i think we all have gone through difficult phases....for eg. for me, things have been impossible but doing anything to yourself for them....is only to grab attention...as it makes things worse for you!!!!!
"But for you and me, our time is coming." Oh my god, me and my best friend right there. She's going to get over her depression and borderline-anorexia and I'm going to get over all my anxiety, fears, depression, and suicidal thoughts. We can do it. I love you Hallie, so much. ♥
@tigerseyeproductions Well, your the one who's the psycho nutcase. Cutters fell more painful than ur febble mind can comprehend. I being a cutter have 100x more living than u becuz of my pain and i'm a male. It affects everyone. I was just like u and now looke at me now. So i suggest u shiut up
I hate Dawn's character, sorry. She's awkward.. which I understand, but she's TOO awkward. Not everyone who self-harms is a fucking psycho nutcase freak. This entire movie makes me feel uncomfortable.
the word "never" was meant to be sarcastic. but in real life it is difficult for these individuals to make friends & keep friendships with greater difficulty forming close relationships. most of these ppl were or are presently or are at risk for being bullied, yes.
Ending sucks b/c what friend says is a lie. For most of these ppl, they will go to college, and continue hearing same BS over and over again by teachers, instructors, proffs, parents, siblings, employers. Once they get older, health insurance will be cut. No access to health care. No help. Ppl only judge. No one will be there to help them. Some may start college but never finish it. There is no cure for cutting. They will never outgrow it.Only cut deeper. This is how the story really ends.
i totally don't see how that was a bad ending! a hell of a lot better than the ED movies where they're 'all better' at the end. a very inspiring line, too; Our time is coming... :)
Awww!! I wanted to see more!! But I like that, what Lorraine said at the end. "But our time it's coming." Gives u a sense of hope. "It's darkest is always before dawn". And it's true. Things may get tough again, but u have try to stay strong somehow.
Lol fictional character. In real life, cutters never have a single friend, always bullied. Who chooses to be or wants to be a loner?? They stick out like sore thumb. Ppl know, but ever befriend them to make their one day in life go okay. No one out there really ever cares for other than themselves.
@emilkapolka1 Oh please, really? Don't have such a strong opinion for something you don't understand. I'm a cutter, I have a lot of friends. Only two people know, not everyone. I stick out like a sore thumb anyways, because of my weird habits and damn good acting skills, I seem like a crazy and happy teenager. So just shut up.
@OtaIsko ...LMAO Don't understand? I own over a decade of personal experience with this issue. survived high school and college. yet this issue seems to be prevalent among teenagers, which u MUST be. In general, these individuals maintain to have high anxiety, depression, have many OCDs, & are anti-social. sure can make friends but have great difficulty keeping those friendships. REAL cutters strive to keep their secret above anything else. Then there r those who do it for attention
why does everyone think it's a crappy ending? I liked it! She didn't quit,but she was HAPPY. Her friend was happy. They started getting on with their lives. I thought it was inspiring because it shows me that I CAN get past this,no matter how hard it seems:)
As soon as the mom left the brother apologized, the dad got some sense so it must have been her evil ass. Stay gone mom and your daughter is happy, is the moral of the story.
This isn't totally accurate to real cutting but it gives some solid points. The parent's weren't the best with this situation I know but both of them were stuck either living in the past (the mother) or couldn't look beyond work (her father). These are both negative ways of life when you have children. :( I was an ex cutter myself and I had to get out of it myself, Dawn kind of wanted that attention :( So sad.
u can't just take ur family for good,. if ur teenager make sure u just focus for your own future family. the first family r not really ur family. you'll found out more once you reach that age.
I still like this movie. I found it really triggering though. Would love to say I'm an ex-cutter, but to be serious and honest, I still have moment where I wanna cut. Sometimes I do cut myself, too; others I can push through it. This movie can be triggering but it can also be hopeful.
Everything Lorraine says gives me hope to keep going, but in particular, when she says, "Our time is coming," that gives me strength to keep going. Because I've been in Dawn's situation before, I watch this movie sometimes. It gives me hope.
I disagree with the top comment. this is as life like and real as it gets for me. i am a cutter. i am like dawn. dawn's mother is exactly like my mother. everything she did and says, my mother does and has done. dawn's cutting and her mother are the closest thing i have come across to my real life situation.
@msbackindadayz The popular girl (blonde) is getting all the glory in her high school days. But when she's older, she'll be like Dawns mother. Look at EdenFire156 top rated comment. Thats how the popular blonde is going to be when she's older. But for Dawn and her friend, there best days are coming, so when there older, they'll be alot happier about who they are. Dawns mother is unhappy (bc she's living off her highschool days still).
The girl in this movie reminds me of my girlfriend. I'm scared that she is gettin worse she don't want help and she was cuttin side to side now its worse up and down. I love her but not her addiction.
@Zombieal93 she obviously has a fantastic partner to stand by her like this. Not enough people like you around. You say she doesn't want help - but does she want to stop? she might want help but too scared to ask for it. encourage her to speak - cry even- Theres not really much you can do to make her stop jus make sure she knows she's loved.
@Zombieal93 She more than likely wants help. If she didn't you probably wouldn't know she cuts. No one knew I cut until I decided I needed to get some help.
I guess cutting is different 4 every1. In my teen years I used to cut to punish myself. Having an eatting disorder used to make me cut when I had eaten too much or felt fat or bad about myself. Plus cutting myself wasn't about killing myself or trying to get attention like the nurse in this movie said.
@trickmind5 as an ex-cutter, i'm gonna say not neccessarily, though it can be. it can be from verbal abuse, neglect, stress, physical abuse. cutting is a way for the cutter to make their emotional pain real to them, something they can see, something they can control.
@trickmind5 not really because i used 2 cut and no one even touched me....my parents seemed scared of me actually.. and they didnt even find out untill later.. :'(
The movie is great, only the end sucks. All happy about nothing, 'ohh our time is coming'. NO, some people just have a life that sucks, and others don't... And that song makes me throw up. I LOVE the movie, I HATE how it ends. Blehrg.
eugh! this gets me so mad! nothing was resolved, just some bullshit "everything's gonna be ok"-happy-joy-joy ending. make it 1 hr longer, throw the mom back in there, make her appologize and mend her ways, make the dad confront his wife and his own issues and STOP BLAMING THE FUCKING GIRL!
GE - ZUZ!
eeeeeeeeevery single person except the therapist blames her for everything when it was the behaviour of the other family members and kids at school that made her do what she does! NOT HER FAULT! >:(
I know that this is probably why in description there is word 'triggering' but hey, why after seeing somebody smoking in a movie I take another cigarette and after seeing some scenes in this I wonder where do I put those razors?
tell you what guys since everybody is commenting so will I. I started when i was 14 and I stopped when I was 21 years old. Well therapy kinda helped.although I have to admitt that sometimes the urge is still there even though Im 24 now.
this movie gave me a few tears, because i can relate i am an ex cutter, and i didnt have a mother like her or a father like her, my dad left when i was 14/15 and i started at the age of 11/12 up to age 18, im not gonna tell my whole story tho.
The sad thing is that a lot of people cut themselves. I lost a step-daughter last year. She died by suicide. Her mother was/is a cutter and taught her daughters how to cut themselves from a very young age. They saw her cut herself and try to kill herself many times. The sad thing is that when there are family problems, the kid's are the ones who internalize the negative impact of it and they would rather hurt themselves or kill themselves in place of their parent(s).
@24Wynn You dont teach someone to cut themselves. Thats just a stupid therapist way of explaining why people cut themselves. There is no percise reason behind it.
This movie is so relevant to my life. My mom was the exact same and so was my dad )he even does stainedglass). I want to show my mother this movie and tell her "look, this is what I felt like, and this is how you were acting around me, goddamn."
Maybe one day she'll understand what I went through. It wasn't about bad parents or a bad life or home or not having enough friends, it was about not being content and not knowing how to deal with that.
I think this movie help us to understand why people cut themselves. My best friend did it, and I remember how lost I was, and how I didn't know how to make her stop... I talked to her, and I tried to be there for her all the way, I asked her to speak to a nurse or a doctor, but she didn't want anyone to know that she was vulnerable so I tried to be that person for her. Today she is fine, she stopped.
I wish that people would watch this, and understand what cutting is, and not just what they see. Being called emo, cutter, being cast out isn't fun but it's because people fear and don't understand cutters. Maybe if people watched this they would understand, there would be less hatred and fear towards it and cutters could actually come out and get help. We are so hidden in the population because of the fear of getting found, but if that fear goes away, maybe us cutters can get better help. maybe
OK, this movie essentially serves two functions: a PSA, and a melodrama.
Because it's melodramatic and therefore unrealistic, on the one hand it gets the point across, on the other, it may prevent understanding of this issue and further certain stereotypes. The message is important, but the content is soap drama.
@vannia3000 Mothers shouldn't get breaks? I mean she was awful but they did show that she had a lot of reason to be- ie.... watching her sister die and the mother that wouldn't get out of bed.
sad movie.... but it isn't all messed up.it shows that even when we feel we're all alone,having even one true friend is better than being all alone.it's inspiring.like the movie shows you that not everyone is what they seem and many people do crazy things when they're unhappy... ;( well... anyways,tks for uploading this movie :)
Hmm. I'm an ex-cutter and this movie was kind of unrealistic. For example I cut for years before anyone found out, and they only found out because I told them. I think self-mutilators are generally way more careful about when and where they cut. Then again, for a movie I suppose the pacing had to be quick.
@Avath Im still a cutter and I agree. Though, I didnt care who saw me cut, cuz they didnt care either. Their response was what I wanted; "Its your body, do what you want" Some people just take it the wrong way.
Every time, that somebody cutting him/her self, there's something wrong with mothers. It's not that she's living in her memories, but she basically lacks the sense how the other can feel. Simply being narrow-mind....My mother drove me crazy, but I can realise that mother is not a person, who knows you best.I think for this people is important to know that every person has got personality and his/her own period in which he/she discovers him/her self. That life is about growing, maturity and fade.
If you watch closely the early part of the movie that's exactly what happened to Dawn's mother -- "everything that made her life beautiful" happened in high school. The woman lives off old "high school glory days" memories, she doesn't live in the present at all and in the present she's nothing and cannot stand it, so she wants Dawn to make up for that by being perfect and popular. Ugh, I hate parents like that. *puke*
whatever happens in your life you are not alone... even if you think you are ... others have shared the same feelings and done the same things ... things will change ...the universe has time for us all ... we are all children of the stars...love is the reason for our existance ...and there is a future for us all ...when we learn to listen and not condemn others or ourselves.... listen to each other... we are all on the same journey the rollercoaster of life ....
@discodreadwing to some people this is real cutting and sometimes there life could be like this. it is diffrent for everybody. and yes you are correct on one thing def...it does get the point across
I didn't like the ending, and I really hated those bitches, picking on her, i would have kicked them down into that boiler room and hacked them up, IF THEY WERE REAL
the ending is crap, it really doesn't finish it off. I mean like, does the Mum come back? Does she stop cutting? Do her and her Dad start to open up to eachother? it's a disappointment.
@xsween101x: Same here!!!! Well, I am planning my trip to Greece and England.....I graduated high school and I will attend NOVA in Virgnia in Alexandria and then Yale University for Law School and Architect.....great job!!! How was Greece? People like you inspire me!!! Most of the girls I know who bullied me are now teen moms with no support in any area and some have STDs or are in jail....you're an inspiration!!!! THANK YOU! :)
I hate it the Dawn gurl wasn't realistic she was plastic my friendz cutt and they are alot more fun/emo than that and the other gurl i would have had no choice but to leave when he put his hands on me the first time(like runaway) and bakk to Dawn if that guy wanted to be with her he would try to change and mommy was a control freak and dad was so akward even with frustration..
@LikeThat57 People who cut and are fun/emo about it don't do it for the actual reason, this girl was actually going through a lot of pain. Cutting is not something to joke about kid.
i liked the ending, it's true. people like us who get shit on at school, we can blossom later. those pop kids need to do a shit load of growing up if they wanna have a good life beyond some crappy superficial popularity contest. i mean, the way they act you can tell none of them can even feel safe with each other, since they're all so mean. their friendship is based on a lie. and when they realize that, they'll be all alone. it's like baddies who always lose cuz their buddies betray them.
lol all you guys complaining about "o the movie sucked what kinda ending is that" the ending makes alot of sence and they couldnt have ended it better if they tried. youu guys wanted her to quit cutting herself? ive never cut myself but i know people who have and let me tell you it takes years and years to stop. you guys just wanted her to suddenly stop? thats not realistic and it would make the movie terrible. for all you cutters out there you time is comming just keep you head up
Since everyone here seems to hate the ending, let me give you one: Sometimes the only thing we need to get better is time. Sometimes we need to stop rushing through our problems because in reality they need time to heal. :)
DAMN ENDING..FUCK
IDontUseName 4 days ago
i think we all have gone through difficult phases....for eg. for me, things have been impossible but doing anything to yourself for them....is only to grab attention...as it makes things worse for you!!!!!
uditaize 1 week ago
"But for you and me, our time is coming." Oh my god, me and my best friend right there. She's going to get over her depression and borderline-anorexia and I'm going to get over all my anxiety, fears, depression, and suicidal thoughts. We can do it. I love you Hallie, so much. ♥
kristineohkristine 1 week ago 2
The Ending is real to me- there is no ending life goes on
Luv2SingAgain 2 weeks ago in playlist Painful Secrets
What? Is she ever going to stop cutting, and well that guy stop beating up Laurien ... and what about the mum? I want a better ending !! :P
SonjaStar96 2 weeks ago
i think i'm the only one who likes the ending lol
MsTinkerbelle87 3 weeks ago 6
@MsTinkerbelle87 I like it too.
xhalesxlovesx 3 weeks ago
._. i hate this ending...Like what the hell happens next...
kirstyanimelover08 3 weeks ago
Wat the heck man i hate the endin
Wat happens???!!!
Shawty816839 3 weeks ago
why is the film ending with the beggining?
TheBmb10 1 month ago
No kids are that mean,
purelypink1107 1 month ago
@purelypink1107 Yes they can be....believe me I know
PalominoMare20 4 weeks ago
Tthis ending sucked!!!!
aimaFHS 1 month ago
@tigerseyeproductions your face makes me feel uncomfortable, you ugly piece of shit
monica0192837465 1 month ago
Lol at a typical life time movie ending..
WCTOAGUN 1 month ago
bitchy ending
richpeople217 1 month ago
This just makes me want to cut more
Elizabeth45576 1 month ago 3
Ah happy ish ending happy tears :')
JosieMarieHollenbeck 1 month ago
@tigerseyeproductions Well, your the one who's the psycho nutcase. Cutters fell more painful than ur febble mind can comprehend. I being a cutter have 100x more living than u becuz of my pain and i'm a male. It affects everyone. I was just like u and now looke at me now. So i suggest u shiut up
Shadowstar003 1 month ago
i dont get y those girls at skool dont understand tht by saying tht it makes her cut...stupid highschool teenagers
NebraskaGirl99 1 month ago
So...Is she happy now....or...? O would have liked to seen the popular girl suffer..oh well:(
thecoolchloe121 1 month ago
crazy thing after i seen this movie along time ago is when i first started cutting ive stopped since then but the scars remain
mendeza25 1 month ago
ALL ive Leaned is to CUT instead of crying
linusthesniper 1 month ago in playlist Painful Secrets Part 1
is their another part?
Cecebabii258 2 months ago
nooooo that can't be the end!!!
EmoXMistakeX295 2 months ago 3
@emilkapolka1 well obviously you've never self harmed. You are clueless
flower5890 2 months ago
I hate Dawn's character, sorry. She's awkward.. which I understand, but she's TOO awkward. Not everyone who self-harms is a fucking psycho nutcase freak. This entire movie makes me feel uncomfortable.
tigerseyeproductions 2 months ago
@emilkapolka1 are you trying to say that cutters never have any friends or that they are always bullied...?
KYLiiiiiEx3 2 months ago
the word "never" was meant to be sarcastic. but in real life it is difficult for these individuals to make friends & keep friendships with greater difficulty forming close relationships. most of these ppl were or are presently or are at risk for being bullied, yes.
emilkapolka1 2 months ago
Ending sucks b/c what friend says is a lie. For most of these ppl, they will go to college, and continue hearing same BS over and over again by teachers, instructors, proffs, parents, siblings, employers. Once they get older, health insurance will be cut. No access to health care. No help. Ppl only judge. No one will be there to help them. Some may start college but never finish it. There is no cure for cutting. They will never outgrow it.Only cut deeper. This is how the story really ends.
emilkapolka1 2 months ago
@emilkapolka1 i stopped cutting, there are happy endings.
MsGumbygirl92409 3 weeks ago 4
i liked the ending. It gave me shivers. Because it is so true.
13Bee1 2 months ago
Be strong now, because things will get better. it's stormy now... But it can't rain forever.
This feels like more than just... Bad weather.
mazzyxoxo 2 months ago
i totally don't see how that was a bad ending! a hell of a lot better than the ED movies where they're 'all better' at the end. a very inspiring line, too; Our time is coming... :)
iheartwintergirls 2 months ago in playlist Movie - PAINFUL SECRETS 2
I wish the scene with her brother having a heart to heart lasted longer, and the ending sucked. But other than that, pretty intense movie.
Emily61897 2 months ago
Noo it can't end :(
starrweeks 3 months ago
Awww!! I wanted to see more!! But I like that, what Lorraine said at the end. "But our time it's coming." Gives u a sense of hope. "It's darkest is always before dawn". And it's true. Things may get tough again, but u have try to stay strong somehow.
ultimatedbzgtdbfan 3 months ago
I love Lorraine, I'd give anything to have a friend like her :3
AggravatedChild 3 months ago
Lol fictional character. In real life, cutters never have a single friend, always bullied. Who chooses to be or wants to be a loner?? They stick out like sore thumb. Ppl know, but ever befriend them to make their one day in life go okay. No one out there really ever cares for other than themselves.
emilkapolka1 2 months ago
@emilkapolka1 Oh please, really? Don't have such a strong opinion for something you don't understand. I'm a cutter, I have a lot of friends. Only two people know, not everyone. I stick out like a sore thumb anyways, because of my weird habits and damn good acting skills, I seem like a crazy and happy teenager. So just shut up.
OtaIsko 2 months ago
@OtaIsko ...LMAO Don't understand? I own over a decade of personal experience with this issue. survived high school and college. yet this issue seems to be prevalent among teenagers, which u MUST be. In general, these individuals maintain to have high anxiety, depression, have many OCDs, & are anti-social. sure can make friends but have great difficulty keeping those friendships. REAL cutters strive to keep their secret above anything else. Then there r those who do it for attention
emilkapolka1 2 months ago
Dawn has a nice smile :D
TheOn3LeftBehind 3 months ago
Ugly skanks
berndiggydiggy 3 months ago
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why is there no sound from 3:49 on wards?
Suzen92 3 months ago
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Suzen92 3 months ago
dont u find dawn looks like winona ryder?
9850822 4 months ago in playlist Secret Cutting (2000)
why does everyone think it's a crappy ending? I liked it! She didn't quit,but she was HAPPY. Her friend was happy. They started getting on with their lives. I thought it was inspiring because it shows me that I CAN get past this,no matter how hard it seems:)
PartiallyFunctional 4 months ago 5
I started brawling my eyes out when she started cutting and i cried all the way through. Just because everything in the movie seems to relate to me.
Monsterdanceable 4 months ago
beautiful ending!
LaFemmeCelena 4 months ago in playlist More videos from Shae050
As soon as the mom left the brother apologized, the dad got some sense so it must have been her evil ass. Stay gone mom and your daughter is happy, is the moral of the story.
Ivoreej 4 months ago
no 1 was there 4 me when i started....it was very hard to stop
cwoodsseeley 4 months ago
How did you stop. Not everyone can. That impulse to loathe self never dies out. So how does one stop?
emilkapolka1 2 months ago
I started crying wen she told her dad that everybody hates her and didn't stop for the whole movie
jkseiden 4 months ago
Man, I wanted to slap her mom for the entire film.
kaitxcore 4 months ago in playlist Secret Cutting
Goin Through everything i am
TheLexiiLynn 4 months ago
Amazing film, Made me cry alot but still loved it. Very emotional, I love how the dad came through in the end <3
VideoQueenXX 4 months ago
This isn't totally accurate to real cutting but it gives some solid points. The parent's weren't the best with this situation I know but both of them were stuck either living in the past (the mother) or couldn't look beyond work (her father). These are both negative ways of life when you have children. :( I was an ex cutter myself and I had to get out of it myself, Dawn kind of wanted that attention :( So sad.
jayden2595 5 months ago
i just saw my parents in this movie :(
kowalewicz24 5 months ago
@kowalewicz24 ill cut ur wrist if you cut mine :(
50jainosa50 4 months ago
u can't just take ur family for good,. if ur teenager make sure u just focus for your own future family. the first family r not really ur family. you'll found out more once you reach that age.
SiLeNTxKiLLeR32 6 months ago
my parents were the best.they sh0wed me they cared and i learnt t0 let g0 0f cutting.I L0VE YU M0M AND DAD. <3
poorna1234567890 6 months ago 6
WONDERFUL acting especially dawn, her mom and her dad
lovesmileyyy 6 months ago
WORST ENDING EVER!!!!
SailorgalaxyGal 6 months ago 74
And she is THINKING about breaking up w/ him...WTF is w/ these freaking parents!!!???
helloqable 6 months ago 4
This movie makes me wanna cry
And I'm a boy and yes I have the same fucking prob but only I wanna shoot myself in the head cuz I'm a sucidal person with alot of deranged problems.
TheCrazydeath1 6 months ago
@TheCrazydeath1 Please dont :( someone cares about you, trust me
PalominoMare20 4 months ago
A happy end. that is unrealistic in this world there is hardly a happy ending.
Pilzplayer 6 months ago 2
i like lauraine, particularly at the end, but this movie is so triggering in places. they got the parents right though
4810Ree 6 months ago
I wish they would make a new movie about cutting!
maenyn 6 months ago 3
@maenyn I know! This one is so old. The treatment and knowledge of it is totally different now.
kaitxcore 4 months ago
her eyebrow kinda freaks me out
aokska 7 months ago 5
Worst movie ever! okay, i get it...ive cut before to, but the acting just sucked butt.
RockerKailin 7 months ago
WTF? That was such a shit ending -_-'.
BlindSided182 7 months ago 93
I still like this movie. I found it really triggering though. Would love to say I'm an ex-cutter, but to be serious and honest, I still have moment where I wanna cut. Sometimes I do cut myself, too; others I can push through it. This movie can be triggering but it can also be hopeful.
darkfairy148 7 months ago in playlist Painful Secrets AKA Secret Cutting
Everything Lorraine says gives me hope to keep going, but in particular, when she says, "Our time is coming," that gives me strength to keep going. Because I've been in Dawn's situation before, I watch this movie sometimes. It gives me hope.
imhissensualbeauty 7 months ago 4
what the hell was that the worst ending of all time!!!
poetry551 7 months ago 4
I disagree with the top comment. this is as life like and real as it gets for me. i am a cutter. i am like dawn. dawn's mother is exactly like my mother. everything she did and says, my mother does and has done. dawn's cutting and her mother are the closest thing i have come across to my real life situation.
13Bee1 7 months ago
@princessmonki10 If you need anyone to talk to, I'm here. I care.
pamplemousse100 8 months ago
I love the end when she says: "Our time is coming." It gives hope to the whole situation
Thehella 8 months ago 5
@msbackindadayz The popular girl (blonde) is getting all the glory in her high school days. But when she's older, she'll be like Dawns mother. Look at EdenFire156 top rated comment. Thats how the popular blonde is going to be when she's older. But for Dawn and her friend, there best days are coming, so when there older, they'll be alot happier about who they are. Dawns mother is unhappy (bc she's living off her highschool days still).
Does that make a little sense? lol
jessbonkers 8 months ago 2
The girl in this movie reminds me of my girlfriend. I'm scared that she is gettin worse she don't want help and she was cuttin side to side now its worse up and down. I love her but not her addiction.
Zombieal93 9 months ago
@Zombieal93 she obviously has a fantastic partner to stand by her like this. Not enough people like you around. You say she doesn't want help - but does she want to stop? she might want help but too scared to ask for it. encourage her to speak - cry even- Theres not really much you can do to make her stop jus make sure she knows she's loved.
gibbseyo 8 months ago
@Zombieal93 She more than likely wants help. If she didn't you probably wouldn't know she cuts. No one knew I cut until I decided I needed to get some help.
tracervudu7 8 months ago
What is the name of this song at the end of the movie??
billiewly 9 months ago
I guess cutting is different 4 every1. In my teen years I used to cut to punish myself. Having an eatting disorder used to make me cut when I had eaten too much or felt fat or bad about myself. Plus cutting myself wasn't about killing myself or trying to get attention like the nurse in this movie said.
DRAGONFLYS06 9 months ago 5
i like cryed 4 times during the whole movie wft????
xXscreamostinaxX 9 months ago 2
Stupid movie!
Sharmanoff 9 months ago
DA fack?? Where is the part where they get the beyatch back that movie SUCKED
sweetwhoer 10 months ago
Tht was the ending??
kibaluv3r 10 months ago 2
I think... I never cried so much during a movie.. I felt like... I could relate... A lot.
EatDirtAndDieTrash 10 months ago
Isn't most cutting related to sexual abuse?
trickmind5 11 months ago
@trickmind5 not necessarily.
forbesashley 11 months ago
@trickmind5 ya but that is not the only cause of cutting people cut for a variety of reasons.
edpinkgurl 10 months ago
@trickmind5 as an ex-cutter, i'm gonna say not neccessarily, though it can be. it can be from verbal abuse, neglect, stress, physical abuse. cutting is a way for the cutter to make their emotional pain real to them, something they can see, something they can control.
thestarinuri 10 months ago
@trickmind5 not really because i used 2 cut and no one even touched me....my parents seemed scared of me actually.. and they didnt even find out untill later.. :'(
msnoahxlukefan 9 months ago
i love the quote at the end... for them... everything good is happening now... but for us.. our time is coming :)
my time is coming :)
teeshepgurl 11 months ago 3
The movie is great, only the end sucks. All happy about nothing, 'ohh our time is coming'. NO, some people just have a life that sucks, and others don't... And that song makes me throw up. I LOVE the movie, I HATE how it ends. Blehrg.
Girlyy13Metallica 11 months ago 5
eugh! this gets me so mad! nothing was resolved, just some bullshit "everything's gonna be ok"-happy-joy-joy ending. make it 1 hr longer, throw the mom back in there, make her appologize and mend her ways, make the dad confront his wife and his own issues and STOP BLAMING THE FUCKING GIRL!
GE - ZUZ!
eeeeeeeeevery single person except the therapist blames her for everything when it was the behaviour of the other family members and kids at school that made her do what she does! NOT HER FAULT! >:(
Evilsnotbag 1 year ago
omg i hate how this beautiful movie ends . it's sooo weird with that crapy little song.
XxcblovesyouxX 1 year ago
Apart from occasional cuts, I quit about 2.5 years ago. Yet I still found this somewhat triggering.
DutchJake 1 year ago
this was a really good movie.
LadyRainbowGaGa 1 year ago
this is 1 teenager whose parents found out. millions of teenagers go through this without anyone knowing and it just gets worse and worse.
spongebobjazzpants 1 year ago 4
I know that this is probably why in description there is word 'triggering' but hey, why after seeing somebody smoking in a movie I take another cigarette and after seeing some scenes in this I wonder where do I put those razors?
AnotherWhoHitTheDust 1 year ago
tell you what guys since everybody is commenting so will I. I started when i was 14 and I stopped when I was 21 years old. Well therapy kinda helped.although I have to admitt that sometimes the urge is still there even though Im 24 now.
ness968 1 year ago
this movie gave me a few tears, because i can relate i am an ex cutter, and i didnt have a mother like her or a father like her, my dad left when i was 14/15 and i started at the age of 11/12 up to age 18, im not gonna tell my whole story tho.
brandiandbenji 1 year ago
The sad thing is that a lot of people cut themselves. I lost a step-daughter last year. She died by suicide. Her mother was/is a cutter and taught her daughters how to cut themselves from a very young age. They saw her cut herself and try to kill herself many times. The sad thing is that when there are family problems, the kid's are the ones who internalize the negative impact of it and they would rather hurt themselves or kill themselves in place of their parent(s).
24Wynn 1 year ago
@24Wynn You dont teach someone to cut themselves. Thats just a stupid therapist way of explaining why people cut themselves. There is no percise reason behind it.
yaoilover1488 1 year ago
i like this movie! more people should watch such movies to understand what cutters do feel.
does anybody know is there any scientific notion to determin self cutting?
Rayon18able 1 year ago
O my gosh I'll probally cry for hours I love this movie
barrels4ever101 1 year ago
This movie is so relevant to my life. My mom was the exact same and so was my dad )he even does stainedglass). I want to show my mother this movie and tell her "look, this is what I felt like, and this is how you were acting around me, goddamn."
Maybe one day she'll understand what I went through. It wasn't about bad parents or a bad life or home or not having enough friends, it was about not being content and not knowing how to deal with that.
forbesashley 1 year ago
@forbesashley lol that your Dad even does stain glass. (Not that lol about the rest of it. )
trickmind5 11 months ago
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I hate the way this movie ended.
jfrencher 1 year ago
I think this movie help us to understand why people cut themselves. My best friend did it, and I remember how lost I was, and how I didn't know how to make her stop... I talked to her, and I tried to be there for her all the way, I asked her to speak to a nurse or a doctor, but she didn't want anyone to know that she was vulnerable so I tried to be that person for her. Today she is fine, she stopped.
Etmaviepourtesyeux 1 year ago
I wish that people would watch this, and understand what cutting is, and not just what they see. Being called emo, cutter, being cast out isn't fun but it's because people fear and don't understand cutters. Maybe if people watched this they would understand, there would be less hatred and fear towards it and cutters could actually come out and get help. We are so hidden in the population because of the fear of getting found, but if that fear goes away, maybe us cutters can get better help. maybe
dashigara12 1 year ago
OK, this movie essentially serves two functions: a PSA, and a melodrama.
Because it's melodramatic and therefore unrealistic, on the one hand it gets the point across, on the other, it may prevent understanding of this issue and further certain stereotypes. The message is important, but the content is soap drama.
Arctophile2000 1 year ago 4
@Arctophile2000 I agree. I mean the way it ended? REALLY?
Marlafull 1 year ago
oh well. parents didn't receive any manual with instructions, give the dad a break...
vannia3000 1 year ago
@vannia3000 Mothers shouldn't get breaks? I mean she was awful but they did show that she had a lot of reason to be- ie.... watching her sister die and the mother that wouldn't get out of bed.
trickmind5 11 months ago
Respond to this video... Did they ever say why the Grandma (off screen) would never get out of bed?
trickmind5 11 months ago
@trickmind5 Apologies if this came rather late but from my impression, it seemed she was suffering from depression.
ComaLies225 10 months ago
sad movie.... but it isn't all messed up.it shows that even when we feel we're all alone,having even one true friend is better than being all alone.it's inspiring.like the movie shows you that not everyone is what they seem and many people do crazy things when they're unhappy... ;( well... anyways,tks for uploading this movie :)
missshybutsweet 1 year ago
Hmm. I'm an ex-cutter and this movie was kind of unrealistic. For example I cut for years before anyone found out, and they only found out because I told them. I think self-mutilators are generally way more careful about when and where they cut. Then again, for a movie I suppose the pacing had to be quick.
Avath 1 year ago 5
@Avath lol yeh its like that in movies about eating disorders.....they puke up all their food in like 5 seconds lmao
lilbeatch 1 year ago
@Avath Im still a cutter and I agree. Though, I didnt care who saw me cut, cuz they didnt care either. Their response was what I wanted; "Its your body, do what you want" Some people just take it the wrong way.
yaoilover1488 1 year ago
that was such an inspiring movie...makes me think about how much my cutting must hurt my dad...:/ i think ill try & stop now :)
FreyaH96 1 year ago 4
This was such a great movie...i loved it
lasal89 1 year ago
Every time, that somebody cutting him/her self, there's something wrong with mothers. It's not that she's living in her memories, but she basically lacks the sense how the other can feel. Simply being narrow-mind....My mother drove me crazy, but I can realise that mother is not a person, who knows you best.I think for this people is important to know that every person has got personality and his/her own period in which he/she discovers him/her self. That life is about growing, maturity and fade.
kyselinicka 1 year ago
If you watch closely the early part of the movie that's exactly what happened to Dawn's mother -- "everything that made her life beautiful" happened in high school. The woman lives off old "high school glory days" memories, she doesn't live in the present at all and in the present she's nothing and cannot stand it, so she wants Dawn to make up for that by being perfect and popular. Ugh, I hate parents like that. *puke*
EdenFire156 1 year ago 113
whatever happens in your life you are not alone... even if you think you are ... others have shared the same feelings and done the same things ... things will change ...the universe has time for us all ... we are all children of the stars...love is the reason for our existance ...and there is a future for us all ...when we learn to listen and not condemn others or ourselves.... listen to each other... we are all on the same journey the rollercoaster of life ....
55mandreck 1 year ago 5
that's really not what's borderline like. the movie is way too arty..
BritishRulez 1 year ago
@BritishRulez The movie is not about Borderline Personality disorder. It's about self-injury.
jdStarlight 1 year ago 2
i liked this movie. alot. im an ex cutter and this wasnt as life like to real cutting but it got the point across
discodreadwing 1 year ago 141
@discodreadwing to some people this is real cutting and sometimes there life could be like this. it is diffrent for everybody. and yes you are correct on one thing def...it does get the point across
Silentgirl693 1 year ago
WTF fucked up ending -____-
IBleedBlackx 1 year ago 5
the make up for the blonde girls injuries sucked
tatulover2120 1 year ago 3
What! Are you kidding me! Lol this ending kind of sucked
8HoneyBun8 1 year ago
the end sucked dick
hellokitty321able 1 year ago
i think the ending was supposed to be hidden. like you think of what happens next. it was good, actually. i loved lorraine's last line.
aishiteruyutosan 1 year ago
suckyyy ending
shootingstar2829 1 year ago
people die and boomed everyday around the world and she's like "no one's there for me :("
fufmefeverybody 1 year ago
I didn't like the ending, and I really hated those bitches, picking on her, i would have kicked them down into that boiler room and hacked them up, IF THEY WERE REAL
13justin666 1 year ago 3
Best moviee :)
Haileyluvs 1 year ago
They should "Carrie" Becca.
notlilo1 1 year ago 3
I can't imagine how alone she felt... That is the most misserable feeling there is.
But her pain starts to unravel that already broken family to the core. Then maybe they can start again.
I guess the saying is true though.. Things have to get worse before they can get better..
lilsister2 1 year ago
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. ENDING IS GARBAGE!
JiggaMisses 1 year ago 4
Um wait a second. . . That was the ending??? What happens to Dawn??? Does she stop cutting??? Does her mom come back??? :( I guess I'll never know
tinyvamp0120 1 year ago
the ending is crap, it really doesn't finish it off. I mean like, does the Mum come back? Does she stop cutting? Do her and her Dad start to open up to eachother? it's a disappointment.
polleahx 1 year ago
and it ends with her eyebrow thing.. :L
TALLULAHMGOOS 1 year ago 2
@xsween101x: Same here!!!! Well, I am planning my trip to Greece and England.....I graduated high school and I will attend NOVA in Virgnia in Alexandria and then Yale University for Law School and Architect.....great job!!! How was Greece? People like you inspire me!!! Most of the girls I know who bullied me are now teen moms with no support in any area and some have STDs or are in jail....you're an inspiration!!!! THANK YOU! :)
Bloombaby99 1 year ago
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Yuri92001 1 year ago
Her friend survived her pain with humor and making light of things., So sad the live these girls had to live.
1024SueNelson 1 year ago 2
I hate it the Dawn gurl wasn't realistic she was plastic my friendz cutt and they are alot more fun/emo than that and the other gurl i would have had no choice but to leave when he put his hands on me the first time(like runaway) and bakk to Dawn if that guy wanted to be with her he would try to change and mommy was a control freak and dad was so akward even with frustration..
LikeThat57 1 year ago
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Yuri92001 1 year ago
@LikeThat57 People who cut and are fun/emo about it don't do it for the actual reason, this girl was actually going through a lot of pain. Cutting is not something to joke about kid.
phoenix7289 1 year ago 2
@LikeThat57 not everyone that does it are emo and fun. some are like the girl in the end.
heidi10174 1 year ago 4
@heidi10174 movie i mean.
heidi10174 1 year ago
@LikeThat57 *movie i mean.
heidi10174 1 year ago
the ending sucks >:P
roxanluvsbill90 1 year ago 4
i liked the ending, it's true. people like us who get shit on at school, we can blossom later. those pop kids need to do a shit load of growing up if they wanna have a good life beyond some crappy superficial popularity contest. i mean, the way they act you can tell none of them can even feel safe with each other, since they're all so mean. their friendship is based on a lie. and when they realize that, they'll be all alone. it's like baddies who always lose cuz their buddies betray them.
LemonOdette 1 year ago 4
grazie-grazie-grazie per aver inserito questo film!!!!!! grazie di cuore davvero!!!! grazie!!!!!!!!!!
alizee186 1 year ago
lol all you guys complaining about "o the movie sucked what kinda ending is that" the ending makes alot of sence and they couldnt have ended it better if they tried. youu guys wanted her to quit cutting herself? ive never cut myself but i know people who have and let me tell you it takes years and years to stop. you guys just wanted her to suddenly stop? thats not realistic and it would make the movie terrible. for all you cutters out there you time is comming just keep you head up
youngbmoni 1 year ago 7
@youngbmoni ur right, some people just want it all to be magically better, but its unbelievably hard to REALLY b better
TheXxlovesickxx 1 year ago
@TheXxlovesickxx amen
youngbmoni 1 year ago
@TheXxlovesickxx Which is why the ending isn't actually that bad.
trickmind5 11 months ago
Since everyone here seems to hate the ending, let me give you one: Sometimes the only thing we need to get better is time. Sometimes we need to stop rushing through our problems because in reality they need time to heal. :)
zenbabee 1 year ago
what the fuck. i thought there would at least be another 5 or 10 minutes of this movie to wrape things up, that was NO ending
simbafiki 1 year ago
So much for the ending...it just ruined the whole vibe of a happy ending.
imanmjfanforever 1 year ago
awesome movie!
thatkleiner3 1 year ago
wth is up with the ending...eww suckz
JazzlynIzDaName 1 year ago