Family Planning (My Perspective)

[queenie6000]

i think your family is wonderful. I was married and made the choice not to have more children because if domestic abuse. I am now 34 and i truly desire to get married and have another child. I strongly urge women to not sterilize themselves. I do however believe that Yah can do ANYTHING if its his will. I made a bad decion based on fear. Hopefully i will get the good kind man of God i seek,and babies.

[MissBeejay]

You have a nice family. But seeing a lot of other Hebrew families. I know it is hard. Some are not as strong as you and that is the reason they have it different. do all of the Hebrew churches offer assistance to families?

[HebrewHelpmeet]

Thank you---YES, all Hebrew congregations/fellowships SHOULD be operating in pure love as true family by meeting the needs/assisting other believers that may be lacking. However, many are still influenced by our western culture and have many selfish tendencies, (not to mention poor doctrine.) So sadly, there are needs being unmet.

Ideally, we as a people must operate as designed by our Creator, keep his instructions & maintain the testimony of H'Mshiach.

Some just don't embrace this Truth :-(

[MissBeejay]

I did look at the Video about Muslim Demographics. I agree that we must keep our race going but it just seems like the wrong people are doing it...not Healthy intact families such as yours...but young black woman who are not taught the ways of Yah. Even Christianity has been watered down so not many people are teaching morality. I know not all Hebrews are on the same level and that there are abusive relationships out there. Thank Yah for the ones like yours. Yah Bless!

[HebrewHelpmeet]

Sadly, many people feel our earth is overpopulated, yet the majority of younger generations are boldly rejecting children and often pursuing many selfish ambitions. If this trend continues, then the world demographics will drastically change...(check out eh video on YouTube entitled "Muslim Demographics" and it goes into more detail about the population of the future.....)

[MissBeejay]

But you can and should control the amount of children you have. Yah also wants us to count up the cost and to use wisdom. In all thy getting get understanding. No I am not talking about BC because Margaret Sanger created planned parenthood for Black genocide..but in the old times the earth needed repopulating. Are you and your husband able to care for the children you have before you have more? Are the children you now have able to command your attention as they need?

[HebrewHelpmeet]

I am blessed to say that our children are well taken care of without any dependence on government assistance. My husband and I are very connected with their needs & provide accordingly. We embrace our children as a gift, & in doing so we prayerfully seek the Most High for direction on how to raise them. We live modestly & have learned many ways to meet the needs of our family, such as cooking from scratch, herbal remedies, sewing, cloth diapering, gardening, etc.

[HebrewHelpmeet]

In our walk as believers in the Messiah, we must learn to die to our selfish desires and yield ourselves to the direction of the Most High. If we truly have a submitted heart unto our Creator, He will guide and direct our paths. This is the part of our spiritual foundation and I can't grasp the concept that we should control our blessings (children)....that leaves little room for faith (trust in YHWH).

[HebrewHelpmeet]

Keep in mind that YES, Yah may instruct a family to make decisions based on medical issues, but this is dependent upon that particular situtation. In general, we should have a heart to Seek the Will of the Most High in ALL things.

[HebrewHelpmeet]

Again, these are our Scripture based convictions, though many cannot wrap their head around us embracing more children, I think the fruit of our walk speaks for itself.

PROVERBS 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

SHALOM

[HebrewHelpmeet]

Thanks for your feedback :-)

I'm really trying to find a way to render the videos in a higher quality since our editing software is limited. I really need to get this worked out then perhaps I can re-upload the videos (I'll keep ya posted)

SHALOM

[iamgodgirl]

As always, thanks for sharing. I am praying that God will work out the kinks. I turned my volumes all the way up and still missed some of what you said and the picture was still blurry. I think you have a lot of helpful things to share and it would be great if we could see and hear them all. Ya's blessings be upon you and your family. Keep up the good and God work. :-)