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  • OMG, this is actually common and a real thing? Lol I'm a dizt, a year slept in my bed for a whole year when I joked one night about being his girlfriend he said omg no I don't see you that way.

  • Vanae'lla haha

  • I guess I am a sideline guy. That sucks because I have been with this person for 15 years. She now takes off and does not call home..I feel like a door mat. I am a one women guy and love to stay home with family.she has changed i have not.So to hell with her and her vanity

  • You give good advice and you're funny. Nice video.

  • Will it get to the point where we'll have adverts in our dreams?

  • Guys,

    It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.

    Here's what you need to do:

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com

    Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist

    Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.

  • My life=friend zoned :/

  • Being a sideline guy sucks balls! When you notice that you have fallen into this catagory, write the chick off! Every time I did this, they all got pissed at me but fuck it! Who gives a shit? I wasnt good enough for that girl's attention when I was available but now all of a sudden I've looked into other options, shes freaking out?! I dont fucking think so.

  • Chris Rock said it best/ A platonic friend to a woman is like a dick in a glass case "BREAK ONLY IN THE EVENT OF AN EMERGENCY!" I've been the back-up or sideline guy far too many times with far too many women. Over time, I said "Screw this shit!" I still have female friends, but they stay at arms length unless she shows a genuine interest and I feel the same about them. After that, we'll go from there.

  • @BaldBastard1980 good job man... well done..

  • When you get called "a brother or friend" it's over 

  • @NesBoy1985 yup... it was actually over alittle bit before but she just verbalized it..

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  • I HATE THE FRIEND ZONE.

  • Hi Vanae, had some sideline experience so your vids sounded kinda familiar to me, i m more "wise" now days but good vids for those that are in that kind of situation.

    PS: no pun or anything like that intended but when you said ice cream the first 2 times i heard i scream, i guess vivid imagination on my part ^^

  • to bad you couldn't have posted this in 2005/06

  • ENOUGH WITHT HE FUCKING MUSIC

  • get the fuck out of there.. ahah nice one

  • Met this girl, liked her, she liked me, didnt know when since she is self contained, now we're best friends says her, and now i'm in the friend zone because "I am like a brother and best friend to her". Fuck.

  • you would look really really cute with a bob.

  • god damnit im in a friend zone and shes single

  • yea ill shove some ice cream up ur ass,,,thts the best flavour

  • what does it mean when girls constantly talk about other guys but then they still seem interested in you?

  • @johanbipbop

    they wanna see if u get jealous is my guess

  • @HIMpotter thats what im thinkin so is it a good thing? its kind of annoying though =P thanks for your comment =]

  • She would killer in a schoolgirl outfit..fuck yeah!

  • The first and last time she says ice cream...so cute

  • SHut up

    

  • I just went thru this with a girl that had a bf and the minute I got another girl she went crazy and now chases ME. Lmao I love it.

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  • @CHLOTHARIUS LOL

    

  • Okay,I hereby declare,it's time to "get the fuck outta there!" Let's face it,there's just too many of em out there! The only other thing I know to do,is shut my phone off for two weeks. Life's too short to b slung like a used rubber,and used again and again. Thanks for posting this Vanae!

  • if he rolls over and says "crap my wife/roommate will be home in ten mins." you my friend are in the sideline game.

  • lol ur very entertaining..

  • i met this guy and after a month of him making a sincere effort to be apart of my life and getting to know me he tells me he's seeing someone who he's 'crazy about'

    problem is i have two classes with him and he sits next to me. my heart was crushed...this was weeks ago. I'm still hurt...

  • @FastMovinTrain sorry to hear that,but you know youshould move on because

    1) that guy may think you're as''easy target'' to get ,he may use those sweet words to lure u to fall for him

    2) he may be truthful in what he said,but may be u did make a sign that u're not ready in relationship ,some guys who has a bad experience of being such a nice guy/sideline guy ,they don't want to be just your ego-boost ,and decide to move on

  • but like what if the girl lives 2 hours away and tells you that if you lived closer she'd break up with her boyfriend and be with you over ANY1?

  • @Tyler3298 Get yourself a closer girl... Sorry bro.. but for real. I'm being honest - you're hurting yourself by keeping yourself in that situation.

    I was in that same thing... I knew great girl for long time... Great girl and I finally hooked up.. had AWESOME... READ THAT AWESOME EPIC SEX...and then we had to end it cause she needed to move back to her job and place 3 HOURS away not 2. It fucking sucked at first... big time.. but then I got over it. Leaned to accept it and then moved on

  • Yeah, I've been dealing with a hanger on for a while. It's a friendship, but not genuine. She has a million excuses for never being able to hang out. I hate to be an ass, but I think it's time for me to bail. I'm not even going to answer nor return her calls anymore. We went on a date once, then she started bitching about her ex to me. She should just get a therapist. i like a little positivity in my relationships. Can't save every insecure person in the world.

  • "Get the fuck out of there." Love that! XD

  • u fcuking inspire me, i sub u now ;D

  • Damn you hit right on the head I'm the guy who is in love with this girl and she just broke up with her boyfriend...... before i watch this video, i was gonna go into attack mode to get her. But this video was an eye opener, it's time to be more unavailable so i can move on. THANKS

  • what's wrong with having friends?

  • Vanae how about if me and the girl are friends but spoken of each other interest and she is there at MY side when I'm feeling low and I do the same for her...as in give and take...

    good or bad?

    thanks btw your gorgeous ;)

  • Are you and Sky bangin? If not... hurry the shit up and tap that shit! Sky John is the man!!!

  • uuuugggh i am a side line girl fml

  • fuck. I'm a sideline guy, but since my best friend is into another girl, so she gave up on him, and now we she says that she loves me, but i know she is still in love with the my best friend? Wtf am i suppose to do? I love her, and its pretty god dam hard to stop loving someone when the person lies to you that she loves you.

  • you look like my girl friend that weird that make you cute .

  • I am out and it is one of the best feelings in the world. I was a sideline guy for about 4 months like Vanae said. I was at the whim of this girl and I actually waited for her to get out of a relationship. As the relationship was over she and I started to get together, I needed to stop and find answers for myself because i did not know if we were on the same page. I am not going to lie I had a crush on her but we were not at the same page but it was alright.

  • Widershins: The ice-cream I like a lot is maple walnut. I have not had any of this for ab out forty years. About time I looked some up but must have it with a friend.

  • your really good looking, just so you know

  • Yeah, been the sideline girl before. The bad thing is, even when you know you should leave, and you know staying will only hurt, you can't leave them.

    Love is such a bitch.

  • im always in the dam friend zone X( y?!!!!

  • how long did you wear braces?

  • short solution: confront and dominate (both verbally and psyhically) ! If this doesnt work then she realllllllly doesnt want you.

  • that's right, if a hot girl like vanae don't like me, i'm getting the f out of there... lol

  • that's right, get the f out of there... ha ha.

  • Actually you can benefit from being a sideline guy/gal. You just stay and listen to her stories and you learn from her experiences and if a guy is a manipulator then you learn some tricks you can use against them, so yeah being a side line guy has it's advantages.

  • @controversyking Trust me, my lesbian friend is pissed off that I don't 'hit on her' like other guys do. She is really annoyed about it...even though she has no desire for me and she knows I'm not intrested in her. Its just chick logik dude. Same reason they spend hours in the bathroom doing what they could have done in 20 minutes!!

  • @controversyking True, true. But You'll be amazed at how many times I get asked if I'm 'banging her' by 'mates'...I always just say 'nah' and watch them fail miserably at thier attemps on her...great fun!! (I've told this guy once she was stright up lesbian , he still woundn't beleive me and wouldn't give up...!!! ahhh...!!)

    You're absolutely right...but so many guys just don't get it. Provides great entertainment though.

  • @controversyking Best way, lol. Good man. And you're right, girls can be like that, lol. Since my last post I got 100% over the person in question, luckily. Ignoring her for months has paid off, lol. >.<

  • what if you use to be a sideline girl and now you don't like them like that,but....you have to see them everyday (cause of school/work/ extra activies). they expect and want you to be clingy but your still trying to GET OUT OF THERE????

  • @sax3740 you could try reverse psychology on him then. ALWAYS be there...around him...ALL THE TIME until he is sick of you and hopefully your sick of him .You cure yourself of that guy and get back at him at the same time!!! :) He'll be sooo sick of you that he won't try and bother you and use you for favors anymore. Just be careful not to socially degrade yourself by looking too desperate to other people around you - just bother him when most are not looking or aware. Hehee!

  • Its called the LJBF zone. 'Lets Just Be Friends' Zone. I'm in an LJBF Zone...with a girl for about 4 years...but I don't care! She's a lesbian! (No, really, she is!) Great having a girl as a friend like this...get to know the story from both sides of the fence ...about women that is...I'm not intrested in Guys. (Sorry!)

  • no offence .....ur teeth are so white obviously u r using Colgate®

  • 1.Never date a guy/girl who had a very recent breakup!

    2.Give the guy/girl some space, and try and let them text you first at times, but if he/she is taking advantage of that freedom; youre gunna have to make a little argue with him/her and tell him/her that all you want is for him to show he/she cares a little more.

    3.The reason because of number1, is because, their gunna think of getting back with that person, or they might cheat or be cheatting on you soon!

    4.More hugs, and tinny kisses!♥♥

  • @GirlAifos202

    1. Usless your just in it for the sex. (Maybe thats wot he/she needs!!)

    2. depends how much u care and they care about u.

    3. As soon as a girl is No. 1 to you you're No. 2 to some other guy!

    4. More dissies = more shags. Treat em' mean keep em' keen.

    .

    Be a decent bloke and a great guy (becuase you WANT 2 be because it will make YOU a happier person!) ...don't be a wussy insecure 'nice' guy...or abusive bad boy type. Tit for Tat! It's as simple as that!

  • Sounds good. This girl I'm friends with (and fell for, dumbass me) I just can't seem to get 100% over, despite having other relationships. I think the only reason is because I'm in the friend zone. We've had a few fallings out over things, but she always comes back with an apology. I wanna say to her: "look. I'm not asking you out because I wanna be FRIENDS. If you wanna come back, you'd better be ready for more than that."

    I'm worth better than this.

    Gonna have to get the fuck outta here. :D

  • annoying vietcong girl lol

  • haha you're awesome <3

  • I never put myself in the situation to be the 'sideline guy'. If a friend starts crying to me about how mean her boyfriend is, I tell her straight up "Don't bullshit me around with your boyfriend stuff, I don't wanna be part of it".

    If she takes it offensively, too bad. If not, then it's all good

  • lol, thats righ, get tthe fuk outta thre

  • when it's been 4 years of constant flirting, ifs/maybes/and "I'm trying to find myself". >.>

  • @KikuChrisy You shouldn't be wasting your time with that situation. If shes trying to find herself, you should do the same thing...without her.

  • @CaptainSpork7

    haha thanks yeah, it was a dude though, and I'm way past it. You live and learn.

  • G-N..HONDA ACCORD.

  • You are sooo right! I'm getting the FUUUCCCK outta there.

  • mother(beep) MOther(beep) MOTHER(BEEEEEP) SON O A (BEEEEEEEEEEEP)

  • You act like you know everything.

  • @SOUPRUN01 - It's called giving advice, not necessarily acting like you know everything.

  • @kycurle295 I guess I was wrong to say that and I found alot of the stuff she said enlightening and kind of ground breaking insightfull and educational. However 8.5% of the time 1% of me is negative.

  • If they dont feel the same way..

    im gonna do what you said. Get the fuck outta there! :D

  • I am a recovering "sideline guy." It's been a long time, but sometimes I still cringe when I think of how pathetic I was in thinking I could make someone who wasn't into me into me by being at their beck and call. I finally realized I was better off by moving on and not being available to them, and this helped me realize that the woman in question was just taking advantage of me and didn't care about me to begin with, and I deserve better, dammit!

  • (1) Fried Ice Cream.............Yummy

    (2) When she is not paying proper attention to your phone calls/messages

  • sidesalads!!!!

  • i have a situation.. me and this guy were friends in high school. 2 years later we started going out but it didn't work out so after that we hooked up once but he has a girlfriend. i decided to scut my losses with him although I still miss him. how do i move on?

  • hey venae im a short time viewer, but i have a problem. im 18 years old and seems i have been a sideline guy for a while. how do i get out of this situation?

  • boys suck..most of them

  • @mizkaterpyl Girls suck....erm,boys. (You got it the wrong way round girl).

  • @ogicabp4u no gender sucks its the pearson inside

  • @cheetahlikescheese Laaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr­rrrrrrrr!! LMFAO! U dumbass!! Read between the lines!!

  • @mizkaterpyl why would u say something that terrible we dont suck

  • Oh neee im a sideline guy =(

  • i know i'm a sideline guy when the girl always flakes when making plans.

  • What is the name of the that track playing in the beginning? Tight! Good info indeed.

  • =..= fuck im in god dam friend zone

  • =..= fuck im in god dam friend zone

  • @cacapolo12

    ok sorry but this made me laugh... I had the exact same thought when I watched the video...

  • @cacapolo12 it sucks, espeically when you really really like them, but i got the f out of there like vanae said!

  • I don't know, if I'm really fit to give any advice, but I totally agree with Vanae. If you've told them about how you want to be with them, and how much they mean to you, and they just beat around the bush, then fuck them! You've proven with your dedication to them, that you're a good, caring person, and that you deserve something for that. You could actually point that out, but if it doesn't help, then they are NNOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU! So go on with you life and don't waste your feelings.

  • Get the fuck out of there! haha, I love it. So true!

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  • Hey Venae....you realy nailed this one.A nother way you can tell is if they aint geting it from you,there geting it from someone els.

  • No.. Im going to cry

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  • @Mafia1779

    this is something I can't understand... if I can't be happy with a person I am not going to be around them while I'm sad. It just seems pointless.

  • if they categorize you in the friend zone, you might as well categorize them in your FTB category...(Fuck That Bitch)....and move on.

  • ...cowboy boots look best when they are up in the air....yup...

    :>o

  • Que cosa mas bonita de china, de las pocas que he visto guapas, un saludo¡¡

  • BAIL OUT!!!

    nice.....

    LIKE THIS!!

  • i dont think you should gtfo you just need to be aware of what you are dealing with and approach it wisely if you know they are just useing you make sure that you keep them from stoping you if you arent a priority in their life then dont make them a priority in yours but you could still take a booty call here and there

  • i call her number and it said what do you want to order

  • syntholR4WinnersS ....... haha lmfaoo!!!!! really??!?

  • Great Advice I was too a side ling guy or fall back guy and not even knowing it but I cut her off before. So later she came back to me on a website I shouldn't accept but i did it out of couriousity. Well she later put off dates for us to see each and it's been a yr when I found she was getting a relationship and she lied to me was wasn't ready to see I finally cut her off now she is trying to get in contact with me on facebook I told her I don't won't to be her friend and move on

  • What if you're so hooked that you can't GTFO?

    Don't blame me, the girl I like is asian so you should understand why I'm so hooked to her. XD

  • oh and by the way...i lalso like the nipple flavour it's very very good

  • well to be honest i would like to try a new flavour and that flavour is your skin covered with some chocholate ice cream, i think it's a very good combination huh?what do u think?

  • why r u hidding your right eye???

  • Simple, and very effective advice. If it doesn't feel right...

    GET THE FUCK OUT!

    And don't look back.

  • I love you! P.S nice makeup!

    :)

  • pagka gwapaha nimo day oy!

  • hahahaha, you are so helpful!!!!!

    THANKS YOU ROCK :D haha

  • yo i was one of these guys but ive been settin it straight, shes gone and it feel good to be free of her actually

  • high five*

  • @vanae12 Mos Def! 

  • @bqureshi390 I feel it bro! we gotta move on from these crazy women who don't deserve us!

  • the classic plain vanilla

  • btw ive added you on fb, accept :D

  • sucks im a sideline guy for 3 girls.. .lol

  • Can I get a better description on sidelining someone

  • Being a sideline girl/guy and unhappy about it, MAY mean you have a weak personality. :(

  • if he tells you hes not looking for a relationship then he meets someone new and starts something with them not long after!

  • I'm definitely a sideline guy. I'm just going a long with it.

  • can you be a side line guy with benefits? I wouldn't mind that haha.

  • hey hi its me hehe again how you been

  • Lmaoo! Get the fxck out of there! xD

    Great advice! like always.

    Gahh I can't choose my face ice cream! xD

  • i was a sideline guy, now i flirt with that same girl with no more intentions of being with her

  • props to ya broc6

  • Best Ice Cream Flavor: HEAVEN from Emack and Bolios Ice Cream. Try it!

  • I love your HEAD.

  • damn straight, getting the fuck out of there.

    1) jasmine ice cream YUM!!

    2) if you see that you have a message from him (email, text, etc) you get anxious before you open it, half dread half hope, never joy.

  • wow, where did you have the Jasmine ice cream??

  • Melbourne! omg you MUST try it sometime.

  • You're quite short Vanae.

    Now ... I'll get the f*#k outta ere ...

  • Who are you to tell me this?

  • YOU HAVE WONDERFUL TEETHS! :))

  • Vanae--Thanks for another great vid. here's the 64 thousand dollar question: How do you show interests without looking needy? Is it all about going in strong?

  • im always in the frend zone:(

    RgB

  • are yah?

    but you always have a gf

  • ROFLMAO, i support 1:18.

  • im lactose intolerant :(....but strawberry ice bream sounds rad

  • That's so right. don't decieve yourself with pointless thoughts. just keep going by your way

  • i think you should coin the term "thats right, get the fuck outta there!"

  • done

    ;)

    whoothoo

  • funny humor, good advice, epic cuteness :D!!

  • my favourute flavour is Vanilla and depending on the guy serving it maby some other flavours.

  • when your 'boyfriend' doesnt take you in public often or introduces you as a friend youre a sideline girl

  • oh man, the 'this is my friend'...bad sign

  • i'm not from an english speaking country so can someone explain to me what sideline girl/guy is?

  • I love the way you are saying "get the fuck out of there" . You have such a funny accent

  • Oh I see ... ishhh scream!

    I scream, you scream, we all scream for ... ice (isshh) cream!

  • Your audio levels need to better. The music is way too loud compared to your voice level.

  • i agree with you.

  • noted! thanks for pointing that out

  • You are very cute and very right! ;)