What nonsense ! Men all over the world admire and desire black women.... A black woman can go to the Carribian, Haiti, So America, Africa , Asia. Dominican republic - all over the world and find a man who would love to find a mate for life.. More important to everything is that black men and women both new to get, read, study and learn the Word of God. Try starting with the book of Proverbs, Chapter 31 is addressed to what really makes a woman attractive and worthwhile ! God bless
You can't go back. You get one chance per person per lifetime and that's it. If you go back to a failed relationship all that will happen is that the behaviors that turned one or other person of the relationship in the first place will eventually turn them off again. All that succeeds in doing is wasting everyone time.
After looking at all the misogynistic comments here I can see that there are alot of men who value dumb women. Sad thing is, these are the same men who will be complaining about not having a woman of "substance" who's ignorant and uneducated. She needs to stop worrying about her ex and find someone alot better who is on the same intellectual level as her.
@OpalescentAura He is on the same inellectual level as she is. He got his degree and moved on. She made her choice to dump him. Now he's moved on to something better. The only reason she want him is because no other guy wants her.
@DJGENOTYPE I never said he wasn't on the same intellectual level as she is. I said that she needs to find someone ELSE who also is. Once she stops being so emotionally attached to her ex she will realize how she's been letting her baggage stop her from being successful with other guys.
@DJGENOTYPE Also in regards to the other comments, these men sound very much like they would prefer to have a woman with NO degree at all. I'm sure that even if she had chosen to stay with her man and finish school that way these guys here would still be bashing on her. Look at the top rated comments. These guys just can't stand the idea of a woman wanting to be economically successful. It makes them feel like they are not "needed".
@OpalescentAura I could care less if the woman I am dating has a degree or economically successful. If she is a good woman to me that is all that matters. Most men feel the same as I do. It's the insecure ones that feel that way. Just because she makes more money than you doesn't mean you still cant be there for her emotionally or be able to protect her physically. The men who can't provide this are the ones that feel not "needed".
@DJGENOTYPE I guess that many of the men commenting here are insecure then. Most of their comments suggest that a good woman can't be college educated. I'm not saying you're like this but many of the other commenters sound like members of the taliban the way they bash on women for wanting to work on themselves before getting into a relationship. They aren't just talking about this woman but women in general who want to get an education and have their own money.
@OpalescentAura You've got it backwards. The insecure man cares about your degree. Gives him a sense of security. The secure man does not look for a woman to put food on the table ...only wants her to cook it, and is quite SECURE with his ability to take care of his entire family without her financial contribution. Even if a man is unable to do this ...it IS his desire. My mom NEVER 'needed' to work and neither does my wife. That's the way I want it. She LOVES working but doesn't need to.
@OpalescentAura There is nothing wrong with a woman getting an education. But if she doesn't know how to ballance personal/profesional life then that's where the problems start. This chic in the video decided her professional life was more important than her personal one. Then decided once she got her stuff together he was going to still be around. Not going to happen. He was the one who got dumped. So why should he wait?
@DJGENOTYPE Right, I totally agree that the woman in the video was out of line but honestly, most of the comments are not just talking about her but women in general. These men have a real problem with women choosing to go to school. The top rated comment suggests that women are stupid for wanting to advance themselves in their careers and even went as far as blaming lesbians for the rise in women who don't want to be barefoot and pregnant.
@OpalescentAura Well then they are stupid. But I do have to agree that the rise in lesbians kind of put me off. It just seems there are more black lesbians than there are white. Not total number but percentage per race. Where i'm at they have gay night at one of the clubs I DJ at and there are a lot of beautiful women that show up to hook up with god awful thug looking dykes. I'm not hating, just charging it to the game.
@DJGENOTYPE Gays tend to hang out in certain places which is probably why for you it seems like there are more black lesbians than there are white. Statistics show that there are more white lesbians in this country probably due to the fact that homosexuality is more accepted in the white community. And FYI the number of "out" lesbians in EVERY race is rising due to the fact that they feel comfortable coming out. Doesn't mean there weren't that many before.
@OpalescentAura Yes there are more white lesbians overall because there are just more white women. But when you look at the percentage for each ethnic group ,you will clearly see there are more black lesbians. Like if there are 100 white women, 23% would be gay. If you had 100 black women, 38% would be gay. Probably even higher. I'm not downing them. Cause what they do really doesn't affect me anyway. It just kills me that you have to compete againt men and women for dates
@DJGENOTYPE Well typically you're not going to be competing against men AND women for dates as lesbians aren't attracted to men anyway. Unless you're referring to bisexual women which are a category all to themselves.
@DJGENOTYPE Actually, there aren't that many lesbians in the general population. In fact, there are fewer lesbians than there are gay men. Statistically speaking, gay men make up about 2% of the population whereas lesbians make up 1.5%. I'm not sure how many more black lesbians there are, though I have observed a fair amount of them myself. Still, you don't have to worry about competing with lesbians. Even bi women will ultimately choose to be with men in the end. It's just easier.
@redgirlinbluedresses That has got to be much higher than that come on. I have done shows in clubs where it was considered gay/lesbian night. And 80% of the clubs would be women looking for other women. The dudes there would be straight guys trying to get with these women and fail. For every 10 black women I would say 4 of them would be lesbian.
@DJGENOTYPE I agree with you 100% but what these women are missing that it is VERY easy for a man without a degree to earn MUCH more than a woman with a degree. Men can very easily earn over $100,000/yr on the following job types: prison guards; utility workers; construction trades; refinery operators; longshoremen; crab fishing; plumbing; security; delivery drivers; process servers; even New York garbage collectors earn over $80,000/yr. A degree does NOT equate to high earnings. That is a MYTH
@OpalescentAura Though my wife has a degree now that had absolutely NOTHING to do with my decision to marry her. In fact it was I that allowed her to stop working and finish school but I knew I would never need nor desire her to ever again worry about a JOB unless she really wanted to work. My wife's JOB is being my wife Period! Her successful cellular business (which I set her up in) is her HOBBY as far as I'm concerned. I would never marry a woman who would put her career before her marriage.
A guys mentality: Hot Girl, Durable personality, housework, good night time
we don't care about ur degree and education etc. we want to take care of u as our "gift" we want u to rely on us for a better relation and for a better sense of power..
in return u girls want money from us and quality time
This women has it backwards
The guys gets the degree + money + family in return the women gives him the sex
NOT
The women gets the degree + money + family and in return the guy gives her sex
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA. I LOVE THIS SHIT. HE PLAYED HER ASS! WHAT MAKES HER THINK SHE CAN JUST GET HIM BACK!? BECAUSE SHE HAVE DEGREE!? HAHAHA. PORPS TO THIS GUY FOR BEING A BADASS AND NOT A SUCKER BITCH. KARMA IS A BITCH!! FINANCEE MUTHER FUKER !!!! SHE IS OUT OFF SHAPE, PERHAPS FROM ALL THE STUDIES RIGHT? GET OUT OF HERE
Oh damn! I would be a bit apprehensive about getting involved with a guy who has a gap like that. My special 'lady part' may get stuck in there when he's giving me 'special attention'.
Women are incredibly stupid. And so are the males that sit around watching this crap on TV.
A "degree" is meant to get you a JOB, not a MAN. American women are so incredibly stupid that its not even funny anymore. They make my stomach turn everytime I see them.
The degree is so when so fucks you real good, and pretends to "love" you, she can more easily take you for everything you have. Women dont even need a reason for a divorce now. And she can take EVERYTHING you have AND 50% of what you make in the future, alimony, AND child support. Marriage only benifits the woman, and the man get a tiny tax break, which the woman is going to spend anyway. No thanks.
Typical Christian girl, thinks that giving a man blueballs is a virtue, and bag-lady Sally approves.
Did she really think this man is going to not going to be fucking anybody in over a two year period?
The reason she wants him back, is because nobody else is going to play that Victorian Era bullshit. Dates with no kissing, etc? WTF? If I need another friend, I'll buy a dog.
The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid70s.
LOL look at how proud she is at her cactions while complaining not to get the result she wanted. LMAO very rational....NOT! I hope she withers away in her office and dies lonely and childless.
WHO the hell cares about your degree?? Are you kind and respectful, sexually submissive, and just in general sweet and sexy and never EVER "strong"?? because that is what we want in a partner, you can go fulfill your potential on your own time.
he moved to california, where the women are hotter and more diverse. you dumped him for doing the right thing..getting a degree and a pursing a career. not you expect him to take you back now that you realized you made a mistake! MAN BLACK WOMEN ARE SOOO ARROGANT, AND DELUSIONAL. 70% OF THEM WILL STAY SINGLE.
African American women come to Kenya. There is plenty of sharp mature hardworking men. Beautiful country, our economy is growing, our middle class rising. Watch "Middle Class Sprawls in Nairobi Kenya" by worldfocusonline here /watch?v=HyNztfyen7Q
I hate these shows, typical women bashing men, crying about what they want and their life ambitions first, you got a degree so what? Do you expect the mr white knight to come and swoop you in, aswell as that a women will look down on a man and reject hes ass if he simply doesnt have a degree or in a top job.
@anikinippon ???? LOL... ??? Wow! Well, actually I was _agreeing_ with your comment but ...rather I was or not, WHAT possible incentive would I have to "impress" YOU with _anything_! WHY?
@iiidol I put it in quotations because it would be something I would say in a situation while talking to a female. I laughed because it's something I would never say, sarcasm.
In Germany, if you don't have a degree, you will never marry a good woman and you will never get a job. In Germany, you only get a job in Chemistry if you have phd. Maybe you can get a got man who works at McDonalds. Ifcourse one can sex from most places but that not what you want?
@Ancientafrica Sorry but, I lived in Germany. It wasn't true then and it's not true now. A degree is NOT necessary to get a job in Germany or ANYWHERE else. Also, men marry "good women" in everyday in Germany. And most people with degrees earn very small paychecks. You are repeating an untrue myth. The smartest people CREATE jobs and and master something that interests them and control their own destinies and a degree has NOTHING to do with that.
As a man I can say the men commenting on this video got some nerve to be pissed at the female for breaking off the engagement. Fellas if your woman left to another state hours away to go work you know damn well you wouldn't even wait a whole 6 months for your woman to come back before you started messing with another female. Hell I'll admit I'd break it off with a woman the minute she told me she was going out of state and wouldn't be back for 6 months. That's a long time for a man.
@datlancboi018 What man honestly cares what a woman's job is? As long as she's supportive and helps keep a relationship most guys would've been okay with their wives or girlfriends working or not. She's got a right to break off the engagement for whatever reason she wants, but her assumptions in that the relationship can be brought back on her whim really lacks some critical thought. Why should the guy go back to a woman who dumped him for work? How should a guy feel knowing that?
@KidWindstorm I feel what you're saying she shouldn't have expected him to want to get back with her. But what I'm saying is people on here are giving her hell for leaving him for being gone too long when as a man I know for a FACT most men wouldn't wait around for their woman to come back after 6 months to a year most likely a man would cheat on her until she got back or just broke up with her altogether so how can you blame her for breaking up with a man who left her by herself for a year?
@datlancboi018 A man would cheat what kind of bullshit is that? Most men who are actually love and loyal to their women wouldnt need to cheat, but of course in your world a women going off a long time wouldnt cheat wouldnt only men who go off for a long while, the reality is that men in the 21st century have become poodles to womens needs instead of thinking about their own,
@ThinkingAgent12 i agree with the men becoming poodles comment. seen it with my friends and family. But can't say that I know too many men who wouldn't stray if their woman left to another state hours away for 6 months. A month at the most after that naaaaah.
@datlancboi018 But the reality is? Why should a man wait for hes women to come back im just saying that if you arent pussy whipped so much you wouldnt need to chase after women and risk the relationship your in at the moment, Im not saying that cheating doesnt happen but people are making it seem that only men shit and they shud get the blame for it here.
@ThinkingAgent12 And I can't argue with you there. Me personally like I stated in a comment earlier I'd be out the minute she told me she was moving that far. But unfortunately I can't say the same for a lot of other dudes today.
@KidWindstorm At least she had the decency to break it off. i Hear stories all the time about military wives who just cheat while their husbands are off in another foreign land and leave them for another man. Can ya blame em? I know I wouldn't sit around waitin around on my lover to get back I don't care how much I love her.
@datlancboi018 Well that's a whole different argument, and one that I have no issue with. She did what she had to do, I commend her for that, and he did what he was expected to do as well...
Women will always change after they get the ring, never co-sign anything with a woman, watch out for marriage fraud with illegal immigrants, avoid long distance relationships, don't live together, never get married, avoid single mothers with kids still at home/it's a package deal, invest at least 10% of your income instead of spending it on women, educate other men about Tom Leykis, always use condoms, be less interested in her, never sign anything legal with a woman, use coupons when dining.
Sally at the end is a ridiculous troll. This guy's girlfriend dumps him -- calls off the wedding. Now that he's moved on, she decides the best way to win him back is to pressure him on national television. When he spurns her advances and confesses to already having someone new, Sally comforts the spurned women with "I just think he's a player, hun".
It's crazy how Sally tries to make the man look bad. She's the one that dumped him. Now she comes crawling back now that he's moved on. If it was me I would have laughed at her ass. She looks pathetic
@e84fresh Exactly!!!! Sally trying to make it seem like HE'S the player yet SHE is the one who broke it off. So what was he supposed to do? Not fuck anyone he rest of his life? Point is. She lost out and probably is dating a white woman.
as a black female i hate to hear women act as if because they have degree or a high level of education that makes them the ultimate catch. many act superior because of this and thats a turn off , and when they date they tend not to have a relationship, its a i have more than you, or i have more status. its a game they play, and they play till they play themselves out
@Thegreatest8428 You mean he wasted his precious time on her. She had him and broke it off with him just because she wanted to do what she wanted to do THEN expected him to be there waiting - something she couldn't do for him.
Men, don't waste your time on these types. Good men, let alone good BLACK men, are hard to find, so when one of these types of women pass up on good opportunity or abuse their situation, find someone who'd appreciate you. Let them wallow in their poor choices.
How the fuck is he a player she dump him. How was she suppose to know she'd want Him back . She had a good man and let him go . I guess true what they say you don't know what you have till It's gone.
@Thegreatest8428 I highly agree more & more stupid women need to waste their prime reproductive years following a lifestyle propagated to them by a bunch of manting hating bull dykes who just wanted to increase their dating pool. The human race needs idiots to weed themselves out of the gene pool. Have another cup of Star Bucks, U DESERVE IT, U GO GURL!
@TiffyBear said [[Exactly it's like you can't win with men. They talk shit about gold diggers, women with an education and a career.]]
Honey, what part of using sex as a weapon do you not understand? Life with her would be nothing but blue balls and hard work. Who the hell is going to sentence himself to a life of that? What for? Maybe she wants him to love her for her, not her pussy, but her pussy is PART OF HER.
that's why there are so many single women ... all playing hard to get like they're some fucking celebrity or something ... here's something new for you: no sex = no man, keep that in mind next time you come and cry on sally ... if you don't give your man sex, he'll always get it somewhere else no matter how much he loves you ...
@NoDrkButtsWanted You got that shit right. I'm in college and I still say fuck a college and the pre-programmed shit they indoctrinate these weak ass fools with. The family should be first period! And I know that sounds crazy nowadays but we have thrived for thousands of years and all of a sudden these people come along and dictate the very core of our social structure and dynamics?? Wake the fuck up!!
Thats women for you, She shows total disregard for his feelings. Breaking off the engagement will have devasted that man BUT a year later he is seeing someone else and he is a player...? You cant have it both ways, congrats femenism and women like you; congratulations on the breakdown of society and social decay, a new generation of fatherless children.
@gregreg123ify EXACTLY! If he was a playa he would've have played with her by getting back with her without even informing her of the lady that he was dating! Some women can really be ridiculous at times. SMH
I HATE THIS TITLE! Unless your degree is in cooking, why the hell would any man be interested in your degree as an incentive for marriage? Low civilisation ideas of materialism as dogma can never be healthy for romance.
See, this is what happens when people make "rash" choices and prefer money over love. And how the hell does Sally knows that Latisha is "special?" And I wouldn't want to remain friends with an ex....it wouldn't be fair to my current mate. I am not saying that Latisha isn't a prize, but she just can't exit someones life and then come back when you want too whether it's during Christmas or the new century or whatever. Love is not something that should be taken for granted...NEVER.
Women listen up, you don't have to "put out" in order to get or keep a man or even to influence the man to fall deeply in love with you. You must have standards, you must love God and yourself first and foremost, you must have your own life that doesn't include chasing after a man and making him your everything in life and you can't put up with too much foolishness either because, men will test a woman just to see how far he can go with his foolishness.
@mikesomething Sex is NOT something that you MUST do...it's not a "need." Water, food and air are needs...not sex. If a guy isn't willing to wait, that means he wasn't serious to begin with. Not wanting to share your temple with someone doesn't make you weird by any sense of the word.
@RunfromtheHeathen Did you NOT understand what I wrote? Stop responding to me b/c it's obvious I don't give a rats ass about what you think or believe. GET SOME BIZ FOOL!!!
wait a minute...sally says weve got 11 year olds who come on this show who put out then the audience erupts in a cheer? i dont understand that at all, something is wrong with that to me
@fervent66 thats true because bw try to play both roles you cant be the man and the woman theres only 1 dick in this relationship and its mine im the man youre the woman know your role! you cant be king shit and motherly at the same time either one or the other. for all bw out there tryin to play a man role either get another woman or sit the fuck down cus a REAL bm aint havn that shit. your mother im father your nuture and im the enforcer. pick 1
Sallie Lattie aint tryna hurr all dat dere. lmao. she got some damn balls bringing that man on the show but least he had tact. he is not a player he is a man with common sense.
There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
You put your jobs, education and ambitions ahead of us in priority, but then you wonder why we don't feel any romantic or emotional attachment to you? Wow...
@melbyRick Why would a man be interested in a woman whose attitude is "I don't need a man! men aren't shit!" ? As far as I'm concerned these women deserve to be put back on the shelf.
@TruthandJustice101 You got that right. I think the majority of these feminist modern women will be replaced by prosthetics, to be quite honest. The fleshlight is getting a lot more popular, and the Japanese have been making amazing progress with synthetic dolls and androids. All of those nights you put us in the "doghouse" are coming back to haunt you, Bitches. Now you'll be the ones "on the outs"... and I think it's hilarious. I honestly can't wait to see the drama...
@melbyRick now dats real shit family. Black women are ignorant to the fact the the so-called white establishment will never give us the opportunities (as a whole) that they give black women because they can be easily controlled by media and other influences.
But in targeting them as a source of power within our communities has created an imbalance in our seeds because they are only being raised less than half the time by the actual parent.
@dunk602 Oh, the black race has definitely been fucked over completely by the establishment, that's true; but they have been fucking over the white race just as hard or more, and they are doing it to everybody. Just because the government may be full of rich white men, does not mean that they care about the middle-class and poor. And half of the people in charge are ZIONIST JEWS anyway, so there is that of course. Listen to what Farakhan has to say about them.
@melbyRick Thanks bro. I think it's imperative that women pay attention to this clip and try to understand the dilemma. None of this craziness started to happen until women took off their dresses and put on pants so to speak. Now look at the attire these women are wearing to work? Even the business clothes are revealing. We need a complete revamp of the sexes altogether cuz heads aint right these days real conversation. Peace fam!
@melbyRick This is why sites like OKCupid are FILLED with highly educated single women in their mid to late 30's. We were put on a checklist last... now they find that the only person that was "last" was them.
Polygamy is the answer. We must return to our original Black standard of family. Black women have always outnumbered us but prior to slavery this was never an issue. The issue is attempting to attach white standards to black love. So through 400 years of slavery, jim crow, and an overall oppressive society has conditioned the minds of black women to believe that they have to have their man all to themselves. Polygamy would also solve the infidelity issues. Black culture for Black people.
HAHAHAHAH I just laughed out loud when in the few 1st seconds reading her description:
"DESPERATE to have her EX-FIANCÉ back for the New Year."
The show is just making plain fun of her for the audience and viewers to see. She just looks pathetic. Not even sure one should feel sad for her. Get what you deserve.
I actually think that this went rather well, as far as these TV shows go. Sally tries to get controversy going - or makes a misguided attempt to console her - but I think Latish and Omari were as mature & respectful about the situation as they could be on a TV show.
It was naive for her to hope that he had sat around waiting for her to finish up her business and everything would magically pick up where they left off... but she seems like a decent woman.
soon as i saw it was the sally show..and this sista..telling sally she is grateful...i knew to cut it off...download a Farrakhan video...or something constructive..why you watchin this...?..silly folk
Men are held to very strict standards from women today, even so much as getting a nice job that is a good distance away is too much for them.
Everything must be perfect down to the most minor details or they will lose interest. Due to such standards many men can't win, no matter what they do they are still going to lose.
Should there be any surprise now that men are beginning to go their own way and swear off marriage and even women all together?
@ManSpeakOut Good question! And also a very true one-I never thought i'd live to see the day. I am an attractive, intelligent black man and I used to have no problems meeting women but I have to sadly cop to the fact that all that has changed drastically over the last few years. I dated some really f'd up women who were all manipulative and held these same attitudes. So sad what's happening to us?
This Black Heffa is crazy as cat shit a Black Man doesn't get any breaks she is upset because he would rather get a job and be gainfully employed first before they got married which makes sense. But if he had no job then this crazy heffa probably would of called him a loser the female race is a very strange race of human indeed. She drops him he moved on and did better for himself now she wants him back but it's to late serves her stupid mixed up ass right.
@temickab No you shut the fuck up you black ass heffa your just upset because just like the filthy scag in this video you are probably just like her selfish ass as well!...So blah! blah! blah! that you silly heffa!
Yeah it is sickening how she actually expects him to dump the new girl just because she realized she is stuck in the past and can't move on.She made a choice and should not have even entertained trying to get him back on TV as if he was waiting for her with open arms.Having a degree or education, on its own, doesn't make you a better wife than any other woman.Being fickle and not-flexible are the worst things.Life is full of changing circumstances that you have to work around!
Sally's trying to paint the woman as innocent and the man a dog. She ended the relationship as she had every right to do, but she can't expect him to be waiting. Even if he was single she shouldn't expect him to just take her back. Sally was so stupid for calling him a player for moving on with his life. What should he had done -- dropped his then girlfriend to take back a woman that broke their engagement? Crazy.
I like how she calls him a player for not dumping his current girlfriend to get back with his first. SHE quit on him, not the other way around. What the heck was he supposed to do? So now he is just supposed to break his current girl's heart and go back to his first? Talk about double standard.
This video is a joke. After calling the wedding off and losing contact with him, she just takes the ring off and tries to hand it over to him like saying '' it is your duty to put it back,because it suits me now, and since I love you, you don't have a will or opinion. Just do it.'' She's unbelievably selfish and taking him for granted. Sally says she's special, I think she's an idiot that made herself a complete fool on TV. That is, if this is a true situation,which I think is not.(actors)
a year or 2 past and she finish college and wants her guy back.
but the guy has a new girl
and he's a player???
um how so? u left him what should he do stand there like a lost puppy and think she will come back for me i just know it.
A year has past and he's still thinking. She still wants me i know it.... then a new girl who comes in maybe better then this girl and no word from the ex and he's bad??? god i hate her.
What nonsense ! Men all over the world admire and desire black women.... A black woman can go to the Carribian, Haiti, So America, Africa , Asia. Dominican republic - all over the world and find a man who would love to find a mate for life.. More important to everything is that black men and women both new to get, read, study and learn the Word of God. Try starting with the book of Proverbs, Chapter 31 is addressed to what really makes a woman attractive and worthwhile ! God bless
shieldsff 15 hours ago
She's a bitch plain and simple. You don't have to get a degree to get a man.
SuprSlowMo 1 day ago
You can't go back. You get one chance per person per lifetime and that's it. If you go back to a failed relationship all that will happen is that the behaviors that turned one or other person of the relationship in the first place will eventually turn them off again. All that succeeds in doing is wasting everyone time.
Tadgh78 6 days ago
After looking at all the misogynistic comments here I can see that there are alot of men who value dumb women. Sad thing is, these are the same men who will be complaining about not having a woman of "substance" who's ignorant and uneducated. She needs to stop worrying about her ex and find someone alot better who is on the same intellectual level as her.
OpalescentAura 1 week ago
@OpalescentAura He is on the same inellectual level as she is. He got his degree and moved on. She made her choice to dump him. Now he's moved on to something better. The only reason she want him is because no other guy wants her.
DJGENOTYPE 1 week ago
@DJGENOTYPE I never said he wasn't on the same intellectual level as she is. I said that she needs to find someone ELSE who also is. Once she stops being so emotionally attached to her ex she will realize how she's been letting her baggage stop her from being successful with other guys.
OpalescentAura 1 week ago
@DJGENOTYPE Also in regards to the other comments, these men sound very much like they would prefer to have a woman with NO degree at all. I'm sure that even if she had chosen to stay with her man and finish school that way these guys here would still be bashing on her. Look at the top rated comments. These guys just can't stand the idea of a woman wanting to be economically successful. It makes them feel like they are not "needed".
OpalescentAura 1 week ago
@OpalescentAura I could care less if the woman I am dating has a degree or economically successful. If she is a good woman to me that is all that matters. Most men feel the same as I do. It's the insecure ones that feel that way. Just because she makes more money than you doesn't mean you still cant be there for her emotionally or be able to protect her physically. The men who can't provide this are the ones that feel not "needed".
DJGENOTYPE 1 week ago
@DJGENOTYPE I guess that many of the men commenting here are insecure then. Most of their comments suggest that a good woman can't be college educated. I'm not saying you're like this but many of the other commenters sound like members of the taliban the way they bash on women for wanting to work on themselves before getting into a relationship. They aren't just talking about this woman but women in general who want to get an education and have their own money.
OpalescentAura 1 week ago
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@OpalescentAura You've got it backwards. The insecure man cares about your degree. Gives him a sense of security. The secure man does not look for a woman to put food on the table ...only wants her to cook it, and is quite SECURE with his ability to take care of his entire family without her financial contribution. Even if a man is unable to do this ...it IS his desire. My mom NEVER 'needed' to work and neither does my wife. That's the way I want it. She LOVES working but doesn't need to.
iiidol 6 days ago
@OpalescentAura There is nothing wrong with a woman getting an education. But if she doesn't know how to ballance personal/profesional life then that's where the problems start. This chic in the video decided her professional life was more important than her personal one. Then decided once she got her stuff together he was going to still be around. Not going to happen. He was the one who got dumped. So why should he wait?
DJGENOTYPE 5 days ago
@DJGENOTYPE Right, I totally agree that the woman in the video was out of line but honestly, most of the comments are not just talking about her but women in general. These men have a real problem with women choosing to go to school. The top rated comment suggests that women are stupid for wanting to advance themselves in their careers and even went as far as blaming lesbians for the rise in women who don't want to be barefoot and pregnant.
OpalescentAura 5 days ago
@OpalescentAura Well then they are stupid. But I do have to agree that the rise in lesbians kind of put me off. It just seems there are more black lesbians than there are white. Not total number but percentage per race. Where i'm at they have gay night at one of the clubs I DJ at and there are a lot of beautiful women that show up to hook up with god awful thug looking dykes. I'm not hating, just charging it to the game.
DJGENOTYPE 4 days ago
@DJGENOTYPE Gays tend to hang out in certain places which is probably why for you it seems like there are more black lesbians than there are white. Statistics show that there are more white lesbians in this country probably due to the fact that homosexuality is more accepted in the white community. And FYI the number of "out" lesbians in EVERY race is rising due to the fact that they feel comfortable coming out. Doesn't mean there weren't that many before.
OpalescentAura 4 days ago
@OpalescentAura Yes there are more white lesbians overall because there are just more white women. But when you look at the percentage for each ethnic group ,you will clearly see there are more black lesbians. Like if there are 100 white women, 23% would be gay. If you had 100 black women, 38% would be gay. Probably even higher. I'm not downing them. Cause what they do really doesn't affect me anyway. It just kills me that you have to compete againt men and women for dates
DJGENOTYPE 3 days ago
@DJGENOTYPE Well typically you're not going to be competing against men AND women for dates as lesbians aren't attracted to men anyway. Unless you're referring to bisexual women which are a category all to themselves.
OpalescentAura 3 days ago
@DJGENOTYPE Actually, there aren't that many lesbians in the general population. In fact, there are fewer lesbians than there are gay men. Statistically speaking, gay men make up about 2% of the population whereas lesbians make up 1.5%. I'm not sure how many more black lesbians there are, though I have observed a fair amount of them myself. Still, you don't have to worry about competing with lesbians. Even bi women will ultimately choose to be with men in the end. It's just easier.
redgirlinbluedresses 1 day ago
@redgirlinbluedresses That has got to be much higher than that come on. I have done shows in clubs where it was considered gay/lesbian night. And 80% of the clubs would be women looking for other women. The dudes there would be straight guys trying to get with these women and fail. For every 10 black women I would say 4 of them would be lesbian.
DJGENOTYPE 1 day ago
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@DJGENOTYPE I agree with you 100% but what these women are missing that it is VERY easy for a man without a degree to earn MUCH more than a woman with a degree. Men can very easily earn over $100,000/yr on the following job types: prison guards; utility workers; construction trades; refinery operators; longshoremen; crab fishing; plumbing; security; delivery drivers; process servers; even New York garbage collectors earn over $80,000/yr. A degree does NOT equate to high earnings. That is a MYTH
iiidol 6 days ago
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@OpalescentAura Though my wife has a degree now that had absolutely NOTHING to do with my decision to marry her. In fact it was I that allowed her to stop working and finish school but I knew I would never need nor desire her to ever again worry about a JOB unless she really wanted to work. My wife's JOB is being my wife Period! Her successful cellular business (which I set her up in) is her HOBBY as far as I'm concerned. I would never marry a woman who would put her career before her marriage.
iiidol 6 days ago
what makes that bitch think that the guy wants her back?
TrueBlueCanuck 1 week ago
A guys mentality: Hot Girl, Durable personality, housework, good night time
we don't care about ur degree and education etc. we want to take care of u as our "gift" we want u to rely on us for a better relation and for a better sense of power..
in return u girls want money from us and quality time
This women has it backwards
The guys gets the degree + money + family in return the women gives him the sex
NOT
The women gets the degree + money + family and in return the guy gives her sex
StreamerVideo 1 week ago
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA. I LOVE THIS SHIT. HE PLAYED HER ASS! WHAT MAKES HER THINK SHE CAN JUST GET HIM BACK!? BECAUSE SHE HAVE DEGREE!? HAHAHA. PORPS TO THIS GUY FOR BEING A BADASS AND NOT A SUCKER BITCH. KARMA IS A BITCH!! FINANCEE MUTHER FUKER !!!! SHE IS OUT OFF SHAPE, PERHAPS FROM ALL THE STUDIES RIGHT? GET OUT OF HERE
JimmyCasserole 1 week ago
What does the degree have to do with getting a man?
afinitimyob 1 week ago
Oh damn! I would be a bit apprehensive about getting involved with a guy who has a gap like that. My special 'lady part' may get stuck in there when he's giving me 'special attention'.
honeybaker1 1 week ago 2
@honeybaker1 euuw hahaha
ForestElfQueen 1 week ago
Women are incredibly stupid. And so are the males that sit around watching this crap on TV.
A "degree" is meant to get you a JOB, not a MAN. American women are so incredibly stupid that its not even funny anymore. They make my stomach turn everytime I see them.
Shehasnomorals 1 week ago
The degree is so when so fucks you real good, and pretends to "love" you, she can more easily take you for everything you have. Women dont even need a reason for a divorce now. And she can take EVERYTHING you have AND 50% of what you make in the future, alimony, AND child support. Marriage only benifits the woman, and the man get a tiny tax break, which the woman is going to spend anyway. No thanks.
analyzingfunny 1 week ago
This whole time I was pissed because the audience were so annoying were their sound effects but I LMAO when Sally owned them into silence @6:54
HumanLife52627 2 weeks ago
Who cares if she has a degree.
NoMorThanMost 2 weeks ago 3
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Typical Christian girl, thinks that giving a man blueballs is a virtue, and bag-lady Sally approves.
Did she really think this man is going to not going to be fucking anybody in over a two year period?
The reason she wants him back, is because nobody else is going to play that Victorian Era bullshit. Dates with no kissing, etc? WTF? If I need another friend, I'll buy a dog.
LucisFerre1 2 weeks ago
Sally, is one disrespectful bitch, because this guy doesn't want this chick, she starts calling him a player
blac2black 2 weeks ago 12
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The true core of the problem is todays ultra-feminist black grandmothers who rebelled and went from being strong black women who were the rock of their families to being loud and extremely proud strong totally independent gangsta b****es who have extremely warped concepts of strength and masculinity.
As is very concisely explained in the book called "The Black Girl Curse" no one had ever heard of strong totally independent black women before the advent of mass govt assistance in the mid70s.
pc0p1mp 2 weeks ago
LOL look at how proud she is at her cactions while complaining not to get the result she wanted. LMAO very rational....NOT! I hope she withers away in her office and dies lonely and childless.
LackadaisicalE 2 weeks ago
WHO the hell cares about your degree?? Are you kind and respectful, sexually submissive, and just in general sweet and sexy and never EVER "strong"?? because that is what we want in a partner, you can go fulfill your potential on your own time.
LackadaisicalE 2 weeks ago
he moved to california, where the women are hotter and more diverse. you dumped him for doing the right thing..getting a degree and a pursing a career. not you expect him to take you back now that you realized you made a mistake! MAN BLACK WOMEN ARE SOOO ARROGANT, AND DELUSIONAL. 70% OF THEM WILL STAY SINGLE.
mrcharles007 3 weeks ago
@mrcharles007 One can only hope so, we dont need these kind of women to breed and raise idiot kids.
LackadaisicalE 2 weeks ago
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African American women come to Kenya. There is plenty of sharp mature hardworking men. Beautiful country, our economy is growing, our middle class rising. Watch "Middle Class Sprawls in Nairobi Kenya" by worldfocusonline here /watch?v=HyNztfyen7Q
drsugarcane 3 weeks ago
I hope she found happiness..
Xirus5 3 weeks ago
I hate these shows, typical women bashing men, crying about what they want and their life ambitions first, you got a degree so what? Do you expect the mr white knight to come and swoop you in, aswell as that a women will look down on a man and reject hes ass if he simply doesnt have a degree or in a top job.
ThinkingAgent12 3 weeks ago
these shows are old....niggas aint trippin off this shit no more
half of these women are lesbians now and solved their own
problem which is good cause it eliminates the single parent
family shit & garnished check court bullshit.
Beware of the superficial love being offered out here today.
That shit is just a distraction from what you need to be focused
on. People are in school bettering themselves and growing but
that relationship shit can hinder your personal growth if it isnt
working. Beware
DoomCity202 3 weeks ago
The title is as dumb as "I got my high school diploma, where is my woman?"
anikinippon 3 weeks ago 3
@anikinippon I must agree. WHAT the hell does a degree have to do with getting a man? What man says ...I'm looking for a wife who has a degree?
iiidol 1 week ago 3
@iiidol Yea, hahahahaha "Please, impress me more with your brain power"
anikinippon 1 week ago
@anikinippon ???? LOL... ??? Wow! Well, actually I was _agreeing_ with your comment but ...rather I was or not, WHAT possible incentive would I have to "impress" YOU with _anything_! WHY?
iiidol 1 week ago
@iiidol I put it in quotations because it would be something I would say in a situation while talking to a female. I laughed because it's something I would never say, sarcasm.
anikinippon 1 week ago
@iiidol nobody!
crangdaniel 1 week ago
@iiidol
In Germany, if you don't have a degree, you will never marry a good woman and you will never get a job. In Germany, you only get a job in Chemistry if you have phd. Maybe you can get a got man who works at McDonalds. Ifcourse one can sex from most places but that not what you want?
Ancientafrica 6 days ago
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@Ancientafrica Sorry but, I lived in Germany. It wasn't true then and it's not true now. A degree is NOT necessary to get a job in Germany or ANYWHERE else. Also, men marry "good women" in everyday in Germany. And most people with degrees earn very small paychecks. You are repeating an untrue myth. The smartest people CREATE jobs and and master something that interests them and control their own destinies and a degree has NOTHING to do with that.
iiidol 6 days ago
So where are they now?
anamneses28 4 weeks ago
As a man I can say the men commenting on this video got some nerve to be pissed at the female for breaking off the engagement. Fellas if your woman left to another state hours away to go work you know damn well you wouldn't even wait a whole 6 months for your woman to come back before you started messing with another female. Hell I'll admit I'd break it off with a woman the minute she told me she was going out of state and wouldn't be back for 6 months. That's a long time for a man.
datlancboi018 4 weeks ago
@datlancboi018 What man honestly cares what a woman's job is? As long as she's supportive and helps keep a relationship most guys would've been okay with their wives or girlfriends working or not. She's got a right to break off the engagement for whatever reason she wants, but her assumptions in that the relationship can be brought back on her whim really lacks some critical thought. Why should the guy go back to a woman who dumped him for work? How should a guy feel knowing that?
KidWindstorm 3 weeks ago
@KidWindstorm I feel what you're saying she shouldn't have expected him to want to get back with her. But what I'm saying is people on here are giving her hell for leaving him for being gone too long when as a man I know for a FACT most men wouldn't wait around for their woman to come back after 6 months to a year most likely a man would cheat on her until she got back or just broke up with her altogether so how can you blame her for breaking up with a man who left her by herself for a year?
datlancboi018 3 weeks ago
@datlancboi018 A man would cheat what kind of bullshit is that? Most men who are actually love and loyal to their women wouldnt need to cheat, but of course in your world a women going off a long time wouldnt cheat wouldnt only men who go off for a long while, the reality is that men in the 21st century have become poodles to womens needs instead of thinking about their own,
ThinkingAgent12 3 weeks ago
@ThinkingAgent12 i agree with the men becoming poodles comment. seen it with my friends and family. But can't say that I know too many men who wouldn't stray if their woman left to another state hours away for 6 months. A month at the most after that naaaaah.
datlancboi018 3 weeks ago
@datlancboi018 But the reality is? Why should a man wait for hes women to come back im just saying that if you arent pussy whipped so much you wouldnt need to chase after women and risk the relationship your in at the moment, Im not saying that cheating doesnt happen but people are making it seem that only men shit and they shud get the blame for it here.
ThinkingAgent12 3 weeks ago
@ThinkingAgent12 And I can't argue with you there. Me personally like I stated in a comment earlier I'd be out the minute she told me she was moving that far. But unfortunately I can't say the same for a lot of other dudes today.
datlancboi018 3 weeks ago
@KidWindstorm At least she had the decency to break it off. i Hear stories all the time about military wives who just cheat while their husbands are off in another foreign land and leave them for another man. Can ya blame em? I know I wouldn't sit around waitin around on my lover to get back I don't care how much I love her.
datlancboi018 3 weeks ago
@datlancboi018 Well that's a whole different argument, and one that I have no issue with. She did what she had to do, I commend her for that, and he did what he was expected to do as well...
KidWindstorm 3 weeks ago
@datlancboi018 If she really loved him or wanted him or whatever, but she would've never broke it off. Consider that.
KidWindstorm 3 weeks ago
What is this, pantomime? I'm tempted to think that if that old lady farted, the audience would clap and cheer.
difficultbastard 4 weeks ago 2
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Women will always change after they get the ring, never co-sign anything with a woman, watch out for marriage fraud with illegal immigrants, avoid long distance relationships, don't live together, never get married, avoid single mothers with kids still at home/it's a package deal, invest at least 10% of your income instead of spending it on women, educate other men about Tom Leykis, always use condoms, be less interested in her, never sign anything legal with a woman, use coupons when dining.
dontgetmarried999 4 weeks ago
Sally at the end is a ridiculous troll. This guy's girlfriend dumps him -- calls off the wedding. Now that he's moved on, she decides the best way to win him back is to pressure him on national television. When he spurns her advances and confesses to already having someone new, Sally comforts the spurned women with "I just think he's a player, hun".
PaulGrantDesigns 1 month ago 2
It's crazy how Sally tries to make the man look bad. She's the one that dumped him. Now she comes crawling back now that he's moved on. If it was me I would have laughed at her ass. She looks pathetic
e84fresh 1 month ago
@e84fresh Exactly!!!! Sally trying to make it seem like HE'S the player yet SHE is the one who broke it off. So what was he supposed to do? Not fuck anyone he rest of his life? Point is. She lost out and probably is dating a white woman.
DJGENOTYPE 1 month ago
@84doll Exactly. They're ignorant
e84fresh 1 month ago
as a black female i hate to hear women act as if because they have degree or a high level of education that makes them the ultimate catch. many act superior because of this and thats a turn off , and when they date they tend not to have a relationship, its a i have more than you, or i have more status. its a game they play, and they play till they play themselves out
84doll 1 month ago
@84doll I think most women have forgotten what men generally want.
marianasreality 4 weeks ago
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@marianasreality said [[I think most women have forgotten what men generally want.]]
...PUSSY
LucisFerre1 2 weeks ago
@Thegreatest8428 You mean he wasted his precious time on her. She had him and broke it off with him just because she wanted to do what she wanted to do THEN expected him to be there waiting - something she couldn't do for him.
Men, don't waste your time on these types. Good men, let alone good BLACK men, are hard to find, so when one of these types of women pass up on good opportunity or abuse their situation, find someone who'd appreciate you. Let them wallow in their poor choices.
OmniDaAngel 1 month ago
How the fuck is he a player she dump him. How was she suppose to know she'd want Him back . She had a good man and let him go . I guess true what they say you don't know what you have till It's gone.
TheAllAmerican2012 1 month ago
The only thing she did wrong was not wait for him
Zikomo7 1 month ago
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WHY would a man EVER want to get married? What's in it for a man??
A man has no legal recourse if a marriage ends. He won't get access to his kids. He'll have alimony up the ass. It's NOT worth it!
A single man has ALL the power. He can ENJOY life as opposed to putting up with some uptight, nagging bitch trying to be his momma.
mikelorenz121 1 month ago
@Thegreatest8428 I highly agree more & more stupid women need to waste their prime reproductive years following a lifestyle propagated to them by a bunch of manting hating bull dykes who just wanted to increase their dating pool. The human race needs idiots to weed themselves out of the gene pool. Have another cup of Star Bucks, U DESERVE IT, U GO GURL!
6evorev6 1 month ago 6
How is he a player? He should have to stick around for her waiting for a day that may never come, otherwise he is a jerk?
mrgimp420 1 month ago 5
@Thegreatest8428 Oh and if you think a man is going to like you more because you got a fancy degree, boy do you have much to learn.
Men are not hypergamous, we don't care about what education you have, we look for different things in our mates then women do.
ManSpeakOut 1 month ago
@Thegreatest8428 What so a man is a loser if he makes less then you, or because he is not rich and successful?
If so, when will women like you stop valuing men by only what figures they bring home?
Hate being treated as sex objects?
Well we men hate being treated as objects you can get money from.
We are fed up being treated as ATM machines and as robots who you think are suppose to do nothing but be workhorses and make money.
ManSpeakOut 1 month ago 5
Your NIGGER is fucking a white chick, lol.
TheFeministWarrior 1 month ago
What's wrong with a woman putter career first? At least she won't be a gold-digger that depends on her man's money. So many haters here.
carminav25 1 month ago
@carminav25 Exactly it's like you can't win with men. They talk shit about gold diggers, women with an education and a career.
TiffyBear 2 weeks ago
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@TiffyBear said [[Exactly it's like you can't win with men. They talk shit about gold diggers, women with an education and a career.]]
Honey, what part of using sex as a weapon do you not understand? Life with her would be nothing but blue balls and hard work. Who the hell is going to sentence himself to a life of that? What for? Maybe she wants him to love her for her, not her pussy, but her pussy is PART OF HER.
LucisFerre1 2 weeks ago
He probably started to get some nookie! XD
Luv8sU213 1 month ago
How is he a PLAYER? SHE dumped him, he moved on....simple as that. He wasn't obligated to wait around for her. Jeez....
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Lilliandandy 1 month ago
girl please! they dnt even know where they at.
cherysenixon 1 month ago
THAT UGLY ASS NIGGA SHOULD FEEL LUCKY
AlizeCiz 1 month ago
that's why there are so many single women ... all playing hard to get like they're some fucking celebrity or something ... here's something new for you: no sex = no man, keep that in mind next time you come and cry on sally ... if you don't give your man sex, he'll always get it somewhere else no matter how much he loves you ...
whiteraider 1 month ago 4
Men don't care that you have a degree. Degree can't cook, clean, & fuck me!
NoDrkButtsWanted 1 month ago 40
@NoDrkButtsWanted You got that shit right. I'm in college and I still say fuck a college and the pre-programmed shit they indoctrinate these weak ass fools with. The family should be first period! And I know that sounds crazy nowadays but we have thrived for thousands of years and all of a sudden these people come along and dictate the very core of our social structure and dynamics?? Wake the fuck up!!
dunk602 1 month ago 2
Thats women for you, She shows total disregard for his feelings. Breaking off the engagement will have devasted that man BUT a year later he is seeing someone else and he is a player...? You cant have it both ways, congrats femenism and women like you; congratulations on the breakdown of society and social decay, a new generation of fatherless children.
gregreg123ify 1 month ago 25
@gregreg123ify EXACTLY! If he was a playa he would've have played with her by getting back with her without even informing her of the lady that he was dating! Some women can really be ridiculous at times. SMH
beachbody03 1 month ago
I HATE THIS TITLE! Unless your degree is in cooking, why the hell would any man be interested in your degree as an incentive for marriage? Low civilisation ideas of materialism as dogma can never be healthy for romance.
LackadaisicalE 1 month ago 3
Oh yes, he is a player. She called off the marriage with HIM. And he had every right to move on and find his own happiness. STFU you dumb broad.
RunfromtheHeathen 1 month ago 2
Believe me, you are better off alone. Marriage is headed to nowheresville. You wanna be married, but then when it doesn't work out. What?
sspsllc 2 months ago
after shagging so many other men nw u want him back cuz those other men misstreated you.
DippySippy 2 months ago
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i am telling truth all my words,i am waiting for you . u check my you tube id. jude wilson
judewilson101 2 months ago
See, this is what happens when people make "rash" choices and prefer money over love. And how the hell does Sally knows that Latisha is "special?" And I wouldn't want to remain friends with an ex....it wouldn't be fair to my current mate. I am not saying that Latisha isn't a prize, but she just can't exit someones life and then come back when you want too whether it's during Christmas or the new century or whatever. Love is not something that should be taken for granted...NEVER.
Famfriass 2 months ago 3
Women listen up, you don't have to "put out" in order to get or keep a man or even to influence the man to fall deeply in love with you. You must have standards, you must love God and yourself first and foremost, you must have your own life that doesn't include chasing after a man and making him your everything in life and you can't put up with too much foolishness either because, men will test a woman just to see how far he can go with his foolishness.
Famfriass 2 months ago
@Famfriass no. you must have sex, or you only get religious weirdos like this cunt ^^
mikesomething 2 months ago
@mikesomething Sex is NOT something that you MUST do...it's not a "need." Water, food and air are needs...not sex. If a guy isn't willing to wait, that means he wasn't serious to begin with. Not wanting to share your temple with someone doesn't make you weird by any sense of the word.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Shut your fucking mouth you dumb cunt.
RunfromtheHeathen 1 month ago
@RunfromtheHeathen Looks like I struck a cord.....HERE THE DEVIL SPEAK!!! LOL....LOL....you are crazy, don't bother responding.
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass No maam. you are the devil. You may go fuck yourself now.
RunfromtheHeathen 1 month ago
@RunfromtheHeathen Did you NOT understand what I wrote? Stop responding to me b/c it's obvious I don't give a rats ass about what you think or believe. GET SOME BIZ FOOL!!!
Famfriass 1 month ago
@Famfriass Dont you have your mother to be calling about now?
RunfromtheHeathen 1 month ago
wait a minute...sally says weve got 11 year olds who come on this show who put out then the audience erupts in a cheer? i dont understand that at all, something is wrong with that to me
Atypical82 2 months ago 2
@Atypical82 That's what the hell I am talking about! WTF?? Why was the audience clapping and why the hell did Sally match such a statement???
Famfriass 2 months ago 2
get rid of the wig and the attitude and black women will get married
xb5jb7 2 months ago 4
for all you women out there men dont give a fuck if you have a college degree or not well pick you up regardless
ewansiha 2 months ago
@ewansiha yep. BUT, flip the script, and it's a whole different story.
fervent66 2 months ago
@fervent66 thats true because bw try to play both roles you cant be the man and the woman theres only 1 dick in this relationship and its mine im the man youre the woman know your role! you cant be king shit and motherly at the same time either one or the other. for all bw out there tryin to play a man role either get another woman or sit the fuck down cus a REAL bm aint havn that shit. your mother im father your nuture and im the enforcer. pick 1
ewansiha 2 months ago
Sallie Lattie aint tryna hurr all dat dere. lmao. she got some damn balls bringing that man on the show but least he had tact. he is not a player he is a man with common sense.
kerh09 2 months ago
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There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
pc0p1mp 2 months ago
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I havent had sex in 2 mths:(
nalalag 2 months ago
Fuck Sally and this audience! How is he a player? It's been 3 years! He moved on!
brownhornet22 2 months ago
that is pathetic.... its called pick up the phone.,. why do national tv?? wtf... she had to have seen it coming...
SaraLee0318 2 months ago
You put your jobs, education and ambitions ahead of us in priority, but then you wonder why we don't feel any romantic or emotional attachment to you? Wow...
melbyRick 2 months ago 41
@melbyRick Why would a man be interested in a woman whose attitude is "I don't need a man! men aren't shit!" ? As far as I'm concerned these women deserve to be put back on the shelf.
TruthandJustice101 2 months ago 36
@TruthandJustice101 You got that right. I think the majority of these feminist modern women will be replaced by prosthetics, to be quite honest. The fleshlight is getting a lot more popular, and the Japanese have been making amazing progress with synthetic dolls and androids. All of those nights you put us in the "doghouse" are coming back to haunt you, Bitches. Now you'll be the ones "on the outs"... and I think it's hilarious. I honestly can't wait to see the drama...
melbyRick 2 months ago
@TruthandJustice101 i had a girl like it had to end bitch was crazy but the sex was to
MrNxjohn 1 month ago
@TruthandJustice101 im surprised so many people liked this racist shit lol
drey204 1 month ago
@melbyRick now dats real shit family. Black women are ignorant to the fact the the so-called white establishment will never give us the opportunities (as a whole) that they give black women because they can be easily controlled by media and other influences.
But in targeting them as a source of power within our communities has created an imbalance in our seeds because they are only being raised less than half the time by the actual parent.
dunk602 1 month ago
@dunk602 Oh, the black race has definitely been fucked over completely by the establishment, that's true; but they have been fucking over the white race just as hard or more, and they are doing it to everybody. Just because the government may be full of rich white men, does not mean that they care about the middle-class and poor. And half of the people in charge are ZIONIST JEWS anyway, so there is that of course. Listen to what Farakhan has to say about them.
melbyRick 1 month ago
@melbyRick Thanks bro. I think it's imperative that women pay attention to this clip and try to understand the dilemma. None of this craziness started to happen until women took off their dresses and put on pants so to speak. Now look at the attire these women are wearing to work? Even the business clothes are revealing. We need a complete revamp of the sexes altogether cuz heads aint right these days real conversation. Peace fam!
dunk602 1 month ago
@melbyRick This is why sites like OKCupid are FILLED with highly educated single women in their mid to late 30's. We were put on a checklist last... now they find that the only person that was "last" was them.
PaulGrantDesigns 1 month ago
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Polygamy is the answer. We must return to our original Black standard of family. Black women have always outnumbered us but prior to slavery this was never an issue. The issue is attempting to attach white standards to black love. So through 400 years of slavery, jim crow, and an overall oppressive society has conditioned the minds of black women to believe that they have to have their man all to themselves. Polygamy would also solve the infidelity issues. Black culture for Black people.
TheLectureKing 2 months ago
motherfucker said hell nah bitch, you want me back cause its convenient for you now? shiiiit
TheGoldenChile 2 months ago 3
HAHAHAHAH I just laughed out loud when in the few 1st seconds reading her description:
"DESPERATE to have her EX-FIANCÉ back for the New Year."
The show is just making plain fun of her for the audience and viewers to see. She just looks pathetic. Not even sure one should feel sad for her. Get what you deserve.
Gyogami 2 months ago 4
Money is more important than women, he did the right thing.
Odakufilms 2 months ago 4
@Odakufilms AMEN to that. MONEY pay the bills. not the women. if you don't have the money, you don't have the honey.
fervent66 2 months ago
My ex financee'! I can dig it.
lperkin114 2 months ago
fuck the bitch "the host"..when she said is she a girl...motherfucking low society...
Sam10947 2 months ago 2
I actually think that this went rather well, as far as these TV shows go. Sally tries to get controversy going - or makes a misguided attempt to console her - but I think Latish and Omari were as mature & respectful about the situation as they could be on a TV show.
It was naive for her to hope that he had sat around waiting for her to finish up her business and everything would magically pick up where they left off... but she seems like a decent woman.
Talis29 2 months ago 2
hes not a player dont expect him to wait for you
Randy2020 2 months ago
What the hell does this have to do with her getting a degree.
cooljoescott 2 months ago
Sally is a funny lady... "Stand by your maaaan..."
cjwright79 2 months ago
"I think he's a player."
Sally sucks.
OthelloCarmellow 2 months ago
soon as i saw it was the sally show..and this sista..telling sally she is grateful...i knew to cut it off...download a Farrakhan video...or something constructive..why you watchin this...?..silly folk
lutollo 2 months ago
Men are held to very strict standards from women today, even so much as getting a nice job that is a good distance away is too much for them.
Everything must be perfect down to the most minor details or they will lose interest. Due to such standards many men can't win, no matter what they do they are still going to lose.
Should there be any surprise now that men are beginning to go their own way and swear off marriage and even women all together?
ManSpeakOut 2 months ago 3
@ManSpeakOut Good question! And also a very true one-I never thought i'd live to see the day. I am an attractive, intelligent black man and I used to have no problems meeting women but I have to sadly cop to the fact that all that has changed drastically over the last few years. I dated some really f'd up women who were all manipulative and held these same attitudes. So sad what's happening to us?
dunk602 1 month ago
The end of the video.. typical misandry
themaniusedtob 2 months ago
LOL!!!
chefchaney1012 3 months ago
milenium? this was back in 2000? i didnt know sally was still around then, wtf?
ernesdee2o916 3 months ago
This Black Heffa is crazy as cat shit a Black Man doesn't get any breaks she is upset because he would rather get a job and be gainfully employed first before they got married which makes sense. But if he had no job then this crazy heffa probably would of called him a loser the female race is a very strange race of human indeed. She drops him he moved on and did better for himself now she wants him back but it's to late serves her stupid mixed up ass right.
007MegaPhoenix 3 months ago 2
@007MegaPhoenix blah blah bah.. always about race! shut the fuck up
temickab 3 months ago
@temickab No you shut the fuck up you black ass heffa your just upset because just like the filthy scag in this video you are probably just like her selfish ass as well!...So blah! blah! blah! that you silly heffa!
007MegaPhoenix 3 months ago 3
@007MegaPhoenix Are you sure you arent the bitter angry one? hahahha you seem like it
temickab 3 months ago
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@temickab I am not angry but you obviously are you are the one who came to comment to me when I wasn't even talking to your little tired ass lol.
007MegaPhoenix 3 months ago
Yeah it is sickening how she actually expects him to dump the new girl just because she realized she is stuck in the past and can't move on.She made a choice and should not have even entertained trying to get him back on TV as if he was waiting for her with open arms.Having a degree or education, on its own, doesn't make you a better wife than any other woman.Being fickle and not-flexible are the worst things.Life is full of changing circumstances that you have to work around!
DontForgetIran2010 3 months ago
Sally's trying to paint the woman as innocent and the man a dog. She ended the relationship as she had every right to do, but she can't expect him to be waiting. Even if he was single she shouldn't expect him to just take her back. Sally was so stupid for calling him a player for moving on with his life. What should he had done -- dropped his then girlfriend to take back a woman that broke their engagement? Crazy.
ImNotRacistImBias 3 months ago
Latisha die die you ungrateful black woman feminist nigger!!!!!!!!!
carmexhitler 3 months ago
@carmexhitler really? i mean why even post that unless you trying to get a rise out of someone...wait...dammit..mission accomplished
MistahNickells 3 months ago
they go nuts because shes getting her BACHELOR? LMAO
LackadaisicalE 3 months ago
lol shes just another educated independant forever single black women. shes just another statistic.
MrGhosthb 3 months ago 2
world's most annoying audience
nigen 3 months ago 17
I like how she calls him a player for not dumping his current girlfriend to get back with his first. SHE quit on him, not the other way around. What the heck was he supposed to do? So now he is just supposed to break his current girl's heart and go back to his first? Talk about double standard.
wmthomas28 3 months ago 2
the guy should thank his lucky stars.
matkakulfi 3 months ago 2
This video is a joke. After calling the wedding off and losing contact with him, she just takes the ring off and tries to hand it over to him like saying '' it is your duty to put it back,because it suits me now, and since I love you, you don't have a will or opinion. Just do it.'' She's unbelievably selfish and taking him for granted. Sally says she's special, I think she's an idiot that made herself a complete fool on TV. That is, if this is a true situation,which I think is not.(actors)
jormacasil 3 months ago
hold on the girl leaves him right?
so the guy thinks ok she dont want me.
a year or 2 past and she finish college and wants her guy back.
but the guy has a new girl
and he's a player???
um how so? u left him what should he do stand there like a lost puppy and think she will come back for me i just know it.
A year has past and he's still thinking. She still wants me i know it.... then a new girl who comes in maybe better then this girl and no word from the ex and he's bad??? god i hate her.
darkisato 3 months ago 2
Thanks for sharing!!!
princeofthepen 3 months ago
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vincent15641 4 months ago
man she lost him thats sad xd
boricua796 4 months ago