do it more
christopherrrrrrrrr 3 years ago
No I'm not innocent that's why I've developed into a beautiful blk woman that has been married for 14yrs. I decided to get a grip of who I am, I decided to make right choices. And I don't do anything more but show love and patience to my spouse. I'm not talking shit I just explained what most blk men put on open display for everyone to see that's all.
brinny776 3 years ago
good for you, but i can't deal with black women
christopherrrrrrrrr 3 years ago
good for you too, It's a good thing in your case because if it's impossible for you to deal with blk women then I think your doing the right thing. Always do what your comfortable with when your in relationships who ever treats you the way you want to be treated that's what matters most.
brinny776 3 years ago
brinny: you're generalizing just like you accuse me of. i tried my best to say 'some' or 'most' black women. man, ya'll take stuff too serious on here. before you get so pissed at me, go tell terry mcmillan and every other black woman to stop writing books about black men. terry's rich as hell for degrading black men in every way possible. i don't get that. as soon as the table is turned ya'll pissed as hell...that's why i ask the questions. a simple video has turned into a shitstorm...sad.
dejuanp 3 years ago
wait... you're a black man? ? LOlmao
jaaxa 4 years ago
hhahahaah
starwinmarwin 4 years ago
i mean yes black women have work to do why you have to talk about why black women do this and that and you will never have one on your arm again and try and understand her there alot it all go back to us being slaves the black women talking care of everything while the black men is beatin rape by some white women while the white men show the black women that this black men will not be there for you so dont look to him for nothing whats different today tell me?
tightbootycall 4 years ago
tightbootycall: wait, wait, wait...do you think my my wife is white?
dejuanp 4 years ago
talking about why black women do this and that there going to feel attack you have white women so you have already give up on black women to what a black women can see black women have been the strenght of the black men go back and look at the blackmovement black women have give birth to black men who have not been there for them who have give up on there own birth kids
tightbootycall 4 years ago
hello i been watchin your video for sometime for i mean your funny its nice to watch you but you dont get the fact that when your talking about no disrespect at all for real your kids are beautiful but when you have a white women on your arm
tightbootycall 4 years ago
This is what it is. Women have dealt with alot of BOYS playing MEN. and when they get a real MAN they end up treating them like BOYS. First, I think women need to realize that all Men are different and you need to let a man be a man. Women cry about respect and how they need to feel that they are respected, well it's a two way street.
joneal 4 years ago
DeJuanP. I think you have a few screws loose and I think your Mom paid your wife to marry you!
Seriously. You are funny!!! And you don't have to make excuses for being funny. You can do 99 things right, then on the 1 wrong, you are portrayed as bad. That aint right, but that is life.
If people don't see the love and tenderness that is so vehemently displayed in your videos then they need to make a video to explain themselves. Do you DP! and please, keep making me laugh!
ATLMicki 4 years ago
Hey--let's instead talk about, why are black men such bums?
Why do they leave their families and responsibilities?
Why do they run off with white women?
Why do they impregnate every shaquita and bonquisha in the neighborhood?
Why do black men always sell drugs?
Why do they always end up in jail one way or another?
I could go on all day with black men... ^_^
BoomSelekta 4 years ago
It's responses like this dat black men are so tense. In regards to this video, this is not a question for black men in general. This is a question for this guy. He said he's lustful, he already admitted 2 it. He should be questionin himself. I would yell at him! He doesn't seem respectful of women in general. It's not good 2 mak comical relief on a situation most tak seriously. D situation itself, I support bl women on breakn d stereotype. But, do it d right way. Don't nsult othrs 2 maka point.
saenzym 4 years ago
saenzym: thanks for your reply, but i may be a little misunderstood...put it this way. i may feel a certain way from looking at someone. i'm a man. all men find beautiful women attractive. but i am never, in any way tempted to cheat on my wife. i've had ample times i could have done it, but it never crossed my mind...but the person's above comments were really unintelligent and don't even warrant a response. everyone is entitled to their own opinion...
dejuanp 4 years ago
I 100% agree with your video keep doing your things
MalcomAP 4 years ago
WOW.... Ok I'm a bit DISCUSSED by your insensitive comments. Maybe I'm just not use to hearing one speak so BOLD,BLUNT,DISRESPECTFUL and VULGAR. And on top of that MARRIED.
Hmmm....(shakes head) If I ever heard my husband speak and act the way you do.
DIVORCE and I'm taking EVERY..........THING.
shav0nne 4 years ago
the video was taken out of context. people on here know i joke around. you hear this everyday on tv and movies you love, so don't act like i'm the first person that has ever joked. how many books bashing black men can you find in the store or movie(waiting to exhale).
dejuanp 4 years ago
pt. 2
i think you meant to say 'disgusted' not 'discussed'...
dejuanp 4 years ago
lol
lovie2000 4 years ago 2
Yea, disgusted. I kinda got upset and irritated and was thinking faster than I could type. Sorry if I got a little extreme on my comment. I just get tired of men making such horrible comments about black women. I guess its the feelings that alot of black men feel when they are labeled as dogs.
shav0nne 4 years ago
Well the movie "Waiting to Exhale" was the BOMB ahahaha kidding.
shav0nne 4 years ago
oh, you're cool now ha...lol. man i can't do nothing but love ya'll. ya'll hate me then ya'll love me. and i love ya back!
dejuanp 4 years ago
Ok, Ok you got me. I'm a subscriber now LOL...
:) Shavonne
shav0nne 4 years ago
thanks for subbing. you know i'ma bring you around the block...
dejuanp 4 years ago
You're discussed? Calm down, he's joking.
bobsarcasm 4 years ago
lmao you are to crazy with the before and after marriage lol tru tru
jonesbunny 4 years ago
no offense dude...
But you came from a black women, and i believe are married to one. Black women have to yell because they deal with ignorance all the time. From slavery to present were always on the bottom of the todom pole, and now some of our men dont respect us. Just remeber that black women have to be strong and heard or they wont be taken seriously at times. if you guys would just pay attention that wouldnt have to happen.
Phoenixb87 4 years ago 2
Dejuan, you're a nut, but thanks for being honest with us, and yourself.
LOL @ 6:00-6:15
MissPrettynCurvy 4 years ago
*Brings out Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon on Dejuan...Hooooooyah!*
~Just kidding~
I yelled at my past boyfriends for the same reason I yell at my current boyfriend, it's because they were in the wrong. If they were doing right I wouldn't have to yell now would I? :oP
I also think there is a time and place for everything. If we're at Applebee's or something, I wouldn't just start yelling at my boyfriend, I would wait until we're in the privacy of our own home.
~Still watching~
MissPrettynCurvy 4 years ago
lmao @ 6:12
PrincessHBIC7 4 years ago
I think we yell at ya'll because we do what other women think. If a girl of another race thinks you're cheating, they are going to think about asking you about it, but we go ahead and ask and sometimes we try to find out if you're cheating.
Another reason we yell at ya'll is because ya'll do stuff that makes us mad and we have to let you know right then or ya'll would keep doing it like it is not a problem. That is my opinion.
Mc18nicole 4 years ago
Is this directed to the stay-at-home women, or the working women?
The working woman has worked all day, then is expected to come home and cook, clean, homework with kids, put them to bed...then open her legs??
While the man eats, sits in front of the tv with a beer, and waits till it's time for sex??
After that same routine, the attitude unleashes.
LAJCain 4 years ago
LAJCain: it was for all women who just 'yell'...i asked specifically black women because i'm around them all the time. i've been yelled at and sometimes the yelling is uncalled for. you know how us men are. i'm pretty much living what you're saying in this comment. but i'm taking care of my son. i worked for five years and never came home fussing...i was just happy to be home. but this video has been taken out of context. it was a lighthearted vid...but the timing was off..
dejuanp 4 years ago
No, I did find it hilarious! LOL Especially you imitating the well..."loose women" you've been with.
But I was just wondering.
LAJCain 4 years ago
ok, i tried to post my response in 2 comments, but it ain't working, if it doesn't make sense and there seemed like a point u really wanted to make sense...just be like wtf were you saying...and i'll try again
missy1e23 4 years ago
I guess the reason I didnt usually rip is cuz I cut ya loose&move on.Guys b like,"I aint heard from u n a min."I b like"Theres a reason."But if yall would act right,many of these "yellings" wouldn't take place.If men would try 2 b as considerate as many women r,then the entire argument thing wouldnt exist.Yall just do trifling stuff.But dejuanp..u aint got no sense,lol..i was laughing through the entire video..even with the serious topic.
missy1e23 4 years ago
wow, wack.
Nkechi45 4 years ago
Lulz!
LeonWestbrook 4 years ago
leon: what is lulz. i heard mike skehan using this word alot...lol.
dejuanp 4 years ago
A corruption of lol.
I was laughing my ass off toward the end.
LeonWestbrook 4 years ago
I can't say it's all the same with white women of course, but the relationships have their troubles too. One thing that I've noticed is that while it may not be so up-in-your-face, white women just tend to be more manipulative, comparatively. Sometimes, just having it straight is refreshing. Instead of "what's wrong?" "Nothing" over and over... (Knowing there's something wrong.)
The grass isn't always greener, it's just different grass. =)
Dracorat 4 years ago
lmao@ after marriage car ride;-D
justwant2laugh 4 years ago
what is your wife mixed with? She looks very fair.
justwant2laugh 4 years ago
My Bad Dejuanp...I thought we were talking about something serious. It seems to have turned into some kind of joke.
JERNIGANSIX 4 years ago
...that was definitey different Dejuan LMAO! I was scared; I have to be honest.
But anyway, if y'all men wouldn't act like such assholes then we wouldn't need to raise our voices! I swear, men are just... argh! Like having a penis just makes you into an asshole...=P
kweencessX 4 years ago
lol dejuan jia seems pretty pissed at this vid lol maybe you should make another to redeem yourself lol?
JayA880 4 years ago
don't worry. i'm making a vid, but it's not to prove anything or make up anything to any specific person...
dejuanp 4 years ago
lol dejuan by 8:44 im like....where is he going with this
but there are women of all races that yell alot..u cant attribute it to only black females even tho thas all u had experience with
luv ya xoxo
MizzCoCoLatte 4 years ago
Good point, MizzCoCoLatte (I love your name btw).
MissPrettynCurvy 4 years ago
happy light history month
im probably not supposed to watch this but i have some things to say.
but watever ok
i understand you
yea but isnt it also the mans fault if the man has a problem with the woman why wont the man tell the woman rite straight up?
but it's not just the black female it's white women hispanic women too, they're women they have hormones they'll go off
and women are so concerned becuz they love you enough to worry.
RESPOND.holla at da kids
viesha119 4 years ago
loud women will always be loud whether white or black young or old. As long as that works for them that is what they will do. Yelling is what children do when they cant express themselves. Sometimes when I am upset or sad I will write a song and sing it to my husband, I get his attention and we have dialogue. There are many ways to express yourself, rolling your neck and cursing and screaming is not always the answer, whatever race u are. And if u have to yell u may need a new nan
pinkythebrain7 4 years ago
I have been married for 13 years we have 3 children and I still love a hard penis every night. Once I learned how to allow my man to be the man there was no need to yell. When we disagree we work it out we speak calmly. We close the door and soon we are making love. I support him and he supports me. It makes me feel great to know that on this long roller coaster ride called life I enjoy have a black man to go threw the loops with me, allow me to scream along the way. submsve & suprtve R
pinkythebrain7 4 years ago
Quick comment, many men think black women have this attitude and black women yell too much. As for myself I use to yell at my man, and because I don't yell anymore I speak with a clam voice, because I am not going to stress my self out over BULL SHIT. He still thinks that I have an attitude towards him, because he is use to yelling. I tell him just because I don't say anything doesn't mean I have a problem, and when I do say something to you I don't have to yell.
honeydip28 4 years ago
We all know that when you're yelled at you tend to tune out whomever is doing the yelling. Besides when you do yell at someone their response is going to be in the negative. So the best way to get your point across is by relaying it in calm manner. Damn shame we've been so conditioned to accept yelling as the norm, i.e. parents, grandparents and other adults yelling at us while growing up.
LadyBlackReign 4 years ago
da hell kinna women have YOU been dealing with?
byrdthepoet 4 years ago
UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU a DAMN fool... that mofo kicked that shit into overdrive.lol
kingspride2008 4 years ago
for every action there is a reaction...you can't just come out like there is no reason for black women to have an attitude???? one reason for attitude could be the lack of consideration for our feelins/emotions...which men know women run off of, and us against us...and don't front like y'all don't...
boomswsh 4 years ago
How ignorant can you be to generalize all black women in the same category?? Especially out of all the people who have something negative to say... A BLACK MAN is trying to speak on something? haha are YOU KIDDING ME? DO you know the statistics of Black men before you open your mouth and talk? To me it's insecurity with yourselves and you look for something to talk about to make yourselves feel better.
lovelyv77 4 years ago
women yell when they feel they are not being heard. It takes YEARS to build up to a yeal though. It starts out with talking louder and louder. Then one day you ARE SCREAMING AND YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHY. I went to counseling after my first marriage and that was what I was told. Maybe that will shed some light on the subject for you.
jalasword 4 years ago
yeah that would be YELL not yeal. Sorry my unheard husband had to come in and talk to me while I was typing.
jalasword 4 years ago
jala: thanks. this is the only type of comment i was looking for. instead, a crapstorm started...lol. but read my homie response up top. chuloonthe6....he's hilarious!
dejuanp 4 years ago
I've got something in my front pocket for you......hahahahahhahah!!!!
lisamsteelman 4 years ago
nice...south park:)
dejuanp 4 years ago
I love it. It is sick and so true. We have many faces. When I am quiet,one of two things you can happen. You are going to get full force.Or like my husband, you cease to exist. lol.
lilbits 4 years ago
stereotype city, people all over the world watch youtube.i hopr you're proud of yourself
lQuantumTheoryl 4 years ago
Iite sorry, Dejuan...but I've gotta let you go. I've been watching your videos for a couple weeks now and I thought you were HILARIOUS, down-to-earth and just an over-all good person. But I'm jus getting kind of fed up with he way you talk about women, especially on that sexual level..alwayz on the booty and them brazillian chicks etc. I aint watched the whole video..I just had to stop sorry.
Bye
xnicb00luvszyu 4 years ago
see ya...hope it was fun.
dejuanp 4 years ago
Fun while it lasted....pmsl. ;) x
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
LOL what cavemen movies u been watchin?
no1helenUK 4 years ago
Well I do have a concern though, did it ever occur 2 anyone that black men have their flaws too? I mean seriously, I laid down last night thinking about this topic & I'm like black men do some really irritating shit that sometimes provoke black women 2b upset all the time, i mean really, black men tend 2b the laziest i have ever seen. I mean not all of them of course but some black men don't know how to treat or talk 2 a woman 2 make her feel wanted. Black men are usually 2 damn aggressive
haitianprincess215 4 years ago
Hey Mr P, nice curtains.
I don't think anyone should be shouting at anyone in relationships, its just disrespectful and if you're gonna spend your life with someone you cant disrespect them like that and expect it to work. People need to learn to take a deep breath, walk away, calm down and then come back to discuss the problem, I realise that's not necessarily an easy thing to do......sometimes you just wanna kill the people you love. ♥
; )
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
emily: thanks for understanding. all i 'really' wanted were some answers. yeah, i specifically stated black women, but it seems that's who i'll be around for the rest of my life so why now illustrate a few instances and ask them why they act a certain way with me.
dejuanp 4 years ago
There are lots of women and men regardless of race who feel its acceptable to yell at their other half like some old fish wife. Personally for me I don't yell at people im in a relationship with and I wont be shouted at either......like I said its just disrespectful.
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
People disrespect you when you allow them to. If people are shouting at you its because you haven't put your foot down and explained why it isn't acceptable, the fact is they can get away with it so they do it. Its like someone who continually hits their partner, why would they stop when all their partner does is complain a lil but lets them carry on regardless.
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
I've had men shout at me once and then realise pretty quickly that it wont be happening again, there are consequences for people who feel they can disrespect me. Maybe you need to come up with some consequences of your own babe.
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
emily: this vid was a good idea for a comedy. there was truth in it, but i had fun making it. i was actually laughing at myself when i did the predator impression. how can someone get bashing from that..? lol. i just laugh back. some women on here that take this vid too seriously need to look at themselves and wonder why it matters that much. i see thousands of racist comments and videos on here. how many times have you seen me respond to them. why not? because i know who i am...
dejuanp 4 years ago
Thats true enough, you always make me laugh.....plus you're the only man I know who can make a Cartman impression sexy...;)..lol.
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
lol@ kill the ppl u love
i think people are getting a little more upset at this vid than they should...
I think if it was posted months earlier or later it wouldnt have been such an 'impact'..but with all of the other ones sprouting..it kind of puts the icing on the cake.
justmomo89 4 years ago
Nah, I aint upset in the slightest. There are a few people who are separate in my eyes from everyone else so I don't make judgements about them regardless........Mr Ps one of um, I know where he's coming from, gotta love him. You also come under that category and Ms Jia for that matter.
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
yea i didnt mean you..
meant alot of the comments. aww i love u girl u always have something positive to say...and when are u gonna do another video of ur baby or u talking dammit?!!
justmomo89 4 years ago
Please girl, you know procrastination is my second job, ive got loads of half finished ones.
I've stopped reading most of the comments, I read the ones from people I know but that's about it. You cant let fools you don't even know get on your nerves first thing on a Saturday morning....geez....I just woke up, need me some relaxation time. ;)
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
momo: well, i'm glad you've caught it now. i saw your other vid. didn't seem like you shared this view. don't worry another vid'll be coming up to address certain types of women. because a lot of em on here don't know who they are. if anyone is offended by 'my' video, the self esteem is really down there. i see racist vids on here all the time, get comments too. doesn't effect me one bit. i know who this dude is. at the end of the day, i lie with my beautiful wife and son. all i care about!
dejuanp 4 years ago
Well, that and the Saints baby....woo haa!!!!
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
haha. you know somebody...lol;)
dejuanp 4 years ago
I was just reading some of the comments you're getting babe......they're all up in yo ass like its a shelter from the rain or summat...lol.
Don't fret freckles, you can come round my gaff and hide in the airing cupboard when all these birds track you down and start tryna batter you.....I still love ya. ; )
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
like i said dejuan it wasn't your video that really set it off for me...it was just the timing..im not attacking you and u know i love you and your videos..it was a response to what Jia was saying..and how i felt about what was being said...i wish i would have never made the video now because i think your taking it the wrong way from me...grrrr ill just talk to u later too much to type
justmomo89 4 years ago
Hey curvylicious! ♥
OMG, you summed it up PERFECTLY (initial comment). I wish you were a vlogger. LOL :oP
It's very hard to walk away, I repeat VERY, but you are 100% correct. If we are adults we need to learn how to control our emotions. I'm working on that, but when you're burning mad, it's easier said than done. ♥
MissPrettynCurvy 4 years ago
Hey babe,
You just have to remember that after you've finished being pissed off and over indulging your temper you're still going to be married to the person you've just belittled and disrespected, knowing that how can anyone deem it acceptable to behave like that.
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
That vow of love, honour and respect isn't there just for the priest to have a job. If a person honours their vows then their relationship will last and be a positive experience. If they cant honour them then maybe its not the right time to get married.;)
Peace ♥
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
Id also add that the whole boyfriend/girlfriend stage is just the part where you're building the foundations of a relationship. So if that person isn't your husband or wife yet and you're still shouting at them and feeling it isn't necessary to show them respect then why waste your time being in a relationships with them, its never gonna work long term.
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
Curvylicious: Very good points. Something to think about. Just know the times I've yelled (it's few and far between these days) at him, were deserved, but I get your point, it's better to have an ADULT conversation, than yell like a little kid. We'll make it. Might hear wedding bells soon...MAYBE :oP
MissPrettynCurvy 4 years ago
Babe we've all yelled, I aint perfect.....there's only so much fucktardedness one person can take....lol. ♥
xcurvyliciousx 4 years ago
Lol!! This was hilarious!! And I'm gonna work on the arguing thing. My mom yells alot and so she passed it down to me. Yelling is an attempt to gain control of an already out of control argument...it rarely works and its not the best way to go about getting control of it anyway. We also yell to intimidate, but as women why should we try to intimidate men...I kinda wanna do a video response now...maybe I will. And yeah, your sound effects were nice! Lol.
carameldelight87 4 years ago
"I'm just tryna preach the word of God, baby that all i'm tryna dooo!" LOL!
Edgeup99 4 years ago
edgeup99: that's all i'm trying to do. i don't think a lot of people made it that far.
dejuanp 4 years ago
bubbaj: i love that name. and yep, that's all we need to stay cool. lol...
dejuanp 4 years ago
black folks need to stop talking like dakingofhearts, then we can start reasoning
TheDarkCorner 4 years ago
AAAHHHAHAHAH lol I cant stop laughing...dejuan your a trip lol
UniqueTwinz 4 years ago
uniquetwinz: thanks babes. glad you got it...why ya'll always yelling at us.
dejuanp 4 years ago
dejaun!!!!!!! you always gettin yelled at cause you always in trouble!!!! why is you always in trouble,..why you got to be so bad!!!!!!thatss why u get yelled at!!!!!!rais'in my blood pressure,.....
chuloonthe6 4 years ago
seaki: you're crazy as hell. what you worried about blood pressure for..? you younger than me. how's everything going my man? yeah, i stay in trouble.
dejuanp 4 years ago
IMMA SAY THIS RIGHT NOW!!!! MY VIDEO WAS NOT REALLY DIRECTED AT DEJAUN: just at brothers that need to correct themselves cause us people like me and sistaz are tired of dudes actin silly,..disrespecting us,...then expect for us to suck it up,.and not say nothing,..we got feelings too. Im good playa,..workin on a design project right now
chuloonthe6 4 years ago
yeah, right? it hurts us when we're getting yelled at. why we can't talk about it and find an answer. obviously somebody's not dishing the answer out. just like men don't reveal certain things ever, women do the same. we'll never really know why 'yellin' is the first resort for 'some' women, not just black ones. but c'est la vie right?
dejuanp 4 years ago
u made some good points........ but at the end u had me rolling... ur hilarious
luvinchocolate 4 years ago
I sure hope you don't think all black men are perfect...
littleladysc 4 years ago
littleladysc: of course not. i can admit that. just looking for that woman to admit she yells a little too much.
dejuanp 4 years ago
to everyone who reads this watch all 4 of gurltalktvs vids on why we ya know cuz my man temple SPEAKS THE TRUTH i agree with every word that came out his mouth he be preachin
dakingofhearts 4 years ago
I know I'm stating the obvious, but I believe when anyone (male or female) yells it is usually out of frustration or anger. I don't think it has anything to do with color...just your temperament. You probably don't understand why the women in your life were always yelling because you didn't consider whatever they were yelling about as something WORTH yelling about. If that makes sense...lol!
Kittysplit 4 years ago
Kittysplit: gotta love that name to start off. well, why some people yell is one thing, but what about the ones who yell for no reason. you're sitting and your chillin', two words are said and 'bam'...argument time! definitely not feeling that.
dejuanp 4 years ago
I'm sorry but this video is not entertaining or remotely educational. What is the point? Are you trying to compete with Temple? His points are well thoughtout and his examples make sense. This video is worthless. I'd like the last 8 minutes of my life back... NO I didn't watch the whole thing. I got a headache half way through and just couldn't make it... *SMDH*
belleama 4 years ago
belle: no, i wasn't trying to compete with anyone. he made some points in pt 4 that i related to. i make my own vids. been doing it longer than anybody you see on here...anybody. no need to call my vid 'worthless'. but that's your opinion. sorry about the headache. excedrin usually does the trick. don't worry you can have the minutes back. i'm pretty sure you'll waste them on more negative words...holla at da kids...lol.
dejuanp 4 years ago
Why shouldn't I call your video worthless? That is exactly how I feel about it. I didn't call YOU worthless. If I did that would be something to object to. As far as my "negetive words" I'll just tell you now that ONE day I may have something positive to say about your videos. Give me some time. I'm sure it will happen soon. Perhaps someday you will also have some positive words for the black women you claim to love. One can only hope... Until then I bid you adieu.
belleama 4 years ago
belle: well, my vid may be that way to you, but some people aren't as sensitive. it was a simple question put in comedic form. you write a whole lot harder than you sound. you don't have to wait til ONE day to write anything. believe me i'll live. i've been on here for two years doing my thing. you've come along and you'll pass like everyone else has. i've seen it all on here. you honestly think that this would be the last video on this subject? oh, well. adieu back to ya my love.
dejuanp 4 years ago
Maybe deep down you like that type of women. I don't consider myself a confrontational type. If I am that pissed where I stress myself out chewing him out daily I may as well be by myself. I have enough stress alone.
c0c0puffz 4 years ago
HAHAHAHAH bash em in tha head and get busy LOL i died laughin when you said that!!
bat232000 4 years ago
bat232000: yeah, i use crazy metaphors sometimes.
dejuanp 4 years ago
give me that club right there BAM! LMAO
shakebunny 4 years ago
shakebunny: nice....
dejuanp 4 years ago
lol yea i use to be like that but i had to check myself and now im not a yeller...neva did yell when he got off work i jus gave massages cuz i kno how it is but do ur thing ~jessica~
izmej4eva 4 years ago
jessica: thanks for your comment. some women yell, some don't. this video was specifically for the ones that do....text yellling is cooler to me. i don't mind it at all. but my eardrums are just tired...lol.
dejuanp 4 years ago
I don't yell. I don't like hostility.
I think that black men on youtube are going through a "menstration" cycle but instead of bleeding they are spewing venom on black women with all of these harsh words that they are labeling as "wisdom" for us or "givin' us the game" or "educating us on how to keep a black man"
If you cant say what you love about us, then why do you feel it's ok to say what you hate, so much?
Do we do ANYTHING right in ya'lls site besides what's done in the bedroom?
honeygyrl85 4 years ago 3
honeygyrl: not the menstration cycle joke...well, on that note...doens't feel too good huh? we've been getting ya'lls menstration cycle since the beginning of time...lol. j/k. but in this vid my love, i was simply asking a question. nothing more. my comedic twist was to let the black ladies know that i really, truly wanted an answer. i ain't coming down on no one. just because it coincided with somebody else's vid has nothing to do with me. yeah, it's fucked up to talk about on here...but
dejuanp 4 years ago
pt2,
why not? the only reason so many black women are upset is because this is a popular site. who gives a fuck if people are on revver or livevideo. this is just the place to be(at the moment). i wasn't trying to come down on my sistas cause believe me, i'm gon praise you. but you have to understand that vloggers speak mainly or most of the time directly when the situation happens. you don't know what i was going through at the time, but i was still calm enough to put it in a nice way.
dejuanp 4 years ago
pt3
it can be offensive to some but i was specifically talking to the sistas that were the ones doing the yelling. no one else. i said this is for the sistas that know deep down inside that they yell a big too much...nothing more. don't worry i'll be back.
dejuanp 4 years ago