"come the fuck on, hes like like 7 please, he shouldn't be wearing it, boys need to act like boys"
> Um, excuse me? But did you even watch the fucking video? Since when was having a vagina a requirement for wearing nail polish? The last time I checked, make up wasn't something that was hard coded into someone's DNA as being strictly male or female. What's next, are you going to insist that girls should act like girls and never wear pants? Fucking loser.
@extremeeXrement1 is there a rule or law that tells boys or girls how to act? we are born either male or female but how we act, dress, feel, and look is our own choice.
No wonder how society is at this state. These guys are famous writers, best-selling authors, and considered an authority in their fields of expertise. Imagine how their line of thinking spreads over so many ignorant people....I feel myself a bit happier when I see places like this are the exception ^^
I've always said if a gal can walk around in pants a guy can walk in a dress there is nothing that marks clothes as being for one gender or another, these are all imposed on by society. A long time ago before I was born women had to wear dresses all the time.
when i was young i knew i wanted to paint my nails because i wanted to be feminine. i actually snuck into my mother's nail polish and painted my toes without her knowing. Even at that age i knew.
and so what if boys want to wear something effeminate? we let girls wear pants and play outside, what's the real difference?
Lolz, when I was little my sister put finger-nail polish on me, I even did it myself or at least I attemted to. Kids don't worry about stupid shit like that. My nephews favorite color is pink, and that doesn't make him gay or straight.
When I was in grade school I put clear nail polish on my right hand.'s nails. I did it just to see what it was like. I don't think the experience had any effect on my development as a person.
It wasn't until the 1940's the "pink for girls/blue for boys" thing started to be shoved down our throats. Actually, PINK was originally meant to be the 'color for BOYS', and blue was for girls. After much pointless discussion, the colors were decided upon. People wanted an easier way to identify their infants, since kids, in natural form, are almost indistinguishable until "tween-hood". If we didn't chop off hair, put stereotypical colors on kids,.....
@eajoseph217 (ran out of room!).. give them stereotypical gender-specific toys based on what certain people in society tell us to, there would BE no stereotype. As a child, I hated pink. Blue was my favorite color. I played with Hotwheels, Breyer horses, and I drew pictures and played piano. My parents didn't give a rat's ass about what I was "supposed" to play with. Guess what? I'M STRAIGHT. I HAVE NO 'IDENTITY CRISIS', nor have I ever had one. I'm engaged to a great guy. But what IS 'normal'?
It's all about what looks good on a person. Let boys wear make-up! nail-polish! Let girls KEEP wearing their pants, and KEEP wearing their t-shirts. WHY is it more widely accepted for a woman to dress like a man AND woman. Yet, limit men. Normalcy wants to keep men away from the dresses, make-up, and the nail polish. I say...why? Same dudes look amazing with some of those things, if not all of them! BTW, I thought Franklin Roosevelt and Winston Churchill looked lovely in their attire!
I'm also a disabled veteran. I drink beer & whiskey. I eat meat. I've worked as a mechanic, a truck driver, a gas attendant–stereotypical man jobs. I've always hated fighting, but I've always loved a good circle pit. I love punk rock. I play guitar and a little ukulele. Overall I'm your average heterosexual American white male. Well, except for the no fighting and the ukulele. I have no issues with gender identity, I just don't think it's anyone's business to tell me how to look or who to fuck.
I've been dying my hair, painting my nails, wearing varying degrees of makeup, & ear and other piercings & modifying my body hair for half my life. I was raised almost exclusively by my mother. Now in my 30s my wife works f/t, I'm a stay-at-home dad & a part-time student. I'm more fashion/appearance conscious, I do the shopping, I drive the econobox, she the sporty car–the polar opposite of the traditional gender roles and we couldn't care less. Fuck traditional gender roles.
i whore a white dress with pink pokedots and i LOVED it i owuld spin arpund in it and watch it rise as i spun really fast im gay but im a top gay not a bottom how is that gender confused? its not i just find fat guys attractive
The wearing of pants by men is historically a recent invention. Watch the movie "Braveheart" and see if you can even FIND any men wearing pants. And yet, most people probably didn't even notice.
And for nail polish on guys(male polish? LOL) Copper is also a color that looks good on guys, it has a nice masculine feel to it.
My uncle said he used to be play with Barbie dolls and My Little Ponies when he was little, and he's a macho who always goes out with girls. When I was a kid, I played with boy toys sometimes, but still understood I was a girl, I had friends who were boys that played with girl toys, but still understood that they were boys. Kids aren't dumbasses, they know perfectly what sex they are until YOU start to confuse them by telling them that petty stuff like toys and colors defines their gender.
Nail polish on boys is obvs more harmful than war, get with it. :P
Anyway, here's something you may find interesting: according to Michael Kimmel's "A Gendered Society," gender inequality is the source of gender differences, not the other way around. In societies with little gender division of labor, men and women are much more equal.
"Appropriate"? Why is that up to you to decide? Who died and made you the Almighty Arbiter of Hand Fashion Fascism? I'm sorry, but until you can logically articulate how males wearing nail polish colours that are not "clear" or black actually quantifiably negatively affects you, I don't see why you should be able to set the societal standard for everyone else based on your own personal subjective bias.
You're five years old. You see your sister putting cool colours on her fingernails and toenails. This reminds you of the cool colours you put on the paper at school with pant. Who knew you can put cool colours on your nails?? You take the paint and start putting it on. Suddenly Daddy comes along with a belt in hand and starts screaming at you and shaking you, calling you a sissy boy.
Imagine how you're going to turn out ten years from now?
Objects we associate to genders are such only based on our current culture and status as a civilization. Pink used to be a masculine color before the 1940's and, as you mentioned, dresses were used as a way to distinguish social class, rather than gender. These rules are purely arbitrary and have absolutely no impact evolutionary or in any meaningful way. We all need to wake up and see that just because something is generally associated with a group, doesn't mean that is ALL it can be.
This guy would be hilarious if he weren't a doctor who is expected to be taken seriously. But, since he is, I think I'm more concerned about the danger of what he's saying than the absurdity.
We are in a never-ending recession with a 10% unemployment rate while we wage 3 massive wars draining the countries resources and time. But everyone stop the presses because a mom is teaching their child that being gay and wearing nail polish is ok. What kind of travesty is this
Apparently no one remembers, that at one point in time, it was considered odd for a woman to wear pants. Or that at one time, men never wore earrings. People getting upset over a male child putting on Nail Polish? Don't these people have better things to do.
Religious robes are really no different then dresses. Who cares if a little boy or even a grown man wants to have painted nails..? Nail polish doesn't hurt a person, though people being jackasses about such or anything can hurt a persons feelings especially a childs! If he's left alone he probably wont even remember it when he's older, and i bet even if he does he wont be be mentally damaged from this unless people tease/belittle him bad for it.
Thank you for speaking out on this. My son is 3 and loves to have his nails painted and my ex has actually tried to use that as a reason to take custody away from me (he lost obviously) just for respecting my son's wishes and allowing him to portray himself as he wishes. Life is too short to force ourselves to be as other people determine we should be.
@ZJemptv Rosie Sweetheart, you missed the real issue. This is so totally ridiculous. America has no other problem left to worry about? Except a little kid with toe nails. OMG. I think the sheeple are being kept agog by these shenanigans. Just to keep their attention away from the vanishing take home pay, the disappearing Social Security, The shrinking liberties, the nearly dead "Free Press", The crumbling manufacturing base, the collapsing health care systems and much else. Wake up America.
Wives used to adopt the surnames of their husbands. I always thought that they did this for the benefit of people who didn't already know them. Likewise, I always thought that people adopted rigid gender "uniforms" for the same reason. Nowadays, I find more cases of retained, or hyphenated, surnames. So, why wouldn't it follow that people could dress as they please while still dressing for the occasion? Ten-ish years ago: Rudy Giuliani in an evening gown? OK, but get a better makeup artist!
This hits home. My sister's son loves to have his mommy paint his toe nails, and he's chosen pink for himself. He loves trucks and telling us about his body function and chasing frogs, so its not like he's "turning into a girl." My dad tried to put a stop to him getting his nails done, and he's sad now that he sees his mom with nail varnish and not him. Who cares if boy likes his nails done? It doesn't change who he is.
@MadHatterMCR My 7 year old son loves to have his nails done when I do mine and his younger sisters. My husband made a brief (weak) protest a few years ago and has never said anything since. My son has had every colour from black to pink with glitter. he still loves lego, trucks and dressing up as batman (or tinkerbell lol). First and foremost he is 7 and is free to have fun and play however he chooses.
@secutorclaudius quite clearly you took my post rather more literally than I inteded it (and I am quite sure you know that). Why should I dictate to him what clothes, crowns, costumes, dolls he wears/plays with when he si having fun. Obviously he has rules but they do not extend to what kind of games he should or shouldn't enjoy/play purely based on his gender, they are common sense, safety, sharing etc.
@edaj84 OK THEN. I JUST THINK A LITTLE KID DOES NOT HAVE A CLEAR (sorry) understanding of rules, unless the parent imposes them. if one of my boys would put on a tiara (god forbid), his brother would make so much fun of him!
@secutorclaudius You are right, kids need rules imposed so that they know the boundaries. I just don't think that those boundaries extend to dictating how they play, what they can or can't wear, whether they can paint their nails (other than if you are going out somewhere special but in that case I wouldn't allow my 5 yr old girl to paint hers either), or even whther they can play with makeup (this one falls under the same category as the nails, only lip gloss if we are going out)
@edaj84 Good for you! My Dad threw a FIT when I put a long hair wig on, saying something like " I am NOT going to raise another GIRL! " He never did know how devastating that was to me.
@lochinvar00465 Thankyou :) it makes a nice change from the other person who was responding to me, purely to criticise my decisions. I just see no reason why wearing nail polish or a wig or a dress is a problem.
@lochinvar00465 I also find it hypocritical that if my son was to go out wearing a princess dress, the comments would start immediately "aren't you wqorried he will turn out gay? " etc BUT if my daughter wore a batman outfit out NO ONE would comment or criticise, I would not hear "aren't you worried she will be a lesbian?"
@edaj84 People just don't get it. They still think gay/lesbian is a choice. And trans-(anything) just drives them up the wall. And we haven't even gotten to other variations as masculine-female or feminine-male, THAT really makes their poor little craniums hurt.(my regards to Tweety)
This is due to the current misconception that "gay" is some kind of choice. One IS what one is. Geez. If I wore a dress would that make me into a girl or turn me into a gay? I doubt it. And really, so what if one's son is gay. It is HIS life that he is living. I seriously think that all the adornments and dress that are currently labelled "female" should be done/worn by men as well. It's all about personal expression and gender equality.
@edaj84 I painted my nails for a while in college. It didn't make me question my sexuality or gender. I was however amused by the fact that it resulted in an increase in women hitting on me. Apparently some women like it when a guy can empathize with at least some of their concerns about makeup and nail polish.
My mom gave me dolls so I could play with my younger sisters when I was a kid too. All it did was give me more time bonding with my sisters.
@BikerBry: Um, so what *is* that reason? What makes something "appropriate"? Seems to me "appropriateness" is actually a pretty nebulous concept, mostly having to do with not violating the comfort zones of the culturally conservative.
When I took anthropology, I learned about a culture where the women are supposed to be rough, but the men are supposed to gossip and fuss over their looks. Gender obviously isn't as simple as Ablow thinks it is.
Sporting nail polish will not make a boy a girl; unless the child is transgendered and then not much can change that (it's biological). (Trans is gender identity, not sexual preference) He's not necessarily trying to look like a girl either, he may think it is colorful, fun. Their is nothing wrong with a guy that keeps himself clean and well maintained, he could be "looking good for the ladies". Anyhow, this has nothing to do with homosexuality either, most gay men are "traditionally masculine".
Seriuosly? just because a kid put some nailpolish? and USA call themselves the most modern nation in the world and the land of freedom and justice. please, mind your own buisness, you bunch of red necks
To all of the gay kids out there...don't let these 'Good Christian' morons make you feel ashamed when you haven't done anything wrong! These people have self contempt and frustration and they need an outlet for their anger.
I just want to say that I have never seen so much disgusting crap spewed onto one page. You people don't have a damn clue about homosexuality yet you just can't keep your ugly mouths shut. It is nice to to know that I live in a part of the world where who you kiss (male or female) doesn't fucking matter or affect your character in the least bit. Life is about taking pride in who you are, giving a helping hand, and taking care of the ones you love.
Sex is a social construction yes. And has nothing to do with if you have a y chromosome or not. It's society that brainwashes babies literally from day one for girls to look at faces more and boys to look at machines with moving parts. You leftists are mental. And notice how I used the word sex and not gender(there is a difference.)
is she straight? I doubt you understand what its like to be a straight male in this world. Painting your kids toenails is a MISTAKE. end of. All this idealistic stuff is moot
@bl4h1 Yes, being a man is hard, the pressure to be masculine can get too much to bare,but you seem to think that teaching boys to be masculine will simply mean they conform and not get bullied becuase they're 'masculine enough' to not draw attention. It's not true at all, no-one can ever conform to this standard,
parents teaching children to 'conform' is the worst kind of pressure there is, it teaches self-loathing, that their healthy human behaviour is wrong, it sends their kids up the wall.
I'm straight, non-effeminate, I don't consider myself to be an honorary woman in any way. But I like to collect and wear vintage white woman's gloves. It has nothing to do with being female, I just like vintage white dress gloves! I think I might start exploring make-up and utilikilts!
it's true what you said, too; i started wearing nailpolish + dressing better BECAUSE certain things helped me start to accept that it was okay that i identified better w/girls and enjoyed hanging out w/them better.
i'm a 28yr-old straight male + i've worn nailpolish, make-up, w/ever since grade 6 or 7 when i got into punk rock.
i've always been pretty girly + copped shit for it, and it took me a while just to come to terms w/being naturally a fairly effeminate guy, so i'd hate to think what it's like for actual gay or transgender people.
i don't wish i was a girl + i don't find men attractive, i just like to look good. like prince!
@FinalJusticeMovement me personally? yeah, sure. not every boy though. i mean, i'm not the one who decided that cosmetics and fashion sense are an exclusively feminine arena. but i sure do get called fag a lot.
this is so stupid...when my son went to daycare when he was between the ages or 1 and 3, they used to play dress up, and quite often, i'd pick him up and he'd have nail polish on...he thought it was cool. now, my son is 8, and he's about the most masculine boy i know...he plays typically boy games, etc. even if the nail polish thing affected his masculinity, who cares? he'd still be my son, and i'd still love him.
*SMFH... -___________- ...110%!!!!! AGREE WITH YOU. . SMFH... THE REASON LIL GULS ARE WEARING INAPROPIROTE CLOTHING FOR THERE AGE IS BECAUSE OF (THERE PARENTS). -.-
@hanksnow82 It's envision, and I don't envision gender neutrality. I envision that if people were free to express their true nature without oppression, only the repressed and oppressed would change at all. Without oppression and respression I envision equality of genders, not neutrality of genders. Everyone would have value for expressing themselves in a positive manner, not rewarded for being duplicitous and self-repressing. I envision harmony where normal means well-adjusted not conformist.
@FaultAndDakranon It's repression not respression . You are what your chromosomes say you are and and normal is not subjective it has a value scientifically and socially .
@hanksnow82 You only accept chromosonally determined genders? So you are accepting of male, female and intersex, but not transexual? Is that what you mean by scientifically? Each society has a different set of values, so 'normal' IS subjective on a societal level. So if your society thinks your true self should be repressed to conform with a set of made-up rules, then should you go join a society that doesn't? Or just stay in the one that devalues you? Your statement doesn't make sense to me.
@FaultAndDakranon You're entitled to your own opinion but not to your own facts . Chromosomes dictate your gender and if you don't know what scientific means look it up . 98% of the population is hetrosexual and that is normal 2 % of the population is homosexual and that is abnormal . If homosexuality ever becomes "normal in any society that society will become exstinct in short order . You seem to barely grasp scientific concepts or the english vernacular that most children have mastered .
@hanksnow82 I'm sorry you don't understand the terms I'm using. I'm aware that scientific means knowledge gained through the scientific method. I just don't see how repression of one's true self can have value 'scientifically'. I know that chromosomes dictate your physical gender in large part. But of the one in ~1500 people born with intersex conditions, many are not chromosonal. You don't seem to factor these people into your thinking about disallowing expression of gender, why?
@FaultAndDakranon respression is not a word hence it has no meaning so it's not a matter of me not understanding it . Hermaphrodites make up less then 1 in 12,000 births in North America as most cases are confused with genital malformaties .
My mom doesn't understand why I like both girls and boys. She thinks it isn't natural. However, every time I grill her about what the meaning of "natural" is, she can't back herself up. HA.
@thisrandomchannel I don't need to visit my "mate" i got married on the 10th of October (10/10/10) Chances are im younger then you people always claim im "lying" which i could but that would make me a douche wouldn't it? And i don't want to be viewed as a douche unless the person who views me as one is a douche (someone like that Troll you explained fascism to)
Also do any of you get it. You are pushing all this anti-bully stuff and allthis pro-transgender/homosexuality crap. Look you can't have both. Pick one and stick with it because if you have both the bullying problem will only get worse.
@lilpeaceacrap What are the bullies gonna do beat up a adept in four types of martial arts? Doubt it i support anti bully and pro trans-gender/homosexuality. Again what the fuck are they gonna do about it?
@yuo252 - hmmm.... yeah, that really helped Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover Age 11, wasn't even aware of his sexuality yet, but kids called him gay and ridiculed him relentlessly... He hung himself. That was WITHOUT announcing or acting in a homosexual manner. all the matial arts in the world aren't going to save you from yourself dumbass.
@infideluxe - no, then you will have another emotionally disturbed person that hates everything including themselves and blames everybody else for their own poor choices and socially unacceptable behavior.
That's hilarious. If asked to articulate what specifically you find "emotionally disturbed" about ZJ, would your response be, "I don't fucking answer to you!"
If asked for specifics on what behavior leads you to believe ZJ hates himself, what would you say?
The more you talk, the more you come across as a fearful, confused, and ignorant bigot. You've not idea what you're saying, and when confronted, you only spew insults. Pussy.
@secutorclaudius "'progressive community'"? u mean you're a hippy, right?" YES. Though I would also have accepted "boho" or "commie-pinko." And no, not everything is acceptable. Like a grown man threatening to beat people up over pink nail polish on a child. That's something only a redneck would do, and they're all stuck in the roach trap we refer to as "Methlahem" and "Felony flats." You said it yourself, this stupid shit moves YOU to violence.
@MissTemperence it won't move ME to violence, but there are many bullies out there who pick on kids for much lesser things. just seems 2 me like the mom is pushing him into exploring his "feminine side". imagine if all moms did that. there'll be only sissy boys running around.
@secutorclaudius "it won't move ME to violence, but there are many bullies out there who pick on kids for much lesser things" Yes, because they are raised by people like yourself who say stupid things like "don't be surprised if your progressive kid gets beat up alot by cavemen SUCH AS MYSELF." Don't pretend you're so damn concerned about the children when you're inciting and encouraging the very thing your pretend to be warning us about. (cont)
@secutorclaudius (cont) and don't pretend like you have any idea what's going on between this mother and child. Your assertion that she's forcing something on him is nothing but an empty assumption about people you literally know nothing about, and that's worse than worthless.
@MissTemperence iknow what i see. if the kid asked "mommy, can i have nailpolish on my teonails too?", the answer should've been "no, boys don't do that", not "sure, boys, girls, whatever, who cares?". and sorry to dissapoint you, but "people like myself" make up the majority of this world, believe it or not. there's a reason they call it ""alternative lifestyle".
@secutorclaudius I don't think you do know what you see, because you're describing 2 different scenarios. One in which a mother is "pushing" her son to wear nail polish, and another in which your complaint is that she simply didn't say no when he requested it. And no, I don't think people like yourself make up the majority. I think it's clear most people think this is a ridiculous non-issue. People like yourself are just too uneducated to think beyond the confines of your own redneck town.
@secutorclaudius (cont) Not to mention, you've just employed the ad populum fallacy. Even if it were true that most people agreed with you, that's not a valid argument. Just because an idea is popular, it does not naturally follow that it is correct. Or do they not have debate class in the sticks? Maybe you should spend less time fretting about completely arbitrary social conventions that come and go and more time working on your education.
@MissTemperence i do not live in a redneck town. i wasn't even born in this country. and i am educated, and probably speak better english than you do. you go on about people like me who are "intolerant, smallminded, etc". ah, but people like you put down guys like me, who have a clear set of morals, traditions, tenets, every chance you get for not agreeing with you. fine, raise your kids the way you want, if you have any (you are probably a lesbian, right?). more power to you.
@secutorclaudius You aren't the only one with a "clear set of morals." Every culture and sub culture has it's own sense of morality, traditions, etc. Besides, your "morals" lead to small children being beaten up over irrelevant things. You call yourself moral, but you would rather teach children to attack and ostracize each over something as stupid as nail polish. You're not moral, you're just controlled by irrational fears. Big difference.
@MissTemperence well, if the thought that my kid will turn out gay or effeminate is an irrational fear, so be it. tell me, what parent wants that? oh, you. so, no, i will not encourage my boys to play with barbies or put on make up or polish. and believe me, i am not all that conservative. you know there are plenty of right wing nuts who would put me to shame. guys who hold up "god hates fags" signs and beat up trannies and shit like that.
@secutorclaudius Why would I want my kid to turn out gay or straight? Why should that even be an issue? That's hilarious that you think we're grooming our kids to become gay, when the truth is you're the ones who would obsess over something like that, not us. Why are you going on about the Westboro baptist church? To prove that there's someone even more ridiculous than you? So? And yes, for the record, fearing that nail polish will turn your child gay is irrational. And hilarious.
@MissTemperence i don't know what the westboro thing is. so clearly u believe that people are born either gay or straight. but don't u think that the environment they grow up in can also be a factor? like boys growing up only among women, no father figure, only being exposed to girly things, etc. that has to have an impact on an impressionable boy. i'm so psychologist, but i will not be the one to encourage such behavior in a kid. to me, penis=boy, vagina=girl. or or was god wrong?
@Stupidfart9876 how old r u? never been on welfare, i work my ass off. and not only is your spelling horrendous, but grammar too. and this comes from someone whose english is a second language. shows who's the uneducated redneck, doesn't it?
@secutorclaudius You're kinda a hypocrite and a moron when you tell me have bad spelling while you spell "how old r u?", argue with someone you think is a little kid, which is immature. Rednecks are religious and I'm not a redneck. You can't even argue what's on the main video you're comment on, so you try and twist my comment to seem like that it has bad grammar/spelling. If I have bad spelling/grammar, then try to point out where it is okay? Don't try to twist the subject :3
@Stupidfart9876 i hate the fact that u, and some ppl here think i'm a redneck, bigot, "fundamentalist" just cause i said i was christian. ooh, that makes me the devil, or hitler. i see u r not, i feel sorry 4 u. maybe u had bad experiences w christians, but we're not all the same. so u want everyone 2 think like u, all freespirited and uninhibited. some of us were reared differently, and hold certain beliefs dear, which u clearly shit upon.
2. You're proving yourself a hypocrite saying that not all Christians are the same, but then proceeding to generalizing others
3. You're making horrible spelling and grammar errors, even though you failed to point out mine, making you even more of a hypocrite
4. I'm the one shitting upon your crap? Talking to your kind of mindset is like talking to a piece of dog shit: You 2 are both something any decent human would want to avoid stepping on :3
@secutorclaudius I believe sexuality is more fluid than just "gay or straight", but yes, I would say people are born with predisposition to certain sexual preferences. By your logic, you would no doubt assume that a large number of kids in my community would be growing up to be gay, but they're not. It seems to statistically about the same as the general population. Penis= boy? We're not talking about genitals here, hon. we're talking about nail polish, which has no gender.
@MissTemperence where do u live, san francisco? i agree, to turn out gay, there must be something there to begin with. i cannot imagine myself kising a man, so gay men must be wired differently. i just don't like seeing boys growing up sissies because their moms encourage "girly" behaviors. and i have seen that more than once. besides, this stupidfart9876 illiterate is pissing me off.
there nothing that says this is wrong, but the kid wouldn't fit in with his peers if he continued to do this
Norseman870 1 week ago
@Norseman870 The same will be true if the kid ends up more interested in books, science, math or computers than his peers.
halleyscomet 3 days ago
I think beeing transgender is stupid. People should be allowed to, but it looks silly.
ProtestantsRUs 1 week ago
Send nail polish to the Middle East! Finally, peace!
RoDJ99 2 weeks ago
come the fuck on, hes like like 7 please, he shouldn't be wearing it, boys need to act like boys
extremeeXrement1 2 weeks ago
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"come the fuck on, hes like like 7 please, he shouldn't be wearing it, boys need to act like boys"
> Um, excuse me? But did you even watch the fucking video? Since when was having a vagina a requirement for wearing nail polish? The last time I checked, make up wasn't something that was hard coded into someone's DNA as being strictly male or female. What's next, are you going to insist that girls should act like girls and never wear pants? Fucking loser.
CreamyGoodnessX 2 weeks ago
@extremeeXrement1 Pay attention to the video. There's nothing wrong with nail polish. Please STFU.
SaffronSkunk 2 weeks ago
@extremeeXrement1 is there a rule or law that tells boys or girls how to act? we are born either male or female but how we act, dress, feel, and look is our own choice.
TheClass0 2 weeks ago
@extremeeXrement1 You should be more specific with your statements... What exactly does it mean for a boy to need to act like a boy?
shade9592 1 week ago
I didn't know that nail polish had the ability to stop people from killing each other while making them have awesome sex.
Damn, that stuff sounds powerful. Now I want some nail polish.
Draginvry2 1 month ago
No wonder how society is at this state. These guys are famous writers, best-selling authors, and considered an authority in their fields of expertise. Imagine how their line of thinking spreads over so many ignorant people....I feel myself a bit happier when I see places like this are the exception ^^
zoth00 1 month ago 3
Wow. So clothing is specifically one gender or another... then where do kilts fall in the whole identity thing? Or robes for that matter.
dagda825 1 month ago 4
I've always said if a gal can walk around in pants a guy can walk in a dress there is nothing that marks clothes as being for one gender or another, these are all imposed on by society. A long time ago before I was born women had to wear dresses all the time.
TelluluSnape 1 month ago
I think a dress is a dress because it's called a dress.
You could show one of those guys a picture of a boy in a dress and he'd say it's wrong.
Another picture, same kid, same design,new color and a fancy name (toga, robe, whatever) and they might not care.
goldenegg8of100 1 month ago 2
It's weird that boys want to do that...
Viktoriya556 1 month ago
@Viktoriya556 Thanks for missing the whole fucking point of the video.
DMFAgain 3 weeks ago
when i was young i knew i wanted to paint my nails because i wanted to be feminine. i actually snuck into my mother's nail polish and painted my toes without her knowing. Even at that age i knew.
and so what if boys want to wear something effeminate? we let girls wear pants and play outside, what's the real difference?
satanisthetruegod666 1 month ago 2
Lolz, when I was little my sister put finger-nail polish on me, I even did it myself or at least I attemted to. Kids don't worry about stupid shit like that. My nephews favorite color is pink, and that doesn't make him gay or straight.
Schnitzelpops 2 months ago
My sisters put makeup, girl's clothing and whatever other accessories on me a couple of times when I was little, and I am now a woman.
JaredHutcheson1 2 months ago
Wow! The kid just thought it was cool and was having fun time with his mom.
ctg9905 2 months ago in playlist More videos from ZJemptv
When I was in grade school I put clear nail polish on my right hand.'s nails. I did it just to see what it was like. I don't think the experience had any effect on my development as a person.
absentmindedprof 2 months ago
My nephew only will let me use the colors purple and pink cuz those are girls colors to him =_= hahah.
eartianwerewolf 2 months ago
YES. I absolutely love this video.
XfridgeYyeahZ 2 months ago
I'm not even kidding, if you were running for president, I'd vote for you.
Iemanonymous1 2 months ago
It wasn't until the 1940's the "pink for girls/blue for boys" thing started to be shoved down our throats. Actually, PINK was originally meant to be the 'color for BOYS', and blue was for girls. After much pointless discussion, the colors were decided upon. People wanted an easier way to identify their infants, since kids, in natural form, are almost indistinguishable until "tween-hood". If we didn't chop off hair, put stereotypical colors on kids,.....
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@eajoseph217 (ran out of room!).. give them stereotypical gender-specific toys based on what certain people in society tell us to, there would BE no stereotype. As a child, I hated pink. Blue was my favorite color. I played with Hotwheels, Breyer horses, and I drew pictures and played piano. My parents didn't give a rat's ass about what I was "supposed" to play with. Guess what? I'M STRAIGHT. I HAVE NO 'IDENTITY CRISIS', nor have I ever had one. I'm engaged to a great guy. But what IS 'normal'?
eajoseph217 3 months ago in playlist More videos from ZJemptv
Nail polish will let me and my boyfriend continue to have GREAT sex forever? WHERE IS MY NAIL POLISH? I'm painting that man's nails, TONIGHT!
rini003 3 months ago
It's all about what looks good on a person. Let boys wear make-up! nail-polish! Let girls KEEP wearing their pants, and KEEP wearing their t-shirts. WHY is it more widely accepted for a woman to dress like a man AND woman. Yet, limit men. Normalcy wants to keep men away from the dresses, make-up, and the nail polish. I say...why? Same dudes look amazing with some of those things, if not all of them! BTW, I thought Franklin Roosevelt and Winston Churchill looked lovely in their attire!
ChibiVampie 3 months ago
I'm also a disabled veteran. I drink beer & whiskey. I eat meat. I've worked as a mechanic, a truck driver, a gas attendant–stereotypical man jobs. I've always hated fighting, but I've always loved a good circle pit. I love punk rock. I play guitar and a little ukulele. Overall I'm your average heterosexual American white male. Well, except for the no fighting and the ukulele. I have no issues with gender identity, I just don't think it's anyone's business to tell me how to look or who to fuck.
HandiCripple666 3 months ago 2
I've been dying my hair, painting my nails, wearing varying degrees of makeup, & ear and other piercings & modifying my body hair for half my life. I was raised almost exclusively by my mother. Now in my 30s my wife works f/t, I'm a stay-at-home dad & a part-time student. I'm more fashion/appearance conscious, I do the shopping, I drive the econobox, she the sporty car–the polar opposite of the traditional gender roles and we couldn't care less. Fuck traditional gender roles.
HandiCripple666 3 months ago 6
i whore a white dress with pink pokedots and i LOVED it i owuld spin arpund in it and watch it rise as i spun really fast im gay but im a top gay not a bottom how is that gender confused? its not i just find fat guys attractive
DeathIIV 3 months ago
every one of your videos' thumbnails look the same. Show some personality you twat
TheKIDDERz 4 months ago
@TheKIDDERz Piss off, loser.
Minecraft4life1000 3 months ago
really what makes anyone think that nail polish on a guy woulld cause any gender misguidence? after all , it didn't affect boy george
Jaxmeioff 4 months ago
its in the water we are all going gay
MrAtlantis25 4 months ago
oh crap
MrAtlantis25 4 months ago
The wearing of pants by men is historically a recent invention. Watch the movie "Braveheart" and see if you can even FIND any men wearing pants. And yet, most people probably didn't even notice.
And for nail polish on guys(male polish? LOL) Copper is also a color that looks good on guys, it has a nice masculine feel to it.
lochinvar00465 4 months ago
My uncle said he used to be play with Barbie dolls and My Little Ponies when he was little, and he's a macho who always goes out with girls. When I was a kid, I played with boy toys sometimes, but still understood I was a girl, I had friends who were boys that played with girl toys, but still understood that they were boys. Kids aren't dumbasses, they know perfectly what sex they are until YOU start to confuse them by telling them that petty stuff like toys and colors defines their gender.
star3catcherSEQUEL 5 months ago
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@thecatcherinthesnow "It's appropriate for guys to wear black or clear nail polish but not any other color"
Where is the reference on this? OMG, it's the FASHION POLICE! RUN!
lochinvar00465 5 months ago
"All we are saaaaayiiiing
is give nail polish a chaaaaance!"
This is awesome.
Tru3bad0ur 5 months ago 3
Nail polish on boys is obvs more harmful than war, get with it. :P
Anyway, here's something you may find interesting: according to Michael Kimmel's "A Gendered Society," gender inequality is the source of gender differences, not the other way around. In societies with little gender division of labor, men and women are much more equal.
TheQueenOfMediocrity 5 months ago
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justwannacomment66 5 months ago
@thecatcherinthesnow
"Appropriate"? Why is that up to you to decide? Who died and made you the Almighty Arbiter of Hand Fashion Fascism? I'm sorry, but until you can logically articulate how males wearing nail polish colours that are not "clear" or black actually quantifiably negatively affects you, I don't see why you should be able to set the societal standard for everyone else based on your own personal subjective bias.
ReptoidBoffin 5 months ago 4
@thecatcherinthesnow
"Appropriate"? According to you?
Guys can paint their nails any damn color they want, and if they're happy with it, and if they're comfortable in their own skin, they'll look great.
infideluxe 6 months ago 4
im a guy and i wanna wear nail poilsh but my prarent wont let what should i do
iloveselenagomez19 6 months ago
@iloveselenagomez19 Look forward to your adulthood and get out of the house and live independently soon.
TearofFriendship 5 months ago
@iloveselenagomez19 Tell your parents to fuck off, what are they going to do? Disown you?
star3catcherSEQUEL 5 months ago
Lol @ 3:55
I'm all for this awesome sex! Lets do this!
Arairian 6 months ago
Nail polish = make love not war.....
xdassinx 6 months ago 4
You're five years old. You see your sister putting cool colours on her fingernails and toenails. This reminds you of the cool colours you put on the paper at school with pant. Who knew you can put cool colours on your nails?? You take the paint and start putting it on. Suddenly Daddy comes along with a belt in hand and starts screaming at you and shaking you, calling you a sissy boy.
Imagine how you're going to turn out ten years from now?
rjdawson90 6 months ago
Objects we associate to genders are such only based on our current culture and status as a civilization. Pink used to be a masculine color before the 1940's and, as you mentioned, dresses were used as a way to distinguish social class, rather than gender. These rules are purely arbitrary and have absolutely no impact evolutionary or in any meaningful way. We all need to wake up and see that just because something is generally associated with a group, doesn't mean that is ALL it can be.
BokuwaFdesu 6 months ago 2
Kid your voice is embeded into my brain.
TheEureka41 7 months ago
This guy would be hilarious if he weren't a doctor who is expected to be taken seriously. But, since he is, I think I'm more concerned about the danger of what he's saying than the absurdity.
TheCeejReturns 7 months ago
We are in a never-ending recession with a 10% unemployment rate while we wage 3 massive wars draining the countries resources and time. But everyone stop the presses because a mom is teaching their child that being gay and wearing nail polish is ok. What kind of travesty is this
thewhatsit104 7 months ago
i wear girl pants
oh shit the sky is falling
taylorbortnerathing 7 months ago 3
If I saw a guy in a dress.... I would run up to him and give him a hug and high five :3
MurderComplication 7 months ago 3
@MurderComplication =D
InContemplation 4 months ago
Apparently no one remembers, that at one point in time, it was considered odd for a woman to wear pants. Or that at one time, men never wore earrings. People getting upset over a male child putting on Nail Polish? Don't these people have better things to do.
john422401 7 months ago
Damn look at that adamapple tremble!
JosLutgens 7 months ago
Religious robes are really no different then dresses. Who cares if a little boy or even a grown man wants to have painted nails..? Nail polish doesn't hurt a person, though people being jackasses about such or anything can hurt a persons feelings especially a childs! If he's left alone he probably wont even remember it when he's older, and i bet even if he does he wont be be mentally damaged from this unless people tease/belittle him bad for it.
MasochistMouse 8 months ago
You should run for president, i'd vote for you.
livinglandfill 8 months ago 71
@livinglandfill i would not i would park a... well you know.
meeptron1 4 months ago
@livinglandfill I wouldn't
lilpeaceacrap 4 months ago
Thank you for speaking out on this. My son is 3 and loves to have his nails painted and my ex has actually tried to use that as a reason to take custody away from me (he lost obviously) just for respecting my son's wishes and allowing him to portray himself as he wishes. Life is too short to force ourselves to be as other people determine we should be.
1982meg 8 months ago
@ZJemptv Rosie Sweetheart, you missed the real issue. This is so totally ridiculous. America has no other problem left to worry about? Except a little kid with toe nails. OMG. I think the sheeple are being kept agog by these shenanigans. Just to keep their attention away from the vanishing take home pay, the disappearing Social Security, The shrinking liberties, the nearly dead "Free Press", The crumbling manufacturing base, the collapsing health care systems and much else. Wake up America.
azzy314159 8 months ago
Wives used to adopt the surnames of their husbands. I always thought that they did this for the benefit of people who didn't already know them. Likewise, I always thought that people adopted rigid gender "uniforms" for the same reason. Nowadays, I find more cases of retained, or hyphenated, surnames. So, why wouldn't it follow that people could dress as they please while still dressing for the occasion? Ten-ish years ago: Rudy Giuliani in an evening gown? OK, but get a better makeup artist!
marasu66 8 months ago
This hits home. My sister's son loves to have his mommy paint his toe nails, and he's chosen pink for himself. He loves trucks and telling us about his body function and chasing frogs, so its not like he's "turning into a girl." My dad tried to put a stop to him getting his nails done, and he's sad now that he sees his mom with nail varnish and not him. Who cares if boy likes his nails done? It doesn't change who he is.
MadHatterMCR 8 months ago 3
@MadHatterMCR My 7 year old son loves to have his nails done when I do mine and his younger sisters. My husband made a brief (weak) protest a few years ago and has never said anything since. My son has had every colour from black to pink with glitter. he still loves lego, trucks and dressing up as batman (or tinkerbell lol). First and foremost he is 7 and is free to have fun and play however he chooses.
edaj84 8 months ago 47
@edaj84 " First and foremost he is 7 and is free to have fun and play however he chooses." then why does he have you as a "parent"?
secutorclaudius 7 months ago
@secutorclaudius quite clearly you took my post rather more literally than I inteded it (and I am quite sure you know that). Why should I dictate to him what clothes, crowns, costumes, dolls he wears/plays with when he si having fun. Obviously he has rules but they do not extend to what kind of games he should or shouldn't enjoy/play purely based on his gender, they are common sense, safety, sharing etc.
edaj84 7 months ago
@edaj84 OK THEN. I JUST THINK A LITTLE KID DOES NOT HAVE A CLEAR (sorry) understanding of rules, unless the parent imposes them. if one of my boys would put on a tiara (god forbid), his brother would make so much fun of him!
secutorclaudius 7 months ago
@secutorclaudius You are right, kids need rules imposed so that they know the boundaries. I just don't think that those boundaries extend to dictating how they play, what they can or can't wear, whether they can paint their nails (other than if you are going out somewhere special but in that case I wouldn't allow my 5 yr old girl to paint hers either), or even whther they can play with makeup (this one falls under the same category as the nails, only lip gloss if we are going out)
edaj84 7 months ago
@edaj84 Good for you! My Dad threw a FIT when I put a long hair wig on, saying something like " I am NOT going to raise another GIRL! " He never did know how devastating that was to me.
lochinvar00465 5 months ago
@lochinvar00465 Thankyou :) it makes a nice change from the other person who was responding to me, purely to criticise my decisions. I just see no reason why wearing nail polish or a wig or a dress is a problem.
edaj84 5 months ago
@lochinvar00465 I also find it hypocritical that if my son was to go out wearing a princess dress, the comments would start immediately "aren't you wqorried he will turn out gay? " etc BUT if my daughter wore a batman outfit out NO ONE would comment or criticise, I would not hear "aren't you worried she will be a lesbian?"
edaj84 5 months ago 3
@edaj84 People just don't get it. They still think gay/lesbian is a choice. And trans-(anything) just drives them up the wall. And we haven't even gotten to other variations as masculine-female or feminine-male, THAT really makes their poor little craniums hurt.(my regards to Tweety)
lochinvar00465 5 months ago
@edaj84 "worried he would turn out gay"
This is due to the current misconception that "gay" is some kind of choice. One IS what one is. Geez. If I wore a dress would that make me into a girl or turn me into a gay? I doubt it. And really, so what if one's son is gay. It is HIS life that he is living. I seriously think that all the adornments and dress that are currently labelled "female" should be done/worn by men as well. It's all about personal expression and gender equality.
lochinvar00465 5 months ago 3
@edaj84 I painted my nails for a while in college. It didn't make me question my sexuality or gender. I was however amused by the fact that it resulted in an increase in women hitting on me. Apparently some women like it when a guy can empathize with at least some of their concerns about makeup and nail polish.
My mom gave me dolls so I could play with my younger sisters when I was a kid too. All it did was give me more time bonding with my sisters.
halleyscomet 3 days ago
I really liked this video. Can you tell that I'm into nail polish???
NailPolishReview 8 months ago
@BikerBry: Um, so what *is* that reason? What makes something "appropriate"? Seems to me "appropriateness" is actually a pretty nebulous concept, mostly having to do with not violating the comfort zones of the culturally conservative.
ProgRockNerd 8 months ago 4
Nothing say's manly like blood.
Powergraphs 9 months ago
MAN
thegamechamp1234 9 months ago
Zinnia, I have a question, what pronoun do you prefer? I hope it's not a rude question, I just want to be polite about it.
Valkyriefury 9 months ago
@Valkyriefury 'BY REQUEST: GENDER PRONOUN INSTA-FAQ
Call me 'he'. Or 'she'. Either is fine.'
From her channel description. :3
astr323 9 months ago
@astr323 lol, thanks, I didn't see and I didn't want to be insensitive.
Valkyriefury 9 months ago
@Valkyriefury Yeah, it's like this teeny part at the very bottom of her description box. You're welcome :D
astr323 9 months ago
When I took anthropology, I learned about a culture where the women are supposed to be rough, but the men are supposed to gossip and fuss over their looks. Gender obviously isn't as simple as Ablow thinks it is.
queeneternity 9 months ago 4
Are you gay????!!!????
thecolourblue100 9 months ago
...Don't wrestlers wear nail polish...?
QueenMushroomie 9 months ago
Sporting nail polish will not make a boy a girl; unless the child is transgendered and then not much can change that (it's biological). (Trans is gender identity, not sexual preference) He's not necessarily trying to look like a girl either, he may think it is colorful, fun. Their is nothing wrong with a guy that keeps himself clean and well maintained, he could be "looking good for the ladies". Anyhow, this has nothing to do with homosexuality either, most gay men are "traditionally masculine".
IfoundJesus3 9 months ago 4
Damn you have alot of ear rings! :D im jealous o.o
Dirtydirtyfag 9 months ago
Seriuosly? just because a kid put some nailpolish? and USA call themselves the most modern nation in the world and the land of freedom and justice. please, mind your own buisness, you bunch of red necks
mlencastre1 9 months ago
To all of the gay kids out there...don't let these 'Good Christian' morons make you feel ashamed when you haven't done anything wrong! These people have self contempt and frustration and they need an outlet for their anger.
unhallowed45 9 months ago 3
I just want to say that I have never seen so much disgusting crap spewed onto one page. You people don't have a damn clue about homosexuality yet you just can't keep your ugly mouths shut. It is nice to to know that I live in a part of the world where who you kiss (male or female) doesn't fucking matter or affect your character in the least bit. Life is about taking pride in who you are, giving a helping hand, and taking care of the ones you love.
unhallowed45 9 months ago
Sex is a social construction yes. And has nothing to do with if you have a y chromosome or not. It's society that brainwashes babies literally from day one for girls to look at faces more and boys to look at machines with moving parts. You leftists are mental. And notice how I used the word sex and not gender(there is a difference.)
dlotable 9 months ago
is she straight? I doubt you understand what its like to be a straight male in this world. Painting your kids toenails is a MISTAKE. end of. All this idealistic stuff is moot
bl4h1 9 months ago
@bl4h1 I doubt you speak for every straight man in the world.
MissTemperence 9 months ago
@bl4h1 Who's she? ZJ is a man.
fuck1927 9 months ago
@fuck1927 I mean "Jenna lyons" the one who did this to that boy
bl4h1 9 months ago
@bl4h1 Yes, being a man is hard, the pressure to be masculine can get too much to bare,but you seem to think that teaching boys to be masculine will simply mean they conform and not get bullied becuase they're 'masculine enough' to not draw attention. It's not true at all, no-one can ever conform to this standard,
parents teaching children to 'conform' is the worst kind of pressure there is, it teaches self-loathing, that their healthy human behaviour is wrong, it sends their kids up the wall.
MissMysterics 9 months ago 3
theres no difference between male and female besides genitalia and often hormone types.
ThePsychoticScyth396 9 months ago
I'm straight, non-effeminate, I don't consider myself to be an honorary woman in any way. But I like to collect and wear vintage white woman's gloves. It has nothing to do with being female, I just like vintage white dress gloves! I think I might start exploring make-up and utilikilts!
SpazzzDog 9 months ago
it's true what you said, too; i started wearing nailpolish + dressing better BECAUSE certain things helped me start to accept that it was okay that i identified better w/girls and enjoyed hanging out w/them better.
it weren't teh other way 'round.
taffysaur 9 months ago
i'm a 28yr-old straight male + i've worn nailpolish, make-up, w/ever since grade 6 or 7 when i got into punk rock.
i've always been pretty girly + copped shit for it, and it took me a while just to come to terms w/being naturally a fairly effeminate guy, so i'd hate to think what it's like for actual gay or transgender people.
i don't wish i was a girl + i don't find men attractive, i just like to look good. like prince!
taffysaur 9 months ago
TAFFYSAUR:
"i don't wish i was a girl + i don't find men attractive, i just like to look good."
>> You don't have to look feminine to "look good", Michael. Are you under the
impression that everything that's good and attractive is exclusively female-related?
If so, that's quite sad.
--The Final Justice
FinalJusticeMovement 9 months ago
@FinalJusticeMovement no, dude. that's exactly my point. it shouldn't be seen as something only girls can do.
taffysaur 9 months ago
Let's try that again, since you don't seem to get it, Michael.
Are you saying that you feel its necessary to act or DRESS in a mannerism
which is SYMBOLICALLY and AESTHETICALLY feminine
in order to feel that you "look good"?
--The Final Justice
FinalJusticeMovement 9 months ago
@FinalJusticeMovement me personally? yeah, sure. not every boy though. i mean, i'm not the one who decided that cosmetics and fashion sense are an exclusively feminine arena. but i sure do get called fag a lot.
taffysaur 9 months ago
Any One that is Uptight About A Freaking 4 year old wearing nail polish is gona be A teribal Parent an have some Fucked up Kid's!
NATIONALCOMMUNISM666 9 months ago
by the way why is there a girl with a male's voice
zazoupl 9 months ago
@zazoupl
Marie, does your mom know you're harassing people on youtube? At 14, there's still some time to mature.
infideluxe 9 months ago
@infideluxe maybe maybe not and how do you know my name and age
zazoupl 9 months ago
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@zazoupl "by the way why is there a girl with a male's voice" because shes a girl with with male genitals.lol
TheLunarmonkey 9 months ago
people need to be mature what ever happened to pink isn't just for girls and this is the 21st century lots of guys wear nail polish now
zazoupl 9 months ago
this is so stupid...when my son went to daycare when he was between the ages or 1 and 3, they used to play dress up, and quite often, i'd pick him up and he'd have nail polish on...he thought it was cool. now, my son is 8, and he's about the most masculine boy i know...he plays typically boy games, etc. even if the nail polish thing affected his masculinity, who cares? he'd still be my son, and i'd still love him.
grimdonovan 9 months ago 30
*SMFH... -___________- ...110%!!!!! AGREE WITH YOU. . SMFH... THE REASON LIL GULS ARE WEARING INAPROPIROTE CLOTHING FOR THERE AGE IS BECAUSE OF (THERE PARENTS). -.-
kuntyfacedbitch 9 months ago
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kuntyfacedbitch 9 months ago
ZJ - I would love you to pwn final justice movement's response to this video!
StatelessLiberty 10 months ago
@hanksnow82 It's envision, and I don't envision gender neutrality. I envision that if people were free to express their true nature without oppression, only the repressed and oppressed would change at all. Without oppression and respression I envision equality of genders, not neutrality of genders. Everyone would have value for expressing themselves in a positive manner, not rewarded for being duplicitous and self-repressing. I envision harmony where normal means well-adjusted not conformist.
FaultAndDakranon 10 months ago
@FaultAndDakranon It's repression not respression . You are what your chromosomes say you are and and normal is not subjective it has a value scientifically and socially .
hanksnow82 10 months ago
@hanksnow82 You only accept chromosonally determined genders? So you are accepting of male, female and intersex, but not transexual? Is that what you mean by scientifically? Each society has a different set of values, so 'normal' IS subjective on a societal level. So if your society thinks your true self should be repressed to conform with a set of made-up rules, then should you go join a society that doesn't? Or just stay in the one that devalues you? Your statement doesn't make sense to me.
FaultAndDakranon 10 months ago
@FaultAndDakranon You're entitled to your own opinion but not to your own facts . Chromosomes dictate your gender and if you don't know what scientific means look it up . 98% of the population is hetrosexual and that is normal 2 % of the population is homosexual and that is abnormal . If homosexuality ever becomes "normal in any society that society will become exstinct in short order . You seem to barely grasp scientific concepts or the english vernacular that most children have mastered .
hanksnow82 10 months ago
@hanksnow82 You are confusing sex and gender. They are not the same thing.
MissTemperence 10 months ago
@MissTemperence Smoke another bowl pot head because you add nothing to the conversation .
hanksnow82 10 months ago
@hanksnow82 I'm sorry you don't understand the terms I'm using. I'm aware that scientific means knowledge gained through the scientific method. I just don't see how repression of one's true self can have value 'scientifically'. I know that chromosomes dictate your physical gender in large part. But of the one in ~1500 people born with intersex conditions, many are not chromosonal. You don't seem to factor these people into your thinking about disallowing expression of gender, why?
FaultAndDakranon 10 months ago
@FaultAndDakranon respression is not a word hence it has no meaning so it's not a matter of me not understanding it . Hermaphrodites make up less then 1 in 12,000 births in North America as most cases are confused with genital malformaties .
hanksnow82 10 months ago
It's A Free Country Pepole should be Able to dress Any way they want regardless of Gender!
NATIONALCOMMUNISM666 10 months ago
My mom doesn't understand why I like both girls and boys. She thinks it isn't natural. However, every time I grill her about what the meaning of "natural" is, she can't back herself up. HA.
pinkstrawberrypig 10 months ago
fuck you faggots man
GerardIsVeryCool 10 months ago
@thisrandomchannel Is this message to me or him?
yuo252 10 months ago
@thisrandomchannel I don't need to visit my "mate" i got married on the 10th of October (10/10/10) Chances are im younger then you people always claim im "lying" which i could but that would make me a douche wouldn't it? And i don't want to be viewed as a douche unless the person who views me as one is a douche (someone like that Troll you explained fascism to)
yuo252 10 months ago
Also do any of you get it. You are pushing all this anti-bully stuff and allthis pro-transgender/homosexuality crap. Look you can't have both. Pick one and stick with it because if you have both the bullying problem will only get worse.
lilpeaceacrap 10 months ago
@lilpeaceacrap What are the bullies gonna do beat up a adept in four types of martial arts? Doubt it i support anti bully and pro trans-gender/homosexuality. Again what the fuck are they gonna do about it?
yuo252 10 months ago
@yuo252 And have you ever heard of people commiting suicide beause of bullying? Well I have and among those are gay people
lilpeaceacrap 10 months ago
@yuo252 - hmmm.... yeah, that really helped Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover Age 11, wasn't even aware of his sexuality yet, but kids called him gay and ridiculed him relentlessly... He hung himself. That was WITHOUT announcing or acting in a homosexual manner. all the matial arts in the world aren't going to save you from yourself dumbass.
BikerBry 10 months ago
If God wanted me to never paint my nails, why did he give me notably smooth and hard keratin therein?
arachnophile01 10 months ago
"If nail polish can stop people from going to war and get them to have awesome sex then I am all for it!" lmao!
hoboboxerjoe 10 months ago
The kid will turn like you!
studiousx3 10 months ago
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@studiousx3
"The kid will turn like you!"
And then we'll have one more bright, articulate person in the world. Does this worry you?
infideluxe 10 months ago
@infideluxe - no, then you will have another emotionally disturbed person that hates everything including themselves and blames everybody else for their own poor choices and socially unacceptable behavior.
BikerBry 10 months ago
@BikerBry
That's hilarious. If asked to articulate what specifically you find "emotionally disturbed" about ZJ, would your response be, "I don't fucking answer to you!"
If asked for specifics on what behavior leads you to believe ZJ hates himself, what would you say?
The more you talk, the more you come across as a fearful, confused, and ignorant bigot. You've not idea what you're saying, and when confronted, you only spew insults. Pussy.
infideluxe 10 months ago
@BikerBry Like you?
yuo252 10 months ago
@secutorclaudius "'progressive community'"? u mean you're a hippy, right?" YES. Though I would also have accepted "boho" or "commie-pinko." And no, not everything is acceptable. Like a grown man threatening to beat people up over pink nail polish on a child. That's something only a redneck would do, and they're all stuck in the roach trap we refer to as "Methlahem" and "Felony flats." You said it yourself, this stupid shit moves YOU to violence.
MissTemperence 10 months ago
@MissTemperence it won't move ME to violence, but there are many bullies out there who pick on kids for much lesser things. just seems 2 me like the mom is pushing him into exploring his "feminine side". imagine if all moms did that. there'll be only sissy boys running around.
secutorclaudius 10 months ago
@secutorclaudius "it won't move ME to violence, but there are many bullies out there who pick on kids for much lesser things" Yes, because they are raised by people like yourself who say stupid things like "don't be surprised if your progressive kid gets beat up alot by cavemen SUCH AS MYSELF." Don't pretend you're so damn concerned about the children when you're inciting and encouraging the very thing your pretend to be warning us about. (cont)
MissTemperence 10 months ago
@secutorclaudius (cont) and don't pretend like you have any idea what's going on between this mother and child. Your assertion that she's forcing something on him is nothing but an empty assumption about people you literally know nothing about, and that's worse than worthless.
MissTemperence 10 months ago
@MissTemperence iknow what i see. if the kid asked "mommy, can i have nailpolish on my teonails too?", the answer should've been "no, boys don't do that", not "sure, boys, girls, whatever, who cares?". and sorry to dissapoint you, but "people like myself" make up the majority of this world, believe it or not. there's a reason they call it ""alternative lifestyle".
secutorclaudius 10 months ago
@secutorclaudius I don't think you do know what you see, because you're describing 2 different scenarios. One in which a mother is "pushing" her son to wear nail polish, and another in which your complaint is that she simply didn't say no when he requested it. And no, I don't think people like yourself make up the majority. I think it's clear most people think this is a ridiculous non-issue. People like yourself are just too uneducated to think beyond the confines of your own redneck town.
MissTemperence 10 months ago
@secutorclaudius (cont) Not to mention, you've just employed the ad populum fallacy. Even if it were true that most people agreed with you, that's not a valid argument. Just because an idea is popular, it does not naturally follow that it is correct. Or do they not have debate class in the sticks? Maybe you should spend less time fretting about completely arbitrary social conventions that come and go and more time working on your education.
MissTemperence 10 months ago
@MissTemperence i do not live in a redneck town. i wasn't even born in this country. and i am educated, and probably speak better english than you do. you go on about people like me who are "intolerant, smallminded, etc". ah, but people like you put down guys like me, who have a clear set of morals, traditions, tenets, every chance you get for not agreeing with you. fine, raise your kids the way you want, if you have any (you are probably a lesbian, right?). more power to you.
secutorclaudius 10 months ago
@secutorclaudius You aren't the only one with a "clear set of morals." Every culture and sub culture has it's own sense of morality, traditions, etc. Besides, your "morals" lead to small children being beaten up over irrelevant things. You call yourself moral, but you would rather teach children to attack and ostracize each over something as stupid as nail polish. You're not moral, you're just controlled by irrational fears. Big difference.
MissTemperence 10 months ago 19
@MissTemperence well, if the thought that my kid will turn out gay or effeminate is an irrational fear, so be it. tell me, what parent wants that? oh, you. so, no, i will not encourage my boys to play with barbies or put on make up or polish. and believe me, i am not all that conservative. you know there are plenty of right wing nuts who would put me to shame. guys who hold up "god hates fags" signs and beat up trannies and shit like that.
secutorclaudius 9 months ago
@secutorclaudius Why would I want my kid to turn out gay or straight? Why should that even be an issue? That's hilarious that you think we're grooming our kids to become gay, when the truth is you're the ones who would obsess over something like that, not us. Why are you going on about the Westboro baptist church? To prove that there's someone even more ridiculous than you? So? And yes, for the record, fearing that nail polish will turn your child gay is irrational. And hilarious.
MissTemperence 9 months ago
@MissTemperence i don't know what the westboro thing is. so clearly u believe that people are born either gay or straight. but don't u think that the environment they grow up in can also be a factor? like boys growing up only among women, no father figure, only being exposed to girly things, etc. that has to have an impact on an impressionable boy. i'm so psychologist, but i will not be the one to encourage such behavior in a kid. to me, penis=boy, vagina=girl. or or was god wrong?
secutorclaudius 9 months ago
@secutorclaudius Go awai, you stupid 50s sit. com. mindset moron
Stupidfart9876 9 months ago
@Stupidfart9876 first learn how to spell, buddy, or no one will take you seriously.
secutorclaudius 9 months ago
@secutorclaudius First learn to not be close minded my boy. This is the internet, Spelling doesn't matter
Now go ahead and dine on your little red neck welfare leeching of my tax payer money.
Stupidfart9876 9 months ago
@Stupidfart9876 how old r u? never been on welfare, i work my ass off. and not only is your spelling horrendous, but grammar too. and this comes from someone whose english is a second language. shows who's the uneducated redneck, doesn't it?
secutorclaudius 9 months ago
@secutorclaudius You're kinda a hypocrite and a moron when you tell me have bad spelling while you spell "how old r u?", argue with someone you think is a little kid, which is immature. Rednecks are religious and I'm not a redneck. You can't even argue what's on the main video you're comment on, so you try and twist my comment to seem like that it has bad grammar/spelling. If I have bad spelling/grammar, then try to point out where it is okay? Don't try to twist the subject :3
Stupidfart9876 9 months ago
@Stupidfart9876 i hate the fact that u, and some ppl here think i'm a redneck, bigot, "fundamentalist" just cause i said i was christian. ooh, that makes me the devil, or hitler. i see u r not, i feel sorry 4 u. maybe u had bad experiences w christians, but we're not all the same. so u want everyone 2 think like u, all freespirited and uninhibited. some of us were reared differently, and hold certain beliefs dear, which u clearly shit upon.
secutorclaudius 9 months ago
@secutorclaudius Nice,
1. You're getting pissed
2. You're proving yourself a hypocrite saying that not all Christians are the same, but then proceeding to generalizing others
3. You're making horrible spelling and grammar errors, even though you failed to point out mine, making you even more of a hypocrite
4. I'm the one shitting upon your crap? Talking to your kind of mindset is like talking to a piece of dog shit: You 2 are both something any decent human would want to avoid stepping on :3
Stupidfart9876 9 months ago
@Stupidfart9876 ok, bye now, no point talking to you. have a nice life.
secutorclaudius 9 months ago
@secutorclaudius I believe sexuality is more fluid than just "gay or straight", but yes, I would say people are born with predisposition to certain sexual preferences. By your logic, you would no doubt assume that a large number of kids in my community would be growing up to be gay, but they're not. It seems to statistically about the same as the general population. Penis= boy? We're not talking about genitals here, hon. we're talking about nail polish, which has no gender.
MissTemperence 9 months ago
@MissTemperence where do u live, san francisco? i agree, to turn out gay, there must be something there to begin with. i cannot imagine myself kising a man, so gay men must be wired differently. i just don't like seeing boys growing up sissies because their moms encourage "girly" behaviors. and i have seen that more than once. besides, this stupidfart9876 illiterate is pissing me off.
secutorclaudius 9 months ago