Stop homophobia & u drastically decrease the stigma associated w/ homosexuality. Unfortunately Christianity is deeply ingrained in most black communities & homophobia is part & parcel to Xtianity. So the dilemma is 1) continue following Xtianity and vilifying gays, thereby perpetuating homophobic environment that makes them hide their true identity or 2) accept homosexuality, removing the stigma so fewer men r hiding it, but risk eternal hell. My answer: HIV is real. Hell...? Maybe, maybe not.
People if your gonna have sex be responsible and protect yourself otherwise its nobodys fault but your own. Putting the blame on gay men is not gonna erase your diseise.
I agree. Hiv is caused by haveing unprotected sex not by gay men.This is why so many black women get infected because they have this fantasy in their brain that the only way they can get aids is if they have sex with a BI- Sexual man.
this is such bullshit! most african american women cpget aids through unprotected sex not because thier men are on the "dl". and besides i think if we werent so hush about homosexuality in our community and came into a place called present day, men wouldnt be so scared to come out.
70 percent of african american women are infected with aids not because of the dl but because african americans arent being educated about protection. some think aids is still a "gay" mans virus
I never thought that it would happen a women don't have to worry about the next sister,it has now come to the male friends he has is the one you have to watch.I
love God and the bible states In 1Timothy 4:In latter times some will turn away from the faith giving heed to seducing spirits,doctrines of devils.There consciences are seared with a hot iron.They believe that what they are doing is ok.Woe unto you who don't have the fear of God in your spirit.
What is sad to me that we know live in a day where other women is no longer the per
son you worry about.It has now come to a man taking the place of the woman.Men you are in for a rude awaking when you have to stand before a just God to be judge
according to the deeds that you have done in your motal body and the lives you have destroyed.Is sex that important to you?
@2:26 that's because we've always looked at black men as protector and strong individuals! Its impossible for me to look at a black man on the DL and think that he has them characteristics,the DL life style is made up of weak selfish men that wants it all know matter what or whom they hurt in the process!
I wish we lived in a society where a person could just admit that they are gay and there would not be so many men and women on the downlow. I do not believe in dl because it does hurt innocent people. There is more of this going on than you can even imagine. I worked at a closed custody prison and you would not believe how many were on the downlow. Black, Caucasian, and Hispanic. They had their boyfriends on the dl, then on the weekends their wives of girlfriends would come and visit. Shocking.
thats so messed up do not have kids if you gay or bi and have anything to do with the same sex as you. "only 4 men" because women can have kids and be gay.
Why do they make the gay experience seem like someone TRICKED this man into being gay. Gay men are not snide, tricksters!
That's not how it always goes. Being gay doesn't have to be devious or cruel. Any man can be gay and he doesn't have to be tricked into experimenting in order to find his feelings or expand his career, as in this case.
And all gay men don't have HIV! Having sex w/ a black gay man doesn't naturally give u such.
Gay/bi men need to be OUT 4 their own dignity + their familys
This has got to be the lowest thing a man can put a woman through..To me personally it is disgusting and perverted.Telling your wife or girlfriend that you love them and it just happened once is BS.These men are hiding behind their women .They lie,and sneak around like low life's.And they have the nerve to say but I'm not gay.If you are sexually aroused by men ,YOU ARE GAY.Boys it may take us awhile,but we will find out your sick secret.
@LBC672 - If the stigma and fear of being gay is lifted within the black community, there would be NO SUCH THING as being on the "down low." The more we make it uncomfortable for gay black men to be themselves, the more down low you will get.
some women are getting hiv/aids from men who are not gay and from men who are. put it like this say a women had a husband/boy friend that is gay and he had hiv/aids then she cut him off cause he is gay not knowing that he gave her hiv/aids then she go and have sex with another men and he have sex with another women and now she have hiv/aids that 2nd men is not gay nor did that 2nd women got hiv/aids from a gay men.
emmettmays: Why don't you shut your ignorant ass up?Stupid people like you are the reason the Black race is always the highest in every category of diseases because you focus on the wrong things. Sometimes the best thing you can do is be quiet so you can learn something new.You sound like somebody who was absent from school on the day they taught everything.Maybe you were born without common sense inwhich case they need to put your DL ass in prison if you keep going around living this lifestyle.
DL Black men are cowards and are killing the Black Community due to the high rate of HIV they are giving these unsuspecting sistas. This DL life style is wicked and you can lie to yourself but you can't lie to GOD. Repent of this evil while there is still a little time because GOD is getting ready to clean house. Who i am is not important,but pay attention to what i am telling you. Homosexuality is a unclean spirit that can't be fought with carnal weapons,pray to be delivered from this evil.
this whole DL thing is bullshit. I had to suffer through this crap and NO woman deserves to go through this long line of misleading. If you're a man on the downlow, you dont need to be in a heterosexual relationship. It's not fair to the woman. This is a disgusting act. I worry that there are no good men left because of this shit. I hate it and I hate the person that did it to me. I don't know how to begin forgiveness of that.
@ladypipedown YES IF A MAN WNATS TO BE STRAIGHT, BE STRAIGHT. IF HE WASNTS TO BE GAY, BE GAY IT'S NOT FIAR THAT THEY FORGE A HETEOROSEXUAL REALATIONSHIP WITH WOMEN AND AT THE SEEM TIME MESS WITH MEN. THEY NEED TO BE HONEST IN THE BEGINNING OF A RELATIONSHIP!
@MrTre5670 - I agree with you 100% however, one has to ask why they lie. There's a terrible stigma out there that says if you're gay you're less than human, a man, etc. If we can lift the stigma, "down low" would cease to exist.
@ladypipedown@ladypipedown I know it's hard for you,but forgiveness is for you not him,don't let him take anymore for from you! ! forgive and let yourself be free and happy!
Sweetie I am so sorry that u had to go though that. I really am, I have been where u were 5yrs ago and I know how feeling as well. I was with my so call husband for 7yrs all together. Dated 2 married 5 I was young and silly girl who though everything was great. I should have known something was wrong all the signs were their, but when the DL thing was coming about in the 90's. I did not wanted to believe in that nonsense. I was 1 of those black women that always ---
@ladypipedown though that I will know how to spot a gay men when I see them. But I was so wrong, I was sleeping right next to one whenever he was home! That was me but I am sorry it happened to u as well. It really make it hard to trust any man after that without always wondering if the new man in ur life is like that too as well!!!! Sweetie this is the best advise I can give u women to women. I have been their, but please sweetie TRUST IN GOD AND HOLD ON TO GOD
TRUST IN GOD AND HOLD ON TO GOD BECAUSE HE IS THE ONLY WAY. That's what I had to do to get over the hurt and pain!!! I don't know what ur going though right now, but give it to GOD!!! Try to stay strong "IN JESUS NAME"
This is sort of misleading because it makes it seem like black women are getting aids from dl men because they gay but the women are getting aids from these men because they are having UNPROTECTED sex with someone else who just happens to be gay. Gay does not equal AIDS. Unprotected sex can = AIDs. DL men are wrong on an entirely different level as well because of their dishonesty to themselves and to there loved ones. If you are gay or bi just be that. But to be coward and pretend is wrong.
This dl life style isn't anything new it's been around since the bible days, it's just broadcast openly now, it's no need of being afraid to date black men just when meeting and dating like I told my sisters just ask all the right questions and when having sex ya treat everyone as if they are infected protect yoself & by doing this ya protect others. gay or str8.
boilyrics you got that right! The industry is fulla downlow men, gay men, openly gay men and all they do is teach it to the next generation of boys that come into the business. If Tevin Campbell woulda had a girlfriend and play downlow, he woulda still making multi-platinum CD's.
boilyrics I agree with you foreal about that because in the books of Leviticus and in 1Corinthians God made laws against the gay and down low lifestyles.
i have a girlfriend that i love but i get oral sex from a transexual but i am not gay the
transexual had a sex change but i did not tell my girlfriend but i hate all faggots
i hope the get aids
blkmun86 2 days ago
Stop homophobia & u drastically decrease the stigma associated w/ homosexuality. Unfortunately Christianity is deeply ingrained in most black communities & homophobia is part & parcel to Xtianity. So the dilemma is 1) continue following Xtianity and vilifying gays, thereby perpetuating homophobic environment that makes them hide their true identity or 2) accept homosexuality, removing the stigma so fewer men r hiding it, but risk eternal hell. My answer: HIV is real. Hell...? Maybe, maybe not.
brainuppance 4 months ago
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People if your gonna have sex be responsible and protect yourself otherwise its nobodys fault but your own. Putting the blame on gay men is not gonna erase your diseise.
165olive 6 months ago
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I agree. Hiv is caused by haveing unprotected sex not by gay men.This is why so many black women get infected because they have this fantasy in their brain that the only way they can get aids is if they have sex with a BI- Sexual man.
165olive 6 months ago
this is such bullshit! most african american women cpget aids through unprotected sex not because thier men are on the "dl". and besides i think if we werent so hush about homosexuality in our community and came into a place called present day, men wouldnt be so scared to come out.
shahedge 6 months ago
i have a girlfriend that i love but i had sex with a transexual but i am not
gay the transexual had a sex change but i did not tell my girlfriend
but i hate all faggots i hope the get aids
blkmun86 7 months ago
70 percent of african american women are infected with aids not because of the dl but because african americans arent being educated about protection. some think aids is still a "gay" mans virus
shahedge 8 months ago
SMH
trustewiefan87 10 months ago
WHAT ABOUT THE WOMEN... ITS ALWAYS ABOUT THE MEN WHAT ABOUT THE DL WOMEN... HUH?????????????????
UniquelyQualified 11 months ago 2
@UniquelyQualified AMEN
fungial 10 months ago
I never thought that it would happen a women don't have to worry about the next sister,it has now come to the male friends he has is the one you have to watch.I
love God and the bible states In 1Timothy 4:In latter times some will turn away from the faith giving heed to seducing spirits,doctrines of devils.There consciences are seared with a hot iron.They believe that what they are doing is ok.Woe unto you who don't have the fear of God in your spirit.
Tonyar39 1 year ago
What is sad to me that we know live in a day where other women is no longer the per
son you worry about.It has now come to a man taking the place of the woman.Men you are in for a rude awaking when you have to stand before a just God to be judge
according to the deeds that you have done in your motal body and the lives you have destroyed.Is sex that important to you?
Tonyar39 1 year ago
So sad :(
nowl8ter 1 year ago
@2:26 that's because we've always looked at black men as protector and strong individuals! Its impossible for me to look at a black man on the DL and think that he has them characteristics,the DL life style is made up of weak selfish men that wants it all know matter what or whom they hurt in the process!
p.s
Be who YOU are 100% all day everyday!
Bree41125 1 year ago
I wish we lived in a society where a person could just admit that they are gay and there would not be so many men and women on the downlow. I do not believe in dl because it does hurt innocent people. There is more of this going on than you can even imagine. I worked at a closed custody prison and you would not believe how many were on the downlow. Black, Caucasian, and Hispanic. They had their boyfriends on the dl, then on the weekends their wives of girlfriends would come and visit. Shocking.
debrat1964 1 year ago
thats so messed up do not have kids if you gay or bi and have anything to do with the same sex as you. "only 4 men" because women can have kids and be gay.
scotty10211 1 year ago
Why do they make the gay experience seem like someone TRICKED this man into being gay. Gay men are not snide, tricksters!
That's not how it always goes. Being gay doesn't have to be devious or cruel. Any man can be gay and he doesn't have to be tricked into experimenting in order to find his feelings or expand his career, as in this case.
And all gay men don't have HIV! Having sex w/ a black gay man doesn't naturally give u such.
Gay/bi men need to be OUT 4 their own dignity + their familys
cymonebreathe 1 year ago
If the stigma and fear of being gay is lifted within the black community, there would be NO SUCH THING as being on the "down low." Period.
gombis666 1 year ago
This has got to be the lowest thing a man can put a woman through..To me personally it is disgusting and perverted.Telling your wife or girlfriend that you love them and it just happened once is BS.These men are hiding behind their women .They lie,and sneak around like low life's.And they have the nerve to say but I'm not gay.If you are sexually aroused by men ,YOU ARE GAY.Boys it may take us awhile,but we will find out your sick secret.
LBC672 1 year ago
@LBC672 - If the stigma and fear of being gay is lifted within the black community, there would be NO SUCH THING as being on the "down low." The more we make it uncomfortable for gay black men to be themselves, the more down low you will get.
gombis666 1 year ago
@gombis666
LBC672 1 year ago
oh wow lol why are all down low movies the dood has the name dutch
brightful5 1 year ago
Lawd Jaysuuus!!
cybersurfing30 2 years ago
i'll take all your men :D
AdiBecicVault 2 years ago
some women are getting hiv/aids from men who are not gay and from men who are. put it like this say a women had a husband/boy friend that is gay and he had hiv/aids then she cut him off cause he is gay not knowing that he gave her hiv/aids then she go and have sex with another men and he have sex with another women and now she have hiv/aids that 2nd men is not gay nor did that 2nd women got hiv/aids from a gay men.
dsteed71782 2 years ago
That is right but the bottom line is that it started from that with lie and decit.
sbyers03 2 years ago
Even if it is a scare tactic
it encourages women to know
your partner as much as you can
Nina7672 2 years ago
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LBC672 1 year ago
@Nina7672 I agree with you 100%.
LBC672 1 year ago
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LBC672 1 year ago
emmettmays: Why don't you shut your ignorant ass up?Stupid people like you are the reason the Black race is always the highest in every category of diseases because you focus on the wrong things. Sometimes the best thing you can do is be quiet so you can learn something new.You sound like somebody who was absent from school on the day they taught everything.Maybe you were born without common sense inwhich case they need to put your DL ass in prison if you keep going around living this lifestyle.
WHITESLICK10 2 years ago
DL Black men are cowards and are killing the Black Community due to the high rate of HIV they are giving these unsuspecting sistas. This DL life style is wicked and you can lie to yourself but you can't lie to GOD. Repent of this evil while there is still a little time because GOD is getting ready to clean house. Who i am is not important,but pay attention to what i am telling you. Homosexuality is a unclean spirit that can't be fought with carnal weapons,pray to be delivered from this evil.
DaStr8Truth 2 years ago
u muthafucka christians make me laugh with this religious bullshit .yes its wrong for a guy to decieved a woman but still u aint perfect either bitch
emmettmays 2 years ago
@emmettmays relax and don't get your panties in a knot.Just sit and wait for the lightening bolt to shoot up your DL ass
LBC672 1 year ago
@DaStr8Truth AMEN
LBC672 1 year ago
haha scare tactics! 101!
revemupman 2 years ago
aghhh smh.
EnvelopedInDarkness 2 years ago
this whole DL thing is bullshit. I had to suffer through this crap and NO woman deserves to go through this long line of misleading. If you're a man on the downlow, you dont need to be in a heterosexual relationship. It's not fair to the woman. This is a disgusting act. I worry that there are no good men left because of this shit. I hate it and I hate the person that did it to me. I don't know how to begin forgiveness of that.
ladypipedown 2 years ago 9
Sorry to hear that...its a damn shame.
sav7909 2 years ago
@ladypipedown YES IF A MAN WNATS TO BE STRAIGHT, BE STRAIGHT. IF HE WASNTS TO BE GAY, BE GAY IT'S NOT FIAR THAT THEY FORGE A HETEOROSEXUAL REALATIONSHIP WITH WOMEN AND AT THE SEEM TIME MESS WITH MEN. THEY NEED TO BE HONEST IN THE BEGINNING OF A RELATIONSHIP!
MrTre5670 1 year ago
@MrTre5670 - I agree with you 100% however, one has to ask why they lie. There's a terrible stigma out there that says if you're gay you're less than human, a man, etc. If we can lift the stigma, "down low" would cease to exist.
gombis666 1 year ago
@ladypipedown @ladypipedown I know it's hard for you,but forgiveness is for you not him,don't let him take anymore for from you! ! forgive and let yourself be free and happy!
Bree41125 1 year ago
@ladypipedown I pray for you Sister! I am so sad for your pain...
Queenzarias 1 year ago
@ladypipedown Lady pipe down, you don't know wtf you talking about.
revemupman 1 year ago
@ladypipedown
@ladypipedown
Sweetie I am so sorry that u had to go though that. I really am, I have been where u were 5yrs ago and I know how feeling as well. I was with my so call husband for 7yrs all together. Dated 2 married 5 I was young and silly girl who though everything was great. I should have known something was wrong all the signs were their, but when the DL thing was coming about in the 90's. I did not wanted to believe in that nonsense. I was 1 of those black women that always ---
lauremd 1 year ago
@ladypipedown though that I will know how to spot a gay men when I see them. But I was so wrong, I was sleeping right next to one whenever he was home! That was me but I am sorry it happened to u as well. It really make it hard to trust any man after that without always wondering if the new man in ur life is like that too as well!!!! Sweetie this is the best advise I can give u women to women. I have been their, but please sweetie TRUST IN GOD AND HOLD ON TO GOD
lauremd 1 year ago
@ladypipedown
TRUST IN GOD AND HOLD ON TO GOD BECAUSE HE IS THE ONLY WAY. That's what I had to do to get over the hurt and pain!!! I don't know what ur going though right now, but give it to GOD!!! Try to stay strong "IN JESUS NAME"
lauremd 1 year ago
This is sort of misleading because it makes it seem like black women are getting aids from dl men because they gay but the women are getting aids from these men because they are having UNPROTECTED sex with someone else who just happens to be gay. Gay does not equal AIDS. Unprotected sex can = AIDs. DL men are wrong on an entirely different level as well because of their dishonesty to themselves and to there loved ones. If you are gay or bi just be that. But to be coward and pretend is wrong.
bashe82 2 years ago
thats sick
oholm08 3 years ago
@oholm08 It is sick and repulsive.
LBC672 1 year ago
I find those statistics to be a bit bogus...70% of the women contracted HIV/AIDS? Scare tactics much?
sirsniffy 3 years ago
What's the name of this movie?
hotnumber24 3 years ago
This dl life style isn't anything new it's been around since the bible days, it's just broadcast openly now, it's no need of being afraid to date black men just when meeting and dating like I told my sisters just ask all the right questions and when having sex ya treat everyone as if they are infected protect yoself & by doing this ya protect others. gay or str8.
boilyrics 4 years ago
boilyrics you got that right! The industry is fulla downlow men, gay men, openly gay men and all they do is teach it to the next generation of boys that come into the business. If Tevin Campbell woulda had a girlfriend and play downlow, he woulda still making multi-platinum CD's.
TubeGuest5178 3 years ago
boilyrics I agree with you foreal about that because in the books of Leviticus and in 1Corinthians God made laws against the gay and down low lifestyles.
TubeGuest5178 3 years ago
Damn this movie is gonna be good, i am gonna watch this, its like an epidimic Im scared to date my black men in fear of this.
CrackerHater08 4 years ago
Stupid...i see a lot of people love drama.
masculine31 4 years ago
This movie, The Closet from jengotv, and DL Chronicles from heretv, I want to BADLY see. These are aall real and very intriguing!
Orbot 4 years ago
Looking forward 2 see this soon! Keep it up!
TheBobcatChannel 4 years ago
Tell me this is coming to the big screen. Someone needs to pick this up. The trailer got me hooked!
justjayok 4 years ago
when does the movie come out....it is a must see for all dl men and their wives.
wnolen333 4 years ago
post more please
cleanky 4 years ago
Intersting...
Keezie27 4 years ago
A must watch clip for all women!
karleen2001 4 years ago
@karleen2001 THANK YOU!
MrTre5670 1 year ago