Matt Chandler - The Difficulty of Marriage, Being a man, and why God wired it that way.

[venusatheart]

i dislike it when pastors start yelling. i wont listen to it just because of that. everything ghets lost just because of that.

[franksui]

@venusatheart Perhaps you had bad experiences with pastors before? Many pastors are just angry people who are mad at everyone. Some pastors who preach loud are purely out of their passion, and when their hearts get stirred up, their tones tend to go up. If you know them personally, you won't be as disturbed. Don't worry about it. :)

[venusatheart]

@franksui i dont worry about myself, i have faith. but you cannot sream at people. gods word is love, and i have never seen god yell and sream at me. this is a rethorical way to make listeners more or less scared. christ is love and love is not pride, hate and is PATIENT. someone who sceams isnt all of this.

[franksui]

@venusatheart I think maybe you're just over reacting, I'm not sure. But you can't just say someone's being hateful simply because he's shouting. God knows what's going on in his heart.

[0326hkim]

@venusatheart if they're preaching with passion and genuine in their heart with love, then be okay with it, but if they're condemning and you're pretty sure it's not out of love, then I would agree with you. I just don't want you to miss out on a good message and with the potential to be blessed.

[venusatheart]

@0326hkim thanks for your link. i just wished they would preach with love and humbleness. screaming doenst convert peoples minds. so many live in a household where parents used to scream to each other, we have to keep this in mind. christ is pure love and forgiveness.

[FCO0710]

@venusatheart

what? You don't think thats a little ridiculous? You're missing out on great news about God!

[einsatzdeath]

This is retarded. It's not difficult to be married or raise children. ROFLMAO.

[NIKEinJESUS]

@einsatzdeath Are you serious? Look at the divorce rate now days.

[einsatzdeath]

@NIKEinJESUS Yes, I'm serious. Of course the divorce rate is high among reprobates. They don't care what the Lord has to say. They think that they can divorce and remarry even though the Lord says that divorce and remarriage is adultery. That's just another reason why God hates America.

[NIKEinJESUS]

@einsatzdeath Godspeed to ya brother. BTW, going off of what's being posted on your page by people who you've apparently angered, please dont antagonize non-believers. Just tell them about Jesus and what he accomplished.

[einsatzdeath]

@NIKEinJESUS Jesus is very clear, and so is the entire scripture, that non-believers will be angry with you for preaching the truth. Crack a Bible sometime.

Matthew 10:22

And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved.

John 15:18

If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.

And so on. If the world doesn't hate you, that's a SURE sign that you're a Hell-bound false prophet, treacherously teaching lightness and heresy.

[NIKEinJESUS]

@einsatzdeath People hated Christ b/c of their hard hearts & no doubt some of the people hatin on u have the same prob. However Christ didnt antagonize anyone like u do. He loved them genuinely. Yes He told the truth & didnt back down from it but He did it lovingly. U should show love & grace to those who dont believe & r lost b/c thats how the Holy Spirit wins hearts. No one wants to follow u b/c your hatin on them AS IF your perfect; surely u dont think you r so dont act like it.

[SarahJ83]

@einsatzdeath If you are finding raising your children easy than you aren't spending enough time with them. Watching the inevitable pain in their life is hard. The self sacrifice required to pour into their lives is at times (though rarely) hard. When discipline is required, it's hard. The self discipline required to live a life that points them to Jesus and to train them up to be Godly is at times hard. There are great times, but they aren't all that way.

[einsatzdeath]

@SarahJ83 Yeah, you probably teach your children to date and fornicate and things like that. No kidding pain will be inevitable for them! Quit passing your children through Molech's fire and repent.

[SarahJ83]

@einsatzdeath what am I repenting of? My constant prayer is that God would search me and know me. That the words of my mouth and meditation of my heart would be acceptable to Him. My children are not taught to date. Dating teaches kids how to break up, not how to develop a lasting relationship. Fornicate? you have to be joking. Are you never around your kids that you are that ignorant about child rearing?

[CT2790]

@einsatzdeath

I will assume that you are in fact and have children?

[einsatzdeath]

@CT2790 That would be correct.

[CT2790]

@einsatzdeath

and throughout this whole time its been a cakewalk?

[mkv00700]

This is from sermon entitled "pastoral prayers (part 1)"

[itubeyoublah]

chill

[a0adio0]

@adbaston07 I think it's the "marriage and men" sermon.

[MastersOfTheForce]

i love it when he speaks real powerful

i know its all God n He's the one using this guy for His purpose